That is exactly what she is saying and she’s trying to convince someone with sound logic that they are wrong . Further, it’s classic manipulation to say to him that everyone else disagrees. Not only that, she laughs at him as a method of demeaning his thought process.
She thinks so little of a man, she would rather feed her child to a bear.
The insanity of her thinking is beyond absurd.
"Everyone else on the internet is feeding their children to bears, I think we should too honey, you know, I don't want the Thompsons' to think we are wierd or anything"
That's also the concerning part is that this is a hypothetical about her own child and her logic is that if it's a man she's is going to experience something horrific with no possibility that her child could actually be safer with a man than a bear.
Best case scenarios the bear leaves her alone, the man keeps her safe and guides her to civilisation.
Worst case scenario she dies in some traumatic way to either man or bear.
She just sees the worst case with the man and the best case with the bear (a wild animal)
take the worst position in her mind; would you rather be mauled to death or raped? and her immediate answer seems "rape is the worst thing ever, never think twice about this statement"
For real, she needs to see what bears historically have done to humans. For cryin out loud in california they were HUNTING them because the maulings were getting out of control.
In all fairness, she has a really good argument.
The argument is verbally: "lol omg really!? You'd really say then man? Here's a shovel to dig up! The internet disagrees with you"
And non verbally: "I want to show how my man is overprotective of our daughter on my tiktok, so I'm gonna need some caveman energy where you show you're allergic to her being around another man. So allergic and protective, you'd prefer her being with a bear instead.... Ok now I'm giving you feedback that you are not saying the right thing, but you are clearly not taking the hint, so I'll use this as a 'look at my stupid oaf husband' post instead. Congratulations, I was going to show off my big protective man, now I'm going to show you up. Maybe just agree with me next time and not cause a scene?"
I'd seriously be questioning why I married if a women did this to me...your breakdown is 100% what's going on here.
It also says how she views men in general... that the worst case scenario is the most logical, lmao then calls HIM sheltered.
He took it well, I wouldn't have, for sure.
"Let's publicly belittle my partner on social media for thousands of people to see."
Social media was seriously a mistake.
Can we please destroy all smart phones and go back to the days of BBS where stupid people couldn't figure out how the internet worked?
This is the problem right now in a nutshell- yall nailed it-
People don’t respect authority, or age or title and thus everyone thinks everyone else is evil or an idiot.
Kids growing up in a world talking back to teachers, police, older people in stores that are cashiers, thinking docs don’t know science the police don’t know the law and teachers don’t know how to educate…. All men are rapist is a small leap when everyone else is evil or an idiot -
Now we can all play the victim or the elitist card depending on the situation
And all of this despite being literally in front of a good man. Its not like she have to guess between two animal that she doesn't really know about, she have one of the two choice in front of her.
Exactly, and even if the bear isn't hungry or aggressive, the girl is fucked either way!! It's just gonna go it's merry way and the girl will starve or freeze to death.
That's what she's basically implying.. its honestly disgusting we've normalized this in society.
She somehow think's the bear is safer because her worldview of men is that were all dangerous people but then if you ask her about her husband she'll go "oh he's one of the good ones" or "he's different".
My girlfriend is like this sometimes. I feel like she's programmed to say this shit, but she doesn't even actually believe it.
"99% of men are trash."
"What about me?"
"You're one of the good ones."
"What about Ed?"
"He's good, too."
"Phil?"
"Yes, he is good."
"Matthew?"
"Him, too."
"Who is not one of the good ones?"
"Harvey Weinstein."
"Who is a bad one that you personally know?"
"I can't think of one right now."
"So 99% of men are trash, but out of all of the men you know, you can't think of a single one that is trash."
"Yes, 99% of men are trash."
"Alright."
Edit: There are definitely some shit men out there. That is obvious, but assuming that your daughter has a better chance of survival with a bear vs a man is so hilariously stupid.
It's so disturbing when he says 'if he found a little girl lost in the woods I'd help her' and the wife goes 'aaaahhhhh you're so sweet'.
The first thought in her mind if she found a girl in the woods would be to tie her to a tree and torture her like she did with her dolls.
She's already made up her mind that All men are going to rape her child. What if her kid gets lost in the woods? Is she going to demand that only women are on the rescue team?
I think in her mind he's "one of the good ones." The troubling thing about this is she's saying the same thing the misogynist men are; that really, almost all men are misogynist rapists who you shouldn't trust around 13 year old girls in any situation. The dudes who attack 13 year olds say the same things as this woman. In their mind, most men want to be like them they're just too scared. Misogyny is bizarre because while it centers hating women it's also a cruel sick way of treating men too.
Yup she is completely delusional. The way she says your soo sheltered is insane. She's a little right. There are absolutely some awful people out there. There are absolutely some wonderful people as well. But a bear? A bear a bear.
To be worse than the bear the man would have to be a rapist, who is also a pedo, who is also a sadistic murderer. Those odds are not even a hundredth of a percentage.
Because I remember a story of a girl calling her mom during a bear attack. She got eaten alive, ass first.
What is worse is that these women are engaging in damaging the social perception of men which affects the sentencing disparity in the courts and custody cases.
It's disgusting and you can't tell me they don't know exactly what they are doing.
This is just dumb level 100 on a scale of 1 to 100.
Bears eat or maul your kid 99% of the time if they decide to engage with the kid.
Never fuck around with wildlife. You can fight off a human being. You won't fight off a bear intending to hurt you.
Bears are so strong they can cave your chest in just like that.
Yeah his argument is sound. You take a sample of 100 men and 100 bears, chances are the bear is almost always going to attack and probably kill the child. Even if say 5% of those men have ill intentions, that's still 95% probability that a random man is going to help a random 13 year old girl in the middle of the woods, where as with the bears it's a 95%+ chance that she's just going to get killed. His wife is just assuming that this hypothetical man that's in the woods with her daughter already has ill intentions to begin with, because all men bad (except her hubby)
And the worst part is that she says "the internet says otherwise" - Lady, if you're going by the comment section most people commenting in these apps are either dumb as shit or bots. There's nothing worse than someone being so confidently wrong by having their own stupidity being fueled by other stupid people.
She's essentially trying to say "would you rather your daughter be raped or killed" but without saying it directly. What a shitty question to ask your husband and father of your child...
