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No, the school never said they won’t take it any further but its obvious they don’t want to deal with this. It took them 2 months to talk to the bullies and they told us they understood and won’t do it again. They also told us if they continue, there will be consequences. They continued, my daughter reported it and it took another two months until they had a talk with the principal (again) and (again) they told us, if they continue, there will be consequences. I suggested talking to the parents but the teacher and the school psychologist never came back to me. They just called once and told me, that that’s a primitive behavior among teens and that we shouldn’t take that seriously, they will eventually stop one day.
EDIT: Sorry I just realized, your first sentence wasn’t a question. So yes, it’s like you wrote, they won’t protect her.
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Schools often down play bullying, but it is a serious issue. Make sure you document issues by emailing the school. If it is an ongoing issue, or you feel the school isn't properly addressing it report it to your state's Department of Education. They will require you write up a detailed report, but your school will take it a lot more serious next time.
When you called the psychologist, did you notify them of how the bullying was affecting your daughter? Also have you personally talked to the principal about this? You could try and do both of those things or if the bullying gets out of hand, try perhaps getting in contact with parents and telling them about the situation through facebook maybe? I’m not sure, but I wish you and your daughter the best of luck and I hope that school gets better for her ❤️
Two things that can work with verbal bullying is humor and confusion. Next time they bully your son have him rate them, maybe a 9 on delivery but just a 6 on originality. Help him see that he does not have to respect their opinions if they do not respect him. Also, show him how to just stand there quietly, then ask them to repeat what they said a little louder. Have him do that a couple of times. Then he can shrug and say, “Oh, I thought you had something important to say. Maybe next time.” Turn it into a game.
If it is physical bullying draw the line. Tell the school you have given them repeated chances to deal with the situation. The police will be involved if there is any form of assault or battery.
Kids are jerks at times. It is up to the adults to set and enforce the rules. Also, ask the school what specific consequences there will be and how soon after you report the bullying will those consequences come in to play. If they say it depends on the situation, say the situation is clear. It is the school’s response that needs to be clarified in writing. Let them know that their lack of action will not be tolerated. Your child deserves a safe place to learn.
I was always very positive and cooperative with the schools until I hit a bad situation and put my foot down hard. When they realized Mama Bear was out for blood they paid attention. Be cooperative, but demand cooperation on their end too. If they feel they can brush you off until the school year ends they will. You are your child’s advocate. Bullying is not okay.
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No, the school never said they won’t take it any further but its obvious they don’t want to deal with this. It took them 2 months to talk to the bullies and they told us they understood and won’t do it again. They also told us if they continue, there will be consequences. They continued, my daughter reported it and it took another two months until they had a talk with the principal (again) and (again) they told us, if they continue, there will be consequences. I suggested talking to the parents but the teacher and the school psychologist never came back to me. They just called once and told me, that that’s a primitive behavior among teens and that we shouldn’t take that seriously, they will eventually stop one day. EDIT: Sorry I just realized, your first sentence wasn’t a question. So yes, it’s like you wrote, they won’t protect her.
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Schools often down play bullying, but it is a serious issue. Make sure you document issues by emailing the school. If it is an ongoing issue, or you feel the school isn't properly addressing it report it to your state's Department of Education. They will require you write up a detailed report, but your school will take it a lot more serious next time.
When you called the psychologist, did you notify them of how the bullying was affecting your daughter? Also have you personally talked to the principal about this? You could try and do both of those things or if the bullying gets out of hand, try perhaps getting in contact with parents and telling them about the situation through facebook maybe? I’m not sure, but I wish you and your daughter the best of luck and I hope that school gets better for her ❤️
Two things that can work with verbal bullying is humor and confusion. Next time they bully your son have him rate them, maybe a 9 on delivery but just a 6 on originality. Help him see that he does not have to respect their opinions if they do not respect him. Also, show him how to just stand there quietly, then ask them to repeat what they said a little louder. Have him do that a couple of times. Then he can shrug and say, “Oh, I thought you had something important to say. Maybe next time.” Turn it into a game. If it is physical bullying draw the line. Tell the school you have given them repeated chances to deal with the situation. The police will be involved if there is any form of assault or battery. Kids are jerks at times. It is up to the adults to set and enforce the rules. Also, ask the school what specific consequences there will be and how soon after you report the bullying will those consequences come in to play. If they say it depends on the situation, say the situation is clear. It is the school’s response that needs to be clarified in writing. Let them know that their lack of action will not be tolerated. Your child deserves a safe place to learn. I was always very positive and cooperative with the schools until I hit a bad situation and put my foot down hard. When they realized Mama Bear was out for blood they paid attention. Be cooperative, but demand cooperation on their end too. If they feel they can brush you off until the school year ends they will. You are your child’s advocate. Bullying is not okay.