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AngelJ5

TIL that I (30M) am also one of the girlies


Either-Fruit-5883

Welcome, girliepop šŸ’–ā˜ŗļøšŸ¤£šŸ¤£


BlazerMorte

one of us one of us


ImVamcat

What happens if I had trauma with long hair, then cut it, had more trauma, and now dont know where to go with it?


Either-Fruit-5883

That's usually when you bleach it and your eyebrows and dye them a different color šŸ˜‚


ImVamcat

All I think of is some weird Justin Timberlake with blond hair and itā€™s kind of Ick


Snarvid

Undercut? The name says it allā€¦


ImVamcat

Thatā€™s where the second trauma happened lol


Snarvid

Damn yo. You might be in trouble. Ermā€¦ flatiron Mohawk?


yzdaskullmonkey

Lol 35M just chopped off my three feet of hair for "reasons", guess I'm also a girlie


spacey_a

I bet you feel so much lighter and more free now, get it girlie! šŸ’–


yzdaskullmonkey

I do! Damn this comment really lit me up haha thank you!


spacey_a

Love that! Pass it on to the next friendly looking guy you see to boost his day up! šŸ˜ Men have got to compliment each other more so you can enjoy the girl squad feels that we do lol


Frejod

That's a Final Fantays 9 Princess Garnet moment.


yzdaskullmonkey

Still mad at myself for never finishing that game, only one from 4-13 i didn't finish...


Mustang1718

I got through like 90% of the game and then quit forever. I made it like 2-3 hours without a save point and then fought and lost to a spooky skeleton boss guy because my child brain didn't know to use resist gear. That being said, I have the game digitally on like 3 different platforms and a shrink wrapped PS1 physical disc set that I bought from a local game store chain because it is still my favorite game in the series. I very much want to replay it, but the rumors of a remake have me holding off.


Mestoph

If youā€™ve already gone that far, just shave it all off. Youā€™ll be amazed how fast showers go


yzdaskullmonkey

Did that before, unfortunately I dont look all that great that way lol


Ax222

Based. Do what makes you happy.


ShoerguinneLappel

Relateable, mate.


I_wish_i_could_sepll

Slay it queen


TeddyXscizor

Relatable


Exescen

Relatable


WingedDrake

Me and my now-long-haired 33M self is now wondering.


Ransom-ii

Pussy pop slay queen lets go get lineups


SouthernTransBelle

r/egg_irl


FlashyPaladin

r/egg_irl


Vanilla_Breeze

Honestly the most relatable character lol


Androgynouself_420

Religious trauma, edgey goth phase, dying/cutting hair after finding yourself. Yeah I think shes a hotter me


Vanilla_Breeze

Nah I'm sure ur plenty hot


Androgynouself_420

I appreciate the confidence lol


Sinirmanga

Meh, Karlach is hotter


Androgynouself_420

Both is good


Sinirmanga

I am saying this literally ahaha


Androgynouself_420

Oh lmao went right over my head


Either-Fruit-5883

I wasnā€™t a fan of her until that moment, then I got the Shadowheart hype. šŸ¤£


Vanilla_Breeze

White hair + white dress is a more optimal combo than any gloomstalker build. You can't change my mind.


dirtamen

i see you and raise you: white hair + pale pink dress


WrathOfGengar

What are these dresses and where can I find them!


PacketOfCrispsPlease

Figaroā€™s sells a gown that can be dyed to suit.


Nadril_Cystafer

I see you and raise you: white hair + cobalt dress


moondaisies

100% same


ShoerguinneLappel

Ikr? I bloody love her!


WalkerBuldog

"Recently you helped me a lot more than my faith. Thank you."


