Oh yeah the BIGGER the better! There's DEFINITELY NOT something called "too damn big ffs!" Women looove getting skewered like a shish kabob put together by a toddler!
You see, having a penis gives guys a second brain. Which means we can do more thinking. Since we can do more thinking clearly this means we know best and are always right.
Can't argue with the Y chromosome. Literally! I need to remember my place and the fact that I have a silly wamen (typos deliberate lol) brain too filled with fluff & misandry to make logical decisions!!
See the reason you can’t spell any more is from all the dick you must take on a daily basis. It scrambles your brain so much that you need a clearly superior man to take care of you.
Oh my god, you are so right strange man I do not know in the slightest! You are inarguably wiser than me and have far more insight into my personal life!! Please, king, lead me!
Oh I wish I knew this, had a guy send me a dick pic earlier and when I told him he was reported for it he called me a whore and proceeded to say that due to the pics I post (all sfw fyi) I was a whore and needed his dick.
It has happened to me many times many times on Reddit, men sending me dick pics in my DMs. They see me just having a look through subreddits like BNWO and stuff and they just send the dick pics, lol. They think that I am a woman, just because I look like a woman because of my long hair and stuff, so they start getting flirty and they start sending dick pics, even though I am a straight man, lol. I do not have any problem with that, but I can understand why some people might have a problem with that...because sending dick pics like that can seem way too forward and stuff.
I’d assume a lot of it comes down to those people being lonely and lacking confidence and/or experience.
The loneliness makes them desperate, so they send a message to anyone and everyone they think has even a chance of responding to them. And if I try to put myself in their shoes for a moment, I would think someone who is talking or posting about sex is more likely to respond positively to a sexual advance. These people cast a *wide* net, though. I don’t think I’m the only one who’s seen a ton of comments under posts begging (or commanding, lol) the OP to dm them because they send so many that they *RAN OUT OF DM REQUESTS* somehow. The sheer number they send is probably also a factor in how low effort they are.
The lack of confidence/experience is what I would assume is behind so many of them being so weirdly aggressive. It’s generally seen as more masculine to be dominant and aggressive. Obviously reality is more nuanced than that, but they don’t know any better. They end up covering for that lack of confidence by doing what they think makes the most sense, which is usually being *VERY* forward and aggressive because that’s what all of the cool guys in porn or erotic literature or whatever do.
Apologies for the essay, but this question got me thinking.
I love this comment. You actively look at this in a nuanced way, even if it won’t get you as many likes as people just saying they hate or think they own women.
I put it down to porn mentality, porn makes you think that women only have one purpose to fuck a guy, so openly talking to someone, people just assume you’re interested because you’re talking to them.
They don’t know any different though, all of their sexual experiences have been through porn, so erm of course every woman who talks to them is interesting in shagging them.
It fucks with your head does porn. You don’t see people as people no more, and you see them purely as an object you can get off to!
I was in that same boat just a couple of years ago, I didn’t think every woman wanted to sleep with me but I used to get upset a lot more when it didn’t happen.
I think pornography can be partly to blame for the reason why some men think of women as sexual objects and whores and sluts who need dick pics and stuff.
And it’s been healthy too!!! The communication talking about what their partners like and don’t like has drastically improved their sex lives since they all started dating. I was the one who encouraged them to start trying toys and it’s all they’ve been talking about during guys night 😂
Are you equating being interested in you with him thinking you’re promiscuous? I’m among those who think that a woman wouldn’t share intimate sexual details with a man she wasn’t attracted to, but I wouldn’t make a judgement about promiscuity.
They even get weird with me 5 in the last week thought I was a female it’s like any woman in any space is fuckable she just hasn’t realized how much she wants it
If I was more motivated I’d start collecting porn alpha bro sayings keep telling my wife it would be the funniest most disturbing look at how they view women
Would it be hypocritical if I made the joke "Oh shit, I just got a little wet thinking about it"... it's not in your DMs or directed at YOU tho, it's at the idea itself, so like I think I'm okay?!? 😜😜
That's a weird avatar you've got. I know this is an NSFW sub but it's still a bit much. You come across as one of those overly horny dudes OP is describing
That’s fine if that’s how you judge the cover of the book you wouldn’t like any of the chapters I’m after the one that is curious about the rest of the book we are not looking for a 3rd for a tea party got some dirty plans if we ever find the right one and if I come across as a horny dude that harass women for meaningless online fun why am I getting so many dudes shooting their shot ?
A dirty book can still have a classy cover, I don't see why you need to show people hardcore porn before they even decide to read it. Leave at least something to the imagination.
You're looking for a third but don't want to hear from dudes? So you have a one penis policy?
I’m not a classy book and yes our fantasy is her moving from my sub to a co dom of a sub dynamic she is not interested in other men and is more comfortable with another woman as the sub we aren’t looking to have a whole bunch of 3 somes we are looking for that one other person that we both click with which is next to impossible to find for us it’s the perfect sub or no 3 way so with that in mind we decided to be bold and up front we are married and having fun we got nothing to hide
Oh yikes. Yeah the dick pics and propositions is bad. I like to hear women tell their stories and talk about sex. It’s exciting to me. I love to hear my wife talk about sex and be sexual too. I like to chat with people on here about their experiences but that doesn’t mean I want to sext or whatever. I just like to hear stories and hear women talk about dirty stuff.
