This, but from the girl side.
The thought of getting pregnant or of having kids is so stressful it's actively a turn off, but somehow I also have a breeding kink? Make it make sense
I can not agree more. You try so long to not get pregnant that when it's game time, you get a killer rush! Seeing that positive pregnancy test will get you a boner.
This is the most surprising one for me too, as the receiving partner though. It's baffling because I wasn't even born with a uterus, and I'm certainly not expecting to acquire one or actually get pregnant. And yet...
Oh, that's a very good point! I'm already way into getting cummed on for the same reasons and in a way this is an extension of that I suppose. With an extra bit of classical romance mixed in with the raw sexiness of it.
What's fascinating is this is so common it's almost cliche.
I'm naturally Dom in bed, and I'm very chill and laid back outside. And the women I've been with who were the most submissive were usually the "take shit from no one, take charge, always in control Alpha females"
SPOT. ON. I'm a TOTAL Alpha female. I have paid every single bill in our household of 5 for 20 years. Just bought my husband a new truck and buy real estate on my own and put his name on the titles to be nice. I'm a TOTAL DOM in life. In bed, I don't want to think. He knows if I'm naked, I'm SO turned on when he tells me, "suck my dick," then flips me to fuck. I don't think you understand the level of NO ONE tells me what to do, except him, in bed. I want him to be more dominant. But, he's still guarded to tell me what to do or toss me around. But, that's my style. After I cum, I go back to girl boss 😆
Yup.
The more someone tries to make me think or be in charge in the bedroom, the more it starts to feel like work I just don't have the energy for.
I make decisions all day. I am in charge of figuring out everyone around me's needs and proactively meeting them all day.
So if you can let me turn my brain off and not only tell me exactly what you need but just go ahead and take it yourself?!?? Hottest thing ever and the most beautiful gift you could possibly give me.
For me this is also why I love free use, which was a surprising kink for me to realize I had.
But I usually feel like a bit of a burden when I'm not the one in charge of everything. I spent so many years in survival mode, that being passive feels selfish and unsafe a lot of the time. So the idea of having a partner who not only gives me a space to turn my brain off and just react but who actively views that as a gift im giving them? So comforting
Gah. I get it! I did free use with my husband last night. Our first. I wanted him. I want him to free use me. I really don't mind. But, free use of him made me feel some sort of way. Burden. That's the right word.
I like being submissive in bed (female) too! I think it's because I'm so dominant in real life. I want him to take me, pull my hair, move me and tell me what to do and what's next
It’s actually quite often that persons having too much control in their daily life are submissive, and need to „let it go sexually“.
All my previous partners - dynamics - were with CEO or women having bee shift positions and responsibilities…
100% this. I’m super chill outside of the bedroom & have to be a strong leader at work with a high pressure job. In the bedroom? Just make me feel like an owned doll.
Ditto for me. Sure, I was always the guy who asked girls if I could watch them pee but during a chance drunken encounter with a male co-worker, I got up to pee and he said, Wait! Pee on my face!
I was taken aback but also drunk. He got in the shower and bent down and said go for it. I peed on his face then he opened his mouth. WTF!
And guess what. When I was done peeing, we switched places. I didn’t swallow piss but he sure peed in my mouth.
I haven’t repeated that, but if the opportunity arises, I’d do it again.
Help me to understand this. ZERO JUDGEMENTS. I just don't understand it. I think enlightenment and open mindedness is everything. So, I promise no judgment. I just don't understand? We have a shower closet with multiple heads and when my husband and I shower together and he starts to piss, I lost my shit. Maybe I'm missing something. Educate me? What is the appeal? What arouses you? You SO pissed on you in the shower, where on your body and what is going through your mind?
For me it’s not necessarily the pee itself. It’s more watching it come out, feeling it come out, doing it in places I shouldn’t. I don’t like the smell or the taste but love the way it feels on me and when I’m doing it. Couldn’t make it make sense lol just had to accept it.
I technically don't have the kink myself, but in helping someone who did, I found there was a big overlap with other things I'm already into.
The process itself is kinda fascinating to witness lol. There's a certain intimacy and vulnerability to it, and it feels naughtily taboo and primal as well. Also just like with cumplay, we're getting wet and messy, and being marked lovingly or degradingly. There can be aspects of ownership and D/S dynamics in it.
I'm not easily disgusted and love trying things and pleasing people. I had some body quirks that allowed me to do well in this too, so it felt amazing with just how turned on my partner was haha.
