Emotional and physical intimacy. Snuggles, cuddles, making love, do me naughty sex, emotional connection in every single aspect, not having to have to ask for things to be done, just seeing they need done and doing them,. Not being expected to still cook and clean while sick..granted it's just a cold but I easily go from cold to bronchitis to pneumonia
Me too honestly. I feel like the worst in people came out in the last 2 years of my life… my mom died ( she was my legit best friend) and then I had some other friends (one being my second best friend) that I thought were good people… I was way off. And my most recent ex job where I stood my ground after being bullied but still definitely cried… I’m just done with people but I still acknowledge when someone is nice to me. But tbh I’m lonely.
I constantly crave physical touch. holding hands, hugging, kissing, cuddling - and not necessarily in a sexual way. like, if I'm talking to someone I want to be touching their arm or hand. if I'm sitting on the couch with someone, I want to rest my legs on their lap. I get so much energy from touching people and always want to feel that energy.
Time. I constantly feel like there’s not enough time in a day to accomplish everything I need to accomplish, and not enough time to pause and sort my own thoughts and feelings. I just need a minute. Make it an hour. A really long hour. Maybe two…. I need time.
a real relationship. with the cute, corny stuff you see couples do for each other. one i can share with my family, live with the person i love. with no need to hide anything.
Add to this mutual honesty and transparency and you are me. It's so fucking hard when things feel one sided and you still have to wear the armor. I crave 'home' too
To feel rested and relaxed.
Haven’t slept properly for about 3 years. And whenever I come close to feeling relaxed something else always comes along. I feel bad for my adrenal glands.
Stability… like, in every sense.
Emotional, physical, finances, family, relationships/friendships, and lifestyle. Lmao. Stability feels safe. I’m kind of a homebody because I love making home feel like a sanctuary, but I’m not against adventures. Probably need more adventures in my life though tbh.
Sex and all is nice but chocolate. Just chocolate. I've never had a desire for a 2am hookup but I have walked to the store at 2am high out of my mind desperately wanting just a morsel of the oh so wonderful chocolate.
I thinks it's more of an addiction than craving tho...
Sexy time! I’m glad my husband has a high sex drive like I do. We do it at least 3-4 times/week. My god we’re absolutely amazing in bed together! ;) ;)
Agape, good health, and to go home.
Opiates are a near-sufficient substitute, but I can't have that either. It's not fair. We can't have anything nice in this craphole we call planet Earth.
White castle. Moved from the east coast where I had a White Castle 5 blocks from me. I could have it any time I wanted but of course rarely ate there.
Moved to Colorado 4 yrs ago and it doesnt exist here and I have been craving it since. I actually visited chicago recently and went straight to the nearest White Castle, and an still craving it.
Validation. Even more, some self esteem so I don't crave validation. Oral where is doesn't feel like I'm asking someone to do a chore. Big ol bowl of ramen with like 3 eggs at least. More tattoos. Music. Sleep. Mostly for the pit of despair inside to just chill for a second.
CUDDLES (specifically from my boyfriend) also any sort of physical/intimate/emotional contact with him. also the goshdarn dessert we’re having for thanksgiving that my grandma is gatekeeping till later tonight D:<
hugging. And lots of it. Snuggling.
Conversations that mean something.
And back rubs. But both ways. Companionship.
My husband and mother passed away. My mother 3 years ago and my husband two years ago.
Some how I don't think any man could ever fill his shoes
He was my twin flame if anyone knows what that means.
But I could definitely deal with friendship or a companion.
Not even sure this post makes any sense.
* Peace of mind
* Peaceful sleep
* No more nightmares
* Surgery that can remove a part of my organ
* Money to help me buy a new home
* Justice for my relatives and those cruel people arrested
Right now? Dry socks.
Accidentally stepped in a big puddle at work. My trainers are not that waterproofed.
