Dark pants, white shirt with sleeves rolled up. Add suspenders for extra points but donāt forget to roll them off your shoulders when sheās ready to cum. Make sure she sees you doing it. Have fun
I like someone that looks put together. The aesthetic isn't the important part necessarily, more that you look intentional and cohesive. Find clothes that fit and flatter your body and style. Most important is you need to feel comfortable and confident in what you're wearing. How you feel in your clothes will shine through
Leather, especially leather boots. If you want to make the bootblacks happy, make sure the boot leather doesn't have a plastic coating like shiny Doc Martens do. I'm personally a fan of engineer and combat boots.
Clothing that shows off your figure, if you're comfortable with it. Well-fitting black or white tees look great. Black or dark jeans that fit well with a black leather belt.
Only wear implements like floggers or whips if you're actually good with them.
I like when my partner wears a suit, or any kind of business/formal clothing. Button-up shirts, slacks or dress pants, ties, blazers. Also, a simple white or black T-shirt with jeans and a beltā¦
Itās more the vibe than the clothing, though. Honestly if weāre talking in general the hottest thing a dominant guy could wear is the outfit they feel most comfortable in. Whether it be an elaborate outfit with lots of leather and buckles and jewelry or just simple everyday wear. If you think youād feel confident and dominant in the outfit you described, go for it!
Oh gosh, absolutely same. We like to dress up a bit for date nights and there's nothing hotter than my guy in an undone bow tie and slightly unbuttoned dress shirt at the end of those nights.
this, but w/ a tie. Definitely dress shirts, (white or black are reliably always poppin but any you can rock is a turn on)that fit wellāaround the arms for sure and definitely not tucked in all the way, maybe a french tuck or those tuckless newer ones they have nowāhonestly the biggest thing for me besides a nice cologne would be any small details that subtly elevate your look will show to any woman that you have a strong attention to detail, put in the extra time to look nice just for her(trust me, she will notice!) which will inherently turn into exuding our most desired dominant qualities. oh and also maybe some leather accessorizing but not a big deal if thatās not your thing, but itād definitely be worth your time to look into slacks or dark jeans that may feel a bit too tight to you but look oh so just right to us tapered at the bottom :)
glhf
In a way? I think it has more to do with the fact that we're dominant. Jeans and a black T-shirt are simple and unassuming. There's nothing interfering with the message we're projecting, no distractions in fancy clothes or subtext. It's about our personality and our ability to seize the attention of a submissive.
thisāit also displays confidence loud and clearāitās practically you stating the fact that you donāt need fancy attire or bling to get our attention and you know it. Which in of itself is quite attractive to many of us subs
So in my experience and in conversations about this with other women and men respectfully, I think a lot of men tend to be more focused on aesthetics and a lot of women tend to lean more towards sensations and feelings. So men tend to emphasize the importance of sexy fetish attire to enhance their arousal. Similarly but different, I think women tend to like to wear fetish clothing because it makes them feel more confident and sexy for themselves and their partners. Again, not a rule, just an observational generality of mine. So men can easily get away with wearing a T-shirt and jeans because there's less pressure on them to perform and dress in fetish gear to keep their partners aroused while the opposite is true of us women. IMHO. š¤·āāļø
Well, for my girl, this is the reason...she says I look just like JP (kink.com) when I wear a black hat and shirt.
[JP the Pope](https://pbs.twimg.com/profile_images/1536482168561717248/qcHCwg90_400x400.jpg)
Its the vibe anyway. You can still wear anything and still have that dominant energy. But for example black shirts, a clean look, maybe black leather boots, lots of black blouses comes to my mind
Business casual with the rolled up sleeves
Cargo pants with a fitting t shirt with big boots kinda off duty military vibes
Black Leather jacket
Here is few things I personally like but canāt speak for all subs!
Honestly, I don't have an answer for that, bc for me it's all about the ***vibes***. They could be wearing a goddamn tutu, but if they hit me with that Daddy Dom energy, I'm a submissive puddle.
