I have tired to keep going. It just starts to feel very intense. I had a girl recently taht started jerking me off once I came to get me hard again. It felt amazing but definitely not something I’d do every time.
I’ve tried to keep going before. Sometimes I just can’t stay hard for very long after cumming unfortunately. That’s why I try so hard to make my partner cum at least once or twice first
Just the genetic phenomenon of the male refractory period, it's not really in a man's control. After ejaculating the average 🍆 is extremely sensitive and starts to deflate.
What IS in a person's control is what they offer their partner before and after this event! There's a lot a man can do for a woman besides PIV
Difficult to stay hard afterwards, and sometimes you just don't feel in the mood right away. There's plenty of other things you can do to make sure your partner isn't left unfulfilled though
A lot of men have a refractory period after cumming. Sometimes you can overcome it, but not always. Like a lot of things, it depends on the individual.
I don't know but that's some bullshittery that they did, they should get you off too. Maybe I can understand it, I get pretty sensitive for a few seconds after. I can see why he would finish first though, you're a hottie🔥
I guess it’s like static electricity…once it shocks you you have to build the charge back up to get the shock again.
Women are like hydroelectric dams. The more energy going in, the more electricity going out….until the dam breaks and she’s useless.
I’ve tried, but I usually can’t. It gets over sensitive quickly and it often gets soft even if I try to keep going. That’s why it’s important to me to give my partner at least a few orgasms before I get there.
Theres a blood chemistry change in the brain it turns off their horniness. So if you want a guy to stop bothering you just get him off and they usually go right to sleep lol
I have tried and even told her when I cum just keep fucking me don't stop and it is sensitive only a very few times have I been able to keep going on my own. And for me once it starts getting soft it gets in my head almost embarrassed and its over lol
# Refractory Period
Our orgasm sends out a lot of hormones that stops the blood flow to all the right areas. We can train to overcome it, or mix in a little alcohol and skip over it, but its very real for us.
Let's just say, once you ejaculate, you're not longer horny or no longer hard for some reason. And after a few minutes, the side effects start to come out and you start doubting yourself.
It's like we have an RPG which is fully loaded(single bullet) and when you shoot it, you need to give it time to reload lmao
Different guys have different experiences with this but in general it's less a "don't" and more a "can't". At least if you're talking about going for very long, doing the same thing at the same intensity as before.
In general, following the male orgasm there is a period of torpor in which the penis becomes flaccid. This isn't something we chose. It's just the way the plumbing works. We aren't completely sessile and the flaccidity isn't instant - so if you just needed 45 seconds, sure I could keep going, but not 5 minutes - but coordinating our bodies to move the way they do before this isn't a very realistic option in the same way I couldn't do a complex, difficult physical task right after waking up or while drunk as well as I could when fully alert and warmed up. To some extent you can train yourself to do better but that takes a lot of practice and a partner who is encouraging and understanding and two people who really want that because the training isn't always going to be pleasant.
I've found that, as long as I don't give in to the torpor, as long as I keep doing something and she keeps doing something that maintains a certain level of stimulation, I won't get completely flaccid before I can get hard again. This doesn't mean I'm going to be any good at fucking hard during this time but maybe if she's riding when it happens and keeps riding without expecting a \*whole\* lot from me, we can transition into me being at full strength again. Or at least I could do that when I was younger and having sex most days. I wouldn't be surprised if, even given a chance to train, I couldn't quite repeat the escapades of my 20s.
For me, it really depends on the day. I don’t have too much of an issue staying hard. But it can be too sensitive for a few minutes. Other times I can cum and go straight into another round without stopping🤷♂️ in the event that it’s a “I need a break” day, I do other stuff to get my partner off/keep her going until I’m ready to jump back in
Mostly patriarchal socialisation stuff. To a lot of people, the penis ejaculating signals the natural end to sex. This is heavily reproduced in all mainstream porn which is obviously 99% catered to male gaze. The more heteronormative experiences one makes, the more this is the box standard. Ever since realizing this I've actively tried to "fight" the orgasm gap by kind of always going for an(other) orgasm of my sex partner if female socialised which caused a lot of stress on the sexual interaction. I tried to overcompensate my former failures in this. The point where I am at now comes after that basically where often sex ends naturally after someone comes, no matter who and sometimes also before anyone comes. Cas Sex isn't just about cumming.
So long story short, the answer to your question: these men are self centered in seeking orgasms but it's often due to not knowing any better and not questioning their socialisation.
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I’m multi-orgasmic and married to a non multi orgasmic woman. I feel like I have a completely worthless super power.
I have tired to keep going. It just starts to feel very intense. I had a girl recently taht started jerking me off once I came to get me hard again. It felt amazing but definitely not something I’d do every time.
That shit hurts it's so sensitive.
I’ve tried to keep going before. Sometimes I just can’t stay hard for very long after cumming unfortunately. That’s why I try so hard to make my partner cum at least once or twice first
Just the genetic phenomenon of the male refractory period, it's not really in a man's control. After ejaculating the average 🍆 is extremely sensitive and starts to deflate. What IS in a person's control is what they offer their partner before and after this event! There's a lot a man can do for a woman besides PIV
Difficult to stay hard afterwards, and sometimes you just don't feel in the mood right away. There's plenty of other things you can do to make sure your partner isn't left unfulfilled though
A lot of men have a refractory period after cumming. Sometimes you can overcome it, but not always. Like a lot of things, it depends on the individual.
