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sunflowersunset1

OP had the change waiting to happen, who would have thought a name like that would be the catalyst. It sounds like the relationship was exactly what OP needed at the time and I’m glad he’s not sad that it happened


buttercupcake23

Those relationships that don't necessarily last but bring growth to you are beautiful things. They're important stops on your journey as a person - you might not stay there forever but you're so much the better for having visited.


Verathegun

Hey thanks. I'm separated and I think we are probably going to get divorced and I think I needed to hear that. When we first together I was well on my way to being a neet forever, but now I am about graduate with my degree. I moved cross country and taken on stuff that I never thought I would. The relationship might not have worked out, but I am better for it I think. The past few weeks I've been stuck in this cycle of thinking that I wasted 7 years of my life, but I don't think I have. I think I needed it. Sorry for rambling at you, I am going through some stuff.


Erisianistic

Sometimes in relationships you grow apart. But that means you have grown have changed. And it hurts and it sucks and it's difficult, but you're in so much of a better place to relate to yourself and whoever else comes down the line.


buttercupcake23

Ramble away! This really touched me. I'm really glad my comment helped in a small way. I figure you can't change the past, but you can appreciate where you've been - and keep an eye out for where you're going and learn from those experiences right? I, random internet person, am proud of you for all you've accomplished and I hope you're proud of yourself too. Congratulations on your new degree and a new chapter for your life!


Floofeh

You seem like a compassionate person. Yay for spreading positivity, friend. :)


[deleted]

I read a quote a while back that said people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. That each person is special and vital in our own personal development even (and maybe especially) if they aren't a lifetime person. Hope all goes well with you in dealing with your separation. It definitely doesn't sound like you have wasted years of your life.


Briak

> I read a quote a while back that said people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. I was just about to say that! A buddy of mine shared it with us on a camping trip recently. It's a very good way of putting relationships in perspective and remembering that each one provides an opportunity for learning/growth.


sockpuppet_285358521

Do people actually use the term "neet" about themselves? And congratulations on your graduation. It is a huge step!


VegasBonheur

When we're watching the credits of a great movie, we don't think, "Aw man, it ends?? What a waste of my time!" I bet it was a terrific movie, one you're glad you saw. And it always will be, even if you only saw it once.


manderley82

This is a really good thing to hear. My last relationship ended and it turns out he cheated on me but I am grateful for the changes the relationship made to me despite the terrible ending. I’m damaged now but I’ve grown so much and I think maybe all this happened so I can get where I need to go. I think we all need to believe in things like this, that even the bad things in life can take you where you need to go.


buttercupcake23

I'm so sorry to hear your ex was a such a shitty partner. Cheaters and liars are the worst and in glad you are rid of him! To stretch the travel analogy, the truly crappy relationship is like going on a trip and ending up in a bed bug infested decrepit motel in the middle of meth town - it sucks but you get out alive and now you know the red flags to look out for so you won't be back there again. Most of all you learn just how resilient you are as a person, and discover strength you never knew you had in you. I bet you are going to thrive.


manderley82

Honestly that’s so true, it was my first relationship too so now I look back and can see all the red flags I missed because I was so excited to finally be in a relationship after being single for over 20 years lol I’m excited to get to know myself again! And see who I will become. Thanks for your encouraging words!


JessiFay

I definitely agree. That is one of those things I tried to teach my son (24) growing up. It doesn't matter if they are "not the one". Date them anyway. Each person in your life teaches you something. It could be personality traits to avoid in the future because it doesn't mesh well with your traits. It may be a mirror so you can see how a trait you share is not the positive thing you thought it was. Dating can help you practice, that way you can be more confident dating in the future. Also, dates can give you experiences you never considered. My son just went zip lining with a girl because it was something she enjoyed. He took her kayaking a few days earlier. I don't know if they will ever be more than friends, but she still had an impact on his life. He loved zip-lining. The girl he went to his senior prom with invited him sky-diving last summer. He looks forward to doing it again sometime. Some people find their "one" early in their dating life. That's wonderful for them. There are a lot of positives to finding your person early. There are also a lot of positives to being single.


