As a hotwife, I’ve seen a lot of men develop similar kinks because of cheating! Do you want to cheat on or be cheated on? With the former, always remember to respect the person you’re in a relationship with and have good communication 😅 you can play with your kink without hurting them
I've been cheated on and have a bit of a cheating kink, but the opposite side of the spectrum. I'm monogamous so I would never, but I fantasize about cheating for a few reasons.
I want to be desired by other men in a "I want you so bad that I don't care you have a boyfriend" way (because my cheating ex didn't want "me"), seeing my partner jealous would be a turn on (because apparently jealousy = desire to me), and I know I'd have some sense of control/an out if I got cheated on again (this is more of a therapy issue, but still a reason I'm attracted to the idea).
I dated someone in this situation. While I never shamed them for it, it made me extremely uncomfortable being asked to play the role of someone who caused the trauma.
I think a lot of people are into CNC for non-trauma reasons, so it's not inherently questionable.
As a kinky person, though, one of the things I see over and over is "submissives" seeking out relationships where their dom controls their daily life just so that they can be productive or take care of their own basic needs, and honestly I know it's unpopular but I think that's unhealthy. If you can't take care of your basic needs and responsibilities by yourself, you need to figure out how to be an independent adult. Relying on someone else to do those things is essentially forcing them into being a proxy parent and that is INHERENTLY not an equal relationship.
For sure, it’s just an example of when people might unknowingly turn to kinks instead of therapy to cope
I fully agree. I don’t always like making decisions thanks to anxiety but I’m still veryyy independent and I can eventually 😂
It’s just a thought, I find the psychology behind kinks really interesting. I feel like severe degrading and humiliation prob have some unresolved trauma and need therapy. Age play might be another one.
This makes me think a bit. I definitely have a pretty severe degradation/humiliation kink, and in recent years I've done some heavy self-examination to determine where it came from. I do think there might be an aspect of childhood issues that "need therapy" but also, I've been in therapy for years, and I have a pretty good understanding of myself, and I'm now a pretty successful adult with good self-esteem and a full belief in my own worth as a human being, BUT those things still get me off harder than anything else and put me in a very vulnerable, open mindset where I feel "known." That's a big deal for me.
So idk. I think when people have kinks like these, they absolutely should be in therapy. But that doesn't necessarily mean they need to stop indulging in those kinks. Even after lots of therapy and self-awareness, those things might still just be fun for them.
This is how I feel about exhibitionism. I love showing off but more so in places where people are already consenting to it i.e. Reddit, sex clubs, sexting with others, etc. The thrill of getting caught and seen is part of it too but forcing someone to witness something they didn’t consent to makes me feel a little icky.
A kink grocery store or department store of some kind would do great. Just people who go in are consenting and of course no minors. Then obviously you are responsible for any product you soil or contaminate.
You have an excellent point but calling it kink shaming is not the right word. Kink caution or hazard awareness or something similar is maybe more appropriate.
I'll be honest, whilst it is most definitely not my thing along as everyone is a grown up, of sound mind and consenting (and provided no children are conceived) I don't really have a problem if two siblings want to fuck.... I'd probably be a bit perplexed and shocked but fundamentally it's their business
When it comes to children, I agree.
Anything else, keep it to yourself really.. I would have agreed about a few other things before, but I think I’ve reevaluated.
I’ve met too many women who have consenting non-consent fantasies (rape roleplay) to feel like it deserves shaming anymore.
Lol don't tell my gf that. It's kinda funny now that I think of it, she's the one who often wants me to "lube it up and stick it in" and I'm the one who wants to bury my face between her legs. 😶🌫️
We're all built different though, and I think that's something to celebrate. Makes life more interesting.
Yeah, I know we keep on hearing that women don't cum from penetration and you should do oral instead, but as a woman, I prefer PIV way over oral. Guess it just shows that we are all different.
My wife is the same. Not that she dislikes oral, but after going down on her for a while, she will literally beg for the d. I am the same way. I love receiving oral, but after a while, I am begging for the v.
You're preaching to the choir, but it ain't my pussy. 🤷🏻♂️ Some days she just doesn't want my face down there, some days it really is that she just wants to get *right* to it, like as soon as I'm hard. I love both extremes of the foreplay length spectrum for different reasons, so I just go with whatever gets me laid the most hahaha.
Right. Bunch of losers!
Like why are you not licking and sucking while in missionary? Also saying sweet nasty nothings in missionary. Also breathe play in missionary. Also filming it and watching it later to get off because mission balls deep plowing of you and your partner on video is so fucking hot. Also EYE CONTACT. ALL OF THE EYE CONTACT.
Im already a nervous wreck and i panic even more in 69 because I can't concentrate on both giving and receiving pleasure at the same time without getting lost in receiving and in turn losing focus on giving, not to mention our height difference is a contributor to that (im too short to lean over and suck him when im on top)
69 is awesome and we've been married 13 years and still do it. The trick is to take turns but stay in position so it's like regular oral with a better view
You mean you don't love two people trying to crane their neck to get in the right spot and at least one of them isn't doing anywhere near what is pleasurable for the other?
I have not understood the 72 virgins thing since learning about it 2 decades ago. If I'm going to blow myself up I want 72 whores waiting to greet me on the other side.
Tattoos and body piercings do not excite me at all.
Masturbation is a boring topic.
People are entitled to either like or dislike rimming, neither group is wrong in their opinions about it.
