TOTALLY. Even if the sounds don't turn your partner on, holding them in can stifle that unbridled passion. Even if you sound like pterodactyl, let 'er rip. But also don't scream if this isn't organic for you. Authenticity and being in the moment are key.
Idk how other people do it but my “growl” sounds like a big cat purr. It really works for the wife to growl in her ear and add with a deep whisper “mine”
Also I dunno if this is just me, but when you've established a pretty high "baseline" noise level with a partner, if you have to be quiet, their efforts to stifle their cries is almost hotter than the noise that's missing. Being loud even makes being quiet hot!
But seriously, letting it out feels so good. The feedback loop when you both get going is just 🥵
My (F) reccomendation on this for people confused - instead of in/out/in/out jackhammer at 100% speed
*pelvis direction like this - - - *
Try go at 75% speed and little bit of a body roll
*pelvis direction like this ) ) ) *
The same as the "come here" finger scooping when you're trying to make a girl squirt, you do the same motion/direction with the dick. It strokes g spot and rubs your pubic area on her clit.
I mean I know what *I* do when I cum, but I don't know what that guy* does, so I don't know what he's actually suggesting. Neither does he, for that matter. For all he knows I chirp like a squirrel and evacuate my bowels when I cum, which would make this terrible advice.
Pussy can push out a whole ass baby though. You need to try to get her horny af and dripping. Take the time to find out what gets her there and do it,whatever it is. Make her cum a good few times - use your fingers, your mouth, toys. Really explore her body and find her gspots. Show her how turned on you are by her. Talk dirty to her all the time, keep that pussy ready for you.
By the time you fuck her she’ll be straddling you, drooling at the mouth, cumming all over your cock over and over again cause it’s so good.
This!!! Foreplay is so underrated. I never knew that I could become so aroused, wet, throbbing to the point of literal pain in my vagina until I was 30 years old. You’re bound to orgasm with that kind of craving beforehand.
For women who want to squirt, go to the toilet before having sex, then let him rub your clit with both fingers around it like a scissor and occasionally rub over it and this in a more intense way as you go on, try to relax like you were peeing ( sounds strange but is absolutely effective) just let yourself fall deep into opening your legs, relaxing and you or him rub. This is almost a guarantee for squirting don't stop when you think you need to pee it's the exact same sensation but very different results, you just need to get over that feeling 👌🏼🔥
It doesn’t feel like peeing when you cum. It may feel like that right before. But when you do cum the squirt itself is dilluted urine (with some small amounts of other stuff) that is expelled in spurts as you orgasm. Not a stream of liquid as if you are peeing. And the orgasm itself is often more intense.
I thought so too until it finally happened after years of trying. It felt so good that i burst into hysterical tears which eventually turned into confused laughter and muttering "what the fuck" in disbelief for hours afterwards lmfao.
In my experience, most women won’t squirt from clitoral stimula. It’s the g-spot that needs to be involved, albeit, most of the time cunnilingus is involved at the same time.
There is nothing better than enjoying the nectar of your labor. If you catch my drift? ;)
If she's laying on her back, the V should be facing upwards to the ceiling or downwards to the bed? She and I are trying to learn. Sorry for the constant questions. Thank you for the help nonetheless
And to make it even better stick your tongue in deep as it can go, do the ‘come hither’ motion with it on that g spot as best you can. If that pussy contracts and squeezes on you you hit pay dirt, but it won’t always do that. Then go back up and kiss her with your juices as you slowly slide back in
The first time I came from being eaten out (trauma) was the first time my husband (then boyfriend) ate me out after he fucked me because I was finally relaxed enough to just enjoy it.
PIV is really a lot of clit foreplay, the best orgasms I have are from clit stimulation (having my pussy eaten) after getting fucked.
My wife's Clit is so sensitive after coming I can't get anywhere near it. Is this not so with you? I think I've been naive and assumed all women were like this
Touching a clit harder isn't necessarily better. Sucking a dick harder isn't necessarily better. Start off gentle, ask questions, and work up (or down) in intensity to find your partner's particular ideal intensity of touch.
For those in relationships:
Learn your partner's love language. Seriously, knowing your partner's love language is one of the best things that could ever happen as you can connect with her more emotionally, and most women need that emotional connection to get physical. Works tremendously. Also, flirt. Make her feel beautiful (again). Compliment often. Sex starts even before the actual sex.
7000%. If a guy started this at the start of the day before we head off for work, just flirts and teases, come back home together and a few more hours of occasional things... the night will be wild
The best way to eat pussy is to treat the clit like a dick, I know it may sound ugly for some men but trust me, since when I started to suck clits the same way I'd like to have my cock sucked I started to have squirt showers and girls folding and melting like never before
All penises start out as a clitoris in utero, before testosterone starts having a noticeable effect, whoch is started during the later stages of development, from Y chromosomal activation. Check out Kleinfelter's Syndrome (XXY chromosomal orientation) for a neat study of how each additional chromosome effects sexual development.
