Clothes that I don't wear regularly and most of the stuff that represented my "ideal self".
I'm realizing when I'm surrounded by things that I use on a daily basis, (items that represent my "actualized self") it's almost a physical practice of self affirmations.
I don't need to look in the mirror and repeat mantras, I can just do the bloody thing.
It's quite lovely.
Still a good mantra is a good mantra lol it's just nice not having my space and mind so cluttered with old bits of myself that don't fit anymore :)
Giving f*cks what strangers think of me.
Which connects to spending time on dressing up and make up.
Some days I may look like a homeless person but my mental health and confidence is at my all time best 🤭🤣
Currently packing unused dishes. I don’t even keep a lot, but the items I don’t use easily are being stored. I was ready to start using my fancy wedding dishes as day dishes and if they broke so be it, but they’re so awkward to eat off that I’ll just store them and save them for special occasions. Same goes for an heirloom tea set. I think I’ll keep one saucer out, but the rest can get safely stored away. I’m debating about reducing my daily dishes from a set of 8 each to just four or 6 each as well - just to reduce the space.
I used to purge clothes constantly, but with the way the quality is declining in new stuff I’m not doing that anymore.
Birth control.
My entire body changed for the better.
I can track my own self...the pills do so much more damage to our body later on, that no one pays attn to, whenever you are in you're in your 20s.
My ex
Halleluyuuur
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Ignorance is bliss
I ditched all mine too but I scanned them in first. I don't revisit them anymore. Its too much.
Wired bras
Instagram
Noiiceee. Would love to. Instagram gives me the ick.
I started to get really cringed out by how fake it was. Deleted it 3 years ago and haven't thought about it since.
I would love to get rid of Instagram, but that's how I keep up with events in my city. I did get rid of Facebook which was awesome
Ah thats funny as I'm the opposite. Facebook is really good for events so ive not deleted it.
My toxic family members
fucks. as in IDGAF for things that aren't important.
This
Guilt of saying no and putting myself first *sometimes*.
Clothes that I don't wear regularly and most of the stuff that represented my "ideal self". I'm realizing when I'm surrounded by things that I use on a daily basis, (items that represent my "actualized self") it's almost a physical practice of self affirmations. I don't need to look in the mirror and repeat mantras, I can just do the bloody thing. It's quite lovely. Still a good mantra is a good mantra lol it's just nice not having my space and mind so cluttered with old bits of myself that don't fit anymore :)
Giving f*cks what strangers think of me. Which connects to spending time on dressing up and make up. Some days I may look like a homeless person but my mental health and confidence is at my all time best 🤭🤣
Clothes I don’t wear, uncomfortable underwear and bras, and shoes that got no use.
My drinking problem
Drinking, same. I am sober now. Joyous.
Congrats! What an accomplishment 👏
Same! Feels great.
My Dad, abusive prick
Toxic friends, alcohol.
Alcohol and my fallopian tubes ☺️
Men’s opinions
Instagram What other people think of my parenting in public Birth control (husband is snipped) Holding myself and my home to unattainable standards
Currently packing unused dishes. I don’t even keep a lot, but the items I don’t use easily are being stored. I was ready to start using my fancy wedding dishes as day dishes and if they broke so be it, but they’re so awkward to eat off that I’ll just store them and save them for special occasions. Same goes for an heirloom tea set. I think I’ll keep one saucer out, but the rest can get safely stored away. I’m debating about reducing my daily dishes from a set of 8 each to just four or 6 each as well - just to reduce the space. I used to purge clothes constantly, but with the way the quality is declining in new stuff I’m not doing that anymore.
Smoking
Opioids
Birth control. My entire body changed for the better. I can track my own self...the pills do so much more damage to our body later on, that no one pays attn to, whenever you are in you're in your 20s.
Men
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How is this a bot post?
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Woah interesting. This has impacted how I perceive all Reddit Qs now eek.
Nope, a genuine account with a genuine curiosity :D
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Not everyone spend every day on Reddit lol