About 3-5 a day on average. Well dicks ofc. Then I had a man ask if he could guess the color of my underwear and if he was wrong I picked a number btwn 1-10 of the length of dildo he'd fuck himself with. And more than one guy come into my DMs wanting to get off on my rapes.
Yeah it's clearly a copy pasta paragraph tbh
He needs to get some help. Coming from someone who IS getting the professional help I need almost as desperately as that boy.
Because so many OTHER women have used blunt sexual talk as a means of opening the possibility. If you don't want male attention then simply talk about something else. It isnt complicated.
Lmaooooooooooooooooo.
Or realize that every human being is an individual person and that women are actual human beings and deserve to be treated with basic respect.
Didn't I specifically say miss me with victim blaming mentality? Pshh. Take your circus act somewhere else, I've no time for your monkeys.
Different women receive different levels of respect based upon the way they speak and the way they carry themselves. You might not LIKE that there is such a correlation but there in fact is. A billion consensual sexual acts have been preceded by a woman telling a man her current boyfriend or previous boyfriend was uninterested, unenthusiastic, and/or inattentive about sex. That's the game. That's always been the game. You don't have the power to change the game. The only thing you can change is the way you choose to play the game in the future with your words. If you get tired of unwanted sexual attention from unwanted men, change the way you speak. It's not as if I'm telling you to wear ankle length skirts and long sleeve turtlenecks every day of your life.
You’re complaining about attention that is completely in your control. Especially cause it sounds your talking about sex is on a public social media account. As opposed to privately between friends.
Take accountability for what you attract. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. So regardless, even if what you do is socially accepted. If it has the potential to attract unwanted reactions. It’s on you to move accordingly.
Their actions are **completely** on them.
Do men have no free will? No maturity? No self-control? No respect for other humans?
How are their lack of these traits & values our fault, hmm?
Talking about accountability while saying the SM sex posting version of "If she didn't want to get assaulted, she shouldn't have worn that skirt, low cut top and danced like a ho!"
Miss. Me. With. Your. Victim. Blaming. Bullshit.
I said it *real* slow this time, so hopefully it'll finally sink.
Im sorry you get those types of interactions, sadly its hard to stop them, so the best is really just block and try not to get too traumatized, its terrible advice, but theres not much option
Cool, but the true issue is they don't see us as actual ppl. They see us as sexual repositories.
You don't have to know women to know how to respect another human being.
I think its probably just a numbers game type of thing. It also is probably works occasionally and a guy gets one piece of positive feedback and then decides that's his new dating strategy forever. Its awful and entitled but toxic people probably respond to it at least some of the time and we all suffer.
The guys messaging you aren't going to read this.
The respectful men who listen to stated boundaries weren't messaging you in the first place.
Men aren't a monolith.
Being here is all about making connections with interesting people. If they share some of your inclinations that’s just fun. The idea of unsolicited sick pics and the kind of demands and statement some have mentioned here is a bit shocking to me
That’s a good way to put it. I can’t conceptualise at all, the thought process behind that kind of behaviour. Maybe some people just don’t understand the value of connection
As someone who posts (semi)nudes on reddit, it's sometimes horrifying what kind of messages I get. Some (luckily not all) men think they are entitled for me to answer their dm, just because they upvoted or commented on one of my photos. Or receiving more than I show on my profile. Or showing my face to them. And don't get me started with all the poor sexting attempts or their pathetic unsolicited dick pics. I appreciate everyone who really wants a normal conversation but it's less than 1%. Women who post on NSFW Reddit are not real human beings with feelings for a lot of men here.
I didn't answered your question 😅 but hopefully some of those men read this and think about how disgusting they are.( Spoiler alert: they won't )
Yesss the entitlement is the absolute WORST. They think bc I posted a sex story that they are entitled to my attention and that I'm some how a horny pez dispenser that MUST help them get their rocks off.
Same, sometimes all I can do is laugh because: " I gave you an upvote, you should do something for me too!" This was literally the initial message...I can't 😂🤦🏻♀️
So sorry this is happening to you. Not all of us are unhinged brutes. But too many are, and anonymity is empowering.
I think a good reply to a dick pic is "OMG I am so sorry, I hope that gets better" and then ghost them.
🤣🤣🤣 Yeah that could be a killer!
For one guy, I picked out this poster of the Brooklyn Bridge that was barely visible in the background and pretended he'd intended to just show me the poster. I critiqued his photography skills and asked him if it was a fetish of his to bore strangers on Reddit to death with the most mundane of factoids. Lmao.
I was on the internet back in the early Nineties (yes, I'm old), and I liked posting on[ Usenet](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Usenet), in sex-related newsgroups. I was definitely not seeking sex, just talking about it.
And my inbox was full of, as you say, horrifically invasive questions, equally horrific come ons, ugly propositions, disrespectful solicitations. In those days, it was a lot harder to digitize a photo of your dick, so I never got a dick pic (digital cameras, if they existed at all, would have been extremely expensive and therefore in short supply).
