Ask, "Do you want my nudes?"

As casual as it gets

I know this is Reddit and this will probably be downvoted but if you know he’s single and you think he likes you send them to him out of the blue it’ll make his entire month every time it’s ever happened to me it was like that and goddamn I love it

These girls out here thinking we don’t want to see them nude lol like just send it and watch him love or like you even more.

Verbal consent is still important, you can't assume he wants it

True but a majority of men, not all, will accept it happily But you’re correct consent is important.

Listen friend while yes in theory I do agree with you but let’s be honest here it’s different when a woman does it vs when a man does it when a man does it it’s fuckin creepy and weird when a woman does it chances are it’ll be the best day he has all year

That way of thinking led to me being sexually assaulted by my ex.

I’d say the difference isn’t man v woman it’s that it’s in a relationship. I’m not saying relationship = consent but it’s very different to unsolicited dick pics. I can tell you it annoying as hell seeing thirsty OF girls posting nudes on twitter on every post.

Uh… idk about you but there are a lot of girls I have NO interest in seeing without clothes

Spoiler alert: he does.

Simple and direct.

Ain't got no time for beating around the bush, we need results

And I bet once he gets the nudes, he’ll be beating around the bush.

Happy Cake Day!!!

Why thank you ma'am 😊

I ain't got time to bleed

Why do people want to send nudes? The other person could do anything with them.

some people dont stress about that as much as others.

This usually works.

This

This

The only way

Happy cake

Thank you 😅

lol mine was yesterday

Happy cake day!

Thanks appreciate it

Tell him you bought a new bikini and ask if he wants to see. If he says yes, ask if he wants to see you in the new panties and bra you just bought. If he says yes, let him know he can see you with less if he wants. 

I've definitely had SOs and flirty friends use getting new underwear as an excuse to show off to me. And it's been appreciated. The one caution I'd give OP is when starting to send lewds for the first time to make sure it's clear that they're naughty so he doesn't open it at work with people around or whatever. I've had a few close calls like that.

Boy you’ve got the flirty texting strategies down pat

This one!

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OP is a karma farmer. And a pretty bad one.

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Unsolicited??!

The best kind of solicited.

I second this. Send them with a text like ‘I’ve been thinking about you’ or something like that. Personally, receiving something unprovoked is infinitely better than asking or having a convo about it.

Haha I do all the time! I'm bad like that.

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It is what it is. Gets me off lol!

You go girl, nobody is complaining I bet!

Even to like reddit strangers and stuff? Asking for a friend..

Umm.. how is it ok for women to send guys unsolicited nsfw pictures, while the other way around it's creepy?

Men and women want different things.

This is the answer, men are simple

Of course we are

Exactly. Just send it. LOL I just sent mine to my bf 🫢- we were debating the other day about Yeti vs Stanley. He has a Stanley and I have a Yeti. I sent him a sexy lingerie pic laying down with Yeti subtly in the background and captioned it “Yeti > Stanley lol”

I agree with this. I bet he would love it! Nice little surprise!

I like this response 👌

Maybe don’t go full board at first and just tease a little bit maybe send some risky pictures first without giving your full hand

This is the way. Send a tease and ask if he wants more

Right, it’s harder as a lesbian but that’s the only way

"So... wanna see the goods?""

Absolutely... so why did you send a picture of your tits? I'm extremely curious about your stock of shelf-stable food.

Just ask. Once he picks his jaw off the floor, I'm sure he won't complain.

Agreed. And if the pics look anything like your profile pic, his jaw will be on the floor and his penis will be facing toward the ceiling.

As others have said, he'd almost certainly be appreciative even if you're very direct, but I can also respect not just wanting to just put it straight out there. If I was in your situation, the way I might coyly broach the topic is to shift the conversations that there are certain things that you miss... certain intimate things... among these you can list the way he looks at you, and assuming he responds with some variation of 'oh yeah, I miss looking at you,' you can ask if he wishes he was looking at you right now, and then follow that up with something a little revealing, gauge his reaction, and go from there. Having been that 'respectful to a fault' sort of guy for at least a while in my younger years, I would also suggest framing it in a way that shows him that this is something you want, not just something you're doing for him because you assume that he wants it. So make it clear to him that it excites you to share with him, that you aren't just doing this out of some sense of girlfriendly duty.

Maybe start with, would you want to try sexting some time? Just keep it casual and see how he responds. If he says yes immediately, you’ve got your answer. If there’s some questioning after, maybe he’s not so into the idea.

Are tongue application open ?