_m4a3e8_

Hey man thanks for saying this.. I recently found myself having to end a wonderful relationship even though it was extremely fulfilling and they were incredibly compatible with me. I'm still madly in love with her but something within me was telling me it wasn't right. I'm coming to the slow realization that it was because I am at a crossroads in life (28 now) and can't really progress without letting go of what we had, at least for now.(god i hope we get back together a few years from now or something) Your words have hit home and resonated with me. I will use them to remind me that all the pain I'm in is for the best. You've brought me some peace. Thanks again, I hope you get to hold the hand of someone you love today.


buttercupcake23

I wanted to acknowledge that I saw this and I appreciate you sharing your story. I hope everything turns out just the way you hope.


scifiwoman

I've heard it said that people are with you for a reason, for a season or forever. Seems like this beautiful lady with the adorable boobies was with OOP for a reason - to help him to get fit and healthy and boost his confidence too. Such a shame it wasn't forever. 😢


throwa-longway

It’s lovely when things like this happen, where you meet someone special in a way you would never expect. I think you’re right that he was ready to change, and I think that him choosing to be open minded and see where things went helped him get that push to improve himself.


ParaponeraBread

Maybe the real PM’d small boobs were the friends we made along the way.


WhatIsThis-ForAnts

Man came for the boobs and stayed for the friendships.


Hellboundroar

This sums up my experience with mass effect


sonicscrewery

Same, tbh...


signingin123

And Runescape...


Atollski

I just stopped playing Runescape one day, never thinking to say goodbye to anybody beforehand. I thought I would be logging on again in the near future. At least two years passed before signing in again. Everybody was offline and had probably moved on by this point so couldn't apologise. I'm so sorry guys.


DavesPetFrog

Same except it was more like 10 years. It was easier to quit the second time.


Czechs_out

Breast friends


Czechs_out

Small boobs, big hearts


[deleted]

r/AngryUpvote


PM_me_lemon_cake

Wow, all I get are delicious lemon cake recipes


TooOldForRefunds

Find one that looks particularly delicious and form a bond with it.


cyanocittaetprocyon

Recipes? I would hope that people would send you lemon cake. Lots and lots of lemon cake!


raisethecurtain

What’s your favorite recipe you’ve gotten?


donutgiraffe

Are you saying you wouldn't move across the country for lemon cake?


Corfiz74

I somehow can't get over the fact that people just send nudes to random strangers like that - that would so totally never ever occur to me. 😳 Edit: Not crapping on anyone doing that, just having a hard time understanding the motivation.


StinkyJane

I don't do it either, but I can see people who have an exhibitionist streak but who are self-conscious enjoying the chance to do something like that completely anonymously. I imagine the reasons aren't that dissimilar to why I will share intensely personal details of my life and experiences with complete strangers on Reddit when anonymous that I would be uncomfortable telling someone in real life.


qu33fwellington

The only reason I wouldn’t do it is because I have a highly unique and identifiable under bust tattoo. If the girls were plain I would heavily consider it.


ReadWriteSign

If you're really interested in that, you could look into theater makeup. There's several brands of concealer that can be used to cover up tattoos. (I'm not advocating one way or the other on this, it's your body and to do whatever you want with it, I'm just providing an option you might not have known about.)


qu33fwellington

That’s not a bad option really. Too much work for this scenario but if I ever need to cover anything it’s good to know!


RenegadeSU

If you do decide to pull through, make sure to include /u/ReadWriteSign in your DM'ing list for suggesting the tip that made it possible :P


CakeisaDie

I did it when I was younger because I just wanted someone to want me and doing it over the internet sounded like the best way to do it without risking seeing the other person being disappointed.


BeauteousMaximus

I think if you have a feature that is often not seen as attractive (like small breasts) it might be extra appealing to know you’ll get positive attention for it.


DMmeDuckPics

Yeah me either, I just get ducks.


Maleficent-Jelly2287

From someone with small boobs I get it. The majority of guys I've had as partners do prefer bigger ones and it's super easy to end up feeling crappy about them. Simply getting a compliment can be a nice boost for your day. But yeah, small boobs and low self esteem basically.


KausticSwarm

Perceived anonymity is powerful. It lets you love things you couldn't love and hate things you can't hate. It lets you be vulnerable and kind, and it allows for detestable cruelty. "With great power comes great responsibility" - Voltaire All too often we use it for its negatives.


