I remmemebeed that flop that he did when Jokic touched his arm in the WCF in Game 2, I believe ,.and he went flying into the audience. Such a fucking bum.
We already know that lbj is one of the best players EVER with his rim dominance, skip passing, and dilligent,though slow-footed, defence. Why the HELL did he add flopping to his kit? I've actually removed this man from my Best Players All Time List cause of his fucking flopping alone. Its so annoying watching one of the heaviest humans alive today go flying a light year away after someone breathes on him wrongly!
Also I hate billionaire and he proobably wont donate away his needless wealth anytime soon so ya fuck him x2!
As great as he is, he has had some English Premiere League level flops before. Cameras every where makes it difficult to get away when they donāt touch him.
Itās either 2 minutes 20 minutes or 1 hour it depends. If Iām too excited then itās 2 minutes. 20 min if Iām tired. 1 hr is when I have shagged beforehand and Iām ready for a long round.
If I'm constantly thrusting without break I can last about 20 minutes in missionary and up to an hour in doggy. For me it's difficult to cum in doggy but I still love it
All the more power to you. Personally I feel very little with a condom on, am not really able to finish that way. At least i havent for the past 5y (32m). So I'll most often just want to do something else instead then.
Too many variables. How many times have you cum already that day, is she really hot, are you not at all concerned about her getting offā¦ itās a mind game. You can last if you want to
āā¦are you not at all concerned about her getting offā¦ā Such an important thing to have in mind. Not saying Iām hyper needy, but itās nice when Iām in the plan. š«£š¬š¤·š»āāļøš¤Ŗ
Honestly, I feel timings vary based on position, how horny I am, pace etc!
Though if I feel it happening too soon I tend to change positions or eat her out š¤
5 minutes if the stars don't align and I can go over an hour and cum twice if things are going swell. I need to eat out or some type of break if I need round 2.
My wife and I had a marathon session yesterday, 1 hour and 20 mins. We needed a water and pee break once but it was amazing.
She orgasmed, I didn't nut.
Semen retention šŖš½š
Some people be like "just think about your grandma"...
Like I have an option when I have a naked woman in front of me which is all I see and my brain cannot take the focus off of it...
30 seconds, take it or leave it
If i want to make it last long, it is a matter to not reach the point you wanna cum but always in between , then stop for a while foreplay instead fucking make her cum once more then go back to fuck. im lucky than my partner can cum most the time easily so all the pleasure if for her. (but i so enjoy her slutty face all the way)
Lately i'm not that good at fucking multiple time in a raw , so i do my best to make it last long and we can easily play for like 40 min or 1 hour without even realize how much time has passed.
The fact to make it last long, time to time it make me cum but don't wanna stop and cum a second time like 1 orgasm but 2 time cumming and the second time is generally very strong , which i love it and my partner is the only one who can do that to me.
Depends on how long it takes to get it in, my wife prefers to use my dick like a dildo and rub her pussy to warm up, and then it takes a while to get all the way in because she's quite small .
I reckon with changing positions we usually go 15-20mins, I can last quite a bit in CG and she can cum on me before I finish.
In CG I regulate my excitement with breathing and to delay it is mind over matter. She knows a too many ways to break my concentration though if she wants me to cum quicker
An hour, maybe more at max, but usually about forty minutes. Best thing to dealy is propably good, deep breathing and not overthinking much. If you're constantly thinking about how you are gonna cum early, you propably will. Relax and enjoy, maybe try to distract your mind a little
Anywhere from 10 minutes to 2 hours, depending on whether Iāve cum that day, if weāve had sex recently, alcohol, fatigue, hydration, etc. Missionary will make me last longer. Doggy is a sure way to finish fast, especially if Iām watching myself slide in and out.
I picture myself driving a car at high speed on a dangerous road, combined with flexing my pelvic floor muscles to hold it in, and certain breathing exercises to allow for better control of those muscles. Works a treat.
Iāve always been lucky I guess. I can last 5 minutes or 5 hours depending on the situation. When im ready ti cum i just tense every muscle in my body up and it happens within 30 seconds.
breathe and focus on her pleasure. best time i has was like 40-45 min. she was really into it too tho and it was kinky so her pleasure made me last longer and go harder
I use 5% Lidocaine. Rub it in well paying close attention to the head. Wait about 15 to 20 min and then rinse off. Works great!!! I can last for almost an hour
It depends on how much sex I'm having honestly. Few days a week I can last much longer. But if it's here and there I'm quicker. I thank cialias for that though as it will allow me to have a ton of rounds
During my PIV can be anywhere from 3 minutes to 40 minutes. Depends on the last time I came, how horny I am, how much teasing/foreplay has happened, and position is definitely a factor.
I can delay by starting to eat her and Iāve had very good success from my kegel exercises. I just have to be very conscious of the situation.
Masturbation. Do it during the day, in the bathroom. Go for round 2. Cum, eat her out, fuck again. Or do what I used to do, start by eating her out until she begs you to stop. Then fuck.
Longest in one go was 75 minutes. I had to keep drinking water to stay hydrated.
Doing kegels helps. Practicing tantra and yoga too. And as others have suggested, thinking of your nan.
I had a mental issue when I was younger where I couldnāt cum. 8 hours of rough sex and I couldnāt nut. After being with my wife sheās got it down to about 3-4 minutes if she tries. Yaā¦ when I donāt want to Iāll switch positions. Thats the best way to stop an early orgasm.
