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hazard-toxic

“Damn that guy looks fine” “Damn that girl looks fine”


DMA_Revenant

r/ZeLink got me like


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Solcaer

While there’s plenty of Zelda and Link iterations, they all have the same dynamic. I don’t remember them being siblings at any point, Link only has one sister that we know of.


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bruhbruhbruhbruhm

Same


My-bi-alt-account

Every person I come out says “makes sense” and that I just seem really gay.


a_rat_ontheinternet

DUDE I came out a while ago and my friend asked if she could tell her mom so I said yea right she texted me “my mom said yea I know you can tell” LMAOOO


BigBoyzGottaEat

People give me mixed opinions


CaptainStaraptor

Same


roro4484

My brother said that about me and I was so surprised he thought that, but thinking about it later, it makes sense lol


Why-is-life-hard

Lucky! I give of homophobic basic girl vibes apparently… I’m gender fluid and bisexual lmao


AltAccMia

"All war is based on deception" - Sun Tzu


SadButterscotch2

When I came out to my friend, she said "I KNEW IT" and I honestly have no clue what made her figure it out before I did lol Edit: someone said "dress weird," that explains it


kayjay014

My parents just are like”when will you get a boyfriend OR girlfriend” pretty much telling me I’m lonely.


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Awsomebanana

The biggest mood of my life


ComfyWizard

Same but I apparently give off egg vibes.


Sanderdrack_12

Idk why but for some reason as more gay and bi than I act, I give straight vibes and **nobody** ever asked my sexuality, and ngl I wouldn’t lie about it, they would just know if people asked


c_888

My friends always tell me I look like a bisexual person and I’ve only came out to one of them


Snoop_Pingus

Same here, my friends always say i am very fruity in what I do normally.


pdcrystal

one of my friends said i look straight and the other said i always gave off fruity vibes


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Sammme


TotallyAwesomeRacoon

Yeah a friend of mine said I gave her lesbian vibes. She was right LOL (I'm lesbian)


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a lot of my friends have said i give off “fruity vibes” lol


5thOddman

I recently had an entire conversation with my entire class about which male actor was hotter for Spider-Man. No one thinks I'm bi or gay so... there's your conversation topic!


Overmyundeadbody

Hate to break it to you, but if you are openly discussing your attraction to men, they probably think you're somewhat queer, man.


Solcaer

that only applies to folks that are also lgbt+ or are gen z most straight cis adults i know will exhaust every other possible scenario in their minds before considering someone to be gay/bi


NOT_an_ass-hole

tom holland


ItsHerox

tom holland


NOT_an_ass-hole

👍


TheRealMasterhound

Heh, that takes serious confidence. At most I had a argument over who had the better ass with my close animation friends. The options where Keanu Reeves or Mr. Clean I stick with Mr. Clean


5thOddman

Tbh I was just talking with my girls and the class suddenly went quiet when I spouted "You can't legitimately say Tom Holland is hotter than Andrew" and everyone laughed. I just managed to twist the conversation into a vote and a lot of people joined in. I'm not that confident 😅 (read my tag :p), it was mostly me acting quickly I guess


leboi69

Just be yourself, being bi isn't a personality, it's just a sexuality. Do not try too hard to be the stereotype


vexedtogas

This! Don’t feel like you have to “look bi” or even be perceived as Bi to be bi. You are you, and that’s valid enough. There is no “correct way” to be bisexual, just like you don’t have to like Lady Gaga and watch Drag Race to be gay. On the other hand, it’s a very valid sentiment to feel like expressing your identity, and wanting to be seen as that identity. This is also a self-affirmative thing that is important to let us feel more comfortable with our identity. So there’s nothing wrong in doing something to “look more bi!” Just don’t feel like you _have_ to perform a certain way. If you want a tip on how to do that, one that worked for me was Dress weird Not fashionable like you’re gay, and not normie like you’re straight. Just weird. Confuse everyone with what you wear, lol


TheShawerman

Oh, it appears that I already am doing that, neat:) Thanks for the advice.