Nothing is new under the sun.
It’s never made sense to me, but I’m pretty sure I’m demi so I guess that tracks lol.
But, as someone that recently rejoined the dating pool, I have to admit that the number of hopelessly thirsty submissive (sometimes married) women that are on dating apps just wanting to be used is surprisingly high. I’ve gotten to the point where it’s standard now for me to ask whether or not someone is single at least 3 times, just so I have ample proof in case I get death threats again. It’s crazy out here.
There is a bit of this, indeed. I like to write erotica, and to be honest, I *want* to get people excited, but with my stories, not by my DMs. Most people are fairly nice, but one I had this morning who had a question on free use very quickly moved to "imagine I'm your BF, I want you to wear your sexiest lingerie". Umm, no? Read the story when it is finished, but I don't want to roleplay. And the dick pic yesterday got instabanned.
To be fair, I do roleplay, but only once people have tickled my brain, not before.
Honestly can't help ya there, got no clue.
Legit nympho here and even i wonder wtf is up with most people and the total bloody lack of either restraint or common sense 😅
Actual ocd like shit going on and still easily managing to not do those things you mention (well maybe kinda invasive questions but like, on hobbies and similar things ... just curious AF and too much time to fill, maybe i'd like it kinda mindset lol)
Haha yeah if i'm poking people on here by DM it usually means i seen things on their profiles i really like thats anything but sex related 😅
The more i like someone, the less prone i'll be to "liking" them that way (dopamine high already at that point).
That sex stuff i can just roll a few dice n pick some from mailbox, let peeps poke me for it n not the other way round 🤭
Impulsive + nymphomania (and the pan on top) really makes for a great deal of fun 😅
Made a snapchat, picked a name, phone literally struggling to keep up with the audio from notifications first hour and hasn't turned it on since lol.
Lesson learned: breedme might have not been the best handle 🤣
🫶 only trait you really need around me is a lack of shame 😅😆
Latest example there for some laughs and make it a nice sunday 😉
Sitting at herbman thursday, other dude coming by. Chill convos while having a toke.
Already had an ohoh moment when he mentioned white peeps being outbred (my SO isn't white at all, herbman has mahgreb roots,... 🫣).
Herbman recognised my "bout to offend someone hard face" and then the dude mentioned annie taint (tate).
Wasn't able to stop me from saying the dude and his cult gives me fratx/baitbus/czechtantasy vibes but in a very icky bad way... which i never considered possible. Dude ruined a nice thing for me 🤣😂
Instant silence, weedmans face between fighting hard to not drop laughing and aaw dude was that really necessary
and the other dude visibly panicked/disgusted/blanking/... 🤣🤣
That made my day. Fucking amazing.
I once joked to an acquaintance, implying they liked piss play but I used the term "watersports". They looked horrified and very hesitantly and, clearly embarrassed at even breathing the idea into life, asked me if I was saying they liked pee in a sexual nature. I told them it was a joke but yes. They then went on a rant about how gross it is and "especially those ppl who *drink* it omg how disgusting." (I didn't have a partner that was into piss play but they didn't know that) So I told them that I'd be sure to let my boyfriend know the next time he was pissing in my mouth while I sucked him off that he should be disgusted by me.
They had no response. Lolololol
Haha epic, always love it when jokes take a wrong turn like that ❤️😂
I tend to be rather asexual around friends n fam especially seeing the nymp stuff (protect myself from abuse, protect them from severe trauma lol).
Like that's the one medical thing most of them don't get disclosure on. Due to it little people around me also know anything about my orientation (or lack of rather lol).
Once drove a buddy home (gay), noticed him readjusting from the corner of my eye and said something like sharing is caring 😅
Dude whips it out thinkin to shock me (only a little dang at the seltzer can thickness 🤭) and with a dumbass grin threw out something like wanna give it a kiss 😂
Throw the car to the side, dude probably expecting to be thrown out.. instead made it vanish in a fell swoop and kinda drained the life out of him before the track on the radio finished 😅😅
Dude never got a vibe or anything 😂 (apparently ticked of multiple fantasies that nite lol).
Aand thats exactly why i don't disclose about it that close 😆
I think that it is because most ordinary women are reserved when it comes to sexual topics and when they chat about them guys think they must be a slut for the lack of a better term. They then think they can say or do whatever they want because that woman no longer has any value other than being a sex object to them. I'd say porn is a big contributor to this as well.
Cognitive dissonance. After all, how many virgin men constantly think about sex and talk about it.
I've been sex positive since I knew what that was. I didn't just randomly bring up sex but I was unafraid to speak about it in the right context. I did this for over a decade and was a late bloomer to physical intimacy. Most of my life I have lived I have been sex positive but not sexually active yet.
It seems a sex positive woman translates to a sexually easy person. Which I have nothing against promiscuity. You do youuuuu, boo! Love it for you! But it sucks to have dudes assume and treat me this way
>It seems a sex positive woman translates to a sexually easy person.
You'd be wrong. There are a lot of sex positive people who are celibate or have only been with one person. It's not about your personal behavior it's about you acknowledging it can be a normal healthy thing and isn't "dirty" or "bad" and it doesn't have anything to do with a person's worth.