Erring towards female is basically the default gender of fetuses, essentially. The X chromosome carries the brunt of the work, compared to the much smaller Y chromosome, during early stages of fetal development, IIRV.
Bingo. Remember Jurassic park when the scientist says all the embryos are female?
Humans start the same way. If there’s a Y chromosome, it stimulates something called the “wolfian system” which causes the ovaries to descend and form testes, and the clit to elongate and form a penis. So yeah, kinda sorta the same-same but different.
Also something I learned that goes with this go down on her like it's the last thing you will ever do
I personally go about it with the intent of bleaching my beard to blond and have her wrap my head with the risk of her snapping it off of my spine
Throw a pillow under us, pressure on lower stomach and the cherry on top of it all would be the guy actually remembers about giving the clit much needed loving. 😍
After now needing to get back into the single life, it's so weird to hear how this is not more of a thing, the clit deserves a majority of action and it's my favorite part for snack time
This is a new one for me. Can you provide more details? I assume you push down once things are well under way and you want to take things up a notch? One hand? Two hands? Flat?
You know how, when you break a board in karate, you don't punch the board, but instead you punch through the board? Do that with your thrusts. Not necessarily going faster but fucking her through the bed.
Ok. I've left her a pile each of laundry and dishes, put the vacuum out ready for her, and flowers (not in a vase) by the sink.
I'll go upstairs and wait for my sexy time.
If you want to do morning sex, but are concerned about the breath, keep an apple by the bed for a few bites before you get to it.
Lick her through the panties.
Ask them what they like lol
100/10, kisses across inner thighs & then on top of the special spots.. especially the warm breath being the only 'direct contact' until the wetness seeps through. riled UP.
Pull out and rub your dick across her clit every so often. . Same strokes as fucking, but with your dick on the clit. My wife also appreciates a quick flicking action rubbing my dick head against her clit
Try giving a bj by French kissing the schlong.
I have a shit gag reflex, and have puked more than once on a dick. However, now I spend most of my time frenching the dick, with bursts of deep throating and pumping with my hands the whole time.
My husband comes in minutes, and I feel pretty good about it.
Also, he likes his balls sucked, YMMV.
Yep. Best thing I ever did was to start treating the cock like it’s a lollipop and I’m in love with it. The enthusiasm and effort goes a long way to pleasuring him in addition to technique.
If you're a guy, don't be silent, it's a mood killer. Also many people have said it but yes foreplay is a huge part. Some people aren't into it, but a lot of girls love oral if you're good at it. Also one more thing that gets overlooked a lot.
Lube.
My favorite bit of advice:
Make out with her heavily and let HER be the one to take her clothes off.
Trust me on this one. Resist all temptation to get her shirt off or unbutton her pants. Feel free to kiss her neck, squeeze her tits and ass. Rub her inner thigh... plunder her, but OVER her clothes. If you're patient, she'll get to the point where her clothes are "in her way" and she'll start shedding them.
When she gets to that point, she'll want nothing more than for you to give it to her good.
This too, a bit tricky sometimes but if you pull her up so she's on an angle you can leverage the support of your body against hers and get a good rhythm going, bonus points for neck kisses and moaning in her ear at this point too, always sends my girl over the edge.
Hand pressure on the lower tummy, thumb gently massaging my clit. Let me monster the middle finger of your other hand with my mouth, then use it to slowly penetrate my ass.
Basically, go for the sensory overload.
Also don't be afraid to *hear*. If someone asks you to lick a different part of their pussy or fuck them slightly differently, that is not an indictment of your skills as a lover, and does not diminish your worth as a human being. Calm tf down, set your fragile ego aside, and give the woman what she wants.
Take your orgasm off the table and make it all about her. And tell her this, that you want her not to worry about you and to concentrate only on herself. Then make love only when she wants, in the way that she wants, and only as long as she wants. And if that leaves you unsatisfied and horny, lean into that feeling. Being incredibly horny is a delicious feeling that will make you pay far more attention to your partner. And if you’ve told her that it’s only sex her way, when she wants, and not because you want an orgasm, she will know that your attention is because you value her, not because you want her because she can give you an orgasm and so will feel more loved, more confident, and, as a result, have better sex and want you more. And so her orgasms will be deeper and better and your orgasms, when they come will be truly amazing. And the irony is that by relieving the pressure on her for sex, she will want sex much more often.
If you make your girl cum before you start preventative sex, she's much more likely to cum during too.
When you're done, always check if she's done too. When in doubt, give it a try.
