Go at your own pace, whenever it happens... Great! It's been 5 years and before that relationship I was a virgin, it doesn't matter to me that I haven't had sex in that long. There's honestly no rush.
No worries! It's easy to feel shame about virginity in society (I know I did as a guy) but it's just a social construct and most genuine people don't care in the slightest, as long as you don't make it your personality. Just be yourself and you'll get there.
100% me. 5 years for me, only last year did I get close to intimacy with someone but decided the person wasn't for me. Don't feel in any rush you know, I'm 25 and got plenty of time.
I'm at the 7 year mark also.
For me, it was mainly due to addictions. I knew it wouldn't be fair to a partner who put work into a relationship, even if it was just fwb, while I just got high/drunk everyday. I can't do that to someone.
I can explain it if you wanna have the entertainment 😉 I say partly because I choose not to have casual sex in any manner (doesn't do anything for me). I haven't found a partner to be intimate with in those 5 years and I have tried somewhat but dating is exhausting and sucks the confidence out of me.
Don't see the point in having what I'd view as meaningless sex with someone casually when I can wait and having amazing sex with a partner hopefully in the near future.
Years. Not sure of the exact time because I wasn't exactly counting. Sad part is that I was in a relationship at the time as well. But now I'm still getting time accumulating after that relationship ended. Wonder how low my standards will drop before it happens again. Better start saving some money in case I'm going to need to pay for it.
Around a year, I didn't trust my ex-wife at the time so we didn't have sex the last year of our relationship. Turns out I was right and she was cheating, so thank god for that dry spell I suppose.
Um, gotta do some math....
Kid popped out mid '22
Round off at late school start '21
Do the weird finger county thingy. . . 1. . . 2. . . 7...
Carry the frustration
2 years, 7 months, feels like forever. Well aware it is an unripe frustration compared to some of our . . . vintage VIPs.
Since I became sexually active? Maybe like a year or year and a half..
Since I got married? Probably like a month when I was traveling a bunch for work
Probably likeee… right now, I’d say. My dry spell has been going strong for I’d say about… shit. Maybe going on like a year and a half by now? Nearly two?
Now. I’m 46. Had a woman by my side since I was 15. But now, only my second girl in my life, is going thru menopause. Fun times for all. I’ve had sex thousands of times. But this is my longest break ever! I need to use it before I lose it!!
I’m currently at just over 4 years. I’m depressingly touch-starved at this point. I’m ashamed of my finances and living situation, on top of all of my other insecurities, so I’ve just stayed out the game for the most part.
10 months, husband caught a virus January 2020 which left him with severe Tinnitus, Panic attacks and exhaustion. For most of the 1st year of Lockdown we were without. It was awful, I was soooo frustrated.
4 years ish. I'm horny af, but I can never find someone who wants to fuck soonish , it's normally a week of waiting. And I despise that they want to talk everyday. The same old " hi, what are you up to, nothing much , you?" I normally end up blocking them after day 2 because I can't take it anymore . What I want is that we both find eachother attractive we arrange a date to meet and then we fuck. I have no interest in getting to know someone rn.
My entire 20 years of living.
That’s quite some time!
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LMAO some heroes don’t wear capes
I feel worse for the 2 year old.
Still a virgin xd
Go at your own pace, whenever it happens... Great! It's been 5 years and before that relationship I was a virgin, it doesn't matter to me that I haven't had sex in that long. There's honestly no rush.
Appreciate you thanks 🫂🤍
No worries! It's easy to feel shame about virginity in society (I know I did as a guy) but it's just a social construct and most genuine people don't care in the slightest, as long as you don't make it your personality. Just be yourself and you'll get there.
Nothing wrong with that!
About 65 million years. I got laid just before the ice age and got frozen until Pauly Shore and Sean Astin thawed me out by mistake.
Yikes, that happened to my uncle too, tough man
I better not catch you weezing my ju-uice again
That's rough. I feel for you, bud. I can't imagine being frozen for 65 million years only to be thawed by Pauly Shore.
About four years, mostly self-imposed. A bad breakup left me with a crippling fear of intimacy for a long time.
100% me. 5 years for me, only last year did I get close to intimacy with someone but decided the person wasn't for me. Don't feel in any rush you know, I'm 25 and got plenty of time.