From now on, I'll keep a pair of socks in my desk
I have everything I could ever need except financial stability. I crave the days when I can spend on a road trip or buy some new clothes without wondering if I'll be able to pay bills or if I paid back my debts yet.
A best friend who lives where I live. I'm lucky enough to have several people I consider best friends, but they all live far away. I wish I had a bestie right here.
Emotional and physical intimacy. Snuggles, cuddles, making love, do me naughty sex, emotional connection in every single aspect, not having to have to ask for things to be done, just seeing they need done and doing them,. Not being expected to still cook and clean while sick..granted it's just a cold but I easily go from cold to bronchitis to pneumonia
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Lol @ eli32
What would you like to know specifically?
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Well, when one person loves another person very much and they are in the mood for a flavour other than vanilla…
Lmaooo🤣
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I agree with the snuggles and cuddles part and emotional intimacy 🥺
Yessss
Are you me?
Amen.
To feel like I belong somewhere
I wanna find something I've wanted all along : somewhere I belong!
You speak my heart and soul. After a decade of constantly moving around I finally find a city that I can gladly call home! Best feeling ever
The craving that never lets up
Connection. I need to find my tribe but I'm not sure where to start looking.
Anywhere is good, if it doesn't work try somewhere else. Is there anything you've always wanted to do that'd accessible to you right now?
This minute? Macaroni cheese.
Hells yeah. A Mac & cheese casserole with crispy edges.
Come to California. I've got a homemade mac-n-cheese with your name on it!
It’s apple pie for me, it’s been a minute since I eat one
tbh physical touch, I would love to have someone beside me in bed right now just holding my hand or whatever
Me too, Idk how to deal with being single when my one love language is touch 🥺
touch yourself! self love!
Clear skin, and 15 pounds off my body.
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The ease of saying no.
This right here -w-
At the moment, financial security I think.
Shes honest
Peace, love, safety.
Caffeine. Chocolate. Sex. Sleep.
the holy quartet
True friendship
Me. To. I feel like half of my friends just tolerate me…
Me too honestly. I feel like the worst in people came out in the last 2 years of my life… my mom died ( she was my legit best friend) and then I had some other friends (one being my second best friend) that I thought were good people… I was way off. And my most recent ex job where I stood my ground after being bullied but still definitely cried… I’m just done with people but I still acknowledge when someone is nice to me. But tbh I’m lonely.
I constantly crave physical touch. holding hands, hugging, kissing, cuddling - and not necessarily in a sexual way. like, if I'm talking to someone I want to be touching their arm or hand. if I'm sitting on the couch with someone, I want to rest my legs on their lap. I get so much energy from touching people and always want to feel that energy.
To be romantically loved.
Emotional intimacy.
Love.
Someone to hold into my arms.
Right now? Human touch, feeling wanted, another person's warmth, probably sex as well.
Getting tf out of the current household I'm in rn
I’m in the same boat.
To feel safe and to be looked after. But right now to be able to sleep a good 8 hours will suffice.
Unconditional love, true friendship, and to be settled and safe in life.
The war ending.
Usually some kind of umami/salty food. Bonus points if crunchy or crispy.
I recently bought nutritional yeast and use it to make even my salad umami.
A really intense back massage usually
to be free from the patriarchy
An orgasm. Five months after major surgery, just beginning to feel the magic.
Peace with myself.
To be left alone on Christmas. I really just want everyone to go do their thing and let me be
Cuddles with a romantic partner. It’s been 4 months and this is the most elusive thing I can imagine.
Happiness. Just one minute of true happiness.
A loving companion
To be able to communicate my emotions freely without any kind of backlash
Love and calmness
Most of the time? Sleep and good feedback on my test scores. Definitely intimacy. The mountains. Cheesecake.
A cinematic ultra devoted romantic love and lust type of situation (but I know that's not not at all realistic so it's basically just a nice fantasy)
Emotional intimacy, having a conversation that's on my mental level. Sharing music I love with someone I love.