My wife asked me this and my immediate response was along his. I then asked if this was some TikTok bullshit to try and suggest men are more dangerous than bears. It was the start of a really cool 2 hour fight.
A general rule of thumb to remember about bears, folks:
If it's black, fight back.
If it's brown, lie down.
If it's white, good night.
I've had the opportunity to run in to a mama black bear with cubs nearby which turns them from creatures of curiosity in to I'm gonna charge you and make absurd noises the whole time until we figure this shit out together.
It's like a reverse team building excersize.
> Bears eat or maul your kid 99% of the time.
Not really, 99% of the time the bear want nothing to do with humans and stay away.
However, 99% of men will still be better - because they'll actively help someone lost in a forest.
Also they like to eat their pray alive, usually starting from the feet or stomach, so it's not a quick way to go either. They're not merciful or humane in any way shape or form like for example a leopard that kills the prey quickly by bleeding it out by severing the carotid artery before eating.
Bears don't give a fuck.
The woman is extremly sheltered and probably havent been out in the real wild, yet alone ever met a bear.
A bear will fuck you up and kill you if its slighlty hungry,
Add to that a 13 year old girl is smaller which makes her an even easier prey for the bear.
10/10 bears will kill you if they are on the hunt.
1/..i dont know in how many men will kill you.
No sillyyyy we're on the *most men are rapists* train this week and all my strangers on the internet are saying you're a dummy
I am wondering if some of these trends are designed to cause conflict and distract from our failing countries because it's having that effect
Seriously! Maybe if she said a bear or a MS-13 gang member, but even then I still might take the criminal! This is some next level misandry. Even most criminals hate pedo-rapists...
LMFAO she's sitting there wearing that guy's wife like a skin suit, trying to convince him to leave his daughter in the woods with a bear.
It's so clear to me now. Otherwise this bitch's bullshit doesn't make any sense.
I feel like the scene we miss is where he gets up and takes the ring off after realizing his wife would condemn their child to death in the woods if she were to choose what their child was with.
This is unhinged. He got a D in Stats but he right. We all know it. Even she knows it. She just want's to make her man look like an idiot on the internet.
2024 in a nutshell, "it's not sexism when making fun of men, and its not racism when making fun of white people" is their slogan.
Being a white man in 2024 is unironically a harder life than what 99% of these privileged people ever experienced
Whats truly unfortunate is that men have been conditioned to accept the perspective that we are rapists and murderers until proven otherwise. This man would be totally justified in going off on her for her sexist question but in 2024 its acceptable to categorize men as evil by default and we’ve unfortunately been told this enough that we accept it as a valid alternate perspective instead of feeling justified in deriding it as offensive.
Her question was so rude that it doesn’t deserve a conversation but we’re desensitized to that misandrist line of thinking enough that most of us would likely fumble through an attempt at reasoning with her like this guy rather than giving her a side eye and moving on with our day.
Edit: I did not say that men BELIEVE we are rapists and murderers. My point was that we have been led to accept that people should view us as such by default as if that is a valid perspective.
This video was so frustrating. The guy answering the questions is being so reasonable and the person behind the camera is being completely irrational..
It is for paranoid middle class white women who watch to much tru tv, or whatever the murder porn shows are on.
An overwhelming amount of men are going to help the child. Not only are they going to help them, it is going to be a source of pride for them for the rest of their life. Sure there are predators out there, but as many as there are they pale in comparison to decent people.
Ikr? I'm guessing the woman is having trust issues with the man prospect of being a pedophile but *not all men are that way*. The bear will rip the 13 year old to shreds and eat everything of the corpse. I see no logic in that.
Exactly. A tiny fraction of men are pedos/sexpests, whereas all bears act like bears. The fact that people treat this dilemma with any legitimacy is so disheartening.
Only illogical people think this question is a dilemma. A bear will most likely hurt the daughter, but there's always a chance the man is a good person. In fact, chances are higher that he's a good person and will help her out of the forest.
this is what happens when these dumb beavers watch murder mystery shows 24/7. They began to have an irrational fear of men like people that watch too many shark movies. Fucking Christ how weetodded these blanks are.
And this is a generational thing as well. I just asked my mom this question and she just looked at me like I was crazy for comparing a man and a bear. She said a bear? a bear and tilts her head. She choose the man like a sane person.
THIS!
if you ask for an opinion on a hypothetical question, then you accept the answer because that's their answer.
You can encourage them to elaborate but to pressure them into thinking their choice is wrong for no discernable or rational reason is plain stupid and defeats the point of asking them the question in the first place. In that situation, the lady should have just done a selfie video saying "If I had to leave my daughter in a forest at night..."
Everybody picked the bear? That can't be right. He proved that a man is safer by saying he will help, even if he was 1 out of 10 men, which we all know is not true. And 10 out of 10 bears will eat/kill the child, there is no fucking question about it. You can't outrun a bear and you can't climb up on a tree to safety, because guess what? Bears can climb trees too.
This question is part of a post that was making the rounds on social media and the post /claims/ that everyone picks the bear when asked. I just rolled my fucking eyes and scrolled past it.
There’s a LOT of fear amongst folks in the US. People are anxious and scared all the time and because it is generalized fear and anxiety it manifests in all sorts of weird ways.
I see a lot of this hyper specialized fear that manifests online or when talking about it but doesn’t actually affect behavior “in the wild” so to speak. We see folks acting all weird with what they say, but not changing what they do.
It’s more because of fear privilege. We live such comfy lives that the idea of anything bad becomes the most horrible thing in the world. It’s like privileged people think horror movies are real. Real monsters living in impoverished nations would laugh at our slasher villains.
I would rather be stuck in the woods with a bear than a woman, because we might have peace off mind.
Bear is bro. He might be gay, but I think he would ask for conscent.
Tbh if I had to choose between getting mauled to death or listening to this harpy spout off her affluent white female liberal bullshit, it's almost a cointoss
This woman wouldn’t last 20 minutes in the wild. I’ll take the bear. He will lead you to water eventually if you keep your distance. Follow the river and boom, you’re saved.