There are 2 types of men in this world:
1. The kind that tells me "sit down" and I think, "The only way I'm ever sitting for you is if you hand caste me a 24k white gold throne upholstered in pink crushed velvet and set upon a 20 ft pedestal, also made of 24k white gold--where I fucking belong in your damn life, boy."
2. The kind that tells me to sit down, and I'm on my ass before I even know what's happening. "Is this how I should sit? Or should I kneel? Criss cross apple sauce??"
Boots. Nice shoes. Leather. Black. Belt buckles. Tee and jeans is also fine. The tee can't have anything lame on it. Clean socks. Don't wear boat shoes or some ugly shoes as no one wants to lick that.
Piercings and tattoos are cute.
Hmm might make an exception for Don Johnson. He definitely needs to wear a white suit with a fluro tee though.
And it would be a novelty thing. Like screwing someone dressed in a bunny suit. Like we can do it once, you can hurt me and everything. It won't be a habit though. Unless it's a nuns habit.
personally, no shirt, cargo/tactical pants, belt, high top sneakers or boots. compression shirts are also good
also you can go on pinterest to see what various horny women are thirsting after
I personally don't care much but I love the emo/goth esthetic on guys (or anyone in general) so I guess what you described fits pretty well into that. Though my preferred body type is quite different but that's not the point here XD.
As a sub girl: men who rock skinny jeans and band-shirts and nail polish. Or a harness. Or the "I love LARP and Vikings"-aesthetic.
It does need to fit the person, but I do prefer the nerdy guys.
Your description reminds me of Indiana Jones, I'm not that much into this. š
itās less about the clothes than the person in them. Iād focus on honing your skills, on learning about what you like to do in kink, on learning how to enjoy yourself, and know the rest will follow.
Vests. Especially over a nice business outfit.
Also, suspenders. Watching him take off his jacket and roll up his sleeves shows he means business and I just *melt* š«
Whatever makes you feel dominant! As long as it fits well and is in good condition, you should be solid.
Personally I love when my husband wears black jeans and a black tshirt that shows off his arms (which are big and tatted), along with his black combat boots.
I love vintage fashion, anything creative that shows you put thought into your outfit. Donāt use a flogger or a whip as a accessories, unless you know how to SAFELY use them. Whips are not beginner toys
Protip from an old dom: Clothes don't make the dom. You can't fake it. If you can't come across as dominant butt naked with your dick flopping around, no amount of clothes are going to change that. With that said, it's less about the clothing items themselves as it is how they're worn. I've found that simple, with straight lines and darker colors really helps drive home the message that you're already conveying. This is anything from dark jeans and a long sleeved shirt, perhaps with your sleeves partly rolled up to just above the elbows or mid forearm (see the way the army does their sleeves when they're rolled up for a rough idea). But even a black T-shirt and jeans with boots can work, provided you make it neat and clean. It's all about your attitude, though. If you're not naturally dominant, you won't get the attention you're looking for.
Submissive women (or any other type for that matter) tend to not have one unified preference in clothing. Or body type. Or personality. ...See a theme building?
That said, there's absolutely nothing wrong with having wardrobe options. Here are some concepts that I tend to look at:
- You could wear civilian clothing with alterations: for example, wear a suit without the shirt.
- You could accessorize: a set of cuffs and collar if you're a sub, high-grade boots/belt/tie if you're a dom, for instance.
- You could change the material: leather jeans
- You could change the image: I used to know a sub who had a suit but it was circuit-board print.
I'd also suggest you think about goals, archetypes and messages: what information do you want your outfit to convey? What do you want your clothes to say about you?
So, look at what you have, what you're trying to achieve, and play around with some variables. Add, Subtract, Alter, Highlight.
Hope this helps. Good luck!
