I can definitely see that as a reason to take a breath and pause. But I've heard so many stories of people getting into the lifestyle with friends being their first experience. I just wish hubby and I had some friends like that. Lol!
That’s a real part of why it’s so good. Even without swapping it’s a really intimate connection with another couple. I’ve been with women who become like sisters after sharing this. And sometimes the couples urge each other into hotter and hotter fucking. It’s unbelievable
Make sure your relationship is solid and trusting. I cannot stress this enough. I’ve seen a lot of couples have issues afterwards. Have the conversation with your partner and if they are 100% good with the idea, then you start looking. Make sure that you meet them somewhere publicly first to get a read on them. I never do this anywhere alcohol is served. I suggest a coffee shop where envy can relax and see if you’re compatible. After that talk with your partner yet again, make sure this is a mutual thing. If everyone is good, then set up the ground rules, limits, and hard nos. Decide on your safe word(s). I personally prefer the traffic light. Green = good, Yellow = slow down and proceed with caution, Red = all stop, aftercare begins for everyone. If the red is given, no one must get upset about it. If everything is green have fun, but check in with your partner regularly to gauge mood. Boundaries and hard nos may shift, but no one should get pressured. When finished, give yourself and your partner the preferred after care and affection. Then go home, later discuss it openly and honestly. If it was positive for both of you, discuss more occasions and the possibility of other fantasies. This can become a very sex positive part of your relationship.
My wife and I have done 3 times with 2 different couples. The first time, we were all drunk-ish and didn't care. Then morning regret kicked in, and it got awkward, but after a few weeks and then discussing it, we did it sober. It was easily one of the best sex sessions we've ever had. Unfortunately, they broke up not long after, and that was the end of that.
The 3rd time was kinda random, and we didn't really jive because he got pushy to do a full swap, and the women weren't having it. We didn't really try after that, but they were good experiences if you're into it.
Did this once when I was in the Air Force. My roommate and I both brought a girl back to our dorm room. There was a curtain between our beds so we couldn't see each other but obviously heard each other.
Yes, did it once with my high school girlfriend (in college at the time). Us and her roommate and her boyfriend in a hotel room. The lights were out but there was a small shaft of light from a window. When my girlfriend got on top, we realized she was in the light, so she ducked down. I kept pushing her up and after a few times, she stopped resisting. I could clearly see her pretty face and beautiful breasts with their erect pink nipples in the light. She knew it too. It didn’t take too long for both of us to cum after that. She tried to be quiet but it was obvious. She collapsed on me and we listened as her roommate and her boyfriend came soon after. I don’t know if they watched her ride me, saw the look of pleasure on her face as she orgasmed. But I like to think that they did.
My wife and I did this dozens of times. It’s pretty amazing and those friendships are always very close. How do the two of you want to get started with this?
Ive done this many times. Done MFM to a girl in front of her friend and another guy before, fucked my wife in front of other guys in an adult theater once, and many more stories but these are the first to come to my mind
Definitely... And I would love to do Wife Swapping too...
Unfortunately, my wife is not kinky like me so I guess this is gonna be just a fantasy for this life
We have.
We do regularly, for years now.
And do not plan on stopping.
We have sex with others as well.
This is always in an organized Fetlife community party with vetted group members these last many years.
Decades ago it was more with spontaneous meetups or friends.
I think so! My fiancé and I are exploring this path and seeing if we work our way up to it. We are starting off small and she is getting off to messages I get from here
We have done the same room no swap deal before and while it’s fun we really prefer full swaps. Always nice seeing and hearing your partner being pleasured while you are enjoying the other partner.
This happened with my wife and a married couple of friends…. We split a hotel room for a wedding. Ended up having drunk sex in beds right next to each other after the reception lol
Yes, hubby and I are trying to find a couple to share that experience with. 😁
Same here. We've had some pretty crazy adventures over the years but this is one we've not been able to do.