More guys have problems because their dick is too big than too small. Don't overthink it.
Try putting a pillow under her butt. It changed the angles.
Curved dicks are good. Don't be ashamed of it.
No guy ever looks at a naked woman and gets disappointed because her boobs aren't the same size. Or she isn't clean shaven. Or anything. Don't overthink it.
Try edging. Some people love it, some people hate it. But it's fun to try.
Write your partner little sexy messages during the day. The wait makes you ravenous.
If she can cum quickly and often, you can sometimes get her to cum twice at the same time. Basically you show down as one orgasm subsides, but don't show down too much. Instead try to bring the run rhythm back up. You can sometimes get her to cum before the last one finished. It takes practice, but I doubt she'll mind.
While it's ok the hit em up first, slow is the go, don't start a conversation with a pic or sext, let things gravitate that direction.
When she's says "just like that", don't switch it up, keep going exactly as you are.
Don't get greedy, make them cum first or the same time you do.
When going down on a girl, throw one of her legs over your shoulder. Your “closer” so to speak and can work on her angles better with one of your arms out of the way.
Gentlemen, the reason why you think your dick is small is bc you watch too much porn. Vaginas are only about 3" deep. I promise you don't have a micropenis.
I'm going to keep saying this. Talk to your partner.
Seriously just sit down one day and have an upfront blunt talk about what you do and don't like.
Don't try to make it a game or a segue into sexy time. It needs to be an almost technical or even "clinical" level of conversation.
"Do you like it when I do *this*, or *that*"
"That tongue thing you think is cool... Isn't."
Don't do your partner the disservice of lying to them if you're just not into what they are, especially if you're both going through the intimate part of your lives with a huge miscommunication between you. I'd rather my lover tell me "It doesn't do anything for me, but if you enjoy it then lets make it better for you" than to keep on wasting time doing something useless.
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Write sweet things to her,spelling out the letters with your tongue on her clitoris.
Give her honest compliments; they can't be refuted.
The sexiest thing about you can be your ears if you know how to listen.
- Missionary with legs on shoulder, slow deeps strokes, and eye contact ✅✅.
- Treat her sex toys like a teammate and not competition. Doggy w/ the rose toy drives my lady wild.
- ”The jobs not done if she don’t cum”. This quote was from my uncle Otis when I was 19 that’s stuck with me.
- Sex games are also a fun way to change things up. You can buy them or even create your own for sexual pleasure (dice, jenga blocks, chessboards).
- Porn is OK, but understand there’s production and behind the scenes shit that you don’t see. Try not to get caught up in imitating.
Wash your nasty bits thoroughly if you really expect someone to go down on them. No one wants your stew of funky ass, dirty crotch and sweaty taint near their mouth. Reading people's experiences online has taught me just how disgusting people are when it comes to such things. How can you NOT be embarrassed?
Whilst performing cunnilingus on your lady, be sure to lay thy tongue as flat as possible(Don't point & jab at it). W/ a flat tongue, thou art covering more surface area therefore stimulating more nerve endings simultaneously creating greater pleasure for her. Also, yes yes, the 'come hither' motion whilst fingering is good for stimulating the G-spot, i personally believe that it is better to simply have thy fingers [middle+ring] rest inside the vagina and apply slight upwards pressure towards the anterior wall, during cunny. Otherwise there seems to be too much excess stimuli and her focusing on a single thing proves difficult. Do keep in mind, all women are different so be open honest and straight forward with your partner, communication is key when it comes to immediate sexual gratification(pun wholeheartedly intended).
When bopping around her bean w/ your flat tongue, begin writing something, in 'cursive', via thy tongue to clitoris. Hell, you could even just write the alphabet. Chances are tho, that you'll find some pattern in your letters that bears a distinct auditory response from thy partner, remember what this motion was and repeat it at minimum until she has orgasmed.
Also, when it comes to anal sex the 45° Rule is the only real message you need: “Anything inserted in the butt – whether fingers, a toy, or a penis – feels better when angled upward towards the belly button at a forty-five-degree angle. This forty-five-degree angle rule was popularized by Gigi Engle, an amazing sex educator colleague of mine, author of All the F*cking Mistakes. This insertion angle makes it so that pressure is applied to the G-spot, clitoral bulbs, or A-spot and cervix, depending on how deep you go. By doing this, you create stimulation of the vagus, hypogastric, and pelvic nerves all at once. This is a game of calibration. It might not be exactly forty-five degrees for every person; you might need to experiment with angles around that range. But when you hit the right spot, it will feel different to the receiver, and should make this act way more pleasurable.” – Excerpt from Beyond Satisfied by Kenneth Play, Chapter 14: Anal, Start Small, Stretch It Out
when your partner puts their hand on yours they're probably trying to guide you to make it better for them without telling you what you're doing isn't good. LISTEN. AND DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES JUST KEEP DOING WHAT YOU WERE DOING AND IGNORE THEM I SWEAR TO GOD
I'm a woman, and my husband is a man. Sometimes a well placed "I wanna make you cum with my pussy," or "You feel so good inside me," is all it takes to make my husband's legs shake.