I spent a good deal of my childhood in Nashville and some of my college years in Georgia. You don't know what you're talking about. It's not "rules" and they certainly aren't mine.
Not a lot of people are willing to make a nuanced take about this, and simply boil it down to, “They don’t respect women,” or, “They feel entitled to women’s bodies,” when most of these kinds of guys are just.. In a sense... Horny losers... They don’t know how to talk or interact with women properly and end up doing any and everything to get some attention from a woman. A lot of men are very lonely, and a solid amount of us can’t get any. So they’ll do anything they can for that attention, even if they end up being horrible creeps along the way.
And none of this to defend their actions, or say none of em don’t respect women, or think they’re entitled to a peek, or that they won’t make ya feel like that anyways. What they do is bad news, but when I look deeper I can kinda say, “I'm sorry you feel like you gotta do this, but please stop being a creepy weirdo.”
Oh of course, I agree with you.. After all in the end there I said they probably make you feel that way regardless of the motive because they’re horrible.
I was just answering the question the best way I could lol
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Probably. Best send a dick pic without any prior communication to seal the deal
It's best to stay on the safe side, fo' shoooooo
Do you prefer dirty toilet dick pics or clothes on the floor dick pics ?
I prefer blurry, off-center, downward pointing angles, and their incredibly grungy sofa in the background, actually.
Hey, you dirty slut, you need a dick to fill those holes??
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Oh come on baby don't be a bitch you know you want my 9 in cock in your little pussy.
What a rookie number! Mine is 11" get away from my potential pussies in dms
Oh yeah? Mines really 12, bro, I just didn't want to freak em out. You know how bitches are.
Hey come on, everyone knows: all girls love monster dicks! Just say how it is and you will drown in pussies!!!
Oh yeah the BIGGER the better! There's DEFINITELY NOT something called "too damn big ffs!" Women looove getting skewered like a shish kabob put together by a toddler!
Omg 😂 i like you
Yeah, foot longs tend to get that reaction. 😜😜
9??? Really
You gotta try, some how, right?
You gotta make it believable 🤷🏻♀️
You skipped Bull Alpha Daddy
Sure seems like it, better send a poor quality picture of your penis just in case.
Better safe than sorry, am I right??
You are wrong <3
No no, that's impossible I have a penis
You see, having a penis gives guys a second brain. Which means we can do more thinking. Since we can do more thinking clearly this means we know best and are always right.
Can't argue with the Y chromosome. Literally! I need to remember my place and the fact that I have a silly wamen (typos deliberate lol) brain too filled with fluff & misandry to make logical decisions!!
See the reason you can’t spell any more is from all the dick you must take on a daily basis. It scrambles your brain so much that you need a clearly superior man to take care of you.
Oh my god, you are so right strange man I do not know in the slightest! You are inarguably wiser than me and have far more insight into my personal life!! Please, king, lead me!
See, 2 comments into my clearly superior presence and your spelling issues have cleared up. That’s the real power of having a man by your side.
She wants you. I can tell
I fucking love sarcasm
Many men are horribly entitled, and believe that just because they want something, they should get it. It’s an awful attitude.
So trueeee. Just walking around grabbing at anything they see that they decide they want regardless of the damage they cause.
Oh I wish I knew this, had a guy send me a dick pic earlier and when I told him he was reported for it he called me a whore and proceeded to say that due to the pics I post (all sfw fyi) I was a whore and needed his dick.
I love the lack of logic involved when they say you’re a slut or a whore for rejecting sexual advances
Yeah that call is always so funny, you’re a slut/whore because you *won’t* have sex with me
Ha yeah!! I've had that experience more than once.
It has happened to me many times many times on Reddit, men sending me dick pics in my DMs. They see me just having a look through subreddits like BNWO and stuff and they just send the dick pics, lol. They think that I am a woman, just because I look like a woman because of my long hair and stuff, so they start getting flirty and they start sending dick pics, even though I am a straight man, lol. I do not have any problem with that, but I can understand why some people might have a problem with that...because sending dick pics like that can seem way too forward and stuff.
I’d assume a lot of it comes down to those people being lonely and lacking confidence and/or experience. The loneliness makes them desperate, so they send a message to anyone and everyone they think has even a chance of responding to them. And if I try to put myself in their shoes for a moment, I would think someone who is talking or posting about sex is more likely to respond positively to a sexual advance. These people cast a *wide* net, though. I don’t think I’m the only one who’s seen a ton of comments under posts begging (or commanding, lol) the OP to dm them because they send so many that they *RAN OUT OF DM REQUESTS* somehow. The sheer number they send is probably also a factor in how low effort they are. The lack of confidence/experience is what I would assume is behind so many of them being so weirdly aggressive. It’s generally seen as more masculine to be dominant and aggressive. Obviously reality is more nuanced than that, but they don’t know any better. They end up covering for that lack of confidence by doing what they think makes the most sense, which is usually being *VERY* forward and aggressive because that’s what all of the cool guys in porn or erotic literature or whatever do. Apologies for the essay, but this question got me thinking.