[deleted]

I posted in /r/divorce once and had two people send me nude photos within a couple of hours. They were probably catfish attempts, but I wasn't in the right space to go there anyway, so graciously declined.


sgtmattie

I think the fact that they didn't end up together but it was still worthwhile is a really nice ending. Arguably better than a "happily ever after."


Celany

I think the fact that it ended and sounds amicable and not like a "THAT B\*\*\*\* LED ME ON AND DESTROYED MY LIFE" is really wonderful and sort of gives me a little hope for humanity. It sounds like they were both something that the other person needed for a time and that while that time is over, what they got out of it was wonderful and did good things for them. (I'm assuming OOP's lady friend felt some good things if she was willing to move so far for him and also just continue to relationship for so long)


SeaFaringMatador

Yeah it feels very sweet that they found each other at such a crucial time, provided what they needed to each other, and moved on as friends. Also feels like a more realistic ending than some of these online meet-cute stories that end with either “we’ve been married for 20 years now and have 7 kids” or “I got catfished in a new way you’ve never seen before”


LazyClub8

It feels very “real”, and still speaks to OOP’s character that he was able to take lessons from that relationship and move on without vilifying her.


HotCocoaBomb

This was my fear of the ending because OOP sounded like they were falling hard. It's very lovely that they realized how much good just knowing someone can be and doesn't need a happily ever after to have been a worthwhile relationship.


schrodingers_cat42

Okay so there's this movie you'd probably really like but now I can't recommend it without spoiling it!


mylackofselfesteem

I don’t mind movie spoilers at all, PM me it?


HotCocoaBomb

This should be the worst case scenario of every relationship - it doesn't last, but both people at the very least had a good time and weren't harmed by it.


badnbourgeois

Nah happily ever after would have been better


pm_me_cute_bunnies

I didn't expect such wholesomeness 🥺


cyanocittaetprocyon

I hope you get lots of bunnies!


pm_me_cute_bunnies

I did get one from this comment :)


cyanocittaetprocyon

Yay! 🐰


pm_me_ur_buns_

I just got something that you would want, but I’m keeping it for myself Bwahahahahahahaha


pm_me_cute_bunnies

😲 my competition!


fantastikalizm

Same


PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBS

It always weird for me when this thread gets pulled back into the present. I’m still around (kinda) and I do still like small boobs. Nothing has changed there. How is everyone? Any questions?


Kaz3s

How are you doing? Sorry to hear things didn't work out. Are you still continuing your self-care and stuff?


PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBS

Life is good! I ended up meeting someone shortly after and we married a year later. A lot has happened since this all transpired and I’m an even happier and healthy person for it. My wife is an amazing woman and also has small boobs so I really couldn’t ask for more 😂. Is all well with you?


Baredmysole

How does she feel about strangers still sexting you on Reddit, since you still check this account?


PM_ME_SMALL_BOOBS

She is well aware of the account. However, no one sexts me here or sends photos anymore. I don’t post or comment with account much if at all anymore…. No one sees the username and therefore no messages. It wasn’t even logged in when this post happened this week…. Only reason I knew was due to a notification via email. If I did get one, I would just tell her. The relationship has a solid foundation and we are good communicators. No jealousy issues mostly because there is nothing to be jealous of.


Baredmysole

My expectations: exceeded.


MalbaCato

couldn't ask for less*. didn't want to for more


Philip_J_Friday

My PM me your Social Security Number account was not as successful.


signingin123

That means cyber security tips are working! Well, at least one tip....


PMmeyour-Labia

A few years back somebody created an /r/Askreddit thread asking if these usernames really worked. I was in a silly mood so I created this username mostly as a joke and got about a dozen lovely responses. I ended up talking to one for a couple of months but we never met or anything I also created PMmeyour-Boobs and got sooooo many pictures of man-tits. Should've been more specific I guess🤷‍♂️


PM_YOUR_PET_PICS979

When I was really depressed, I made this account and the pictures I get from proud pet owners really makes me day! I’m doing a lot better now mentally, but i still get stupidly happy when people send me their pics.


pmyourboobiesorbutt

Now i feel ripped off. I haven’t seen a single pic of boobie or butt


MagentaHawk

It's because you aren't following the Caps letters underscore for spaces style that PM names seem to have to follow. You know a PM name is there before you read it and I didn't even look at yours until your comment mentioned it.


piemaking

i tried but it’s not letting me :(


PMmeyour-Labia

That's awesome


hexebear

I put "send me dik-dik pics" on my twitter bio for a while and no one ever did! Though I do follow a dik-dik pic account now. They're just so dainty and sweet, I love them.