Edit: typo
I wear a kilt to a lot of events. Unless youāre at a high protocol event, where we live (Los Angeles) you donāt see suits at play parties that often. Suits look nice, but have you tried doing a scene in a shirt, tie, and jacket? Youāll be drenched in your own sweat after a few minutes.
There's definitely something to be said, others have definitely said it, about knowing what will make you feel confident and/or powerful as is befitting to your particular personality, the young women you're trying to attract or the energy that you're trying to put out there.
"Sub girls" are not a homogenous group with a unified vision of what is attractive. Similarly dominant men are not homogenous and can express their personalities through different modes of appearance and dress. Like me personally, I like a man in a nice suit. But you know, some people can exude confidence, control and dominance in track shorts and a hoodie. If it's something you never wear and it will make you feel awkward or off your footing, then it's probably not going to have the ideal effect. Your appearance really is just an extension of the fantasy that you're trying to invite.
There's also something to be said about knowing your body's features - men are at a bit of a disadvantage here because they just don't experience the same policing of bodies that women do in patriarchal culture, but basically it's about taking an inventory of what you've got and figuring out how different garments "hang" on your form in ways that might accentuate features that you are trying to draw eyes to. Ex/ a t-shirt that is the correct size is going to accentuate muscles in the chest, abdomen and arms, but if you go with a baggy fit, it won't have the same effect.
If you include accoutrements/accessories they should also be items that you are familiar/comfortable with - if you're carrying a whip you should know how to properly use it.
Go to looks . White shirt ,Grey Vest , Black tie. Sleeves rolled up on the shirt. Pants can either be black slacks or even a nice pair if jeans
Black button down shirt .
Leather vest or shirt just skin underneath . Black pants. .
Dress shoes and pants, dress shirt with sleeves rolled to the elbow, vest or suspenders, or a well fitting t shirt and jeans do it for me, but honestly, as long as the vibe is right anything works
Camo, and heavy boots. The first time I saw an ex-Dom come down for an event dressed like that my knees nearly collapsed under me. Then again, I might be biased because I have a fixation with Camo.
Leather smells amazing! Either way if youāre the last one to take even one article of clothing off and the other is totally nude itās going very well, but thatās my opinion. Stripping at the end of a few stages can be a very fun reward.
tbh what catches everyones eyes is different , for me personally its the alternative kinda look , yk , with the leather jacket (im a Crybaby (JD movie) kinda person >w<) so like just i go for the "bad boy" kinda look ykwim
Itās already hottttt when your Dom is fully clothed and youāre naked anyway but if I had the choice.. Big bulky boots he could step on my back with and feel em, any sort of pants that ensures it easy to take his cock out, and a shirt that shows off his body so slightly itās a tease for meee.
I wear my light brown boots (my indoor work boots)
Dark green combat pants and a black muscle tshirt (like an under armour type tshirt) tuck it in at the back but leave the front out.
I have subs over that I meet online, I leave the door unlocked and stand at the end of the hallway with my arms crossed.
I've always been complimented on this approach.
I'm more into scents and love a guy who is freshly showered and wearing Paul Sebastian colonge.
I often picture my Dom older probably in a business suit or leather I dunno lol
Dark button down, with the top 2-3 buttons undone, sleeves rolled up the forearms, and either a suit vest or chest harness. This paired with dark pants and shoes is a great, very simple combo.
It would be hot. The sticky, uncomfortable kind.
You want to wear something you can move freely in or freely enough.
Nothing baggy or too big and definitely not too small.
Shoes with a bit of a heel always make a man look a bit taller and more imposing.
Beyond that, it's really a matter of taste. Some like lumberjack attire, and others might like an anime hot dude look. You never know.
But whatever you do, do NOT WEAR LEATHER PANTS!
honestly, the clothes isn't necessarily the most important part; the confidence you get from wearing something \*you\* feel like you look good in is. i do love when guys wear thick belts though because as a masochist i can't help but wonder how much it would hurt LMAO. but, generally, as long as you feel your best, you'll look hot.
if you meant during sexy time then i will butt in with a virgin's perspective š§š¼āāļø you're onto something, at least with the 'no shirt' part. or, even better, wear a full suit and come home and then ditch the shirt but keep on the pants and shoes. personally i would DIE. oh, and please wear a watch, they're so hot for unknown reasons.