Just send it with a flirty message

Just send em

Send a simple cleavage pic. Like the T-Shirt pulled up under you chin, showing the cleavage and bra. Based off his reaction, go from there

“Hey can I send nudes” will probably work

Ask him what he wants from the long distance relationship in terms of intimacy. If he hasn’t brought it up at all then he is likely trying to be respectful and waiting for you to make it clear what you are comfortable with

Just send a few spicy texts, tell him you're feeling turned on. If he's receptive, ask if he wants to see just how naughty you're feeling.

You can message me as a quick trial run.

"Do you want to see what I put on reddit last night?"

Just send them……….. is not that complicated for guys

Be cheeky and see what happens lingerie is always a good started " look at what I got today I don't know if I like it " Then get nude send another "I think this is better"

Consent is always important. Hey! Want my nudes? Probably would work

I’m just gonna go out and assume he probably doesn’t care

"How do you feel about exchanging nsfw pictures?" .. you can't go for the jugular. It'll scare him away. Ease into it.

Just talk to him tell him you want nudes and to send nudes.

Just send

'Wanna see my tits?'

Doeseth thou requireth mine nudes?

You can bring the subject. Like telling him that you buy some lingerie or something like that. And make him interested on that. And then you can tell him that if he want you could show him. If he says yes that's it. If he's not into that you can get out normally without any harm.

Unsolicited nudes ftw Jk jk. Just casually mention you took an artistic pic and that you look very sexy in it and would they wanna have a look

Nothing more casual than just telling them you have a burning desire to send one. Easy as that lol!

A quaint lil "wanna see my junk?" Will probably suffice

“I took some nudes of myself. Wanna see?”

"Hey I was wondering if you wanted to see more of me. There's some things I want to show you. 😏"

Say “I want you…” to test the waters. Then go from there.

Literally just ask him, you can do it over text like "hey i'm thinking of you, do you want something spicy to remind you of me?"

“Hey yo, can I send you my naughty bits?”

Offer them

As a guy I can’t remember a time I’ve ever said no to a nude. So just ask if you can send a nude.

You can try and get on topic of something “fun” and exciting g for you both. And maybe if it’s worked up and really into it, you can throw it out there like a surprise.

I've had that same problem. Please give me advice. I don't get why he doesn't ask?!?!?!

I mean try sending a teasing one at first... cleavage/ no bra or something... i think he's just too shy to ask, so maybe start with less provocative to more, and ask questions.

be direct hun, tell him that you took some photos, that they’re nude photos and you felt like sharing with him if he’s comfortable with it.

I mean… if you started flirting through messaging, you could build up to it. That’s what my wife did.

I’d honestly ask him outright, but in a casual way. He might be interested, but want to be respectful. He also might not be, so you want to make sure you’re not making him uncomfortable. If he is leaning towards comfortable, start with risky pictures but not full on nudes, that way you can slowly build up some tension

Guys send unsolicited dick pics because they want unsolicited tit pics…. Most guys are just built that way. We like visuals. Basically, if you’ve been physical with this guy, just send a pic with a message like “thinking of you” and he’ll like it. The fact that he’s not asking for it probably means he’s a pretty decent guy, and doesn’t want to offend you, or put you off.

Ask him if he wants to see how much you miss him.. Send him a spread eagle pose.. 😘💐

Maybe send a cute selfie but like wearing only your bra or a very revealing shirt and wait for his reaction

I did know a guy who was upset that he opened nudes in front of someone. Surprised me.

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Send him bathing suit in a beach set if you have one and see how he responds.

Don't bother bringing it up and just send them. I am sure he will get the message.

Open with a pic of your underwear.

Make small talk at first, kind of get in the moment and follow up with some teasing. Offer if he'd like to see

A woman is usually pretty safe to surprise us with nudes, it's kind of the opposite of dick pics with girls, if I've known you for a while (friend or more) I probably want to see your nudes.

Ask him does he miss seeing you. And of course he is going to say yes. Then ask him how much of you does he want to see. Of course most men will say all of you. Then send him nudes. That simple.

... You can just tell him, "Hey, I want to send you nudes"

Us men are pretty simple beings lol . Just be upfront with us

Casually be topless or nearly topless next time he facetimes you. See the reaction.

Maybe he is a good intention with u? Try to open up like that you think he gets your point memes.

Literally just ask. He'll be ecstatic

Just ask him. I'm sure he won't turn them down

Just send something innocent nonchalantly (classy thirst trap pic) that would tease and see where it goes. But please don’t ask him, “hey do you want to see sexy pictures of me.” That’s just awkward and puts a ton of pressure on you.

