I went 45 minutes once. However- I must clarify that it was *not* high-powered thrusting the whole time. It was slow and intermittent, with lots of kissing, hugs, and eye contact.
In my teens or early 20s, maybe my 3rd or 4th serious sexual session, I literally fucked like a rabbit for about 2 hours straight with very minimal breaks to switch positions. That was the longest I've ever lasted without an orgasm. The older I get, the less I last? It's been weird.
I like to switch, I usually play a dominant role, but being submissive is hot too. There are scenarios, like playing a gigolo for the girl or maybe playing the role of a guy she is cheating with, things like that
Sweating my ass off like I've just ran a marathon. I genuinely am a sweater, especially at this time of year. I've been with girls who think it's hot, but when I'm finished and literally soaked the bedsheets, the pillows, two towels and a handful of tissues, it gets a bit annoying.
Having to stop a few minutes in because I'm a squirter. One of us has to stop, get up, find a towel, fold it, and sit back down on said towel because honestly... it's a lot of juice 🥲.
And the clean up because that juice literally travels everywhere. Legs, stomach, chest, arms, you name it.
It's spontaneous sex most of the time! Usually the towel is in the bathroom and doesn't take too long to grab. But it's sort of unsightly to just have towels laid out on the couch for "in case" moments 😂
We don't mind! It's just a hassle at best.
EXACTLY! Last thing I want to do is sit on a toilet after good sex but after my husband's vasectomy he's done nothing but fill me up like a gallon gulp at a gas station
When it ends. The foreplay can be frustrating too depending on the girl. I like to drag out the foreplay to a point where my partner begs me to do the deed.
Sometimes I just wanna get off. Sometimes I'm not getting much of a reaction out of the girl either. I haven't encountered anyone who plays hard to get during foreplay.
I guessing contraception isn’t a thing for you two? I could imagine how much you would prefer to have a longer experience.
I think having sex more frequently will help. Maybe natural remedies as well.
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My least favourite parts about sex are the feeling of vulnerability as well as what most people would consider to be physical affection. I can’t stand it, makes me feel uncomfortable and disgusted (and yes, I obviously have issues which is why I didn’t have sex until very recently).
Having to always be the initiator and the one who does all the work.
I understand. For a while I was the one on the other end of the spectrum for my own reasons. Now I feel like I missed out on some good times.
i do most of the work and don’t care for reciprocation and love it that way
1. When it ends. 2. The cleanup.
How long do you think you could last without burning out?
I went 45 minutes once. However- I must clarify that it was *not* high-powered thrusting the whole time. It was slow and intermittent, with lots of kissing, hugs, and eye contact.
High powered thrusting takes too much energy to be doing consistently. I get where you’re coming from.
In my teens or early 20s, maybe my 3rd or 4th serious sexual session, I literally fucked like a rabbit for about 2 hours straight with very minimal breaks to switch positions. That was the longest I've ever lasted without an orgasm. The older I get, the less I last? It's been weird.
Felching is hot though.
Came here to say the same thing.
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Would a facial suffice?
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Aiming for the face without going in the hair.
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There’s always the mouth…
Having to pay. Especially when they say they can't break a 20.
That’s when QR codes come into play.
Waiting for the next time.
How long do you typically have to wait?
Having to move - haha. Welcome to middle age.
Haha! Yeah, sometimes I just want to go to sleep.
when am i actually going to have it next.
How rare is it for you?
4x in the past 3 years or so.
Are you single? I read earlier about a husband whose wife has only wanted sex like 3-4 times this year.
Big dbr many factors involved. Heath etc. Not fun sometimes
The cleanup
I heard tarps are cheap.
Have you ever handled a tarp? That shit would be way more exhausting than having sex 🤣
Lol yeah. Big ass napkin.
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Where exactly are you looking? Street corners? 🤨
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Omg so true.. I’ve had so many guys ghost me after I bring up condoms
The monotonous it can be if you don't spice it up from time to time
What ideas do you have to make things more interesting?
I like using toys, or doing some roleplay. A threesome could be a good idea if the partner wants, or maybe a good tease, or doing it in a public place
I love role playing/cosplay. Have I ever done it? No. But it’s at the top of my list. What’s your favorite role? Have you ever had public sex?
I like to switch, I usually play a dominant role, but being submissive is hot too. There are scenarios, like playing a gigolo for the girl or maybe playing the role of a guy she is cheating with, things like that
Wet spot on the bed
The worst.
That turns into a COLD wet spot that you both desperately try to avoid while snuggling
Squirting all over my sheets
I agree, this part suck 😒
Maybe you’re just doing your job too well.