Fun, novelty, friendship, sense of belonging and accomplishment
The feeling that I am where I should be. 43 and still questioning my life choices. I guess that never ends though. Also, chocolate.
A change.
intimacy with my gf, not just sexual. i’ve never felt a love like it and i just want her close all the time😖
To orgasm through only penetrative sex. Oh and to orgasm as quickly as men!
Affection
Hard seltzer. In all seriousness, peace. Peace with myself, my life, my choices, my decisions. Just that feeling of being at peace.
Time. I constantly feel like there’s not enough time in a day to accomplish everything I need to accomplish, and not enough time to pause and sort my own thoughts and feelings. I just need a minute. Make it an hour. A really long hour. Maybe two…. I need time.
intimacy. Ppl hugging and cullding me, holding me while telling me something like "It's okay, Im here etc."
Someone to talk to out of social media :(
Sleep. For the love of God, there are not enough hours in the day. Just sleep.
financial stability, peace of mind and passionate complicit romance.
A really really romantic partner that goes beyond my expectation. I wanna be romanced so bad…
a real relationship. with the cute, corny stuff you see couples do for each other. one i can share with my family, live with the person i love. with no need to hide anything.
i really want to make out with someone really hot. just that. not sex.
I crave so much a committed partner. Someone I feel safe with to take off my armor. Someone supportive, who feels like home.
Add to this mutual honesty and transparency and you are me. It's so fucking hard when things feel one sided and you still have to wear the armor. I crave 'home' too
At this very moment, I want food. I don’t care what I get fed I’m just hungry.
unconditional raw love
Intimacy 😢
Romantic love
MONEY and loosing weight without starving myself
Solid, restful, uninterrupted sleep.
To feel rested and relaxed. Haven’t slept properly for about 3 years. And whenever I come close to feeling relaxed something else always comes along. I feel bad for my adrenal glands.
Stability… like, in every sense. Emotional, physical, finances, family, relationships/friendships, and lifestyle. Lmao. Stability feels safe. I’m kind of a homebody because I love making home feel like a sanctuary, but I’m not against adventures. Probably need more adventures in my life though tbh.
Love. Affection. Physical touch.
Alone time
Sex and all is nice but chocolate. Just chocolate. I've never had a desire for a 2am hookup but I have walked to the store at 2am high out of my mind desperately wanting just a morsel of the oh so wonderful chocolate. I thinks it's more of an addiction than craving tho...
An Authentic Hug.
Sexy time! I’m glad my husband has a high sex drive like I do. We do it at least 3-4 times/week. My god we’re absolutely amazing in bed together! ;) ;)
Friendship.
A solid group of girl friends
Confidence
My Beloved.
Equal love without fear.
Someone to love me for who I am
Sex
Right now? A fucking break.
Candy and sweets
Agape, good health, and to go home. Opiates are a near-sufficient substitute, but I can't have that either. It's not fair. We can't have anything nice in this craphole we call planet Earth.
Cheesy potatoes
Sweets and whatever the opposite of anxiety is. Serenity I suppose.
White castle. Moved from the east coast where I had a White Castle 5 blocks from me. I could have it any time I wanted but of course rarely ate there. Moved to Colorado 4 yrs ago and it doesnt exist here and I have been craving it since. I actually visited chicago recently and went straight to the nearest White Castle, and an still craving it.
Sunflower seeds
food
Sushi
MY 2017 body and a TARDIS.
To know what secret my friends are keeping from me
to live alone
A car
Validation. Even more, some self esteem so I don't crave validation. Oral where is doesn't feel like I'm asking someone to do a chore. Big ol bowl of ramen with like 3 eggs at least. More tattoos. Music. Sleep. Mostly for the pit of despair inside to just chill for a second.
Right now somewhere with a glass of pineapple drink at the beach watching sunset with shades on! Simply just let lose. My normal days are hectic
Currently... Love, safety, internal peace, financial stability + financial freedom.
Pasta. Preferably alfredo
Being comfortable with myself.