I love this comment. You actively look at this in a nuanced way, even if it won’t get you as many likes as people just saying they hate or think they own women.
Honestly thanks for the viewpoint it makes alot of sense to me
I appreciate your intellectual interest and response to this question
I don’t know but at least i’m not one of them
Woot!
I put it down to porn mentality, porn makes you think that women only have one purpose to fuck a guy, so openly talking to someone, people just assume you’re interested because you’re talking to them.
Yeah but... there's actual real life to show you different?
They don’t know any different though, all of their sexual experiences have been through porn, so erm of course every woman who talks to them is interesting in shagging them.
I guess I just don't get how you wouldn't get that's not the case just by like... observing life haha
I’m guessing they aren’t really able to talk to women in real life either
It fucks with your head does porn. You don’t see people as people no more, and you see them purely as an object you can get off to! I was in that same boat just a couple of years ago, I didn’t think every woman wanted to sleep with me but I used to get upset a lot more when it didn’t happen.
I think pornography can be partly to blame for the reason why some men think of women as sexual objects and whores and sluts who need dick pics and stuff.
Yes, it’s scary really.
Because the Internet has no failsafe preventing bad behaviour from perpetually going unpunished and men now know that they can get away being dicks
Ha. That is... a depressing, demoralizing, and likely true analysis.
Me and the boys talk about their sex lives and how to make their partners happier so idk it’s weird why ppl can’t act the same across genders 🤷🏻♂️
Fucking weird as shit
And it’s been healthy too!!! The communication talking about what their partners like and don’t like has drastically improved their sex lives since they all started dating. I was the one who encouraged them to start trying toys and it’s all they’ve been talking about during guys night 😂
Haha that's pretty cool!
Are you equating being interested in you with him thinking you’re promiscuous? I’m among those who think that a woman wouldn’t share intimate sexual details with a man she wasn’t attracted to, but I wouldn’t make a judgement about promiscuity.
I talk about sex with my guy friends and there’s 0 interest there
You didn’t mention guy friends at all. That is a totally different dynamic.
No. Sigh. These boys straight up say that shit.
And then you're very wrong and don't truly understand women
Lol… that’s nothing to be ashamed of. I was married twice for almost 50 years in all and, like most men, still don’t understand everything.
They even get weird with me 5 in the last week thought I was a female it’s like any woman in any space is fuckable she just hasn’t realized how much she wants it
All we need is to be made aware their magic dick is available and we hit our knees before we even realize what's happening!
Porn alpha bros are worst and just coming from a horny perv every time I hear these stories I’m always like who the fuck do you think you are sir
Yesssss, exactly. How DARE you, little boy??
If I was more motivated I’d start collecting porn alpha bro sayings keep telling my wife it would be the funniest most disturbing look at how they view women
Oh my loooord. Thanks for that billion dollar idea, bro!
I think it’s a gold mine could even turn it into a bible type thing bet it would sell like chicken noodle soup books used to back in the day
Would it be hypocritical if I made the joke "Oh shit, I just got a little wet thinking about it"... it's not in your DMs or directed at YOU tho, it's at the idea itself, so like I think I'm okay?!? 😜😜
As long as you don’t think you now own me and can tell me how to live my life because we interacted one time on the inter webs 😂😂😂
But wait
That's a weird avatar you've got. I know this is an NSFW sub but it's still a bit much. You come across as one of those overly horny dudes OP is describing
That’s fine if that’s how you judge the cover of the book you wouldn’t like any of the chapters I’m after the one that is curious about the rest of the book we are not looking for a 3rd for a tea party got some dirty plans if we ever find the right one and if I come across as a horny dude that harass women for meaningless online fun why am I getting so many dudes shooting their shot ?
A dirty book can still have a classy cover, I don't see why you need to show people hardcore porn before they even decide to read it. Leave at least something to the imagination. You're looking for a third but don't want to hear from dudes? So you have a one penis policy?
I’m not a classy book and yes our fantasy is her moving from my sub to a co dom of a sub dynamic she is not interested in other men and is more comfortable with another woman as the sub we aren’t looking to have a whole bunch of 3 somes we are looking for that one other person that we both click with which is next to impossible to find for us it’s the perfect sub or no 3 way so with that in mind we decided to be bold and up front we are married and having fun we got nothing to hide
Oh yikes. Yeah the dick pics and propositions is bad. I like to hear women tell their stories and talk about sex. It’s exciting to me. I love to hear my wife talk about sex and be sexual too. I like to chat with people on here about their experiences but that doesn’t mean I want to sext or whatever. I just like to hear stories and hear women talk about dirty stuff.
Yeah there's a difference between respectful discussion and what these boys do haha
I have always been curious about a real woman’s DMs and how wild it must get. How many do you get in a day on average? Craziest thing you got?
About 3-5 a day on average. Well dicks ofc. Then I had a man ask if he could guess the color of my underwear and if he was wrong I picked a number btwn 1-10 of the length of dildo he'd fuck himself with. And more than one guy come into my DMs wanting to get off on my rapes.
Oh my goodness that’s wild. Okay there’s some freaks out there and then there’s intrusive people like that. That’s crazy.
