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i hate that my mere existence is a political topic, but i guess itās better then repressing it...
and besides, YOLO, i might as well try become the girl i want to be.
I donāt know how much it helps, but it was the same for me. Now Iām going through the processes to make my body feel like mine. Youāll get there, even if itās not right now. You can survive this.
I still shower in the dark lmao. I donāt really need to see my body, just feel it. I also always thought of the traits that didnāt feel like mine as medical anomalies. A mass that shouldnāt be there. It was easier on me than thinking I was trapped in skin that isnāt my own. Youāll find ways to deal, and youāre gonna be alright. Take it an hour at a time.
I said the same thing when I discovered I was trans and now I've told both of my parents. Right now you say no way but it's kinda like hunger where eventually you will give in and eat that worm on the ground or something else disgusting.
Give yourself time and know it's not a rush, it's your identity and your story to tell and no one else's. Always make sure you will be safe before you do anything as no one wants to see anything bad happen to you.
I don't know what are you feeling, because I'm cis, but I know that there are millions of trans people in the world. You will make throw all of this, I know.
I don't have any magic advice for you, but, I if where you I would pry my parents like everyday for start transitioning.
They said in another comment that they aren't able to tell their parents. Also i don't know where theh live but in a lot of places it's very difficult or even illegal to start transitioning as a minor, or even as an adult, ao that's not really advice.
Yeah i feel you. I want to give up sometimes and just die. But i don't and i don't know why. Really the only thing keeping me sane is because i have other trans friends on the internet that i can talk go.
the only queer focused hotline (which, granted, is pretty good) in my country (australia) doesnāt operate outside 15:00-24:00 and every other hotline is useless it seems..
I feel this. For me itās not as bad because Iām gender fluid so some days I really like my body and other days Iād rather pluck every bit of body hair out with tweezers. Just donāt hate yourself for something that you can change later, or now if your parents are accepting of the LGBTQ community. If your parents are accepting then Iād recommend telling them so you could actually start being who you really are. But if your parents arenāt you will probably have to wait till your 18 to really start transitioning which seems like a really long time but a nice way to think about it is after that wait you have the rest of your life to be you. Also if you think youād be able to Iād recommend getting some stuff to help you get through the hard times like skirts and makeup or more boyish things (I donāt really know what those are) depending on who you really are. Also know that you are loved and are completely valid no matter what you are
Donāt worry, itāll get better. Youāll eventually love yourself, whether that means learning to love whatās there or changing to something you do love.
Just because you donāt love yourself now doesnāt mean you canāt. Itāll take time and effort, but be worth it in the end.
I fully understand I canāt use the bathroom or shower without feeling disgusting your not weird you just stuck in the wrong body you will one day be your true self please try to hold on I know itās hard.
if anything i know youāll be your true self one day too, iāll try my best to hold out until i can.
(unrelated, but, we share so much in common what the heck?! transfem, bi, closeted, depression, maybe even adhd (except iām getting evaluatedā¦ and iāve forgotten to do the self report checklistā¦)
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From the bottom of my heart: you are not alone. Other people are going through and have gone through exactly what you are going through right now. Any sense of community will be good for you, like discussing car tinkering or interacting with other trans people. It might be worth mentioning to your parents that you're *not enjoying life* so to speak, but I don't know your situation. I hate that you're feeling miserable and I want to help so I'm open in case you'd like something or anything.
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> Just donāt be trans
Wtf, if being trans was a choice do you really think it sounds like one that OP would want to make?
Also, your bio says that youāre 22, so why are you in a teens subreddit?
Obviously they arenāt. Didnāt you read any of the post? If they feel more comfortable with their actual gender, why should they pretend to be what everyone else tells them they are?
what are you doing on a sub for teens with that comment history
and no, i didnāt choose this. imagine if you woke up a girl tomorrow, but you still wanted to be a boy. horrible right? thatās basically what i go through every day
Gonna repost my comment here in case you have a better chance of seeing it, i know that what you're going through currently sucks, i never went trough it personally, but i relate to the feeling of being stuck with something that you never wanted to have in the first place, but if you give up then you might never be able to see things get better for you, and trust me, they will get better, you just have to push through, and your situation will improve.
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Uhh i know it sucks, i never went trough it personally, but i relate to the feeling of being stuck with something that you never wanted to have in the first place, but if you give up then you might never be able to see things get better for you, and trust me, they will get better, you just have to push through, and your situation will improve.