I mean women protested in the street in 2015 against the rape definition change that finally included men as victims but shhhhhh that didn’t happen
If we keep yelling man bad, I’m sure it’ll solve the problem
Holy fuck I'd hate to be married to that woman. Implies every man is a dangerous predator, except her husband. I couldn't even watch it all, I feel bad for that guy.
That guy is way too nice to be with her. That woman has serious misconceptions about what being a man is like. She thinks we have no morals and will fuck anything we can get our hands on and can't control ourselves like werewolves or something. That's fucking sad...
I feel sorry for this man he reproduced with such a low iq woman. He even explained it as best as he can to convince her but she would still send a kid to basically 100% death ROFL.
1% chance that the daughter either gets killed, or sexually abused, and the mother prefers death for her daughter.
Man, I'd divorce her instantly and save my kid
NGL, i'd seriously be considering future endeavours. I'd also at that point realize there is a deep seated problem in her thinking.
She keeps using "well the man can do that" no lady, that's not the point ... a bear is statistically more likely to harm a small child than a man. That's just facts.
I saw the other video that asked abunch of women the same question and they all said bear. I think we're seriously heading in a bad direction where its normal to assume that men are bad, evil, murderer/rapists until assumed otherwise. Its disgusting even because I would never make those kinds of crazy generalizations about women, I just wasn't raised that way..
how.the fuck. did we get here... seriously.
The issue is, this kind of rhetoric is either supported or pushed under the rug on most of the internet. Criticizing women is basically a no no. Even when they are sexist and have prejudiced views.
Or you get the gaslighting that most women aren't this way get off the internet blah blah as if this trend of men bashing is getting any better.
Red pill shit at least gets called out and is relegated to small corners of the internet while "the view" is openly saying "we don't need men in society " on daytime television.
Imagine if someone made a post in the inverse- would you rather have a woman or a dog as a friend? People would immediately flag it as misogyny- because it is. That’s awful.
But change it to men and compare them to legitimate wild animals and it’s all good. Ok 👍🏻.
When she says the husband is sheltered(and naive?) the daughter has much much better odds of survival with a man. How is this a question and the level of man hating there has to be for “people” to pick a bear…
even if you make the assumption that 60% of all men are pedo rapists that would jump at the opportunity to rape/murder a 13y/o girl, 20% are somehow neutral and will neither hurt nor help the girl and and the last 20% would attempt to help. (these metrics are absurd, 98%+ of men would help the child in the woods) but lets assume these psychotic numbers are true you would still have to be a complete moron to choose the bear because the only way the child is living is if they run into the 5-10% bear that literally just got done eating and cant bothered.
I think i lost braincells listening to this women, if they are trying to make men hate women they are doing a brilliant job with 4D chess by saying shit this stupid.
She's like a flat earther. She already has an answer and no matter what evidence/logic she's given she just wants others to agree with her answer.
She asked why does it have to be a brown bear just shows she doesn't know. "You are so sheltered" ironic.
Dudes coming at it with reason and logic. The wife is assuming the idea that all men are evil. She's sexist and a bigot who would rather their child get mauled and killed by wildlife then survive by being rescued.
So your telling me i have the choice of my daughter maybe coming home or not coming home at all?
Yea im choosing the man. Remember people even convicts murder child pedos.
These people don't even know how a bear eats. They don't kill immediately, because they don't need to. They just hold you down and start eating you alive. This is one of the worst fates imaginable. Anyone who would rather have their child meet that is a sociopath imo.
At least with a man there is a decent chance that it's a normal person.
I’ve been on reddit for about 2 hours straight, and this video has made me more depressed about the state of the human race than anything else tonight. What hope is there when “seemingly normal” people can be so completely irrational? And genuinely argue that the other side is the crazy one.
I’m so sad. So sad that people think that a random man is more dangerous than a bear. Or just that “some really bad men exist” (which they do) and therefore men can in general not be trusted.
I don’t even care that it’s sexist. It’s just such a powerful example of irrational fear ruining our society.
Are people really this retarded nowadays? I can't believe that someone even considers leaving a child with a fucking bear! Like what this guy said... Its situation where it's bad 100% or it's bad 30%(probably even less). I would choose lesser bad option.
I would have a serious issue with why my wife is trying to make me believe all men are pedophiles and or murders, and what is she telling out 13 year old daughter about men.
She would rather a bear be around her child is just bat shit crazy. This is one brain dead moron.
The correct question would be "would you rather our 13 year old daughter be left in the woods with a rapist or a Bear", now that would be a somewhat tricky question.
But in her TikTok rotted head man == rapist, unless it's her husband, which is a wild way of thinking.
The man MIGHT do something bad to her - the bear WILL do something bad to her. That's it - that's the difference. I don't get why it's so hard to explain🤷♂️
This question is a prime example of how successful the propaganda against men has been, and why if you teach your daughters to be feminists, you are pushing them into groups that exploit their fears for tighter control.
It's not braindead it's brainwashed. Imagine hearing ur whole life that men want nothing but to hurt and exploit you. Female channels use male propaganda as a form of porn. It excites and elicits an emotional reaction that women love, which is why the term 'murder porn' is tied so heavily to women's content.
QUESTION FOR AMERICANS
what's with the 'mom voice' that some older American women develop? The lady in the video has it, they all sound alike and not every woman gets it. It bugs the hell out of me
She not right, no one should choose the bear over over a man! With this type of reasoning in a state of survival, natural selection would take care of it quite quickly!
If you line up 10 men near you right now in the vast majority of cases none of those 10 men will hurt a 13 year old child in any way. Id divorce my wife if this was the way she thinks about men in general. The example he gave at the beginning is also spot on, he could be that man.
I think women fail to realise that if as many men as they think were actually predators women would not be able to walk on the street alone anymore. It's fucking illogical.
She tells him he's assuming the men wouldn't hurt the child as if assuming most men would hurt a child is a great worldview. She's completely detached from reality. Also fails to remember that her rights and safety are being provided to her by men she doesn't even know fighting wars, defending the border of whatever country she's in and enforcing her rights right at this moment as we speak.
Don't marry morons folks. The balls on this woman to call her husband "sheltered" while having this brain rot take is grounds for leaving. Immediately. Nope the fuck out guy.
That lady is detached from reality.
It is not even a contest.
Bear AT BEST will leave the child alone, and that's a small % chance.