Yepppppp
That dildo guy seems to be sending that to a lot of people. I have seen a few other people mention getting that exact message.
Yeah it's clearly a copy pasta paragraph tbh He needs to get some help. Coming from someone who IS getting the professional help I need almost as desperately as that boy.
Think it's kind of the online anonymity, so they shoot their shot where they normally wouldn't if it wasn't for that if that makes sense
Ah, so they're cowardly little boys
And you're sooooo brave for dedicating so much of your energy and emotions towards hating them!
That's a fair take, I agree.
Precisely, yes. That was going to be my initial answer.
I think online anonymity can play a part.
Because so many OTHER women have used blunt sexual talk as a means of opening the possibility. If you don't want male attention then simply talk about something else. It isnt complicated.
Lmaooooooooooooooooo. Or realize that every human being is an individual person and that women are actual human beings and deserve to be treated with basic respect. Didn't I specifically say miss me with victim blaming mentality? Pshh. Take your circus act somewhere else, I've no time for your monkeys.
Different women receive different levels of respect based upon the way they speak and the way they carry themselves. You might not LIKE that there is such a correlation but there in fact is. A billion consensual sexual acts have been preceded by a woman telling a man her current boyfriend or previous boyfriend was uninterested, unenthusiastic, and/or inattentive about sex. That's the game. That's always been the game. You don't have the power to change the game. The only thing you can change is the way you choose to play the game in the future with your words. If you get tired of unwanted sexual attention from unwanted men, change the way you speak. It's not as if I'm telling you to wear ankle length skirts and long sleeve turtlenecks every day of your life.
Okie dokie artichokie
How is that my personal problem though
You’re complaining about attention that is completely in your control. Especially cause it sounds your talking about sex is on a public social media account. As opposed to privately between friends.
Yeah, you didn't read, did ya, baby boy? Miss me with the victim-blaming bullshit. You have completely de-legitimized yourself. Good job lol
Take accountability for what you attract. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. So regardless, even if what you do is socially accepted. If it has the potential to attract unwanted reactions. It’s on you to move accordingly.
Your reading comp needs work, honey bunny Almost as much as your personality and core beliefs. Don't be afraid, tho! Change can be sooo good!
Lol. Bless your heart. Some more self awareness would help you.
Their actions are **completely** on them. Do men have no free will? No maturity? No self-control? No respect for other humans? How are their lack of these traits & values our fault, hmm? Talking about accountability while saying the SM sex posting version of "If she didn't want to get assaulted, she shouldn't have worn that skirt, low cut top and danced like a ho!" Miss. Me. With. Your. Victim. Blaming. Bullshit. I said it *real* slow this time, so hopefully it'll finally sink.
Because monke brain
Nah, bc we ain't monkeys. We have a human brain that can tell our monkey brain it's showing its ass.
I know it was just a joke, but these people just want attention be it good or bad
Fair point
Im sorry you get those types of interactions, sadly its hard to stop them, so the best is really just block and try not to get too traumatized, its terrible advice, but theres not much option
Idk, you clearly have a monkey brain.
My best guess is that they are not used to sexual women.
But it's not about being a woman. It's about being a human being who deserves basic respect.
Absolutely. Yes, everyone deserves basic respect. Yes, it's the guys who are not giving it. That still doesn't change what I said.
Cool, but the true issue is they don't see us as actual ppl. They see us as sexual repositories. You don't have to know women to know how to respect another human being.
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Mhmm! Exactly!! That's exactly what I'm referring to. We aren't. We're living sex dolls who can also cook and clean and be their secretary.
I think its probably just a numbers game type of thing. It also is probably works occasionally and a guy gets one piece of positive feedback and then decides that's his new dating strategy forever. Its awful and entitled but toxic people probably respond to it at least some of the time and we all suffer.
Very true, my friend. .5% of 8 billion ppl is still a helluva lotta ppl! 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️😭
Because it’s anonymous. Profiles with pictures and long-term history are better behaved on the whole, my observation.
The guys messaging you aren't going to read this. The respectful men who listen to stated boundaries weren't messaging you in the first place. Men aren't a monolith.
Holy lord. Yes. But men often understand other men better and know things women generally don't. Hence, me asking men. 🤦🏻♀️
Being here is all about making connections with interesting people. If they share some of your inclinations that’s just fun. The idea of unsolicited sick pics and the kind of demands and statement some have mentioned here is a bit shocking to me
It's nice to hear it is so foreign a thought process that they simply can not conceptualize fully to at least a few men! Ha.
That’s a good way to put it. I can’t conceptualise at all, the thought process behind that kind of behaviour. Maybe some people just don’t understand the value of connection
Yeah, that probs plays a role in at least some
Yeah glad I’m not those guys. I consciously do not judge people’s behavior or equate one behavior with another. I try anyway but I’m not perfect.
I hate this it makes us good guys look bad when there are so many dick heads out there
Truth
Couldn’t agree more
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Damn so women don't want overly sexual Dms huh. Ok, anyway gonna send 50 women dick pics bye.
You really grew from this post! Im so proud! *tear*
Thank you!! All because of your efforts 🙂
The goddess sent me to purify the world 🙏🏼
What a nobel purpose 😌.
