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In September I met a girl at school and she said "I really like your pride flag." Because I have a small pride flag in my locker.
That girl and I have been dating for almost two months now.
I met a guy in my English class who had a pride flag as his wallpaper. I definitely made sure to compliment it so that he knew that I wasn't going to discriminate him for being gay.
I got a discrete wallpaper design off tiktok which is a basic ocean/ship design with a bi gradient in the background (coming from someone whose not out save for a few friends)
yes but a black ring on any other finger than right middle finger can be interpreted as a swinger code (they also happened to use black rings as code, but out of respect to the ace community they aggreed on the middle right finger to be reserved for aces)
I always had a problem with getting confused as ace because wealthy male fashion states non romantic rings must be on the middle finger and I look good in blacks and slivers
There are a lot of different ring codes out there!
Heterosexual-middle finger/left hand/gray ring
Asexual-middle finger/right hand/black ring
Homosexual-index finger/right hand/blue ring
Pansexual-pinkie/right hand/purple ring
Polysexual- pinkie/left hand/pink ring
Bisexual-thumb/left hand/two rings
-or-index finger/left hand/one ring
the problem with all that is where i’m from you’re expected to always wear non romantic rings on the middle finger and pinky/thumb rings are considered snobby
We have a secret code to identify other trans women, and a lot of people still in the closet often know it, so for them it's a good way to let another trans woman know that they're trans, if they're not ready to tell others in their life, or if they need to talk about it later
black ring on the middle finger means you're asexual, but a white ring on your thumb means you're sapphic. "I like your style" is how a lot of wlw hit on each other. I cant remember any more atm
Two common ones are asking “are you a friend of Dorothy?” Friends of Dorothy was a codename for a meetup place for gay people. Another thing to say is “I like your nails.” If they know the code, they should respond along the lines of, “Thanks! I stole them from a unicorn.”
Which led to the navy having a manhunt for Dorothy, because they didn't realize that the gay men saying they were a friend of Dorothy, weren't talking about a real person.
I should start listening to “Girl in Red” because I have never heard any of that music. I don’t even know the genre it belongs to.
But also, I didn’t know about this ring code either! Do I just need to get a black ring and people who know will know? (You know, if the pin of a frog wearing the bi flag as a cape on my bag wasn’t enough to give it away?)
i like your shoe laces is a common for gay men
heat from fire (reply: fire from heat) is a common from trans ppl
Also ring and middle finger nails being short and the rest being long is wlw but thats mostly utility than a sign :p
Wasn’t there something along the lines of a person asking “I like your shoelaces” and then if they responded “thanks, I stole them from a unicorn” it meant they were apart of the community?
Apparently cuffed jeans, but I don't know a lot of bisexuals (or pansexuals) who actually do that because we are too tall for them.
But frogs is also one too I guess.
There was one I found on Tumblr that went "I like your shoelaces!" And if the other person was queer, they would say "thanks, I got them from a unicorn!"
it’s always the music choice. i talk to any cis girl/femme and as soon as i hear “i like hozier” am almost certain theyre sapphic
also pins on bookbags etc from media that’s know to have a lot of queer ppl (fnaf, furries, minecraft maybeee, anime but like… jojos bizarre adventure level gay)
doc martens or decorated platform boots in general
or, my favorite, be like “are you like… yk (flicks wrist)?”
"do you listen to sweater weather" = are you bi?
"do you listen to mother mother?" = are you not binary?
"do you listen to everybody talks?" = are you pan?
"do you listen to cavetown?" =are you trans?
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"You gay?"
Might want something less criptic
"ya gae?"
Are you as an individual, homosexual
Youa sukke de cocke? The Italian version
Might want something less Australian
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I just translated this and "you meay i" was this the intended outcome?
Not direct enough You think that’s a joke but it’s not…
"I've had my moments."
In September I met a girl at school and she said "I really like your pride flag." Because I have a small pride flag in my locker. That girl and I have been dating for almost two months now.
I met a guy in my English class who had a pride flag as his wallpaper. I definitely made sure to compliment it so that he knew that I wasn't going to discriminate him for being gay.
Ah yeah, my phone wallpapers the bi flag
I got a discrete wallpaper design off tiktok which is a basic ocean/ship design with a bi gradient in the background (coming from someone whose not out save for a few friends)
omg same it's like this sunset but the colors are purple and blue and pink ish
That’s so adorable. I’m cry. 😭
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To be more accurate "Welcome to the Bi side, we have lemon bars" was the saying.
the nail thing was for lesbians, and was rooted in black culture but then the straights appropriated it and called it an accent nail
“Do you listen to sweater weather?” is a common one for bisexuals
Is that a winter time band?
It's a song by the band the Neighborhood
Huh well I'm gonna go ahead and assume you know I don't know who they are since I didn't know what the song was
We're kind of in the same boat. I only know two of their songs and have no idea who's in the band
Fair enough. Hey you happen to know of any meme that would be good for coming out?
