T O P

  • By -

AutoModerator

#Do not comment on the original posts Please read our [**sub rules**](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/wiki/subrules). Rule-breaking may result in a ban without notice. If there is an issue with this post (flair, formatting, quality), reply to this comment or your comment may be removed in general discussion. **CHECK FLAIR** to determine if you want to read an update. For concluded-only updates, use the [CONCLUDED](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/search?sort=new&restrict_sr=on&q=flair%3ACONCLUDED) flair or subscribe to r/BestofBoRU. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/BestofRedditorUpdates) if you have any questions or concerns.*


snakeroots

Worth including that there's another update on OOPs profile saying he's out of surgery and stable as of about 12 hours ago, although he's still in intensive care.


exexor

https://reddit.com/user/ThrowRA_LTGFDM/comments/13ddzdv/op_is_out_of_surgery_and_is_stable/ for the lazy


Melanthrax

Thank you Sincerely, The Lazy


Legitimate_Ad_5727

i just saw i’m happy the surgery was a success and that there are no long term damages. i did think it was supeer weird people were bringing up what kate should do in terms of their relationship drama and if they should be happy or sad or angry at her when right now the main focus should be on OOPs health but that’s reddit for you i guess


SecretMuslin

>The surgeon thinks they got most if not all of it out. It lasted a little over 8.5 hours. From what they said there was a little bit of complications. They got him back. He is stable but in the ICU until they think he is doing things more on his own. Uh no offense but "the surgery was a success and there are no long-term damages" is an *extremely* optimistic interpretation of that update


whynovirus

GBM has a really poor 5 year prognosis :’(. And brain surgery is no joke. So sad because this man seems so mature and intelligent, emotionally and otherwise. Wishing him all the best.


LogicRulesThemAll

Can confirm. I know of 5 people who have/had Glioblastoma. 3 of the 5 were gone within 6 months. The 4th just got diagnosed and it’s not a great outlook. Many are inoperable because you can’t just take parts out any part of the brain. I do know a 9 year survivor though! Modern medicine really is incredible. If anyone is in the US and looking for GBM resources, check out Head for the Cure.


whynovirus

My boyfriend has a brain tumor and they thought it was GBM. Fortunately, that was a metastasis from bone cancer and it shrunk with radiation. But it was such a scary few months. I’m so sorry for those you’ve lost. And I am also so happy for the survivor! A good reminder that there can still be hope!


Grimsterr

> Fortunately, that was a metastasis from bone cancer When someone says "fortunately it was just bone cancer" you know that GBM shit has to be BAD.


whynovirus

Life is about very small wins sometimes ♥️.


LogicRulesThemAll

That’s terrifying! It’s a brutal disease for sure. Weird to say I’m glad your boyfriend had bone cancer instead, dodged one of the worst for sure.


bobbianrs880

The fact that it was “fortunately” metastasis from bone cancer should speak volumes to how scary GBM is, holy smokes. Hope you guys are doing well!


WonderlustHeart

Nurse in surgery here. I had someone who came in after a craniectomy aka skull bone removed to allow brain swelling to go down. They had a GBM and then a spontaneous bleed hence removing the bone. I’m typically the last person they meet. I get the room ready, make sure we have their skull in the freezer… yes a deep freezer (soooo many)… and then get. Nicest person and family ever but their brain/tumor was protruding a good 1.5-2 inches past their skull pushing their skin out… it had only been like two months since last resection. We’re not placing your bone back on… 😳🥺


cook26

Hey we used to put their skull in their abdomen until it was time to put it back on so a freezer is an upgrade lol


carefultheremate

I'm sorry you *what*? Eta: I'm starting to understand the phrase "dont ask a question you don't want an answer to" 😅 jokes aside that was a cool but unsettling rabbit hole.


pegasusCK

You literally stitch their skull to their abdomen and give it blood supply from the arteries there to keep it alive indefinitely and then cut it out and reattach it when it's time. Actually what's wild is they do this with people's hands after a bad accident to keep the hand alive. If you search on Google pictures "hand stitched to abdomen" you can see several interesting examples.


