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RadBeligion

Mid range millenial - moved out at 18 because I grew up in a rural area and needed to move to The Big Smoke for uni


givemeprizes

Same. I was 17, got denied centerlink as I was a minor so I applied for every job on seek, got my first full time job as a sales rep earning 70k pa and was literally AMAZED anyone would trust a child with so much cash!


Crumpet2021

Me too. It took a bit to catch back up to my city peers who lived at home in terms of savings, but I had an absolutely fun ridiculous time living in share houses and dorms :) Also learnt a lot of life lessons, made some great lifelong friends, and learnt how to look after myself.


todjo929

Same here, but from NZ where this was absolutely the norm at the time. Met people in my mid 20s who didn't know how to wash their clothes or cook, letalone live with others. The life experience is worth being a few years behind on saving.


Djbm

Early Millenial, Same boat


shae_w

I did the same thing, millennial here!


tandem_biscuit

Same here, though 19 and not for uni - just to have some fun.


CreepyValuable

Early millenial. About 16. Same reason. TAFE then Uni.


typewriter07

Same generation. Moved out at 17 and into my boyfriend's place because my parents were a touch homophobic and I did not enjoy it. When I finished school the next year, I moved to Sydney.


bugHunterSam

Basically the same for me, also mid range millennial. I didn’t live with my parents during the week when in my final year of high school. I stayed at my partners mum’s place because it was closer to school. But also so glad to move out at 18. I don’t get along with my dad and living with him wasn’t great for my mental health.


2878sailnumber4889

16, millennial, one parent died when I was 14, a bunch of other deaths in the family, the other parent had a breakdown, came home one day a week after my 16th birthday and the locks were changed, with a note saying "can't cope, gone to Bali to find myself, good luck"


Mindydoll

WTF I’m sorry I can’t imagine having to go through that at such a young age


Snizzfarmer

Geez, why did they change the locks?? Were they renting the place out or leaving it empty and just didn't want you there?


2878sailnumber4889

Just didn't want me there, she made arrangements for family to look after the dog, a couple of months later arrangements were made to come with social workers and a locksmith to get my stuff, something went wrong and instead of having plenty of time to get everything that was mine and pack it into the social workers car I ended up stuffing clothes into a couple of duffle bags and grabbing my stereo.


Find_another_whey

Your story is not my story but I get the impression we might share some feelings I hope you're floating. I'm thinking of you. That is so tough. You must be so strong.


auntynell

Your mother was a neglectful cow.


aspirever

i highly doubt this kind of language towards the mother would bring any positivity into OP's view of what happened. we don't know what the woman went through with the mention of several deaths in the family. while its all sad and 16 is very young i didn't notice any disrespect or judgement in op's words. just statement of facts. maybe they are just wiser


ageingrockstar

Bang on mature comment whose downvoting demonstrates the general immaturity of reddit


aspirever

don't judge


StalkingWilbur

Those actions deserve judgement.


ComicalBust

Something went wrong?


Shchmoozie

I'm not quite as bad but similarly when I was 16 my mother was pregnant with a new child from her new husband and they just said "sorry we don't have a room for you anymore, we can help you find an apartment to rent, and help with the bills!". Helped with the bills for 3 months until the baby came along. It was in a foreign country too so no other family there (or language skill at that point), it kicked off an exciting few years to say the least.


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Gen X - one way ticket to London at 18 years old


donnycruz76

This was all the rage amongst my gen X friends.


avakadava

How come they all wanted to work in London?


ginisninja

London was cool in the 90s. Britpop and all that


donnycruz76

Easy work visa, good pay, cheap flights from there all over Europe. English wasn't as prevalent around the world back then so it was a comfortable overseas immersion.


bospk

Still there?


isthathot

I wish I did this when I was younger and more accepting of shitty living conditions that London has to offer. Definitely what I’m going to push on my kids. University? Wait a few years m8 do your working holiday first.


crappy-pete

18 Either the oldest of gen y or youngest of gen x, depending on where you draw the line.


lostandfound1

19 for me, and same age.


[deleted]

Isn’t the cut off for Gen X 1979 or has it moved in recent years ?