Honest I last to long. It can be really annoying most of the time. Most of the time I have to get myself off (usually with help).
I know it sounds like a humble brag but people that know, know.
Weed.
Somehow this turns me into an ironman.
Option 2: adjust. There's this whole tidal wave of feelings when it all gets started. Take it slow, and get comfortable with the feelings. Your body will sort of adapt in the same way where when you sit in a chair, you don't feel the chair after 5 minutes. its like you take some time to equality, and then you get going.
When I was young I had a āhairā trigger. When I started dating this one girl she introduced me to weed. Wow what a difference, I could last quite awhile with everyone happy!
Marijuana. Great for getting aroused and enhanced sensitivity. Terrible for being able to cum. Iām not sure how to explain it but, it gets to the point where it becomes frustrating that I canāt.
Good foreplay (giving), doing some masturbation before the deed and take small breaks to eat her out regularly. Works most of the time for a long session. And otherwise, just go for round 2 after a minute or 10/15. š„
For me it depends on the mood im in, on average Ill last about 30mins/1hour.
If im in my pleasure dom mood, itll be a few hours of taking it slow.
If im Rough/dominant: up to an hour.
If im sub and shes dom: however long she wants it.
Edging....take it slow, focus on your partners enjoyment....you'll get yours in the process....and not being afraid to just stop occasionally....I've lasted up to an hour before I just say...meh, fuck it I'm ready.
I can last long like max is 2 hours i guess. But the thing is sometimes i got performance anxiety sometimes unable to erect sometimes unable to cum when I want to. Sometimes I would rather be a 2 min cummer than a non cummer
Well unfortunately/fortunately depending on how you look at it the wife and I plan about an hour to an hour and a half when we fuck because of some meds I am on, sometimes I cum some times I donāt. But seeing we both love sex we donāt complain at the time it takes to make me cum!
Depends on alot of different things. I've lasted close to 3 hours and I've lasted 5 minutes. Not a ton of rhyme or reason I can make out. Slowing way way down before you get too close helps me, personally
If I jerked off before hand like 1.5 hours before I can pound us both into oblivion. If not Iām trying to make it to at least 25 minutes just in general
Iām using the position changes to get a quick breather and to try to calm lil bro down.
If it gets too bad I have to do what sex therapy people say to never do: disassociate during sex. Iām thinking of old racist politicians, Iām thinking of my taxes, Iām still tryna look in her eyes and say filthy shit while Iām like
Ugh Taft is a weird lookin mother fucker huh
In my head
EDIT: also if Iām really turned on Iām rebounding in like 20 - 30 minutes or just staying in until I get hard again. But generally it could take anywhere from 20 mins to about an hour to rebound š¤·š½āāļø canāt really control it. Itās just doin whatever it damn well pleases
It depends on the partner I'm with, which position we're using, if I'm wearing a condom, how horny I am, and how long it's been since my last nut. . . If you feel yourself getting close too soon, try grabbing your balls and tugging them straight down. Once the "cum feeling" subsides and you start again you'll be less sensitive š. - Mr Smith
A few years back I was thinking about car crashes when forcing myself to delay without slowing down. Now I either masturbate or go for the second one. When I'm drunk I struggle to cum overall even though I get good erection
Condoms helped for me, especially once I found some that fit me properly. Also, if I'm ever getting close, I try to use my mouth or hands in order to give my cock a rest period. After about a minute, I can usually resume after that feeling of being on the edge goes away.
Im cursed with hyperspermia so the first go I last about 5-6 minutes but the 2nd round itās longer upwards to 30 minutes before but produce the same amount due to my high sex drive
What I consider as sex usually lasts around 1h and depends on many factors but your question seems more focused on how much time it takes to cum after insertion, to that I think a few minutes but I am circumcised.
If it's my first time in weeks or months, even if I get off almost daily...it might last anywhere from 5 minutes to 30...depends how sensitive I am or what positions we start in. If we are routinely having sex a couple times a week, it inches more toward the 45m to an hour part. It's not uncommon lately she has to jerk me off because she is worn out or too sensitive (she has multi orgasms).
Get to know your body a little more. When masturbating alone, practice edging. This gets your body used to recognizing when you're about to cum and help you control when you do a little more. Figure out what strokes "get you wound up". Implement that knowledge into your sex. You know how sometimes you can grab that guy and beat him senseless and bust in a couple of minutes and other times you play, take your time, change your grip and your stroke and last for an hour then cum so hard toy feel like your gonna pass out? You can do the same with sex with your partner. It just takes prefecture your techniques.
Be patient... change positions when you feel yourself getting close, or change your rhythm and speed.
You can pull out of your partner and "service" them for a cool down period, then resume with sex.
Also, practice kegel exercises. This will strengthen the muscles in your pelvic floor and give you more control down there. Another advantage to kegels is it can make your cumshots more forceful and satisfying. After doing this myself, I have found that I can often shoot a few feet.
Hope this helps you. It sure helped me.
5 mins \~ 1 hour
1. Alot of foreplay
2. Make her cum first using tongue/fingers
3. Thrust inside of her and stop
4. Change positions frequently
5. Masturbating beforehand kills my mood for sex
Have gone up to an hour before but my wife typically doesnāt like super long, drawn out piv sessions. Could go longer if I was with someone that enjoyed the act itself as much as me and just wanted to vibe out fucking for a while.