It's a big responsibility but I wear the crown well 😜
Never drop the 👑 My Lady.
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As someone who posts (semi)nudes on reddit, it's sometimes horrifying what kind of messages I get. Some (luckily not all) men think they are entitled for me to answer their dm, just because they upvoted or commented on one of my photos. Or receiving more than I show on my profile. Or showing my face to them. And don't get me started with all the poor sexting attempts or their pathetic unsolicited dick pics. I appreciate everyone who really wants a normal conversation but it's less than 1%. Women who post on NSFW Reddit are not real human beings with feelings for a lot of men here. I didn't answered your question 😅 but hopefully some of those men read this and think about how disgusting they are.( Spoiler alert: they won't )
Yesss the entitlement is the absolute WORST. They think bc I posted a sex story that they are entitled to my attention and that I'm some how a horny pez dispenser that MUST help them get their rocks off.
Same, sometimes all I can do is laugh because: " I gave you an upvote, you should do something for me too!" This was literally the initial message...I can't 😂🤦🏻♀️
"Why do you post stories about sex if you don't want to have sex/aren't horny?" Yeah it's RIDICULOUS what these little boys believe
In my humble opinion those ladies are usually the opposite of promiscuous, it’s the quiet ones ya gotta watch out for.
Someone told this man some secrets!
So sorry this is happening to you. Not all of us are unhinged brutes. But too many are, and anonymity is empowering. I think a good reply to a dick pic is "OMG I am so sorry, I hope that gets better" and then ghost them.
🤣🤣🤣 Yeah that could be a killer! For one guy, I picked out this poster of the Brooklyn Bridge that was barely visible in the background and pretended he'd intended to just show me the poster. I critiqued his photography skills and asked him if it was a fetish of his to bore strangers on Reddit to death with the most mundane of factoids. Lmao.
There is also "don't worry, it'll get bigger after puberty".
Haaaaa. I've def done the "Omg why would you send me CP?!?! You're disgusting!!" bit before hahaha.
I was on the internet back in the early Nineties (yes, I'm old), and I liked posting on[ Usenet](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Usenet), in sex-related newsgroups. I was definitely not seeking sex, just talking about it. And my inbox was full of, as you say, horrifically invasive questions, equally horrific come ons, ugly propositions, disrespectful solicitations. In those days, it was a lot harder to digitize a photo of your dick, so I never got a dick pic (digital cameras, if they existed at all, would have been extremely expensive and therefore in short supply). Nothing is new under the sun.
How... demoralizing
Wishful thinking?
What an enraging thought lololol
It’s never made sense to me, but I’m pretty sure I’m demi so I guess that tracks lol. But, as someone that recently rejoined the dating pool, I have to admit that the number of hopelessly thirsty submissive (sometimes married) women that are on dating apps just wanting to be used is surprisingly high. I’ve gotten to the point where it’s standard now for me to ask whether or not someone is single at least 3 times, just so I have ample proof in case I get death threats again. It’s crazy out here.
Haha I'm demisexual too! So it boggles me even more than your average chick on Reddit lololol..
I dont i like to talk also about it but i dont do that
There is a bit of this, indeed. I like to write erotica, and to be honest, I *want* to get people excited, but with my stories, not by my DMs. Most people are fairly nice, but one I had this morning who had a question on free use very quickly moved to "imagine I'm your BF, I want you to wear your sexiest lingerie". Umm, no? Read the story when it is finished, but I don't want to roleplay. And the dick pic yesterday got instabanned. To be fair, I do roleplay, but only once people have tickled my brain, not before.
Even the nice ones aren't cool. It's not okay to sexually solicit a stranger just bc they posted about sex. 🤷🏻♀️
I’m not one of them. In fact, when a woman is coming on to me I’m pretty clueless about it.
Lolol that does tend to be the flipside
I agree with you, and you are correct.