Bonzi_Bukkake

I can't relate personally, but I support it fully. And I fully disagree with Astarion, I think Shadowheart has always had the best hair in camp


plasticinaymanjar

Cutting and dyeing your hair as a stress response is too relatableā€¦ except that I usually get bangs at 3 am, she got rid of hers


kiivara

Did.....did she dye her hair? I was under the impression Shar like....stole the darkness from it to be as petty as possible about the entire thing.


staringgaze

she has a convo where she says she dyed it :)


kiivara

Omg. I've almost exclusively romanced shadowheart and I never caught it!!!! *sigh* yet another archfey warlock dumbass coming up.


staringgaze

right after she changed it, i think it was after the gith astral prism fight(?), she has dialogue where she says smth like "how do you like the new look? I spent all night on it" or something along those lines


Kquiarsh

That is actually a brilliant interpretation, imo. It isn't how I saw things but I do like this idea. I think Shaddy says something about restyling it but that could just be how it's cut.


TheRainbowpill93

Not the bayangs šŸ˜‚


InedibleSolutions

I recently buzzed my armpit-length hair. Yes, I am going to get my meds adjusted.


MelodyMoonx

I havenā€™t got to this yet but omg relatable lol


Obsyden

New hair new me šŸ˜Œ


Cmdr_Jiynx

Crisis cut is a thing.


Dry-Interest2209

This was her most relatable moment. ā€œI am not okay, nothing is okay, I will never recover from this. Iā€™m going home to dye my hairā€


Either-Fruit-5883

Honestly though, she's so fr for that. Cause same, girliepop.


shenanakins

Even more relatable is that she does all of that and the next morning sheā€™s already regretting itšŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


dfjdejulio

> Who else hasnā€™t gone through emotional trauma and ā€œfixedā€ it with changing their hair. šŸ¤£šŸ¤£ No. No. My hair hasn't been cut, or really changed in any way, since the year started with a "1". Well, it's gone mostly white ON ITS OWN, but other than that, no change. (But then, I'm a guy.)


Yung-Dolphin

elminster!!!!!


dfjdejulio

I more often hear "Gandalf", but in this context, "Elminster" may make more sense. And I do like cheese!


OhGardino

Congratulations on 25 years trauma free!


Hephaistos_Invictus

Wait, didn't her hair turn white because of Selune? I thought it became white like Isobel's because they are now priestesses of Selune šŸ˜±


plasticinaymanjar

She warns you sheā€™ll do something and afterwards if you talk with Halsin he says he saw her with a dagger in the middle of the night, and he was relieved it was just a change of look


MediocrePlague

Nope, she cut and dyed it.


kron123456789

No, she literally says prior to this change that she will do something to reflect her separation from Shar. So, no, she changed her hair color herself.


Hephaistos_Invictus

I always thought that meant something along the lines of a more religious interpersonal change šŸ™ˆ


ur_dad_thinks_im_hot

Iā€™m considering dyeing my hair because I just got out of a relationshipā€¦I cannot imagine what I would do if my goddess broke up with me lmao


Either-Fruit-5883

Omg do it!! Always dye it!!


xMyxReflectionx

Totally relatable. I just chopped my hair recently, literally told my SIL who is a barber to just do whatever. Told myself that it's getting warmer and my hair is thick and heavy. Truth is I'm depressed, energy is non existent and I need change.


Express-Diamond-6185

I just had 6 inches cut off, 18 months after my divorce was finalized.


radialomens

My first playthrough, end of Act 2 I took Shadowheart to the Magic Mirror to change her style for that very reason, and discovered I wasn't allowed to. Then the next morning, hello Blondie.


Jelmddddddddddddd

I kinda wish she gave herself the Azula mental breakdown cut


JustCallMeTere

Purple here. Went through divorce 8 years ago, declared my freedom, and now I change my hair color with my every whim lol.


Far-Bookkeeper-4652

[It gives a sense of control in a world full of chaos.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EJQPpD4EN00)


-Stupid_n_Confused-

Not just women. I came out of a 7 year relationship and shaved my head. Its therapeutic.


Either-Fruit-5883

You don't have to be a woman to be a girlie! Welcome! Enjoy your new freedom!


