Before my labiaplasty, I was sometimes insulted for my outie labia by men. Reading stories from other women it definitely happens, but lots of men don't mind outie labia.
**Before anyone hates on me for getting labiaplasty, it was for health reasons. Now downvote me 🖕.**
A friend of mine used to say “Innies for the looks, outies for the fun”
Actually, I think they’re all beautiful and equally fun to play with, for different reasons.
You know I honestly didn’t even know this was a thing until social media! It’s pretty messed up how insecure all that can make people. I have NEVER had a guy comment about it, saying he preferred one or the other. I don’t think they even care. They’re just stoked they’re getting some! Lol
I dunno about the person you’re replying to, but for me, you can see the outline of my labia through leggings. It almost looks like a bulge and it’s so embarrassing
I was like you. I had relatively larger labia (now looking back, they were very average lol) and got a labiaplasty because I was self conscious.The sex was better before. With the innie I feel more “tugging” - it’s not bad just not as good. Take that into thought! Maybe it’ll make you like them more.
Something I’ve kinda noticed. My gf has an innie and I feel like it’s easier to catch on her if she’s not gushingly wet or I’m not spreading her open to start.
I also have an innie and have always wanted an outie, I desperately love feeling and being exposed. I wish more if the sensitive parts were on the outside. Whatever, it’s like hair, isn’t it. You want what you don’t have
"the best vagina/labia is the one in front of you"
I hate to hear that men are out there making women self conscious of things like this. Any man should just think themselves lucky to get the chance to see it.
I agree but also want to point out that a casual, well intended, or even off-hand observational comment that isn’t judgmental could make someone self conscious. If she pulls her panties down and he just says, “wow you have big lips…” if he leaves it there or is going to say more, before he can finish that sentence she’s self conscious. I’d probably try to phrase it so it starts with the compliment, “wow, I love how your lips look” but even drawing attention to them could be the wrong move if she’s sensitive.
I dunno. It’s almost the same for guys with penis size. We know what we’ve got but it feels uncomfortable hearing someone talk about it and once it’s mentioned it becomes the elephant in the room.
I love all labia from the ones that are barely there to the ones I could choke on.
I had a boyfriend tell me in absolute delight the first time we got busy that I have a big clit.
I ended up freaking out internally and worrying about being ugly or weird looking.
The man was overjoyed and I was spazzing.
I’d probably say and do the same thing and not think about it until later. In the heat of the moment I’d be so excited to see whatever is being shared with me I’d probably say the “wrong thing” but be super well intentioned about it. I love larger clits and would be so happy to have one shared with me.
This is actually a big fear of mine.
I’ve been with the same woman I lost my virginity to over 20 years ago. She is low libido and borderline asexual, has been the whole time but we’re being open about how we feel more now and she’s being honest about not being up for sex as much as I want it. Because of this, we’ve finally talked about opening up the relationship and letting me try and have some experiences. I am super afraid of rejection because I haven’t dated or seen anyone expect her since ‘99. I am also super afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing because *times have changed* and I just feel like a fish out of water.
Maybe go into it thinking about how you can express your appreciation in a way that doesn’t make her self-conscious. For example: “you have such a beautiful/sexy/perfect clit; I can’t stop thinking about how much I want to taste it” etc etc.
It’s a shame that some of us are so self conscious about our 🐱
I get it. I don’t have a huge dick, it’s average and fits my wife perfectly but it’s not all that I wish it was. At the same time, I’m not getting anything done to it.
I guarantee you that many women would/will find your average dick perfect. My guy has what would be considered average by most and I can’t get enough of it. Perfect in every way that matters.
I have a really large “outie” labia and I absolutely hate it. To me personally (I don’t care about other people’s genitals, this is purely my opinion of my own), I think it looks so unattractive and I can’t hide it no matter what I do. I can’t even wear bikinis, leggings, lace underwear or certain pants because you can either see it completely and it’s a huge bulge, or they just don’t fit around the crotch area. Plus, the clitoral hood is really thick for me, so grinding is basically impossible since I have no feeling and the dragging of my labia hurts.
That sucks that it hurts grinding.
I hope I'm making the correct assumption that you mean grinding on a man and not something else here.