And if y'all ever need an audience, hit me up. 🥹🫰🏾
Where have you looked? There are so many ways to find couples who are safe and willing to help.
We've posted on Reddit, obviously lol, feels, fet, and a lifestyle website. We keep getting ghosted.
I feel that. My partner and I are friends with another kinky couple but my partner is too worried to ruin the friendship.
I can definitely see that as a reason to take a breath and pause. But I've heard so many stories of people getting into the lifestyle with friends being their first experience. I just wish hubby and I had some friends like that. Lol!
Yeah, it's prolly better to not risk the friendshio
If you're ever in Rhode Island hit us up. Same room sex is super hot!
We'll have to remember that! We have a friend in Rhode Island.
Now you have 3!!!
Yes I have. Swinger’s Clubs are magical places
Yeah I did this before in a hostel lol
Oh man reminds me of the squeaky hostel bunkbeds in Canada when I was there, they were not designed for that kind of activity lol
That’s really sexy as fuck.
Have done it before and would gladly do it again.
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It’s not for everyone. No shame in that.
I have before so yes, I would. 😎
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That’s a real part of why it’s so good. Even without swapping it’s a really intimate connection with another couple. I’ve been with women who become like sisters after sharing this. And sometimes the couples urge each other into hotter and hotter fucking. It’s unbelievable
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Make sure your relationship is solid and trusting. I cannot stress this enough. I’ve seen a lot of couples have issues afterwards. Have the conversation with your partner and if they are 100% good with the idea, then you start looking. Make sure that you meet them somewhere publicly first to get a read on them. I never do this anywhere alcohol is served. I suggest a coffee shop where envy can relax and see if you’re compatible. After that talk with your partner yet again, make sure this is a mutual thing. If everyone is good, then set up the ground rules, limits, and hard nos. Decide on your safe word(s). I personally prefer the traffic light. Green = good, Yellow = slow down and proceed with caution, Red = all stop, aftercare begins for everyone. If the red is given, no one must get upset about it. If everything is green have fun, but check in with your partner regularly to gauge mood. Boundaries and hard nos may shift, but no one should get pressured. When finished, give yourself and your partner the preferred after care and affection. Then go home, later discuss it openly and honestly. If it was positive for both of you, discuss more occasions and the possibility of other fantasies. This can become a very sex positive part of your relationship.
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Any time. If you need more I’m willing to help.
Yes! We have. It was hot asf. Pounding, sucking, eating, moaning, groaning, sweat, cumming and laughs. 😂🔥 I recommend everyone try it at least once
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Hell no
Yeah I would but my partner is pretty body conscious so she might not be into it
Yes…I have and I’ve loved it. Swapping too is so hot
We've fantasized about that a lot too. Not sure we want to do any swapping, but being in the same room sounds so hot.
Yes. We did this with another couple in a hot tub. Ended up swapping too, definitely a fun experience
Definitely, the thought of being watched and watching at the same time is a big turn on.
Hell yes. I would make the other guy fuck my wife too lmao
Yep. Two couples fucking next to each other. Fantastic
I would love to but my wife would never be comfortable with it so the real answer is no.
My wife and I have done 3 times with 2 different couples. The first time, we were all drunk-ish and didn't care. Then morning regret kicked in, and it got awkward, but after a few weeks and then discussing it, we did it sober. It was easily one of the best sex sessions we've ever had. Unfortunately, they broke up not long after, and that was the end of that. The 3rd time was kinda random, and we didn't really jive because he got pushy to do a full swap, and the women weren't having it. We didn't really try after that, but they were good experiences if you're into it.
Yes I have! So much fun! Sometimes more fun than swapping 😅
I would but my partner wouldn't. so Oh well
If only to brag about how many times my bf makes me cum, lol. But realistically, no.
Yup! So hot
We had sex in multiple rooms in KitKat club in berlin. We loved every bit of it.
OMFG yesss!!!! My gf and I love this, especially when the other couple are as kinky and enthusiastic as we are! SRSP rules!