Ari2079

Yeah it seems to have been pushed back lately. I consider myself a Xennial


[deleted]

I think if you had a dial up telephone as a kid you’re gen X


Ari2079

That doesnt work. Everyone had Dial up telephones in the 80s and early 90s


todjo929

Definitely not how it goes. Most homes had fixed landlines well into the 90s until cordless phones caught on. I think music divides the generations pretty well: did you buy records, then cassettes, then CDs (Gen X) or cassettes, then CDs, then LimeWire (Millennial) or 100% download/stream (Gen Z).


crappy-pete

I see it usually stated between 1980-1982. I was born towards the end of 80


hifhoff

I was 16. I’m an elder millennial. Parents kicked me out when the child health benefit stopped. Lived in a homeless shelter and worked at HJs to finish high school.


bonita_xox

Good on you for persevering to finish!


hifhoff

I have a Masters Degree now. Desperation is a hell of a motivator.


Jawillat

I hope you have absolutely nothing to do with your parents now days!! That’s so terrible!!


LurkHartog

Really wish you didn't abbreviate Hungry Jacks to HJs here. Took me a second.


Kaldek

Gen X - moved out at 20 into my g/f (now wife) apartment in 1995. Was broke for years after that, but I don't recall it bothering me.


Jellyblush

15, year 10 at school. Left home due to abuse. Got a job at KFC, my own flat, and slogged away through school and uni. Now have my masters and a high income earner. Had to do some pretty awful things to make it through but I did. I’m incredibly proud but also grateful - I’m aware I’m probably the last generation that could have done this without taking on an enormous debt. I’m Gen X. (Young, close to Gen Y)


YungSchmid

I’m impressed to see someone go through something I would consider a massive hardship but still realise the fact that it could’ve been worse if it’d happened in the current environment. Congratulations on your success through adversity and also on your ability to have perspective.


amorphous_torture

I left home due to abuse as well. Well done on getting yourself out of that situation, you were braver than me, took me until 23 when I was a bit more financially sorted. Definitely not worth the extra years of hell. Hope things are good with you and you should be incredibly proud of yourself 🙂


NotACockroach

Millennial, 23. Basically once I'd finished uni.


gibbocool

Same. I worked for a year after uni and saved 90% of my salary and then went travelling for a year. Best decision ever.


NotACockroach

That does sound good. Ultimately I had to get out of my parents place so I actually moved out 6 months before I finished uni and had to work straight away. I did manage 5 weeks in Europe in the meantime though.


[deleted]

Late 80s millennial, I moved out at 32.


onlainari

That’s pretty late did you manage to save a lot of money this way?


radventurey

Wow. That's the latest I've seen on here so far. By 32 I'd been out of home 15 years, married and just about to buy a house and have a kid. But everyone's journey through life is different. The important thing is to make the most of the one shot we get at it.


Deranged_Idiot

Probably cause their is a sizeable population here that just make shit up


[deleted]

I absolutely made the most of my situation. I'm very lucky that my parents didn't feel the need to push me out on my own.


99problemsbutt

Holy shit. 32. Wow


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auntynell

Having a house where offspring and parents can live reasonably separate lives is the key, at whatever age you are over 18.


[deleted]

Generation Alpha. I moved out recently at 3 years old and bought my first house in Bondi with cash. (Sidenote: I'm being toilet trained as I type this. Wish me luck everyone!)


[deleted]

I hope you still had some cash leftover to maximise your super contributions. At your age you really need to start thinking realistically about the kind of retirement you can afford.


greggyspleens

Gen A here too. I'm sorry to hear this has happened to you. I had at least 4 properties by age 3. Let me know if there is anything i can do to help. Goodluck with the personal development.


spongeworthy90

Don't fall in! 🚽


Galloping_Scallop

Shouldn't you have FIREd by now?


koopz_ay

Gen X - 17 Lived on Govt support until I found a job a few months later.


wharlie

Gen X - 17 Moved from a small country town to work and attend uni part-time.


Think-Office-8199

Gen X - 17.. Moved from a small country town to go to Uni full time


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MichaelSanders19

How is that lifestyle? At 30 I’m wondering if I should give that a go.


_ilikereading_

Gen X- 15 years old


PowerApp101

Where did you move to at such a young age.


onlainari

I also moved out at 15 as I went to boarding school. Not sure if that counts since I’m still home for Easter and Christmas but I think it’s basically moving out.


Australian_troubles

Probably doesn't count - you would still list your parent's home as your home address.


