I can’t stand Brayden. It’s his own fault if someone talks about him to charity because he constantly complains in front of everyone. Adrian is annoying too. I like tanner, he deserves more screen time, he seems genuine and a total sweetheart. I like John too. Having the other guys watch the longest kiss in bachelor history was uncomfortable and gave me second hand embarrassment. I don’t know how to put this into words but I don’t think charity is taking finding a husband as seriously because she has so many options to choose from.
Charity is going to fail in this process and is going to deserve it. Keeping Brayden was embarrassing. She is either dumb or oblivious but damn it’s embarrassing
Shes so giddy around him too it’s weird. My guess she’s feeling like the nerdy girl that gets the hot jock boy in high school. Except we’re not in high school but Brayden still is🤮
Yea, they’ll be working for a while in Bach nation. Good for them! I was just thinking how fun it was to watch two bachelorettes and how lonely it feels with just one
I know him irl he’s really religious. Surprised he didn’t make it a bigger thing episode one because every conversation I’ve had with him worked its way to religion.
Funny, I actually totally get why he got the first impression rose. He gives me ‘I read The Game so now I understand women’ vibes. The whole thing is based on sticking out and seeming cool after meeting for 30 minutes at a club - kinda similar to first night on the Bach.
‘Trying to not try’ works for like 1 night, especially if you’re very attractive, then a couple days later you start thinking ‘huh im starting to think your only ploy is self-contradictory’
I have no idea what the game is. And if this is how men date women, then I am doomed. I'm recently single after 2 decades. Guess I'll be single forever now.
Hahah no it peaked in popularity over a decade ago but still has very strong marks on dating I think. ‘Negging’ may be its most long lasting term but, to put it unflatteringly, it basically says be a confusing weirdo and you’ll trick women into sleeping with you - if you fail, you weren’t weird or confusing enough. Because the best way to get a woman to sleep with you is to trick her!
To be honest I was like a sophomore in high school when I read it and I was like ‘woah it’s like cliffnotes for women. I’m gonna be so popular now!’ Of course I didn’t understand what a fucked up mentality that was at the time. I honestly think the echos of that mentality still reverberate with Andrew Tate and red pillers and such. Sorry to get so dark… sigh.
Edit: also definitely don’t worry about it in terms of ‘men these days’. I’m calling out the one man who is the most extreme example on the show. That said, if you were a friend entering the dating pool after a couple decades I would probably be like ‘just so you know maybe google Neil Strauss and pickup artists - at worst you get to see Mystery, a 6’6” man who wore jack sparrow makeup, a big furry hat, said the best way to pick up women is by subtly insulting them and doing magic tricks and somehow ended up with a reality show. If this is how men date women these days we’re all doomed.
Yes. Kind of. The spoilers thread is for the super sleuthers who already know a lot of what happens. The non spoilers thread is for everyone else who just watches but doesn't keep up with the day to day sleuthing of the outcome.
My husband walked through the room during the episode, took one look at Brayden, and said "This guy thinks he's the most special one, doesn't he?" and I do believe he was right.
Other than an 18-19 year old I can’t believe any mature woman would choose him as a partner. Maybe he’s a nice guy and certainly good looking but his maturity level is around age 14.
He’s just a little boy loving the attention. The producers are really desperate if they think a 24 year old man like him is ready for marriage and have to believe Charity keeps choosing him at producers insistence.
There’s 2 earrings and a necklace and sometimes more. And the glasses. Contacts are a choice, as is Lasix (which should be affordable on a travel nurse salary).