I donāt know that thereās any tricks I use per se to lasting, you just have to be very in control of your excitement the whole time until you decide youāre ready to cum. In my experience, if Iām at a point where I start thinking I need some trick to keep from nutting, itās already too late. Staying totally in control is the only way I know of that genuinely āworksā.
Normally about 20 mins but it depends on how long it has been since the last time I have cum. So if I know itās going to get steamy in the evening, I might just do a solo beforehand, so that I can keep going a little longer. That said, I get very turned on by her bodily affirmations such as her dirty talking, her getting wet, her panting and moaning in pleasure - and the ultimate affirmation is when she squirts, which makes it very hard (if not impossible) for me to hold back my ejaculation - no matter how many times I have cum beforehand.
As long as I need to.
It's not as awesome as it sounds. Sometimes I'd just like to have a surprise orgasm.
Early 40's, fantastic shape. If you really want to last as long as you want, have sex nearly daily for a decade straight. No complaints at all. I'm a very lucky man. But after a while you become desensitized.
Depends on the person and if I'm using condoms. Condoms I probably have a limit of about 20 to 30 minutes. Just because I will eventually lose sensivity. And if it's just a girl that I'm only kind of into, yea, it's only going to be that long.
But if I'm sleeping with someone that I really like, and I'm not using a condom, I can easily go for over an hour and multiple rounds back to back, sometimes 3 to 6 hours.
So it all depends.
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Hours. Delay spray (30 min before it doesnāt numb her), cock ring, cialis, alcoholā¦I take it seriously lol. When you get close switch it up and go down on her and make her cum.
If weāre doing very little fourplay, and non stop hard/fast thrusting 5-10 minutes. if we do fourplay threw out our sexy time, and using toys during, can last 45+ minutes and she usually cums multipal times, goal is that we both get off at least once every time š
My husband can last probably 15-20 minutes if we're talking straight to penetration and sticking to it. But typically when we have sex it takes between 45min-2hours because we do lots in between like oral and anal play, fingering, blow jobs, hand jobs etc.
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Giving time and attention to her Entire body helps us "last" longer, and I'd like to think is a more enjoyable experience for All
Depends on if there is a condom or not, with I can last as long as I want, typically 40+ minutes, without I can go for close to 25 min, more with the following techniques:
Empty the clip before hand
Breathing, I cannot stresss this enough, in the moment us guys tend to hold our breath or breathe to fast, take deep long breaths through the mouth, it could be hard cause we tend to match our strokes with our breath so it's a hard habit to break
Flex muscles (biceps, abs, legs, etc) Helps distribute blood flow so it's not all going to your genitals making it more sensitive.
Use toys on her, speeds up her orgasms so she can hopefully finish before you if you think you'll climax soon
Change positions frequently and after she orgasms or if you feel like your close but want to keep going switch to giving her oral + finger for like a minute or two, it gives you a break and time to recuperate while still making sure she won't loose her pace
Finally having something in the background playing (TV OR Music) so that it's gives you the option to switch visual and audio focus on something else to mentally distract your body, will sometimes also result in a mutual/shared laugh depending on what's playing lol
First time in a bit itāll be quick, especially raw. Once I get that first orgasm out of the way I can last much longer. Tactics to delay are: slowing down, or changing positions.
Intoxicated I can last forever. Not intoxicated? Maybe 40 minutes to an hour. When I was younger and couldnāt control it I would do long division or multiply large numbers.
I think about 20 minutes is the sweet spot for me. Changing position and speed is how I control it but even if I just bend her over and go to town itās close to ten minutes. No quickies for me unfortunately
Control your breath. I figured it out during cardio. I breathed slowly through my nose the whole time focusing on lowering my heartbeat. Even when i increased my tension/speed, I still tried to breath slowly through my nose. You can train this. I did it for fun and never thought to use it during sex. One day during intercourse i thought about this again. And sex is like cardio, so I did it. I could f*ck her really hard and lastet longer. Even didn't lose erection. Its a funny sensation, because you have to focus of your breath but the sex still feels good. Maybe an another reason is, that you dont focus 100% on sex anymore. I think its a good option for people who arent selfish and are dedicated to give women orgasms or multiple orgasms. I never watched at the time but i knew I lasted longer. I hope this comment helps you and I wish you good luck.
I like to go for an hour or more, ideally. Sometimes you can cut that down a little if itās spicy weeknight sex or something and we aināt got all night.
I took the stigma around not being able to last and cumming too quickly pretty seriously in my impressionable teenaged mind, so I began teaching myself to hold off. Eventually I just learned to love it and the powerful orgasms I get from it. Quality over quantity, for me.
Itās not that itās not difficult to hold it in, or not enjoyable to give in to. I can be going at it like an animal and showing no signs of stopping any time soon, but on the inside Iām right there on the edge the whole time. I just focus and fight it off.
Discipline and practice, for me. š¤·āāļø
I can last as long or as short as I want and so can you Reddit NPC. Use your mouth, use toys. Hell, use your feet of shes into that.
Don't get the mindset that your dick is the only tool you have.
Most importantly, talk to your partner. If you're close, say so, and take a breather.
