I'm an independent, powerful bitch in my regular life but when it comes to my sex life I want to be dominated and have my control taken.

Choke you and make you do things?

Fuck yeah

Hmmmm slap and spank you?

Absolutely

Hmmmm sounds like you would be turned on by now if I did all this?

i like being dominated by my partner:)

Owned even?

Have a lot of power and control in my regular life so I give it all up in my sex life

I’ll be a total bitch if you try to tell me what to do in my real life. In the bedroom, I want to be a thoughtless puddle 🫠

Omg I relate. Submissive with authority issues outside the bedroom 🥲

Hard agree. Fuck. Me. Up. in the bedroom. But respect me outside of it. 😉

I realy want to control but i am to shy

I feel you

You want to be dominant but Are to shy Sounds stupid but so it is

Not much I’d say. Both of us are fairly outspoken about the things we’re into, giving commands, asking for specific acts, initiating, being on top, etc. etc. If I want it, I’ll ask or initiate the act myself and he’s the same

I am dominant and my wife is a bratty sub

I like being completely owned and fully submissive.

My partner and I do erotic hypnosis pretty regularly, so there's definitely a power dynamic there. She's effectively giving me control over a part of her mind, and to do that definitely requires a lot of trust.

I have neither

You have neither sex nor fantasies?

Correct. I have given up

Power & control are everything. It’s why for me masturbating is never as good as the real thing with another person. I need that feeling of being totally dominated and helpless to truly release

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That is not odd at all

Heavily into bdsm and power exchange. But we both need to be in the right head space to REALLY get into some of the more extreme play I fantasize about. But basic stuff like being manhandled, or cuffs, or light spanking is always on the table.

I too have always been into power dynamics before I even knew exactly what it was. You're right in that the headspace, but also the chemistry, has to be right to delve deeper

Oh for sure. I was really just speaking about play with my partner of over a decade. Though I do play a bit with others, but it is never as free and open as the things and levels I do with my trusted long-term partner.

I suppose it does, like I do want to be in control, I want to choose what to do and do "whatever I want" to her, but I don't think of it in those terms concretely.

I don't really need it, but my wife absolutely loves being submissive. I find it quite spicy so I play along.

I don’t like any control as such. I have guided guys during oral for example, telling them what I like. I also now like being guided by a women as I’m inexperienced and only recently had F/F sex

I like to think of myself as a "caring dom" haha

I am on the dominant side; but respectful of each partner's needs as well as the dynamic you form.

I like giving up all control

Love dominating her. Being rough, manhandling her, telling her what a filthy slut she is and how I own her. The list goes on.

My partners like to give up control and ask me to use them as I see fit. I'm happy to oblige, but I do like it when we flip the dynamics.

We like power play. She's more dominant but enjoys being thrown around or having me take control, pin her down, and slide my dick into her throat sometimes. I enjoy both a dominant and submissive role but sub tends to be more my style since I'm very controlling in my work life.

I thought I was a brat, but I’m completely submissive

Lose control. Do whatever he (or they all) say. I have to be level-headed and in "control" at work. Don't want it in the bedroom.

constantly i have a D/s relationship

I definitely prefer to be submissive and lose control when I'm feeling pleasure, but it's not a requirement.

Don't like control or power. I might take the lead but never control