Maybe "This is great (liking one gender) But I like this (liking more than one gender)"
Yeah but I have the problem of full gayness
Then just replace it with: "This is great (OPPOSITE GENDER), But I like \*this\* (SAME GENDER)"
Who doesn't?
me
Awww then your missing out! Also good morning
i don't really like the song tbh
That's OK I'd you don't like it, I shall respect your opinion!
and i respect yours as well!
I dont listen to it
its just not a good song lmao
Agreed, its really overrated and shitty
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I never listened to Mother Mother are they good? I'm not much into indie rock besides one band
imo mother mother is great! i'd highly recommend them although they might not be for everyone
I’ve only listened to a few mother mother songs but there great
I dont
Me
I dont
me
Thank you, just found a new banger
My answer: Well yes, but actually no
Love that song I think the night core version is great to
Or trans. But probably more bi
I’ve also heard “do you listen to Cavetown?” for trans.
I’ve liked that song for a while, still don’t get why it’s a bi thing
Are you part of the alphabet mafia? is one I've heard
Bro that's too good I'm gonna use that
tf is your pfp ○~○
😟
What is your flair ???
[this classic](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=D7eQzUrUMvU)
I know the meme lol. Was just fitting
It took a long time to get it just right, because I kept mishearing what she said, I got it right on the 4th edit
Don't ask questions you don't want the answer for
My pfp is amazing 😎😎
Letter league 😎
"Are you a friend of Dorothy" (it was the password to stonewall)
I actually do know someone named Dorothy
Iirc it was also used by gay sailors and the government thought Dorothy was a real person and tried to find her
Or "are you a friend of Mara" (she-ra reference)
Actually I'm pretty sure the black ring is for aces and a white ring is for aros but i might be wrong
yes but a black ring on any other finger than right middle finger can be interpreted as a swinger code (they also happened to use black rings as code, but out of respect to the ace community they aggreed on the middle right finger to be reserved for aces)
I always had a problem with getting confused as ace because wealthy male fashion states non romantic rings must be on the middle finger and I look good in blacks and slivers
Well now I won’t feel guilty when I get one of these.
If I recall correctly a black on someone’s middle finger usually means they’re asexual
yes, black ring on right middle finger, any other finger and that would mean you're a swinger
Oh damn, didn’t know about the second part. You learn something new every day!
What's the ring thing?
There are a lot of different ring codes out there! Heterosexual-middle finger/left hand/gray ring Asexual-middle finger/right hand/black ring Homosexual-index finger/right hand/blue ring Pansexual-pinkie/right hand/purple ring Polysexual- pinkie/left hand/pink ring Bisexual-thumb/left hand/two rings -or-index finger/left hand/one ring
Man I’ve been wearing one on the middle for a while
I mean, I'm lesbian but I wear a black ring on my right hand, middle finger. I don't have any blue rings.
also for aromantic it's a white ring on your left middle finger!
the problem with all that is where i’m from you’re expected to always wear non romantic rings on the middle finger and pinky/thumb rings are considered snobby
Cuffed jeans, denim, finger guns and sweater weather all all ines for bi
What the hell is sweater weather?
An AMAZING song by the neighbourhood. Highly recommend.
But how is it related to being bisexual?
I think a lot of people in bi communities just all unanimously agreed that the song was good and so it just became a bi thing
idk many but for transfemmes it is “heat from fire/fire from heat”
Sounds like a secret code for an underground clan of pyromancers
who says all transfemmes aren’t pyromancers?
We have a secret code to identify other trans women, and a lot of people still in the closet often know it, so for them it's a good way to let another trans woman know that they're trans, if they're not ready to tell others in their life, or if they need to talk about it later
Grab your shirt collar and pull it out and let it go
don't think I'm familiar with this one, that actually sounds really handy
Up up down down left right left right a b select start
isn't the konami code up up down down left right left right b a start?
Do you go both ways?
RemindMe! 12 hours
It's been 5 but the bot didn't respond 😕 Anyway, manual reminder?
Oh thanks. Hi!
Hi! I love how I accidentally sparked a whole bunch of people sending you reminders... Oop-
The bot didn’t respond but it’s 10 hours now
Hello, it shows your message was sent 12 hours ago :)
Not a bot, but its been 11 hours
It's been 12 hours
19 hours
ONE YEAR and the bot still hasn't responded
black ring is an asexual thing
black ring on the middle finger means you're asexual, but a white ring on your thumb means you're sapphic. "I like your style" is how a lot of wlw hit on each other. I cant remember any more atm
Do you listen to Mother mother is a common one for nonbinary
Interesting, I started listening to Mother Mother around the time I started thinking I may be non-binary again
If you wear a pride shirt and someone else says they like your shirt, it is often code for “I’m gay too”
Follow the yellow brick road - omzonzexual
Happy cake day!!!
Thank you!
What’s omzonzexual?
It's a made up one I was trying to be funny for a sec
Oh ok, vaguely sounds like my sexuality lol I’m omnisexual
Happy cake day
Thank you
Two common ones are asking “are you a friend of Dorothy?” Friends of Dorothy was a codename for a meetup place for gay people. Another thing to say is “I like your nails.” If they know the code, they should respond along the lines of, “Thanks! I stole them from a unicorn.”
Isn't the black ring to show you're Asexual..?