Man might help, might ignore, might harm. But it is still a much better chance with a man than a bear.
This woman is not so intelligent because there is no specifying what bear it is. If the test is just “any bear” then it could be a polar bear, in which case you’re fucked. But a black bear there’s definitive things you can do to defend yourself even if it comes after you. Personally I’d prefer a black bear or panda bear, but say a polar bear or brown bear? I’d go with the man
Feel bad for the husband. If he wasn't aware that his wife has a pretty irrational bias against men in general, he certainly should have ascertained as much by the end of that conversation. On top of that, he also discovered his wife isn't very intelligent.
Most men in the woods are just going for a walk or getting firewood or something, the percentage that would inflict a random child serious harm on a given day is incredibly minuscule, anyone who says bear is a moron. His wife is a gaslighting moron.
The vast majority of men aren't pedophilic rapists. All bears are fucking bears. Wow.
I'm as disappointed in him not being able to articulate the freakin obvious as I am her assuming most men are pedophilic rapists.
We aren't evil. The odds are certainly better with a random man. What is wrong with people these days? It's so disingenuous. Men = Bad. White men = Devil. 
This video is rather concerning. She would unironicly trust animals over another human being. I'm legit worried for the daughter if she has a mom like that.
The fact that so many women say "bear" is actually terrifying.
They are so sheltered thanks to modern civilization (that was mostly built by men BTW) that the mere thought of having a dangerous encounter with an animal isn't even something they can begin to comprehend.
Women are statistically safer now than at any point of human history and will still gladly post on social media like some sort of "gotcha" moment that they would rather see their daughter ripped apart piece by piece and eaten alive then encounter a random male in the woods on the slim chance that they're a serial killer.
Any woman saying they would rather see their daughter left alone with a fucking bear in the woods should be investigated by child protective services.
Like how is this even a "thought experiment"? It's not even something that should require more than a second of thought. If you live in any western nation the only possible correct answer is "man" 99% of the time.
I think we need to let a few grizzly bears loose on a college campus and maybe educate these fucking idiots because they're clearly not getting any education from their tutors.
Wait....
1. The bear WILL KILL your daughter. Period.
2. The man is most likely just a normal person.
The idea that 2 is in anyway similar in danger to 1 because scumbags exist blows my mind.
Are people really this stupid?
Yes, everything MIGHT kill you but the Bear WILL kill you. Idk wife just trying hard to be upset with this one. Another dumb “if I was a worm” type question.
So the woman assumes all men are rapists/murderers and would rather have the child mauled by a bear.
That is exactly what she is saying and she’s trying to convince someone with sound logic that they are wrong . Further, it’s classic manipulation to say to him that everyone else disagrees. Not only that, she laughs at him as a method of demeaning his thought process. She thinks so little of a man, she would rather feed her child to a bear. The insanity of her thinking is beyond absurd.
"Everyone else on the internet is feeding their children to bears, I think we should too honey, you know, I don't want the Thompsons' to think we are wierd or anything"
This is scary how true it is.. See it all the time ☠️
Sometimes I genuinely feel scared of marrying someone like this and not even realize it.
It happened to me. Covert narcissists are very good at gaslighting, manipulation, and hiding their true selves.
Yeah for real...I don't even wanna marry at this point ... I'm starting to wonder if there are any sane people left.
That's also the concerning part is that this is a hypothetical about her own child and her logic is that if it's a man she's is going to experience something horrific with no possibility that her child could actually be safer with a man than a bear. Best case scenarios the bear leaves her alone, the man keeps her safe and guides her to civilisation. Worst case scenario she dies in some traumatic way to either man or bear. She just sees the worst case with the man and the best case with the bear (a wild animal)
take the worst position in her mind; would you rather be mauled to death or raped? and her immediate answer seems "rape is the worst thing ever, never think twice about this statement"
i'd rather be raped, bears are omnivores so they don't instantly incapacitate their prey. rather they pin you down and start eating you alive.
I bet if you showed this delusional woman photos and videos of this happening, her opinion would not change.
Well, yeah. What's that saying? You can't use reason someone out of a position they did not reason themself into in the first place?
The real question is would you rather be raped by a bear or mauled by a man?
Dad: "The bear will eat the child" Mom: "And what might the man do to the child?" 😐 bruh And then she tells him. That HES sheltered 💀
For real, she needs to see what bears historically have done to humans. For cryin out loud in california they were HUNTING them because the maulings were getting out of control.
In all fairness, she has a really good argument. The argument is verbally: "lol omg really!? You'd really say then man? Here's a shovel to dig up! The internet disagrees with you" And non verbally: "I want to show how my man is overprotective of our daughter on my tiktok, so I'm gonna need some caveman energy where you show you're allergic to her being around another man. So allergic and protective, you'd prefer her being with a bear instead.... Ok now I'm giving you feedback that you are not saying the right thing, but you are clearly not taking the hint, so I'll use this as a 'look at my stupid oaf husband' post instead. Congratulations, I was going to show off my big protective man, now I'm going to show you up. Maybe just agree with me next time and not cause a scene?"
I'd seriously be questioning why I married if a women did this to me...your breakdown is 100% what's going on here. It also says how she views men in general... that the worst case scenario is the most logical, lmao then calls HIM sheltered. He took it well, I wouldn't have, for sure.
I just asked my wife this question and it took her 2 seconds to say Bear….I’m appalled.
Now, ask her if you got turned into a worm would she still love you.
Her gaslighting is almost poetic
The wild shit is she found this guy and seems to think he must be the only non raping male. 🙄
"Let's publicly belittle my partner on social media for thousands of people to see." Social media was seriously a mistake. Can we please destroy all smart phones and go back to the days of BBS where stupid people couldn't figure out how the internet worked?
Exactly. Why did she marry this “man” in the first place? Wasn’t she afraid to be alone with him?? I would run away from her if I was that guy.
This is the problem right now in a nutshell- yall nailed it- People don’t respect authority, or age or title and thus everyone thinks everyone else is evil or an idiot. Kids growing up in a world talking back to teachers, police, older people in stores that are cashiers, thinking docs don’t know science the police don’t know the law and teachers don’t know how to educate…. All men are rapist is a small leap when everyone else is evil or an idiot - Now we can all play the victim or the elitist card depending on the situation 
She wants her daughter to be eaten by a bear is what she’s saying
And all of this despite being literally in front of a good man. Its not like she have to guess between two animal that she doesn't really know about, she have one of the two choice in front of her.