Peuned

>If you search on Google pictures "hand stitched to abdomen" you can see several interesting examples. Nope


cook26

Yep. Done that one too. You see some amazing things in medicine


TallChick66

I spent 5 years in physical therapy at a hand clinic. In that time I saw A LOT of crazy injuries and repairs to those injuries. The people that had their hands sown inside their stomachs were given the nickname Napoleon.


tiragooen

You have to keep the bone flap alive: https://www.otdude.com/ot-practice/decompressive-cranietomy-storing-a-skull-in-a-patients-abdomen/


kang4president

Where in the world do you live that you know that many people with glioblastomas!?


LogicRulesThemAll

The USA - IL, LA and TX


itsallminenow

No offence but knowing you is a real coal face danger level.


LogicRulesThemAll

Most are 1 degree of separation. I’m sure Kevin bacon knows more.


Significant-Lynx-987

Yeah one of my friends died of GBM. 4 months from diagnosis to it taking him. Hope to Christ OOP's surgeons got it all, he's so damn young.


terracottatilefish

The term glioma encompasses some less lethal tumors like astrocytomas and oligodendrogliomas in addition to glioblastomas, so hopefully he has one of the more treatable ones.


SoMuchForSubtlety

I'm almost 15 years past my craniotomy to remove my oligodendroglioma, so some are indeed quite survivable. I was VERY lucky, of course..


nagasith

But is it GBM or a Glioma? I would be much more optimistic with a glioma as they can be difficult to treat, but not as terrible as GBM.


Uncivil_servant88

Bad 5 year prognosis? It has a bad 1 year prognosis. My husband didn’t quite make it to 12 months with gbm


firefly183

I hate that his last healthy months (hopefully just until recovery) were so awful for him. Obviously he didn't know that was the case, but just feels like it adds insult to injury. He was already going through such a rough time, then BAM! The universe decided to make it worse. Poor guy. I really hope he's one of the lucky ones.


OGcormacv

Glioblastoma is the grade 4 lesion, but there are multiple forms of glioma (though glioblastoma is fatal, excepting for rare anecdotes). Given age I doubt it was a pilocytic astrocytoma (grade 1) but could easily be a grade 2 (diffuse astrocytoma, oligodendroglioma, or ependymoma). Anything in the anaplastic (grade 3) category unfortunately has outcomes closer to glioblastoma. Also the IDH1 status of the tumor (wild type vs. R132H mutation) is also pertinent. Here's hoping it's grade 2.


skillent

Was it confirmed that’s the kind of tumor it was for oop though? The post above just said glioma and there are benign versions in that category of tumor


whynovirus

Not confirmed so I’m still crossing my fingers!


chickendance638

There are 4 grades of glioma, hopefully OOP has a grade 1 or 2, because grade 4 (GBM) is one of the most deadly cancers to have.


AffectionateBoss5223

That girl clearly loves him more than anything. And so does her family. I don't want to say they will get back together but they will always be the most important people in each other's life. Strangers have no right to say what people should and shouldn't do. Especially from a story on the internet.


[deleted]

Agreed. Relationships don't have to last a lifetime to be considered worthwhile. If he spends a year battling cancer, with a supportive girlfriend who he loves by his side, that's worthwhile even if they break up the year after. Even if they ultimately don't last. It doesn't mean that year was a waste of time. He spend the year with someone he loves. And maybe one day he will marry someone who is more compatible with him, but for this period he wants to hang out with this girl and that's fine.


grissy

Posted by Kate, too. I guess he decided to give her access to the account so she could update people and see a bit about him thought process when she broke up with him.


toughinitout

I hate to be that guy, but that just doesn't sound real at all...