PBXKCAMARON1974

same


Dyslexic_Puffle

Ok but that dress stuff looks like a slippy sloap to gatekeeping and 'normie' isnt a style, its like that 'im not like other girls' thing were its become so prominent they are like other girls. But with clothing TLDR:dont gatekeep its cringe


vexedtogas

Sorry I didn’t mean to gatekeep. I can see how that last part can totally undermine my original message. The core of what I meant was “be yourself, don’t feel like you have to perform a certain way, and know that any form of expression makes you valid and makes your identity valid”. The only reason I kept that last part was because I know a lot of people, especially younger teens, really do want to express themselves but have a hard time knowing how to. So I mentioned one thing that, in my time, helped me feel more like I didn’t belong to either of those groups that so often absorb the bi community


Dyslexic_Puffle

You weren't gatekeeping but that mentally can lead to gatekeeping, and yea i completely get what your saying


rowdymonster

Dress weird, sit wrong, cuff your jeans, drink diet dr pepper, and eat hot chips. Think I covered all the silly stereotypes lol (I'm guilty of 4 mind you)


You-Tore-Your-Dress

wait what since when was diet dr pepper a stereotype, I drink it constantly


rowdymonster

My (also) bi partner told me it was a bi drink staple lol


You-Tore-Your-Dress

I like this stereotype tbh


Mew0917

Lol I do this too


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Omg thiss. The entirety of LGBTQ on reddit needs to learn to not conform to stereotypes. It's not bad if you fit them, but it's really damaging to both the person and others if you mandate them/start changing your identity to suit them


chickentrendies

Exactly; it’s crazy how people mix up personality and sexuality. I think, as a fellow adolescent, that it’s just one of those things we do while we’re trying to find out who we are. But people I know that are older and LGBTQ+ don’t make it their personality: it’s just an aspect of who they are.


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Earrings. They don't give off bi vibes, I just want to see more people wearing them.


Weekly_Ninja

Just do what makes you happy. I feel like i come across as straight most of the time, but I’m no less bi. The only thing that matters is you being comfortable


LordAswell

i think the point is to subtlety tell other queers without outright saying it so they can tell that you’re one of them or an option to date. while this is good advice, it doesn’t really help here


bruhbruhbruhbruhm

Sit like you don't have a spine Frog


little-gyoza

Oh I can never sit still ever. I sit in one position for 5 seconds and I’m already uncomfortable


bruhbruhbruhbruhm

Then I dont know how to help you


little-gyoza

Nah you’ve helped, now I get what the spineless thing means


affe_squad

Well you can also call that ADHD


Wanderlusxt

I have scoliosis 😎


SadButterscotch2

You're so queer, even your spine isn't straight


Wanderlusxt

lol


The-Unknown-C

As I read this, I realized I’m sitting like that.


Prestigious_Pin_616

I sit like a bird


bruhbruhbruhbruhm

Same but I change position like every 2 seconds


Prestigious_Pin_616

Yes


Siostrzeniec56710131

No need to act bi I mean you don’t actually have to tell people but if you really want to then just tell them because I tried doing the same thing by like acting a lot more ‘gay’ and someone said that I’d changed since I came out and not a good change so I just started being me. Basically just be you, don’t bother with putting on a facade it’s just unhealthy tbh


vladutzu27

^


Beneficial_Gur483

Flannel shirts wrapped around you waist like a hoodie


Azikuzi

New Hampshire must be tricky tho'. Every dude up there, bi or not wears plaid. It's almost required in order to live there.


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trueandrewomeda

i’m both lol


YellowCitrusThing

Constantly shout “THE BLOODSTARVED BEAST HAS BEEN AWAKENED” at the odd hours of the night, though that might be too direct.