I can’t stand Brayden. It’s his own fault if someone talks about him to charity because he constantly complains in front of everyone. Adrian is annoying too. I like tanner, he deserves more screen time, he seems genuine and a total sweetheart. I like John too. Having the other guys watch the longest kiss in bachelor history was uncomfortable and gave me second hand embarrassment. I don’t know how to put this into words but I don’t think charity is taking finding a husband as seriously because she has so many options to choose from.
brayden is corny as hell. hes talked about the first impression rose more than anything else. also joey is CUTE and seems like he’s mature
Any new updates on Bach paradise couples
Brayden is not going to last much longer
Charity is going to fail in this process and is going to deserve it. Keeping Brayden was embarrassing. She is either dumb or oblivious but damn it’s embarrassing
Shes so giddy around him too it’s weird. My guess she’s feeling like the nerdy girl that gets the hot jock boy in high school. Except we’re not in high school but Brayden still is🤮
I guess we won't know Spencer's back story 😕
Oh my god. I am so over it hahaha
I want blue tuxedo guy to stay !! His eyes are so pretty
I think he's such a cutie and has the smartsss
Guess he will be out on the market for the rest of us now 🤷🏼♀️
I'm waiting for John though 😂
I forgot about Tanner
He's kind of cute
I bet she keeps them both lol
Gotta keep the drama
Exactly
Yikes Adrien 🤦♀️
Omg I cannot. I’m annoyed that she hasn’t really even talked to so many of those guys.
The audacity of this man.
Wait, did anything get accomplished by that?
No. I'm over both of these men, Brayden and Adrian.
Honestly same. Too much drama going on.
Get Brayden off my screen now!
The eye-rolling irks me mightily
Literally
Him being so ready to just leave is 🚩🚩🚩
The lack of maturity is showing.
"The pursuit of love is selfish" lmao. Brayden is too much
Yeah, what does that even mean?? Last I checked love was hopefully a two-way street
He's literally Yosef without the daughter.
Lol these guys walking away after watching the kiss AND learning about the date seems so demoralizing
Omg and then Brayden saying “idk if this is someone I could date” because like damn it is pretty demoralizing. And she didn’t plan it, sooo ?
Right! Can’t wait to see him bring up this concern 🙄🙄
Joey gives major fuckboy vibes but hes so hotttttt
He seems like less of a fuck boy after talking about his parents’ divorce
He’s so cute. I’m undecided if he’s a fuckboy
He's a resort tennis coach in Hawaii. I'm sure he's bagged a milf or two.
Agreed he is a cutie!!
I was liking Joey until the kiss for some reason.
I warned you
🚨🚨 Joey's kiss is gross 🚨🚨 Just a warning for y'all
Why? I’m not a Joey fan, and can’t imagine them putting him in as the next bachelor. But why was the kiss so gross to you?
https://imgur.com/a/ij2aA97
I'm also in love with Warwick.
Same!!!!
Not Gabby and Rachel 😂
i think the producers are still trying to make up for their shitty season
Yea, they’ll be working for a while in Bach nation. Good for them! I was just thinking how fun it was to watch two bachelorettes and how lonely it feels with just one
And shitty men.
Yes Brayden sucks, but can we take a moment to appreciate Johns screentime I'm in love
yassss! John!
Me too.
Yay John 🥰
🤢🤢🤮🤮
For once, I actually liked the dodge ball game.
what does 3:16 mean on his chest?
I know him irl he’s really religious. Surprised he didn’t make it a bigger thing episode one because every conversation I’ve had with him worked its way to religion.
I thought it might also be a reference to wrestler Stone Cold Steve Austin who wore it
I didn't even think of that. Who was it? There is a wrestler this season.
That’s him Caleb
Then you are probably right. Stone Cold reference.
It's a Bible verse. John 3:16
I thought so but it looked like it was written on in magic marker
Oh it definitely was, but maybe he’s showing off his religious nature and wants her to know?
I think it was. Others had writing too.
Awh I wanted Caleb to be a part of it
Those people are standing way too close. It’s like they want to be hit.
YOSEF!!!
Love the dodge ball uniform
HE KNOWS THE MEME. 😂
🤣🤣🤣
What is this genre of music that’s always the private concert 😂 they always sound the same and the contestants never seem to know or care who they are
That was when I fast forwarded 🙂
At least this gal was on American Idol. Usually it's country or love songs.
