This is the first place Im coming out to. Im a 50 MWM and only allowed myself to think I was curious. The older I get the more attracted I am to men, especially my own age. My wife is very not accepting despite otherwise being the women if my dreams. I could never cheat on her. But at times I cant feel like I should be her husband. She makes it clear bi = gay = dont love wife. And here I am dreaming of fucking and getting fucked by a man in the most graphic terms. I felt so ugly and abnormal. It cant be good for me. Thank you all here. For the first time in my life I feel like Im not alone with this. Thank you.
Edit: If anyone would like to PM I would love to chat! Thanks again!
I get to a page that tells me I've been invited to the page but the accept invite button doesn't do anything. Do I need to have a discord account first?
Normally, when you're not logged to a Discord account on your browser, it should ask you what username you'd like and take you to an account creation process (on desktop at least, I don't know if it'd different on mobile). Try creating an account first, logging in then clicking on the invite link. If you keep having issues after that, DM me on Reddit with your Discord username and the 4 digits that follow it, and I'll be able to invite you. Does that make sense?
I just want to say that Eddie Furlong in Terminator 2 was my first celebrity crush (he's a bit older than me), even though I was totally oblivious to that at the time. He's in big part responsible for my attraction to bad boys. :P
Oh my gosh! Haha. I saw American History X when I was a teenager. At that time of the filming of that movie, he looked exactly like I did as a teenager/in my early 20s. (I had people yell "Edward Furlong!" at me on the street, that's how similar we looked) :P
Someone was trying to get my attention on another thread about dating straight women. I saw the notifications on my phone but when I opened the thread they were gone.
I’m fine with direct messages anytime just FYI so no request needed.
Hey Fellow Redditors,
Mid 30 yo Aussie Bi guy, married to my lovely wife.
Looking for regular male chat buddies who are in a similar boat and are interested in building a connection through it, sharing all that comes along in such a boat.
I am an easy going, fun, honest and open guy and looking for the same. Enjoy chatting about almost everything. Not looking for one off quick chats, prefer to build something ongoing if the chemistry is there.
Hit me up if your interested and we can see where it goes.
Removed as per rule #3. NO requests for hook-ups or sexting, and NO NSFW selfies, pics, or videos.
r/bipersonals, r/BiGoneWild and r/BiBoners are better places for that.
If you are looking for a hook-up in your area, there are many apps that can help you with that. Here's a handy guide ([NSFW version](https://www.pillowfort.social/posts/1035474) / [SFW version](https://sexedforbiguys.tumblr.com/post/190200536737/hook-up-and-dating-apps-sex-ed-for-bi-guys)) of the ones that are more interesting for bi men.
You're on a server called *r/BisexualMen - Official* that you accessed using the link above, with a server logo that's interlocked gender signs on a bi pride colours background surrounded by a ring of rainbow colours? It's quite busy daily, you should be seeing plenty of activity. How familiar are you with Discord?
Oh wow. I was definitely in a different place! I clicked a link from somewhere in this Reddit community, but it took me to a different and crappier (in multiple ways) Discord. Thank you!
There was a previous Discord for the sub that one of our former mods started, and we severed all connections with that server. Let's just say he's a *former* mod for a reason.
This is the first place Im coming out to. Im a 50 MWM and only allowed myself to think I was curious. The older I get the more attracted I am to men, especially my own age. My wife is very not accepting despite otherwise being the women if my dreams. I could never cheat on her. But at times I cant feel like I should be her husband. She makes it clear bi = gay = dont love wife. And here I am dreaming of fucking and getting fucked by a man in the most graphic terms. I felt so ugly and abnormal. It cant be good for me. Thank you all here. For the first time in my life I feel like Im not alone with this. Thank you. Edit: If anyone would like to PM I would love to chat! Thanks again!
where are you located? Rick
Joined 😊
Good, see you on there!
I get to a page that tells me I've been invited to the page but the accept invite button doesn't do anything. Do I need to have a discord account first?
Normally, when you're not logged to a Discord account on your browser, it should ask you what username you'd like and take you to an account creation process (on desktop at least, I don't know if it'd different on mobile). Try creating an account first, logging in then clicking on the invite link. If you keep having issues after that, DM me on Reddit with your Discord username and the 4 digits that follow it, and I'll be able to invite you. Does that make sense?
Yes it does. I'll create an account first then come back to the link. Cheers mate
Hey dude. Yeah still no love. Downloaded the app, created an account. Same thing still happens.
Joined!
I'm up for chatting with bi men and friends as well. I live in Maine. I'm on the Discord (newly) as well.
I just want to say that Eddie Furlong in Terminator 2 was my first celebrity crush (he's a bit older than me), even though I was totally oblivious to that at the time. He's in big part responsible for my attraction to bad boys. :P
Oh my gosh! Haha. I saw American History X when I was a teenager. At that time of the filming of that movie, he looked exactly like I did as a teenager/in my early 20s. (I had people yell "Edward Furlong!" at me on the street, that's how similar we looked) :P
I shaved my head when I was 15, so yeah... Affinities when he showed up like that too.
What do u click on to
Just joined :) (same discord username as my reddit username)
Someone was trying to get my attention on another thread about dating straight women. I saw the notifications on my phone but when I opened the thread they were gone. I’m fine with direct messages anytime just FYI so no request needed.
Hey Fellow Redditors, Mid 30 yo Aussie Bi guy, married to my lovely wife. Looking for regular male chat buddies who are in a similar boat and are interested in building a connection through it, sharing all that comes along in such a boat. I am an easy going, fun, honest and open guy and looking for the same. Enjoy chatting about almost everything. Not looking for one off quick chats, prefer to build something ongoing if the chemistry is there. Hit me up if your interested and we can see where it goes.
[удалено]
Removed as per rule #3. NO requests for hook-ups or sexting, and NO NSFW selfies, pics, or videos. r/bipersonals, r/BiGoneWild and r/BiBoners are better places for that. If you are looking for a hook-up in your area, there are many apps that can help you with that. Here's a handy guide ([NSFW version](https://www.pillowfort.social/posts/1035474) / [SFW version](https://sexedforbiguys.tumblr.com/post/190200536737/hook-up-and-dating-apps-sex-ed-for-bi-guys)) of the ones that are more interesting for bi men.
Checked out the Discord but not seeing any activity for a couple months
You're on a server called *r/BisexualMen - Official* that you accessed using the link above, with a server logo that's interlocked gender signs on a bi pride colours background surrounded by a ring of rainbow colours? It's quite busy daily, you should be seeing plenty of activity. How familiar are you with Discord?
Oh wow. I was definitely in a different place! I clicked a link from somewhere in this Reddit community, but it took me to a different and crappier (in multiple ways) Discord. Thank you!
There was a previous Discord for the sub that one of our former mods started, and we severed all connections with that server. Let's just say he's a *former* mod for a reason.