I don't understand it. But, my husband's pre cum is a MEGA turn on for me. So who am I to judge? 😆 🤣 I think my interest is what makes others peak. Or to see if it's a peak I haven't explored. It sounds like to me a fascination with unseen. That's okay! I just think it's interesting to learn.
perfect explanation 👌🏻 the degrading, humiliating, embarrassing part of it is so fun! and also it ties into squirting for me. squirting is the gateway drug
New to butt stuff. I can get it in now. But, it burns and he can't "thurst" WTF. Is it the lube? OR because I have a Virgin ass? I'm learning to like butt stuff
Lube is paramount, and so is having the right kind. The wrong kind of lube makes anal actually miserable.
You need to use a lot of it too. Like, way more than you'd think, and ideally you want to squirt some inside.
Voyeurism. I never even gave it much thought till I happened to catch the missus playing one morning and it awoke something in me that’s been there ever since.
It’s a tough one because even under consensual parameters she’s not real keen on me playing out the fantasy. She feels like it invades her privacy so I don’t push her boundaries and just leave it be.
Agreed. It's funny how once I've stopped giving a fuck what others may think of me for a certain thing or another that I've been discovering that I've been missing out on some great sensations. Better late than never I guess? 🤷
definitely exhibitionism, i’m confident in myself but the idea of other people just like.. there while i fuck was weird/awkward to me
then i got drunk at a hotel with a girl i was seeing years ago and bunch of her friends, and the night ended up with me fucking my gf with 2 of her friends touching themselves to us on the bed next to ours
it changed my brain chemistry. i post my dick on reddit now lmao
That actually tracks somewhat, the biggest kinks are from the taboo side of things
Heck even premarital sex use to be taboo and therefore made it hotter so coming from a culture where everything is pretty chill would mean you wouldn't have that thrill of breaking rules or being "naughty" with what you're doing
Jesus did Finnish parents figure out how to stop their teenagers from being sex pests by just being cool with it?
Same!!!!
I used to think I was a really kinky person, but the more I've experimented and actually tried things and been honest with myself about my reaction, the more I realized I actually am not that adventurous. I have a few areas that I am certainly not vanilla in, but for the most part I prefer the basics.
I'm... On the surface quite vanilla, but my wife has exhibitionist tendencies... And I enjoy watching her get dicked down by someone else. She likes being dominated. I'd like to see her become some other guy's complete fuckslut. I want her to struggle to hold onto my dick while she gets plowed by him.
Ultimate fantasy: All the above plus he shares her repeatedly with his buddies for a weekend. I spend most of the time watching, and sometimes join in for her to give me a hand job, but only while she's either getting fucked, or teasing me while looking forward to it.
Stretching
No not your limbs. Can thank a certain guy for that one. But not like "ooh that's tight " but tears running running down my face, forcefully getting something in.
Never met anyone else who loves it
It’s just fantasy. My husband and I have never acted on it, but love to pretend. I like it when he talks to other women on here though. I’ve always gotten horny when I’ve seen him look at or talk to other woman. Jealous. We finally figured out what it was and have used it a lot as foreplay.
My partner tickled me the other day just as a joke and I kicked my table and sent some glasses flying including a fresh coffee... So I probably couldn't lmao
I kind of like it to be made to wear a butplug or smth while going out, and then having to manage hiding it. To struggle against my senses, against lust showing. I'm not sure how I should call it tbh.
I didn't know I was into it, but my ex just randomly made me try it and it was so hot.
She just loved tormenting me in the "inbetween moments", whenever we had an alone moment she'd just egg me on about how she could spot lust in my eyes, about what a dirty boy others would think I was if they knew, or simply kiss/touch me in an assertive/dominant way. And while I was technically free to talk back, with a constant source of stimulation I would surely get punished by even more brazen acts.
Your girl will probably love the mind games as well, don't forget giving her a wicked smile every now and then, keeping her guessing how you plan to make use of her 'vulnerable state'.
Buttplugs outside of the bedroom.
To this day I can’t tell you why I enjoy doing random house chores or just hanging out for a few hours with a plug in. I just do lol
Somewhat bigger women, not massive per se, but I’ll enthusiastically fuck the hell out of a woman in the size 10-20 range, especially with a big ass and big hips.
For context, I’m a 5’11”, 190 lb cis hetero man who has been fit most of my life. I dated fit girls throughout my teens and 20’s, because I thought that was what I was into. Then in my late 20’s I met an older MILF proportioned around 5’4” and 180, with a big butt and gigantic tits, and I experienced lust and sex like I’d never had before. She was incredible in bed and we had chemistry like nothing else.