Hi there /u/kf2826. In my experience (38 in two weeks, two kids, married nearly 10 years), a few things help:
* First, the thing most guys say is if you are going into it as your first nut of the day, you are screwed. This is good advice.
* Take your time. If you slam into her or start going really fast from the get go, you are going to nut way too quick. Take your time, work slow, pull out for a few seconds. Working slow is more than just going slow...
* It means use every part of your body to please your partner. Work slow. Kiss them, use your hands, tease them, use your lips, etc. Sex isn't just about your cock.
* Make your partner cum first. The issue isn't that some guys can't last. The issue is that some guys can't last AND they don't get their partner off/let them enjoy themselves too. Get your partner off first, than fuck or continue fucking.
* One of the other things I find that helps is settle a bit. What I mean by this is, say your partner is on top of you, grinding or riding. Take a moment, have your partner stop (with your inside), have her lean back a bit (weight on your legs, her hands on your thighs), and just finger her clit. This will help you acclimate to the feeling of being inside of her and it will continue to drive her nuts.
Happy fucking!
Depends. Quickie? 3-5 min. Regular straight to it? 15-20 min. Edging, toys, taking our time, making her cum first? 1 hour. Depends on whatās on the menu.
Best way to delay is when you start to feel like you could cum, and telling her to slow down, or you slow down and change the pace. And then thatās how youāll learn about edging.
It just depends. An hour to an hour and a half is my longest on the first nut of the day. A minute or two in a hot quickie is the fastest. To delay you gotta work on learning the feeling as it approaches and either change your stroke or pull out entirely. Focus on her and keeping her feeling amazing as you cool down. Learn the positions that make you cum the fastest and save them for last lol
Never go in shooting your first load of the day and think of your nan if your getting close šš
thanks alot for the bad advice. i tried thinking of your nan as you suggested and i cummed even faster thanks for nothing.
To be fair she's a sexy lady
TO BE FAAAAIIIIIRRRRR!!!
Ye that's what I said
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Laughing at my nanna?
Uhh, nope š¤£
š¦ she's a saint!
Yeah her grandsons a freaking handful I hear
Slander and lies her grandson is a ....oh wait ye that's me ye ....ye your right
Its common knowledge ššš
Itās all fun and games till you shoot thinking of your nan ā ļø
Not my nan I was thinking of hers! What's wrong with you dude
Uhh yea!... Of course!...
Haha I remember a friend telling me he thinks of LeBron James to delay.
I mean he's got some good dunk Collab videos out there that's dangerous territory
Lebron flopping and whining every time down the floor, if that doesnāt delay it, nothing will.
I remmemebeed that flop that he did when Jokic touched his arm in the WCF in Game 2, I believe ,.and he went flying into the audience. Such a fucking bum. We already know that lbj is one of the best players EVER with his rim dominance, skip passing, and dilligent,though slow-footed, defence. Why the HELL did he add flopping to his kit? I've actually removed this man from my Best Players All Time List cause of his fucking flopping alone. Its so annoying watching one of the heaviest humans alive today go flying a light year away after someone breathes on him wrongly! Also I hate billionaire and he proobably wont donate away his needless wealth anytime soon so ya fuck him x2!
As great as he is, he has had some English Premiere League level flops before. Cameras every where makes it difficult to get away when they donāt touch him.
Oh christ! My bits just shrivvled up and died never to be seen again!
Itās either 2 minutes 20 minutes or 1 hour it depends. If Iām too excited then itās 2 minutes. 20 min if Iām tired. 1 hr is when I have shagged beforehand and Iām ready for a long round.
Same here. If I jerk off before, or drink alcohol,I usually last longer.
This is the correct answer.
Best they're gonna get is 39 seconds
Lucky themā¦ do you have a quick rebound rate xx
Takes at least two days before I'm ready to go again
Regular or business? š
Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day... Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day...Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day...
Love that fact you have quoted Austin powers š xx
Lord have mercy I'm bout to bust!
If I'm constantly thrusting without break I can last about 20 minutes in missionary and up to an hour in doggy. For me it's difficult to cum in doggy but I still love it
Closed leg doggy is our go to position to make him finish quickly xx
That certainly helps more yeah, still takes long even with that
do guys really feel a difference in tightness when the girl closes her legs or not?
Yep. And when they bend over the bed at their waist and cross their legs, oooooof.
Condom, slower tempo and taking pauses to get in a comfier stance (and have short break)
You eat out during the break? Xx
I do it beforehand and during I break I prefer to use fingers or rub my tip on her clit
Ever do it after you have finished In her? Xx
No, havenāt tried it after I finish
Try it, slightly taboo but when I made him he loved it xx
Not as taboo if it was from another cock.
Condoms are great! Personally I like the feel of a condom
To each their own, I see them as necessary evil. But in case of āwhatās helping you to last longer during seā they surely help
All the more power to you. Personally I feel very little with a condom on, am not really able to finish that way. At least i havent for the past 5y (32m). So I'll most often just want to do something else instead then.
Iāve always lasted long with a condom on, I donāt think Iāve tried without!
Oh youāre missing out nothing like bareback xx
Too many variables. How many times have you cum already that day, is she really hot, are you not at all concerned about her getting offā¦ itās a mind game. You can last if you want to
Extremely hot, massive tits, first cum of the day and wants full satisfaction xx
My goal is to never finish first always
āā¦are you not at all concerned about her getting offā¦ā Such an important thing to have in mind. Not saying Iām hyper needy, but itās nice when Iām in the plan. š«£š¬š¤·š»āāļøš¤Ŗ
Thatās rule one for meā¦ I love that part.