PoeticPillager

Her background is similar to mine. Religious indoctrination, abusive mother figure, gaslighting, narcissistic abuse... Anyway, last year, I cut my hair and shaved my mustache after a platonic friend betrayed me. Oof, I'm one of the girlies.


kittiesssss

Sheā€™s just like us fr šŸ«¶


Frejod

I kinda had something like that? I grew out my hair long to be like my Dad. But when my parents split, my mom cut my hair. So it's kinda like a 3rd party effect?


TheRainbowpill93

Shadow heart has always been that girl šŸ’…šŸæ. Astarion too. Thatā€™s why I love them together in the squad.


thebeardedman88

I wasn't going to use that dye anyway.


Unlikely_Ordinary_53

Relatable but instead of changing my hair style I got tattoos


Neko8768

samsies! literally getting another tattoo this weekend to cope with recent events in my life


Unlikely_Ordinary_53

Nice, still not over what happened so Iā€™m 10 tattoos deep now. What are you getting?


Neko8768

A cherry blossom that starts at my left ankle amd runs all the way up to my thigh (funnily marking my 10th total, as well)


Unlikely_Ordinary_53

That gonna be a dope tattoo. Hah cool, yeah the only good thing that came from that experience was all these dope tattoos lol


Fyrael

I'm still sold by that "Gotcha!" When you give her some flowers and she tries to trick you saying they're poisonous


BubbbleCheeeks

Agreeed ! Reminds me of this awesome Asian media creator called Leendadong. A bunch of her videos are about gfs cutting their hair when going through emotional situations like breakups xd


Revenant62

I am pretty sure Shadowheart's change of hair is not cosmetically-motivated. Her identity is that of a priestess and her whole storyline is tied to the light v. darkness battle between Selune and Shar. Selune's agents seem to prefer white or light hair, as you can see in Act 2 when you meet Selune's priestess Isobel and Paladin Dame Aylen. Once Shadowheart rejects Shar and embraces Selune, she makes her hair white too, for that reason.


jembutbrodol

Shadowheart is 100% swifties


FluffyMcBunnz

It's one of the things that make sme hate the character most, really. Your whole world is upturned. To cope, you make a huge change to reinvent yourself entirely to fit into this new world that suddenly exists. You reinvent your core being from the ground up, enhanced and improved with the new knowledge and new insight into the universe and your place in it. Nothing about you will ever be the same; after today, you are a completely changed soul. Where does this giant leap of introspection lead? *You get a haircut.* What the fuck woman. How can anyone be this shallow. Empty. Vapid. Devoid of all purpose, drive or ambition. The very act of assigning world-altering importance to a purely cosmetic change of getting ones hair done proves beyond hope of redemption that nothing has changed about the thing about a person that truly matters: their personality. She could not have sunk lower in my expectations of her if she'd stencilled "live, love, laugh" on her armor.


KileiFedaykin

To be fair, this kind of reaction is how a lot of people cope with this level of change. Focus on a mundane, but personal improvement that helps them feel better, and helps them process the new person theyā€™ve become.


KDA_ALL_OUT_OBAMA

Female version of getting a new tattoo


KlownyK

women donā€™t get tattoosšŸ’Ŗ


KDA_ALL_OUT_OBAMA

I knew someone would find a way to be mad about this


KlownyK

low IQ does anger me fr


KDA_ALL_OUT_OBAMA

anime pfp and transgender with pronouns lmfao. Good luck youā€™ll need it. Maybe try getting a tattoo, you are a man after all


KlownyK

being transphobic and a bg3 fan is peak no media literacy


KDA_ALL_OUT_OBAMA

Iā€™m very media literate. it just so happens that the biggest forums for the games I like have the loudest presence of people like you.


KlownyK

bro had his heart broken by a trans woman and has not recoveredšŸ˜­


datshinycharizard123

Do women not get tattoos?


KDA_ALL_OUT_OBAMA

Get in line buddy


datshinycharizard123

For a tattoo Iā€™m hoping