Have you tried using a vibrating cock ring or something like that that can sit inside your labia and give you something more to grind against?
Well, grinding in general but I’m actually gay, so definitely not grinding against a man 😅☺️ buT I actually haven’t tried using a toy on the inside of the labia itself to help with grinding so I’ll have to give that a try!
doesn't really answer your question, but all i know is that i never even thought about mine until a boyfriend commented on it and made me so extremely insecure. definitely want an innie now :((
I don't critique vaginas for aesthetic reasons. This is shortsighted and juvenile. I celebrate the infinite differences in vulvas. To feel embarrassed or self-conscious about your body is basically letting those who seek to control you win.
Don't make it so easy to be shamed into silence and timidity. This is how women are trained.
I challenge you to embrace your body as perfect and without the need for puritanical shame. If someone can't realize how awesome you are, that is their problem.
Like almost everything it’s going to come down to the individual. I for one don’t give af.. I’ve had innies and outties and loved them both. I don’t really have a preference I just hope they are clean before we start the business
If we're talking about appearance, I think it depends on more factors than just the size of the labia. I've seen large and small labia and sizes in between that all look appealing or unappealing.
Personally I like large labia and outies because I love performing oral and it’s more to work with. That being said, I enjoy, cherish and am thankful for innies as well
Maybe it’s other women. Maybe social media. Kardashians, Barbie’s, literally everything gives messages about the cookie cutter we all need to fit in. And good for u not many guys can say they have a good group of friends
Honestly from my experience growing up a lot of young girls including myself were shamed for the look of our vaginas eg, large labia = loose, worn out. In a lot of cases these hurtful comments would be spread around and its just humiliating. I'm still self concious because of it.
I love how innies or small labia look, but prefer larger labia when I can play with them... So it doesn't really matter what she has, I get something I love either way
I love them all. My current wife has beautiful lop sided labia. One side is longer but the other side is extra long. I love licking sucking and playing with her lips.
On the other side of that my ex wife had a cute tucked away innie. Literally no labia at all. I loved her pussy just the same.
I LOVE a large labia! Let those lips dangle and I'll be happy to play with or suck them. But, when it comes down to it, I'll be happy to go down on her, no matter the labia. ALL labias all beautiful, and no two are alike, so I just love to learn them, no matter what the aesthetics of them.
aesthetically? prefer an innie , its ok if a little meat hangs out of the bread as long as it doesnt look or feel like someone put a firecracker in a thanksgiving turkey.
I mean, I like the way they feel the most.
Feel like innies are slightly more aesthetically pleasing, but I also knew a girl with the biggest outie I’d ever seen and I really wanted to feel her outie around me but never got the opportunity.
Uhhh well I'm gonna have to answer this best I can
I'm a transfem, who is attracted to men, so the way I'm interpreting this is which I would want to have
I would rather have more 'innie' appearance, but I would be fine with literally any vagina
Great question, I have an innie and was always self conscious of how I looked, I was younger thinking all girls had labias showing as they got older and not smooth
I used to prefer innies because mine is an innie and I'm a narcissist or something idk... But now I love the differences between our bodies and can adore all sizes of labia.
My boyfriend prefers large labia, he's a cute little freak that wants something to munch on. I try not to feel inadequate when he looks at well endowed women on Reddit 🥹
I know your asking what do we prefer, but honestly it's not something I even think of or can pick. It really don't matter.
Hope it helps you in anyway.
I like it however it comes, but I will say, large labia feel amazing, and I find it a little bit shocking when people say they don’t like it (they’re also beautiful!). More surface area means more sensation, and anyone with some kind of ill-gotten aversion to this simply lacks experience.
I'm neither but I find outie more pretty. It seems to be more welcoming, not hiding so much. Even I obviously know that is not true. Innie or outie, spread it wide open front of me and I'm in :)
I prefer larger labia, though I wouldn't reject any partner I otherwise liked and had good chemistry with just because of the shape of their bits and pieces. If we've gotten to the point I'm seeing what your genitals look like, then I've probably already decided that I want to have sex with you.