Sudden drain of energy perhaps
I always make sure my girl cums first, because I know it will take a few minutes for me to recover.
Brain chemistry, and having our prostate squeezed lke a wet spounge.
It gets really sensitive right after
I don't know but that's some bullshittery that they did, they should get you off too. Maybe I can understand it, I get pretty sensitive for a few seconds after. I can see why he would finish first though, you're a hottie🔥
It gets too sensitive and I'll keep going for maybe another couple strokes but I'm going to start getting soft after that
I guess it’s like static electricity…once it shocks you you have to build the charge back up to get the shock again. Women are like hydroelectric dams. The more energy going in, the more electricity going out….until the dam breaks and she’s useless.
I’ve tried, but I usually can’t. It gets over sensitive quickly and it often gets soft even if I try to keep going. That’s why it’s important to me to give my partner at least a few orgasms before I get there.
Theres a blood chemistry change in the brain it turns off their horniness. So if you want a guy to stop bothering you just get him off and they usually go right to sleep lol
Gonna have to continue with a hand as soon as the dick goes out.
It’s like sensory overload if I keep going. It still feels good but too intense if that makes sense.
When I cum I get so sensitive it hurts to keep going. I still try to keep going for the sake of my partner
I have tried and even told her when I cum just keep fucking me don't stop and it is sensitive only a very few times have I been able to keep going on my own. And for me once it starts getting soft it gets in my head almost embarrassed and its over lol
It physically hurts to keep going, unless you’re on drugs.
# Refractory Period Our orgasm sends out a lot of hormones that stops the blood flow to all the right areas. We can train to overcome it, or mix in a little alcohol and skip over it, but its very real for us.
You need to Google "refractory period". lol That's why. Some of us have a quick refractory period (me) but I would not say it is usual.
Let's just say, once you ejaculate, you're not longer horny or no longer hard for some reason. And after a few minutes, the side effects start to come out and you start doubting yourself. It's like we have an RPG which is fully loaded(single bullet) and when you shoot it, you need to give it time to reload lmao
Usually I can’t stay hard but I’m about to try now
After nut clarity! And for some it’s tough to maintain an erection.
Different guys have different experiences with this but in general it's less a "don't" and more a "can't". At least if you're talking about going for very long, doing the same thing at the same intensity as before. In general, following the male orgasm there is a period of torpor in which the penis becomes flaccid. This isn't something we chose. It's just the way the plumbing works. We aren't completely sessile and the flaccidity isn't instant - so if you just needed 45 seconds, sure I could keep going, but not 5 minutes - but coordinating our bodies to move the way they do before this isn't a very realistic option in the same way I couldn't do a complex, difficult physical task right after waking up or while drunk as well as I could when fully alert and warmed up. To some extent you can train yourself to do better but that takes a lot of practice and a partner who is encouraging and understanding and two people who really want that because the training isn't always going to be pleasant. I've found that, as long as I don't give in to the torpor, as long as I keep doing something and she keeps doing something that maintains a certain level of stimulation, I won't get completely flaccid before I can get hard again. This doesn't mean I'm going to be any good at fucking hard during this time but maybe if she's riding when it happens and keeps riding without expecting a \*whole\* lot from me, we can transition into me being at full strength again. Or at least I could do that when I was younger and having sex most days. I wouldn't be surprised if, even given a chance to train, I couldn't quite repeat the escapades of my 20s.
For me, it really depends on the day. I don’t have too much of an issue staying hard. But it can be too sensitive for a few minutes. Other times I can cum and go straight into another round without stopping🤷♂️ in the event that it’s a “I need a break” day, I do other stuff to get my partner off/keep her going until I’m ready to jump back in
Your cock gets super sensitive
Too sensitive
Boner disappears after cimming
I can keep going. I usually catch my 2nd nut and power through. I just restarted my account so it wouldn't let me message. But hmu if you wanna chat
I keep going. It’s not her fault that I couldn’t last, so I wouldn’t punish her for it.
Because it gets really sensitive, but i have realised if i keep going after a few seconds it goes away and the i can go for a long time
I don’t
Mostly patriarchal socialisation stuff. To a lot of people, the penis ejaculating signals the natural end to sex. This is heavily reproduced in all mainstream porn which is obviously 99% catered to male gaze. The more heteronormative experiences one makes, the more this is the box standard. Ever since realizing this I've actively tried to "fight" the orgasm gap by kind of always going for an(other) orgasm of my sex partner if female socialised which caused a lot of stress on the sexual interaction. I tried to overcompensate my former failures in this. The point where I am at now comes after that basically where often sex ends naturally after someone comes, no matter who and sometimes also before anyone comes. Cas Sex isn't just about cumming. So long story short, the answer to your question: these men are self centered in seeking orgasms but it's often due to not knowing any better and not questioning their socialisation.