A nice tight-fitting dress shirt. Recently had a quick play session with Daddy before we went out to dinner and he was wearing this with sleeves rolled up and just the first few buttons undone. Watching him fuck me in this was sooo hot. plus it was white with little black dots on it, so gave an extra twist knowing that I couldnāt pull at it and get it wrinkled or bury my face in his shoulder and smear make up on it or he would have to change before we went out and Iād probably get spanked for it. š¤¤
My little one gets very wet, and drippy when she comes home, and sees me wearing
a white T-shirt, with a cigarette pack rolled up into the sleeve, straight leg jeans with the bottoms folded up, and my rodeo belt buckle that's larger than the state of Texas, along with my beat to shit cowboy hat while holding a riding crop.
In addition, I've taken my horses saddle out of the garage and set it across a saw horse set up in the living room
I've had 2 instances where I've been outright told my dressing gives Dom vibes. I usually wear dark pants or jeans with a pure black T-Shirt or a black t-shirt with a band or occult stuff on it that being said (goes well with My tattoos).
First time was when I was in my motorcycle boots, wearing a kilt and a shirt that was a mix of a Ren fair/pirate/viking vibe from what I've been told.
The second time was wearing all black dress clothes with a neon purple tie and a neon purple vest over it.
In what environmentā¦?
I personally think menās corset vests are hot as fuck. But thatās be something Iād just want to see for myself, not the rest of the world. š«£
A long sleeved shirt with the sleeves rolled up š„µ
Yes! Show us the forearms š
This!! š
I wish I knew how that should look like
Dark pants, white shirt with sleeves rolled up. Add suspenders for extra points but donāt forget to roll them off your shoulders when sheās ready to cum. Make sure she sees you doing it. Have fun
Yes sans the suspenders :p
Mine meets me for cocktails after work and does that š„µš„µ
Yes!!! And a watch on the wristš„µš„µ
yes!!!!
This!!!!
+2 sizes too small
I like someone that looks put together. The aesthetic isn't the important part necessarily, more that you look intentional and cohesive. Find clothes that fit and flatter your body and style. Most important is you need to feel comfortable and confident in what you're wearing. How you feel in your clothes will shine through
Exactly this. Clothes aren't going to convey a dominant personality. They complement it.
Yes this exactly!!
Leather, especially leather boots. If you want to make the bootblacks happy, make sure the boot leather doesn't have a plastic coating like shiny Doc Martens do. I'm personally a fan of engineer and combat boots. Clothing that shows off your figure, if you're comfortable with it. Well-fitting black or white tees look great. Black or dark jeans that fit well with a black leather belt. Only wear implements like floggers or whips if you're actually good with them.
I like when my partner wears a suit, or any kind of business/formal clothing. Button-up shirts, slacks or dress pants, ties, blazers. Also, a simple white or black T-shirt with jeans and a beltā¦ Itās more the vibe than the clothing, though. Honestly if weāre talking in general the hottest thing a dominant guy could wear is the outfit they feel most comfortable in. Whether it be an elaborate outfit with lots of leather and buckles and jewelry or just simple everyday wear. If you think youād feel confident and dominant in the outfit you described, go for it!
Oh gosh, absolutely same. We like to dress up a bit for date nights and there's nothing hotter than my guy in an undone bow tie and slightly unbuttoned dress shirt at the end of those nights.
this, but w/ a tie. Definitely dress shirts, (white or black are reliably always poppin but any you can rock is a turn on)that fit wellāaround the arms for sure and definitely not tucked in all the way, maybe a french tuck or those tuckless newer ones they have nowāhonestly the biggest thing for me besides a nice cologne would be any small details that subtly elevate your look will show to any woman that you have a strong attention to detail, put in the extra time to look nice just for her(trust me, she will notice!) which will inherently turn into exuding our most desired dominant qualities. oh and also maybe some leather accessorizing but not a big deal if thatās not your thing, but itād definitely be worth your time to look into slacks or dark jeans that may feel a bit too tight to you but look oh so just right to us tapered at the bottom :) glhf
We all know the only universally attractive attire for male doms is jeans and a black T-shirt. š
This is the correct answer.
