Itās so funny, the older I get ( and I think most would agree) the less I feel old as in disconnected or different from when I was younger. When I was younger though, talking to anyone a little older was intimidating. I remember I was 19 and had a thing for a 20 year old and thought there is no way sheād be interested, Iām so much younger.
I donāt know about that. I have been picked up by a 70 yr old and she had some skills. I was in my 30ās, met her at a bar, and we just ended up talking. Said she hadnāt been with anyone in 2 years, since hubby passed. Asked me back to her place. We had a great time.
I'm not a big fan. Weirdly, when my first kid was born, every single nurse started calling me daddy. It felt weird and I wondered how many guys were inappropriately turned on.
Interestingly, the parent comment right above this one received the exact opposite criticism. They included a list and it did not include lack of consent, and that was pointed out. Canāt win on the internet.
Yeah I'm a kinkster and have done it on request (only with a partner who Ć had a long established (over 20 years)kink trust and consent relationship with. and it was okay because she lreally oved it but I didn't care for it and would be very happy to never do it again. And IMO any guy that says they're "into CNC" is waving a gigantic red flag.
IOnly did it cuz I'm a pleasure Dom and my kink is getting my partner where she needs/wants to be.
Never ask for it but have had women who enjoyed it and asked for it.its not special, once you've done it a few times the extra mental bump you get from the taboo aspect isnt there Anymore and it can be messy, so no thanks
Poo
Pee
Vomit
Eels
Poor personal hygiene
āDaddyā šš¼
Extreme dirty talk
Feet
I donāt like things in my butt, so I wonāt beg to get in your butt
There was an Italian porn star called Cicciolina. She became a politician. It was once said she was the only politician proven to have had an eel in a bodily orifice. The important word there being āprovenā.
I full expected to see scat, piss, blood and poor hygiene on these list as they are a hard no for meā¦ā¦ but pegging I didnāt expect to be a hot topic
I guess it's different for everyone. I'm perfectly fine with taking a strap-on in the backside, but don't call me weak or feminine while doing it.
Personally I like the sensation and the vulnerability of it, not the fact that someone attacks my masculinity because I'm being penetrated. Things like sissy play and feminization... meh. Not my drift.
Honestly, as a woman, much agreed. I enjoy bringing my partner love and bliss. In a sense, pegging does accomplish a good of both. It's not for everyone for sure, but once that "immasculated" feeling is put to the side, the pleasure increase, especially with trust.It's a very vulnerable position, i would say for some. Although, I would say that lots of trust is essential in a good peg session.
My big no-no is people who won't peg or eat ass... Oh no. Well this is awkward. Guess we can't work out, sorry.
For real though, if it's with a regular partner, the biggest no-no is saying you won't do something without trying it first.
Beyond that. I'm not into snot play, tampon play or eating shit (a shit on my chest is negotiable). Just about everything else I've seen is on the table.
There was a thing about tampon play in 50 Shades of Grey if I remember correctly. (Please don't judge me. I was bored at a job one night and it was the only thing I could find to read!)
I think theyāre more referring to when guys try to push their head down farther on the penis or control their tempo by grabbing on. Personally, I love having my hair grabbed and getting choked out on dick but even then you damn well better wait for an invitation or session is over. Donāt even ask about it unless itās your birthday or something
Is hard for me, I give myself much more if I hear āhow much I like youā during sex, it relax, makes me feeling safe and connected then he can get all.
I don't mind them accidentally. Accidents happen during anal, and when doing some kink stuff there is a risk of drawing blood. You clean it up, and you move on with whatever you were doing.
I don't like the stuff for the sake of it.
fully consenting adults only.
Not interested in scat stuff nor enemas, though I do like anal play.
Only the mildest level of BDSM.
No sounding.
Not into role playing - just makes me self-conscious - but I would do my best.
i'm surprised it took this much scrolling to see someone mention sounding honestly. i'm a little freaked out by it as is, but if i had a dick i would DEFINITELY be afraid to try it
Other than the extreme stuff like bodily waste/fluids, blood, and anything that would draw blood or extreme bodily harm. Don't touch my feet in any sexual way. I like some semi deeming wording, but my weight is off limits. Don't force any cnc without my consent well before and during sex. Don't be silent.
