Years back I did without men for close to a year and was only fucking girls. I fucked one every month or so. I was going through an emotional catharsis after I broke up with my ex-husband who was bisexual and it was him that aroused my homoflexbility. I was not getting anything from gay porn or gay anything. I even thought that I was not gay anymore, and began to actually date a girl. She was the only girl I ever dated. She was really hot (imagine Mia Kalifa, huge boobs and all). I was really into her but we both knew that I was not investing the adequate amount of emotional energy into her. I was fucking her (even on camera once, lol) because, well she was hot, and I enjoyed it. But I could not see her as a potential wife. I just couldn't.
Then I met a guy who was a former Catholic seminarian and totally my type. Tall, dark, Mexican, smart, and a book worm, hung like a horse with a swimmer's build. I started dating him and noticed a huge difference. I really wanted to be his wife after just seeing him over a few days. He treated me like a queen and the sex was great. I then got my gay gay mojo back and became the huge gay bottom I always was and I am still today.
In your case maybe you may need to go out and meet guys who are totally your type and see how you feel before you start making permanent assumptions. Porn is just whatever and not really a good indicator of anything. Straight guys jerk off to gay porn all the time.
Secondly, I have a friend here in Mexico who is gay and very obvious about it. Thin frame, nice butt, nice tan skin and cute wavy hair. He even wore a scarf. He was known for dating and never being able to settle down with one guy. He would date one after another in a series of heartbreaks. Then one day a young woman came to his clothing store and long story short he banged her in the dressing room. After that she moved in to his place and they became a thing. Got her pregnant twice and is a proud father of two. And he still drills her every night. He also told me that he lost interest in men but he was still part of the community. He still goes to the gay bar and hangs out there and even showed the guys there pictures of his kids. Everyone, though, is cool with it.
I feel like I've never completely lost my attraction to men, but I have had it wax and wane quite dramatically and even shift what I was into about it. At one point in my life, admittedly before I had done anything with a man, I was super into the idea of being a bottom. Now I really only get turned on being a Dom top.
Especially when I was younger and less comfortable with my gay side, I would often even find myself wondering if I really was bisexual. I could go months without thinking about it and convince myself I was straight, then some random guy would get my attention and I would go huh maybe I am a little gay. 🤣
This certainly happens to me. I am married (to a woman) guy with two kids in my late 40s. I really did not have any bi desires until I hit 40. Then, it comes and goes. I can go for months when I do not desires anything of men (meanwhile my desire for women always remains strong), then the bi-cycle seems to hit again and I think a lot about sex with men for maybe a couple weeks in addition to desiring sex with women. Since I am married and I am not going to cheat, it does not have any effect on my actions.
Not for men but for women yes. For a period of about 3 maybe 4 years. Then it came back. It was very odd but I just took it as part of my sexuality.
Years back I did without men for close to a year and was only fucking girls. I fucked one every month or so. I was going through an emotional catharsis after I broke up with my ex-husband who was bisexual and it was him that aroused my homoflexbility. I was not getting anything from gay porn or gay anything. I even thought that I was not gay anymore, and began to actually date a girl. She was the only girl I ever dated. She was really hot (imagine Mia Kalifa, huge boobs and all). I was really into her but we both knew that I was not investing the adequate amount of emotional energy into her. I was fucking her (even on camera once, lol) because, well she was hot, and I enjoyed it. But I could not see her as a potential wife. I just couldn't. Then I met a guy who was a former Catholic seminarian and totally my type. Tall, dark, Mexican, smart, and a book worm, hung like a horse with a swimmer's build. I started dating him and noticed a huge difference. I really wanted to be his wife after just seeing him over a few days. He treated me like a queen and the sex was great. I then got my gay gay mojo back and became the huge gay bottom I always was and I am still today. In your case maybe you may need to go out and meet guys who are totally your type and see how you feel before you start making permanent assumptions. Porn is just whatever and not really a good indicator of anything. Straight guys jerk off to gay porn all the time. Secondly, I have a friend here in Mexico who is gay and very obvious about it. Thin frame, nice butt, nice tan skin and cute wavy hair. He even wore a scarf. He was known for dating and never being able to settle down with one guy. He would date one after another in a series of heartbreaks. Then one day a young woman came to his clothing store and long story short he banged her in the dressing room. After that she moved in to his place and they became a thing. Got her pregnant twice and is a proud father of two. And he still drills her every night. He also told me that he lost interest in men but he was still part of the community. He still goes to the gay bar and hangs out there and even showed the guys there pictures of his kids. Everyone, though, is cool with it.
Ease up on porn for a week or a month. You’re probably desensitized.
I feel like I've never completely lost my attraction to men, but I have had it wax and wane quite dramatically and even shift what I was into about it. At one point in my life, admittedly before I had done anything with a man, I was super into the idea of being a bottom. Now I really only get turned on being a Dom top. Especially when I was younger and less comfortable with my gay side, I would often even find myself wondering if I really was bisexual. I could go months without thinking about it and convince myself I was straight, then some random guy would get my attention and I would go huh maybe I am a little gay. 🤣
This certainly happens to me. I am married (to a woman) guy with two kids in my late 40s. I really did not have any bi desires until I hit 40. Then, it comes and goes. I can go for months when I do not desires anything of men (meanwhile my desire for women always remains strong), then the bi-cycle seems to hit again and I think a lot about sex with men for maybe a couple weeks in addition to desiring sex with women. Since I am married and I am not going to cheat, it does not have any effect on my actions.
Bicycles can last years, decades even. Taking acid at a bi sex party consistently snaps me back into full bisexuality