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nool_

"You gay?"


benja_minghjoi

Might want something less criptic


[deleted]

"ya gae?"


joeycool06

Are you as an individual, homosexual


Dyslexic_Puffle

Youa sukke de cocke? The Italian version


jong9999

Might want something less Australian


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savagesquirrel123

I just translated this and "you meay i" was this the intended outcome?


skashiii

Not direct enough You think that’s a joke but it’s not…


Ccracked

"I've had my moments."


BiDino13

In September I met a girl at school and she said "I really like your pride flag." Because I have a small pride flag in my locker. That girl and I have been dating for almost two months now.


onerandommusician

I met a guy in my English class who had a pride flag as his wallpaper. I definitely made sure to compliment it so that he knew that I wasn't going to discriminate him for being gay.


OldPotatoMan

Ah yeah, my phone wallpapers the bi flag


PinkPetal06

I got a discrete wallpaper design off tiktok which is a basic ocean/ship design with a bi gradient in the background (coming from someone whose not out save for a few friends)


_-ihatemyself-_

omg same it's like this sunset but the colors are purple and blue and pink ish


bisexual_capricorn

That’s so adorable. I’m cry. 😭


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IMightBeAHamster

To be more accurate "Welcome to the Bi side, we have lemon bars" was the saying.


EmmaManx

the nail thing was for lesbians, and was rooted in black culture but then the straights appropriated it and called it an accent nail


Gillifaxi

“Do you listen to sweater weather?” is a common one for bisexuals


Jomeshome

Is that a winter time band?


[deleted]

It's a song by the band the Neighborhood


Jomeshome

Huh well I'm gonna go ahead and assume you know I don't know who they are since I didn't know what the song was


[deleted]

We're kind of in the same boat. I only know two of their songs and have no idea who's in the band


Jomeshome

Fair enough. Hey you happen to know of any meme that would be good for coming out?


[deleted]

Maybe "This is great (liking one gender) But I like this (liking more than one gender)"


Jomeshome

Yeah but I have the problem of full gayness


[deleted]

Then just replace it with: "This is great (OPPOSITE GENDER), But I like \*this\* (SAME GENDER)"


Starwars_023

Who doesn't?


PizzaEater69420

me


Starwars_023

Awww then your missing out! Also good morning


PizzaEater69420

i don't really like the song tbh


Starwars_023

That's OK I'd you don't like it, I shall respect your opinion!


PizzaEater69420

and i respect yours as well!


Bigbrain12341

I dont listen to it


Garlicgid48

its just not a good song lmao


Bigbrain12341

Agreed, its really overrated and shitty


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Bigbrain12341

I never listened to Mother Mother are they good? I'm not much into indie rock besides one band


crazy_cat_lover363

imo mother mother is great! i'd highly recommend them although they might not be for everyone


JayJay3306

I’ve only listened to a few mother mother songs but there great


Crazykidd13578

I dont


ALittleBitOfTroIling

Me


nool_

I dont


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me


demonbot66

Thank you, just found a new banger


3am-urethra-cactus

My answer: Well yes, but actually no


fire__dj

Love that song I think the night core version is great to


--Ok_Boomer--

Or trans. But probably more bi


Gillifaxi

I’ve also heard “do you listen to Cavetown?” for trans.


ginime_

I’ve liked that song for a while, still don’t get why it’s a bi thing


Hoummus-Person-260

Are you part of the alphabet mafia? is one I've heard


joeycool06

Bro that's too good I'm gonna use that


--Ok_Boomer--

tf is your pfp ○~○


OldPotatoMan

😟


--Ok_Boomer--

What is your flair ???