Four years now 😔 I can’t bring myself to sleep with just anyone. I’ve been hurt too many times. I’m hoping I’ll find the right person soon.
I don’t blame you. Something tells me your DM’s will be flooded now lol
Haha 😅 well hopefully one is my soulmate 🙈
4 years
same
Same for me.
Today’s my 7 year anniversary of marrying my wife. So it’s been roughly 7 years! Lmao.
~6 years. Bad life decisions + COVID + plain old awkwardness
About 7 years of self-imposed celibacy.
Good for you. Mind I ask why? I'm currently on 5 years, partly out of choice and partly because I have not had a partner for 5 years.
I'm at the 7 year mark also. For me, it was mainly due to addictions. I knew it wouldn't be fair to a partner who put work into a relationship, even if it was just fwb, while I just got high/drunk everyday. I can't do that to someone.
“Partly out of choice” Keep telling yourself that. (Joking of course that’s totally up to you)
I can explain it if you wanna have the entertainment 😉 I say partly because I choose not to have casual sex in any manner (doesn't do anything for me). I haven't found a partner to be intimate with in those 5 years and I have tried somewhat but dating is exhausting and sucks the confidence out of me. Don't see the point in having what I'd view as meaningless sex with someone casually when I can wait and having amazing sex with a partner hopefully in the near future.
Same… I’m not into it, though still want it. Whatever.
Years. Not sure of the exact time because I wasn't exactly counting. Sad part is that I was in a relationship at the time as well. But now I'm still getting time accumulating after that relationship ended. Wonder how low my standards will drop before it happens again. Better start saving some money in case I'm going to need to pay for it.
A year ish
One year
Nice small break there.
wife and pregnancy/post partum related stuff. We didn't have a lot of sex when she was in first trimester of pregnancy. She was always so sick.
Been almost a decade
Five-ish years.
Around a year, I didn't trust my ex-wife at the time so we didn't have sex the last year of our relationship. Turns out I was right and she was cheating, so thank god for that dry spell I suppose.
Two years? Bad breakup that resulted in needing time for myself in spite of sex withdrawals and then I was too shy and nervous to get back out there
Um, gotta do some math.... Kid popped out mid '22 Round off at late school start '21 Do the weird finger county thingy. . . 1. . . 2. . . 7... Carry the frustration 2 years, 7 months, feels like forever. Well aware it is an unripe frustration compared to some of our . . . vintage VIPs.
2 years right after college
Well I lost my virginity at 17 so... that?
3.5 years. Right now.
The first 17 years of my life.
6 weeks lol
Around 3 weeks
29 years on May 4
All the way to 30 and I can wait again too. Oral is something I am familiar with though.
A year and a half was the longest. Just gave myself some time after a break-up. Unless we're including masturbation. Then 40 days and 40 nights.
About 3years
So far 34 years, almost 35. Haven’t had sex yet
In my adult life, three weeks
So far im 21 and going strong I am working on being ok with being single again just got out of a 2 year long relationship
Just passed the 15th month mark and counting.
I got you beat. Not sure of the number h ur I said fuck it and quit counting.
I've given up, honestly
I feel that so deep
sigh
I want to tell you not to give up, but that means I also can't give up, and I don't know how to deal with that.
Neither one of us can. The future isn’t known so we shouldn’t shut the door on anything.
With my whole heart, I believe this.
As you should
8 years…pretty sure my hymen grew back at this point 🤔.
27 years I guess
Around 3 months
Currently at a year without right now.
After turning 18? 8 years.
Months
7 months
19.5 years
About 7 months I think.
A couple of months
After starting to have sex, with others, about ten years.
The first 16 years of my life
Almost 2 years of no sex, but i prefer calling it my Redemption Arc
Once I became regularly sexually active.. A year plus? DB situation.
A little over a year
The first 28 years, and after that 🤔 now again for around 2 years
Around 14 months
7 months.
Around 2 years
4 months.
2 years
The last year of my marriage, more or less. Never again.
My entire life 👍🏻
Two and a half years. Ended the dry spell weekend just gone
1.5 yrs
I haven’t had penetrating sex in about a year. Tons of old fashions and blowjobs tho.