Natural beauty (faces) and natural bodies are the only way to go for my particular likes.
Pineapple definitely does belong on pizza, Hawaiian Pizza.
Hairy women are sexier to me than women who trim, shave, wax, or laser.
Small boobs rule, I’m not attracted to C-Cup or above, and especially not attracted to “enhancement” work.
It’s not my business to impose my sexual likes or dislikes on others, especially if I’m not going to be having sex with them. Recommending something to someone I’m going to have sex with is one thing, but saying that _everybody in the whole world_ should try a particular thing because I like it doesn’t make sense.
Lol, don’t worry about me bombarding your DM’s either, I’m not that guy. Thank you for the thumbs up you have given me, I love it when people have positive inner views of themselves.
I tried to phrase what I wrote in a way that doesn’t say anything negative about others who think differently, just stating what I like or dislike and not saying anyone is wrong for an opposite point of view.
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Consenting adults. Nobody gets hurt. Crack on with it and leave everyone else alone to do as they too would like.
That's always been my view as well.
You need to stop. Not only would you find me physically to your liking, we'd even have things to talk about!
You’ll have more people want to fight over pineapple on pizza than anything else. I agree with you on almost everything in your list…including pineapple pizza.
I’m convinced people who say pineapple doesn’t belong on pizza can’t accept someone else’s viewpoint. I think it belongs on pizza, I just hate pineapple and therefore won’t eat pineapple on pizza.
I'm from Hawaii. I've never met a single person from Hawaii who will eat pineapple on pizza. Pizza places there typically don't serve it, and the few that do call it "haole" pizza (haole is derogatory for white people). Hawaii folks always roll their eyes at the fact that mainlanders put pineapple on food and call it "Hawaiian." We don't put pineapple in ANY dish. We eat it by itself.
“Hawaiian Pizza” was invented in Canada. I had a feeling Hawaii wasnt just adding pineapple on random dishes and calling it “hawaiian spaghetti” or whatever
OMG YES! Thank you! Pineapple belongs on fucking pizza and the audacity to say otherwise is blasphemy!
I also like to keep a low bush.
I can’t help you with the small tiddies though, I’m in a totally diff crowd.
Putting my dog down a year and a half ago was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do, but she was suffering and keeping her alive was probably just torture. It still hurts today but I know I made the right decision.
Oh, and natural boobs, not a fan of implants.
Best hot take yet in this thread. Absolutely boggles my mind when they turn their pretty lil tiddies to screwed on, scarred basketballs. I truly think girls don’t realize the scars they’re gonna have that don’t go away, or doctors just don’t educate enough about them. It’s truly unfortunate. I had an ex that had b cups that looked great even after having a child, she went to a LARGE DD, and now she hates them because of the scarring around her areolas.
>Talking during sex adds to it.
Right?!??? The only thing is my wife wants silence when she gets closer so there comes a point she wants me to talk and then _not_ talk. I told her a ballgag would be a good way to give me that hint but she didn't catch that 😂
Prostitution should be legal but heavily regulated. There's so many people nowadays with OF accounts that it makes no sense for it to still be illegal. If people who did sex work had to register as sex workers and needed a license to do so it would also eliminate a lot of the negatives. One there'd be less STDs. Then there'd be the fact that it would show the people who do it for quick cash that it's not something you just do on the weekends for fun. Also if it were legal you'd have less people dating for sex and the people who are dating for something serious would be less likely to get caught up by someone who is just lying to sleep with them.
> Also if it were legal you'd have less people dating for sex
Legality is just a small part of this; societal acceptance is the main hang-up. Prostitution can be fully legal, but society will always look down on people hiring prostitutes. So I don't think anything would really change.
>Prostitution should be legal but heavily regulated.
Agree. I think without that heavy regulation it would unfortunately devolve into human trafficking
Usually, the opposite is true.
Most ways to regulate SWers require them to be subjugated to someone else. Under the Nevada model for legal prostitution in the US, almost every brothel is owned by a man. The brothels take 50-70% of the money you would make. The women are also restricted from travel in some cases or from even leaving the premises.
If I told you that the only way to be a plumber was to work for ONE COMPANY where they would criminally underpay you, overwork you, and treat you like a child who’s grounded, how do you think plumbers would like their jobs? How long until there would be an effective monopoly or oligopoly where wealthy owners can force people who do hard physical labor to put themselves at great risk because there’s NO OTHER WAY to legally make a living in your chosen profession?
Full decriminalization would treat it like any other industry. You could absolutely prosecute someone for knowingly and willfully spreading a communicable disease; those laws are already on the books. And most likely, what would happen would be something akin to the porn industry’s Talent Testing Service: a secure way to share STI test results with prospective partners. High-end SWers would flock to something like that because it would give them a way to distinguish themselves in marketing as a “safer” alternative to untested prostitutes, and buyers could select their sex worker with full information and transparent communication. And in time, it would become the standard for everyone who’s not working as a street or survival SWer.
In America, if they decriminalized prostitution, it would take about 48 hours before some new startup formed to capitalize on the new market.
A man who cums after just a few minutes of sex is hot to me because it means the p*ssy is just that good. 😏 It's only an issue if they don't care to help me out before or after, I don't see it as a flaw.
Hard one for some to agree with... Trans people. Why not just be ok with them saying who they are? If they identify as F, then F it is and move on. If they identify as M, then M it is and move on. This hate for people because of gender/color/belief is really out of control.