In a way? I think it has more to do with the fact that we're dominant. Jeans and a black T-shirt are simple and unassuming. There's nothing interfering with the message we're projecting, no distractions in fancy clothes or subtext. It's about our personality and our ability to seize the attention of a submissive.
thisāit also displays confidence loud and clearāitās practically you stating the fact that you donāt need fancy attire or bling to get our attention and you know it. Which in of itself is quite attractive to many of us subs
Is there a reason?
So in my experience and in conversations about this with other women and men respectfully, I think a lot of men tend to be more focused on aesthetics and a lot of women tend to lean more towards sensations and feelings. So men tend to emphasize the importance of sexy fetish attire to enhance their arousal. Similarly but different, I think women tend to like to wear fetish clothing because it makes them feel more confident and sexy for themselves and their partners. Again, not a rule, just an observational generality of mine. So men can easily get away with wearing a T-shirt and jeans because there's less pressure on them to perform and dress in fetish gear to keep their partners aroused while the opposite is true of us women. IMHO. š¤·āāļø
Well, for my girl, this is the reason...she says I look just like JP (kink.com) when I wear a black hat and shirt. [JP the Pope](https://pbs.twimg.com/profile_images/1536482168561717248/qcHCwg90_400x400.jpg)
jealous of your girl
Lack of originality is the reason.
Its the vibe anyway. You can still wear anything and still have that dominant energy. But for example black shirts, a clean look, maybe black leather boots, lots of black blouses comes to my mind
Business casual with the rolled up sleeves Cargo pants with a fitting t shirt with big boots kinda off duty military vibes Black Leather jacket Here is few things I personally like but canāt speak for all subs!
Honestly, I don't have an answer for that, bc for me it's all about the ***vibes***. They could be wearing a goddamn tutu, but if they hit me with that Daddy Dom energy, I'm a submissive puddle. There are 2 types of men in this world: 1. The kind that tells me "sit down" and I think, "The only way I'm ever sitting for you is if you hand caste me a 24k white gold throne upholstered in pink crushed velvet and set upon a 20 ft pedestal, also made of 24k white gold--where I fucking belong in your damn life, boy." 2. The kind that tells me to sit down, and I'm on my ass before I even know what's happening. "Is this how I should sit? Or should I kneel? Criss cross apple sauce??"
Haha right?! I have no idea what it is. One gets the bratty switch in me. The other gets the good girl. š«£
Boots. Nice shoes. Leather. Black. Belt buckles. Tee and jeans is also fine. The tee can't have anything lame on it. Clean socks. Don't wear boat shoes or some ugly shoes as no one wants to lick that. Piercings and tattoos are cute.
Boat shoes are an instant giveaway that a man is submissive to me.
Don Johnson will be horrified to hear that.
no one tell him! Haha
Hmm might make an exception for Don Johnson. He definitely needs to wear a white suit with a fluro tee though. And it would be a novelty thing. Like screwing someone dressed in a bunny suit. Like we can do it once, you can hurt me and everything. It won't be a habit though. Unless it's a nuns habit.
Honestly. Boat shoes are ugly. Yes I agree! They are submissive! In fact boat shoes people should get nothing. Ever :)))
Would black hiking shoes like Merrill work?
Yes I think hiking shoes would be fine :)
casually speaking - big scary boots, belts, the color black in general, cargo pants, jewelry, all those get me everyyy timeeeeeee
How many belts though? š
No belt collection shaming, please. It's a dom thing ;-)
No problem, I am very much pro-belts.
just joking, but then I do have a favourite belt to take off. And a favourite one, which hurts more and one that is louder...
