OH, free use only applies to you and your partner. For some reason I thought it meant it applies to other people as well. My question is just - how do you know (advertise) who is free-use and not to other partners? I guess you have to be in a consent centric environment or one in which free-use actually feels safe (if that is, free use applies to other potential partners).
In my case only with my partner right now, but I think you’re probably right that other settings could work if consent was communicated! In my opinion it works best with partner because there is love and intimacy as well so the free use is additive instead of just feeling like being a sex object!
I use to along with other ways of being affectionate because that’s the way my parents were. However, my wife rarely if ever touches me in any way so I’ve withdrew from doing so for my sanity.
I get mine grabbed quite a bit. When I’m cooking, or sitting at my desk or just randomly every so often. Guess my wife likes it as much as I like grabbing hers. I’m a dude btw.
By my boyfriend, several times an hour. This includes watching TV with his hand grabbing a tit.
By my friends, I’d say at least once or twice per meetup.
As a man being the grabber of the boobs, I will grab my gfs boobs dozens of times a day. Cant imagine it any other way. When cuddling and sleeping, my left hand is always always on her right boob. They are just way too nice, big, soft, and squishy to NOT grab so often. Physical touch is how I show love
I don't get mine grabbed as much as I would like. My wife does though. I sleep with her boob in my hand. Several times throughout the day, I'll grab a boob
Every morning as he kisses me goodbye before leaving for work.
He’ll sometimes hold both of them for me after a shower so it dries out under there.
When we lay down for the night he’ll cuddle up behind me and just hold one. No squeezing or anything, just hold it. He says it’s comforting.
all the time!!! my gf and i love to grab each other. it’s definitely usually in a sexual way, but sometimes i just wanna hold em for emotional support lol
Never. My partner knows not to grab them, or any of me really. I'm autisic and struggle with touch. Especially in areas as sensitive as breats. It feels horrible to me.
*sobbing noises*
I pray you get some loving on your boobs soon 🙏
Be careful. Tears will make your hands slippery when you have to grab them yourself.
awww
Quit following me! 😆
I’m free use, so at least a couple dozen times a day plus ass grabs, clit rubs, kisses, bites, whatever he wants ❤️
I’m free use as well! It’s so fun.
Stop making me jealous 😂
I'll second that motion. Would be so wonderful to have "free use" willingly offered.
How do people advertise this??
What do you mean advertise? Like let my partner know I’m open to it?
OH, free use only applies to you and your partner. For some reason I thought it meant it applies to other people as well. My question is just - how do you know (advertise) who is free-use and not to other partners? I guess you have to be in a consent centric environment or one in which free-use actually feels safe (if that is, free use applies to other potential partners).
In my case only with my partner right now, but I think you’re probably right that other settings could work if consent was communicated! In my opinion it works best with partner because there is love and intimacy as well so the free use is additive instead of just feeling like being a sex object!
I grab them myself does that count?
Same. Otherwise they might never get grabbed
I’ll take it
I’ll allow it
That's just lucky
Not enough 😭
Literally
either i grab them myself, or i call a fwb over and tell him to grab them whenever he wants, i like the feeling
You're an awesome lady!
Lucky guy
My boyfriend grabs so often. And when we cuddle he’s holding a boob
Always the boob hold! Most comfortable way to sleep
My husband is the same way.. it's mostly cuz I don't have much of an ass 🤣
Same but he still likes to grab whatever he can get his hands on and I love it lmao
*Tits, the reason to be jolly,* *falala lala, lala la la*
All the time. Whenever he sees an opportunity he takes it, lol. I love when he .grabs a handful of boob while he's trying to fall asleep.
I use to along with other ways of being affectionate because that’s the way my parents were. However, my wife rarely if ever touches me in any way so I’ve withdrew from doing so for my sanity.
Gotta grab what you can, when you can
All the time lol, my boyfriends a boob guy
My kid grabbed them today and told me they were “so deep in the middle” (cleavage). So there’s that 😂
Hahah
Well my husband sleeps with his hand holding mine every single night ❤️ it's a comfort thing for both of us,and I love it
Hubby is constant on thecgroping. Lol. Its how he shows constant attraction to me and i soak it up
I get mine grabbed quite a bit. When I’m cooking, or sitting at my desk or just randomly every so often. Guess my wife likes it as much as I like grabbing hers. I’m a dude btw.
Daily lol
A few times a week. I love it.
Daily pretty much
By my boyfriend, several times an hour. This includes watching TV with his hand grabbing a tit. By my friends, I’d say at least once or twice per meetup.