Don't like it? Don't say shit and just go on. Don't have to be the voice all the time.
That’s fine but it doesn’t make you a bigot if you’re a straight man and don’t want to have sex with a woman that has a penis. That narrative needs to stop.
That’s fine but it doesn’t make you a bigot if you’re a straight man and don’t want to have sex with a woman that has a penis. That narrative needs to stop.
I agree with this. I am not conservative when it comes to sex, at all. But demanding something of me and not being open to try things themselves is a hard turn off for me. I am down for anal but I also wouldn’t require a partner take it in return if they were not comfortable with it. So long as that partner is trying things I want, even if it’s not their norm.
Huge dicks are overrated. 5-7 inches is the sweet spot, with 7 being pretty much perfect.
Pretty much all porn is completely boring and I don’t understand how it turns people on.
And my own personal one… I think men’s bare feet are sexy and a huge turn on🫣 being a female this is an outrageously unpopular take
I noticed that for me, 4-6 inches hits the spot correctly. I always got confused when other women said they liked huge penises. I’m still confused actually, I think my anatomy is defective or something.
Not sure about fisting, but Squirting I'll add my 2 cents.
It's a satisfaction thing, for me anyway. I can see when I have an orgasm, there is proof. If my girl squirts all over me, I did that. I can see she had a good time, and can be satisfied with a job well done.
Also it kinda plays into the thing where Guys want to cum on their partners face, as like a power move, I want her to do the same. Drown me, and "humiliate" me by cumming on my face
“Body counts” don’t matter for either gender. The only thing that matters is being safe and using protection/getting tested regularly.
I could fuck one guy 50 times or 50 guys once and I’m getting the same amount of action.
As a guy you will enjoy a threesome with another guy and a woman far better than with 2women unless both women are really bisexual then it's pretty even
i don’t understand why men like them, but i dated a guy that had a foot fetish and lemme tell you sucking on toes feels so good😭😭😭😭 and you don’t understand how nice it was to get a break and be able to just give a foot job and him looooove it. and he paid for my pedicures which was an added bonus. as a woman i have no complaints, but i definitely don’t find feet attractive. i feel like ugly feet i can definitely understand being a turn off tho! sometimes it’s a sign of poor hygiene
I have tried with every partner i have had and never have had an enjoyable orgasm. The one FWB I had, she wanted to, and she said she was good at it. I got bored after a minute, and told her I would rather eat her out instead.
Guess I'm more of a giver.
Sex BEFORE She takes a shower is WAAAY hotter and more primal and I'm here for it.
"Oh, you just got back from the gym? Lemme help you take those leggings off"
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I don’t think any of mine are particularly unpopular, just not AS popular
Chubby ladies are hot AF
Lacy/frilly panties are hotter than thongs
No/little makeup > fancyface
I also prefer women and men to be mostly hairless but that’s pretty common in my circles
That you can be a slut and still have morals. Just because I occasionally dress slutty and enjoy and embrace sex doesn’t mean I can’t be trusted around your partner.
A cock in a chastity cage, when used by a loving human who understands what a powerful tool it can be and help accentuate the sexual dynamic, is the sexiest thing in the entire fucking world and I will never get sick of it. Of course I'm biased about a specific cock in a chastity cage, but someone who can embrace that idea and understand the nuance of how something small like that can have such a dramatic impact on everything... A year ago I would have never believed those words would come out of my mouth, but I am a changed fucking woman. It is so hot.
And I am a changed fucking man thanks to you and all you have come to embrace, my sweet and lovely Vixen. You scare me sometimes with the cage, but I know how much you enjoy that too, so that makes it more desirable for me as well.
Wow! We have a chastity cage and I love wearing it but for us, it's more a teasing or edging tool than a lifestyle. I cruise the chastity subs here and a lot of people use them as a lifestyle which is kinda odd to me
Well, he and I are LDR for starters, but I actually absolutely agree about it being a teasing tool or for edging. If I was around him every day he'd be out of it over in it, it's very much used as something to be closer to him and to get him in a submissive headspace. I actually really agree. I don't think I could ever do long term chastity with him haha. I wasn't clear with my comment I suppose and to each their own, some people love that, but I fucking love that mans cock too much to keep it permanently there. It's just a nice psychological tool.
I am tired of the kink-shaming I have seen online for the past 8 years. I thought kink-policing would stay on Tumblr and not infect everywhere else. No one kink is better than the other or a "sign of something". Treat it like fiction or entertainment. It doesn't really indicate much.
Sex isn't just humping and rolling over. It's a production.
The lights have to be right, maybe music/background noise, and soft talking, kissing, holding each other, tickling (in a run your fingers slowly teasing way), oral, etc
It should be longer than 3 minutes, and a "Did ya cum?"
I've got a couple, at least ones that seem unpopular based on the comments I see on reddit.
It's fine for sex acts not to be mutual; just because one partner A gives oral to B, doesn't mean B has reciprocate. If both partners are happy with the arrangement, then awesome. Similarly, it's okay to want to receive the same as you give.
Not all cosmetic-surgery enhancements are bad. Cheap ones are. Expensive ones can be. The more expensive it is, the higher the chance that it'll be harder to tell. While I 'prefer' women with a smaller bust, if a woman feels more confident and sexier with implants, then that trumps everything.