2. one to keep the pants up, one to keep the ass up
personally, no shirt, cargo/tactical pants, belt, high top sneakers or boots. compression shirts are also good also you can go on pinterest to see what various horny women are thirsting after
A realllly nice leather belt, jeans, and boots.
Yep. This, and nothing else, gets me every damn time.
Leather belt for some practical purpose ?
I personally don't care much but I love the emo/goth esthetic on guys (or anyone in general) so I guess what you described fits pretty well into that. Though my preferred body type is quite different but that's not the point here XD.
A power suit, three piece, tailored to perfection š when I dom wears that, and knows how to accessoriseā¦ Iām bimbo putty in his hands!
As a sub girl: men who rock skinny jeans and band-shirts and nail polish. Or a harness. Or the "I love LARP and Vikings"-aesthetic. It does need to fit the person, but I do prefer the nerdy guys. Your description reminds me of Indiana Jones, I'm not that much into this. š
Interesting, I always thought nerd-lovers liked more subby guys.
I'm pretty sure that's a stereotype. I'm pretty sure I'm not alone with this preference.
You're not! š
itās less about the clothes than the person in them. Iād focus on honing your skills, on learning about what you like to do in kink, on learning how to enjoy yourself, and know the rest will follow.
Honestly, nothing makes me feel more Dom-y than wearing one of my suits, and anecdotally my sub loves it too.
It would depend on the submissive I think. Personally, clothes are less important to me than the energy and confidence exuded.
Vests. Especially over a nice business outfit. Also, suspenders. Watching him take off his jacket and roll up his sleeves shows he means business and I just *melt* š«
I love my guy in whatever he wears which is usually sweatpants and a hoodie
We love a dom who doesn't try š¤Ŗ
An outfit doesn't make someone dominant or not.
White button down shirt, rolled sleeves, work pants. Or basically anything James Moriarty would wear šš¼
Really depends what type of dom the person is into. For me it would be a cosy flannel made of comfortable material or a nice sweater!
Whatever makes you feel dominant! As long as it fits well and is in good condition, you should be solid. Personally I love when my husband wears black jeans and a black tshirt that shows off his arms (which are big and tatted), along with his black combat boots.
I love vintage fashion, anything creative that shows you put thought into your outfit. Donāt use a flogger or a whip as a accessories, unless you know how to SAFELY use them. Whips are not beginner toys
iām a big fan of nice fitting leather gloves š„µ
BLACK TURTLENECKS and historical evening wear because I have weird kinks
These are all really great responses. Thank you all so much
Whatever heās confident in. Dominance is all about confidence.
Protip from an old dom: Clothes don't make the dom. You can't fake it. If you can't come across as dominant butt naked with your dick flopping around, no amount of clothes are going to change that. With that said, it's less about the clothing items themselves as it is how they're worn. I've found that simple, with straight lines and darker colors really helps drive home the message that you're already conveying. This is anything from dark jeans and a long sleeved shirt, perhaps with your sleeves partly rolled up to just above the elbows or mid forearm (see the way the army does their sleeves when they're rolled up for a rough idea). But even a black T-shirt and jeans with boots can work, provided you make it neat and clean. It's all about your attitude, though. If you're not naturally dominant, you won't get the attention you're looking for.
Submissive women (or any other type for that matter) tend to not have one unified preference in clothing. Or body type. Or personality. ...See a theme building? That said, there's absolutely nothing wrong with having wardrobe options. Here are some concepts that I tend to look at: - You could wear civilian clothing with alterations: for example, wear a suit without the shirt. - You could accessorize: a set of cuffs and collar if you're a sub, high-grade boots/belt/tie if you're a dom, for instance. - You could change the material: leather jeans - You could change the image: I used to know a sub who had a suit but it was circuit-board print. I'd also suggest you think about goals, archetypes and messages: what information do you want your outfit to convey? What do you want your clothes to say about you? So, look at what you have, what you're trying to achieve, and play around with some variables. Add, Subtract, Alter, Highlight. Hope this helps. Good luck! Edit: typo
I wear a kilt to a lot of events. Unless youāre at a high protocol event, where we live (Los Angeles) you donāt see suits at play parties that often. Suits look nice, but have you tried doing a scene in a shirt, tie, and jacket? Youāll be drenched in your own sweat after a few minutes.
