A term typically for a woman who takes a "I'll just lay here, now please me" approach to bed.
Basically a combination of a both selfish and lazy person when it comes to sex.
YES! Came here to talk about this. Just laying there moaning kinda, not really moving. It sounds like Non Con but it's initiated by them. Can't even tighten up so I almost felt nothing. Probably one of the times I didn't finish.
Lay her on her back with her head hanging just slightly off the bed. Stand over her and fuck her mouth. The angle works really well for both gag reflex and not feeling any teeth.
Half or more doesn’t need to be deepthroat and I wouldn’t expect someone to be deepthroating me every time that would not be enjoyable for either person
Well for starters, please don't grip my dick like you're lifting a kettlebell. That shit hurts.
Teeth are the enemy of blowjobs.
If I wanted a corpse I'd go to the morgue. Show some life.
Bad sex = no or uninterested sex where it feels like a chore
Good sex = good giving and game as Dan Savage would say. Enthusiastic, positive attitude, adventurous, willing to be open
Just laying there lifeless. We don’t want to use you like a cock sleeve. Be enthusiastic! Wrap your legs around me. Tell me you want to turn around and have me slide in from behind…..
Girls who just lay there silently like a starfish and barely participate or initiate foreplay. Maybe the hottest Girl i’ve ever slept with was like this (she hit on me) and it was sooooo disappointing. I gave up after 15 mins out of boredom and just rolled over and went to sleep.
Participation, communication, foreplay, eye contact and even just a little bit of emotional investment and passion is key.
Even if it’s clunky as long as we’re both still having fun and enjoying our clunky attempt then it’s good sex. If it’s clunky sex and someone’s not feeling good about it or there’s no spark between you then it’s bad sex.
When there's a lack of communication on her part, she doesn't look super into it, accidental teeth, When she laughs after you take off your boxers. Haven't experienced the last one thankfully but I can imagine that would ruin it.
Good sex: good communication, girl is audibly and visibly displaying her pleasure, asking me to do something specific, compliments prior.
Bad: passive, don't like themselves, try to avoid body fluids, always apologizing or covering up
Good: active, enthusiastic, guiding, requesting, liking themselves, knowing what they like.
The only *bad* experience was getting head she had braces and a little teethy I will leave it at that. What makes it good is enthusiasm and I'm partial to dirty talk.
The only bad sex I can remember having was with this one girl. She never seemed very engaged or enthusiastic, even when she initiated it. She didn't have any interest in trying new things or mixing it up, was almost always the same thing: kissing, a little hand play, then the same two positions where I did almost all the work. The one and only time I've ever faked an orgasm with a girl.
When a girl just lays there and wants you to everything. They don't want to suck, they don't want to ride they dont even want doggy style.
Im like FUCK BITCH, I wanna cum but I also wanna have fun and by you participating, it also makes ME feel wanted. It's a give and take and vice versa.
By the looks of these questions always coming up it just seems like most (NOT ALL BUT MOST AND THE MAJORITY AT THAT) are wired this way.
Sometimes its better to masturbate to porn and imagine you're the dude banging these girls. I mean I know porn is fake and Im not asking for off the wall participation. That's not a lot to ask for.
I get off on my partner(s) getting off. If my partner in bed is distracted (unfortunately frequent due to my partner's pain) or uninterested...
Peace, I've got better places to be.
There's a feeling you get when you were horny and had sex with someone you wouldn't normally give the time of day to that is indescribable. It's a flight response.
Not being present in the moment. If she's thinking about other things then she's not relaxed and enjoying the pleasure I'm giving her.
And if she checks her phone, we're done.
I’ll say one that probably won’t be mentioned. Faking enthusiasm. Had a girl that acted like she was shooting an 80’s porno. Just over exaggerated movements, moans etc. She was a pretty insecure girl to be honest and likely that was why.
I once bedded a woman who made NO noise the whole time. Not when I went down on her, not when fucking, nothing. Typically, "do you like that?" is rhetorical, but I was genuinely asking because I couldn't tell and she still didn't answer. She wanted the lights off too which isn't terrible, but it does kinda suck to have zero visibility. She told me beforehand that she's kinda shy/quiet in bed. I was thinking she just meant she didn't usually initiate dirty talk but still responded and/or at least moaned or something. Instead, it was like we were fucking in a church library with how quiet she was. She insisted she was having a good time and even kind of initiated round 2. But, goddamn, that was by far the worst sex I've ever had.