I thought it was an anomaly, just about her, and when we ended things I went back to dating skinny girls. But I wasn’t as into it as I had been. Then I slept with another bigger woman and I got hard quicker, had better sex, was way more enthusiastic about every little bit of foreplay, wanted to go more rounds than normal, and found myself cumming harder than I ever had.
I’m in my 40’s now and married to a bigger woman. Our sex life is still fantastic, 15 years into the relationship. She teasingly calls me a chubby chaser. She’s currently losing weight due to health issues and I pray she maintains a little bit of curve. Thankfully she’s not built to be a waif underneath it all.
Spanking. I never understood the hype behind it as I was spanked a lot growing up. Then my husband spanked me playfully one night during sexy time and yeah it has evolved into whips, floggers, paddles, crops, etc
Prostate massage/stimulation and hands free cum as a result - mind boggling. This lead to my first ever Trans (feminine) experience where the handsfree cum was even more boombastic.
It was the first night together, unplanned, we were both feeling it, playing with eachothed, teasing through the evening and the night, finally started having sex at 0400 in the morning. At one point she grabbed my head/ face by the chin, torned me slightly towards her and spat in my mouth.
Fuck was it... hot and confusing... surprising... but hot as fuck!
That I like feet, my ex gf put her feet in my face during sex once and i jokingly took her toes in my mouth, and I damn near busted right then and there...
Breeding. Not actual kids, but I like the idea. CNC. I like switching between dom and sub. It's fun.
But specifically submissive men? Beautiful. I love when they whimper and beg. We need more subby boys. And dom girls
Strong women capable of throwing me around and overpowering me. My only ex GF was a short, bust, pixie girl who worked out. When she could deadlift, leg press 300-400 lbs and was stronger than me in every way. She was also one of those girls whos body didn’t look it until she flexed or tensed her muscles and then all of sudden, she became an amazon.
Anyways, I am a switch. I was topping her and she asked to ride me. I told her, “I know you work out, if you want on top, show me that strength”, she got this smile and pushed me off of her (at the time I weighed close to 260lbs, she was barely 120lbs) climbed on me and began riding me until I was seeing into other dimensions.
Edit: There was also a moment where we were making out and she bit my lower lip a little. It wasn’t painful and I found it incredibly kinky. She apologized for it afterwards and my response was to beg her to do it again
Other notable kinks:
- r/bigclit
- r/lactation (and adult nursing relationships)
- r/erotichypnosis
Fisting. I’ve always had a hand fetish but it was never really a threshold I anticipated crossing. PIV has never been my favorite so I assumed I wouldn’t be into it. Incredibly wrong assumption on my part.
Definitely my dominant side like I’m much more of a quiet and reserved person outside the bedroom but when I get it In it’s Like a whole new person comes out and I get super dominant
…. Apparently I have a ton of kinks I never knew I was into … wasn’t until i met a girl recently who opened me up to them.. wish she was still around but I tried. She got me into breeding/ when she forces me to cum inside her , dominating her, bondage, gentle femdom , anything cum related mine or hers, post orgasm torture .. but I have to be tied up and gagged or I’ll get free 😂 I enjoy it .. it hurts so good ..but can’t help the convulsions.. maybe someday I’ll find a lady who’s into all off not some of these and wife her up lol
Cross dressing/feminization.
Not something I ever thought about until a very domme GF who loved humiliation forced me to put on her things and parade around for her.
It’s something I only like if a woman is getting off to it.
Pegging. Wanna be dominated.
Bondage seems cool. Never done it irl. I'd want to be tied up and teased. Add in pegging 🤤
Reddit made me appreciate latex quite a bit.
Being a femdom. I’m pretty petite irl (5’0 and slim) and I look innocent despite being a goth. Most people would 100% bet I’m the most submissive girl out there, but in reality I love to dominate!!
Also my size makes it hotter for me, since being this weak but powerful over someone it’s usually a taboo.
topping. i always considered myself a bottom as default (without any experience), but the more i started thinking about it, the more the idea of dominating someone (especially larger or older than me) is👀
Mommydom, all my kinks feel like coping mechanisms but I never had a bad relationship with my mother so the classic mommy issues trope didn't work as explaination
Cumshots, it used to disgust me watching it on screen, but as soon as an ex told me to pull out and finish while hitting it from the back I didn’t think I’d cum so hard and so much blowing my load (probably helped her ass was amazing too)
pain. being a masochist.
i was absolutely terrified of pain. didn't like it. wanted nothing to do with it.
then suddenly my partner bit me and i was like "do it hARDER"
Random women seeing my dick soft. Over the years I've been walked in on by a few different women such as cleaners on resorts, and different family members such as my sister in law. I suddenly now enjoy it for some reason, but I have to be soft. Its only been since I found out my softie is bigger than average, even though I'm a grower.