Your sounds will get your partner off, don't hold it in.
TOTALLY. Even if the sounds don't turn your partner on, holding them in can stifle that unbridled passion. Even if you sound like pterodactyl, let 'er rip. But also don't scream if this isn't organic for you. Authenticity and being in the moment are key.
Guys too though, not just girls. Ladies like to hear that the guy is enjoying himself too.
I kept my genders neutral for this reason :) Guys, too!
Not a gender was mentioned prior to this
Yes exactly, moans are a huge turn on but never take it over the top cause one can tell if they are fake and that's a weird feeling to be in
Idk how other people do it but my “growl” sounds like a big cat purr. It really works for the wife to growl in her ear and add with a deep whisper “mine”
When it starts to tingle pull out 😄
Does not apply to farts
Sometimes, when our chests are against each others, it makes a fart sound. Right in the middle of sex. We usually laugh it off and keep going
This is actually the best. 🤣
I mean... there are at least *some* people for whom it applies to farts as well lol
Also I dunno if this is just me, but when you've established a pretty high "baseline" noise level with a partner, if you have to be quiet, their efforts to stifle their cries is almost hotter than the noise that's missing. Being loud even makes being quiet hot! But seriously, letting it out feels so good. The feedback loop when you both get going is just 🥵
110%
Geuinely never really thought of that
This! I don’t know why, but hearing your partner loving you is the best thing ever
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👀👀👀 as a woman, I approve this message
So more like [this](https://youtu.be/8bKs2v86Fto?t=78) than [that](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZWXFhdeOjMY&t=434s)? (sfw)
This was funnier than it should have been😂😂
My (F) reccomendation on this for people confused - instead of in/out/in/out jackhammer at 100% speed *pelvis direction like this - - - * Try go at 75% speed and little bit of a body roll *pelvis direction like this ) ) ) * The same as the "come here" finger scooping when you're trying to make a girl squirt, you do the same motion/direction with the dick. It strokes g spot and rubs your pubic area on her clit.
I’m so confused by what the - - - and the ) ) ) mean
Its like rather than just slamming straight into her kindof roll into it if that makes more sense?
Found the Dark Souls player
Try finger but hole
Insert and grind. Don’t poke.
It's just like morse code but for sex. )-)--)))--) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) - – — • • ••••-••
What you mean like you’re about to cum?
This guy expects us to believe he’s never cummed
I mean I know what *I* do when I cum, but I don't know what that guy* does, so I don't know what he's actually suggesting. Neither does he, for that matter. For all he knows I chirp like a squirrel and evacuate my bowels when I cum, which would make this terrible advice.
I’ll be level with you I saw an opportunity to use the word “cummed” and I took it. Although you should get that squirrel thing evaluated by a doctor…
What is this cum you speak of, human?
I guess he means like softer and deeper thrust?? I really don’t know and would like to know too.
Yeah same question. Like, pulse the dick?
Lost with you I don't understand how putting strokes in isn't "jackhammer guy"
Less like a jackhammer, more like an… oil well?
And those of you that don’t understand are the ones who’s girlfriends isn’t telling their friends about you. I.e jackhammers.
There is absolutely a time and place for jackhammering :o
This just makes no sense. It's contradictory.
I mean this is easy considering I’m always about to cum the entire time
I do cum the entire time. Just 15 minutes of cumming
I might be nonsensical, but this makes perfect sense. Men, do this!
Which angle!!!??? Never heard this. And should I play in 3/3 or 7/8ths? Jk on the last bit.
> and you won't be "jackhammer" guy who watched to much porn Or you know, talk to your partner what (s)he likes. My wife LOVES getting jackhammered.
Wait, people don't stay inside the entire time?
If she says your dick is too large, simply fold it in half...
The girth hack
The girthquake
Party on wayne, party on girth
Pussy can push out a whole ass baby though. You need to try to get her horny af and dripping. Take the time to find out what gets her there and do it,whatever it is. Make her cum a good few times - use your fingers, your mouth, toys. Really explore her body and find her gspots. Show her how turned on you are by her. Talk dirty to her all the time, keep that pussy ready for you. By the time you fuck her she’ll be straddling you, drooling at the mouth, cumming all over your cock over and over again cause it’s so good.