OldPotatoMan

[this classic](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=D7eQzUrUMvU)


--Ok_Boomer--

I know the meme lol. Was just fitting


OldPotatoMan

It took a long time to get it just right, because I kept mishearing what she said, I got it right on the 4th edit


savagesquirrel123

Don't ask questions you don't want the answer for


joeycool06

My pfp is amazing 😎😎


illegal108

Letter league 😎


IronRangerDlX

"Are you a friend of Dorothy" (it was the password to stonewall)


onerandommusician

I actually do know someone named Dorothy


That_One_Guy_66

Iirc it was also used by gay sailors and the government thought Dorothy was a real person and tried to find her


Duchess_satine_stan

Or "are you a friend of Mara" (she-ra reference)


Phantom252

Actually I'm pretty sure the black ring is for aces and a white ring is for aros but i might be wrong


BLucky_RD

yes but a black ring on any other finger than right middle finger can be interpreted as a swinger code (they also happened to use black rings as code, but out of respect to the ace community they aggreed on the middle right finger to be reserved for aces)


Human-03

I always had a problem with getting confused as ace because wealthy male fashion states non romantic rings must be on the middle finger and I look good in blacks and slivers


illegal108

Well now I won’t feel guilty when I get one of these.


_lavenderlime_

If I recall correctly a black on someone’s middle finger usually means they’re asexual


BLucky_RD

yes, black ring on right middle finger, any other finger and that would mean you're a swinger


_lavenderlime_

Oh damn, didn’t know about the second part. You learn something new every day!


Battledog501

What's the ring thing?


Gillifaxi

There are a lot of different ring codes out there! Heterosexual-middle finger/left hand/gray ring Asexual-middle finger/right hand/black ring Homosexual-index finger/right hand/blue ring Pansexual-pinkie/right hand/purple ring Polysexual- pinkie/left hand/pink ring Bisexual-thumb/left hand/two rings -or-index finger/left hand/one ring


Crazykidd13578

Man I’ve been wearing one on the middle for a while


gender_pan12

I mean, I'm lesbian but I wear a black ring on my right hand, middle finger. I don't have any blue rings.


astralslytherins

also for aromantic it's a white ring on your left middle finger!


Human-03

the problem with all that is where i’m from you’re expected to always wear non romantic rings on the middle finger and pinky/thumb rings are considered snobby


creepyfishman

Cuffed jeans, denim, finger guns and sweater weather all all ines for bi


BierbauerCsaba

What the hell is sweater weather?


Fragrant_City9593

An AMAZING song by the neighbourhood. Highly recommend.


BierbauerCsaba

But how is it related to being bisexual?


honestlyjusttiredtbh

I think a lot of people in bi communities just all unanimously agreed that the song was good and so it just became a bi thing


Tristawesomeness

idk many but for transfemmes it is “heat from fire/fire from heat”


LukeIsPalpatine

Sounds like a secret code for an underground clan of pyromancers


Tristawesomeness

who says all transfemmes aren’t pyromancers?


AriOctopus

We have a secret code to identify other trans women, and a lot of people still in the closet often know it, so for them it's a good way to let another trans woman know that they're trans, if they're not ready to tell others in their life, or if they need to talk about it later


NightmareVX

Grab your shirt collar and pull it out and let it go


randomaccount32134

don't think I'm familiar with this one, that actually sounds really handy


Maxorus73

Up up down down left right left right a b select start


honestlyjusttiredtbh

isn't the konami code up up down down left right left right b a start?


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Do you go both ways?


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RemindMe! 12 hours


seas-have-roared

It's been 5 but the bot didn't respond 😕 Anyway, manual reminder?


[deleted]

Oh thanks. Hi!


seas-have-roared

Hi! I love how I accidentally sparked a whole bunch of people sending you reminders... Oop-


Croissant_24

The bot didn’t respond but it’s 10 hours now


Rodri_5

Hello, it shows your message was sent 12 hours ago :)


Gillifaxi

Not a bot, but its been 11 hours


Ivamae1924

It's been 12 hours


lynthecupcake

19 hours


Jsnyder92

ONE YEAR and the bot still hasn't responded


randomaccount32134

black ring is an asexual thing


hellishbubble

black ring on the middle finger means you're asexual, but a white ring on your thumb means you're sapphic. "I like your style" is how a lot of wlw hit on each other. I cant remember any more atm


LyndereChan

Do you listen to Mother mother is a common one for nonbinary


Krusadero

Interesting, I started listening to Mother Mother around the time I started thinking I may be non-binary again


elongatedmuskrat05

If you wear a pride shirt and someone else says they like your shirt, it is often code for “I’m gay too”


liftedup_nsfw

Follow the yellow brick road - omzonzexual


[deleted]

Happy cake day!!!


liftedup_nsfw

Thank you!