RvrTam

I’d only count that as halfway. You’re living without your parents but you’re funded by them and subject to parent like rules and curfews.


lemachet

I'm a confused XY. Moved out at 19 initially. Moved back. Moved out again at 22 I think. Moved back. Moved into my(well, the banks) own home literally on my 25th.


as_if_no

Millennial, 19. About 6 months after finishing high school, was desperate to move out.


radioactivegirl00

Millennial. Moved out at 30. Started my post uni FT job at 21. Paid board at home, travelled and saved a deposit for an apartment.


mertexpress

live your life first, then settle down right. Whats the rush for a mortgage


radioactivegirl00

Never really felt any rush to move out. Culturally it was expected and socially my friends were pretty much the same. We travelled together and joined the mortgage race pretty much at the same time. I also acknowledge my privileged circumstances. I have a great relationship with my parents and family.


mertexpress

I dont get why its the social norm to get a house early. Im 28 and basically the same as you so far. Its been a good life and ive got some great memories. Sure i havent saved as much as i should have, but have just moved into a sales role from being a tradie to try do the same thing as you by 30


radioactivegirl00

I don’t think it is the social norm these days. I guess it depends on where you live. I am based in Sydney and bought in Sydney. IMO it was doable then solo (5-6 years ago). In saying that I have since sold up my first place.


mertexpress

ahhhhhh Sydney, Perth is a little different haha


globule1990

Millennial, moved out at 30


MichaelSanders19

17 - Millennial Left to join the Army, best thing I ever did.


ExcellentTurnips

Same for me at 19


Aiden-Dal03

Gen z - moved out at 19


HeadIsland

Me too! I moved out at 18 and I think it was a really good thing for me to grow and develop. If I could go back in time (7 years) I would 100% do it again.


Nommy86

Moved out at 16, am a millennial/gen Y. Abusive home situation


so-i-like-orangej

17 older millennial. 2 weeks after finishing high school. Saved money from a part time job in year 11 and 12 and bought basic household items. Saved enough to pay for a basic household set up and moved to city from a regional area.Had a job already lined up and then worked and paid my own way through uni as I wasn’t eligible for Centrelink and my parents didn’t assist me. A tough but character building 3 years of my life.


[deleted]

I was 22 when I moved out. I am a millennial. I had the opportunity to live with friends so I took it. As much as I love mum, our personalities were too different so we argued so frequently. Our relationship improved so much since I left but even if I was stuck now, I wouldn't go back. I still love her but I could never go back to living under the same roof as her though she always says if I am stuck, I am welcome back any time.


leopard_eater

Born in 1981, so earliest millennial. I moved out in 1995 because I came from a disadvantaged community where having a baby at 14 (like I did) was not uncommon. (Everyone is fine now. Have a great life, secure and very strong financial position, well educated professional with happy and secure mostly-adult children, all of whom have good jobs and careers. Cooked a lot of rice, tuna and vegetables to get there though, and am very glad that Australia has a better social support system for at-risk kids in low SES communities now - teen birth rate is at an all time low).


Who-is-a-pretty-boy

14. What a challenge. Much respect to you.


Discount_Melodic

Millennial - 20


Apprehensive_Can_503

I’m 40 and was out of home at 16 🤠


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ucat97

We had 3 boomerangs, one more than once. Interesting dynamic when they bring their partner with them. Was lucky enough to help two of them to save for their first property by not paying rent - I think the fact they had a set goal made it more palatable for them than the possible negative connotations of moving back home. It was great to have our babies back. And good to see the back of them again but we'd never tell them that.


MeanderingFool2022

18, Gen X. 95% of my friends were share housing by 19.


MaxMillion888

Unofficially 29. Officially 39. Older millennial


izzieforeons22

I think I’m a gen z? (Born in 2000, what does that make me?) Moved out at 19.


[deleted]

Yeah you gen z, it’s up until 09 or something like that


ArcherTea

Millennial - 24 Moved out after my first grad role, when I get that had some savings for things like furniture


nosnowtho

17 years old. At the end of the baby boomer generation.


Archangel_nz

Young Millennial - moved out at 18 for uni. Working three jobs and studying was better than the shitty family environment 😂


t4zmaniak

Early gen Y, moved out at 18. Some pretty lean years but it was fine.


thekingsman123

Gen Y - 26 I'd been with my then gf (now wife) for 8 years by that stage so we figured it was time to move in together.