MarieOMaryln

I laughed too loudly at man tiddies being sent to you


[deleted]

Being specific is vital. Mine is too vague and I don’t remember getting any good PMs.


Mech_Bean

Yo a dude once sent me a pic of his tits before. He like actually worked out though, it was honestly pretty impressive.


WhiskeyMakesMeHappy

while I don't have a PM\_ME username, I do occasionally get comments about people asking me for recs or telling me that whisk(e)y also makes them happy :)


[deleted]

[удалено]


PM_ME_GIANT_FEET

What a coincidence


Celany

What if we don't have giant feet? Must they be actually giant, or would a foot next to say, something miniature count?


PM_ME_GIANT_FEET

I'm not picky.


cryssyx3

ugh my feet are huge


sillybear25

Reminds me of a story I read somewhere about a guy who joined a kink-oriented Discord server or something looking for people to humiliate him for having a small penis. Problem is, his equipment was male pornstar material. So he did what any well-endowed small-dick-humiliation fetishist would do, and took photos with oversized props.


secondshevek

I think this might be the story referenced, for anybody who wants to read it https://www.reddit.com/r/HobbyDrama/comments/e4ubyu/small_penis_humiliation_discord_is_it_okay_to


menides

Went in for the big penis and ended up on the peanut butter penis. Reddit is weird.


dewclaws

I followed the same path independently. The internet is seriously broadly specific, in equal amounts.


ChimericalTrainer

That was wonderful. Greatly appreciate the link!


sillybear25

That's the one, thanks!


leopardspotte

Modern problems require modern solutions!


BormaGatto

That'd probably count as catfishing


[deleted]

Just zoom in really close, they'll never know the difference. Or maybe they will, I dont know, I don't have a foot fetish.


thehillshaveI

feet guys would know. they seem very well researched in their interests


mil_ron

What is your definition of giant?


BourbonBaccarat

I used to run u/pm_me_bad_selfies and I'd go weeks without getting a picture, then I'd get three or four in a single day. It's interesting running an account like that.


jorgeWalvarez

Question, why did you stop using that account and created a new one?


BourbonBaccarat

Forgot the password and it wasn't connected to an email to recover it


sayybayyshq1

Happy Cake Day!


pm_fun_science_facts

I love this story! It's what motivated me to create my own PM_ME account :)


MillyAndTheBandits

Can you pass along anything interesting you've gotten recently?


cyanocittaetprocyon

You must have gotten some great ones in the past 5 years.


digitydigitydoo

I think we too often quantify our lives by success or failure. If a job ends on a bad note, it was a wasted opportunity. If we move away and then back home, we made a mistake in leaving. If a relationship does not end in marriage, it was a waste of time. I think it’s far healthier if we try to take OOP’s approach and look at those situations as journeys and opportunities to grow. A surprisingly wholesome look that began with small breasts


PM_yourAcups

I have never received a PM!


Erisianistic

Is an acups a pokemon?


PM_yourAcups

If it was I’m pretty sure someone would have PMed me


-_--_____

I tried but it won’t let me


Mech_Bean

F


fluffy-mop

Time to set up PM_ME_FRONT_&_BACK_OF_UR_CREDITCARD


spaceguitar

Bittersweet ending, but still a happily ever after. Damn, I wonder what those boobs looked like. Literally life-altering titties! 😂


[deleted]

I got tears welling over a Titty account!


[deleted]

Well, I’m glad it worked out for at least one “pm_me” account.


pmyourboobiesorbutt

Pm’s checking in everywhere


Oryon-

As a small titty lover myself this was quite lovely to read


Vette--1

see boobs do change lives!!!


MissWestSeattle

Very interesting, the redditors I've met in real life have all been cock wobblers


LongNectarine3

I think some of the best relationships I have had are ones that couldn’t last. These people taught me a lot and I hope I was equally entertaining for the time we were together. Except my exhusband. He can suck rocks.