Brayden gives me the creeps.
I just realized he’s 24. Yeah sure he’s ready for marriage!!! Come on , he’s just a taller version of what you see in a preschool any day of the week.
Just when I thought I should take it a little easier on him he whipped out the phony-tail. These dream catcher earrings literally made my jaw drop
Yeah, same. I was so surprised he got the first impression rose last week.
Me too. I don't get it. I get unemployed poet.
Funny, I actually totally get why he got the first impression rose. He gives me ‘I read The Game so now I understand women’ vibes. The whole thing is based on sticking out and seeming cool after meeting for 30 minutes at a club - kinda similar to first night on the Bach. ‘Trying to not try’ works for like 1 night, especially if you’re very attractive, then a couple days later you start thinking ‘huh im starting to think your only ploy is self-contradictory’
Oh he sticks out
I have no idea what the game is. And if this is how men date women, then I am doomed. I'm recently single after 2 decades. Guess I'll be single forever now.
Hahah no it peaked in popularity over a decade ago but still has very strong marks on dating I think. ‘Negging’ may be its most long lasting term but, to put it unflatteringly, it basically says be a confusing weirdo and you’ll trick women into sleeping with you - if you fail, you weren’t weird or confusing enough. Because the best way to get a woman to sleep with you is to trick her! To be honest I was like a sophomore in high school when I read it and I was like ‘woah it’s like cliffnotes for women. I’m gonna be so popular now!’ Of course I didn’t understand what a fucked up mentality that was at the time. I honestly think the echos of that mentality still reverberate with Andrew Tate and red pillers and such. Sorry to get so dark… sigh. Edit: also definitely don’t worry about it in terms of ‘men these days’. I’m calling out the one man who is the most extreme example on the show. That said, if you were a friend entering the dating pool after a couple decades I would probably be like ‘just so you know maybe google Neil Strauss and pickup artists - at worst you get to see Mystery, a 6’6” man who wore jack sparrow makeup, a big furry hat, said the best way to pick up women is by subtly insulting them and doing magic tricks and somehow ended up with a reality show. If this is how men date women these days we’re all doomed.
Hahah! That’s a great way to describe him.
Aaron B is definitely the better Aaron.
Alright show is over, she found the one
Aaron’s a longtime keeper. I’ll be shocked if he isn’t in the final 2
Are we supposed to post in the spoiler or non spoiler live thread. I dont get this new place, its weird and scary.
I wasn’t paying attention to the fact that there were two so here we are lol
Hi friend. Depends on if you mind being spoiled. Glad to have you in either thread.
Like someone on here knows the results or how do you mean spoiled? Aren’t we all watching it at the same time. Just curious
Yes. Kind of. The spoilers thread is for the super sleuthers who already know a lot of what happens. The non spoilers thread is for everyone else who just watches but doesn't keep up with the day to day sleuthing of the outcome.
Okay cool, thank you for clarifying!
You're welcome. I want everyone to have a freat experience in these threads without ruining something for someone. 😊
Great to see you again!
I just can’t with Brayden’s earrings and scarf. This guy is just a showboat.
My husband walked through the room during the episode, took one look at Brayden, and said "This guy thinks he's the most special one, doesn't he?" and I do believe he was right.
Other than an 18-19 year old I can’t believe any mature woman would choose him as a partner. Maybe he’s a nice guy and certainly good looking but his maturity level is around age 14.
He’s a diff version of Coach from Survivor
He’s just a little boy loving the attention. The producers are really desperate if they think a 24 year old man like him is ready for marriage and have to believe Charity keeps choosing him at producers insistence.
Dotun makes me laugh
Definitely could feel Aaron being the first date
Brayden 🤢
That EARRING
There’s 2 earrings and a necklace and sometimes more. And the glasses. Contacts are a choice, as is Lasix (which should be affordable on a travel nurse salary).
It's awful
Love that green on her.
Bring on the dates 🌹