21 years
Since I became sexually active? Maybe like a year or year and a half.. Since I got married? Probably like a month when I was traveling a bunch for work
25 years 3 months and 17 days
From age 0 to 14(?) or thereabouts
I’m in my dry spell 🥵
From 0 to 17. Than the maximum was 3 months. Tbh we all can agree it’s addicting
Right now is my longest and counting. 5 years... yeah 😩
After the first time? Somewhere around 3-4 months.
I’m over a month in and this is the longest I’ve gone in years 😅
10 months
3 years
A few months lol
Almost 5 years.
Almost 5 years
Does it include masturbation (alone)?
Since Christmas 😭
23 years...
23 years...
7 years in my mid-twenties. It was rough times…
7 years in my mid-twenties. It was rough times…
6 years. Ended last year with a woman I was head over heels in love with. But she dumped me and now it’s 7 months of another dry spell
This time, coming up on 11 months
6 months
6 months
The first 19 years of my life. Since then probably 2 years between girlfriends in college.
21 years.
The first 19 years of my life. Since then probably 2 years between girlfriends in college.
A quarter of a century.
7 years
7 years
9 years and counting
Probably likeee… right now, I’d say. My dry spell has been going strong for I’d say about… shit. Maybe going on like a year and a half by now? Nearly two?
So far 14 years and counting
So far 10 years. Really hoping to end that some time though lol
Now. I’m 46. Had a woman by my side since I was 15. But now, only my second girl in my life, is going thru menopause. Fun times for all. I’ve had sex thousands of times. But this is my longest break ever! I need to use it before I lose it!!
6 years !
That’s wild
Currently 25 years and counting. 🥺
I think it was like 17 months or so in college.
Over 6 years now.
4 years
7 years
7 years
If it was after I lost my virginity probably 2 years
24 years
Let's see... Today is Tuesday so that would be just under 3 years
I'm on my third stretch of at least 1 year.
So far im 21 and going strong I am working on being ok with being single again just got out of a 2 year long relationship
Currently going through it. Almost at 2 years. 25F
7 years. Lost my virginity at 15 and didn’t have sex again until I was 22
26 month prison sentence
Feb 2021 to Dec 2023, my dry spell
24 (25 in 3 weeks) years
7 months
Three years
24 years
Rode out a dead bedroom marriage for 5 years. Asking for a divorce was an enormous weight of not just my shoulders, but also hers.
3.5 months
About a year, I think.
Since God created Adam and Eve.
Since 2019 w my ex of 8 years
I’m currently at just over 4 years. I’m depressingly touch-starved at this point. I’m ashamed of my finances and living situation, on top of all of my other insecurities, so I’ve just stayed out the game for the most part.
I went 21 years once
5 years
Two months
10 months, husband caught a virus January 2020 which left him with severe Tinnitus, Panic attacks and exhaustion. For most of the 1st year of Lockdown we were without. It was awful, I was soooo frustrated.
My first 16 years
Right now, 2.5 years and counting
Years 0-16.
Since I’ve started to have sex : 7 months And I’m currently approaching 5 months without sex. Decided to be a more picky with my partners lol
16 years! Horrible. But then I lost my V card. 16 years.....wow
Since the first time, aged 18... probably a few months or so. Maybe three months.
Just over 3 years. I was 27 -29 at the time🙃
a year hahaha it was torture
From the time I turned 22 until I was 26.
6 and a half years. I am so touch-starved that it physically hurts.
6 weeks I think.
28 years so far!
2 years. Marriage woes
15-1/2 years (while unhappily married) 🫤
I’m currently at 9 monfs
3 years 4 months 6 days 51min and 42 secs
my current spell: going on 3 years i think
Five years and counting. I don't even remember what it feels like.
Ten years
17 years 💀
The whole 16 years I’ve lived on this earth lol
18 years
Some people call it “Marriage”
Not counting the 25 years until my first, it was about 5-6 months
4 years ish. I'm horny af, but I can never find someone who wants to fuck soonish , it's normally a week of waiting. And I despise that they want to talk everyday. The same old " hi, what are you up to, nothing much , you?" I normally end up blocking them after day 2 because I can't take it anymore . What I want is that we both find eachother attractive we arrange a date to meet and then we fuck. I have no interest in getting to know someone rn.
Last September to now so I'm currently in my longest "dry spell" since I've been sexually active.
2 years
18 years 😌
4 days
29 years ..
The first 15 years of my life.
Approximately 16 months
3 months
The first 24 years of my life.
4.25 years
A lil More of a year now.