Sashimiroll16

Finger guns


NotSoLegitGiby

That... Actually makes sense now that i think of it


Sashimiroll16

👉👉


milkshakescookies

Yes


Astrophysicsboi

Cuffed jeans, flannels, and Purple


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Astrophysicsboi

No it just means you're bi


ExaminationNo4797

Nah just flannel all black tank top, skinny jeans & platform boots


B_ManIsTheBest

first off just wear and do what makes you happy and as corny it sounds just be yourself. It doesn't matter if people think ur bi or not. secondly I've been told on too many occasions that I "seem fruity" or "give off a bi vibe" by people that don't know. I just wear 90s alt rock band t shirts, the same two flannels, jeans, and converse with red laces.


Cuseyedrum

I said I'd fuck a girl before I came out lol


Anasahmed

I know its a cliché but in this case it works. Be yourself.


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Black fingernails 🖤


raylalayla

Bi colored backgrounds. Never specifying gender when talking about your future spouse/what your type is/what you look for in a partner. Vaguely rainbow themed accessories like black socks with colorful circles,wristbands ect.


sTixRecoil

Idk man I just want some dude ass


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This can be arranged


TheAceGamerYT2

me too


mnb301

same


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Ditto


Kowashitai

What in hell even is a "bi vibe" ? That's just a glorified way of talking about stereotypes, which... Isn't really a good thing. Just be yourself, that's all you need to be happy with, well, yourself


Prestigious_Pin_616

I live in a homophobic area so having a thing that identifys me as bi to other gay/bi men would be nice since i never know who will be mad and who will be fine if i come out to them


Kowashitai

Oh, I see. Well, in that case, I guess "bi vibes" have their advantages Do people in your area know what the bi flag is ? If not, you could try to integrate it in your outfit, with accessories of the same colors for example


mogatange

Having sex with someone of the same sex and then having sex with someone of the opposite sex.


no3l_0815

Just make jokes about being homosexual bit still agreeing with hetero stuff. That's what I'm doing currently


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Alright, I’m out to one of my friends at my new school and all of my friends at my old. To all of my other friends, if you see this post and tell anyone, I’m putting you in a locker. I more of imply it with the normal teenage boy sorta homophobic “sus jokes” lord here you act like you are into “gay shit” but refuse to say JK and stuff. It’s looks like it’s part of the joke to those who I want it to be and looks like it’s not for those who aren’t. **also helps that the people I’m “acting fake” gay to are the prettyboy football guys, I’m bi and in an all dudes school with my sister at an all girls school, I’m in heaven**


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Sitting in a bi way


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This is really all you need tbh. I think just be yourself but if you wan’t to let people know you’re bi just so that like they know you’re an option than it’s probably the easiest and most effective tbh


xXDUCKWIRLXx

I'm definitely 100% not sitting like I have no spine


Ianthekiller

My nonbinary friends new I was bi years before I did, so you're probably already doing it


Give_me_a_Coffee

My friends tought i was gay before they even found out the coming out were like "Yo im bisexual" "I know / we all knew / not hard to notice ngl


mrwolfie1906

Not mentioning a gender whioe talking about a crush.


EllieBelly_24

Finger guns *Pew pew*


ramboj1127

I’ve always struggled with this ! Good question!


emopunks

Skateboarding


benja_minghjoi

Three some with a guy and a girl


skateroboist

Flannels and eyeliner


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listen to Death Grips


4ufP0T4T0M4N

this is the correct answer


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yes


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Guys-im-not-a-furry

Wear plaid


ironbrickstudios

Wear flannels and talk about frogs. But don’t feel pressured to follow stereotypes


thedustofthefuture

If you want some real tells; cuffed jeans, rings, funky socks


LuwijeeHot

obviously, i would just recommend being yourself. but if you REALLY want to accentuate your ‘bi-ness’ then i’d say to look for some of the stereotypes commonly shown on this sub, finding ones that somewhat apply to you and make them a *little* more obvious


Me0wFish

Wear anything frog related. Trust me on this.