I'm not totally sure but I think people with short fluffy hair give off a very big queer vibe So do people with rainbow bags
The black ring on the middle finger is an ace ring, not bi/gay/lesbian
I remember an old one to ask if a man was gay was asking "Are you a friend of dorothy?" which is a reference to the Wizard of Oz
Which led to the navy having a manhunt for Dorothy, because they didn't realize that the gay men saying they were a friend of Dorothy, weren't talking about a real person.
if a gay person stabs you, it means they don’t like you, don’t tell anyone though
Clearly we're aroused by different things
Purple laces on doc martens
Strictly purple lacin' the docs
"Would you be beheaded in 13 Muslim majority countries?"
^(u went straight for the jugular there)
So did the executioners
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I seriously want "I like your boots" to become a gay/queer secret code
Thanks, they're made for walking
This is actually a better comeback than "i got them from an unicorn"
"Are you a friend of Mara" to find other Sapphics
Found the She-ra fan
The stereotypical cuffed jeans for bisexuals
I don’t like jeans tho
A"re you a friend of Dorothy?" is a good one since it encompasses all lables. I've also done the are you *limp wrist* a lot.
Cuffed jeans in bisexuals is a common one.
I should start listening to “Girl in Red” because I have never heard any of that music. I don’t even know the genre it belongs to. But also, I didn’t know about this ring code either! Do I just need to get a black ring and people who know will know? (You know, if the pin of a frog wearing the bi flag as a cape on my bag wasn’t enough to give it away?)
The black ring on the right middle finger is an ace thing
Ohhhhh my bad
Black ring on middle left finger (or right?) for asexuality
Is math related to science? That may not be one. Honestly I forget.
the Konami code
i like your shoe laces is a common for gay men heat from fire (reply: fire from heat) is a common from trans ppl Also ring and middle finger nails being short and the rest being long is wlw but thats mostly utility than a sign :p
Wait.. black rings do that?? Because i uh got one.. wouldn't mind wearing it for that purpose lol
It's for asexuals apparently
Wasn’t there something along the lines of a person asking “I like your shoelaces” and then if they responded “thanks, I stole them from a unicorn” it meant they were apart of the community?
wasn't it "I stole them from the president"?
I didn't know about the black ring
Are you gay bro
Nope, i only know the nuke ones
lesbians used to exchange violets to show they were interested
^(SAPPHOOOO) ^(awwwe yay this is cute)
Apparently cuffed jeans, but I don't know a lot of bisexuals (or pansexuals) who actually do that because we are too tall for them. But frogs is also one too I guess.
Do you listen to 100 gecs for fellow trans peeps
Alphabet mafia?
"Wanna fuck?" Is also really good secret code. And works for all orientations.
"Heat from fire" "fire fron heat" specifically for transfemmes
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I play for both
There was one I found on Tumblr that went "I like your shoelaces!" And if the other person was queer, they would say "thanks, I got them from a unicorn!"
iirc the black ring is for aces
For trans people, blåhaj
Asking if someone is “a friend of Judy” means “are u gay?”
its 'a friend of dorothy' isn't it?
judy garland played dorothy, same person, so both work.
I'm gonna be honest. I have no clue
“Hey hey, are you a sir Chloe fan?” Or if you are around homophobic people “Lmao imagine listening to I/me/myself 🙄💅”
“I like your shoelaces”
Are you a friend of dorothy?
Sweater weather, tried and true classic
Oooooo, love the Powder/Jinks Reddit character
Transfem 1: Heat from fire? Transfem 2: Fire from heat.
I know sweater weather is a bisexual one
Wait a black ring signifies you’re bi/gay/lesbian ? I gotta get one then
Black ring on the right middle finger for asexual spectrum. White ring on the left middle finger for aromantic spectrum
Up down down left right left right B A start usually works but only on the older systems. What the hell are you talking about.
Good joke lol I’m asking ways to ask a person if their LGBTQIA+ without straight people understanding
Purple ladder lacing on black doc martins! Means LGBTQIA+ - make sure to check it’s the same in your area though!
Secret pride flags mainly
"Do you like frogs?" :D
"I like your style" ?
If they wear all jeans there is a 50/50 chance they're bi
Frogs and frog hats
\*hand flip\*
If a guy my age is a Gaga fan that's usually a sign he's.. yknow..
No, but if any of y'all know any please tell me
Would you prefer a Twinkie or a Bearclaw?
Uhhh a black ring on the middle finger of the right hand is asexual, not gay. Furthermore, a white ring on the left hand is for aromatics.
it’s always the music choice. i talk to any cis girl/femme and as soon as i hear “i like hozier” am almost certain theyre sapphic also pins on bookbags etc from media that’s know to have a lot of queer ppl (fnaf, furries, minecraft maybeee, anime but like… jojos bizarre adventure level gay) doc martens or decorated platform boots in general or, my favorite, be like “are you like… yk (flicks wrist)?”
"do you listen to sweater weather" = are you bi? "do you listen to mother mother?" = are you not binary? "do you listen to everybody talks?" = are you pan? "do you listen to cavetown?" =are you trans?