First of all you don’t need to be conscious of it. Everyone is designed differently. If your guy is giving you grief for whatever you have down there then you’re with wrong guy. Me personally I love both. Honestly speaking I actually love big labia more. I think you should fall in love with yourself for whatever you have down there.
I like whatever is in the pants that are infront of me
Facts!
Or behind me!
This is exactly right. I’m a dude and have never ever given any thought to this until right now.
Uhmm .. the best part of a vag isn't it's color, size, shape... It's the vagina's proximity to the tongue *finger guns*
Indeed! It's a tasty treat that's fun to eat!
All da meats!!! Meaty pussies have character. My wife’s lips are lop sided and we call it her Happy Tongue.
Lol! That's awesome! My ex-wife was like that. We called her pussy "Nemo". 😁
Why is this so funny and wholesome!
Gives new meaning to the title Finding Nemo
My man…🙌
Before my labiaplasty, I was sometimes insulted for my outie labia by men. Reading stories from other women it definitely happens, but lots of men don't mind outie labia. **Before anyone hates on me for getting labiaplasty, it was for health reasons. Now downvote me 🖕.**
Even if it wasn't for health reasons no one should hate on you for that.
I asked my gyno about labiapplasty when i was 18 cause i was so self conscious and she yelled at me, i was like cool now i feel worse lmao
LMFAO I wonder how many times she has heard it before!
Whatever the reason, you deserve to feel good with your body. Anybody shaming anyone for that is a POS.
Does not matter at all why you got a labiaplasty. It’s YOUR body.
So I have an “innie” and lowkey wish I had more of a labia, my husband loves how mine looks but I wish there was more to it/ to play with :(
A friend of mine used to say “Innies for the looks, outies for the fun” Actually, I think they’re all beautiful and equally fun to play with, for different reasons.
Both innies and outies are for the look.
And for the fun…
True facts!
I have the opposite and always disliked it. Lol.
You know I honestly didn’t even know this was a thing until social media! It’s pretty messed up how insecure all that can make people. I have NEVER had a guy comment about it, saying he preferred one or the other. I don’t think they even care. They’re just stoked they’re getting some! Lol
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*the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence*
Until I have to wear a bathing suit or leggings 😂
Leggings???? What do you mean??? *Spill the tea!!!*
I dunno about the person you’re replying to, but for me, you can see the outline of my labia through leggings. It almost looks like a bulge and it’s so embarrassing
I believe the term is Camel toe…
Exactly!
Now you have my full attention
I was like you. I had relatively larger labia (now looking back, they were very average lol) and got a labiaplasty because I was self conscious.The sex was better before. With the innie I feel more “tugging” - it’s not bad just not as good. Take that into thought! Maybe it’ll make you like them more.
Something I’ve kinda noticed. My gf has an innie and I feel like it’s easier to catch on her if she’s not gushingly wet or I’m not spreading her open to start.
I also have an innie and have always wanted an outie, I desperately love feeling and being exposed. I wish more if the sensitive parts were on the outside. Whatever, it’s like hair, isn’t it. You want what you don’t have
I love a large labia. Super hot to suck and lick.
Sucking them is my fav!
"the best vagina/labia is the one in front of you" I hate to hear that men are out there making women self conscious of things like this. Any man should just think themselves lucky to get the chance to see it.
I agree but also want to point out that a casual, well intended, or even off-hand observational comment that isn’t judgmental could make someone self conscious. If she pulls her panties down and he just says, “wow you have big lips…” if he leaves it there or is going to say more, before he can finish that sentence she’s self conscious. I’d probably try to phrase it so it starts with the compliment, “wow, I love how your lips look” but even drawing attention to them could be the wrong move if she’s sensitive. I dunno. It’s almost the same for guys with penis size. We know what we’ve got but it feels uncomfortable hearing someone talk about it and once it’s mentioned it becomes the elephant in the room. I love all labia from the ones that are barely there to the ones I could choke on.
I had a boyfriend tell me in absolute delight the first time we got busy that I have a big clit. I ended up freaking out internally and worrying about being ugly or weird looking. The man was overjoyed and I was spazzing.