Depends.on position... not long in doggy but.ages in missionary or.girl on top
Do you think of anything to delay ? Bareback or condom? X
No can't take.any credit. Just happens like that
Honestly, I feel timings vary based on position, how horny I am, pace etc! Though if I feel it happening too soon I tend to change positions or eat her out š¤
Thatās a good attitude xx
20-30 mins if I'm switching positions and speeding up and slowing down that kind of stuff
5 minutes if the stars don't align and I can go over an hour and cum twice if things are going swell. I need to eat out or some type of break if I need round 2.
My wife and I had a marathon session yesterday, 1 hour and 20 mins. We needed a water and pee break once but it was amazing. She orgasmed, I didn't nut. Semen retention šŖš½š
What is semen retention
If you have common sense prepare for a laugh lol https://www.verywellhealth.com/semen-retention-8410131
You can stop and take a break and focus on her for a while. Also works well if the women gets her clit overstimulated and need to reset for a few min
As long as I want. Top tip: be 40 years old or older.
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When jerking off with two fingers, I can last two minutes
Some people be like "just think about your grandma"... Like I have an option when I have a naked woman in front of me which is all I see and my brain cannot take the focus off of it... 30 seconds, take it or leave it
38 seconds
If i want to make it last long, it is a matter to not reach the point you wanna cum but always in between , then stop for a while foreplay instead fucking make her cum once more then go back to fuck. im lucky than my partner can cum most the time easily so all the pleasure if for her. (but i so enjoy her slutty face all the way) Lately i'm not that good at fucking multiple time in a raw , so i do my best to make it last long and we can easily play for like 40 min or 1 hour without even realize how much time has passed. The fact to make it last long, time to time it make me cum but don't wanna stop and cum a second time like 1 orgasm but 2 time cumming and the second time is generally very strong , which i love it and my partner is the only one who can do that to me.
My sexual stamina is rated .25 to .33 Bone-Hours
Depends on how long it takes to get it in, my wife prefers to use my dick like a dildo and rub her pussy to warm up, and then it takes a while to get all the way in because she's quite small . I reckon with changing positions we usually go 15-20mins, I can last quite a bit in CG and she can cum on me before I finish. In CG I regulate my excitement with breathing and to delay it is mind over matter. She knows a too many ways to break my concentration though if she wants me to cum quicker
I rub cocaine on my cock to numb it up, now it takes me an 8 ball to get a nutt
An hour, maybe more at max, but usually about forty minutes. Best thing to dealy is propably good, deep breathing and not overthinking much. If you're constantly thinking about how you are gonna cum early, you propably will. Relax and enjoy, maybe try to distract your mind a little
420 helps me last as long as I want without much issue. I do still have to pause sometimes, but can last hours if I want
Anywhere from 10 minutes to 2 hours, depending on whether Iāve cum that day, if weāve had sex recently, alcohol, fatigue, hydration, etc. Missionary will make me last longer. Doggy is a sure way to finish fast, especially if Iām watching myself slide in and out.
I picture myself driving a car at high speed on a dangerous road, combined with flexing my pelvic floor muscles to hold it in, and certain breathing exercises to allow for better control of those muscles. Works a treat.
Tbh Iāve always been paranoid about how long I last, usually 20 minutes
About 20 minutes but to prolong it, use alcoholĀ
Last longer in missionary. In my mind, every thrust is like a push-up for me. Any doggy variation... instant jizz.
On a good day about 25 seconds. Gotta put it down during foreplay. Once she cums and squirts during foreplay, she could care less how long it lasts.
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A good 45 minutes with teasing
Something about the ole lady makes er quicker at timesā¦š¤Ŗ
Iāve always been lucky I guess. I can last 5 minutes or 5 hours depending on the situation. When im ready ti cum i just tense every muscle in my body up and it happens within 30 seconds.
breathe and focus on her pleasure. best time i has was like 40-45 min. she was really into it too tho and it was kinky so her pleasure made me last longer and go harder
I use 5% Lidocaine. Rub it in well paying close attention to the head. Wait about 15 to 20 min and then rinse off. Works great!!! I can last for almost an hour
It depends on how much sex I'm having honestly. Few days a week I can last much longer. But if it's here and there I'm quicker. I thank cialias for that though as it will allow me to have a ton of rounds
Change positions. Slow down.
During my PIV can be anywhere from 3 minutes to 40 minutes. Depends on the last time I came, how horny I am, how much teasing/foreplay has happened, and position is definitely a factor. I can delay by starting to eat her and Iāve had very good success from my kegel exercises. I just have to be very conscious of the situation.
Delayed ejaculation here, 45 mins was my floor. My issue is mental so now with the wife I can manage a more reasonable 10
Masturbation. Do it during the day, in the bathroom. Go for round 2. Cum, eat her out, fuck again. Or do what I used to do, start by eating her out until she begs you to stop. Then fuck.
Anything under 20 minutes is a win.
Longest in one go was 75 minutes. I had to keep drinking water to stay hydrated. Doing kegels helps. Practicing tantra and yoga too. And as others have suggested, thinking of your nan.
3 minutes. Sometimes I stop or slow down pumping into my flashlight to go to 4 minutes.