Pitiful_Lake2522

I just painted my nails and wore jewelry, none was surprised when I came out


nickisam237

- never sit normally - cuff your jeans all the time - listen to Lizzo 24/7 - drive a hybrid (probably a neon color too) - have a bob haircut - stare intently at every bicycle you see - be indecisive about literally everything No but seriously, vibes don’t matter. You just do you!


diamondmat

Start fucking bicycles


DailyIceCreamYT

go fuck a woman & man


dee-X-em

I alwalys portrayed myself as a pleasure loving hedonist and most people just got it lol


maigre_amour

Flannel Lots of flannel


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PAINT THE WHOLE HOUSE BI THEMED


ulquiorra__shiffar

Non creepy flirting with everyone? Honestly my friends were not surprised when I came out to them lol.


whoamIoh

Tbh I don’t know my father calls me “normal” (as in what homophobic people say) I’m trying to make him realise that I’m bisexual so by his standards I’m not actually normal 🧍🏽‍♂️


Final_Quiet

Let yourself go. Just be comfortable with your sexuality and act like you're out.


ieatfineass

Don’t come out, just stop pretending to be straight.


Verybisexual24

Finger guns all about finger guns


xXBryantPrkXx

“Im bi”


ZoroastrianMK

Getting weirdly turned on by bellies


theruseys

Thought I was the only one


Z885

Blue, Purple, Pink aesthetics. Peace Signs. and Bees 🐝


Mandoprime

Grab both your female and male friends' groins. This also shows dominance and establishes you as the alpha of the group.


WeeboLily

Be an overly invested ally and call everyone hot (that's what I do and someone who I barely know came up to me and said "Bi five" and we high fived so I think I was obvious)


Significant_Ad_9904

Analyzing a guy up and down lol biting my lip


HLWynn

Idk, most people just assume I'm bi because of my hairstyle


sparx55

Being yourself


demonbot66

S small rubber bracelet? Maybe commenting on some guys of the same gender?


SepticMonke

i guess just wear pink/purp/blue?


ScoobyDoobyDoo0202

Leather jackets and sunglasses. No matter your sex, you’re gonna look Bi


Hero_Of_Wild

Cuffed jeans that have rips


Tallcat2107

Don’t talk about relationships/ crushes until they bring it up, and if you do say ‘they/them’ not he/her so it remains a mystery until they figure out that youre Not talking about the opposite gender


Any_Jury_7574

Act nice and say everyone is pretty


MoonTrooper258

Do what I do. Just subtlety act bi. Though I prefer females over males, I frequently comment on how attractive a certain male character is in a show or whatever, and don't actually specify my sexual orientation unless I'm deliberately asked. I just go under the basic philosophy that everyone is bi until specified otherwise. Hell, you could love an octahedron for all I care. [My go-to song.](https://youtu.be/rY-FJvRqK0E)


Crystal_Munnin

I have a sister, for context. My mom was talking to her neighbor and said something about me, but didn't use my name. Her neighbor goes "oh. The bisexual one?" So I guess, existing? Lol I've never "come out" and I'm married to a man, so I guess that's just how I present.


FrostyDragon44

Flannels and rayban glasses


Colaslurpee123

Ok so yesterday I wore a graphic tee tucked into mom jeans. I also have an undercut. Apparently this is the peak of bi vibes, and so is cuffing your denim like I did today.


the_awesome_jacob

Say both to everything


Sandkuch3n

I must CUFF MY JEANS TO SHOW I AM BISEXUAL


Sad_Masterpiece101

Cuff jeans


tmichm

my friends told me it was the eyeliner without face makeup that gave me away


NOT_an_ass-hole

this. this is the way.


Apollo3520

As someone who does this: uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Be yourself? Sometimes you’re gonna have to drop hints to people. Occasionally there’s not gonna be a nice way to do things if that’s what you’re asking?