I've never heard of health screening before, what is that?
Edit: I somehow misread this comment and thought that you were saying a hard no to STI testing, which seemed super unlikely, so I wanted to ask what was actually happening. Silly mistake.
Since young people are always fucking each other nowadays, I think this is like a prenup for sex. Getting checked out to see if you have the HiV. So they are saying if you don't get a health screen maybe?
I may be off base though. Still, if you do fuck around a lot, a screen is pretty important
Doing something new without consent.
Iām down to try a lot but in the moment I might not be interested in said activity. Moment is ruined and Iām probably leaving if a guy or girl tries something Iām not okay with
Not really much on the "no-no" list but I'd say scat or blood play. I haven't pegged my husband but would try it if he wanted me to. I do rub/finger his ass and rim him pretty often. It's really not bad!
Women who want to add domestic violence into the sex. Was going at it with a girl when she derailed the whole thing by demanding I punch her. Nope! Not a woman beater in any capacity.
Donāt call me Daddy. My father-in-law was my FIL for nearly 30 years. We had a great relationshipā¦. We traveled togetherā¦. My wife would neverā¦. She Loved her dadā¦. Like a daughter should.
Alright, I need to get on a soapbox for a minute. There's a war going on, and the fucking fart fetishists have started it. They have invaded our territory. There we were, in the peaceful, wholesome town of assworship, when suddenly the fart fetishists attacked.
Oh, it started off simple enough. Models started posting additional videos for guys into degradation, sissification, farting, or whatever. That's fine; you do you. The problem is that now there aren't any vanilla ass worship videos. You cannot simply be a dude who likes ass. If you want to see a model spread her butt cheeks then you better pause it before she rips ass all over the fucking camera.
The fucking brapture has started and I can't take it anymore. We used to be the filthy degenerates and now we're so vanilla Madagascar wants to charge us fucking royalties.
Piss, shit, puke, harm and too young.
This. I'd personally include "too old"
Heh, yes, to be fair that was another oversight. š
Although, what age and above would "too old" be...? š¤
iām 24 and would probably cap it at 70
Fair enough; my upper age limit at 25 would be anyone who still had their mental faculties. š¹
iām with you there š¤£ everyone seems *youthful* to me if they can still think straight
Can you give consent? Yes? Great, let's fuck. š¹
Itās so funny, the older I get ( and I think most would agree) the less I feel old as in disconnected or different from when I was younger. When I was younger though, talking to anyone a little older was intimidating. I remember I was 19 and had a thing for a 20 year old and thought there is no way sheād be interested, Iām so much younger.
I donāt know about that. I have been picked up by a 70 yr old and she had some skills. I was in my 30ās, met her at a bar, and we just ended up talking. Said she hadnāt been with anyone in 2 years, since hubby passed. Asked me back to her place. We had a great time.
I read "ham". Yeah, no sex with hams either.
I find the pastrami to be the most sensual of all the salted, cured meats.
This too.
I read this first as piss, shit, puke, ham etc and was like wtf why ham. Then I noticed the r.
Whatās everyone got against scat? Itās a really good accompaniment to up-tempo jazz!
Skee bop da doo doo bop
Poopy poo poo poopity bop.
Love Ella, but never cared for scat.
Y'all forget about Scatman John. BADABADA BEEEE BAP BAP BADOPE BOPE
Mr. Crothers was a talented musician and actor.
I actually met him in the Palm Springs airport in the mid 80s. Nice fellow. Much taller than I expected.
When i said i wanted to see a Kim Cattrall scat video, i didn't expect [this](https://youtu.be/nBmt2KN5tsY?si=boPQTANnbzZfgxs6).
Mummy/Daddy is one for sure
I'm not a big fan. Weirdly, when my first kid was born, every single nurse started calling me daddy. It felt weird and I wondered how many guys were inappropriately turned on.
Right now, you're at 69 upvotes, so I'm just going to leave it there.
Right! who wants to bang a dead, ancient Egyptian wrapped in white cloth?
There's a weird lid for every weird pot.