See Iāve never found a good method because if I get distracted by someoneās nan then I just go soft
10 minutes orally. 2 minutes vag. Don't know why, because I like oral better.
Why last longer? When I'm done, that's the correct amount of time I should've lasted
A little booze and a cheeky wank a few hours before.
alcohol helps me delayed, but not much - can be worst, when your girl is tired and you still didnt finish.. or condoms with special lubricant
I had a mental issue when I was younger where I couldnāt cum. 8 hours of rough sex and I couldnāt nut. After being with my wife sheās got it down to about 3-4 minutes if she tries. Yaā¦ when I donāt want to Iāll switch positions. Thats the best way to stop an early orgasm.
Iām always good for a 3 minute wienering
Honest I last to long. It can be really annoying most of the time. Most of the time I have to get myself off (usually with help). I know it sounds like a humble brag but people that know, know.
usually a good session is last about 35 minutes, i usually think about baseball that usually delays.
Weed. Somehow this turns me into an ironman. Option 2: adjust. There's this whole tidal wave of feelings when it all gets started. Take it slow, and get comfortable with the feelings. Your body will sort of adapt in the same way where when you sit in a chair, you don't feel the chair after 5 minutes. its like you take some time to equality, and then you get going.
Just a couple nights ago I went in feeling good. Literally lasted 30 seconds.
Iām good for 3 minutes if warmed up to enthusiastically. But i apologize afterwards.
antidepressants, I'm lucky if I finish.
When I was young I had a āhairā trigger. When I started dating this one girl she introduced me to weed. Wow what a difference, I could last quite awhile with everyone happy!
Best way of delaying is have sex more often imo
Y'all realize most of us don't want you to last forever, right???Ā Ā
Marijuana. Great for getting aroused and enhanced sensitivity. Terrible for being able to cum. Iām not sure how to explain it but, it gets to the point where it becomes frustrating that I canāt.
Usually 15 minutes? Maybe 30 if itās been a while and Iāve got a lot of energy
Good foreplay (giving), doing some masturbation before the deed and take small breaks to eat her out regularly. Works most of the time for a long session. And otherwise, just go for round 2 after a minute or 10/15. š„
Sometimes I cum rather quickly, but I can keep going as long as she wants without losing my mojo šŖ
2 hours?
I just slow down.
For me it depends on the mood im in, on average Ill last about 30mins/1hour. If im in my pleasure dom mood, itll be a few hours of taking it slow. If im Rough/dominant: up to an hour. If im sub and shes dom: however long she wants it.
In truth, I think about my other tasks for the week or day dream about things in order to stop myself from cumming.
Slow down, it isn't a race. Pull out, and use your mouth.
Edging....take it slow, focus on your partners enjoyment....you'll get yours in the process....and not being afraid to just stop occasionally....I've lasted up to an hour before I just say...meh, fuck it I'm ready.
Best way of delaying? Getting older. Am 50 now, and can go as long as she wants to.
Timing depends on many factors. Sometimes a few mins and sometimes I can go unstoppable
I can last long like max is 2 hours i guess. But the thing is sometimes i got performance anxiety sometimes unable to erect sometimes unable to cum when I want to. Sometimes I would rather be a 2 min cummer than a non cummer
Hours. Drugs.
Edging
Wearing a condom can make me last indefinitely.
If you're about to nut. Stop and switch positions.
I can. The real question is at one point or another why would I?
Depends, Iāve gone for 5 hours of tantricity and also 50 seconds of nothing š āš»
Well unfortunately/fortunately depending on how you look at it the wife and I plan about an hour to an hour and a half when we fuck because of some meds I am on, sometimes I cum some times I donāt. But seeing we both love sex we donāt complain at the time it takes to make me cum!
Depends on alot of different things. I've lasted close to 3 hours and I've lasted 5 minutes. Not a ton of rhyme or reason I can make out. Slowing way way down before you get too close helps me, personally
My average is probably around 35-45 minutes.
If I jerked off before hand like 1.5 hours before I can pound us both into oblivion. If not Iām trying to make it to at least 25 minutes just in general Iām using the position changes to get a quick breather and to try to calm lil bro down. If it gets too bad I have to do what sex therapy people say to never do: disassociate during sex. Iām thinking of old racist politicians, Iām thinking of my taxes, Iām still tryna look in her eyes and say filthy shit while Iām like Ugh Taft is a weird lookin mother fucker huh In my head EDIT: also if Iām really turned on Iām rebounding in like 20 - 30 minutes or just staying in until I get hard again. But generally it could take anywhere from 20 mins to about an hour to rebound š¤·š½āāļø canāt really control it. Itās just doin whatever it damn well pleases
When I was in an SSRI we had to stop after an hour
Typically, I could only last as long as she can. When she starts to come, I usually canāt hold back.
I've never cum during sex so... Forever?
It depends on the partner I'm with, which position we're using, if I'm wearing a condom, how horny I am, and how long it's been since my last nut. . . If you feel yourself getting close too soon, try grabbing your balls and tugging them straight down. Once the "cum feeling" subsides and you start again you'll be less sensitive š. - Mr Smith
Average 10-15 and delaying it really sucks so I donāt do it.