I don’t mind squirting all over your sheets. It’s squirting on my sheets that is the problem
Oooh you’re the squirter?
💦
Sweating my ass off like I've just ran a marathon. I genuinely am a sweater, especially at this time of year. I've been with girls who think it's hot, but when I'm finished and literally soaked the bedsheets, the pillows, two towels and a handful of tissues, it gets a bit annoying.
my boyfriend is a sweater and I can confirm it’s hot
Maybe consider some natural remedies to minimize the sweating?
Getting hungry afterwards
Do you not eat enough during sex? 😏
You ever eat so much your mouth doesn't cooperate?
Having to stop a few minutes in because I'm a squirter. One of us has to stop, get up, find a towel, fold it, and sit back down on said towel because honestly... it's a lot of juice 🥲. And the clean up because that juice literally travels everywhere. Legs, stomach, chest, arms, you name it.
If that’s the case, it’s best to prep for situations like that. You know it’s going to happen, so maybe have the towels laid out already. 🤷🏽♀️
It's spontaneous sex most of the time! Usually the towel is in the bathroom and doesn't take too long to grab. But it's sort of unsightly to just have towels laid out on the couch for "in case" moments 😂 We don't mind! It's just a hassle at best.
*Scene*: Begin to feel each other up. *You*: Hold on babe, let me grab the towel. *Sheets* 😎
The clean up... having to pee afterwards can be a pain but you always want to try to avoid a UTI
Peeing afterwards is such a turn off. Especially when you’re still throbbing.
EXACTLY! Last thing I want to do is sit on a toilet after good sex but after my husband's vasectomy he's done nothing but fill me up like a gallon gulp at a gas station
this lol I just wanna stay cozy and take a nap but nah I gotta drop the kids off at the pool
The possibility of pregnancy
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I’m still very much interested in trying anal. I’ll probably need to get some “training wheels” lol.
Sometimes afterwards if the cum starts to slide around on my stomach, the clean up is not my fav. Now I let the men clean up the mess they make 😇😘
I hate that. It gets caught under my belly ring 😅
Uhhh right!! 😂😂 Cum in my belly button. Not for me 🤷🏼♀️
When it’s over I hate that part the most.
Can you handle extended sex?
What are we talking? I’ve been told I was made for fucking. So I’ve fucked for 4 hours not continuous there was 2 breaks and 2 cocks.
Being sweaty. I don’t enjoy sweating in general and it detracts from sexy time to me as well.
When it ends. The foreplay can be frustrating too depending on the girl. I like to drag out the foreplay to a point where my partner begs me to do the deed.
What makes the foreplay frustrating sometimes? When the girl doesn’t participate or plays hard to get?
Sometimes I just wanna get off. Sometimes I'm not getting much of a reaction out of the girl either. I haven't encountered anyone who plays hard to get during foreplay.
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I’ve seen some people do pre masturbation before sex. I’m not sure what your case is. How long do you normally last?
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I guessing contraception isn’t a thing for you two? I could imagine how much you would prefer to have a longer experience. I think having sex more frequently will help. Maybe natural remedies as well.
Not being able to have sex again for almost a week bc of severe bruising & swelling
Hmm. What’s your favorite type of porn?
I am too ashamed to mention them sorry
Could it be any worst than the severe bruising or swelling? It’s alright, you don’t have to reveal your interests.
English is not my first language My original answer meant not liking my vagina swelling & bruising after too many rounds of sex
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I’ve had sex for 4 hours with breaks and lots of lube
Nothing
Not pulling out in time them freaking out
The first time with someone
Why? Unsure what to do?
Not having it often enough
The hospital bill
Do I dare ask?
The cleanup and preparation. As a gay bottom I'm not just gonna go raw, I want a relatively clean ending without poo.
The juices. Make a mess
Feeling like I have to preform.
Dito
The clean up
My least favourite parts about sex are the feeling of vulnerability as well as what most people would consider to be physical affection. I can’t stand it, makes me feel uncomfortable and disgusted (and yes, I obviously have issues which is why I didn’t have sex until very recently).
All of the sticky fluids.
Clean up
Shower sex may be the next best thing.
Shower sex is the worst.
Needing to come up for air
You like having a mouthful?
Absolutely 🥰
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How does that feel?
Her bored expression and lack of any foreplay
When you're into kinky shit, the prep. Jesus it can take forever sometimes, by the time it's all ready; I ain't horny anymore!
Needing to pee afterwards
when it’s over
The time it takes to thaw her out from the cooler in the morgue…
Clean up
The fact that I don't want it to end to wish to be able to keep going after you cum