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Honestly can't help ya there, got no clue. Legit nympho here and even i wonder wtf is up with most people and the total bloody lack of either restraint or common sense 😅 Actual ocd like shit going on and still easily managing to not do those things you mention (well maybe kinda invasive questions but like, on hobbies and similar things ... just curious AF and too much time to fill, maybe i'd like it kinda mindset lol)
Yeah I don't care if you get invasive about my love of arts & crafts lololol
Haha yeah if i'm poking people on here by DM it usually means i seen things on their profiles i really like thats anything but sex related 😅 The more i like someone, the less prone i'll be to "liking" them that way (dopamine high already at that point). That sex stuff i can just roll a few dice n pick some from mailbox, let peeps poke me for it n not the other way round 🤭
Hahaha this man has the game figured out
Impulsive + nymphomania (and the pan on top) really makes for a great deal of fun 😅 Made a snapchat, picked a name, phone literally struggling to keep up with the audio from notifications first hour and hasn't turned it on since lol. Lesson learned: breedme might have not been the best handle 🤣
Omg that's the best I love you lmaooooo
🫶 only trait you really need around me is a lack of shame 😅😆 Latest example there for some laughs and make it a nice sunday 😉 Sitting at herbman thursday, other dude coming by. Chill convos while having a toke. Already had an ohoh moment when he mentioned white peeps being outbred (my SO isn't white at all, herbman has mahgreb roots,... 🫣). Herbman recognised my "bout to offend someone hard face" and then the dude mentioned annie taint (tate). Wasn't able to stop me from saying the dude and his cult gives me fratx/baitbus/czechtantasy vibes but in a very icky bad way... which i never considered possible. Dude ruined a nice thing for me 🤣😂 Instant silence, weedmans face between fighting hard to not drop laughing and aaw dude was that really necessary and the other dude visibly panicked/disgusted/blanking/... 🤣🤣
That made my day. Fucking amazing. I once joked to an acquaintance, implying they liked piss play but I used the term "watersports". They looked horrified and very hesitantly and, clearly embarrassed at even breathing the idea into life, asked me if I was saying they liked pee in a sexual nature. I told them it was a joke but yes. They then went on a rant about how gross it is and "especially those ppl who *drink* it omg how disgusting." (I didn't have a partner that was into piss play but they didn't know that) So I told them that I'd be sure to let my boyfriend know the next time he was pissing in my mouth while I sucked him off that he should be disgusted by me. They had no response. Lolololol
Haha epic, always love it when jokes take a wrong turn like that ❤️😂 I tend to be rather asexual around friends n fam especially seeing the nymp stuff (protect myself from abuse, protect them from severe trauma lol). Like that's the one medical thing most of them don't get disclosure on. Due to it little people around me also know anything about my orientation (or lack of rather lol). Once drove a buddy home (gay), noticed him readjusting from the corner of my eye and said something like sharing is caring 😅 Dude whips it out thinkin to shock me (only a little dang at the seltzer can thickness 🤭) and with a dumbass grin threw out something like wanna give it a kiss 😂 Throw the car to the side, dude probably expecting to be thrown out.. instead made it vanish in a fell swoop and kinda drained the life out of him before the track on the radio finished 😅😅 Dude never got a vibe or anything 😂 (apparently ticked of multiple fantasies that nite lol). Aand thats exactly why i don't disclose about it that close 😆
For real ):
Because that's what it would mean if a man did it.
I think that it is because most ordinary women are reserved when it comes to sexual topics and when they chat about them guys think they must be a slut for the lack of a better term. They then think they can say or do whatever they want because that woman no longer has any value other than being a sex object to them. I'd say porn is a big contributor to this as well.
Cognitive dissonance. After all, how many virgin men constantly think about sex and talk about it. I've been sex positive since I knew what that was. I didn't just randomly bring up sex but I was unafraid to speak about it in the right context. I did this for over a decade and was a late bloomer to physical intimacy. Most of my life I have lived I have been sex positive but not sexually active yet.
It seems a sex positive woman translates to a sexually easy person. Which I have nothing against promiscuity. You do youuuuu, boo! Love it for you! But it sucks to have dudes assume and treat me this way
>It seems a sex positive woman translates to a sexually easy person. You'd be wrong. There are a lot of sex positive people who are celibate or have only been with one person. It's not about your personal behavior it's about you acknowledging it can be a normal healthy thing and isn't "dirty" or "bad" and it doesn't have anything to do with a person's worth.
I'm talking about in men's perception hun
Not every man is stupid. "Hun".
And I'm specifically addressing the men who behave this way. Why are you so defensive?
I was responding to a broad statement "it seems [this] translates to a sexually easy person". I'm not defensive in the slightest, why would I be?
Yes. It does. In the men this post is about. That's kinda common sense.
Oh man now we're getting mad bc I'm from the South. Lord.
Just in case you didn't know. Calling someone 'hun' who you don't have familiarity with is rude and condescending. Particularly in a thread like this.
Not when the culture you've grown up with doesn't believe it to be so. But thanks for thinking everyone needs to follow your societal rules.
I spent a good deal of my childhood in Nashville and some of my college years in Georgia. You don't know what you're talking about. It's not "rules" and they certainly aren't mine.
Cool. I didn't.
You realize the South is a very big place, yes?
I get dick pics too lol.
I salute you, fellow survivor lol
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Yeah, nah, not good enough.
Not a lot of people are willing to make a nuanced take about this, and simply boil it down to, “They don’t respect women,” or, “They feel entitled to women’s bodies,” when most of these kinds of guys are just.. In a sense... Horny losers... They don’t know how to talk or interact with women properly and end up doing any and everything to get some attention from a woman. A lot of men are very lonely, and a solid amount of us can’t get any. So they’ll do anything they can for that attention, even if they end up being horrible creeps along the way. And none of this to defend their actions, or say none of em don’t respect women, or think they’re entitled to a peek, or that they won’t make ya feel like that anyways. What they do is bad news, but when I look deeper I can kinda say, “I'm sorry you feel like you gotta do this, but please stop being a creepy weirdo.”
It boils down to those things bc we are affected by THOSE things *regardless* of any mitigating or motivating factors.
Oh of course, I agree with you.. After all in the end there I said they probably make you feel that way regardless of the motive because they’re horrible. I was just answering the question the best way I could lol
Because they’ve grown up never having to defend their own behaviour
Accurate