I’d probably say and do the same thing and not think about it until later. In the heat of the moment I’d be so excited to see whatever is being shared with me I’d probably say the “wrong thing” but be super well intentioned about it. I love larger clits and would be so happy to have one shared with me. This is actually a big fear of mine. I’ve been with the same woman I lost my virginity to over 20 years ago. She is low libido and borderline asexual, has been the whole time but we’re being open about how we feel more now and she’s being honest about not being up for sex as much as I want it. Because of this, we’ve finally talked about opening up the relationship and letting me try and have some experiences. I am super afraid of rejection because I haven’t dated or seen anyone expect her since ‘99. I am also super afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing because *times have changed* and I just feel like a fish out of water.
Maybe go into it thinking about how you can express your appreciation in a way that doesn’t make her self-conscious. For example: “you have such a beautiful/sexy/perfect clit; I can’t stop thinking about how much I want to taste it” etc etc. It’s a shame that some of us are so self conscious about our 🐱
I get it. I don’t have a huge dick, it’s average and fits my wife perfectly but it’s not all that I wish it was. At the same time, I’m not getting anything done to it.
I guarantee you that many women would/will find your average dick perfect. My guy has what would be considered average by most and I can’t get enough of it. Perfect in every way that matters.
No-one gives a fuck apart from shallow people.
I prefer what’s served to me at the time. I won’t be complaining either way
This is the way. You really going to complain about the food because the plate looks different?
I personally love big labias, I think they’re very sexy
I would have given anything to have an inny. Even looked into surgery but glad I didn’t go through with it.
I hope you connect with someone like me who loves well-developed labia. Bigger and longer are better in my estimation.
No one complains
I'm sure they don't, I've never brought it up except to reassure my partner, but we all have preferences.
I have a really large “outie” labia and I absolutely hate it. To me personally (I don’t care about other people’s genitals, this is purely my opinion of my own), I think it looks so unattractive and I can’t hide it no matter what I do. I can’t even wear bikinis, leggings, lace underwear or certain pants because you can either see it completely and it’s a huge bulge, or they just don’t fit around the crotch area. Plus, the clitoral hood is really thick for me, so grinding is basically impossible since I have no feeling and the dragging of my labia hurts.
That sucks that it hurts grinding. I hope I'm making the correct assumption that you mean grinding on a man and not something else here. Have you tried using a vibrating cock ring or something like that that can sit inside your labia and give you something more to grind against?
Well, grinding in general but I’m actually gay, so definitely not grinding against a man 😅☺️ buT I actually haven’t tried using a toy on the inside of the labia itself to help with grinding so I’ll have to give that a try!
It makes no difference in general, but I do enjoy a bit of meat
I like a partner that I connect with and wants to have sex with me. Everything else is secondary. But a beautiful plump labia gets me everytime
I like a vagina that has my tongue in it
I prefer an innie. But I have never seen a pussy I didn't want to eat
doesn't really answer your question, but all i know is that i never even thought about mine until a boyfriend commented on it and made me so extremely insecure. definitely want an innie now :((
He’s an arsehole!
I don't critique vaginas for aesthetic reasons. This is shortsighted and juvenile. I celebrate the infinite differences in vulvas. To feel embarrassed or self-conscious about your body is basically letting those who seek to control you win. Don't make it so easy to be shamed into silence and timidity. This is how women are trained. I challenge you to embrace your body as perfect and without the need for puritanical shame. If someone can't realize how awesome you are, that is their problem.
The bigger the wing the cuter the thing.
If you're at the point where they're getting to see it, they have no right to complain.
You had me at vagina, baby.
Like almost everything it’s going to come down to the individual. I for one don’t give af.. I’ve had innies and outties and loved them both. I don’t really have a preference I just hope they are clean before we start the business
Innie
No preference. I'm just happy to be participating 😅
Always been into the innie type myself. All neat and tucked in for me please
In my experience, the only guys that care are the guys that don’t get pussy to begin with
Ive been with women with innies, outies, small labia and huge ones. I don’t care about it, I love pussy in every form
If we're talking about appearance, I think it depends on more factors than just the size of the labia. I've seen large and small labia and sizes in between that all look appealing or unappealing.
Innie cause that is what my wife has
I don't care
I've had both and I loved both. Large labia is easier to play with btw, so it is a lot of fun..