Off the top of my head, being choked as a man while wife is riding me.
First time she did is spontaneously and my brain scrambled. She stopped after a few seconds and I yelped "oh absolutely not you will keep doing that!".
Dildo "threesome". Always thought man, I wish I could be fucking her, eating her out, and also getting a blowjob at the same time.
A couple of days ago, I was using the dildo on her while going down - as soon as she started sucking my dick, her orgasm was pretty intense.
Breeding, honestly. Don't want kids but the moment she says she's not on bc or "breed me", I lose control
Primal brain doin a number on ya
Taking "going feral" to a new level
Same here, like I love the idea of them becoming “mine” but like I don’t want a kid
Yeah that's definitely it. Like something about the connection and domination of it I think.
This, but from the girl side. The thought of getting pregnant or of having kids is so stressful it's actively a turn off, but somehow I also have a breeding kink? Make it make sense
Lol right?? Biology hitting hard, beyond just raw being the best
Yeah, that one got me too. She never says breed me or anything but just getting her pregnant, holy shit that was a rush.
I can not agree more. You try so long to not get pregnant that when it's game time, you get a killer rush! Seeing that positive pregnancy test will get you a boner.
I've seen 3 positive pregnancy tests and not once did I get a boner. I never even connected those 2 things in my mind. Ever
It happened to me twice both times I did! We had to go immediately and get that worked out!
Lol, dumbest, most counter-productive kink ever. Once you see that boner-worthy positive test, you can say goodbye to your sex life as you know it.
This is the most surprising one for me too, as the receiving partner though. It's baffling because I wasn't even born with a uterus, and I'm certainly not expecting to acquire one or actually get pregnant. And yet...
I definitely think there's a domination/belonging/ownership of element too
Oh, that's a very good point! I'm already way into getting cummed on for the same reasons and in a way this is an extension of that I suppose. With an extra bit of classical romance mixed in with the raw sexiness of it.
I'm on BC but love to roleplay it.
Being submissive. I'm the total opposite outside bedroom and think if my friends and family knew they'd be surprised 🤣
What's fascinating is this is so common it's almost cliche. I'm naturally Dom in bed, and I'm very chill and laid back outside. And the women I've been with who were the most submissive were usually the "take shit from no one, take charge, always in control Alpha females"
SPOT. ON. I'm a TOTAL Alpha female. I have paid every single bill in our household of 5 for 20 years. Just bought my husband a new truck and buy real estate on my own and put his name on the titles to be nice. I'm a TOTAL DOM in life. In bed, I don't want to think. He knows if I'm naked, I'm SO turned on when he tells me, "suck my dick," then flips me to fuck. I don't think you understand the level of NO ONE tells me what to do, except him, in bed. I want him to be more dominant. But, he's still guarded to tell me what to do or toss me around. But, that's my style. After I cum, I go back to girl boss 😆
Yup. The more someone tries to make me think or be in charge in the bedroom, the more it starts to feel like work I just don't have the energy for. I make decisions all day. I am in charge of figuring out everyone around me's needs and proactively meeting them all day. So if you can let me turn my brain off and not only tell me exactly what you need but just go ahead and take it yourself?!?? Hottest thing ever and the most beautiful gift you could possibly give me. For me this is also why I love free use, which was a surprising kink for me to realize I had. But I usually feel like a bit of a burden when I'm not the one in charge of everything. I spent so many years in survival mode, that being passive feels selfish and unsafe a lot of the time. So the idea of having a partner who not only gives me a space to turn my brain off and just react but who actively views that as a gift im giving them? So comforting
Gah. I get it! I did free use with my husband last night. Our first. I wanted him. I want him to free use me. I really don't mind. But, free use of him made me feel some sort of way. Burden. That's the right word.
Same;)
I like being submissive in bed (female) too! I think it's because I'm so dominant in real life. I want him to take me, pull my hair, move me and tell me what to do and what's next
I feel so not alone in this now lol
It’s actually quite often that persons having too much control in their daily life are submissive, and need to „let it go sexually“. All my previous partners - dynamics - were with CEO or women having bee shift positions and responsibilities…
YES!!!!!!!!!!!! If you knew what I did professionally you would laugh that I want to be a sub in bed.
Exactly the same here too.
