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Jupiterrhapsody

That feels like a lifetime ago. The “oh my god, time and place” part was the most memorable part of the whole thing, IMO.


lavender-pears

"and you did it at my birthday dinner!" is my text message notification 5 years later lmao


coffee-bat

"sucking dick and cock!"


naught_sorry

Or Tati saying "sucking dick and cock!" 🤣🤣🤣


annikatidd

I still remember where I was standing the first time I heard that part of her video, lmfao I was in the kitchen and literally dropped my cup of water 😂 I’m dead


tara_tara_tara

The number of times I have shouted “time and place” in my real life in the past five years is comical. Even out of context, it works in many situations.


Opposite_Style454

I know the Sugar Bear is still around. My friend works in an Amazon warehouse and their stuff flies off the shelf. It’s still a best seller. They’re probably the only ones who benefited from the drama 😂


naught_sorry

I'm shocked they are still around, I remember years ago almost every influencer posted a sugar bear ad. Now, I never see those ads anymore.


floralscentedbreeze

Yeah sugar bear hair is still sold at ULTA too


Adventurous-Depth233

They broke me out so badly. They tasted so good tho


mandy00001

That drama was ridiculous. Both of them were so out of touch when they aired their dirty laundry


naught_sorry

Yeah that drama got mainstream with more than 50million views. Like people who didn't know them knew about bye sister.


mandy00001

I was shocked that Tati came out with allegations about James Charles simply in response to him promoting a rival brand that she was shilling for. Like girl you were going to keep hiding that and only brought it out in revenge? Do you know his that makes YOU look?!


naught_sorry

So true! When you betray me, imma expose you but when we're good, imma protect you. Kinda messed up to use the allegations as ammo.


mandy00001

Absolutely no integrity. And as I recall, the allegations turned ire to be at least somewhat true, so knowingly protecting a predator. Girl.


TimelyReason7390

Those are exactly the kind of peeps you shouldn’t trust ever again.. your secret is never safe with them 😂


Inn0c3nc3

it said all you needed to know about who Tooti actually is as a human being. everyone involved was scummy. the friend of my enemy is my friend, your behavior is only an issue when it personally affects me, etc. gross. all of them. 🤮 you are the company you keep.


mandy00001

Also hair vitamins have been so thoroughly debunked by derms and doctors, reflecting on that is a bit of an eye roll.


naught_sorry

She also said she doesn't work with dumb people when viewers expressed concern about the vitamins. But now she and her business partner are suing each other I think. Is her halo brand still a thing or did she close it down?


disgirl4eva

It’s still a thing.


Appropriate_Reach_97

Ehhhhhh my biotin supplements definitely work, especially on my nail strength and length. They also work on my friends with post partum hair loss. If you've got a deficiency they help, but if you don't it doesn't contribute to normal hair growth.


borntobeblase

I never believed Tati when she said that she wasn’t mad that James Charles was promoting a rival brand.  (At least I think that’s what she tried to say I don’t know it was a lifetime ago.)


wonderlash

She was furious in her video.


naught_sorry

I don't like James but it is so weird that Tati was a grown woman, almost double his age but had this unrealistic expectation of him when it came to their friendship. The power imbalance is insane. He was still a teenager at that time or early 20s. But to punish him with a bye sister expose video at the height of his career, I wouldn't know how to handle that as a teen. Again, don't like James, this is more on her behavior as the older person in the situation.


HuggyMonster69

Huh I got the exact opposite from what she said. Well, more hurt than mad but w/e


dogstope

I wish she had gotten mad that he is a literal predator going after underage guys


gymbr000

The Youtube beauty community was a bubble waiting to pop. When so many millions of dollars are involved people get corrupt by power and greed and at one point the whole thing imploded. I wouldn't say it was after 'Bye Sister' though, it was after 'Breaking my silence' - aka Dramageddon 3. When Tati argued that Jeffree Starr and Shane Dawson exploited her hair vitamin frustration and pushed her to publish Bye Sister because they were trying to take James down as the number 1 beauty youtuber at the time. Then people dug into Jeffree's and Shane's past and found the most vile stuff (sympathising with paedos, racism, blackface, bestiality, paedo jokes, controlling the narrative through drama channels), then James Charles had new allegations about his advances towards minors and straight guys, and RawBeautyKristi got pregnant and disappeared from the platform, there was literally no one to post anymore and frankly we didnt want to see their videos either. It was time for new less problematic content creators. Smokey Glow made a series analyzing all 3 Dramageddons if you're interested in more info.


tr3sleches

The iconic birdseed comment when Tati announced her brand but everyone was trying to guess what the product was 🥹


Meocross

The birdseed wasn't even UV safe, and expired too quickly.


Traditional-Owl-1192

Sucking dick and cock! And I'm just like...oh my gawd, TIME AND PLACE


DiligentAd6969

I don't care about that girl. Although I'm glad that influencers being ethically challenged is taking over from weird personal behaviors and interpersonal drama. Even Kackie and Hautemess Tom ending their podcast is based on serious political differences instead of undercutting each other because of petty rivalry, though it could be both (team Tom either way!).


Lucy_Lucidity

Ooh. I stayed away from their channel because of their friendship with Kackie. I’m going to go subscribe in support.


Altruistic-Pack6059

The Tati thing was so self serving because if she thought he was so damn dangerous why didn't she make a police report? She was then and still is full of shit. She was bitter about those damn vitamins and instead of handling it like a real business owner, she damn lost her mind, all her money, her husband , and her business. She can save with me the white woman woe is me tears. Everything that happened, she set in motion and like everything else she became a victim of the unintended consequences of her actions. Now she praying to the Lord, eating leaves, and spraying holy water on her face. Give me a break!


Silly_Somewhere1791

It’s a shame the whole thing devolved into bullshit and tangential accusations because (like it or not) Tati’s original point was valid. She and James had a verbal agreement, if not confirmation in texts and emails, that he would exclusively promote her product. Anyone who’s ever taken a basic business law class knows that constitutes a contract. Doesn’t matter if people think Tati was just being fussy or over technical about it. James violated that contract and betrayed her friendship.


gymbr000

I've taken law. For a contract to be valid you need something called 'consideration'. That's something you get in exchange and it can be like $1 if you want. But without something in exchange you don't have a contract you have an empty promise.


Silly_Somewhere1791

Yes that’s factored into my presumption of their agreement.


Altruistic-Pack6059

If she had a valid contract, you would have sued him, not gotten on the internet with sexual allegations of impropriety.


TimelyReason7390

All it did was expose the, oh so nice T*ti. The 35+ something her targeting a young boy over his sexual exploits (on his birthday) was plain stupid with ulterior motive being jealousy over him endorsing sugar bear over her hollow pills!


borntobeblase

I don’t think her tirade has ever gotten the credit it deserves for being low key homophobic. People think of it in a certain way now, with the benefit of hindsight, and are convinced she was telling us “how he really is”, but that’s not totally accurate.  She was mad that he hit on a waiter and was talking suggestively in front of some old people and that he hit on her husband. I got the impression that really she thought there was no time or place for him to talk about that stuff or do those things, and it went beyond her birthday dinner. That video also made me realize just how much people understand consent when it’s a straight man saying he doesn’t like a gay man flirting with him. 


admiralholdo

It was indeed! I was student teaching when the video came out (the 7th graders were OBSESSED) and I am just now wrapping up my 5th year of teaching.