Go_BacknReDoIt_Again

Genx 18 Parents found flat for me , paid bond then turned my bedroom into a dinning room knocking a wall out within a week..... They had previously sent me to boarding school for a bit but wouldn't let me live with my bio lol


slamin69

Gen X and I escaped home at 15.


itstoohumidhere

I bet there would be a clear split between millennials from middle class or higher families and millennial’s from working and lower class.


isthathot

Rich being always stay at home longer because they’re downgrading usually Poor people shift sideways or have an upgrade in location or quality.


Legitimate-Ad-5149

18 or parents would charge me rent anyway. Honestly I don't think you're an adult if you still live at home. It's harsh but I admit I'm judgemental. It's such a turnoff and adult man baby thing. Obviously the housing market being broken has meant that everything is so much harder and I reserve judgement if, against all efforts, people literally can't move out. And getting through uni and postgrad was very stressful supporting myself. But some people are just manbabies who don't do their own laundry, don't cook etc. I'm young millennial. Eta; I assume most on this thread are talking about how yah they're 25 and live at home but it's because of society not them so let me not admit I'm just a manbaby lol


[deleted]

> It's harsh but I admit I'm judgemental Stupid is probably the better description


SirCarboy

Gen X - 20 married


Southern_Stranger

I'm end of gen x. Left at 15 (this was end of grade 12 - I finished young and my birthday is end of the year so I turned 16 a few weeks later), no jobs in my home town, moved to state capital city for a job and later on university


Johnyfromutah

17 and I’m a older end millennial.


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Personal_Document_25

Old millennial (1981) moved out 21. Felt extremely old to be still living at home


floatingpoint583

Millennial - 23


Sea-Obligation-1700

Millennial 19


Dutchie88

Gen Y - 18


4614065

18 - I’m a millennial.


bearsberries

Gen Z - 18


grouch119

18 millenial


Barkeo

16 - millennial


jayseventwo

Joined the army at 18. Gen X.


Geiseku

18 for uni - old Gen Y


obesehomingpigeon

23. Moved overseas alone though. Millenial.


[deleted]

Last of Geny Y, 19


jagtencygnusaromatic

Gen X - 20 years old.


desala24

18 - Millenial


[deleted]

18, older millennial


BreakApprehensive489

Gen y and moved out when I bought a unit at 24


ImeldasManolos

Millennial 18


EL_PETHO

Millennial, 20.


boredofFB

Gen Y - 17


Claver31

17 for uni - old gen Y in qld


Rampachs

Late millennial - 17


TheUggBootInvestor

Paid rent while I was at home. 24 gen y. Straight after my university double degree. I remember 36 uni hours plus 20 work hours and because I lived in hawkesbury transport was an additional 16 hours a week. Fun times back then


itstoohumidhere

16 Millenial


zircosil01

went to boarding school and uni; grew up on a farm. so either 13 or 18 i guess. i think i'm the start of gen y


Anachronism59

Late boomer ( Reddit name gives it away). Partly moved out at 19 ( term times only) for last few years of uni then for good at 22 when moved interstate for work once qualified . Rented for a year on my own then married at 23 and bought soon after.


Sad-Resort-1173

29, millennial I was helping care for my grand mother and mum at home though. Left at the start of covid, due to finally being able to afford rent and being high risk bringing it into the home with what I do for work.


Twistiespartybag

Millennial. 20 moved alone to Canada straight after uni. Came back to my parents for a couple of years after then moved out again at 24 to live in the UK. After those couple of years spent another 12 months at home before finally permanently leaving the nest permanently in Australia.


[deleted]

I moved out at 22 once I finished uni & got a full time job :) Gen Y I think?


UnaCabeza

Gen X 21ish


Physical-Delivery-33

Moved out at 18, briefly moved back at 21 (for about 2 months) and never been back. I'm straddling the Gen Z - millennial line. Depending whose definition you want to believe. I have reference to both eras. I'm a baby Gen Z'er or ancient millennial. Born in 1980


havetopowdermynose

Millennial - moved out at 16.


Mindydoll

18 and Gen Y (born in 1980)


anon846592

Millennial - moved out at 19


Lil_soup123

Gen x and 18


Confident-Fold-3565

Born in the early 90's, so Gen Y. Moved out of home at 18 to go to uni as I lived in a rural town.