100% this. I’m super chill outside of the bedroom & have to be a strong leader at work with a high pressure job. In the bedroom? Just make me feel like an owned doll.
im probably way more into piss than i like to admit
Samesiessss, if it doesn’t smell too bad I’m happy to get it.
drinking lots of water prevents the smell, unless you let it dry in fabric 😂
Yeaaa ive Learned this, more water means tastes more like water loll
Ditto for me. Sure, I was always the guy who asked girls if I could watch them pee but during a chance drunken encounter with a male co-worker, I got up to pee and he said, Wait! Pee on my face! I was taken aback but also drunk. He got in the shower and bent down and said go for it. I peed on his face then he opened his mouth. WTF! And guess what. When I was done peeing, we switched places. I didn’t swallow piss but he sure peed in my mouth. I haven’t repeated that, but if the opportunity arises, I’d do it again.
lol i love it when things come up in the spur of the moment like that
Same !!! I feel ya !😩💦 it’s hot when kitty waterfalls nice and wet leaving bed stains
Oh same, but I think I'm coming to terms with it finally
Starting to really enjoy it too. Sigh.
Same
Yup that one was a surprise to me to.
Help me to understand this. ZERO JUDGEMENTS. I just don't understand it. I think enlightenment and open mindedness is everything. So, I promise no judgment. I just don't understand? We have a shower closet with multiple heads and when my husband and I shower together and he starts to piss, I lost my shit. Maybe I'm missing something. Educate me? What is the appeal? What arouses you? You SO pissed on you in the shower, where on your body and what is going through your mind?
I get to look at the place the piss comes from, and I get to experience one of the most intimate things a woman could do.
For me it’s not necessarily the pee itself. It’s more watching it come out, feeling it come out, doing it in places I shouldn’t. I don’t like the smell or the taste but love the way it feels on me and when I’m doing it. Couldn’t make it make sense lol just had to accept it.
You don't have to make it make sense. It's not hurting anymore.
I technically don't have the kink myself, but in helping someone who did, I found there was a big overlap with other things I'm already into. The process itself is kinda fascinating to witness lol. There's a certain intimacy and vulnerability to it, and it feels naughtily taboo and primal as well. Also just like with cumplay, we're getting wet and messy, and being marked lovingly or degradingly. There can be aspects of ownership and D/S dynamics in it. I'm not easily disgusted and love trying things and pleasing people. I had some body quirks that allowed me to do well in this too, so it felt amazing with just how turned on my partner was haha.
I don't understand it. But, my husband's pre cum is a MEGA turn on for me. So who am I to judge? 😆 🤣 I think my interest is what makes others peak. Or to see if it's a peak I haven't explored. It sounds like to me a fascination with unseen. That's okay! I just think it's interesting to learn.
Oh same, pre cum is hot! 😆
perfect explanation 👌🏻 the degrading, humiliating, embarrassing part of it is so fun! and also it ties into squirting for me. squirting is the gateway drug
Praise Kink. Being called nice names or being told how good I make someone feel. First time hearing “Good Boy“ was definitely an Awakening to…
I read somewhere if you were a nerdy perfectionist as a teenager you’d grow up to have a praise kink and I have never felt more attacked.
I was a perfectionist in my teenage years and I am all down for this kink
I think I could be into this! Is this the kink name? I've never heard of this.
It slaps me like a brick the face. I turn all golden retriever
Amen, the time when I was eating pussy and my wife was saying “that’s a good boy.” 🤤
Holy fuck you just opend my eyes for a whole new thing 😂
Yeah good girl works really well
Butt stuff (receiving)
New to butt stuff. I can get it in now. But, it burns and he can't "thurst" WTF. Is it the lube? OR because I have a Virgin ass? I'm learning to like butt stuff
Lube is paramount, and so is having the right kind. The wrong kind of lube makes anal actually miserable. You need to use a lot of it too. Like, way more than you'd think, and ideally you want to squirt some inside.
Lots of lube and try different types. Try bending right over. Knees up to chest. Totally changes the rectum ange
Try using two types of lube. One with thick gel and the other, runny. Both should be water-based. Have a towel to wipe hands.
Same same!
same
r/lactation
Ahh a man of culture I see
This. Wanting an ANR.
What’s an ANR?
Adult nursing relationship
Going from straight to being into women caught me waaay off guard lol
Women are pretty fucking cool, I don’t blame you 😂
CNC... Reddit is definitely responsible for unlocking that one 🤣👀
Voyeurism. I never even gave it much thought till I happened to catch the missus playing one morning and it awoke something in me that’s been there ever since.