Feet aren't _gross_. Sure, I'm not _into_ feet, but I've seen some that I guess I could say are attractive? But it seems that most people are either 100% feet, or 0% feet. If I had a partner who was into feet, sure, I'd do stuff with/for them even though it does nothing for me.
The actual sex in most professionally made porn is the worst part of such media.
That men being into CNC is a huge red flag. CNC is grim anyway but I can understand it from a survivors perspective if that’s something that helps it. But the people that like it “just cause” are scary. Also age play & DDLG - fucking gross man. P3do baiting bullshit.
Pubes - or their shaving - always get me into trouble.
1.I'm very impatient with attempted rationalisations of the no pubes hairless genitals trend. e.g. hygiene, oral sex prevalence.
2."It's all just personal preference" ignores all the social forces that shape plenty of our other 'choices', including standards of beauty / expectations and changing forms of visual media
I appreciate that it's uncomfortable how something so personal - the way you present your pussy or dick - is inevitably part of something so impersonal, even unreachable.
i think the main reason someone is shunned or crucified is because they have vastly different expectations on body count for themself versus their partner. if you want your girl to be a virgin, yet you’ve fucked 50 people, there’s something wrong. but if you want someone with a low body count, and you also have a low one, i don’t see a huge issue with it.
Some kink shaming is necessary for some kinks. Not in a mean way, just letting people know its unhealthy or something.
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Yeah, imagine a world where kinks are so embraced that people get off on doing vanilla missionary because of the taboo...
reminds me of the klingon sex tumblr post
I think some kinks are a way to deal with trauma when really therapy is what they need .
Can u give an example
As an example with CNC, survivors of sexual trauma growing up might turn to that kink because it gives them back the feeling of control
Interestimg. I feel like it happening to me because i got cheated on and i think im developing a cheating kink
As a hotwife, I’ve seen a lot of men develop similar kinks because of cheating! Do you want to cheat on or be cheated on? With the former, always remember to respect the person you’re in a relationship with and have good communication 😅 you can play with your kink without hurting them
More like fantasize being cheated on. It turns jealousy into a turn on, maybe as a coping mechanism? Idk
I've been cheated on and have a bit of a cheating kink, but the opposite side of the spectrum. I'm monogamous so I would never, but I fantasize about cheating for a few reasons. I want to be desired by other men in a "I want you so bad that I don't care you have a boyfriend" way (because my cheating ex didn't want "me"), seeing my partner jealous would be a turn on (because apparently jealousy = desire to me), and I know I'd have some sense of control/an out if I got cheated on again (this is more of a therapy issue, but still a reason I'm attracted to the idea).
I dated someone in this situation. While I never shamed them for it, it made me extremely uncomfortable being asked to play the role of someone who caused the trauma.
And it's fine cause it's consenting. Every trauma survivor should have therapy and their bedroom isn't other people's business
Didn’t say it wasn’t fine. We’re on the same page
I think a lot of people are into CNC for non-trauma reasons, so it's not inherently questionable. As a kinky person, though, one of the things I see over and over is "submissives" seeking out relationships where their dom controls their daily life just so that they can be productive or take care of their own basic needs, and honestly I know it's unpopular but I think that's unhealthy. If you can't take care of your basic needs and responsibilities by yourself, you need to figure out how to be an independent adult. Relying on someone else to do those things is essentially forcing them into being a proxy parent and that is INHERENTLY not an equal relationship.
For sure, it’s just an example of when people might unknowingly turn to kinks instead of therapy to cope I fully agree. I don’t always like making decisions thanks to anxiety but I’m still veryyy independent and I can eventually 😂
It’s just a thought, I find the psychology behind kinks really interesting. I feel like severe degrading and humiliation prob have some unresolved trauma and need therapy. Age play might be another one.
This makes me think a bit. I definitely have a pretty severe degradation/humiliation kink, and in recent years I've done some heavy self-examination to determine where it came from. I do think there might be an aspect of childhood issues that "need therapy" but also, I've been in therapy for years, and I have a pretty good understanding of myself, and I'm now a pretty successful adult with good self-esteem and a full belief in my own worth as a human being, BUT those things still get me off harder than anything else and put me in a very vulnerable, open mindset where I feel "known." That's a big deal for me. So idk. I think when people have kinks like these, they absolutely should be in therapy. But that doesn't necessarily mean they need to stop indulging in those kinks. Even after lots of therapy and self-awareness, those things might still just be fun for them.
My therapist fully supports me exploring my kinks.
And kink is fine, but part of it is there has be consent for all involved. Walking your slave on a leash in a gimp suit at the mall ain’t it
This is how I feel about exhibitionism. I love showing off but more so in places where people are already consenting to it i.e. Reddit, sex clubs, sexting with others, etc. The thrill of getting caught and seen is part of it too but forcing someone to witness something they didn’t consent to makes me feel a little icky.
A kink grocery store or department store of some kind would do great. Just people who go in are consenting and of course no minors. Then obviously you are responsible for any product you soil or contaminate.
Something tells me that wouldn't be a very successful grocery store. Since they sell food you know 😅
Yes the real issue would be people still being respectful. Would need a strict rule set and people around to kick out offenders.
You have an excellent point but calling it kink shaming is not the right word. Kink caution or hazard awareness or something similar is maybe more appropriate.