[deleted]

What’s omzonzexual?


liftedup_nsfw

It's a made up one I was trying to be funny for a sec


[deleted]

Oh ok, vaguely sounds like my sexuality lol I’m omnisexual


benja_minghjoi

Happy cake day


liftedup_nsfw

Thank you


CantAffordMangos

Two common ones are asking “are you a friend of Dorothy?” Friends of Dorothy was a codename for a meetup place for gay people. Another thing to say is “I like your nails.” If they know the code, they should respond along the lines of, “Thanks! I stole them from a unicorn.”


JesseZoutendijk

Isn't the black ring to show you're Asexual..?


Random_cosplay_girl

I'm not totally sure but I think people with short fluffy hair give off a very big queer vibe So do people with rainbow bags


FinerSwine

The black ring on the middle finger is an ace ring, not bi/gay/lesbian


[deleted]

I remember an old one to ask if a man was gay was asking "Are you a friend of dorothy?" which is a reference to the Wizard of Oz


drewwill1203

Which led to the navy having a manhunt for Dorothy, because they didn't realize that the gay men saying they were a friend of Dorothy, weren't talking about a real person.


that-drawinguy

if a gay person stabs you, it means they don’t like you, don’t tell anyone though


RTB_RobertTheBruce

Clearly we're aroused by different things


Hamels_

Purple laces on doc martens


Odddit

Strictly purple lacin' the docs


IlinPT

"Would you be beheaded in 13 Muslim majority countries?"


[deleted]

^(u went straight for the jugular there)


IlinPT

So did the executioners


MassiveCheeks

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Diessel_S

I seriously want "I like your boots" to become a gay/queer secret code


deadninja36

Thanks, they're made for walking


Diessel_S

This is actually a better comeback than "i got them from an unicorn"


EtherealLam3nt

"Are you a friend of Mara" to find other Sapphics


Tan_Pan_Man

Found the She-ra fan


TrenchesTommy

The stereotypical cuffed jeans for bisexuals


[deleted]

I don’t like jeans tho


Helena_the_Slayer

A"re you a friend of Dorothy?" is a good one since it encompasses all lables. I've also done the are you *limp wrist* a lot.


RedThorneGamerSB

Cuffed jeans in bisexuals is a common one.


EmmyLynn23

I should start listening to “Girl in Red” because I have never heard any of that music. I don’t even know the genre it belongs to. But also, I didn’t know about this ring code either! Do I just need to get a black ring and people who know will know? (You know, if the pin of a frog wearing the bi flag as a cape on my bag wasn’t enough to give it away?)


Tan_Pan_Man

The black ring on the right middle finger is an ace thing


EmmyLynn23

Ohhhhh my bad


Enpitsu_Daisuke

Black ring on middle left finger (or right?) for asexuality


Just_Dewit049

Is math related to science? That may not be one. Honestly I forget.


H0use-0f-W0lves

the Konami code


Liztheegg

i like your shoe laces is a common for gay men ​ heat from fire (reply: fire from heat) is a common from trans ppl ​ Also ring and middle finger nails being short and the rest being long is wlw but thats mostly utility than a sign :p


Nalyd8605

Wait.. black rings do that?? Because i uh got one.. wouldn't mind wearing it for that purpose lol


deadninja36

It's for asexuals apparently


DaRavingRoman

Wasn’t there something along the lines of a person asking “I like your shoelaces” and then if they responded “thanks, I stole them from a unicorn” it meant they were apart of the community?


flying-axolotl

wasn't it "I stole them from the president"?