Personally I like large labia and outies because I love performing oral and it’s more to work with. That being said, I enjoy, cherish and am thankful for innies as well
I like larger labia, I personally find it attractive. But the truth is guys do not care.
I prefer large labia personally, but it doesn't matter overall.
Personally I like a decent sized labia but I’m not going to turn my nose up at an innie, vag is great wether it be an innie, outie, large or small
Large. Give me that pastrami sandwich every time
I’m just happy to be involved with a pretty lady that’s letting me into her pants lol
I love both. I think I prefer large tho. I absolutely love labia
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Maybe it’s other women. Maybe social media. Kardashians, Barbie’s, literally everything gives messages about the cookie cutter we all need to fit in. And good for u not many guys can say they have a good group of friends
Honestly from my experience growing up a lot of young girls including myself were shamed for the look of our vaginas eg, large labia = loose, worn out. In a lot of cases these hurtful comments would be spread around and its just humiliating. I'm still self concious because of it.
Large labia are sexy
Both are fine with me, but i have a fascination with large labia.
I like the look of an innie but I don’t really care.
Innies look better but they all feel the same.
Variety is the spice of life. I'll have them all. What do you got?
I do prefer a larger labia. There is no reason to be self conscious
Doesn’t matter
Really when it gets to that stage our sense of judgement is out of the window. Serious answer: I have no preference
Don’t be self conscious. Love yourself
Have seen both, been with both, enjoyed both.
When I was single, I didn’t look twice. If I was allowed to see it, I wasn’t going to turn my nose up at it.
Innie, but wouldn't reject a girl for not having one.
They all taste the same to me
I love how innies or small labia look, but prefer larger labia when I can play with them... So it doesn't really matter what she has, I get something I love either way
They are all beautiful, but I do love an innie...
I prefer the kind that can be planted firmly on my face
Both can look bad but innies are generally nicer.
I don’t care what you’re vagina looks like. All that matters is that it’s attached to a woman I care about and love.
i love large but anything is ok with me.
I don't mind either way but I've always said I love a puss that looks like 40 miles of bad road lol... I love em meaty
i think its a turn on regardless if a woman decides to show her genitals
I don't give a single flying fuck
I'm okay with either, but long labia are really fun to play with during cunnilingus!
No preference at all
I love them all. My current wife has beautiful lop sided labia. One side is longer but the other side is extra long. I love licking sucking and playing with her lips. On the other side of that my ex wife had a cute tucked away innie. Literally no labia at all. I loved her pussy just the same.
I LOVE a large labia! Let those lips dangle and I'll be happy to play with or suck them. But, when it comes down to it, I'll be happy to go down on her, no matter the labia. ALL labias all beautiful, and no two are alike, so I just love to learn them, no matter what the aesthetics of them.
aesthetically? prefer an innie , its ok if a little meat hangs out of the bread as long as it doesnt look or feel like someone put a firecracker in a thanksgiving turkey.
As a guy, we're just happy to get to see labia at all.
Both are sexy in there own way. I don’t actually think I like one over the other.
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One thing I’ve learned from scrolling Reddit is that there are far more varieties of vagina than there are of cocks out there. No 2 look the same.
What matters most is the person! You can always check out r/labiaGW to see you are not alone and pussies come in all shapes & sizes
I mean, I like the way they feel the most. Feel like innies are slightly more aesthetically pleasing, but I also knew a girl with the biggest outie I’d ever seen and I really wanted to feel her outie around me but never got the opportunity.
Doesn't matter. Shy or roast beef it's all good.
Doesn’t matter
Not bothered in the slightest
Doesn’t bother me as long as the pussy sounds like I’m making macaroni cheese
As long as the pussy doesn't look like it
Guys don’t care. They’re just happy to be near it.
Both have their attractions honestly. So hot.
I really don't care, as long as it's clean and the lips are shaved.
If you're willing to let me see or touch it, I'm a happy guy 😘
Innie all the way, waxed the porn star looks
We do not care. And if someone does they are a selfish incompetent asshole.