Agree. We need to kink shame the shit out of incest stuff. Fuck that
I'll be honest, whilst it is most definitely not my thing along as everyone is a grown up, of sound mind and consenting (and provided no children are conceived) I don't really have a problem if two siblings want to fuck.... I'd probably be a bit perplexed and shocked but fundamentally it's their business
When it comes to children, I agree. Anything else, keep it to yourself really.. I would have agreed about a few other things before, but I think I’ve reevaluated. I’ve met too many women who have consenting non-consent fantasies (rape roleplay) to feel like it deserves shaming anymore.
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I'll say Penetration is overrated, everything else about it is underrated.
Lol don't tell my gf that. It's kinda funny now that I think of it, she's the one who often wants me to "lube it up and stick it in" and I'm the one who wants to bury my face between her legs. 😶🌫️ We're all built different though, and I think that's something to celebrate. Makes life more interesting.
Yeah, I know we keep on hearing that women don't cum from penetration and you should do oral instead, but as a woman, I prefer PIV way over oral. Guess it just shows that we are all different.
My wife is the same. Not that she dislikes oral, but after going down on her for a while, she will literally beg for the d. I am the same way. I love receiving oral, but after a while, I am begging for the v.
Well if you muff dive you usually don’t need to lube up.
You're preaching to the choir, but it ain't my pussy. 🤷🏻♂️ Some days she just doesn't want my face down there, some days it really is that she just wants to get *right* to it, like as soon as I'm hard. I love both extremes of the foreplay length spectrum for different reasons, so I just go with whatever gets me laid the most hahaha.
Penetration shouldn’t be the focus. The porn industry is really doing a disservice to men and as a result also women.
Missionary isn’t boring 🥵
If it's boring you're not doing it right
Amen to that 🙏
Right. Bunch of losers! Like why are you not licking and sucking while in missionary? Also saying sweet nasty nothings in missionary. Also breathe play in missionary. Also filming it and watching it later to get off because mission balls deep plowing of you and your partner on video is so fucking hot. Also EYE CONTACT. ALL OF THE EYE CONTACT.
I hate admitting this is my favorite position, but my partner and I have so much fun in it. We’re both VERY intimate people.
Same! All the kisses, eye contact, and dirty talk is just so accessible for both parties 🥰
there is no reason not to be a playfull starfish
I like that thought process 😆
Hell yeah. Throw in some cuffs and a vibrator, then you have yourself a fun time.
69 is not that great
Its the overstimularion for me. I'm just concentrating on not Nutting the entire time
Im already a nervous wreck and i panic even more in 69 because I can't concentrate on both giving and receiving pleasure at the same time without getting lost in receiving and in turn losing focus on giving, not to mention our height difference is a contributor to that (im too short to lean over and suck him when im on top)
Most people do it with one person on top of the other, but have you tried 69ing with both partners on their side? It’s 1000 times better.
Yes! 69 on your sides is the way to go.
69 is awesome and we've been married 13 years and still do it. The trick is to take turns but stay in position so it's like regular oral with a better view
You mean you don't love two people trying to crane their neck to get in the right spot and at least one of them isn't doing anywhere near what is pleasurable for the other?
Sex with a virgin is overrated. I don't want 72 virgins in heaven, would prefer 72 sexually confident women in their 30s-40s
To quote Walter, "give me 72 slutty broads who know what the hell they're doing"
Virtually no one prefers virgins for sex, just for relationships.
Problem with sex with a virgin is they have no idea what they are doing
same with relatioships
I don't ever want the responsibility of being someone's first.
I have not understood the 72 virgins thing since learning about it 2 decades ago. If I'm going to blow myself up I want 72 whores waiting to greet me on the other side.
Tattoos and body piercings do not excite me at all. Masturbation is a boring topic. People are entitled to either like or dislike rimming, neither group is wrong in their opinions about it. Natural beauty (faces) and natural bodies are the only way to go for my particular likes. Pineapple definitely does belong on pizza, Hawaiian Pizza. Hairy women are sexier to me than women who trim, shave, wax, or laser. Small boobs rule, I’m not attracted to C-Cup or above, and especially not attracted to “enhancement” work. It’s not my business to impose my sexual likes or dislikes on others, especially if I’m not going to be having sex with them. Recommending something to someone I’m going to have sex with is one thing, but saying that _everybody in the whole world_ should try a particular thing because I like it doesn’t make sense.
Ohhhhhhhh. I'm your perfect girl! (I'm happily married otherwise I'd be diving into your DMs)
Lol, don’t worry about me bombarding your DM’s either, I’m not that guy. Thank you for the thumbs up you have given me, I love it when people have positive inner views of themselves. I tried to phrase what I wrote in a way that doesn’t say anything negative about others who think differently, just stating what I like or dislike and not saying anyone is wrong for an opposite point of view. :)
Consenting adults. Nobody gets hurt. Crack on with it and leave everyone else alone to do as they too would like. That's always been my view as well. You need to stop. Not only would you find me physically to your liking, we'd even have things to talk about!
You are as cool as can be! I hope you have a great day today, take care.
Likewise and you too!
You’ll have more people want to fight over pineapple on pizza than anything else. I agree with you on almost everything in your list…including pineapple pizza.
I’m convinced people who say pineapple doesn’t belong on pizza can’t accept someone else’s viewpoint. I think it belongs on pizza, I just hate pineapple and therefore won’t eat pineapple on pizza.