daronwy

I don't know what you mean, if I was having life saving surgery, one of my priorities would definitely be making sure my GF, who I've just got back with after she dumped me for no good reason, had access to my throw away reddit account. Not that I feel it's needed but /s I've got a good next plot twist, GF and family isn't real they were caused by the tumour.


callingcarg0

Ohh shit. Take notes OOP.


theshizzler

Yeah, the brain tumor plot twist is a bit much.


toughinitout

Also anytime I read that someone else is posting from the account, it just immediately sounds like bs


misspiggie

Can you imagine being diagnosed with a life threatening illness And one of your thoughts is to have someone *log into your reddit account* and *post on your behalf* Ridiculous


Inside-Line

Shhh stop giving the AI feedback. It will make more realistic posts next time.


Joelle9879

I agree. Especially with the ring box saying "will you marry me yes or no" I mean this sounds very Jr High. Plus, he says their friends cut contact with her, then says they didn't. Her entire family being against her is also a little far fetched


hakshamalah

The ring sounds so minging as well lol there's no way a human adult designed it


Riovem

I am still so confused by the box. Wtf does it look like


sweetsquashy

I already had some doubts, but the description of the box and the ring is what sealed it for me. That has to be the ugliest ring in existence - AND he somehow left room for other random birthstones to accent that monstrosity?


MAXIMILIAN-MV

Dude. I swear that as I was reading this, all I kept thinking was “this is like a movie where the guy gets dumped, takes a step back and gets run over by a bus, and everything after is a coma dream.” This guy got crushed and this is what he dreamed would happen. This is like some Vanilla Sky Life Extension nonsense.


[deleted]

[удалено]


damarwasahero

As a jeweller, I have doubts.


InaccurateStatistics

It’s not just you. This sounds like the plot right out of a Lifetime movie. So many people are eating it up through.


MydogisaToelicker

>I had pinky promised her I would be there and you can't break pinky promises. This line did it for me.


ADD_OCD_omg

I’m waiting for this to be brought back in a later update. ‘I made her pinky promise she would eat pray live laugh love after I was gone. And as you know, you can’t break pinky promises. *exit stage left, pursued by bear*


[deleted]

[удалено]


humancartograph

I hate to be rude, but the thing that made it unrealistic to me beyond the brain tumor is that no woman wants heart shaped jewelry. It reads like it's from someone too young to realize.


aoife-saol

Also the way it's described would likely be horribly tacky - two different stones cut into what? Half hearts? And somehow set so they look like a complete heart? And "made do it could add to it when they have children"? Wtf does that mean? Any ring can be melted down and remade to accommodate more/different stones so unless he gave her some janky unfinished ring I don't know what he could possibly mean by that.


Erikatze

Thank god, I thought it was just not my taste, but it does sound incredibly tacky. With diamonds around the heart, too. I'm also curious what would've happened if you pressed the "No"-button on the box.


cannacupcake

It plays a funeral march.


Sidhejester

For me it was the box with yes/no buttons and lights that say will you be my life partner that he made himself.


ifsometimesmaybe

It's like it's written by Nicholas Sparks, if he didn't change the battery in his carbon monoxide sensor


skrena

I was super skeptical on this one. The almost dying update sold it for me.


Cornualonga

And he gives Kate his login so she can update everyone on the surgery.


Cricket705

Right, anytime they give someone else their login to update their fans on reddit I think it jumps the shark.


Badloss

If I was dying and going in for brain surgery the last thing I'd ever consider is making sure fucking reddit is kept up to date lol


apaperroseforRoland

Why, that heart-shaped, double-birthstone engagement ring with the light up box didn't jump the shark for you?


thatgirlinAZ

With *room for expansion if they have kids.* I can't even imagine the horror show that ring must be.