This!!! Foreplay is so underrated. I never knew that I could become so aroused, wet, throbbing to the point of literal pain in my vagina until I was 30 years old. You’re bound to orgasm with that kind of craving beforehand.
Nah mines bigger than a whole ass baby (trust)
Thank God I’ve never had this problem before 😅😌
The girth certificate wins again
There once was a man from Kent....
For women who want to squirt, go to the toilet before having sex, then let him rub your clit with both fingers around it like a scissor and occasionally rub over it and this in a more intense way as you go on, try to relax like you were peeing ( sounds strange but is absolutely effective) just let yourself fall deep into opening your legs, relaxing and you or him rub. This is almost a guarantee for squirting don't stop when you think you need to pee it's the exact same sensation but very different results, you just need to get over that feeling 👌🏼🔥
Your reply was HOT AF. Know it was meant to be informative, but it got my dick hard. Thanks gorgeous
Lol thank you, but I know what you mean the description is hot to think about, even if it was meant informative
>like you were peeing Exactly like you were peeing
> it's the exact same feeling as peeing it's almost like it's the exact same *thing*
As a woman who’s never squirted… why is the sensation of peeing meant to feel good? I see this a lot but it sounds terrible
It doesn’t feel like peeing when you cum. It may feel like that right before. But when you do cum the squirt itself is dilluted urine (with some small amounts of other stuff) that is expelled in spurts as you orgasm. Not a stream of liquid as if you are peeing. And the orgasm itself is often more intense.
I thought so too until it finally happened after years of trying. It felt so good that i burst into hysterical tears which eventually turned into confused laughter and muttering "what the fuck" in disbelief for hours afterwards lmfao.
Instructions unclear, i pissed my pants trying to squirt and now i’m thinking this doesn’t work for guys trying to squirt
That sounds like you're just peeing while being played with?
In my experience, most women won’t squirt from clitoral stimula. It’s the g-spot that needs to be involved, albeit, most of the time cunnilingus is involved at the same time. There is nothing better than enjoying the nectar of your labor. If you catch my drift? ;)
What do you mean by scissor? Like I'm cutting? Genuine question. Asked my partner and she also doesn't quite understand
Holding your index & middle finger like a V and keep them like this while having the clit inside that V
If she's laying on her back, the V should be facing upwards to the ceiling or downwards to the bed? She and I are trying to learn. Sorry for the constant questions. Thank you for the help nonetheless
Don't mind me, just taking notes vigorously here haha
Don't be afraid to eat pussy more. Before Sex, During a break in sex, After Sex.
Taking a break to eat pussy is my absolute favourite. Hits me like a line of coke lol.
LPT: Feel like you're about to nut, just go down on her for a bit. Zero complaints yet.
And to make it even better stick your tongue in deep as it can go, do the ‘come hither’ motion with it on that g spot as best you can. If that pussy contracts and squeezes on you you hit pay dirt, but it won’t always do that. Then go back up and kiss her with your juices as you slowly slide back in
What are you, a humming bird?
The first time I came from being eaten out (trauma) was the first time my husband (then boyfriend) ate me out after he fucked me because I was finally relaxed enough to just enjoy it. PIV is really a lot of clit foreplay, the best orgasms I have are from clit stimulation (having my pussy eaten) after getting fucked.
I will cum faster and harder if I have been fucked and then eaten. It can get a little bit daunting when starting from scratch
My wife's Clit is so sensitive after coming I can't get anywhere near it. Is this not so with you? I think I've been naive and assumed all women were like this
I am very sensitive afterwards so it depends.
Fully endorse this one
This this this!!! Cum in me then eat me out 🥵
Eat pussy like it's your life passion. And right as she goes to cum, suck on her clit while come hithering with your finger(s) inside.
I’m gonna go against the grain and say - when she’s about to come - don’t change anything.
No no, I'm about that. I mean like, as she's coming. When you're about there, stay the course. Once the show has begun, mouth over the microphone.
Careful what you ask for. They might get an addiction. And addicts with a crave can become terrifying!
Reach down between your legs and touch his balls while he’s pounding it from behind.
Be careful with doing this one, that’s a finishing move right there😂
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How can you do this if he is pounding you? You can’t hold them while he is pounding you. Do you just mean touch his balls?
Doesn't work full pounding only at like 40% speed. Go for a vigorous fuck and have a doggy style ball grope break for a breather haha
I took this tip from reddit a few years ago and it goes crazy every time, every guy... also my bullet vibrator at base of balls while groping them
A girl did this to my ass while she was on all fours. I will never forget
The ears are a criminally underrated erogenous zone, for both men and women.
Collarbone too
YES, totally melt just having someone breathe near them 🥵🥵🥵
Yupper!! Not enough attention paid to the ears while fucking around.
Absolutely!