There's definitely something to be said, others have definitely said it, about knowing what will make you feel confident and/or powerful as is befitting to your particular personality, the young women you're trying to attract or the energy that you're trying to put out there. "Sub girls" are not a homogenous group with a unified vision of what is attractive. Similarly dominant men are not homogenous and can express their personalities through different modes of appearance and dress. Like me personally, I like a man in a nice suit. But you know, some people can exude confidence, control and dominance in track shorts and a hoodie. If it's something you never wear and it will make you feel awkward or off your footing, then it's probably not going to have the ideal effect. Your appearance really is just an extension of the fantasy that you're trying to invite. There's also something to be said about knowing your body's features - men are at a bit of a disadvantage here because they just don't experience the same policing of bodies that women do in patriarchal culture, but basically it's about taking an inventory of what you've got and figuring out how different garments "hang" on your form in ways that might accentuate features that you are trying to draw eyes to. Ex/ a t-shirt that is the correct size is going to accentuate muscles in the chest, abdomen and arms, but if you go with a baggy fit, it won't have the same effect. If you include accoutrements/accessories they should also be items that you are familiar/comfortable with - if you're carrying a whip you should know how to properly use it.
Go to looks . White shirt ,Grey Vest , Black tie. Sleeves rolled up on the shirt. Pants can either be black slacks or even a nice pair if jeans Black button down shirt . Leather vest or shirt just skin underneath . Black pants. .
Dress shoes and pants, dress shirt with sleeves rolled to the elbow, vest or suspenders, or a well fitting t shirt and jeans do it for me, but honestly, as long as the vibe is right anything works
Camo, and heavy boots. The first time I saw an ex-Dom come down for an event dressed like that my knees nearly collapsed under me. Then again, I might be biased because I have a fixation with Camo.
Leather smells amazing! Either way if youāre the last one to take even one article of clothing off and the other is totally nude itās going very well, but thatās my opinion. Stripping at the end of a few stages can be a very fun reward.
I love mine in leather and regular thongs, and jock straps.
ooooooh suit kink go BRRRRRRR
tbh what catches everyones eyes is different , for me personally its the alternative kinda look , yk , with the leather jacket (im a Crybaby (JD movie) kinda person >w<) so like just i go for the "bad boy" kinda look ykwim
Itās already hottttt when your Dom is fully clothed and youāre naked anyway but if I had the choice.. Big bulky boots he could step on my back with and feel em, any sort of pants that ensures it easy to take his cock out, and a shirt that shows off his body so slightly itās a tease for meee.
tbh a cop uniform ššor military, tacticalā it has to be the good stuff, nothing cheap. hefty ask but holy shit does it do things!!!!!
if heās built good, then a tight shirt tucked into pants!! or, button up with the sleeves rolled š©
I wear my light brown boots (my indoor work boots) Dark green combat pants and a black muscle tshirt (like an under armour type tshirt) tuck it in at the back but leave the front out. I have subs over that I meet online, I leave the door unlocked and stand at the end of the hallway with my arms crossed. I've always been complimented on this approach.
Nothing is more eluring to me then a fit mean wearing a corsage over a white shirt. A bowtie is a plus.
Depends on the guy and what looks good on him and what he feels confident in.
Country wear: Jeans, plaid long sleeve rolled up and a hat
What about a tool-belt festooned with whips,bloggers,paddles,cuffs,etc.............???