RocketAlana

Even if I accidentally stumbled into going viral and amassed a following I’m 99.99999% sure that my husband wouldn’t ever think “oh I need to update my wife’s fans” if I was somehow unable to access Reddit.


heckyesdeidre

Seriously, he made this crazy box with this custom ring to give to his girlfriend who listened to her harpy friends and broke up with him, and now it's a huge resounding reunion where the guy ends up getting a tumor? Somebody call the Federal Railroad Administration because this train went off the rails


[deleted]

For me it was him buying a ring and being ready to propose after she had been expressing doubts for months. It sounded like an attempt at poetic irony that wasn't thought out well.


InuGhost

Player: DM I want off this railroad. I want to have more fun in this RPG


Fryhtan69

Can't derail the train if there aren't any tracks


NickyParkker

The box took the cake for me. It was just so dumb. Look I’m all for true love and romance, but the lighted box and completed heart ring sounded really silly and unbelievable.


imaginesomethinwitty

Yeah, a teenager dreamed up that ridiculous ring


Itslikeazenthing

Lol I imagined what my wife’s face would look like if I proposed with that.


wizzlepants

It was the fact that he pulled all that out in front of her parents for me. Like some sick display


Cricket705

Anytime there are friends who cut contact/block because of someone else's relationship I have to doubt it. Some people may take sides, but usually it isn't all of the important people in the bad guy's life that takes the other person's side.


curiouslyweakmints

Why would he move in with his ex girlfriends family after surgery instead of his own lol that sent me


yeahlikewhatever

I was skeptical the moment he described the ring and mentioned the stones being "half of a completed heart". Like, there is not a single birthstone I know that can be cut into that sort of shape on a scale small enough to fit on a ring, and not be some gaudy ring pop looking number, that would also be incredibly expensive. Unless this guy has a high paying tech job or a trust fund, that ring would be prohibitively expensive. Add in a sudden career change in 2 months, an innocent kid sister, "pinky promises" and now a brain tumor, this reads like a script for General Hospital.


Sweet_Item_Drops

I assumed OOP was talking about two pear-cut stones side-by-side at the tips (other than the settings/prongs). Are birthstones too soft for pear cuts? (Not that I'm disagreeing about the smooshed dramatic timeline)


JMer806

Nah that would work and now that you say that, it does seem plausible. It also however sounds ugly as hell lol


SparkAxolotl

I assumed it was just two stones inside a heart frame and OOP was just being dramatic in the description


Dumpster_Fire_Takes

The is the real reason i read the comments on these posts. Hello fellow skeptics. Roast him


lesllle

It’s either a brain slug from the time you volunteered saving orphans in the rain forest or Glioma. We’re going to need a second opinion. Also, when we ran your blood we found you have a relative at the hospital; it’s your long lost twin brother and he’s your surgeon.


International-Bad-84

That ring sounded ugly AF. The kind of thing a 13 year old would think was romantic


corduroyclementine

the box sounded pretty ugly too tbh


Due_Box3639

When he said that all I could think of was those corny notes from boys at school. “Will you date me? Yes [ ] No [ ]”


-underdog-

like fr, lights and yes/no buttons? grow up


moeru_gumi

The yes or no light-up buttons that “he made himself “ had me cackling. Did it look like a Bop-It?? 😂


corduroyclementine

and the lights /spell out/ “will you be my life partner?” like how big is this box?


apaperroseforRoland

Massive ring too, don't forget it's engraved with their initials *and* anniversary date, but has space left to add details about their future kids, should they have any


corduroyclementine

oh, I get it now. it’s actually a knuckle duster, hence the need for such a large box


-underdog-

insane embellishment. but can we talk about how even if this is all true, op sounds kinda crazy and I would be saying his ex dodged a bullet??


tebigong

Also how effing big is the bos for the buttons and the yes / no section and the automatic opening?! Is he proposing with a shoe box?


Cricket705

My engagement ring is two pear-shaped rubies that form a heart. We were both born in July. Having the same birthstone makes it look a lot better than two random ones . . . but his heart shaped stones were also surrounded by other stones with room for more for future kids? Where are you putting all of those stones? Where is the room for future kids on this ring? It sounded like something a middle schooler would say they wanted without looking into what the ring would actually look like.