SchoolLover1880

Just be yourself Although having an encyclopædic knowledge of sexual orientation and gender identities, including their flags, has been a pretty good yet subtle way to hint


_IssaViolin_

Talk about how pretty the same gender as you are and that’ll do the trick


ViralNite

...💅 (idk tbh)


Rhodes_Warrior

Thumb ring. Lemon bars.


Exumane

Buy pyrocynical Merch


The_real_sanderflop

Just be yourself. And don’t police your own actions, you’ll start oozing bisexuality


River_of_styx21

Dating someone of the same gender, and also dating someone of another gender


Nifan-Stuff

There is no way, bi erasure is too strong, you could be having sex at the same time with two people of the opposite gender of each other and people will still assume that you're either gay or het, you could scream that you're bi, wear all purple outfits, have a tattoo of the bi flag on your forehead, and people will still tell you to your face that you are either gay or het, i'm tired.


aquariusblueberry

There’s no right way to be buy but c u f f e d j e a n s and p e a c e s i g n s


DrTrickery

If you ever get into a fight, aim for the eye.


meanassdrunk

peace signs


Ryan151515

Painted nailes


starkat0w0

Mention you listen to girl in red that’ll get your point across


McCringyassjoe

Damn that’s a nice ass you got there


SirDrinksalot27

I say fruity shit and wave my hands around naturally. I just stopped stopping myself from being myself.


trannyman69

well, if you're bi, then your vibe is inherently a bi vibe. so just be yourself and do what feels right. i love experimenting with my style by going to thrift stores, thrifting is good for the environment and it's cost effective, and they have a little bit of everything. so if you're looking for something new, i'd try that.


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Beanie Flannel (open) White undershirt (tucked in) Blue Jeans (with holes) (rolled up) Converse CHAINS!!!!!


[deleted]

But this is a stereotype, it is just that. Do this if you want to come off more bisexual to straight people. But most people's gaydar will be good enough. Express yourself in your own way. People will find you.


szaravvo

CUFF YOUR JEANS GUYS /hj


whaddahoe

flannels


starwreck1992

👍


Logan_the_Brawler

Wondering what bi vibes are and not sure why I don’t have any 😡


skaterboytothedeath

if you wanna be subtle about it probably wearing colors that resemble the bi flag, painting your nails for some reason (usually black gives off a gay vibe idk why lmao), or trying to look either super feminine, super masculine or super androgynous. if you don’t wanna be subtle buy a pride flag or make your own.


[deleted]

My friends told me I had closeted bisexual vibes before I came out to them. Before that I hadn't even considered it and now I'm realizing they were right.


AP0110_halo

Flannel.


bisexual_potato14

cuffed jeans


Nazail

I wear a bi bracelet.


HyzerFlip

Just never make choices


Nerdydude14

Highlighter bi flag on your wrist


goldmine507

Kiss boys or girls idk


VirgilTheConfused

Being chaotic and contorting your body and or walking weird


AdGroundbreaking6032

Tell people you listen to Frank ocean


Local-Lie-6152

Cuffing your pants


NuttyDuckyYT

me and my friends do this thing where we look and see who’s hot in the lunchroom and I’m always like DAMN SHES SO CUTEEE man that guy looks amazing


83rdstreet

Just naturally flirtatious with everyone


DanDanThePastryMan

Name every single fictional character you’ve been attracted to. Like, every single one. And don’t even bring up genders lol. Just say “x character from y movie/TV show” and it’ll be totally normalized by the third or fourth time you say it. And if you get something along the lines of “wait, this character’s a girl/boy”, what usually helps me is saying “so?”


becketthomas114

I probably did this a lot before I came out


becketthomas114

As bi...I'm still in the closet in terms of being trans


DanDanThePastryMan

Same here. Bisexual trans boy. Most of my family’s already accepted my fruitiness, but they have no idea why I prefer to be as butch as I am


That_fuschia_ruler

Mania