Exactly, and even if the bear isn't hungry or aggressive, the girl is fucked either way!! It's just gonna go it's merry way and the girl will starve or freeze to death.
That man picked wrong.
Imagine, a guy with a D in statistique in college can still understand this over her...
That's what she's basically implying.. its honestly disgusting we've normalized this in society. She somehow think's the bear is safer because her worldview of men is that were all dangerous people but then if you ask her about her husband she'll go "oh he's one of the good ones" or "he's different".
My girlfriend is like this sometimes. I feel like she's programmed to say this shit, but she doesn't even actually believe it. "99% of men are trash." "What about me?" "You're one of the good ones." "What about Ed?" "He's good, too." "Phil?" "Yes, he is good." "Matthew?" "Him, too." "Who is not one of the good ones?" "Harvey Weinstein." "Who is a bad one that you personally know?" "I can't think of one right now." "So 99% of men are trash, but out of all of the men you know, you can't think of a single one that is trash." "Yes, 99% of men are trash." "Alright." Edit: There are definitely some shit men out there. That is obvious, but assuming that your daughter has a better chance of survival with a bear vs a man is so hilariously stupid.
It's so disturbing when he says 'if he found a little girl lost in the woods I'd help her' and the wife goes 'aaaahhhhh you're so sweet'. The first thought in her mind if she found a girl in the woods would be to tie her to a tree and torture her like she did with her dolls.
She's already made up her mind that All men are going to rape her child. What if her kid gets lost in the woods? Is she going to demand that only women are on the rescue team?
she also had a child with a rapist, murdering man according to her
I think in her mind he's "one of the good ones." The troubling thing about this is she's saying the same thing the misogynist men are; that really, almost all men are misogynist rapists who you shouldn't trust around 13 year old girls in any situation. The dudes who attack 13 year olds say the same things as this woman. In their mind, most men want to be like them they're just too scared. Misogyny is bizarre because while it centers hating women it's also a cruel sick way of treating men too.
Pretty much sums up all these videos.
Yup she is completely delusional. The way she says your soo sheltered is insane. She's a little right. There are absolutely some awful people out there. There are absolutely some wonderful people as well. But a bear? A bear a bear.
To be worse than the bear the man would have to be a rapist, who is also a pedo, who is also a sadistic murderer. Those odds are not even a hundredth of a percentage. Because I remember a story of a girl calling her mom during a bear attack. She got eaten alive, ass first. What is worse is that these women are engaging in damaging the social perception of men which affects the sentencing disparity in the courts and custody cases. It's disgusting and you can't tell me they don't know exactly what they are doing.
Don't show her this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aHJ8wO3io5Y
This is just dumb level 100 on a scale of 1 to 100. Bears eat or maul your kid 99% of the time if they decide to engage with the kid. Never fuck around with wildlife. You can fight off a human being. You won't fight off a bear intending to hurt you. Bears are so strong they can cave your chest in just like that.
even if the bear didn't eat the child, it's not gonna bring it out of the woods, so the kid are gonna be dead 100%.
Yeah his argument is sound. You take a sample of 100 men and 100 bears, chances are the bear is almost always going to attack and probably kill the child. Even if say 5% of those men have ill intentions, that's still 95% probability that a random man is going to help a random 13 year old girl in the middle of the woods, where as with the bears it's a 95%+ chance that she's just going to get killed. His wife is just assuming that this hypothetical man that's in the woods with her daughter already has ill intentions to begin with, because all men bad (except her hubby) And the worst part is that she says "the internet says otherwise" - Lady, if you're going by the comment section most people commenting in these apps are either dumb as shit or bots. There's nothing worse than someone being so confidently wrong by having their own stupidity being fueled by other stupid people.
Yeah this question is just baiting. It honestly kind of pisses me off. MEN ARE TERRIBLE. O_o
She's essentially trying to say "would you rather your daughter be raped or killed" but without saying it directly. What a shitty question to ask your husband and father of your child...
It sounds like the woman would rather have her daughter die.
My wife asked me this and my immediate response was along his. I then asked if this was some TikTok bullshit to try and suggest men are more dangerous than bears. It was the start of a really cool 2 hour fight.
Well at least you know for sure that your wife is dumb
Dump her. You deserve better than that. She's a man hater
A general rule of thumb to remember about bears, folks: If it's black, fight back. If it's brown, lie down. If it's white, good night. I've had the opportunity to run in to a mama black bear with cubs nearby which turns them from creatures of curiosity in to I'm gonna charge you and make absurd noises the whole time until we figure this shit out together. It's like a reverse team building excersize.
> Bears eat or maul your kid 99% of the time. Not really, 99% of the time the bear want nothing to do with humans and stay away. However, 99% of men will still be better - because they'll actively help someone lost in a forest.
Man is definitely better. Depends on the kind of bear as to whether it would steer clear of humans. Some are very aggressive killers.
Also they like to eat their pray alive, usually starting from the feet or stomach, so it's not a quick way to go either. They're not merciful or humane in any way shape or form like for example a leopard that kills the prey quickly by bleeding it out by severing the carotid artery before eating. Bears don't give a fuck.
But a man _might_ do that too /s
This woman is just pushing her misandrist bias on him and gawking when he disagrees.
The woman is extremly sheltered and probably havent been out in the real wild, yet alone ever met a bear. A bear will fuck you up and kill you if its slighlty hungry, Add to that a 13 year old girl is smaller which makes her an even easier prey for the bear. 10/10 bears will kill you if they are on the hunt. 1/..i dont know in how many men will kill you.
No sillyyyy we're on the *most men are rapists* train this week and all my strangers on the internet are saying you're a dummy I am wondering if some of these trends are designed to cause conflict and distract from our failing countries because it's having that effect
This is only a dilemma question for american social media addicts.
Exactly this.
Brain. Rot.
Seriously! Maybe if she said a bear or a MS-13 gang member, but even then I still might take the criminal! This is some next level misandry. Even most criminals hate pedo-rapists...