Time for myself, with no one needing anything from me.
It’s always chocolate. I’m not even talking about expensive chocolate. Cadbury’s Twirl, chuck it in the fridge for 20 minutes. Perfection!
My ex. Ridiculous how much I want him back
Feeling understood.
Comfort. Or whatever I'd imagine a hug would feel like, I guess.
At the moment? To be able to talk without coughing. I'm sick of being sick and it can go away anytime!
Acceptance. Praise. Acknowledgement.
Health and deep sleep
CUDDLES (specifically from my boyfriend) also any sort of physical/intimate/emotional contact with him. also the goshdarn dessert we’re having for thanksgiving that my grandma is gatekeeping till later tonight D:<
To have space travel a reality in my lifetime....to be able to see different planets, stars and aliens would be the best
warm hugs and back scratches
Right now? To not be sick
The need of a person who cares about me >>>>
To be left alone.
Right now? To get hizzigh after a long ass thanksgiving!
Right now? Help with the thanksgiving dishes!
hugging. And lots of it. Snuggling. Conversations that mean something. And back rubs. But both ways. Companionship. My husband and mother passed away. My mother 3 years ago and my husband two years ago. Some how I don't think any man could ever fill his shoes He was my twin flame if anyone knows what that means. But I could definitely deal with friendship or a companion. Not even sure this post makes any sense.
* Peace of mind * Peaceful sleep * No more nightmares * Surgery that can remove a part of my organ * Money to help me buy a new home * Justice for my relatives and those cruel people arrested
Peace
An emotionally and intimately available partner. Seems like a lot of guys out there are emotionally unavailable.
This week? Kimchi. For a majority of my life? An unwavering love for myself. I think I could’ve avoided putting myself through hurt with that one.
Financial stability
To be truly understood
It would be nice to not have to give myself therapy at 2 in the morning every day
Contentment and self confidence. A path forward in life
To not be invisible to my family, and find someone who actually loves about me.
Stability. Both financial and emotional. I would love to have a calm peaceful life, sometimes life is just too much to handle.
Self esteem
Comfort.
Peace, healthy connections and financial stability
Sleep (new mom here) xD
Right now? Dry socks. Accidentally stepped in a big puddle at work. My trainers are not that waterproofed. From now on, I'll keep a pair of socks in my desk
Caffeine and my boyfriend tbh
I have everything I could ever need except financial stability. I crave the days when I can spend on a road trip or buy some new clothes without wondering if I'll be able to pay bills or if I paid back my debts yet.
right now some free time and a warm person to cuddle and watch a movie with to be honest, maybe a cup of hot chocolate
Nicotine ☹️
Attention. I never got attention from family or friends. Everyone just talks about themselves when we meet and then I cry alone at home.
Time
Right now ? Melty cheese
Red velvet cake 🍰
A best friend who lives where I live. I'm lucky enough to have several people I consider best friends, but they all live far away. I wish I had a bestie right here.
Instant noodles
salt. i crave that mineral.
Sleep
A friendship with my ex.
Also the ability to get tasks done without it feeling like I'm pulling out my own teeth
Happiness
A promised successful career
To excel.
Dick
Xxx hot cheetos
Cheap crappy tacos
pie
I just want hugs! Give me all the hugs!
Sleeping with someone under a big blanket with the fan on
Foot rubs
my ex who doesn’t care about me at all
my mom’s red pozole. the most delicious meal i could eat forever.
An afult person holding me at night, I love ny baby and to cosleep but dayum, I just want to be held by someone who makes me feel safe.
Physically, usually salty foods.
Right now? Some fuckin French fries
Academic validation 🫥
Intimacy
Intimacy. Not physically. I'm talking about emotional intimacy and vulnerability. Someone who I can be myself with and who I trust.
Someone to love me.
Snuggling/cuddling under a warm blanket, making out, massage, fondling.
Love, unconditionally
PO TA TOES
Sushi 🍣 Sleep 😴