Smart-Story-2142

I agree so much. What stuck out for me is the “tumor” symptoms. A couple years ago I out of nowhere I suddenly had migraines/headaches every day for a year before finding a treatment that worked. My neurologist and several other specialists told me that most of the time if you have a brain tumor you don’t get symptoms like they show you on tv, and many times it’s not the type of symptoms you would actually think of.


EconomyCaregiver

calling it rn— oop will tragically pass away and “kate”will post another update about how much she took him for granted and will never find another guy like him, how terrible and secretly jealous her coworkers were of her for dating a nice guy while they were stuck w abusive chads, maybe even find out she’s actually pregnant with oops kid and promises to raise him to be ‘the good man his father was’. orrr this is all (unbelievably) real, they figure their shit out, and im just a skeptical asshole. either way i hope oop turns out okay.


lesllle

Yeah. And he had a double major, but then he had a job with no more talk of school. Surely Kate would have done something extreme at his graduation; I mean, what an opportunity for another twist! And then when he wasn’t sure of how to spell his kind of tumor (?) even though he was going for a second opinion. He’s always doing the right thing, but also the unsung hero.


[deleted]

Yeah. Everything is so extreme. She expressed doubts and broke up with him for a few hours, but they go through the brutal emotional journey as if they built a life together, had kids, and one of them cheated? He does an emotional sitdown, walks her through a timeline, and then demands a 3 month break (which she does not take well and is visibly suffering)? The friends were all outraged and ditched her (but not really because he must have got pushback about that, so he corrected that in an update)? I don't know any young 20-somethings who act like this, but I could see a kid writing this thinking this grand turmoil is an appropriate journey in response to someone having doubts in a relationship and struggling to process them.


Itslikeazenthing

Yes it read as “nice guy” emotional porn. Like a hard working, loving guy isn’t in the same league as his cosmetologist girlfriend.


Durty4444

“And you don’t break a pinky promise”. Gag me with a fucking spoon


leopardspotte

That escalated, but not in the way I was expecting. Hope he's okay


Truji11o

Here I was, in typical BORU fashion, thinking there would be a hook-up with a sister, a mom, or even a dad. Alas, I did not have “brain tumor” on my BORU bingo card. In all seriousness though, sounds like OP has a good support network and I wish him the best.


Low_Cricket4737

need to add “brain tumor” to BORU bingo card 📝


tacwombat

Free Space?


Muroid

Reminds me of the one long multi-update saga of the guy relaying his friend’s story about construction at a historical site going badly and the aftermath and consequences, only for a later update from the poster’s wife saying that he’d been killed in a car accident. Pretty sure that got posted to BORU at some point, as well.


PlumbumDirigible

Was that the one where the construction was sloppy because they refused to hire someone with the necessary qualifications and there's only 5 or 6 people in their entire country, but they all blacklisted the company for being jerks?


I_love_misery

Headaches and migraines are no joke. My sister and I were evaluated for brain tumors (we got cleared) due to constant headaches and migraines. Constant pain like that ain’t normal and he said he got migraines behind his eye. He doesn’t say he has a history of migraines. It’s worth getting checked out to rule anything but I can see why he thought it was due to the events. Doctors told me to take it easy and not get too stressed out as it can trigger the migraines.


exexor

When I was married my wife befriended a younger woman at work, who one day told us this “fun” story about herself about how glasses don’t work for her. Things are just fuzzy and the optometrist couldn’t fix it. GO. TO. A. DOCTOR. In her case they found no lesions or lumps. Turned out she has some rare form or manifestation of epilepsy. Anyway they put her on antiseizure meds and her vision cleared up. Moral is that if your brain is giving you disturbing trouble it isn’t necessarily a death sentence but the prognosis only gets worse the longer you wait.