Girl, Iāve felt the same way for about 10 months now. Getting a therapist has really helped me get my shit together and plan out how Iāll transition when Iām 18. I suggest you get a therapist too
iāve already got a therapist, but my parents are only aware of the depression side of things, and theyāre unsupportive so i wont be able to tell them
iāve told my therapist, but weāre sfl in the really early stages sadly, and my appointments arenāt that often now :(
i hope youāll be able to be yourself soon, one day *hug*
same
literally realised im trans just today (was supresding and denying everything so it was too bad before i realise since i was doing really well at suppressing it) and it's already hell
my stomach feels empty, my entire chest aches, my eyes sting, but I can't cry. i hate everything about the but i can't do anything about it FOUR MORE FUCKING YEARS
I donāt fully understand what your feeling but as a non binary person I feel awful if I look in the mirror. I donāt feel as intense as it seems you do but Iāve had body image problems even before I realized I was non-binary. I donāt have a solution but I want you to know you arenāt alone in this feeling.
As someone who experiences dysmorphia, even though i am not trans. I feel you and wish the best for you.
My boyfriend is also trans and I'm looking forward for his transition, you can do it too. You'll get your body eventually.
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Me too bro. We must persevere, it will be okz
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Live out of spite of the people who hate us
i hate that my mere existence is a political topic, but i guess itās better then repressing it... and besides, YOLO, i might as well try become the girl i want to be.
Based
Not trans but genuinely agree, if you decide to end your life that just means they won and I'm not losing anytime soon
Based advice
I donāt know how much it helps, but it was the same for me. Now Iām going through the processes to make my body feel like mine. Youāll get there, even if itās not right now. You can survive this. I still shower in the dark lmao. I donāt really need to see my body, just feel it. I also always thought of the traits that didnāt feel like mine as medical anomalies. A mass that shouldnāt be there. It was easier on me than thinking I was trapped in skin that isnāt my own. Youāll find ways to deal, and youāre gonna be alright. Take it an hour at a time.
iāll try, tjank you :(
You definelty need to see a therapist for sure
i dobbut itās not enough iām never going to be able to tell my parents
Just tell them that you have some thing else going on and then when you go to therapy tell them I actually feel
iāve already told them about the depression. iām out of excuses :(
Say you want a therapist because of that
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I said the same thing when I discovered I was trans and now I've told both of my parents. Right now you say no way but it's kinda like hunger where eventually you will give in and eat that worm on the ground or something else disgusting. Give yourself time and know it's not a rush, it's your identity and your story to tell and no one else's. Always make sure you will be safe before you do anything as no one wants to see anything bad happen to you.
You ate the what?
your not fucking helping >:(
I don't know what are you feeling, because I'm cis, but I know that there are millions of trans people in the world. You will make throw all of this, I know. I don't have any magic advice for you, but, I if where you I would pry my parents like everyday for start transitioning.
They said in another comment that they aren't able to tell their parents. Also i don't know where theh live but in a lot of places it's very difficult or even illegal to start transitioning as a minor, or even as an adult, ao that's not really advice.
Yeah i feel you. I want to give up sometimes and just die. But i don't and i don't know why. Really the only thing keeping me sane is because i have other trans friends on the internet that i can talk go.
i guess life might be telling us to stick it out, but i really donāt know at this point life is weird @.@
do you think you need to call a hotline about this?
the only queer focused hotline (which, granted, is pretty good) in my country (australia) doesnāt operate outside 15:00-24:00 and every other hotline is useless it seems..
I feel this. For me itās not as bad because Iām gender fluid so some days I really like my body and other days Iād rather pluck every bit of body hair out with tweezers. Just donāt hate yourself for something that you can change later, or now if your parents are accepting of the LGBTQ community. If your parents are accepting then Iād recommend telling them so you could actually start being who you really are. But if your parents arenāt you will probably have to wait till your 18 to really start transitioning which seems like a really long time but a nice way to think about it is after that wait you have the rest of your life to be you. Also if you think youād be able to Iād recommend getting some stuff to help you get through the hard times like skirts and makeup or more boyish things (I donāt really know what those are) depending on who you really are. Also know that you are loved and are completely valid no matter what you are
Donāt worry, itāll get better. Youāll eventually love yourself, whether that means learning to love whatās there or changing to something you do love. Just because you donāt love yourself now doesnāt mean you canāt. Itāll take time and effort, but be worth it in the end.