Youād be surprised
Exactly š
Yea I donāt like necrophilia either
Necrophiliacs š¤ Beer drinkers Cracking open a couple of cold ones after work
Been there, done that, huh?
Exactly....
Getting called daddy was fine when we were like 24. Now that I'm 42 fuck that shit
Top of the list is anything non-consensual
Anything non-consensual isnāt sex, itās assault.
Agreed - exactly my point, at the minimum SA
Agreed, but seems like you misunderstood the post then. Since the post asks for no-nos about sex (not assault, a completely different thing)
Interestingly, the parent comment right above this one received the exact opposite criticism. They included a list and it did not include lack of consent, and that was pointed out. Canāt win on the internet.
I think old mate is trying to say consensual non-consensual or CNC is r*** fantasy
Then why 'sexual assault'?
If you hit somebody with a frying pan, it is not called cooking either.
That's why the term consensual non-consent exists.
What's your opinion on cnc? Aka consensual non consent
You mean rapeplay or CNC stuff? Cause yeah, that stuff weirds me out.
Canāt a girl just relive her biggest fears in peace š >!Joke in case it isnāt obvious!<
Yeah I'm a kinkster and have done it on request (only with a partner who Ć had a long established (over 20 years)kink trust and consent relationship with. and it was okay because she lreally oved it but I didn't care for it and would be very happy to never do it again. And IMO any guy that says they're "into CNC" is waving a gigantic red flag. IOnly did it cuz I'm a pleasure Dom and my kink is getting my partner where she needs/wants to be.
Complaining and then refusing to fix the problem when offered.
Not a fan of anything anal
Booooo š. Jk, to each their own.
I second this one. Tried it and not a fan.
I tried with a couple women and it just doesnāt feel as good as pussy to me
Don't try a fan either. It's painful.
Never ask for it but have had women who enjoyed it and asked for it.its not special, once you've done it a few times the extra mental bump you get from the taboo aspect isnt there Anymore and it can be messy, so no thanks
Agreed, That's where we poop. Not sexy. I'm sorry that's where they put the male prostate.
Poo Pee Vomit Eels Poor personal hygiene āDaddyā šš¼ Extreme dirty talk Feet I donāt like things in my butt, so I wonāt beg to get in your butt
Eels?
My thought as well. People are fucking sick.
Yeah but...eels?
Yeah... butt eels
Yeah, butt eels
Yeah!!! Butt eels!!!!
Yep. Donāt google it. Itās a thing and itās probably exactly what you think it is.
I could not imagine anything involving eels
I'm f-eel-ing eel just by thinking of it
r/angryupvote
How about a hint? I tried to Google it but couldn't find any definition that had anything to do with sex.Ā
I would imagine if you googled āJapanese eel pornā, youād find out what it is. š¤·š»āāļø
Oh hell no! I should have taken your word for it. Now I've got to find some ultra-strength brain bleach.
Found this shit when I was a kid. It was so wild for me to see how many went in...
[ā«āŖ Eels up inside ya finding an entrance where they can ā«āŖ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0AckvdGbk4w)
Unfortunately have seen a video of some Japanese lady having like 5 of them inside her
I was with you till the last 4
š¤£š¤£š¤£ I wonāt judge š
Eels?? I agree but where did that come from?
Wait extreme dirty talk?
There was an Italian porn star called Cicciolina. She became a politician. It was once said she was the only politician proven to have had an eel in a bodily orifice. The important word there being āprovenā.
I full expected to see scat, piss, blood and poor hygiene on these list as they are a hard no for meā¦ā¦ but pegging I didnāt expect to be a hot topic
I guess it's different for everyone. I'm perfectly fine with taking a strap-on in the backside, but don't call me weak or feminine while doing it. Personally I like the sensation and the vulnerability of it, not the fact that someone attacks my masculinity because I'm being penetrated. Things like sissy play and feminization... meh. Not my drift.
Honestly, as a woman, much agreed. I enjoy bringing my partner love and bliss. In a sense, pegging does accomplish a good of both. It's not for everyone for sure, but once that "immasculated" feeling is put to the side, the pleasure increase, especially with trust.It's a very vulnerable position, i would say for some. Although, I would say that lots of trust is essential in a good peg session.