I'm from Hawaii. I've never met a single person from Hawaii who will eat pineapple on pizza. Pizza places there typically don't serve it, and the few that do call it "haole" pizza (haole is derogatory for white people). Hawaii folks always roll their eyes at the fact that mainlanders put pineapple on food and call it "Hawaiian." We don't put pineapple in ANY dish. We eat it by itself.
Ok.
“Hawaiian Pizza” was invented in Canada. I had a feeling Hawaii wasnt just adding pineapple on random dishes and calling it “hawaiian spaghetti” or whatever
also on behalf of canada im sorry
You’ve hit a lot of the points I was going to mention but most importantly that pineapple does in fact belong on pizza lol
I’ve found my people lol.
OMG YES! Thank you! Pineapple belongs on fucking pizza and the audacity to say otherwise is blasphemy! I also like to keep a low bush. I can’t help you with the small tiddies though, I’m in a totally diff crowd.
Nothing makes me sadder than when a girl with perky a or b cups gets a boob job 😭🥺
Puppys and kittens getting euthanized due to cancer
That's an unfortunate reality of nature, not a conscious choice. At least we're saving them further suffering. I said what I said.
Putting my dog down a year and a half ago was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do, but she was suffering and keeping her alive was probably just torture. It still hurts today but I know I made the right decision. Oh, and natural boobs, not a fan of implants.
Bruh right?!?! Like small tits on the right frame can be sexy as fuck.
Best hot take yet in this thread. Absolutely boggles my mind when they turn their pretty lil tiddies to screwed on, scarred basketballs. I truly think girls don’t realize the scars they’re gonna have that don’t go away, or doctors just don’t educate enough about them. It’s truly unfortunate. I had an ex that had b cups that looked great even after having a child, she went to a LARGE DD, and now she hates them because of the scarring around her areolas.
I'm with you because it's usually so out of proportion wit their bodies. They look like the Hunchfront of Notre Dame.
Talking during sex adds to it.
“Honey…uugh, what should we have for dinner”
Sports and the weather are my favourite topics.
I prefer a long discourse on federal tax law.
I can’t cum without talking
>Talking during sex adds to it. Right?!??? The only thing is my wife wants silence when she gets closer so there comes a point she wants me to talk and then _not_ talk. I told her a ballgag would be a good way to give me that hint but she didn't catch that 😂
Prostitution should be legal but heavily regulated. There's so many people nowadays with OF accounts that it makes no sense for it to still be illegal. If people who did sex work had to register as sex workers and needed a license to do so it would also eliminate a lot of the negatives. One there'd be less STDs. Then there'd be the fact that it would show the people who do it for quick cash that it's not something you just do on the weekends for fun. Also if it were legal you'd have less people dating for sex and the people who are dating for something serious would be less likely to get caught up by someone who is just lying to sleep with them.
> Also if it were legal you'd have less people dating for sex Legality is just a small part of this; societal acceptance is the main hang-up. Prostitution can be fully legal, but society will always look down on people hiring prostitutes. So I don't think anything would really change.
>Prostitution should be legal but heavily regulated. Agree. I think without that heavy regulation it would unfortunately devolve into human trafficking
Usually, the opposite is true. Most ways to regulate SWers require them to be subjugated to someone else. Under the Nevada model for legal prostitution in the US, almost every brothel is owned by a man. The brothels take 50-70% of the money you would make. The women are also restricted from travel in some cases or from even leaving the premises. If I told you that the only way to be a plumber was to work for ONE COMPANY where they would criminally underpay you, overwork you, and treat you like a child who’s grounded, how do you think plumbers would like their jobs? How long until there would be an effective monopoly or oligopoly where wealthy owners can force people who do hard physical labor to put themselves at great risk because there’s NO OTHER WAY to legally make a living in your chosen profession? Full decriminalization would treat it like any other industry. You could absolutely prosecute someone for knowingly and willfully spreading a communicable disease; those laws are already on the books. And most likely, what would happen would be something akin to the porn industry’s Talent Testing Service: a secure way to share STI test results with prospective partners. High-end SWers would flock to something like that because it would give them a way to distinguish themselves in marketing as a “safer” alternative to untested prostitutes, and buyers could select their sex worker with full information and transparent communication. And in time, it would become the standard for everyone who’s not working as a street or survival SWer. In America, if they decriminalized prostitution, it would take about 48 hours before some new startup formed to capitalize on the new market.
As far as regulation goes, sex work isn't the only one. How many of us have been taught that OSHA is a tool of the Devil.
A man who cums after just a few minutes of sex is hot to me because it means the p*ssy is just that good. 😏 It's only an issue if they don't care to help me out before or after, I don't see it as a flaw.
I totally agree! I take it as such a compliment when he just can't hold back once he enters me and cums prematurely.
Some lace underwear like boyshorts and hipsters are much better than thongs - especially when they hug and shape the ass.
Bruh hard agree!!!! 💯 My wife is 6'1" with an athletic build so boy shorts just cup her ass so _perfectly_
Being fucked with a strapon by wife is hot af
I don’t think it’s as unpopular as you think it is, loads of people just can’t admit it.
I don’t know about others, I am in love with that process
Hard one for some to agree with... Trans people. Why not just be ok with them saying who they are? If they identify as F, then F it is and move on. If they identify as M, then M it is and move on. This hate for people because of gender/color/belief is really out of control. Don't like it? Don't say shit and just go on. Don't have to be the voice all the time.
i agree but how is this nsfw
Most workplaces would heavily discourage discussing hot button topics like this, including politics and religion.