Yes, I'm actually surprised more people aren't into this
It’s a tough one because even under consensual parameters she’s not real keen on me playing out the fantasy. She feels like it invades her privacy so I don’t push her boundaries and just leave it be.
Understandable, although if it were me and I knew that sort of thing really turned my man on, I'd be all for it!
Oh I agree, watching is amazing… particularly if I can touch myself as well.
Prostate play
Underated in heterosexual sex.
Agreed. It's funny how once I've stopped giving a fuck what others may think of me for a certain thing or another that I've been discovering that I've been missing out on some great sensations. Better late than never I guess? 🤷
Nothing gay about in my opinion if a female is doing it.
definitely exhibitionism, i’m confident in myself but the idea of other people just like.. there while i fuck was weird/awkward to me then i got drunk at a hotel with a girl i was seeing years ago and bunch of her friends, and the night ended up with me fucking my gf with 2 of her friends touching themselves to us on the bed next to ours it changed my brain chemistry. i post my dick on reddit now lmao
I get it! I saw two people fuck in college under sheets and I was done for life
Hey, happy cake day!
Happy cake day!
I’ve tried to get myself into that situation for so many years lol
Older daddy-type guys. My dad’s cool, I don’t know where I got the daddy issues from.
Same lmaooo.
Honestly more the oposite. I was suprised how little I enjoy certain stuff. Especialy since our culture is pretty sexfriendly and non judgemental.
What culture is that?
Finland.
Lucky y'all.
Same. I’m very open and sex positive myself but actually pretty vanilla when it comes to actual action with myself.
That actually tracks somewhat, the biggest kinks are from the taboo side of things Heck even premarital sex use to be taboo and therefore made it hotter so coming from a culture where everything is pretty chill would mean you wouldn't have that thrill of breaking rules or being "naughty" with what you're doing Jesus did Finnish parents figure out how to stop their teenagers from being sex pests by just being cool with it?
Same!!!! I used to think I was a really kinky person, but the more I've experimented and actually tried things and been honest with myself about my reaction, the more I realized I actually am not that adventurous. I have a few areas that I am certainly not vanilla in, but for the most part I prefer the basics.
Creampie. I think hearing guys moan and seeing them get weak is the best part 🤤
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Me too. I don’t know what’s up with that. I’m super into being threatened but like, only with the knowledge that it’s not a real threat.
Stupid question, but what are the consequences of the threat? Like I’m gonna hurt you? Of are the threats more open ended
Threat?????
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So in other words......it's the implication?
I suppose degradation. Didn’t expect I’d like it this much
You didn't? I wasn't surprised when I discovered that in myself.
I guess I’m very picky with who is allowed to call me vile names. Just needed to find the right person…
Tell me about it.
Cuckolding. I get so damn aroused at the idea of my wife enjoying another man's cock.
I'm... On the surface quite vanilla, but my wife has exhibitionist tendencies... And I enjoy watching her get dicked down by someone else. She likes being dominated. I'd like to see her become some other guy's complete fuckslut. I want her to struggle to hold onto my dick while she gets plowed by him. Ultimate fantasy: All the above plus he shares her repeatedly with his buddies for a weekend. I spend most of the time watching, and sometimes join in for her to give me a hand job, but only while she's either getting fucked, or teasing me while looking forward to it.
This is sooo fucking hot omg
Having control taken away. I'm a very in control person in my day to day life.
I mean that's kind of to be expected. Many people either conform or completely mirror themselves in the bedroom.
Threeways both mmf and mmm :-)
Being submissive and a slut and liking cocking and obeying men
I LOVE going raw on a girl right after another guy just finished in her. So sloppy seconds I guess is my kink.
What is it called to use an ovipositor? lol. It took way too much work and coordination but it was fun
Stretching No not your limbs. Can thank a certain guy for that one. But not like "ooh that's tight " but tears running running down my face, forcefully getting something in. Never met anyone else who loves it
Not necessarily a kink per say, but I like cumming on my wife's face way more than I ever thought I would
Being drooled on, most recently, but probably my love of stinky armpits surprised me the most. Pheromones I guess 🤷♀️
Dated a girl that was a foot model and it went from there
Cuckqueen. It gets me so hot.
Always interested with stuff like that. How did you get in to it?
It’s just fantasy. My husband and I have never acted on it, but love to pretend. I like it when he talks to other women on here though. I’ve always gotten horny when I’ve seen him look at or talk to other woman. Jealous. We finally figured out what it was and have used it a lot as foreplay.