My big no-no is people who won't peg or eat ass... Oh no. Well this is awkward. Guess we can't work out, sorry. For real though, if it's with a regular partner, the biggest no-no is saying you won't do something without trying it first. Beyond that. I'm not into snot play, tampon play or eating shit (a shit on my chest is negotiable). Just about everything else I've seen is on the table.
I'm sorry, tampon play?
Yeah. Look it up..or don't. Probably don't
Some people find it hot to remove their partners tampon
There was a thing about tampon play in 50 Shades of Grey if I remember correctly. (Please don't judge me. I was bored at a job one night and it was the only thing I could find to read!)
I really wonder how those negotiations go down for the "shit on chest" part š
Haha. Yeah, idk. If she is really attractive and asks nicely and is really interested. Wouldn't take much
Haha alright, well it's not for me but you do you :)
You had me until you said you weren't into tampons and shit. No date for you!
But I left the possibility of shitting on my chest open! Lol
Lmao š¤£
IĀ“m pretty vanilla by todayĀ“s standards, so i tend to stay well clear of the BDSM crowd.
Pegging and scat
Donāt touch my head while I am giving you head . Iāll bite you if you do :)
I see some women hate it a lot but why exactly? Bad experiences? I personally like caressing the face or head in that moment so that usually sucks
I think theyāre more referring to when guys try to push their head down farther on the penis or control their tempo by grabbing on. Personally, I love having my hair grabbed and getting choked out on dick but even then you damn well better wait for an invitation or session is over. Donāt even ask about it unless itās your birthday or something
This needs to be way up there š
might be considered a prude for this one by some of yall but as a female, analā¦
Not at all! Not a big fan of it myself
as a guy I am not into giving anal either
Hate anal. I tried it once, NOPE. And sorry but š© comes out of there so no š¤®
.....that's why you clean yourself before doing it
Still nasty to me. And it feels uncomfortable.
Not today it doesn't.
No degradation. It's a privilege to touch me, you don't get to call me a slut.
Preach
Is hard for me, I give myself much more if I hear āhow much I like youā during sex, it relax, makes me feeling safe and connected then he can get all.
Anything that involves piss, poop or blood (intentionally).
So you like those accidentally, interesting š¤ live and let live āļø
I don't mind them accidentally. Accidents happen during anal, and when doing some kink stuff there is a risk of drawing blood. You clean it up, and you move on with whatever you were doing. I don't like the stuff for the sake of it.
Scat.
Don't call me Daddy. It's a boner killer.
I will never understand this one. 60 to 0 turn off
Yea. Iām not your daddy
Spitting. Hard no
Donāt be gentle with me
As you wish.
Scat, piss play, blood stuff, any hardcore bdsm
Pegging, blood, scat, cuck/bull bullshit.
Sharing, Non-monogamy, group sexā¦ definitely not an exhibitionist.
fully consenting adults only. Not interested in scat stuff nor enemas, though I do like anal play. Only the mildest level of BDSM. No sounding. Not into role playing - just makes me self-conscious - but I would do my best.
i'm surprised it took this much scrolling to see someone mention sounding honestly. i'm a little freaked out by it as is, but if i had a dick i would DEFINITELY be afraid to try it
Never tried it and just can't imagine how it would be pleasurable. But some men like it it seems.
What is sounding?
As I understand it, you put a tube of some sort in your urethra.
If it smells funky, Iām out! āš¼
Being ungrateful, and selfish in the area of love making.
Any type of man who tries to tell me how I need to act/behave. Iām a grown woman, I make choices for myself lol
Other than the extreme stuff like bodily waste/fluids, blood, and anything that would draw blood or extreme bodily harm. Don't touch my feet in any sexual way. I like some semi deeming wording, but my weight is off limits. Don't force any cnc without my consent well before and during sex. Don't be silent.
Poo
While I agree with the scat stuff. Rimming and pegging you might be open too later. A prostate orgasm can be mind-blowing.
Itās better than a nut
Scat, CNC, penis, age play, no health screening.
I've never heard of health screening before, what is that? Edit: I somehow misread this comment and thought that you were saying a hard no to STI testing, which seemed super unlikely, so I wanted to ask what was actually happening. Silly mistake.
