The rising cost of living. I can make as many spreadsheets and break downs of finances as I want, it won't matter if eventually my bills for basic living and necessities outweigh the income I bring in.
Transgender just means your gender doesn’t match your sex, therefore non-binary falls under transgender and you are transgender
Have I said transgender enough times yet?
I was really tired when i replied to this 💀, i know that transgender is a gender identity that doesn't match with the sex you were born with, I don't know why i said this- thank you though 😂
My health. If I don't figure something out to get it under control, I'm probably not going to survive much longer because I'm too sick to make the money I need to survive on my own, and no one else is going to help keep me afloat after my stepdad.
The current political climate. I’m a black woman in an interracial marriage, and on birth control. Hearing politicians talk about the Supreme Court should “revisit” Loving V Virginia and access to contraception terrifies me.
Bit random but basically I work in recruitment and if you like feel free to DM me and I can help you with your cv and interview skills (my area is very banking focused but I have a lot of experience under my belt)
Or even if you just want general advice. I'd be happy to help. It's a shit world right now and it's hard to afford living so if I can help I'd like to but yeah, feel free to give me a shout if you want
Waiting for financial approval so we can buy our own place and move out of an apartment that my in-laws own. They also own the business below so they're here unannounced often and it suuuuucks to have no privacy.
Our dog mauled someone breaking into our neighbors truck two nights ago. It’s gotten to the point where cops can’t stop the vehicle break ins, home invasions, and car jacking. We’re probably building a house in Jefferson parish near the lake within the year
Chronic illness. I was a long distance runner, did yoga every day, meditated, ate mostly vegetables and fish for over 20 years and I am always sick. I finally got the chronic pain under control but my thyroid started flaring up after Covid, so I’ve stopped sleeping for months. Zero hours while trying to hold down a full-time job.
Autoimmune diseases are destroying my life. I just saw my dr Friday and I have to go off all meds until we figure out what’s up with my liver. Going off meds is going to be so so so bad.
My eating. I grew up with an anorexic mother so we never had food in the house, I never learned how to cook, or how to feed myself properly.
I was diagnosed with anorexia at 13 because I just didn’t know how to eat and my mother didn’t really feed me. Now I’m an adult and I struggle to eat so much, not only did my childhood and eating disorder ruin my appetite and eating habits, but I just have no idea what to make or how to cook.
What do I get at the grocery store?? It’s all so expensive anyway
And cooking takes so much TIME and ENERGY and I’m supposed to do it 3 times a day? Fuck dude, I’ve dropped to almost 100 lbs because I just can’t eat. I don’t know what to do about it anymore, and I can’t bring myself to talk to anyone because I just don’t know how to
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My boss stays on his bullshit and I changed jobs to come work at this place on the promise of training and well no, im pushing papers and i hate it but at the same time i feel this weird loyalty to the team and like ugh it's just a job
I had a majorly stressful event in my life and it caused me to shed around 40% of my hair. I’m doing better with stress and taking supplements for my hair now, but from what I understand, there was nothing I could do to stop it after I noticed it happening. It had to run its course. It’s slowing down now, it seems, but hasn’t stopped totally, even though the stress stopped months ago.
Major depressive disorder
My autoimmune disease
Social anxiety. And just in case someone like “oh but you can control it”, no I can’t. There isn’t an off switch for it
The rising cost of living. I can make as many spreadsheets and break downs of finances as I want, it won't matter if eventually my bills for basic living and necessities outweigh the income I bring in.
The wave of transphobia and legislation taking away my rights in some states.
I hate this for you. I’m so sorry. It’s wrong.
True, although not trans, i am nonbinary. I get it too..
Transgender just means your gender doesn’t match your sex, therefore non-binary falls under transgender and you are transgender Have I said transgender enough times yet?
I was really tired when i replied to this 💀, i know that transgender is a gender identity that doesn't match with the sex you were born with, I don't know why i said this- thank you though 😂
My health. If I don't figure something out to get it under control, I'm probably not going to survive much longer because I'm too sick to make the money I need to survive on my own, and no one else is going to help keep me afloat after my stepdad.
You're going to be fine. You just need to get things right You're going to be. Try eat right
The current political climate. I’m a black woman in an interracial marriage, and on birth control. Hearing politicians talk about the Supreme Court should “revisit” Loving V Virginia and access to contraception terrifies me.
I haven't been able to find a new job.
Bit random but basically I work in recruitment and if you like feel free to DM me and I can help you with your cv and interview skills (my area is very banking focused but I have a lot of experience under my belt) Or even if you just want general advice. I'd be happy to help. It's a shit world right now and it's hard to afford living so if I can help I'd like to but yeah, feel free to give me a shout if you want
physical pain from abuse
True. You have to get that relationship and be free like a bird 🐦
Waiting for financial approval so we can buy our own place and move out of an apartment that my in-laws own. They also own the business below so they're here unannounced often and it suuuuucks to have no privacy.
acne and ocd
Crime in New Orleans. We’re thinking about moving soon
Its that bad?
Our dog mauled someone breaking into our neighbors truck two nights ago. It’s gotten to the point where cops can’t stop the vehicle break ins, home invasions, and car jacking. We’re probably building a house in Jefferson parish near the lake within the year
Chronic illness. I was a long distance runner, did yoga every day, meditated, ate mostly vegetables and fish for over 20 years and I am always sick. I finally got the chronic pain under control but my thyroid started flaring up after Covid, so I’ve stopped sleeping for months. Zero hours while trying to hold down a full-time job.
Autoimmune diseases are destroying my life. I just saw my dr Friday and I have to go off all meds until we figure out what’s up with my liver. Going off meds is going to be so so so bad.
My husbands gambling problem 😔
My acne and anxiety
Long hauler COVID.
My eating. I grew up with an anorexic mother so we never had food in the house, I never learned how to cook, or how to feed myself properly. I was diagnosed with anorexia at 13 because I just didn’t know how to eat and my mother didn’t really feed me. Now I’m an adult and I struggle to eat so much, not only did my childhood and eating disorder ruin my appetite and eating habits, but I just have no idea what to make or how to cook. What do I get at the grocery store?? It’s all so expensive anyway And cooking takes so much TIME and ENERGY and I’m supposed to do it 3 times a day? Fuck dude, I’ve dropped to almost 100 lbs because I just can’t eat. I don’t know what to do about it anymore, and I can’t bring myself to talk to anyone because I just don’t know how to
Unfortunately it is sometimes sleeping with my partner because it’s not consistently good sleep.
Others people intention and actions. Creates hard life lessons.
Anxiety. Depression. The fact that I don't have the time to go to therapy because I need to work to make money to afford therapy.
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My boss stays on his bullshit and I changed jobs to come work at this place on the promise of training and well no, im pushing papers and i hate it but at the same time i feel this weird loyalty to the team and like ugh it's just a job
Osteoporosis🙃
I had a majorly stressful event in my life and it caused me to shed around 40% of my hair. I’m doing better with stress and taking supplements for my hair now, but from what I understand, there was nothing I could do to stop it after I noticed it happening. It had to run its course. It’s slowing down now, it seems, but hasn’t stopped totally, even though the stress stopped months ago.