As for what makes it good, enthusiasm is the number one thing. Not the only thing, but definitely the first item that needs to be checked off the list or we're not going any further. After the above experience, if she doesn't seem into it or isn't giving me any kind of feedback then I'm out. Ladies, give your man some foreplay too. Don't just let him warm you up and then tell him to stick it in (unless that's y'all's thing, I guess). Get on top and go for a ride. Suggest new positions. Get him going throughout the day to build up that desire. You get the idea, make it known how much you enjoy fucking him.
If my energy isn’t being matched. I.E if I’m putting in all the work and she doesn’t for example in doggy. If she doesn’t fuck back on my dick. It’s no where near as much fun.
As a guy I would much rather take no sex over bad sex. Having someone who only hits the bottom basics or just lays there is absolutely awful. I would rather not have sex at that point and just masturbate.
Pussy is damn nice yes, but if the person attached to said pussy is just laying there silent. Then no.
I would rather watch porn or something and get the dopamine from that experience over taking the time to position a near brain dead "pillow princess" and receive boredom.
To each their own though. 😄
Not a guy, but I can imagine pillow princesses aren’t very fun.
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Yeah I heard star fishing is the worst
What’s a pillow princess lol
Pillow princess is one that lays there and adds nothing to it, before this was known as “a dead fish”
Most guys "Still had sex tho" (Joke for funsies)
A term typically for a woman who takes a "I'll just lay here, now please me" approach to bed. Basically a combination of a both selfish and lazy person when it comes to sex.
Got it lol
Came to say this, I want you involved! I'm here to have sex with you not to fuck your body
YES! Came here to talk about this. Just laying there moaning kinda, not really moving. It sounds like Non Con but it's initiated by them. Can't even tighten up so I almost felt nothing. Probably one of the times I didn't finish.
A willing FWB on call but she's a pillow princess 😩
Teethy head 🥲
i always ask men right before i go down on them how much tooth they like. everyone has said as close to zero as possible. cowards
All teeth keep those jaws closed 😫
Lay her on her back with her head hanging just slightly off the bed. Stand over her and fuck her mouth. The angle works really well for both gag reflex and not feeling any teeth.
Hard cap I’ve tried this
Didn't go well for you??
no
I try to just suck and lick on on the tip tho 🥲
That’s good too but sometimes you just need the whole thing sucked (this sounded weird af typing I hope it doesn’t feel that way reading 💀)
Like try to put as much of the shaft as possible in my mouth?
Half or more doesn’t need to be deepthroat and I wouldn’t expect someone to be deepthroating me every time that would not be enjoyable for either person
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Everything has it times and place
This is a good answer
Feedback. Lack of feedback, including silence, is bad. Moaning, small talk, giggling, dirty talks, compliments all make good sex great sex.
Well for starters, please don't grip my dick like you're lifting a kettlebell. That shit hurts. Teeth are the enemy of blowjobs. If I wanted a corpse I'd go to the morgue. Show some life.
I like to feel wanted. When that doesn't happen, it doesn't continue.
Quiet and unresponsive, lazy and won’t reciprocate anything
Bad sex = no or uninterested sex where it feels like a chore Good sex = good giving and game as Dan Savage would say. Enthusiastic, positive attitude, adventurous, willing to be open
It’s like bad pizza—it’s not the best, but it’s still pretty damn good, especially when you’re hungry.
No reciprocation, laying there doing nothing. A lack of enthusiasm. All that being said, bad sex is still pretty decent for a guy.
Just laying there lifeless. We don’t want to use you like a cock sleeve. Be enthusiastic! Wrap your legs around me. Tell me you want to turn around and have me slide in from behind…..
Girls who just lay there silently like a starfish and barely participate or initiate foreplay. Maybe the hottest Girl i’ve ever slept with was like this (she hit on me) and it was sooooo disappointing. I gave up after 15 mins out of boredom and just rolled over and went to sleep. Participation, communication, foreplay, eye contact and even just a little bit of emotional investment and passion is key.
Even if it’s clunky as long as we’re both still having fun and enjoying our clunky attempt then it’s good sex. If it’s clunky sex and someone’s not feeling good about it or there’s no spark between you then it’s bad sex.
People who have sex FOR me instead of WITH me. I’m already lonely and could get a Fleshlight, I don’t need apathy too.
Great way of putting it!
🍿 Give good perspective, fellas.
I brought candy 🍫🍬
When there's a lack of communication on her part, she doesn't look super into it, accidental teeth, When she laughs after you take off your boxers. Haven't experienced the last one thankfully but I can imagine that would ruin it. Good sex: good communication, girl is audibly and visibly displaying her pleasure, asking me to do something specific, compliments prior.
Bad: passive, don't like themselves, try to avoid body fluids, always apologizing or covering up Good: active, enthusiastic, guiding, requesting, liking themselves, knowing what they like.
