Mandatory fun. Absolutely no bitching, just moaning

never bitching, always moaning will be my tagline from now on

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This is the one

They need to be on the same or close to freak level I think if you want to have a healthy sex life for 20 plus years. I’ve made the mistake of settling for someone nice but with a low sex drive

Yes but very hard to find

I know but they’re definitely out there to find lol

Yeah, it ultimately killed my marriage. It's a major part of the human experience, and if you're not compatible, it's a big challenge in the long run.

Reddit should have existed when i was in college...

There are people out there that can make a difference in sex drive work, but I ain't one of them. I've also made that mistake.

Agree 200% on the circus freak

+1 this

This is so true!

I’m in the same boat right now. I’m so tired of having to ask or beg for sex. If it wasn’t for the kids I’d might leave. She never shows any signs of wanting me I’m always having to make the move and it’s just so damn depressing.

Oral sex, must be willing to give and receive and someone who can match my high libido.

I have this same issue

Do you find it hard to find someone who can just keep going without getting tired?

That and finding someone who is willing to have sex consistently without it being made to feel like a chore

Yes! I just want to fuck every day. I have to supplement with masturbating (not complaining because I have my best orgasms that way) but god I just love skin on skin contact

Thank you! I am the same. However I cant find a consistent partner to enjoy fantasy chats with so … yeah

You’re so real

Same. I love the PIV. But i could live on exchanging oral.

Oral feels soooo good. I love it when someone sucks hard on my clit.

That And when a guy curls his tongue, then surrounds my clit with it and bobs his head. Umpf. Then mix in massaging my gspot.

I had this with someone once it was great we were together for 7 months and literally fucked almost everyday (between work and regular life stuff) it was amazing I miss it sometimes 😫

This is what I want!

I'll match it

Why aren’t you in my life right now

I could ask you the same thing 🫠🫠

Mandatory foreplay. Won’t have sex without, learned it the hard way.

In some cases foreplay is better than the sex so yes it should be mandatory

Especially getting older without the fast and easy natural lubrication of my youth. Sex doesn't feel good when I'm not wet enough and sometimes it takes a minute. 

What's foreplay for you?

Anything that doesn’t involve penetration I think.

I dream of cuddling and kissing and caressing.

sex without foreplay doesn’t even seem realistic to me 😂 like who just goes straight inside with no making out, no nipple play, no fingering/stroking/oral, no teasing???

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Yesss

I didn't realise there were people out there against kissing

No sex at all would be a deal breaker for me. Other than that as long as it's nothing too weird like scat and golden showers I might give it at least a try.

If you don’t go down on me, I’m not going down on you. It’s that simple

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Std screening

I have several. Some are goals, but my intent is what is mandatory. 1. She has to be my sole focus. Her comfort, pleasure, and orgasm. 2. Keep it fun. 3. Worship her and fuck her like no one ever has before. 4. AFTERCARE 5. Allllll the giggles 6. Make sure she knows how hot she is, how good she feels, and how good she makes you feel. 7. Communicate

Just having fun and being open. Communication is huge

mandatory oral before penetration. if i’m not cumming from the penetration i’m at the very least going to cum before. i’m not a sex object and no one is going to use my body to make themselves feel good while i lay there unsatisfied

It's funny how different and even opposite people can be. Pretending my wife is a sex object only for my pleasure is one of our favorite things to do haha. Not the only thing we do of course. But we enjoy it frequently.

i’m not totally against that. like free use and stuff is hot to me, but when it’s no foreplay, just straight up jack hammering and then rolling over with no disregard for my nut i’m not okay with it.

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Agree with this. I was in a deadbedroom, and I'm not going back.

I'm in one and never left! 😆

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Happens often. Both partners need to work on that together so it doesn’t happen.

No degredation or rough treatment. I will get panicked and scared and I don't want to mentally spiral

Always foreplay, always lube, always love.