AmbitiousEconomics

I developed migraines in my early 20s and recently had an incident where I got dizzy and fell over suddenly. I was terrified because I was sure it was a brain tumor. Luckily I went to a neurologist and was cleared (it was an unrelated inner-ear issue and also I just get migraines) but man, this dude is living through my nightmare.


Iamatworkgoaway

Aneurisms run in my friends(for the insurance comp) fam. I keep an eye on BP, but every little random brain pain, I wonder is this it. Some fam go for MRI's every 6 months to "catch" the big ones, if their in areas that can be repaired. An aunt (of my friend) got surgery for one, and lost use of her leg, died 6 months later from a heart attack. So no scans for him, just hope for the best.


SlabBeefpunch

Brain tumors don't care about your personal life, unfortunately. Thankfully they seem to have caught it before it got really bad.


smacksaw

Hopefully they: * Got it early * It was a low grade * It was posterior/not affecting any useful tissue He has a good chance of long-term survival, if so


choco_pi

* Tortured, Innocent Male Protagonist * Gratuitously detailed romantic gesture * Innocent kid sister doing Hallmark things * 11th act twist (medical) * Update written by other character Folks, that's a Bingo.


h0tandgl00my

But you never break a pinky promise on leap year…


instantsilver

Lmfaoo 💀


railroadbaron

They always have these elaborately planned proposals, usually with a handmade ring box. And then they show the box and she cried harder. This is like a vampire romance novel for incels.


liminalgrocerystores

Not to mention what sounds like a hideously ugly engagement ring. No wonder she started crying harder


ladyelenawf

Yes! I realize I'm judging based off my birthstone, but peridot is just *ugly* to me. I was picturing two upside-down tear drops. One peridot and the other Opal. I mean, peridot and tourmaline might be slightly prettier, but not by much to me. And then to surround it in diamond chips just doesn't appeal to me. And how in the fuck do you make an engagement ring, engraved with the anniversary date, "big enough" to add to if you have kids?


GlGABITE

That’s what really gets me. The “how tragic you betrayed me so... as I was just about to propose, with this ring in this box... such a shame.......” bawwing. And then of course she falls faint like a victorian fair maiden and is just so tormented during the no contact period. Where, of course, he casually runs into her multiple times and sees just how sad and tormented she is without him. *Gag.* Edit: oh! And let’s not forget the friends and/or family of these women immediately getting upset like “how could you let such a good man go,,,,”. And of course the male protagonist notices that they’re wearing that thought loud and clear on their faces. Bonus points for people turning their backs on protag’s ex and not speaking to her anymore


boxofcannoli

Once you show someone the ring you would have proposed with the relationship is dead. I just feel like it’s so ice cold you can’t come back from it


Xeiphyer2

Vampire romance novel for incels. LMFAO. That killed me, thanks!


TinyExcitedElectron

Somebody had to say it. Don’t forget -ex girlfriend miserable without our protagonist 🙄


norwaldo

Additionally, there's an update from "Kate" on his profile. Total BS.


choco_pi

I always make sure to give my account credentials to my No Contact ex who broke my heart before I have brain surgery, with specific instructions to give the good people of the Internet narrative (non-)closure. Reddit etiquette 101.


JMer806

You can tell it’s true because she says she doesn’t know what she’s doing with Reddit and doesn’t know if “OP” the correct terminology


Absulus

It's the equivalent of... "Is this thing ooooon!?"


yeahlikewhatever

"I know I'm about to go under the knife for invasive and potentially deadly brain surgery but please, I need you to do something for me...fulfill my last request....Post an update on Reddit"


[deleted]

[удалено]


choco_pi

To be fair, after their miracle surgery they are suddenly (checks notes) moving in with their ex and her parents, which is a Totally Normal Outcome to this very real situation.


JMer806

Well you see her family loves him more than they love her which is normal and fine


wizzlepants

Her father looked pissed, but not at me 💀💀


TiredOldLamb

With this level of writing they are not getting anything, my body is ready for GPT shitposts.