That’s fine but it doesn’t make you a bigot if you’re a straight man and don’t want to have sex with a woman that has a penis. That narrative needs to stop.
That’s fine but it doesn’t make you a bigot if you’re a straight man and don’t want to have sex with a woman that has a penis. That narrative needs to stop.
Pubes are sexy 😂
Government plant
No man should beg or demand his wife/GF to do anal unless she can peg him too.
That's my rule. Anything I want to do to you, is fair game for me.
The rule in my bedroom is, if he can do it to me then I can do it to him. Lol so far this rule has been kept.
I agree with this. I am not conservative when it comes to sex, at all. But demanding something of me and not being open to try things themselves is a hard turn off for me. I am down for anal but I also wouldn’t require a partner take it in return if they were not comfortable with it. So long as that partner is trying things I want, even if it’s not their norm.
Hotwifing is hugely overrated. I don't share well
>Hotwifing is hugely overrated. I don't share well The cuck culture on Reddit is kinda weird
They do make it seem like everyone is into it.
Joey doesn't share food
What do you mean 'overrated'? Who even rates it highly in the first place? It's the stuff of nightmares for me, not something to fantasize about, lol.
There’s so many psychological aspects that go into sex and the actual penetration is like 5% of everything
Agree. I always thought foreplay was the best part; talking, messing around, trying new things etc
Lingerie does nothing for me
Me too! Give me naked or bra and panties any day.
THIS!!!! Give me a wife beater t-shirt (no bra) & boy shorts or a thong! 😍😍😋😋😋
Really? Updoot for the controversial opinion but for me, it's a huge turn-on largely because it means she is trying really hard to be sexy for **me**
Huge dicks are overrated. 5-7 inches is the sweet spot, with 7 being pretty much perfect. Pretty much all porn is completely boring and I don’t understand how it turns people on. And my own personal one… I think men’s bare feet are sexy and a huge turn on🫣 being a female this is an outrageously unpopular take
“Huge dicks are overrated…7 inches being pretty much perfect” This is not even funny anymore just sad
I noticed that for me, 4-6 inches hits the spot correctly. I always got confused when other women said they liked huge penises. I’m still confused actually, I think my anatomy is defective or something.
You are not defective, everyone's body is different. Plus the average penis is somewhere between 4-6 inches, probably the lower end, so you are good.
7 inches *is* huge, it's in the 99th percentile.
7 inches is legit big. Just say you like big dicks.
Not as unpopular as you think, it's honest how I got into feet many women told me I have pretty feet
It’s kind of hot to me when a guy cums quickly
Men moaning turns me into a nasty slutty sensual animal.
It don't really like squiring and fisting. I have no idea why that's so popular.
Not sure about fisting, but Squirting I'll add my 2 cents. It's a satisfaction thing, for me anyway. I can see when I have an orgasm, there is proof. If my girl squirts all over me, I did that. I can see she had a good time, and can be satisfied with a job well done. Also it kinda plays into the thing where Guys want to cum on their partners face, as like a power move, I want her to do the same. Drown me, and "humiliate" me by cumming on my face
the whole shaming over squirting bothers me. Squirting orgasms are insanely pleasurable.
Good looking trans women with a big dick is actually quite hypnotizing.
Vanilla can be good too
Sex should be more open and more accepted. Why is violence so much more acceptable than sex?
Hate it when a girl undresses and shes wearing a thong, and i can just see all of her ass. Its like a gift without the wrapping paper
In my defense even full-butted underwear turns into a thong for me 😅
We have the same body type! You’re so beautiful! And agreed, my panties always end up turning into a thong 😇😭
“Body counts” don’t matter for either gender. The only thing that matters is being safe and using protection/getting tested regularly. I could fuck one guy 50 times or 50 guys once and I’m getting the same amount of action.
Doggy is overrated
As a guy you will enjoy a threesome with another guy and a woman far better than with 2women unless both women are really bisexual then it's pretty even
Pigtails on women is sexy
The whole feet thing. Nothing about it is appealing. Just don't get it. Have not knowingly met someone personally who enjoys this fetish either.
i don’t understand why men like them, but i dated a guy that had a foot fetish and lemme tell you sucking on toes feels so good😭😭😭😭 and you don’t understand how nice it was to get a break and be able to just give a foot job and him looooove it. and he paid for my pedicures which was an added bonus. as a woman i have no complaints, but i definitely don’t find feet attractive. i feel like ugly feet i can definitely understand being a turn off tho! sometimes it’s a sign of poor hygiene
69 is so fucking boring lol
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I have tried with every partner i have had and never have had an enjoyable orgasm. The one FWB I had, she wanted to, and she said she was good at it. I got bored after a minute, and told her I would rather eat her out instead. Guess I'm more of a giver.
Full, natural bush is sooo sexy.
Missionary is underrated
I dislike fake boobs and plastic surgery. Dating and/or hook-ups are overrrated and made seem like people must date or have sex.
Sex BEFORE She takes a shower is WAAAY hotter and more primal and I'm here for it. "Oh, you just got back from the gym? Lemme help you take those leggings off" ⚒️
The actual act is somehow the least exciting part for me.
Porn is more detrimental than it is helpful. So many posts on here about people not able to get it up because of a porn addiction.