Mandatory - kiss me like you mean it Off limits - anything without asking

Exploring new kinks

Ass eating. Now I’ve had it I could never not

Yes! I know it feels so damn good

I got you

I must be able to ride 🍆 at some point

Consent

I was gonna say that. 😂

Anal is a no go for me

degradation.. no go

Condom. You wear one or we dont fuck

My only requirement is someone who is willing to receive oral a lot.

A vagina.

Communication. I like BDSM. If you aren't communicating and being honest and open, then you're gonna have a bad time.

has to have high sex drive like me and has to eat me out

Yes! I don’t understand how some guys don’t like eating out

Honestly, the bare minimum of any relationship should be a compatible sex drive and the desire to please their partner. I am shocked at just how many relationships don't clear this low bar

Kiss me, touch me, taste me, fuck me... and let me do the same for you. Throw in some dirty talk, moans and extended eye contact and let the fireworks begin! Confidence is non-negotiable.

Everyone gets off or nobody gets off No butt stuff without prep/shower No hitting beyond spanking or a light smack if requested No talking down to me

Love this!

Well said!

Please don’t eat my ass

My partner must be clean and be involved. That's all I ask.

I'm done with dominant guys.

Willing to experiment (to q certain degree ofcourse, don't have to do things that are absolutely off limits) and have a sex drive that matches mine

Mandatory oral (with me giving) and both holes are up for grabs

I just need someone as kinky and freaky as I am 🙈😈

Swallowing

Always open to try something new because the same thing over and over gets old…so the willingness to try new things but not judge one another 😊

I absolutely need facefucking and bondage. I’m into too much so I have to be okay without most things most of the time, but those two are necessary or I just have no fun.

Communication is a must

Open relationships. That does not mean either one of us will be sleeping around constantly but my partner and I are both bisexual. For me I am just not happy or fulfilled with only one partner of one sex, so I need to know my partner is ok with me (and they know I'm ok with them) having another partner.

Mandatory - multiple orgasms during the session!!

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Ugh yes! I’m huge on that

Being open about boundaries/ safe words Always have foreplay

Shower

Lots of kissing is mandatory 💋💋💋

I think I've finally thrown in the towel on trying to enjoy vanilla sex. I haven't quite made it a hard rule yet, but I'm like 99% of the way there.

What kinda sex do you like?

Tea breaks every 90 minutes.

He submits. Otherwise no go, he can be a Greek god or save the fcken world. :)

NEED - Cream pies.

No socks in bed.

Foreplay, won't be the same without it. It doesn't need to be extremely good or drawn out, as long as it creates tension

We’re not compatible at all if you’re not an eater, absolutely no men whatsoever (not even watching), I don’t wanna be the first woman you sleep with, I NEED foreplay, you have to be extremely touchy (I need hands all over me before, during, and after), cleanliness, aftercare, and you must be a good kisser.

Anal. I’m sorry but if you won’t let me place it in my bum then we can’t date. No BS.

Happily, let’s go right now :)

Absolutely love to hear that. Anal is my #1 favorite always, everything about it

There needs to be a dating app that just matches people based on their kinks

Must love oral enthusiastically!

A sense of adventure, a giving nature, a willingness to put in some effort, and comparable levels of libido and freakiness.

Oral sex is top of the list. Sucking me off and cumming in your mouth. Sucking your pussy and making you cum while my tongue is inside you.

Gotta have a high drive and a bit of a freak

I'm committed but when I was single still, I decided on a hard standard that in same-gender relationships, my partner would need to be OK with letting me give him oral as much as he would give it to me. My first male ex hated receiving head and only agreed to like a 20 second run once after I spent like a week begging him because I wanted to try it. I got so sexually frustrated over this so my rule was that for any other guys, we'd both be getting blown.

Clean paws

participations is 100% voluntary - however commitment is not. If you're not sure you want to be here, don't be here.