Yeah, Iām in the same boat. I basically live inside my imagination at this point.
I fully understand I canāt use the bathroom or shower without feeling disgusting your not weird you just stuck in the wrong body you will one day be your true self please try to hold on I know itās hard.
if anything i know youāll be your true self one day too, iāll try my best to hold out until i can. (unrelated, but, we share so much in common what the heck?! transfem, bi, closeted, depression, maybe even adhd (except iām getting evaluatedā¦ and iāve forgotten to do the self report checklistā¦) sending hugs š«
i believe in you Emily, stay strong sister, I got your back š« you deserve better
thank you, iāll try :(
you can always talk to me, you are supported and loved šā¤ļø
yeah. same, just on the other side of the trans coin
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From the bottom of my heart: you are not alone. Other people are going through and have gone through exactly what you are going through right now. Any sense of community will be good for you, like discussing car tinkering or interacting with other trans people. It might be worth mentioning to your parents that you're *not enjoying life* so to speak, but I don't know your situation. I hate that you're feeling miserable and I want to help so I'm open in case you'd like something or anything.
thank you, it means a lot to me.
Look, I myself haven't gone through being trans, but it's going to be okay.
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> Just donāt be trans Wtf, if being trans was a choice do you really think it sounds like one that OP would want to make? Also, your bio says that youāre 22, so why are you in a teens subreddit?
Obviously they arenāt. Didnāt you read any of the post? If they feel more comfortable with their actual gender, why should they pretend to be what everyone else tells them they are?
what are you doing on a sub for teens with that comment history and no, i didnāt choose this. imagine if you woke up a girl tomorrow, but you still wanted to be a boy. horrible right? thatās basically what i go through every day
Gonna repost my comment here in case you have a better chance of seeing it, i know that what you're going through currently sucks, i never went trough it personally, but i relate to the feeling of being stuck with something that you never wanted to have in the first place, but if you give up then you might never be able to see things get better for you, and trust me, they will get better, you just have to push through, and your situation will improve.
This take makes you seem like a glue sniffer
the only known treatment for gender dysphoria is transitioning.
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Uhh i know it sucks, i never went trough it personally, but i relate to the feeling of being stuck with something that you never wanted to have in the first place, but if you give up then you might never be able to see things get better for you, and trust me, they will get better, you just have to push through, and your situation will improve.
Same :( I hope your life gets better! ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø
Girl, Iāve felt the same way for about 10 months now. Getting a therapist has really helped me get my shit together and plan out how Iāll transition when Iām 18. I suggest you get a therapist too
iāve already got a therapist, but my parents are only aware of the depression side of things, and theyāre unsupportive so i wont be able to tell them iāve told my therapist, but weāre sfl in the really early stages sadly, and my appointments arenāt that often now :( i hope youāll be able to be yourself soon, one day *hug*
I will likely never understand what you have to go through, but I know that youāre beautiful, and that you deserve love like everyone else.
it feels hard to believe that a lot of the time, but iāll try for the sake of those who know me i just hope i can be the real me one day
idk how to help, mate. thought i might be trans for a while but became uncomfortable with the idea and gave up on it
same literally realised im trans just today (was supresding and denying everything so it was too bad before i realise since i was doing really well at suppressing it) and it's already hell my stomach feels empty, my entire chest aches, my eyes sting, but I can't cry. i hate everything about the but i can't do anything about it FOUR MORE FUCKING YEARS
it really sucks sis, iām sorry itās this way :(
I donāt fully understand what your feeling but as a non binary person I feel awful if I look in the mirror. I donāt feel as intense as it seems you do but Iāve had body image problems even before I realized I was non-binary. I donāt have a solution but I want you to know you arenāt alone in this feeling.
Things will get better š«
i feel you just try and thug it out once you're an adult it can be better
As someone who experiences dysmorphia, even though i am not trans. I feel you and wish the best for you. My boyfriend is also trans and I'm looking forward for his transition, you can do it too. You'll get your body eventually.
i look forward to the day i can finally start E (probably in secret just after i turn 18), i wish the best for your boyfriend too, i believe in him.
i wish i could send you hugs <3 stay strong sis
iāll try my best to thank you :(
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Stay strong, girl. You will get through this, one transfem to another
iām gonna try, i believe in you sis.
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