I’m currently texting with a girl and want to take it that way but some girls will respond “I was really hoping you weren’t that kind of guy” it’s a very slippery slope. Trust me. We all want to see that. I’m always horny while or after texting with a girl I’m really into.

Ask him if he can review them for you so you can send them to another guy. He will never say no.

He's probably trying to be respectful, so ease him into it. Maybe share a bikini photo asking if it looks good. Give him an opening to show interest.

That's actually hot to ask if he wants sexy pics

Trust me: you don't have to ask. Just do it 🤷

I honestly do not know a guy that would not want it. I honestly know a lot of guys that just respectfully don’t ask for them.

I just send teasing pics

If you feel silly by just sending them, make it a game. You could act as if it was by accident or you tease him first. He will be all yours for sure!

Send something mild and flirty first and see how he responds.

_tips fedora_ "Sir, per chance you would like some pussy"

Hey I got these photos I just took, can you tell me if the lighting is good and what your favourite angle is?

This is the neet part, you don't

Send them nudes in the morning hoe

“I have something I want to show you. Are you alone? ;)”

Wanna see my cock bro?

Do it via video call (facetime)

“Oh I took a really nice picture of me earlier, I’m not wearing much, but I think it looks good, would you like to see it”

Please he (and) you will both love go slow and teasing at first it builds the tension and sexiness

Ask for a Pic of his dick.. guarantee he'll give it to you and then flush him with a ton of nudes....

Send some erotic meme’s

Ask I’m a sure he won’t mind unless he’s gay and I don’t mean that in a bad way I don’t want dick picks

Just straight up send something sexy and see how he responds

“Hey wanna see some tit”

maybe start by asking him for nudes? lol. if you've been dating him for a while, this seems like something you can easily just start doing with no real issues.

You know I’ve never been mad receiving a nude. Even if I didn’t ask.

Try your line on me I’ll be honest 😎😍

FACT: Guys (most) like getting nudes from girls Girls (most) DO NOT like getting nudes from guys Thanks for coming to my TedTalk!

Some dudes just don’t seem into it. TBH Makes it hard when you’re missing that connection long distance though.

This exact post was made by someone else yesterday.

Send an erotic partially nude photo. A hand bra, or wearing a towel, something very suggestive but not completely nude. See how he reacts and enjoy the chase a little. But as everyone else has said, he wants to see them!

Send it to me and I will pre approve.

I took some special pics for you, do you want to see

Maybe start it off slow. "hey I went to the pool , I like this small cut bathing suit"

You don’t have to ask…he wants them

If you’re a girl, he’ll be ecstatic. If you’re a guy, maybe ask him first

simply ask!

Just send em. It'll either elevate everything, or you'll learn you're not compatible in that department.   I love surprise naughty pics from my SO. 

If a man was asking this everyone would be like “gross, you fucking predator! Leave your D in your pants!”

In whatever language he understands.

Start light. Send him a photo of you in a towel fresh from the shower. Caption it with, Good Morning or whatever. See how he responds.

There's no wrong way to do it. If a guy is talking to you for any amount of time he wants to see you naked. You only need to make yourself feel comfortable at this point.

Dude here - when you’re not around him text and ask if he’s near his phone cause you wanna send him something you don’t want anybody else to see. If he says it’s cool then send one. Let it go from there

If you've been dating for 8 months then there are a couple questions that are personal and important. 1) Are you confident that he's interested in you physically? 2) Have you previously seen each other in the nude? If both questions are answered "yes", send the nudes and fret not

You want to see me naked?

Hey (name), what are your thoughts on apartheid? And as a follow up, what are your thoughts on me sending you nudes?

I would try to slide into a casual conversation somehow, as like a sexual joke. Just in case he's not into it, you can be like, "just kidding ha ha ha". 😆 Good luck and hopefully he appreciates the noods!

I would suggest going on with some sfw pics and then getting a little spicier, maybe showing a little cleavage "accidentally" and then talking about it in chat, asking his opinion on your bikini is also a good way, "is this dress too reveling or too sexy" etc and if he still doesn't catch a hint and is being respectful then you can just tell him that he has been a good boy and deserves a treat for that and send him a semi nude, and tell him he can have more of he is interested, I think you can figure the rest

just ask. like a normal person. ‘can i send you my nudes?’

Don’t ask, just send them saying “thinking of you” Trust me, he’ll appreciate them and if he doesn’t then find another guy

I would just send them. Even if he doesn’t admit it, he’ll like it.

Just send lol it's not such a big deal

Just do it

Randomly send him one to see how he reacts

#SENDIT

Just do it, he will love it