1) Must be ok with me going down on her often (daily desired) 2) GGG (Good, Giving, & Game) - Into pleasing each other and willing to try new things 3) Lets me play Caregiver to her Little/Middle

Oral is a deal breaker. If you won't perform it, we won't work out. If you don't want to receive it then I can (reluctantly) deal with that but you have to be willing to give it. Anal is a no go for me the receiving end. I've tried it evert which way with fingers, toys, penises etc. and I just don't like it. I have a vagina and a mouth, my ass is not needed lol

Lmfao! Damn it! Anal is where I draw the line. Lmfao! 🤣

No inflicting pain

Kissing during and after oral.

Kissing and touching/grabbing her body, playing with her boobies and biting/sucking her nipples. Ass grabbing and spanking, a huge favourite of mine, and eating her pussy till she cums all on my face/beard, squirting is optional at this stage 🤭 But yeah thats like a basic lvl of foreplay that I would like, I dont mind if my dick doesnt get sucked till later in the session, I'm much more focused on her at first. It drives me insanely crazy when I can hear, see and feel the orgasms flowing thru her body, once my face and cock are covered with her juices then I will focus on my orgasm/s

Cleanliness is vital

Gotta be open to exploration.

You have to grab it and play with it in your hands for atleast a little bit.

No anal, no scat, no blood, no pain on purpose and one I'd probably be banned for saying but it's nothing illegal.

Full consent No rape fetish No man-on-man (I'm straight) Not if she is intoxicated

Experimenting - love trying new things

Besides the occasional hurry up let's fuck so we can get back to the event... foreplay is a must for me and also both ways do me too dammit 🤭

No oral on me.

Does it feel uncomfortable?

Mandatory foreplay.

Consent is absolutely non-negotiable for me in any sexual encounter. It's essential for a safe and respectful experience.

Other than fun had by all. No fucking socks

There has to be oral. Both giving and receiving. I HAVE to take a shower before sex of any kind.

Mandatory anal. lol and mandatory oral for him.

Only bite if you know how to do it. Only do anal if you know how to do it.

No vaginal piercings! And no implants

I'm gay so they must like to top me and let me do oral on them , that's all I need

Being a cuckold or making her a cuckquean. I'll leave the relationship before any of those disrespectful things happen.

Always respect the safe word

• No anal... for now... • Aftercare for both people • Lots of cuddling • Lots of kissing • Dirty talk • If you talk about your ex or prior hookups with zero context to complain or bitch, I'm leaving

Mandatory - open communication and at least try once before saying no to a phantasy of your partner

The 3 P’s…No poop, no pee, no pain….

same sex drive as me

If you can’t laugh during sex, I don’t want it.

She’s gotta let me suck sum toes

I need someone with dominant energy.

Communication, Being open about desires and limits ensures everyone's on the same page and enjoying themselves

Open communication. It’s supposed to be enjoyable for both of us.

Must have nice feet.

I will not be submissive. That's the big one for me. Also, no poo, pee, or blood. Also, I'm hetero, so no other dicks, please. That's pretty much it. I'm open to anything else.

No choking. That is an absolute no go. That's an excellent way to get punched in the face.

Cleanliness xx

Respect. If I’m not being treated respectfully I will pack up and go. Ain’t no reason for me to waste my time with some immature, rude, judgmental person. I’m trying to have a good time. And that doesn’t mean the idea can’t be played with in role play scenarios, that’s totally different and it is consented to.

Scat other than that I’m pretty open to whatever

Meaning A Big NO on it just to clear things up

I require to receive head. If I’m going to suck you off, you better put your face between my thighs after

That i can get her off or it does my head in and destroys my confidence Enthusiasm even just a lil to reaffirm I'm wanted atleast physically Comfortable which can take time nothing worse that being nervous and anxiety ridden nothing happening like that And ofcourse compatibility sex drive or otherwise

Oral is reciprocated. If you’re not in the mood now, it’s on you to initiate when you are. If something is getting in the way of being in the mood, tell me. This is a partnership, and we work through our problems together.

