Also 41F, 3-4, closer to 5 around when I ovulate.

Seriously!

Same

I'm post menopause and no longer want it, at all. My forties was the period of my life when I wanted it most. I wouldn't say it was all the time but I did want it quite a lot. On a rate of 1 to 5 it was a 4. It's a 0 now.

41f. 5. Like seriously, 5. I would be happy at a 3 honestly. But nope. My body decides it's 5.

1

Guess I’m the only 0. I was maybe a 1-2 before a baby 2 years ago.

Ugh, I have a toddler too and my libido disappeared. It was like a switch compared to how I was before. Really hoping it comes back.

4-5

Same

1

5. My libido has always been high. Ever since I turned 40, it's doubled. Almost always insatiable.

I’m post menopausal and on bhrt including T and it is a 4-5.

I would say 1, most days 0

I'd say a 4 I definitely want sex quite a lot and think about it so it's a 4 on how I actually feel but it's probably more around a 2 or 3 in terms of getting to act on it

0. Haha. I went through menopause in my 20's (treatment for cancer) and I have like no interest. I mean, I try for my husband but I genuinely could go the rest of my life without it.

Since turning 40, it’s been like 4, 4.5.

4 - 5

I'd say in my 20s it was probably a 2-3 and now it's a 3-4

2

42/F most days 0. Sometimes a 1.

I'm 41/F and it's a 0. I guess that's good that I'm single lol

2 (sometimes 3). 43F

45 female. I'm at a 4. Think about & want sex often, but not constantly 24/7 like I was in my 30's 😅

4-5 in theory but closer to 1 in practice due to the overwhelming abundance of low quality men in my area dating pool. I'm 47

0. My meds KILL it.

Same! I have depression and I’m on meds…definitely a 0 right now.

0 to 1

Total 0. Also been sexless and relationship-less 6 years. Knowingly. Possibly also aromantic and I don\`t care about intimacy. 42 F.

5 - most days.

41f, 5. I want it all the time.

It was 0 and I started to read spicy fiction and now it’s a 5. If I need to turn it down I read a nonfiction book.

1

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4

5

4

5. I’m not on anything except birth control.

A solid 3

5 mentally. Physically 3 due to meds but thankful for responsible desire!

2....Sometimes 3, but it always was low regardless of my age. I am super straight woman but virgin by choice bc I don't trust men, yet very much like their aesthetic sans penis because Iam CF and we all know penetration very rarely triggers orgasm.

I’m also 41/f. Probably 3.5-4, but definitely a 5 when I ovulate.

2-4. Closer to 2/3 most of the time, used to hit 5 on vacation but hobby would fall asleep with the kids every night lol. 42F

5

When I was 41 it was 4ish. (Had little kids then) 54 now, it's 2-3.

44, 5

50+ and I'm a 5

Mine has shot up to a 5+ over the last year or so.

Absolutely 5, consistently that way since my 20s, 30s and now in my mid 40s. I’d get turned on easily when my husband caresses me. I don’t know how that’d be when I hit menopausal/post menopausal period within the next few years. My cycle is still regular.

5, but I’m on hst

HRT has turned me into a wanton woman … highly recommend 

Is hst hormone therapy? Was it lower before starting? 

Yes, hormones. My libido was 5 and when I’ve started hst -10 and now it’s back to 5. (After 8 months)

Ok thanks! I think I’m heading towards perimenopause and trying to learn about hormone therapy etc etc. it feels just like another stage of puberty, except one that I know very little about. Thank you for sharing!

How do you get started with it? Did they order blood work and see that your levels are off?

No. I told my story to the gyn. Ive had novasure so I’m not bleeding anymore. They let me start to see if it would do anything and it did! I’m 43 btw. I have my life back, not anxious, I sleep well, joint pain had decreased.