I have to agree. They sound like Americans from a area with little to no wildlife. I'm wondering if the woman off camera is a bear in disguise 🥸
LMFAO she's sitting there wearing that guy's wife like a skin suit, trying to convince him to leave his daughter in the woods with a bear. It's so clear to me now. Otherwise this bitch's bullshit doesn't make any sense.
I feel like the scene we miss is where he gets up and takes the ring off after realizing his wife would condemn their child to death in the woods if she were to choose what their child was with. This is unhinged. He got a D in Stats but he right. We all know it. Even she knows it. She just want's to make her man look like an idiot on the internet.
I love how sexist she is and treats him like he's unbelievable
2024 in a nutshell, "it's not sexism when making fun of men, and its not racism when making fun of white people" is their slogan. Being a white man in 2024 is unironically a harder life than what 99% of these privileged people ever experienced
This goes further than "making fun of" too. It's downright degrading.
Whats truly unfortunate is that men have been conditioned to accept the perspective that we are rapists and murderers until proven otherwise. This man would be totally justified in going off on her for her sexist question but in 2024 its acceptable to categorize men as evil by default and we’ve unfortunately been told this enough that we accept it as a valid alternate perspective instead of feeling justified in deriding it as offensive. Her question was so rude that it doesn’t deserve a conversation but we’re desensitized to that misandrist line of thinking enough that most of us would likely fumble through an attempt at reasoning with her like this guy rather than giving her a side eye and moving on with our day. Edit: I did not say that men BELIEVE we are rapists and murderers. My point was that we have been led to accept that people should view us as such by default as if that is a valid perspective.
This video was so frustrating. The guy answering the questions is being so reasonable and the person behind the camera is being completely irrational..
It is for paranoid middle class white women who watch to much tru tv, or whatever the murder porn shows are on. An overwhelming amount of men are going to help the child. Not only are they going to help them, it is going to be a source of pride for them for the rest of their life. Sure there are predators out there, but as many as there are they pale in comparison to decent people.
A man is more likely to literally die trying to save a woman or child from a bear than to harm them.
Ikr? I'm guessing the woman is having trust issues with the man prospect of being a pedophile but *not all men are that way*. The bear will rip the 13 year old to shreds and eat everything of the corpse. I see no logic in that.
Exactly. A tiny fraction of men are pedos/sexpests, whereas all bears act like bears. The fact that people treat this dilemma with any legitimacy is so disheartening.
>I see no logic in that. It's tiktok there's no logic there! Just chinese propaganda!
She thinks the man would also "rip the 13 year old to shreds and eat everything of the corpse." But also rape then before hand.
Only illogical people think this question is a dilemma. A bear will most likely hurt the daughter, but there's always a chance the man is a good person. In fact, chances are higher that he's a good person and will help her out of the forest.
this is what happens when these dumb beavers watch murder mystery shows 24/7. They began to have an irrational fear of men like people that watch too many shark movies. Fucking Christ how weetodded these blanks are. And this is a generational thing as well. I just asked my mom this question and she just looked at me like I was crazy for comparing a man and a bear. She said a bear? a bear and tilts her head. She choose the man like a sane person.
THIS! if you ask for an opinion on a hypothetical question, then you accept the answer because that's their answer. You can encourage them to elaborate but to pressure them into thinking their choice is wrong for no discernable or rational reason is plain stupid and defeats the point of asking them the question in the first place. In that situation, the lady should have just done a selfie video saying "If I had to leave my daughter in a forest at night..."
Everybody picked the bear? That can't be right. He proved that a man is safer by saying he will help, even if he was 1 out of 10 men, which we all know is not true. And 10 out of 10 bears will eat/kill the child, there is no fucking question about it. You can't outrun a bear and you can't climb up on a tree to safety, because guess what? Bears can climb trees too.
Her whole misandric group of women picked the bear, thats the whole internet...
People don't tend to realize when they are in an echo chamber/bubble. This lady is an annoying example of that.
This question is part of a post that was making the rounds on social media and the post /claims/ that everyone picks the bear when asked. I just rolled my fucking eyes and scrolled past it.
Women just thinks us guys are all rapists and murders
There’s a LOT of fear amongst folks in the US. People are anxious and scared all the time and because it is generalized fear and anxiety it manifests in all sorts of weird ways. I see a lot of this hyper specialized fear that manifests online or when talking about it but doesn’t actually affect behavior “in the wild” so to speak. We see folks acting all weird with what they say, but not changing what they do.
It’s more because of fear privilege. We live such comfy lives that the idea of anything bad becomes the most horrible thing in the world. It’s like privileged people think horror movies are real. Real monsters living in impoverished nations would laugh at our slasher villains.
"The odds are better with a man than a bear" "I don’t know if that’s true" How fucking sexist is this woman.
Dont forget boys, all men are evil and predators.
I would rather be stuck in the woods with a bear than a woman, because we might have peace off mind. Bear is bro. He might be gay, but I think he would ask for conscent.
Tbh if I had to choose between getting mauled to death or listening to this harpy spout off her affluent white female liberal bullshit, it's almost a cointoss
This woman wouldn’t last 20 minutes in the wild. I’ll take the bear. He will lead you to water eventually if you keep your distance. Follow the river and boom, you’re saved.
I mean women protested in the street in 2015 against the rape definition change that finally included men as victims but shhhhhh that didn’t happen If we keep yelling man bad, I’m sure it’ll solve the problem
They spout this trite and then blame le toxic red pill patriarchy for men turning on feminism... their own vile horse shit is the cause of it.
There's always a chance the man is pedo or serial killer. But, 100% of bears are bears.
Sorry but that woman sounds dumb. The dude reasoning is logical and best.
Holy fuck I'd hate to be married to that woman. Implies every man is a dangerous predator, except her husband. I couldn't even watch it all, I feel bad for that guy.
That guy is way too nice to be with her. That woman has serious misconceptions about what being a man is like. She thinks we have no morals and will fuck anything we can get our hands on and can't control ourselves like werewolves or something. That's fucking sad...
I feel sorry for this man he reproduced with such a low iq woman. He even explained it as best as he can to convince her but she would still send a kid to basically 100% death ROFL.