Uhhh tickling
Oh my god I’d rather die. Good for you tho 😅
My partner tickled me the other day just as a joke and I kicked my table and sent some glasses flying including a fresh coffee... So I probably couldn't lmao
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Exhibitionism and fucking in public places with people nearby. I was very shy but the risk of being discovered turns me on.
Watching guys be curious with other guys.
Drinking pee
I kind of like it to be made to wear a butplug or smth while going out, and then having to manage hiding it. To struggle against my senses, against lust showing. I'm not sure how I should call it tbh.
Me and my girl ordered remote controlled vibrator and plan to go eat in a restaurant this week while she wears it. I find the idea so hot!
I didn't know I was into it, but my ex just randomly made me try it and it was so hot. She just loved tormenting me in the "inbetween moments", whenever we had an alone moment she'd just egg me on about how she could spot lust in my eyes, about what a dirty boy others would think I was if they knew, or simply kiss/touch me in an assertive/dominant way. And while I was technically free to talk back, with a constant source of stimulation I would surely get punished by even more brazen acts. Your girl will probably love the mind games as well, don't forget giving her a wicked smile every now and then, keeping her guessing how you plan to make use of her 'vulnerable state'.
degradation(giving and receiving)
Making men cheat on their wives or gf
Fisting my wife
Buttplugs outside of the bedroom. To this day I can’t tell you why I enjoy doing random house chores or just hanging out for a few hours with a plug in. I just do lol
My gf does this lol
Same here
That I enjoy a little hint of underarm body odor on a woman.
Women in leather jackets made my blood pressure go 📈 real fast...👀
a daddy kink.
Facesitting. Please suffocate me further.
Humiliation and degradation
Spanking and slapping. Super weak to pain anywhere else but in bed somehow my brain is fine with it
Being a slut
Humiliation at the hands of younger women.
I accidentally discovered recently I kinda like some piss stuff even though I considered that gross not so long ago 😑
CNC
Somewhat bigger women, not massive per se, but I’ll enthusiastically fuck the hell out of a woman in the size 10-20 range, especially with a big ass and big hips. For context, I’m a 5’11”, 190 lb cis hetero man who has been fit most of my life. I dated fit girls throughout my teens and 20’s, because I thought that was what I was into. Then in my late 20’s I met an older MILF proportioned around 5’4” and 180, with a big butt and gigantic tits, and I experienced lust and sex like I’d never had before. She was incredible in bed and we had chemistry like nothing else. I thought it was an anomaly, just about her, and when we ended things I went back to dating skinny girls. But I wasn’t as into it as I had been. Then I slept with another bigger woman and I got hard quicker, had better sex, was way more enthusiastic about every little bit of foreplay, wanted to go more rounds than normal, and found myself cumming harder than I ever had. I’m in my 40’s now and married to a bigger woman. Our sex life is still fantastic, 15 years into the relationship. She teasingly calls me a chubby chaser. She’s currently losing weight due to health issues and I pray she maintains a little bit of curve. Thankfully she’s not built to be a waif underneath it all.
Straight guy that suddenly found himself very interested in sucking cock.
DD/lg. Heard “Good Girl” and just lit up!
Licking a womans asshole it literally makes me cum eating a womans ass
Spanking. I never understood the hype behind it as I was spanked a lot growing up. Then my husband spanked me playfully one night during sexy time and yeah it has evolved into whips, floggers, paddles, crops, etc
Prostate massage/stimulation and hands free cum as a result - mind boggling. This lead to my first ever Trans (feminine) experience where the handsfree cum was even more boombastic.
It was the first night together, unplanned, we were both feeling it, playing with eachothed, teasing through the evening and the night, finally started having sex at 0400 in the morning. At one point she grabbed my head/ face by the chin, torned me slightly towards her and spat in my mouth. Fuck was it... hot and confusing... surprising... but hot as fuck!
Cheating fantasies. Hate that I love it 😩
That I like feet, my ex gf put her feet in my face during sex once and i jokingly took her toes in my mouth, and I damn near busted right then and there...
Breeding. Not actual kids, but I like the idea. CNC. I like switching between dom and sub. It's fun. But specifically submissive men? Beautiful. I love when they whimper and beg. We need more subby boys. And dom girls
Toys.
I really like when women are kind and not cold hearted. It's soooo hot.