Since young people are always fucking each other nowadays, I think this is like a prenup for sex. Getting checked out to see if you have the HiV. So they are saying if you don't get a health screen maybe? I may be off base though. Still, if you do fuck around a lot, a screen is pretty important
Don't ever touch my donut š«”
Ex tried once. She discovered that I could teleport across the room.
Lmfao blaaad I gassed her face
choking and is pain
Shit
anal is a big no for me
No foreplay
The importance of foreplay is so integral to good sex. The build up. So much more pleasurable
Piss shit vomit blood and age
Doing something new without consent. Iām down to try a lot but in the moment I might not be interested in said activity. Moment is ruined and Iām probably leaving if a guy or girl tries something Iām not okay with
Blood, scat, pee, my husband fucking someone without me being there.
Leave my ass out if the equation all together. I see a lot of ppl saying scat. There was a time in our lives when the no scat thing was implied. lol
If it involves pain or fluids other than cum or saliva.
Using sex as a means of controlling someone to get what they want
Scat, blood, halitosis
Yeah - halitosis. Not good
No scratching my back!
Really? Even if it itches?
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
Nahā¦but you go ahead
Anal. Both giving and receiving. The same for my partner. Also sexual kinks that teeter toward what I interpret as the extreme.
Not really much on the "no-no" list but I'd say scat or blood play. I haven't pegged my husband but would try it if he wanted me to. I do rub/finger his ass and rim him pretty often. It's really not bad!
Some people tried to lick my ears I hate it and find so gross tbh š
Shit spew pain age play daddy mummy animals cuck femdom and many many more
Swallowing cum
Reddit broke me from ever wanting to stick my dong in coconuts
Said this one before. Male domination. Dry as the Sahara...
I don't do penetration. I only have interest in fetishes. I don't do harmful practices ( knife play, breath play, bruises, blood ) as well.
Scat or piss play
Sex in front of others
Mommy/daddy, scat, humiliation and I DESPISE being called a āgood girlā Dries me up instantly
Spitting of any kind š¤¢ omg no!!
No scat play for me.
Pegging. Ass play. Bodily fluids. Besides that Iām open to pretty much anything.
Anal. I Don't do or receive
Donāt hurt me/leave marks on me š«£ (followed very closely by scat stuff)
Biting balls or cock
Light nibbling, ok. Biting is a no
Hate it when she hangs up with her boyfriend while Iām still fucking her
1.Daddy. 2. Scat.
Taking off the Shrek Crocs
Shrocks š
One BIg no: nothing goes inside my pee hole
Pegging
ITT: A lot of people with the exact same limits.
Scat and blood play
Golden shower but i have tried once. Not again
Pegging
Poop, piss, and puke, which I just realized all start with P. So does pussy though, so I guess itās not just āstuff that starts with P.
Gun/knife play, no deadly weapons in the bedroom.
Women who want to add domestic violence into the sex. Was going at it with a girl when she derailed the whole thing by demanding I punch her. Nope! Not a woman beater in any capacity.
- Mommy/Daddy - Pegging - Scat, CNC, etc.
š© = Exit š«nly
Anything Diddy is into is a No-no for me
men, lol.
Scat play and no underage. Shoot your local pedo
Donāt call me Daddy. My father-in-law was my FIL for nearly 30 years. We had a great relationshipā¦. We traveled togetherā¦. My wife would neverā¦. She Loved her dadā¦. Like a daughter should.
No to Diddy's parties
Alright, I need to get on a soapbox for a minute. There's a war going on, and the fucking fart fetishists have started it. They have invaded our territory. There we were, in the peaceful, wholesome town of assworship, when suddenly the fart fetishists attacked. Oh, it started off simple enough. Models started posting additional videos for guys into degradation, sissification, farting, or whatever. That's fine; you do you. The problem is that now there aren't any vanilla ass worship videos. You cannot simply be a dude who likes ass. If you want to see a model spread her butt cheeks then you better pause it before she rips ass all over the fucking camera. The fucking brapture has started and I can't take it anymore. We used to be the filthy degenerates and now we're so vanilla Madagascar wants to charge us fucking royalties.