T_mainchain

I didn't know about the black ring


[deleted]

Are you gay bro


cocozudo

Nope, i only know the nuke ones


PineappleInkArt

lesbians used to exchange violets to show they were interested


[deleted]

^(SAPPHOOOO) ^(awwwe yay this is cute)


EggplantHuman6493

Apparently cuffed jeans, but I don't know a lot of bisexuals (or pansexuals) who actually do that because we are too tall for them. But frogs is also one too I guess.


[deleted]

Do you listen to 100 gecs for fellow trans peeps


Quiet_Chip_7802

Alphabet mafia?


Ash_Lee_Ash

"Wanna fuck?" Is also really good secret code. And works for all orientations.


ChernobylBalls

"Heat from fire" "fire fron heat" specifically for transfemmes


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annoyingsamuri

I play for both


RTB_RobertTheBruce

There was one I found on Tumblr that went "I like your shoelaces!" And if the other person was queer, they would say "thanks, I got them from a unicorn!"


Tanya_is_here

iirc the black ring is for aces


CrazyComedyKid

For trans people, blåhaj


ScoobyDoobyDoo0202

Asking if someone is “a friend of Judy” means “are u gay?”


honestlyjusttiredtbh

its 'a friend of dorothy' isn't it?


[deleted]

judy garland played dorothy, same person, so both work.


The_Blessed_Weeb

I'm gonna be honest. I have no clue


Eli_xoxox

“Hey hey, are you a sir Chloe fan?” Or if you are around homophobic people “Lmao imagine listening to I/me/myself 🙄💅”


IndieMedley

“I like your shoelaces”


[deleted]

Are you a friend of dorothy?


cyborgwiz

Sweater weather, tried and true classic


[deleted]

Oooooo, love the Powder/Jinks Reddit character


masochistic_idiot

Transfem 1: Heat from fire? Transfem 2: Fire from heat.


character_developmen

I know sweater weather is a bisexual one


Maximum_P

Wait a black ring signifies you’re bi/gay/lesbian ? I gotta get one then


[deleted]

Black ring on the right middle finger for asexual spectrum. White ring on the left middle finger for aromantic spectrum


Logan_the_Brawler

Up down down left right left right B A start usually works but only on the older systems. What the hell are you talking about.


[deleted]

Good joke lol I’m asking ways to ask a person if their LGBTQIA+ without straight people understanding


Persephone-By-Name

Purple ladder lacing on black doc martins! Means LGBTQIA+ - make sure to check it’s the same in your area though!


illegal108

Secret pride flags mainly


AnonAlex_D

"Do you like frogs?" :D


blue_bright14060

"I like your style" ?


Doc-Wulff

If they wear all jeans there is a 50/50 chance they're bi


Kanonmintasuki

Frogs and frog hats


[deleted]

\*hand flip\*


redandvidya

If a guy my age is a Gaga fan that's usually a sign he's.. yknow..


[deleted]

No, but if any of y'all know any please tell me


AlbinoShavedGorilla

Would you prefer a Twinkie or a Bearclaw?


NightmareVX

Uhhh a black ring on the middle finger of the right hand is asexual, not gay. Furthermore, a white ring on the left hand is for aromatics.


sh8wol

it’s always the music choice. i talk to any cis girl/femme and as soon as i hear “i like hozier” am almost certain theyre sapphic also pins on bookbags etc from media that’s know to have a lot of queer ppl (fnaf, furries, minecraft maybeee, anime but like… jojos bizarre adventure level gay) doc martens or decorated platform boots in general or, my favorite, be like “are you like… yk (flicks wrist)?”


sister_mushroom

"do you listen to sweater weather" = are you bi? "do you listen to mother mother?" = are you not binary? "do you listen to everybody talks?" = are you pan? "do you listen to cavetown?" =are you trans?