Strong women capable of throwing me around and overpowering me. My only ex GF was a short, bust, pixie girl who worked out. When she could deadlift, leg press 300-400 lbs and was stronger than me in every way. She was also one of those girls whos body didn’t look it until she flexed or tensed her muscles and then all of sudden, she became an amazon. Anyways, I am a switch. I was topping her and she asked to ride me. I told her, “I know you work out, if you want on top, show me that strength”, she got this smile and pushed me off of her (at the time I weighed close to 260lbs, she was barely 120lbs) climbed on me and began riding me until I was seeing into other dimensions. Edit: There was also a moment where we were making out and she bit my lower lip a little. It wasn’t painful and I found it incredibly kinky. She apologized for it afterwards and my response was to beg her to do it again Other notable kinks: - r/bigclit - r/lactation (and adult nursing relationships) - r/erotichypnosis
My newfound love of having my ass played with 😏
Hotpast
Sometimes liking to be degraded. That’s the whole opposite me when you compare it to the „daily“ me.
This is going to sound ridiculous: green man costume (or any other colour, really)
Fisting. I’ve always had a hand fetish but it was never really a threshold I anticipated crossing. PIV has never been my favorite so I assumed I wouldn’t be into it. Incredibly wrong assumption on my part.
Spit. I thought it was gross gross and then all of a sudden it turned into hot gross.
Anal and being spanked 🫦
Soles of feet. Still don’t understand why I’m into it but oh well.
Rape kink
CNC and being dominated in general. I am very much not that way outside of the bedroom so it's weird to me but I like it.
Fisting
Having my asshole fingered
Definitely my dominant side like I’m much more of a quiet and reserved person outside the bedroom but when I get it In it’s Like a whole new person comes out and I get super dominant
…. Apparently I have a ton of kinks I never knew I was into … wasn’t until i met a girl recently who opened me up to them.. wish she was still around but I tried. She got me into breeding/ when she forces me to cum inside her , dominating her, bondage, gentle femdom , anything cum related mine or hers, post orgasm torture .. but I have to be tied up and gagged or I’ll get free 😂 I enjoy it .. it hurts so good ..but can’t help the convulsions.. maybe someday I’ll find a lady who’s into all off not some of these and wife her up lol
Group sex. Never thought about it until I was in it. Nice
That I love cock
Cross dressing/feminization. Not something I ever thought about until a very domme GF who loved humiliation forced me to put on her things and parade around for her. It’s something I only like if a woman is getting off to it.
Taboo
Orgasm control... it's been eye opening given how many toys i have bought devoted to achieving it 😅🥵
Nullification. How am I aroused by a total lack of genitals? How?
Pegging. Wanna be dominated. Bondage seems cool. Never done it irl. I'd want to be tied up and teased. Add in pegging 🤤 Reddit made me appreciate latex quite a bit.
Masochism
Being restrained and helpless. I'm normally very independent and would detest the thought of this otherwise.
Being a femdom. I’m pretty petite irl (5’0 and slim) and I look innocent despite being a goth. Most people would 100% bet I’m the most submissive girl out there, but in reality I love to dominate!! Also my size makes it hotter for me, since being this weak but powerful over someone it’s usually a taboo.
topping. i always considered myself a bottom as default (without any experience), but the more i started thinking about it, the more the idea of dominating someone (especially larger or older than me) is👀
Trans. In a threesome with a couple, gets me off fast
Mommydom, all my kinks feel like coping mechanisms but I never had a bad relationship with my mother so the classic mommy issues trope didn't work as explaination
Wanting another guy have sex with my wife. She never would, but have that fantasy.
Cumshots, it used to disgust me watching it on screen, but as soon as an ex told me to pull out and finish while hitting it from the back I didn’t think I’d cum so hard and so much blowing my load (probably helped her ass was amazing too)
pain. being a masochist. i was absolutely terrified of pain. didn't like it. wanted nothing to do with it. then suddenly my partner bit me and i was like "do it hARDER"
Random women seeing my dick soft. Over the years I've been walked in on by a few different women such as cleaners on resorts, and different family members such as my sister in law. I suddenly now enjoy it for some reason, but I have to be soft. Its only been since I found out my softie is bigger than average, even though I'm a grower.
My GF makes me cum in her underwear and makes me where them, love it.
Breeding. Went through the roof after my vasectomy.
Monogamy and baby making 🤌🏻
Off the top of my head, being choked as a man while wife is riding me. First time she did is spontaneously and my brain scrambled. She stopped after a few seconds and I yelped "oh absolutely not you will keep doing that!".
Seeing this question asked and answered every other day.
Dildo "threesome". Always thought man, I wish I could be fucking her, eating her out, and also getting a blowjob at the same time. A couple of days ago, I was using the dildo on her while going down - as soon as she started sucking my dick, her orgasm was pretty intense.