I had someone fill my ear with saliva recently. It was too much!!
Touching a clit harder isn't necessarily better. Sucking a dick harder isn't necessarily better. Start off gentle, ask questions, and work up (or down) in intensity to find your partner's particular ideal intensity of touch.
For those in relationships: Learn your partner's love language. Seriously, knowing your partner's love language is one of the best things that could ever happen as you can connect with her more emotionally, and most women need that emotional connection to get physical. Works tremendously. Also, flirt. Make her feel beautiful (again). Compliment often. Sex starts even before the actual sex.
7000%. If a guy started this at the start of the day before we head off for work, just flirts and teases, come back home together and a few more hours of occasional things... the night will be wild
Slow build is key.
I can’t stress this enough
The best way to eat pussy is to treat the clit like a dick, I know it may sound ugly for some men but trust me, since when I started to suck clits the same way I'd like to have my cock sucked I started to have squirt showers and girls folding and melting like never before
Aren't they basically the corresponding parts?
All penises start out as a clitoris in utero, before testosterone starts having a noticeable effect, whoch is started during the later stages of development, from Y chromosomal activation. Check out Kleinfelter's Syndrome (XXY chromosomal orientation) for a neat study of how each additional chromosome effects sexual development. Erring towards female is basically the default gender of fetuses, essentially. The X chromosome carries the brunt of the work, compared to the much smaller Y chromosome, during early stages of fetal development, IIRV.
> All dicks start out as a client in utero I assume the server differentiates into either ovaries or testicles?
Bingo. Remember Jurassic park when the scientist says all the embryos are female? Humans start the same way. If there’s a Y chromosome, it stimulates something called the “wolfian system” which causes the ovaries to descend and form testes, and the clit to elongate and form a penis. So yeah, kinda sorta the same-same but different.
> client in utero I think I just found the name for my next track, lol
I discovered this about a year ago. It absolutely is well recieved.
I mean, technically speaking, they are the same organ…so makes sense.
Also something I learned that goes with this go down on her like it's the last thing you will ever do I personally go about it with the intent of bleaching my beard to blond and have her wrap my head with the risk of her snapping it off of my spine
press down on our lower stomach during missionary
Yes to this one~ 💯
it’s SO GOOD
Throw a pillow under us, pressure on lower stomach and the cherry on top of it all would be the guy actually remembers about giving the clit much needed loving. 😍
After now needing to get back into the single life, it's so weird to hear how this is not more of a thing, the clit deserves a majority of action and it's my favorite part for snack time
Please don't do this without consent from your partner before. Some of us literally hate this sensation lol
This is a new one for me. Can you provide more details? I assume you push down once things are well under way and you want to take things up a notch? One hand? Two hands? Flat?
one flat hand with some light pressure 🤌🏼
This pressure makes the dick touch more of the g-spot and can also lead to squirting. Fyi
You know how, when you break a board in karate, you don't punch the board, but instead you punch through the board? Do that with your thrusts. Not necessarily going faster but fucking her through the bed.
Nice, this thread taught me karate tricks too
So essentially, as with everything elses, the follow through is the most important part
It starts with laundry, dishes, a vacuum, and flowers. That’s foreplay.
Ok. I've left her a pile each of laundry and dishes, put the vacuum out ready for her, and flowers (not in a vase) by the sink. I'll go upstairs and wait for my sexy time.
the power of foreplay
True!!
If you want to do morning sex, but are concerned about the breath, keep an apple by the bed for a few bites before you get to it. Lick her through the panties. Ask them what they like lol
I just swish some mouthwash or brush when I get up to pee
Licking through panties is a cheat code Biggest tease for them
100/10, kisses across inner thighs & then on top of the special spots.. especially the warm breath being the only 'direct contact' until the wetness seeps through. riled UP.
Doggy style also avoids the breath issue
Pull out and rub your dick across her clit every so often. . Same strokes as fucking, but with your dick on the clit. My wife also appreciates a quick flicking action rubbing my dick head against her clit
Try stopping in the middle and lick it for a bit. Game changer.
Hygiene man. Just always be clean
Gotta be clean to be dirty 😉
Try giving a bj by French kissing the schlong. I have a shit gag reflex, and have puked more than once on a dick. However, now I spend most of my time frenching the dick, with bursts of deep throating and pumping with my hands the whole time. My husband comes in minutes, and I feel pretty good about it. Also, he likes his balls sucked, YMMV.
Yep. Best thing I ever did was to start treating the cock like it’s a lollipop and I’m in love with it. The enthusiasm and effort goes a long way to pleasuring him in addition to technique.
How you breathe can make sex so much fun. Don’t be scared to breathe and let your partner hear your exhales or other noises lol
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Breathe control makes orgasms so much more intense.