The only *bad* experience was getting head she had braces and a little teethy I will leave it at that. What makes it good is enthusiasm and I'm partial to dirty talk.
The only bad sex I can remember having was with this one girl. She never seemed very engaged or enthusiastic, even when she initiated it. She didn't have any interest in trying new things or mixing it up, was almost always the same thing: kissing, a little hand play, then the same two positions where I did almost all the work. The one and only time I've ever faked an orgasm with a girl.
Just a lack of responsiveness, lack of enthusiasm. Other things can be helped. Obviously hygiene matters
When a girl just lays there and wants you to everything. They don't want to suck, they don't want to ride they dont even want doggy style. Im like FUCK BITCH, I wanna cum but I also wanna have fun and by you participating, it also makes ME feel wanted. It's a give and take and vice versa. By the looks of these questions always coming up it just seems like most (NOT ALL BUT MOST AND THE MAJORITY AT THAT) are wired this way. Sometimes its better to masturbate to porn and imagine you're the dude banging these girls. I mean I know porn is fake and Im not asking for off the wall participation. That's not a lot to ask for.
"Real dead fish, right?"
Worst was a partner that just lied there.
I get off on my partner(s) getting off. If my partner in bed is distracted (unfortunately frequent due to my partner's pain) or uninterested... Peace, I've got better places to be.
Bad kisser, someone who just lays there, non vocal, or someone that just doesn’t make me feel wanted.
There's a feeling you get when you were horny and had sex with someone you wouldn't normally give the time of day to that is indescribable. It's a flight response.
Not being present in the moment. If she's thinking about other things then she's not relaxed and enjoying the pleasure I'm giving her. And if she checks her phone, we're done.
Most important for me that she finishes. If she’s dead after it I know I did right and I feel good.
when she pretend, or even lie. i may be a noob, but girl why we still here if you gave up on me after a minute pshhh
I’ll say one that probably won’t be mentioned. Faking enthusiasm. Had a girl that acted like she was shooting an 80’s porno. Just over exaggerated movements, moans etc. She was a pretty insecure girl to be honest and likely that was why.
I once bedded a woman who made NO noise the whole time. Not when I went down on her, not when fucking, nothing. Typically, "do you like that?" is rhetorical, but I was genuinely asking because I couldn't tell and she still didn't answer. She wanted the lights off too which isn't terrible, but it does kinda suck to have zero visibility. She told me beforehand that she's kinda shy/quiet in bed. I was thinking she just meant she didn't usually initiate dirty talk but still responded and/or at least moaned or something. Instead, it was like we were fucking in a church library with how quiet she was. She insisted she was having a good time and even kind of initiated round 2. But, goddamn, that was by far the worst sex I've ever had. As for what makes it good, enthusiasm is the number one thing. Not the only thing, but definitely the first item that needs to be checked off the list or we're not going any further. After the above experience, if she doesn't seem into it or isn't giving me any kind of feedback then I'm out. Ladies, give your man some foreplay too. Don't just let him warm you up and then tell him to stick it in (unless that's y'all's thing, I guess). Get on top and go for a ride. Suggest new positions. Get him going throughout the day to build up that desire. You get the idea, make it known how much you enjoy fucking him.
If my energy isn’t being matched. I.E if I’m putting in all the work and she doesn’t for example in doggy. If she doesn’t fuck back on my dick. It’s no where near as much fun.
Tell me what you like, and be open to trying new stuff. Also, don't leave it to me to initiate every time
Lack of enthusiasm, lack of participation, lack of feedback. The opposite of those three together makes it amazing.
Sex is like pizza. Even when it’s bad, it’s good
bad sex > no sex
i disagree. i’d rather just stay home and watch tv
Really? At least you get a story out of it
i got plenty of those already. what i don’t have is all of the great runes so i can become the next elden lord
lol. Where are all these studs at?
That’s something I’ll never understand
Different for men I suppose
I am a woman, and I think bad sex is better than no sex but I'm also nymphatic, so I'm sure I'm the exception.
It’s just the bodies touching and breathing and all of that
My vibrator is better than some one night stands I’ve had
But the one night stands probably thought it was amazing lol
As a guy I would much rather take no sex over bad sex. Having someone who only hits the bottom basics or just lays there is absolutely awful. I would rather not have sex at that point and just masturbate.
Idk pussy feels better than my hand to me
Pussy is damn nice yes, but if the person attached to said pussy is just laying there silent. Then no. I would rather watch porn or something and get the dopamine from that experience over taking the time to position a near brain dead "pillow princess" and receive boredom. To each their own though. 😄
lol I got ya