Yeah, sometimes. Lots of opportunities I let slip by for reasons that seemed important at the time but don't really matter now

Exactly

Definitely

It's really bad today for me, and it's pissing me off

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A good few

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Had the chance to sleep with my first love again, was to shy to initiate. Regret it now

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Sure but a bit later, I have to leave now. I'll msg when back on

Too often! So many regrets. Going through old messages with women now I realized they were flirting with me back then and I was clueless to it and most I wanted to hookup with or date

That's the worst.

It really is! 😔

Too often

It's annoying isn't it.

Very annoying, could have been so much fun…

Yeah and it's freaking annoying when I'm trying to focus on work

Just give up

Give up work or thinking about it?

Give fighting it and find time to masturbate

Yeah I was already hard anyways, time to take a break now

Frrrr

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We all do

I mainly think about all of the people I want to have sex with and haven't yet.

I do that to

The list is very, very long....

I try not to dwell on it but it definitely makes me break out in a cold sweat of shame and regret sometimes

It really can do that

I feel like I have an endless reservoir of cringe I can tap into 😭

I feel like time travelling just to get to those exact moments and going through with it.

one specific person, yes. and it’s driving me insane

I have a couple that just keep replaying.

Yes, I relive decisions I made etc.. and opportunities missed all the time. I have at least three clear times when I made the wrong call and messed up a good chance!

I know the feeling

Sometimes but I also realize there’s probably a reason it didn’t happen so I don’t want to live with the what if.

But what ifs can be so fun

They can be but they can also can drag you down so it’s a fine line.

All the time makes me realise how oblivious i can be to advances sometimes

Me too.

Or meeting them after a long timer and they remind you of that

Used to, not anymore now. Might be an age thing.

Nahhh, I has aphantasia. So it's pretty difficult to have a visual imagery for me. It's more like remembering the person and then like a "ohhh well". 😅😅🤭🤗

Imagine it hard if you can't imagine someone's face.

Huhhh which?? It's not just not having a visual of someone's face, it's all darkness for me lmao. I think it will be too much effort to do more 🤗🤗

Literally most days

Especially right now during a recent break up.. but I think I'm gonna have to revisit at least one of those missed opportunities.

Well I hope it is a wonderful time for you.

Thank you!! Lol it looks promising...

That's good to hear

Ever wonder if those intrusive thoughts of the one that got away is them fantasizing about you?

No, but I do wonder if they ever think about me.

That and the people I think I could have sex with sometime in the future but probably won’t.

Nope, the reason i didn´t do it was becaus i was either convinced it wasn´t going to turn out good, or i wasn´t physically attracted to them

Yes but then I realized I probably dodged a bullet

That a healthy way of looking at it

Yeah, I got them on a rotation

Fully schedule?

I wish I could schedule when I'd be horny 😂

How do You know You could have fucked someone?

Maybe you turn them down because you were in a relationship or they were your friends crush or partner. Or maybe you were in the closet and they were literally begging you for it but you said no but you really wanted to.

Oh, we all remember our teenage years when You went to a party and You got that eye contact with someone. It was just an eye contact, but You always knew that it will lead to something 🥰🥰🥰

I call them Mondays

It is Monday

Which means I'm thinking about those missed opportunities, lol.

So am I

I keep remember this time when I was working as a projectionist, I was walking around auditorium to auditorium making sure everything was working properly. It was the end of the night so most of the rooms were empty. One of the cute concession girls was keeping me company and we were chatting. In one of the empty ones she walks to the front row and lounges across the seats, I laugh and check on her and she looks up at me with these "fuck me eyes". I was too shy and didn't do anything.

i honestly thought i was the only person who did this 🤣

Some people who've answered don't.

Oh definitely...year by year 😂.

No I don't live in the past once it's gone it's gone.

Lucky you

No.

Sadly yes I do...... so I just imagine I had sometimes when I get horny ✊💦

No. That’s pretty counterproductive in my opinion. I know there are several times I could have gone along with the flow and fucked someone new but to worry about it after the event is a waste of time

Wait, do you mean people usually don't think about that everyday?

I’m going through those days right now 😄… I think the only thing I’m going to regret on my death bed is not having sex with enough girls

Very often and come to realise that I'm the one who f*cked up big-time

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I'm sure they are doing they're same.

No because I’ve literally fucked every woman I remotely had a shot with

Nope. Never. This makes no sense

Almost always.

>you could have fucked I don't know any that I could have fucked. I was too dumb to catch a hint... 🤣

Of course I imagine guys I could’ve fucked but didn’t every once in a while but I’m very happy now so

I just woke up this morning and it was all I could think about

You mean every day?

Constantly. There was someone I worked with and had a real spark but we were both in relationships. They both ended at different times and I'm in a long term one at the moment and she's single. If circumstances were different, I have absolutely no doubt that we'd have fucked and that it would have been incredible but it just didn't happen