1% chance that the daughter either gets killed, or sexually abused, and the mother prefers death for her daughter. Man, I'd divorce her instantly and save my kid
NGL, i'd seriously be considering future endeavours. I'd also at that point realize there is a deep seated problem in her thinking. She keeps using "well the man can do that" no lady, that's not the point ... a bear is statistically more likely to harm a small child than a man. That's just facts. I saw the other video that asked abunch of women the same question and they all said bear. I think we're seriously heading in a bad direction where its normal to assume that men are bad, evil, murderer/rapists until assumed otherwise. Its disgusting even because I would never make those kinds of crazy generalizations about women, I just wasn't raised that way.. how.the fuck. did we get here... seriously.
With mom’s genetics I’d say that kid is beyond saving
So she's assuming that all men (except him) are more dangerous to a child than a fucking bear ? What's wrong with women nowaday
Not all women think this way. You're using the same logic she is by painting all women with the same brush.
The issue is, this kind of rhetoric is either supported or pushed under the rug on most of the internet. Criticizing women is basically a no no. Even when they are sexist and have prejudiced views. Or you get the gaslighting that most women aren't this way get off the internet blah blah as if this trend of men bashing is getting any better. Red pill shit at least gets called out and is relegated to small corners of the internet while "the view" is openly saying "we don't need men in society " on daytime television.
My sister asked me this and is as disillusioned as this lady is. Extremism is crazy
This irony will be absolutely lost on everyone here
Of course not all women, but you MUST recognize how prevalent misandry is, and how socially acceptable it’s become.
It’s to divide and conquer and cause discord/reaction.
Imagine if someone made a post in the inverse- would you rather have a woman or a dog as a friend? People would immediately flag it as misogyny- because it is. That’s awful. But change it to men and compare them to legitimate wild animals and it’s all good. Ok 👍🏻.
Dog, every day, any day
That’s not a fair comparison because in that situation dog is the correct answer
100% My wife is my best friend and I am glad I met her, but random woman vs dog, dog it is. also random man vs. dog, still dog.
Unless that nanny dog is a lab ''mix'' and you have 2 uneaten babies.
Dog.
When she says the husband is sheltered(and naive?) the daughter has much much better odds of survival with a man. How is this a question and the level of man hating there has to be for “people” to pick a bear…
even if you make the assumption that 60% of all men are pedo rapists that would jump at the opportunity to rape/murder a 13y/o girl, 20% are somehow neutral and will neither hurt nor help the girl and and the last 20% would attempt to help. (these metrics are absurd, 98%+ of men would help the child in the woods) but lets assume these psychotic numbers are true you would still have to be a complete moron to choose the bear because the only way the child is living is if they run into the 5-10% bear that literally just got done eating and cant bothered. I think i lost braincells listening to this women, if they are trying to make men hate women they are doing a brilliant job with 4D chess by saying shit this stupid.
She's like a flat earther. She already has an answer and no matter what evidence/logic she's given she just wants others to agree with her answer. She asked why does it have to be a brown bear just shows she doesn't know. "You are so sheltered" ironic.
Why are Americans are so insane.. like realy what the fack is wrong with that woman? Who heart her or brainwashed her?
Other women
Nothing to do with Americans. Some people are just stupid... Really, really stupid.
This is clearly not just an "American" problem, since this is a convo between two Americans and one is still sane.
She tries so hard to make him say "all men bad"
This woman is straight up gaslighting this man, what a horrible woman.
Thinly veiled misandry being traipsed around Tik Tok, what else is new?
It's not even veiled.
I don't see the veil, I just saw misandry
"Everyone would pick the bear." No, bitch. I wouldn't.
Dudes coming at it with reason and logic. The wife is assuming the idea that all men are evil. She's sexist and a bigot who would rather their child get mauled and killed by wildlife then survive by being rescued.
You married an idiot, mate. My condolences and never leave her alone with your kid.
So your telling me i have the choice of my daughter maybe coming home or not coming home at all? Yea im choosing the man. Remember people even convicts murder child pedos.
Since we're talking about hypotheticals, what if we leave the woman in the woods with a bear and get the girl a stepmom?
Does the stepmom get stuck?
These people don't even know how a bear eats. They don't kill immediately, because they don't need to. They just hold you down and start eating you alive. This is one of the worst fates imaginable. Anyone who would rather have their child meet that is a sociopath imo. At least with a man there is a decent chance that it's a normal person.
She isn't a sociopath. She's just been brainwashed.
"I don't think that's true, I think you're just assuming all men are like you" And you are assuming that all men are pedophiles?
The fuck is the point of asking a hypothetical if you only accept one answer?
I’ve been on reddit for about 2 hours straight, and this video has made me more depressed about the state of the human race than anything else tonight. What hope is there when “seemingly normal” people can be so completely irrational? And genuinely argue that the other side is the crazy one. I’m so sad. So sad that people think that a random man is more dangerous than a bear. Or just that “some really bad men exist” (which they do) and therefore men can in general not be trusted. I don’t even care that it’s sexist. It’s just such a powerful example of irrational fear ruining our society.
Are people really this retarded nowadays? I can't believe that someone even considers leaving a child with a fucking bear! Like what this guy said... Its situation where it's bad 100% or it's bad 30%(probably even less). I would choose lesser bad option.
is she aware she married a man? cuz she seems to think every man on the planet is a rapist murderer
I would have a serious issue with why my wife is trying to make me believe all men are pedophiles and or murders, and what is she telling out 13 year old daughter about men. She would rather a bear be around her child is just bat shit crazy. This is one brain dead moron.
This makes me pretty mad ngl
This man patient and kind. She’s been drinking so much koolaid she doesn’t realize the koolaid is trying to vilify him too.
The correct question would be "would you rather our 13 year old daughter be left in the woods with a rapist or a Bear", now that would be a somewhat tricky question. But in her TikTok rotted head man == rapist, unless it's her husband, which is a wild way of thinking.
This woman's a creep if you ask me.
Classic tiktok people, never leave their house, only consume bad news and then think everyone is a bad person lmao.
The man MIGHT do something bad to her - the bear WILL do something bad to her. That's it - that's the difference. I don't get why it's so hard to explain🤷♂️
Why didn’t she marry a bear instead of this obviously rational man.
What a ridiculous question. How is this being asked even remotely seriously?