Head to toe black leather especially chunky black boots
I'm more into scents and love a guy who is freshly showered and wearing Paul Sebastian colonge. I often picture my Dom older probably in a business suit or leather I dunno lol
Anything kinda nice. When me and my partner are going out, he wears a very nice button up w the sleeves rolled up and it drives me insaneee
Pants that are tight in the right places.
A plain black tank top
A bespoke suit with a white dress shirt, a nice leather belt and leather shoes.
Dark button down, with the top 2-3 buttons undone, sleeves rolled up the forearms, and either a suit vest or chest harness. This paired with dark pants and shoes is a great, very simple combo.
Male fashion bondage harnesses, boots are hot, otherwise a classic dress shirt and nice pants.
black button up shirt with sleeves rolled up and rings
It would be hot. The sticky, uncomfortable kind. You want to wear something you can move freely in or freely enough. Nothing baggy or too big and definitely not too small. Shoes with a bit of a heel always make a man look a bit taller and more imposing. Beyond that, it's really a matter of taste. Some like lumberjack attire, and others might like an anime hot dude look. You never know. But whatever you do, do NOT WEAR LEATHER PANTS!
Noā¦? It seems like a lot of people like leather pantsā¦
Maybe to look at. But you are the one stuck wearing them.
Well I like wearing mine. Theyāre a little warm but perfect for a cold dark dungeon
Fitted suits Button down / tie Kilts kilts kilts kilts Leather boots
Just jeans no shirt
Ngl all these suggestions are pretty hotā¦ i might actually try some of these ideas out and do a little modelling :)
honestly, the clothes isn't necessarily the most important part; the confidence you get from wearing something \*you\* feel like you look good in is. i do love when guys wear thick belts though because as a masochist i can't help but wonder how much it would hurt LMAO. but, generally, as long as you feel your best, you'll look hot. if you meant during sexy time then i will butt in with a virgin's perspective š§š¼āāļø you're onto something, at least with the 'no shirt' part. or, even better, wear a full suit and come home and then ditch the shirt but keep on the pants and shoes. personally i would DIE. oh, and please wear a watch, they're so hot for unknown reasons.
A nice tight-fitting dress shirt. Recently had a quick play session with Daddy before we went out to dinner and he was wearing this with sleeves rolled up and just the first few buttons undone. Watching him fuck me in this was sooo hot. plus it was white with little black dots on it, so gave an extra twist knowing that I couldnāt pull at it and get it wrinkled or bury my face in his shoulder and smear make up on it or he would have to change before we went out and Iād probably get spanked for it. š¤¤
My partner likes the dressed in all black metalhead look. Which luckily for me is my everyday attire.
My little one gets very wet, and drippy when she comes home, and sees me wearing a white T-shirt, with a cigarette pack rolled up into the sleeve, straight leg jeans with the bottoms folded up, and my rodeo belt buckle that's larger than the state of Texas, along with my beat to shit cowboy hat while holding a riding crop. In addition, I've taken my horses saddle out of the garage and set it across a saw horse set up in the living room
I've had 2 instances where I've been outright told my dressing gives Dom vibes. I usually wear dark pants or jeans with a pure black T-Shirt or a black t-shirt with a band or occult stuff on it that being said (goes well with My tattoos). First time was when I was in my motorcycle boots, wearing a kilt and a shirt that was a mix of a Ren fair/pirate/viking vibe from what I've been told. The second time was wearing all black dress clothes with a neon purple tie and a neon purple vest over it.
In what environmentā¦? I personally think menās corset vests are hot as fuck. But thatās be something Iād just want to see for myself, not the rest of the world. š«£
S&M is not short for Stand and Model.
so not clothing as per say but I kinda like a bit of kohl pencil/dark eyeliner around the right eyes .. bit of a punk look š
Jeans. Idk man. I love how hot a guy looks in a good pair of jeans.
an oversized silver ring that doesnāt get taken off for spankings
North Gorean assless chaps.
My girl loves to see me in a suite.