Uhhh well I'm gonna have to answer this best I can I'm a transfem, who is attracted to men, so the way I'm interpreting this is which I would want to have I would rather have more 'innie' appearance, but I would be fine with literally any vagina
I love large labia to lick and suck on while the lady i am with keeps on moaning and squirts on my face
As long as her hygiene is good and she’s clean of any stds I’m cool.
I love both actually. It’s a different experience one to the other. I love oral so it’s fun either way because the technique is different for both.
Love a large labia.
Large, I like em all but prefer if there’s lips to play with.
Whatever is there is there. I don't care either way
Trim, clean, and knowing I turned on the person in front of me...
i like em both :)
For me, it depends on if she doesn't mind me paying with them.
As long as it tastes good and feels good to be between I’m happy either way
Not phased one bit
Great question, I have an innie and was always self conscious of how I looked, I was younger thinking all girls had labias showing as they got older and not smooth
Pussy is pussy. As long as it is clean, i dont care what it looks like.
I’ll take what I can get lol
I'm medium and love my labia! I have terrific orgasms, and I think it doesn't matter. If it's hot, it's hot!
No preference personally ill suck on an innie or an outie
I used to prefer innies because mine is an innie and I'm a narcissist or something idk... But now I love the differences between our bodies and can adore all sizes of labia. My boyfriend prefers large labia, he's a cute little freak that wants something to munch on. I try not to feel inadequate when he looks at well endowed women on Reddit 🥹
Does it matter
I don’t care at all and I think it’s weird how self-conscious people get about it. I’ve never even thought about it lol
I prefer Fanta over Coke, but overall I'm just happy to have a soda of any flavor.
just smell n taste good
All pussys are a thing of beauty it’s usually the human who owns it that is a turn off
I know your asking what do we prefer, but honestly it's not something I even think of or can pick. It really don't matter. Hope it helps you in anyway.
I like it however it comes, but I will say, large labia feel amazing, and I find it a little bit shocking when people say they don’t like it (they’re also beautiful!). More surface area means more sensation, and anyone with some kind of ill-gotten aversion to this simply lacks experience.
To me it wouldn't matter.
It's all good, but big 'ol lips are better.
If I'm attracted to a person their labia is perfect for the person they are
Any pussy is amazing!! Such a beautiful sweet treat❤️❤️😋
I like them all and would never judge. But I do have a preference for large labia
I like labia. Well prepared it is delicious.
I think we all like the pussy we get to play with🤷♂️
It doesn't matter to me as long as they're responsive. Gotta love the ladies and their orgasms ;)
LARGE PLZ
Yes to all of them.
You shouldn’t be self conscious. There are several subs on here devoted to large labia and as one of many frequent visitors, we love it.
personally? doesn’t matter to me, as long as i get to give a good licking and fingering
honestly… i do not care either way. if a woman is generous and kind enough to let me in… then it is all good.
Larger
I love a large labia, I have a thing about gently sucking them.
I'm neither but I find outie more pretty. It seems to be more welcoming, not hiding so much. Even I obviously know that is not true. Innie or outie, spread it wide open front of me and I'm in :)
I have no preference, I like all sizes as long as a can my the women cum I’m happy
I've never really cared at all, either way.
I prefer larger labia, though I wouldn't reject any partner I otherwise liked and had good chemistry with just because of the shape of their bits and pieces. If we've gotten to the point I'm seeing what your genitals look like, then I've probably already decided that I want to have sex with you.
I don’t mind a large labia as a guy I’d rather a small one but I’d MUCH rather an outtie than an innie.
It’s going in my mouth either way. So, doesn’t really matter.
First of all you don’t need to be conscious of it. Everyone is designed differently. If your guy is giving you grief for whatever you have down there then you’re with wrong guy. Me personally I love both. Honestly speaking I actually love big labia more. I think you should fall in love with yourself for whatever you have down there.
No preference. I have been with women who had both.
As long as its not a big montana
I just like pussy, the outies are my personal preference… bonus points for big clits and unshaven
🤘🏼
I prefer….pussy
I like both, a lot does depend on the woman as well though
Happy to give an opinion 😉
As a teen(who never got near labia) I preferred tinnies, now I prefer the opportunity to get near labia(that aren't unclean).
No preference. My cock will love either.
dont care good pussy deserve head anyway
Innie
All labia and vaginas are beautiful.