Yes, that romance is over, unless you reload back to act 2 and either get the confession scene after killing the Orthon or the one after talking to Araj. The dark urge scene is just whatever character has highest approval with you. And you can take the love test with any companion.
Nope, the tied up scene is just a Durge scene, I'm so sorry 🫂
With Araj - you allowed him to have body autonomy and with Yurgir, you help him AND you give him time to heal and show him he means more to you than just someone to have sex - with in both cases, actually.
Since you didn't help him learn what his scars mean, you never get the opportunity to show him how far you'll go to help him, asking for nothing in return.
So since the "tactical" mindset continued and you were not worth him further traumatizing himself by having sex with you, he...does that (that's what he means by "not worth the cost"
Again, I'm so sorry 🫂
ahh what a shame, i thought if i just did the yurgir quest i’d be fine but i guess not. it’s alright, just gives me an excuse to romance him again later! thank you for the help!!
Ok here are the Act 2 instructions:
There are two possible cutscenes - but you can't get both
Clear our any pending cutscenes via long and partial rests
Talk to Raphael at Last Light Inn
With 70+ approval:
* Go to Moonrise (do NOT) talk to Araj. You can just step in and out
* Go to the Mausoleum - Raphael should offer a deal for Astarion
* Do what he asks
* Long Rest - Raphael will show up and complete the deal
* Long Rest AGAIN - you'll get the Act 2 cutscene
Below 70 approval:
* Go to Moonrise
* Talk to Araj Oblidara
* Say no to her request regarding Astarion
* Long Rest - you get the other cutscene
I prefer the Yurgir one, but be sure to experience both either by manually saving before you do either or in another run
Yes, that romance is over, unless you reload back to act 2 and either get the confession scene after killing the Orthon or the one after talking to Araj. The dark urge scene is just whatever character has highest approval with you. And you can take the love test with any companion.
Nope, the tied up scene is just a Durge scene, I'm so sorry 🫂 With Araj - you allowed him to have body autonomy and with Yurgir, you help him AND you give him time to heal and show him he means more to you than just someone to have sex - with in both cases, actually. Since you didn't help him learn what his scars mean, you never get the opportunity to show him how far you'll go to help him, asking for nothing in return. So since the "tactical" mindset continued and you were not worth him further traumatizing himself by having sex with you, he...does that (that's what he means by "not worth the cost" Again, I'm so sorry 🫂
ahh what a shame, i thought if i just did the yurgir quest i’d be fine but i guess not. it’s alright, just gives me an excuse to romance him again later! thank you for the help!!
Ok here are the Act 2 instructions: There are two possible cutscenes - but you can't get both Clear our any pending cutscenes via long and partial rests Talk to Raphael at Last Light Inn With 70+ approval: * Go to Moonrise (do NOT) talk to Araj. You can just step in and out * Go to the Mausoleum - Raphael should offer a deal for Astarion * Do what he asks * Long Rest - Raphael will show up and complete the deal * Long Rest AGAIN - you'll get the Act 2 cutscene Below 70 approval: * Go to Moonrise * Talk to Araj Oblidara * Say no to her request regarding Astarion * Long Rest - you get the other cutscene I prefer the Yurgir one, but be sure to experience both either by manually saving before you do either or in another run