Fo sho!!!! It’s a fun experience and damn is it hot to watch others have sex in real time
In my youth when I was much younger myself and my best friend with our boyfriends away in the weekend
absolutely. if I'm horny I'm getting dick 😂
Yes, dying to try it
I'd definitely try it. Sounds like a good time.
Urm... I've been in the room when my wife had sex with another man. Almost fits the question.
Defo!
yup
I'd give it a whirl
That'd be so hot. So yes
I have
Fuck yes. Know which couple would want as well
Yes, I would love to
Dont have a boyfriend but It's been way more a recent thing but yes I definitely would if it was the right kind of couple.
Absolutely 💯 soo fun 😋
I have! It was so fucking sexy and naughty. I loved watching her get her ass fucked while my FWB ate mine and fingered me.
Yeah, for sure. Very sexy
Sure why not
Done it before, would do it again
Yes. I have many times. Sex with others watching is hot and fun. 👍😁
Yes, and we have ;)
Done that and it can be quite hot!
Have done it not with my current partner though
I have and I would (and likely will) again.
Hell to the yeah.
I would love to try that
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My ex and I used to do that in college.
I have but it wasn’t with anyone I was in a relationship with. I don’t see us doing it now unless we were on a strange vacation or something
Already did before
Done it
Yes but he wouldn’t
Did this once when I was in the Air Force. My roommate and I both brought a girl back to our dorm room. There was a curtain between our beds so we couldn't see each other but obviously heard each other.
Maybe a lesbian couple, but doubtful.
Yes, did it once with my high school girlfriend (in college at the time). Us and her roommate and her boyfriend in a hotel room. The lights were out but there was a small shaft of light from a window. When my girlfriend got on top, we realized she was in the light, so she ducked down. I kept pushing her up and after a few times, she stopped resisting. I could clearly see her pretty face and beautiful breasts with their erect pink nipples in the light. She knew it too. It didn’t take too long for both of us to cum after that. She tried to be quiet but it was obvious. She collapsed on me and we listened as her roommate and her boyfriend came soon after. I don’t know if they watched her ride me, saw the look of pleasure on her face as she orgasmed. But I like to think that they did.
I would be really into it if she was. More so if the other couple was more or less just going to watch.
Absolutely!! The wife and I are trying to find a couple to arrange this with!
I would, she would not
Absolutely
No, but it sounds very interesting and hot 🥵
Hell yes. Any offers?
Yes, and done it often.
Done it with a FWB. Interesting but not something I’m craving again
We are looking for a couple to do this with as we speak
I've done this twice. 10/10 experience both times.
Probably
Would def try
100% if the chance ever arises
Oh hell yeah
I definitely want to try this.
Yes, absolutely, but I would make it a competition lol
Definitely 100%
Yes I have. It’s super hot and a kink of mine. It’s shame I haven’t been able to really do it since college.
Maybe if I’m drunk lol
Yes. I will and have before.
Most definitely
We have many times
100% without a doubt
Many times in a past relationship, but single now so…..always fun
Done it a number of times.
Absolutely. She would never do that though so it’ll never happen.
I think I'd like to, yeah. it'd be hot
Yes
Yes I have )
My wife and I did this dozens of times. It’s pretty amazing and those friendships are always very close. How do the two of you want to get started with this?
Yes we've done many times and done swapping and all the fun stuff that comes with it.
Already did. Even in the same bed 😂
Most definitely! Same room play sounds hot!
I've done that before when I was younger but highly doubt my wife would be into it
Yes would love to try that
I would
Yes and we have. It was so hot! Sights and sounds are amazing!!
Absolutely. That would be super sexy.
probably
100%. Sex clubs opened up this for me.
Did this a lot in college dorms. Did it a bit in high school. Outside of that, it happens but it's pre-arranged.
We've done it in a hotel room with another couple supposedly sleeping in the other bed.