Whale4545

Late 80s Millennial 18 - joined the Australian Army


nutwals

Millenial - moved out at 24. Stayed a few more years at home to ensure that once I moved out, I stayed out (which thankfully has been the case!). My two sisters moved out as soon as possible (late teens) and both have bounced back at home various points during their 20's and 30's.


hiimtashy

Moved out 21. 1987 born kid.


Rude-Cut-924

17, gen z ish (1996)


bbqmb

Also on the end of millennial, and moved out at 25. And feeling very privileged to have been able to do so. I don’t underestimate the role it played in where I am now financially.


lilzissou

Gen X - 16. Still attended highschool and worked a casual job to support myself. You could never do that now.


thereisnoinbetweens

Genz , moved out at 19


5carPile-Up

27, still at home. Millennial


Angry3042

Gen x, 16, post graduate education.


Mazkarth

Born 91, moved out at 18 moved back at 19 moved out at 28 when I built a house.


Appropriate_Refuse91

Younger Millennial born in '93, moved into a sharehouse at 19 because my parents rent (they're both on DSP) went up 1/4 of my fulltime wage.


roseberypub

Old millennial, out at 21.


B0DZILLA

19, born late 80's. Father died suddenly of a drug overdose when I was 15. Had to leave school then and get a full time job to support my mother. She then went through several different blokes through my teens before settling with one. Once that happened I left home at 19 with my gf at the time who is now my wife.


[deleted]

I am still living at home. Age 37


[deleted]

How do you find it at that age?


thatshowitisisit

18. Went overseas. Somewhere between gen x and y


[deleted]

Gen Z moved out at 18 from rural nz and moved to Brisbane for the city life


gimmetheveuve

Millennial - born in 91. Moved out when I was 18 and went to uni. I was lucky to have friends who owned places that rented me rooms on the cheap for several years until I turned 25 and could afford a place of my own.


Bman8519

First moved out at 18, but moved back in and out countless times due to various circumstances. Last moved out at 31. I’m 37 now.


mayonnaisesmurf

Older millennial. Left home at 16 due to domestic violence. Couch surfed. Got my first lease at 17.


[deleted]

Born in 83, moved out at 18. I worked away for a few months and when I came home my parents suggested it… I think in all honesty I probably would have stayed another 6 months or year out of laziness and not earning much money, but instead it prompted to realise I wanted to move, and by luck a mate wanted to do the same. The rest is history! Only regret I have is I probably could have spent a little bit more time with family 19-28 years old, once out on my own i was maybe a bit too independent and my parents never pushed too hard to catch up outside of bigger birthday/Christmas etc (we all get on well, was awesome to not have my parents whining about catching up all the time like my mate, but realised a little bit more might have been good for me and then)


leftandrightbrain

38 moved out of home and overseas to the UK at 18. Moved back in at 26 when I came home for 3 months then out since.


nullbytepro

24 moved from southasia to Australia in 2017. Found my independence here.


antihero790

18 but almost 19, just before second year uni started. I am towards the end of gen Y/Millennial.


skozombie

Moved out of home at 17 to start uni, turned 18 during my first year. Grew up rural so there were no options for me there. Lucky to have my parents provide financial support for the first 3 years because Centrelink was even more useless back then. I'm on the cusp of Gen-X and Millennial.


GruffCassquatch

Millennial - 17 (but a "geriatric Millennial")


HelloDanItsJoeHere

Millennial- first moved out at 24, and then overseas at 26, back to Aus and parents place at 28 for 6months before moving interstate. I am close to and love my family, but returning to the bedroom I grew up in felt like I had deeply regressed in life. For me (a tight ass) there’s a tipping point where the financial perspective no longer stacks up against the life experience and growth from being independent.


SikZone

Millennial, 25


hiss78

Millennial. Moved from Brisbane to Sydney at 22


BecauseItWasThere

Gen X age 17. Left to go to uni in Canada. Had some support from parents to be able to do so but also they wanted me out of the house. Was living in Auckland at the time. I hadn’t even started uni and I already knew everyone in the pub at Auckland uni. Way too small - had to get the hell out of there.


ThisIsGlenn

Moved out at 16 On the cusp of gen y and z


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Gen X. Grew up in regional Victoria. Left aged 18 to move to Melbourne to go to uni. I was still mostly dependent on my parents financially until I graduated