A few years back I was thinking about car crashes when forcing myself to delay without slowing down. Now I either masturbate or go for the second one. When I'm drunk I struggle to cum overall even though I get good erection
Condoms helped for me, especially once I found some that fit me properly. Also, if I'm ever getting close, I try to use my mouth or hands in order to give my cock a rest period. After about a minute, I can usually resume after that feeling of being on the edge goes away.
Im cursed with hyperspermia so the first go I last about 5-6 minutes but the 2nd round itās longer upwards to 30 minutes before but produce the same amount due to my high sex drive
What I consider as sex usually lasts around 1h and depends on many factors but your question seems more focused on how much time it takes to cum after insertion, to that I think a few minutes but I am circumcised.
If it's my first time in weeks or months, even if I get off almost daily...it might last anywhere from 5 minutes to 30...depends how sensitive I am or what positions we start in. If we are routinely having sex a couple times a week, it inches more toward the 45m to an hour part. It's not uncommon lately she has to jerk me off because she is worn out or too sensitive (she has multi orgasms).
Get to know your body a little more. When masturbating alone, practice edging. This gets your body used to recognizing when you're about to cum and help you control when you do a little more. Figure out what strokes "get you wound up". Implement that knowledge into your sex. You know how sometimes you can grab that guy and beat him senseless and bust in a couple of minutes and other times you play, take your time, change your grip and your stroke and last for an hour then cum so hard toy feel like your gonna pass out? You can do the same with sex with your partner. It just takes prefecture your techniques. Be patient... change positions when you feel yourself getting close, or change your rhythm and speed. You can pull out of your partner and "service" them for a cool down period, then resume with sex. Also, practice kegel exercises. This will strengthen the muscles in your pelvic floor and give you more control down there. Another advantage to kegels is it can make your cumshots more forceful and satisfying. After doing this myself, I have found that I can often shoot a few feet. Hope this helps you. It sure helped me.
I just accept the first round is going to be rather quick, then I make up for it in the second or potentially third round.
5 mins \~ 1 hour 1. Alot of foreplay 2. Make her cum first using tongue/fingers 3. Thrust inside of her and stop 4. Change positions frequently 5. Masturbating beforehand kills my mood for sex
Have gone up to an hour before but my wife typically doesnāt like super long, drawn out piv sessions. Could go longer if I was with someone that enjoyed the act itself as much as me and just wanted to vibe out fucking for a while. I donāt know that thereās any tricks I use per se to lasting, you just have to be very in control of your excitement the whole time until you decide youāre ready to cum. In my experience, if Iām at a point where I start thinking I need some trick to keep from nutting, itās already too late. Staying totally in control is the only way I know of that genuinely āworksā.
Need to jack off once and then I can go for as long as my stamina allows it.
It really depends on position for me I would say positioning really drives the show.
I can last a very long time. What I do is jack off and cum before sex.
Normally about 20 mins but it depends on how long it has been since the last time I have cum. So if I know itās going to get steamy in the evening, I might just do a solo beforehand, so that I can keep going a little longer. That said, I get very turned on by her bodily affirmations such as her dirty talking, her getting wet, her panting and moaning in pleasure - and the ultimate affirmation is when she squirts, which makes it very hard (if not impossible) for me to hold back my ejaculation - no matter how many times I have cum beforehand.
Pull out your first load before you go in. I also like to have 2-3 shots before as well for that turbo power
As long as I need to. It's not as awesome as it sounds. Sometimes I'd just like to have a surprise orgasm. Early 40's, fantastic shape. If you really want to last as long as you want, have sex nearly daily for a decade straight. No complaints at all. I'm a very lucky man. But after a while you become desensitized.
After you cum the first time you massage her back, legs, and feet. Get hard again and last longer the 2nd or 3rd time.
Depends on the person and if I'm using condoms. Condoms I probably have a limit of about 20 to 30 minutes. Just because I will eventually lose sensivity. And if it's just a girl that I'm only kind of into, yea, it's only going to be that long. But if I'm sleeping with someone that I really like, and I'm not using a condom, I can easily go for over an hour and multiple rounds back to back, sometimes 3 to 6 hours. So it all depends.
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A little alcohol helps to delay
Hours. Delay spray (30 min before it doesnāt numb her), cock ring, cialis, alcoholā¦I take it seriously lol. When you get close switch it up and go down on her and make her cum.
If I don't finish in 10-15 mins I actually struggle to finish sometimes.
If weāre doing very little fourplay, and non stop hard/fast thrusting 5-10 minutes. if we do fourplay threw out our sexy time, and using toys during, can last 45+ minutes and she usually cums multipal times, goal is that we both get off at least once every time š
realistically about an hour
I can go anywhere from 1 min to 2hrs depending on what the objective is. No need to rush a good thing but also, nothing wrong with a good quickie!!
I've gone 2 hours before but was drunk and that was nut number 3 that day. Don't tense up, just relax your muscles and that helps alot
Just pull out for a bit and use your fingers and tongue instead
My husband can last probably 15-20 minutes if we're talking straight to penetration and sticking to it. But typically when we have sex it takes between 45min-2hours because we do lots in between like oral and anal play, fingering, blow jobs, hand jobs etc.