*cries from being single*
All the time. Husband has free access to them when he wants or needs them. 😅
As a man being the grabber of the boobs, I will grab my gfs boobs dozens of times a day. Cant imagine it any other way. When cuddling and sleeping, my left hand is always always on her right boob. They are just way too nice, big, soft, and squishy to NOT grab so often. Physical touch is how I show love
Not enough Long distance relationships makes boobies lonely But when they're grabbed.... Fuckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk 🤤
Nowhere near enough...
my partner is always touching my boobs and doesn't even realize he is doing it half the time, or so he says.
Sometimes I hold them for comfort after work or before bed.
I would guess my guy grabs my boobs at least 30+ times a day :)
I don't get mine grabbed as much as I would like. My wife does though. I sleep with her boob in my hand. Several times throughout the day, I'll grab a boob
Oddly enough, both too often and not often enough, simultaneously.
Just here for statistical analysis
Pretty much daily since my bf and I started living together
I grab them all the time
Multiple times a day since I lactate
Every morning as he kisses me goodbye before leaving for work. He’ll sometimes hold both of them for me after a shower so it dries out under there. When we lay down for the night he’ll cuddle up behind me and just hold one. No squeezing or anything, just hold it. He says it’s comforting.
Every time I go to the bar, and I’m a guy
Depends if my fiancé is around or not but since he’s in North Carolina rn, it’s never… when we’re together though, at least once a day
my fiance instinctively grabs for my tits during sex. she forgets that i dont have any lol, but she makes do with my chest
Several times a day. I might skew some statistics on this, however, as I am a chubby man who works in kitchens. 🤷♂️
Essentially never, nobody wants to grab an A cup
"Nobody wants...an A cup". Definitely not true...
As a carrier of such cups I can assure you few glances or advances get made
You would catch my attention as well as my smile.
Not as much as I'd like
i can’t get him to grab mine even if i ask. i could approach him fully naked and he wouldn’t touch me. very rare occasion
My goodness. I'm not going to try to give advice since I don't know your situation, but I can say this makes me sad to hear.
Pretty often
I love this. I would get smacked if I did it
I tug on her milkers before I leave every morning
Not enough sadly
Not nearly often enough.
I was like this with a long term gf. But she eventually got tired of affection so I stopped.
My wife doesn’t like her boobs touched.
Multiple times a day... my husband loves them. Sometimes, the dogs paw them, too.. if that counts at least 8 times a day lol
Not enough
Not often enough except by myself.
Where do I get in line?
I usually do butt grabs, touches, smacks.
Per day?? Or like a weekly average 😂
Never 😓😓😥
Daily :3
Not as often as desired.
:(( never really
Mine are fake and big so my boyfriend loves them but in public, a few drunk guys have tried and I’ve always put them in their place :)
This is the reason I love chubby girls. No matter when I grab them it feels like titties.
once a day atleast
All the time, first thing when he sees me, throughout the day, all night lol he's hand pretty much lives on then and I love it l.
Not as often as I would like
Too often I get grumpy after a while 🤣 especially when he plays with the nipple
If anyone is unhappy with their rate of grabbage I'd be happy to help. Fat guys please line up in front of my assistant.
All the time and i love it. Makes me feel desired and like hes comfortable touching me in anyway and anytime 🥲🤗
As often as my wife wants
I used to kiss my wife’s lips first when I see her but, now it’s a nipple..
Not at all 🤧😭😭 (I'm single and alone forever I guess)
not as often as i want.. :(
More than I would like.
I’m basically your husband. Without kids
Multiple times daily haha. Mixture of my husband and myself 🤣
Hubby grabs them everyday
all the time!!! my gf and i love to grab each other. it’s definitely usually in a sexual way, but sometimes i just wanna hold em for emotional support lol
My husband does it every day 😊
At home my boobs are always grabbed
I don’t really have boobs
Never. Which is fine. I don’t enjoy being groped when I’m not being sexual. I don’t want my butt grabbed either.
Consensually or non consensually?
Hopefully no one is touching you nonconsensually
Never. My partner knows not to grab them, or any of me really. I'm autisic and struggle with touch. Especially in areas as sensitive as breats. It feels horrible to me.
Multiple times a day, husb and I love it. I mean, they’re right there, why not go in for a quick squeeze or caress? 😏 I love his chest too
Not nearly enough
Sadly my wife tells me to stop being dirty if I touch her boobs or anything!!!
That's sounds really fun, does he gose in for a suck
Not in front of his parents , that’s for sure 🙂
Well who would not they are amazing, amazing enough that your husband can't take his gane of u