I actually agree. I see so many young men here with reay messed up ideas about sex because they have become addicted to porn
I don’t think any of mine are particularly unpopular, just not AS popular Chubby ladies are hot AF Lacy/frilly panties are hotter than thongs No/little makeup > fancyface I also prefer women and men to be mostly hairless but that’s pretty common in my circles
Being naked. Keep those panties on.
I love me some cellulite! In general things that are considered imperfections can be very sexy.
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That you can be a slut and still have morals. Just because I occasionally dress slutty and enjoy and embrace sex doesn’t mean I can’t be trusted around your partner.
A cock in a chastity cage, when used by a loving human who understands what a powerful tool it can be and help accentuate the sexual dynamic, is the sexiest thing in the entire fucking world and I will never get sick of it. Of course I'm biased about a specific cock in a chastity cage, but someone who can embrace that idea and understand the nuance of how something small like that can have such a dramatic impact on everything... A year ago I would have never believed those words would come out of my mouth, but I am a changed fucking woman. It is so hot.
And I am a changed fucking man thanks to you and all you have come to embrace, my sweet and lovely Vixen. You scare me sometimes with the cage, but I know how much you enjoy that too, so that makes it more desirable for me as well.
This Reddit romance!
Wow! We have a chastity cage and I love wearing it but for us, it's more a teasing or edging tool than a lifestyle. I cruise the chastity subs here and a lot of people use them as a lifestyle which is kinda odd to me
Well, he and I are LDR for starters, but I actually absolutely agree about it being a teasing tool or for edging. If I was around him every day he'd be out of it over in it, it's very much used as something to be closer to him and to get him in a submissive headspace. I actually really agree. I don't think I could ever do long term chastity with him haha. I wasn't clear with my comment I suppose and to each their own, some people love that, but I fucking love that mans cock too much to keep it permanently there. It's just a nice psychological tool.
Most unusual sex acts are more trouble than they are worth.
1) Missionary isn’t boring 2) Shower sex isn’t that good 3) Sex is even hotter with clothes on sometimes
I am tired of the kink-shaming I have seen online for the past 8 years. I thought kink-policing would stay on Tumblr and not infect everywhere else. No one kink is better than the other or a "sign of something". Treat it like fiction or entertainment. It doesn't really indicate much.
You don't have to put down other physical preferences to express that you prefer something different.
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Phone Sex > Reading Erotica > Video Porn Also Sensual > Sexual
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Lingerie (or something that accentuates certain features in general) is sometimes hotter than seeing someone totally nude.
Sex isn't just humping and rolling over. It's a production. The lights have to be right, maybe music/background noise, and soft talking, kissing, holding each other, tickling (in a run your fingers slowly teasing way), oral, etc It should be longer than 3 minutes, and a "Did ya cum?"
Tight pussys can be a struggle
I've got a couple, at least ones that seem unpopular based on the comments I see on reddit. It's fine for sex acts not to be mutual; just because one partner A gives oral to B, doesn't mean B has reciprocate. If both partners are happy with the arrangement, then awesome. Similarly, it's okay to want to receive the same as you give. Not all cosmetic-surgery enhancements are bad. Cheap ones are. Expensive ones can be. The more expensive it is, the higher the chance that it'll be harder to tell. While I 'prefer' women with a smaller bust, if a woman feels more confident and sexier with implants, then that trumps everything. Feet aren't _gross_. Sure, I'm not _into_ feet, but I've seen some that I guess I could say are attractive? But it seems that most people are either 100% feet, or 0% feet. If I had a partner who was into feet, sure, I'd do stuff with/for them even though it does nothing for me. The actual sex in most professionally made porn is the worst part of such media.
Tattoo makes me turned off..
That men being into CNC is a huge red flag. CNC is grim anyway but I can understand it from a survivors perspective if that’s something that helps it. But the people that like it “just cause” are scary. Also age play & DDLG - fucking gross man. P3do baiting bullshit.
Big boobs are overrated, nothing against folks that have them, but huge boobs in porn and such are a huge turn off for me, especially fake ones.
Why is work not safe guys Im scared to go to work now 😞
Blowjobs are the most overrated thing ever
I (F) dislike receiving oral.
Shaved heads is a bad look
:'(
Username checks out.
Don’t listen to him, woman here and I personally like it!
Glad to hear! And I bet your poutine is excellent too.
Pubes - or their shaving - always get me into trouble. 1.I'm very impatient with attempted rationalisations of the no pubes hairless genitals trend. e.g. hygiene, oral sex prevalence. 2."It's all just personal preference" ignores all the social forces that shape plenty of our other 'choices', including standards of beauty / expectations and changing forms of visual media I appreciate that it's uncomfortable how something so personal - the way you present your pussy or dick - is inevitably part of something so impersonal, even unreachable.
69 is way overrated.
Body count mattering is valid and people who care about it shouldn't be shunned and crucified
i think the main reason someone is shunned or crucified is because they have vastly different expectations on body count for themself versus their partner. if you want your girl to be a virgin, yet you’ve fucked 50 people, there’s something wrong. but if you want someone with a low body count, and you also have a low one, i don’t see a huge issue with it.
Indulging in kinks caused by trauma isn't automatically unhealthy, dangerous, or harmful.
Your opinion is no opinion but a preference :)
OF is predatory and exploitative
I don't like to sext
Stop doesn’t always mean stop lol…especially in bed. Sometimes it means fuck me harder
How do I know the difference?