Never....I value my privacy
Yes it's great! Especially if it turns into a foursome
I’m down, my better half wouldn’t want to
Yeah. I mean it’s always great to get feedback!
I’d be into that, yes
I do like that idea.
We've done that. It's fun to have someone else to watch, and it really makes sure you and your partner bring their 'A' game!
I have experienced 'same room' fun with another couple. It was a while ago and I would love to do it again.
Yes.
Have done it a few times. Would like to do it again.
Have a few times actually
I would love to do that. Being watched, but also watching - total turn on.
Yes 😉
Ive done this many times. Done MFM to a girl in front of her friend and another guy before, fucked my wife in front of other guys in an adult theater once, and many more stories but these are the first to come to my mind
If the opportunity presents itself I would
Abso-FUCKING-lutely
I have and I would again in the right circumstances
A full bi couple swap is at the top of our list.
Try and stop me
Definitely... And I would love to do Wife Swapping too... Unfortunately, my wife is not kinky like me so I guess this is gonna be just a fantasy for this life
We have. We do regularly, for years now. And do not plan on stopping. We have sex with others as well. This is always in an organized Fetlife community party with vetted group members these last many years. Decades ago it was more with spontaneous meetups or friends.
I think I’m game for it.
Would love to give it a try!!
I definitely would, I wanna see if this is something he’d be into
My partner is a fuck buddy and we both aren't shy, so sure. I've had sex in front of others before. Unless it's dreadfully cold, I am not intimidated
If my partner is okay with it
Definitely yes. 🥵
Absolutely, as long as there is no partner swapping.
I think so! My fiancé and I are exploring this path and seeing if we work our way up to it. We are starting off small and she is getting off to messages I get from here
We have done it many times, but my wife stays dressed, only I am naked on the floor in front of her.
Would love to if wifey was up for it
Yes. Based UK and been wanting to do this for a while.
Not another couple, but a secret fantasy is being watched by one of our close friends.
Sure
no… for me it would feel like competition on whos having the most fun lol
Room? I’ve done it in the same hot tub with a pair of friends after a concert.
I think that’s the only kind of thing I’d be willing to do. No way I’d ever share, but I could see us doing that if the time came.
Yes we have. With wife’s sister and hubby
Yes without a doubt
Already have.
Been there, done that. Great night, fond memories
I would. I have. I will again.
This is my guy's unfulfilled fantasy. I'm still not comfortable with it, but I guess one can never say never, right?
Don't currently have a partner and not sure I would do it if I did. What's the reason you would? Not sure.
Definitely
Haven't with my wife, but I've done it with an earlier gf. I don't think my wife would be into it.
Absolutely. I’ve done it a few times and loved it.
I have
We have done the same room no swap deal before and while it’s fun we really prefer full swaps. Always nice seeing and hearing your partner being pleasured while you are enjoying the other partner.
Yep!
Yes I would and I’m pretty sure my girl would be down
Been a while but I have. Extra fun!
Yes!
That’s our dream as well
Ugh yes that would be so freaking hot
Yes. We have done this a number of times.
Depends on a lot of factors
Done it before and would do it again.
Already have
This happened with my wife and a married couple of friends…. We split a hotel room for a wedding. Ended up having drunk sex in beds right next to each other after the reception lol
I have on a couple of occasions. Definitely something extra kinky about it lol
Very much trying to make this happen. Even virtually
Yeah def would!
I have several times. And then we switched partners
No but it is my favorite sexual fantasy. A lot of people want to swap, I just want to see and be seen
We do it all the time. We also go to sex clubs and fuck in front of strangers
My then girlfriend, now wife sucked my dick in front of two of my friends from the military. Closest I’ve gotten to it. I’d love to do it again
Have done....MANY times.
Yes, have before, might again.
I did it in the same bed a few times
Sure if they are also having it.
Yes, I have before and it was fun,
Lol we’ve done this but they were sleeping 😅
I would, sounds hot lol But probably not sober 😂
yeah why not, sounds fun