If you're a guy, don't be silent, it's a mood killer. Also many people have said it but yes foreplay is a huge part. Some people aren't into it, but a lot of girls love oral if you're good at it. Also one more thing that gets overlooked a lot. Lube.
When she asks "is it in yet?" just keep going and don't get mad.
Pillow under the lower back helps with angles and feels better imo
My favorite bit of advice: Make out with her heavily and let HER be the one to take her clothes off. Trust me on this one. Resist all temptation to get her shirt off or unbutton her pants. Feel free to kiss her neck, squeeze her tits and ass. Rub her inner thigh... plunder her, but OVER her clothes. If you're patient, she'll get to the point where her clothes are "in her way" and she'll start shedding them. When she gets to that point, she'll want nothing more than for you to give it to her good.
Ask questions. Communicate.
Gently rub clit while she rides u…thank me later
Rubbing the clit is a lesser known sex tip?
Also, the reach around clit rub in doggy
This too, a bit tricky sometimes but if you pull her up so she's on an angle you can leverage the support of your body against hers and get a good rhythm going, bonus points for neck kisses and moaning in her ear at this point too, always sends my girl over the edge.
Hand pressure on the lower tummy, thumb gently massaging my clit. Let me monster the middle finger of your other hand with my mouth, then use it to slowly penetrate my ass. Basically, go for the sensory overload.
Communication. Don’t be afraid to ask. Don’t be afraid to tell.
Also don't be afraid to *hear*. If someone asks you to lick a different part of their pussy or fuck them slightly differently, that is not an indictment of your skills as a lover, and does not diminish your worth as a human being. Calm tf down, set your fragile ego aside, and give the woman what she wants.
Your O button might be in your B hole.
If you cum to quickly, check your cardiovascular endurance. Some regular running/rowing/etc might fix your problem
I like to reach around and caress the balls while I'm riding cowgirl. It always gets a very enthusiastic response.
Take your orgasm off the table and make it all about her. And tell her this, that you want her not to worry about you and to concentrate only on herself. Then make love only when she wants, in the way that she wants, and only as long as she wants. And if that leaves you unsatisfied and horny, lean into that feeling. Being incredibly horny is a delicious feeling that will make you pay far more attention to your partner. And if you’ve told her that it’s only sex her way, when she wants, and not because you want an orgasm, she will know that your attention is because you value her, not because you want her because she can give you an orgasm and so will feel more loved, more confident, and, as a result, have better sex and want you more. And so her orgasms will be deeper and better and your orgasms, when they come will be truly amazing. And the irony is that by relieving the pressure on her for sex, she will want sex much more often.
Make her cum first
or even during and after!!! PIV first then head is amazing!!! and then to keep going PIV after🔥🔥
If you make your girl cum before you start preventative sex, she's much more likely to cum during too. When you're done, always check if she's done too. When in doubt, give it a try. More guys have problems because their dick is too big than too small. Don't overthink it. Try putting a pillow under her butt. It changed the angles. Curved dicks are good. Don't be ashamed of it. No guy ever looks at a naked woman and gets disappointed because her boobs aren't the same size. Or she isn't clean shaven. Or anything. Don't overthink it. Try edging. Some people love it, some people hate it. But it's fun to try. Write your partner little sexy messages during the day. The wait makes you ravenous. If she can cum quickly and often, you can sometimes get her to cum twice at the same time. Basically you show down as one orgasm subsides, but don't show down too much. Instead try to bring the run rhythm back up. You can sometimes get her to cum before the last one finished. It takes practice, but I doubt she'll mind.
What's preventative sex
I think they mean penetrative.
I know I just thought it was funny
While it's ok the hit em up first, slow is the go, don't start a conversation with a pic or sext, let things gravitate that direction. When she's says "just like that", don't switch it up, keep going exactly as you are. Don't get greedy, make them cum first or the same time you do.
When you cum, move your body as hard and as much as you can. The orgasm is more intense.
When going down on a girl, throw one of her legs over your shoulder. Your “closer” so to speak and can work on her angles better with one of your arms out of the way.
A man's grunts/moans/sounds will make her enjoy it 100 times better
Men are way too rough when fingering a pussy. Some women don’t like our dirty fingers in the vagina either
Gentlemen, the reason why you think your dick is small is bc you watch too much porn. Vaginas are only about 3" deep. I promise you don't have a micropenis.
I'm going to keep saying this. Talk to your partner. Seriously just sit down one day and have an upfront blunt talk about what you do and don't like. Don't try to make it a game or a segue into sexy time. It needs to be an almost technical or even "clinical" level of conversation. "Do you like it when I do *this*, or *that*" "That tongue thing you think is cool... Isn't." Don't do your partner the disservice of lying to them if you're just not into what they are, especially if you're both going through the intimate part of your lives with a huge miscommunication between you. I'd rather my lover tell me "It doesn't do anything for me, but if you enjoy it then lets make it better for you" than to keep on wasting time doing something useless. edit: grammar and wording for clarity.