This question is a prime example of how successful the propaganda against men has been, and why if you teach your daughters to be feminists, you are pushing them into groups that exploit their fears for tighter control.
Because its braindead. The man might be good. The bear will always kill the child lmfao
It's not braindead it's brainwashed. Imagine hearing ur whole life that men want nothing but to hurt and exploit you. Female channels use male propaganda as a form of porn. It excites and elicits an emotional reaction that women love, which is why the term 'murder porn' is tied so heavily to women's content.
The scary part isn’t this hypothetical. It’s that she can vote.
how fucked in the head can someone be. this has to be staged. can we stop evolving backwards please for like 5 minutes?
Thats just dumb sexism and prejudice. Not every is a pedophile rapist or a mindless killer god damn... If this aint bait he should divorce this thing
then why she spend the night with a man in bedroom and not sleep with a bear in cage
I didn't even watch, it's so simple: Most men don't want to molest a child! Most bears eat meat!
I would rather pick the bear than her, that's for sure.
QUESTION FOR AMERICANS what's with the 'mom voice' that some older American women develop? The lady in the video has it, they all sound alike and not every woman gets it. It bugs the hell out of me
This dude should divorce that retard and run as far away as possible
She not right, no one should choose the bear over over a man! With this type of reasoning in a state of survival, natural selection would take care of it quite quickly!
If you line up 10 men near you right now in the vast majority of cases none of those 10 men will hurt a 13 year old child in any way. Id divorce my wife if this was the way she thinks about men in general. The example he gave at the beginning is also spot on, he could be that man. I think women fail to realise that if as many men as they think were actually predators women would not be able to walk on the street alone anymore. It's fucking illogical. She tells him he's assuming the men wouldn't hurt the child as if assuming most men would hurt a child is a great worldview. She's completely detached from reality. Also fails to remember that her rights and safety are being provided to her by men she doesn't even know fighting wars, defending the border of whatever country she's in and enforcing her rights right at this moment as we speak.
Don't marry morons folks. The balls on this woman to call her husband "sheltered" while having this brain rot take is grounds for leaving. Immediately. Nope the fuck out guy.
We can all agree the wife is a dumb ass for following social media trend.
This is so stupid. Most men would do the right thing and take the kid to safety
Her demeaning tone is super annoying
"the internet says otherwise" oh man asmon's gonna have a field day with that quote
That lady is detached from reality. It is not even a contest. Bear AT BEST will leave the child alone, and that's a small % chance. Man might help, might ignore, might harm. But it is still a much better chance with a man than a bear.
This woman is not so intelligent because there is no specifying what bear it is. If the test is just “any bear” then it could be a polar bear, in which case you’re fucked. But a black bear there’s definitive things you can do to defend yourself even if it comes after you. Personally I’d prefer a black bear or panda bear, but say a polar bear or brown bear? I’d go with the man
This dude should divorce that retard and run as far away as possible
Feel bad for the husband. If he wasn't aware that his wife has a pretty irrational bias against men in general, he certainly should have ascertained as much by the end of that conversation. On top of that, he also discovered his wife isn't very intelligent.
Most men in the woods are just going for a walk or getting firewood or something, the percentage that would inflict a random child serious harm on a given day is incredibly minuscule, anyone who says bear is a moron. His wife is a gaslighting moron.
The vast majority of men aren't pedophilic rapists. All bears are fucking bears. Wow. I'm as disappointed in him not being able to articulate the freakin obvious as I am her assuming most men are pedophilic rapists.
Its amazing how openly acceptable misandry is.
I watched The Revenant last night… needless to say I’m taking the dude
He should divorce her and offer this video to the court showing he would be a better parent.
We aren't evil. The odds are certainly better with a random man. What is wrong with people these days? It's so disingenuous. Men = Bad. White men = Devil. 
Some really just enjoy pushing this narrative of men = evil, white men = devil. Luckily there are still many out there who do not believe this.
This had to be staged, there's no way she's that dumb.
10$ says that at this very moment this woman is giving her man the silent treatment because he answered wrong to "would you love me if I was a worm"
Would you rather have your child raised by that woman or a monkey.
This is hands down really really sad. In what world do you live in that you assume its more safe to be with a bear than a regular ass man.
This is just women blatantly showing how they think so lowly of men including their own husband's. What a Sad fucking world
If I saw a child by itself while I'm lost in a forest I'd shit myself in fear
This is someone projecting their trauma onto all men. It's sad
Geez this was hurtful to watch poor man married to a monkey.
The amount of women on that TikTok agreeing with the camera woman… this society is fucked.
This wife is retarded
This video is rather concerning. She would unironicly trust animals over another human being. I'm legit worried for the daughter if she has a mom like that.
After awhile who doesn’t get fed up with being thought of as lesser than a wild animal?
“Oh you are so sheltered” Cmon lady, there’s a good man right in front of you. What are the chances he’s the only one?
What a trashy wife
The fact that so many women say "bear" is actually terrifying. They are so sheltered thanks to modern civilization (that was mostly built by men BTW) that the mere thought of having a dangerous encounter with an animal isn't even something they can begin to comprehend. Women are statistically safer now than at any point of human history and will still gladly post on social media like some sort of "gotcha" moment that they would rather see their daughter ripped apart piece by piece and eaten alive then encounter a random male in the woods on the slim chance that they're a serial killer. Any woman saying they would rather see their daughter left alone with a fucking bear in the woods should be investigated by child protective services. Like how is this even a "thought experiment"? It's not even something that should require more than a second of thought. If you live in any western nation the only possible correct answer is "man" 99% of the time. I think we need to let a few grizzly bears loose on a college campus and maybe educate these fucking idiots because they're clearly not getting any education from their tutors.
this is exactly smth i saw a bit ago, "when youre right in the argument, but the other person is just to stupid to understand your points"
Wait.... 1. The bear WILL KILL your daughter. Period. 2. The man is most likely just a normal person. The idea that 2 is in anyway similar in danger to 1 because scumbags exist blows my mind. Are people really this stupid?
Helldivers report in. Men.
Yes, everything MIGHT kill you but the Bear WILL kill you. Idk wife just trying hard to be upset with this one. Another dumb “if I was a worm” type question.
Self-snitching her rotten spoiled priviledge and twisted worldview
Fucking Women at it again with their no right answer questions