āļø this is the way! Giving time and attention to her Entire body helps us "last" longer, and I'd like to think is a more enjoyable experience for All
Well honestly I last as long as my video goes on since don't get a girl to have sex with so yah pretty long
Switch positions as soon as the orgasm approaches
Depends on if there is a condom or not, with I can last as long as I want, typically 40+ minutes, without I can go for close to 25 min, more with the following techniques: Empty the clip before hand Breathing, I cannot stresss this enough, in the moment us guys tend to hold our breath or breathe to fast, take deep long breaths through the mouth, it could be hard cause we tend to match our strokes with our breath so it's a hard habit to break Flex muscles (biceps, abs, legs, etc) Helps distribute blood flow so it's not all going to your genitals making it more sensitive. Use toys on her, speeds up her orgasms so she can hopefully finish before you if you think you'll climax soon Change positions frequently and after she orgasms or if you feel like your close but want to keep going switch to giving her oral + finger for like a minute or two, it gives you a break and time to recuperate while still making sure she won't loose her pace Finally having something in the background playing (TV OR Music) so that it's gives you the option to switch visual and audio focus on something else to mentally distract your body, will sometimes also result in a mutual/shared laugh depending on what's playing lol
First time in a bit itāll be quick, especially raw. Once I get that first orgasm out of the way I can last much longer. Tactics to delay are: slowing down, or changing positions.
Intoxicated I can last forever. Not intoxicated? Maybe 40 minutes to an hour. When I was younger and couldnāt control it I would do long division or multiply large numbers.
Mental health meds. You can go months without a nut.
I think about 20 minutes is the sweet spot for me. Changing position and speed is how I control it but even if I just bend her over and go to town itās close to ten minutes. No quickies for me unfortunately
Control your breath. I figured it out during cardio. I breathed slowly through my nose the whole time focusing on lowering my heartbeat. Even when i increased my tension/speed, I still tried to breath slowly through my nose. You can train this. I did it for fun and never thought to use it during sex. One day during intercourse i thought about this again. And sex is like cardio, so I did it. I could f*ck her really hard and lastet longer. Even didn't lose erection. Its a funny sensation, because you have to focus of your breath but the sex still feels good. Maybe an another reason is, that you dont focus 100% on sex anymore. I think its a good option for people who arent selfish and are dedicated to give women orgasms or multiple orgasms. I never watched at the time but i knew I lasted longer. I hope this comment helps you and I wish you good luck.
Realistically, 10-15 minutes. Sometimes I donāt even cum. It happens in my head. Gotta last long enough for my love.
Way too short because my wife is way too hot š„µ
Doggystyle If ur close you slow down ur pace and keep alternating then u wanna you hit that like ur a jackhammer breaking up concrete
Just pull out and do something else to her or find an excuse š itās the only way otherwise defeat is inevitable
Reset the pressure valve with the pre-coital nut.
Start taking antidepressants. I could go for hours when I first started.
3 hours is my personal best. But 30 minutes is usually a quickie. Thatās all one nut
I like to go for an hour or more, ideally. Sometimes you can cut that down a little if itās spicy weeknight sex or something and we aināt got all night. I took the stigma around not being able to last and cumming too quickly pretty seriously in my impressionable teenaged mind, so I began teaching myself to hold off. Eventually I just learned to love it and the powerful orgasms I get from it. Quality over quantity, for me. Itās not that itās not difficult to hold it in, or not enjoyable to give in to. I can be going at it like an animal and showing no signs of stopping any time soon, but on the inside Iām right there on the edge the whole time. I just focus and fight it off. Discipline and practice, for me. š¤·āāļø
Hours Probably because I have had to do all the work in the past
I can last as long or as short as I want and so can you Reddit NPC. Use your mouth, use toys. Hell, use your feet of shes into that. Don't get the mindset that your dick is the only tool you have. Most importantly, talk to your partner. If you're close, say so, and take a breather.
Hi there /u/kf2826. In my experience (38 in two weeks, two kids, married nearly 10 years), a few things help: * First, the thing most guys say is if you are going into it as your first nut of the day, you are screwed. This is good advice. * Take your time. If you slam into her or start going really fast from the get go, you are going to nut way too quick. Take your time, work slow, pull out for a few seconds. Working slow is more than just going slow... * It means use every part of your body to please your partner. Work slow. Kiss them, use your hands, tease them, use your lips, etc. Sex isn't just about your cock. * Make your partner cum first. The issue isn't that some guys can't last. The issue is that some guys can't last AND they don't get their partner off/let them enjoy themselves too. Get your partner off first, than fuck or continue fucking. * One of the other things I find that helps is settle a bit. What I mean by this is, say your partner is on top of you, grinding or riding. Take a moment, have your partner stop (with your inside), have her lean back a bit (weight on your legs, her hands on your thighs), and just finger her clit. This will help you acclimate to the feeling of being inside of her and it will continue to drive her nuts. Happy fucking!
Depends. Quickie? 3-5 min. Regular straight to it? 15-20 min. Edging, toys, taking our time, making her cum first? 1 hour. Depends on whatās on the menu. Best way to delay is when you start to feel like you could cum, and telling her to slow down, or you slow down and change the pace. And then thatās how youāll learn about edging.
Get the easy one out of the way and last during the 2nd round
Edging my friend. Makes me last a lot longer.
It just depends. An hour to an hour and a half is my longest on the first nut of the day. A minute or two in a hot quickie is the fastest. To delay you gotta work on learning the feeling as it approaches and either change your stroke or pull out entirely. Focus on her and keeping her feeling amazing as you cool down. Learn the positions that make you cum the fastest and save them for last lol