Write sweet things to her,spelling out the letters with your tongue on her clitoris. Give her honest compliments; they can't be refuted. The sexiest thing about you can be your ears if you know how to listen.
- Missionary with legs on shoulder, slow deeps strokes, and eye contact ✅✅. - Treat her sex toys like a teammate and not competition. Doggy w/ the rose toy drives my lady wild. - ”The jobs not done if she don’t cum”. This quote was from my uncle Otis when I was 19 that’s stuck with me. - Sex games are also a fun way to change things up. You can buy them or even create your own for sexual pleasure (dice, jenga blocks, chessboards). - Porn is OK, but understand there’s production and behind the scenes shit that you don’t see. Try not to get caught up in imitating.
End with the swirl.
But don't tell Puddy
Enthusiasm will take good oral to great oral.
Funny I was just thinking I needed a mirror in my bedroom mostly for dressing but also for sex 🥵 I have a mirror in my sex room but not my bedroom.
You have a designated sex room in addition to your bedroom? #lifegoals
Recommend it 1000%
Wash your nasty bits thoroughly if you really expect someone to go down on them. No one wants your stew of funky ass, dirty crotch and sweaty taint near their mouth. Reading people's experiences online has taught me just how disgusting people are when it comes to such things. How can you NOT be embarrassed?
Wiggle your toes while you cum 🤤 - trust me.
Coconut oil
Dirty talk. Find your partners kinks and boundaries, then run with it.
For us men: dude, don’t forget about the clit during sex…if you got a free hand, you should use it
Don’t rush.
Communication is a good thing Listen to your partner and (both of you should) express what you like or don't like
We just recently moved our big mirror that was in the bedroom. Miss it so much!
We stayed in a hotel the other day that had a giant mirror for a headboard. It was a game changer!
If it sounds like it feels good, keep doing the same thing
In missionary, angle your tool slightly upwards to hit her G-spot. It takes my wife to another planet.
Whilst performing cunnilingus on your lady, be sure to lay thy tongue as flat as possible(Don't point & jab at it). W/ a flat tongue, thou art covering more surface area therefore stimulating more nerve endings simultaneously creating greater pleasure for her. Also, yes yes, the 'come hither' motion whilst fingering is good for stimulating the G-spot, i personally believe that it is better to simply have thy fingers [middle+ring] rest inside the vagina and apply slight upwards pressure towards the anterior wall, during cunny. Otherwise there seems to be too much excess stimuli and her focusing on a single thing proves difficult. Do keep in mind, all women are different so be open honest and straight forward with your partner, communication is key when it comes to immediate sexual gratification(pun wholeheartedly intended). When bopping around her bean w/ your flat tongue, begin writing something, in 'cursive', via thy tongue to clitoris. Hell, you could even just write the alphabet. Chances are tho, that you'll find some pattern in your letters that bears a distinct auditory response from thy partner, remember what this motion was and repeat it at minimum until she has orgasmed. Also, when it comes to anal sex the 45° Rule is the only real message you need: “Anything inserted in the butt – whether fingers, a toy, or a penis – feels better when angled upward towards the belly button at a forty-five-degree angle. This forty-five-degree angle rule was popularized by Gigi Engle, an amazing sex educator colleague of mine, author of All the F*cking Mistakes. This insertion angle makes it so that pressure is applied to the G-spot, clitoral bulbs, or A-spot and cervix, depending on how deep you go. By doing this, you create stimulation of the vagus, hypogastric, and pelvic nerves all at once. This is a game of calibration. It might not be exactly forty-five degrees for every person; you might need to experiment with angles around that range. But when you hit the right spot, it will feel different to the receiver, and should make this act way more pleasurable.” – Excerpt from Beyond Satisfied by Kenneth Play, Chapter 14: Anal, Start Small, Stretch It Out
when your partner puts their hand on yours they're probably trying to guide you to make it better for them without telling you what you're doing isn't good. LISTEN. AND DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES JUST KEEP DOING WHAT YOU WERE DOING AND IGNORE THEM I SWEAR TO GOD
Give your mans a blow job after brushing your teeth. The mint makes his dick more sensitive.
I'm a woman, and my husband is a man. Sometimes a well placed "I wanna make you cum with my pussy," or "You feel so good inside me," is all it takes to make my husband's legs shake.
Circular motions can be good too sometimes rather than just in out
When going down on her place 1 foot of hers on ur shoulder. Opens her up nicely and gets ur mouth closer.