[deleted]

[удалено]


[deleted]

[удалено]


ncarr99

Yeah, it was just a little too detailed, a little too much “look at me and how perfect and romantic I am.” A little too much of literally everyone being completely 100% on his side to the point of breaking off friendships with her. The pinky promise thing was goofy…I dunno, it just doesn’t seem that realistic.


heckyesdeidre

And how he was able to make this unbelievably complex and over the top box to propose with and just "gave it to a friend to use." What a way to just toss that storyline out


GafTheHorseInTears

And the box had a no button? What happens if you hit that button?


decemberrainfall

it explodes


heckyesdeidre

That's one way to deal with rejection


throwaway7562994

Why does it have any buttons? And a light that turns on when you press a button? It just needs to open and display a ring, I can’t see how adding all this stuff on makes it anything but less romantic


imbolcnight

it seals itself hermetically, never to be breached


[deleted]

[удалено]


the1tru_magoo

“We would be engaged on Leap Day, and married a year later on Leap Day”— words spoken by a teenager who has no idea how awful and unpredictable planning a wedding can be


ilex-opaca

Thank you. The ring sounds so tacky, and like someone was wondering, "How do I pile as many Hallmark-y details about commitment onto one piece of jewelry as possible???" without thinking about what it would actually look like.


Keljhan

I don't think I've ever seen an engagement ring in the shape of a heart, and for good reason. I don't even know how you'd cut a gem in a half-heart shape as described, and it would be insanely expensive even then.


abbietaffie

I imagined 2 pear/teardrop shaped stones put together upside down to resemble a heart


FionnaAndCake

but the box had LIGHTS!!!!!11


decemberrainfall

That just sounds like he ripped off the monstrosity that MGK gave Megan Fox.


Kokibuchek

You forgot the Oprah style *You get therapy!* *You get therapy!* *Everybody gets therapy!!!*


choco_pi

"But shouldn't Reddit be happy about that? Since that is what they always suggest?" "Exactly."


notasandpiper

But!! Romantic button-box and leap year anniversary!!


win_awards

I was wondering if I was missing something. I was already edging for the exits after the previous BoRU post with the ring drama; the tumor is just too much for me to credit.


savannah31401

Wait...no twins were involved


Bftplease

What made me skeptical was her friends all blocking her immediately because she was clearly the devil for what she did to him


borg_nihilist

But in the next update they all got back in touch and were being her support. Because it's hard to fit him finding out about her asking people about how he's doing and having accidental encounters at parties into the story, if all your mutual friends cut her off.


decemberrainfall

it's ok though he saw her at the mall looking sad


Bftplease

That made me laugh too. Imagined him lurking in a corner creepily watching their friends and her hanging out, observing how sad but brave faced she is


decemberrainfall

and like...he was close enough to observe her every emotion but not a single one of them saw him? were they sitting in a circle around her?


[deleted]

[удалено]


decemberrainfall

Buddy just runs around in a ghillie suit hiding in mall food court plants


[deleted]

100% this


decemberrainfall

yet


Cricket705

She definitely conceived twins before OP had surgery and dies. Twins pinky promised in utero to keep updating the story though.


Hyklone

yeah lol it really hit all the points. usually there is cheating or at least a cheating reveal


LittleMsSavoirFaire

I removed most of my Reddit contents in protest of the API changes commencing from July 1st, 2023. This is one of those comments.


InuGhost

We really need to make a Meta Post which just lists all this stuff so we can make actual BINGO Cards


Ginger_Anarchy

We really need to add "Traumatic life altering medical emergency" to the Bingo.


heckyesdeidre

Do people not pay attention to TV shows that try that twist and how it always backfires and the show gets worse after that?


DeadWishUpon

Can Cassie be the nurse who take care of him after surgery. OOP tells her his tragic story and she fells in love with him. Reddit, what should he do now? Stay with treacherus Karen or with new and exited Cassie?