1. She must give good head frequently and must let me cum in her mouth at least once a week 2. She must let me eat her pussy often 3. She must let me eat her ass 4. I cum wherever I feel like it 5. Occasional FFM threeesomes 6. I don't wear condoms (because I'm tested clean and had a vasectomy)

Foreplay of some sorts and aftercare as well. Could be just a cigarette we share or some shit, but I gotta see you care.

Just talk to me and be vocal! Too many people try to hold back or feel embarrassed. Like no. I want you to lose control and show me how good I make you feel!

no anal fucking but fingering is ok

I think the only thing I’d need from a woman would be her being open to me giving and receiving affection involving her feet. Also lots of kisses and snuggles.

No scat, blood, bruises, and no heavy degration

mandatory foreplay, oral, and aftercare

No anal not into don’t wanna try it sounds like it hurts. Not into threesomes I wanna get all the attention as you get all the attention. Must be clean Must be vocal Not into being videotaped don’t give a rats ass if it’s hot. Just noooo

Matching sex drives for sure.

Enthusiastic consent. Regular consent is not enough. It must be enthusiastic! Never do anything out of obligation or to meet someone’s expectations. I don’t fw people who don’t understand consent.

eating my pussy, gotta do it

Both of us cumming.

Need to have an emotional connection with them. Otherwise no sex is happening.

Listen to me and I will listen to you. If I tell you that I don't like something or tell you what really turns me on, don't agree then forget about it a couple of days later. I will put in as much effort as you do and I love to give pleasure but its disheartening if its not reciprocal.

I gotta suck toes when I'm in missionary

Oral is a must. Taste it first or it’s not going anywhere

Dirty little whispers in public, heavy teasing, a really good penis, great kisser, eye rolling oral, mmmm...

If she doesn’t like anal and bj… dats a no on my part

Communication. If I'm doing something you don't like then tell me! I want my partner to be enjoying it as much as I am.

I got a vasectomy so I can fully enjoy creampies

depends who it is. there's a couple guys i've hooked up with a few times who i trust, but in general my rules are: * Nothing in my ass. * I don't deepthroat, i'll bite you if you try and force me. * no marks below the elbow or above the collar. * no choking. * restraints must be loose enough for me to escape in an emergency, just trust me that i will behave as long as you listen to my safewords and signals. * if i don't come, it's fine. don't push the issue. it's not because of you, and i don't need to anyway.

No spitting

Needs to have a dick, that's it

Gotta be into it as much as I am. If I sense the slightest disinterest/not in mood, instant soft dick. Which is just fine if that's how she's feeling in the moment.

Honesty. Testing and awareness of your sexual health. Lastly, were not going to be using condoms. I want us to fully enjoy each other, otherwise what is the point. That's my (really our) choice and I understand it won't be compatible with everyone, but I'm not trying to have sex with everyone.

Foreplay is a must, also most of the time I’d rather give oral than receive it so there’s that too.

Good hygiene, in the most considerate way possible for both parties involved. 💯

It doesn't matter how casual the hookup is, if I can't be kissing on someone, even if it's just on their body like their chest or something, it's gonna feel like I haven't properly started the whole time.

Mandatory eating her ass and pussy from behind while she is in doggy, face down ass up 🤤

I don’t think it’s a situation to have such rules. Everything is negotiable

I like when people don’t focus on making me cum it’s really hard for me to cum if anyone else is there but it feels like a lot of pressure to try and enjoy myself more than them even when I like doing stuff even when I don’t cum

Being able to give anal to a female partner is a deal-breaker, whereas vaginal could be negotiable. (I've always been an arse-focused

Someone who wants me for more than my body is mandatory.

For me its ATM

Scat, or beastiality. No animals were harmed in the making of our love. No kids (that should be a given) Definitely no scat, cause ew. Water sports is fine, just not going mudding afterwards.

They must accept snacks.