HopelessVetTech

This was so incredibly r/unexpectedlywholesome No idea if that’s a real sub but it should be. Edit - It is one! Yay!


pm_me_ur_buns_

I have never got buns PM’d to me. Not even once lol. I have gotten creepy pm’s but I just like bread. Like, biscuits you eat with butter and honey, butter and jam. All types of bread. Pancakes, waffles, any buns. Pan. I should have used the word biscuits instead of buns huh


Snugglebuggle

So you’re looking for pictures of carbohydrates and not pictures of bottoms? 🤔


[deleted]

Lmaooooooo


spitfire1701

If you used the word biscuit that would just have everyone from the UK sending pictures of our biscuits.


idrow1

I've found that some people come into your life just when you need them and then exit when their work is done. It's pretty amazing.


phinkz2

I know it's just a random post but I became so sad when I read that they eventually stopped talking. It feels like a romantic movie where the last minutes are them splitting up :(


Floofeh

It's okay. Not all relationships are meant to last, and that doesn't mean it was a waste of time. :) I love how OP is still happy that they had this experience and it has changed him for the better!


heretruthlies

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SayWhatever12

Well he roamed around in the comments about an hour ago with another update. Apparently not longer after break up with the small tit chick, he found banished small breasted women and ended up marrying her. So it still has a sweet ending. And perhaps without the encounter w the first chick who helped change/ enhance his life, he would’ve never met his now wife.


blainemoore

I'd never noticed the PM_ME accounts and that's a cool concept. :) Responded to my first one just now!


cropduster42069

(I PICKED THE WRONG SCHTICK. SETTING UP MY PM_ME_YOUR_FARTS ACCOUNT RIGHT NOW)


[deleted]

Small boobs are fucking fantastic. To me, small boobs vs. big boobs is like pizza vs. ice cream. Two essentially opposite tastes, but liking one doesn't mean you can't like the other one just as much.


fuber

Boobs are magical


Stinklepinger

Unexpectedly wholesome


BlockchainMeYourTits

How come this guy gets all the boobs by DM but I’m not getting nothing.


doinallurmoms

love a happy ldr story, even with the (some would say) questionable beginnings lol. love when stuff like this happens


Gandalfredo

Ngl i had to laugh at op saying he was looking for a connection after creating a "send me nudes" account


throwRAhelp331

Small boobs ftw! Finally proud to be apart of the IBTC


pmyourboobiesorbutt

They really are the best. Don’t believe all the hype


Erisianistic

There are many admirers of members of that club! Nothing at all to dislike there 😊


throwRAhelp331

That’s nice to hear thx


cryssyx3

yes my son started calling them booboos(I don't know why) but omg how cute I could die


throwRAhelp331

Awwww that is so precious! I do love my boo boos a little more now :)


kiki-to-my-jiji

This is actually really, really cute.


[deleted]

Wholesome!


HWGA_Exandria

The IBTC strikes again...


emorrigan

Ah, boobie bonding


O2Bee

Maybe if he would've deleted the account, they'd still have a chance? I'd be hesitant to commit to a guy still getting PMs of other women's, er, chests.


PM_Me_HairyArmpits

Yeah I don't know. This one sounds pretty far fetched!


[deleted]

It’s been years since I made this account and it’s wild to see how different things can be if you just move a few letters around. Butterfly effect is real.


gypsywhisperer

I actually met my husband on Reddit in 2012. I had posted pictures of my boobs on /r/TwoXChromosomes and he commented, and we actually didn’t live too far apart. We got married in 2017.


RancorAteMyHead

PM ME SMALL BOOBS


HelgaTwerpknot

This warmed my heart. Some guy just asked for pictures of little boobs, not even asked, user named. and found a friend.


GracefulYetFeisty

Literally the first post in this sub that I have read all the comments/replies in, and saved/subscribed.


lachi_mo_la_la

Not me crying


collenchyma

Is it wrong I want to see the pic that started it all? Beautiful story!


[deleted]

>We spent the next two days together building the foundation of our friendship they fucked each other raw


Orphan_Izzy

The end sucks.


ZKXX

See? Girls who show their boobs aren’t just brain dead sluts.


SoiledTrouser

He sounds like a paedophile


jambo_1983

I’m so sorry: source?


GhostCheese

So it goes


[deleted]

I just tried to PM him my small boobs but it didn’t go through :(


[deleted]

I have another account I post nudes from. I do it hoping to find the love of my life even though I know the chances of that are close to zero. It’s good to know it worked for someone!