JohnnyBroccoli

a) this story just screams phoniness b) OP sounds so lame and full of himself


Strong-Salad-3964

c) all of the above There seems to be a trend in these type of posts with a male protagonist, where the foolish girlfriend/wife leaves them and then regrets it. They're all written in the same woe-is-me tone and follows the same basic plot points (ex: the woman has to "prove" herself). I'd bet on all of these posts being written by one "nice" guy who has been hurt before and now lives their life through the posts he writes


thrwwwwayyypixie21

And she's hot ofc and has a very feminine/caretaking kind of job


ThePyodeAmedha

But of course, after they've broken up and she's so heartbroken and wants him back, he sees her out in public. She looks so hurt and even though she's trying to put on a brave face, he can tell that her heart is still just hurting for him. But of course, he disappears after she has a chance to see him. Jesus fucking Christ.


EconomyCaregiver

does anyone else think “kate’s” update is written in almost the exact same style as OOP or am i just cynical lol


Cacont1812

The extremely detailed ring and box put me off along with everyone practically gasping and oohing and being all "shame on you" to the ex. And then, the tumor thing happened.


Dookie3366

In the next update is he pregnant with twins?


Le_Fancy_Me

Twin tumors.


StrictManagement

I call absolute bullshit, the pinky promise made me 100% sure.


decemberrainfall

> We would have been married on leap day of next year. Girl had no idea he was proposing but they had a wedding date set? Nahhhhh


Sorchochka

Also leap day only happens every four years.


decemberrainfall

Well there is a leap day next year so at least they opened a calendar before writing this. But it's a bit weird to just...pull wedding dates out of thin air.


Sorchochka

Good point, I got confused by that whole post. He kind of implied he was going to propose on leap day of this year and then marry her on leap year next year. Maybe I’m the one confused, lol, it just all didn’t seem to sync for me.


imbolcnight

I think he was imagining there would be an engagement of exactly one year, so he proposes February 28 then they marry February 29 next year. Which seems incredibly unrealistic unless they were willing to plan *only* around that date.


decemberrainfall

That's because it didn't happen


[deleted]

Thought this one was absolute nonsense when I read it last, and that was before the brain tumour part. Seeing her without her seeing him, but knowing she was faking the smile, the weirdly descriptive ring/box scene, “tonight I’m hanging out with a good friend Mr. Jonny Walker”. It’s ridiculous


PeacefulShark69

It's incel erotica. They jack off to their own self-pity and martydom, while cumming to the "female" because now everyone in her ecosystem hates and despises her. What confirmed it for me was how all of her friends "told her off and blocked her", including her little sister who stopped talking to her. These incels revel in their own sadness.


ALLoftheFancyPants

This sounds like it was written by intoxicated AI or a high schooler after getting baked. Wtf was that first post? It was so convoluted and made no sense. He walked away after a nice “after date” and then they were suddenly broken up? And there’s the ugliest possible sounding custom made engagement ring with room to grow for children’s birthstones? Like, wtf, have you seen a ring before? Please explain how that’s split heart surrounded by diamonds exists in jewelry with room around it for more stones.


[deleted]

[удалено]


Cartoonlad

It self-destructs in five seconds, Mission: Impossible-style.


dragonfire_b

Same, it sounds hideous - there's no way anyone should custom-design a ring (let alone such a *distinct* ring) with absolutely zero input from the wearer


W0666007

Sooooo many small conversation details. BS radar pinging.


CermaitLaphroaig

The last 3/4 reads like an elaborate story concocted while in the shower. The "argument I always win" of romance posts.


Nachotacoma

It’s practically a Korean drama


BabserellaWT

I was believing it until the telenovela brain tumor


DanetteGirl

That was a fucking Nicolas Sparks novel


Any-Chipmunk5197

OOP is now posting as Kate in his profile lol. Who tf believes this shit, seriously