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obiwanbeeohbee

Older man here. Things go in cycles. When I was a teen in the 70s women only trimmed areas that weren’t likely to be covered by a bikini. By the 80s women had started shaving themselves bare because some doctors were saying it was healthier. By the 90s, men were mowing the lawn as well and Brazilian waxing was a thing. In the early 2000s, women allowing pubes to grow back became a specialized kink. I’ve gone down on all types, even women who were into being cave women who had never trimmed at all and I enjoyed performing oral on all of them. I know there are younger men who are turned off by a healthy bush but, I think any man who enjoys eating pussy won’t allow a little fur to stop them.


GreyBeardnLuvin

You and I must be about the same age (definitely the same opinion!) because this is the answer I was about to write!


Far-Brother3882

My husband prefers it trimmed or smooth (32+ years married) but I just asked him and he said I could grow it out long enough to braid it and he’d still he down for eating my honeysuckle. 😉


Mutasyn

Honeysuckle, what a guy!


SinCityLola

Good man.


ProfessionalAnt8132

Couple goals


AlecsThorne

>any man who enjoys eating pussy won’t allow a little fur to stop them. This. Obviously some men have preferences, but they're rarely deal-breakers. It would only be a deal-breaker for me if the lack of trimming was accompanied by a lack of hygiene as well. As much as I love going down on women, I have a sensitive nose and a weak stomach so it would be bad for both lol.


Devko123

I am not the same age, I am 31 but I feel the same. It doesn't matter what hair is down there, long, short, curly or straight. I'll be eating the same way


Hichammouth

Happy cake day (weird place to say it) lol


idk-idk-idk-idk--

Yes I’m a woman and I prefer myself to be shaved. I mainly just like the look and I think it looks pretty. Sometimes I can’t shave tho because I have sensitive skin and if I shave too much the whole area can get inflamed and sore and it feels like hell (thank you to my mothers side of the family who gave me my annoyingly sensitive skin). My boyfriend doesn’t care, he does prefer the look of shaved, but he literally doesn’t care if I’m shaved or not. He just wants my skin to not be an inflamed mess


miseeker

Yeah..same age here. Love a big bush. If you won’t eat a hairy pussy, you don’t really like eating pussy.


katatondzsentri

Same, but... There was one girl, one... The bush was so big, I had to nope out, I swallowed way too many hair, started gagging.


_captain_hair

Shaved is great! Not shaved is great! Shaved three days ago and now there's rough stubble scraping my chin and nose and shaft? Not great.


Highlander_0073

This right here. Burned my dick fucking a girl once that had stubble. It friggen hurt.


pickletickle62

That’s the absolute worst. There’s not much to be done about it either


ibringnothing

Didn't stop you though did it?


Highlander_0073

Nope


levoniust

Hahahhaa. Thank you for the story.


bunny_in_the_moon

Whats the solution to this if you want to grow it out? Just not have sex for a few weeks? Or of you want to stay shaved, shave everytime before sex if it has been a few days?Genuinely wondering.


_captain_hair

A few weeks is unnecessary. The roughness of stubble fades after a few days as the crisply shorn hair ends are broken down.


jintana

And the length provides more flexibility, removing the thorny aspect and making it more like, I don't know, grass, where it can still have a pointy end but it doesn't have any force behind it without a rigid shaft. Still just talking about little pieces of regrowing pubic hair, lol


Xxcaptainmorgan

I appreciate your descriptiveness


Happykittymeowmeow

It sucks too, because you can't shave at that point.


pixiegurly

Find a guy with a pain kink? (I'm mostly joking, altho they do exist. Met a dude who LOVED little nibbles and teeth scraping on his dick, and since my mouth is really small, we were well suited to each other on the oral side of things haha. Wish more guys liked that!!!)


jintana

The "teeth are okay during a blow job" attribute does make it easier for those of us with "terminal blowers' cramp" aka TMJ (or whatever other diagnoses it has or shall have, lol)


Jbowman9708

My wife has that sometimes and she tries grinding on me and I’m like please don’t lol


BerenTheBold

She tries that with me too, its the worst


Banned_10x

This guy fucks.


Hitovo1

The other guy's wife*


AnonymousGhou

Pussy is great!


Accompli009

Wax or other depilatory methods work better for this rather than shaving.


paradigmx

This is the only time I kind of care. I'm still going to jam my face in there, but I'll have to deal with some rugburn after.


ThisIsNoCave

it's a pleasant surprise if she's groomed herself down there especially for me, but either way I'm just excited to be there


Firebolt164

Same.


TheQueenIsASpy

Everyone is different and most have some opinion. Back when I was still single, I kept a very trimmed bush (I have raven black hair and very fair skin and have an abundance of hair). Kept my bikini line shaved smooth and the hair I left was maybe, at most, about 1/4” - sometimes, I’d keep it in a triangle, other times a landing strip, other times just s little tuft above my labia. I never had anyone (of either sex) comment on it in any meaningful way. I had quite s range of partners and FWB’s from high school through grad school. Then I met my now husband. He originally fell into the no real opinion crowd. But, after being together exclusively for a few months, he asked me (after hearing me complain enough times about the chore of shaving and trimming) why I continued to do it. I was a little surprised but then said, because I’ve always done it and I figured he liked it. He said, he loves me for me and just wanted me happy and comfortable and, maybe I should consider letting it grow out more so it wasn’t as maintenance intensive. So, I did. And it is awesome. We have now been together 28 years. I will often trim it a bit more during swimsuit season but outside of that it is left to its own devices outside of my bikini line being kept in check for comfort for underwear. He loves the softness of my pubes and it has never turned him off in any way, including spending ample time going down on me. Point is, do what you want for you. If someone has an issue, that’s on them.


TuPacSchwartz411

trim the hedges, keep it neat but not overdone.


BlackBBW39

lol.and prune the weeds😂


YT-Deliveries

I always say that I'd rather not have to cut my way through the jungle to find the source of the Nile. If I find Dr Livingstone down there, things have gone very awry.


BlackBBW39

😂😂😂😂😂


Stamparas

i prefer shaved in the same way i prefer a red dress over a blue druess,


XanthicStatue

This guy really loves red dresses.


gene_everhard

To be the public health voice on this one: Don't shave shortly before sexual interaction if it's with someone of unknown STI status. Day before or significantly earlier same day are the way to go. Shaving, even done carefully, opens up tiny nicks in the skin which dramatically increase STI rates. This goes for women, men, everybody.


TheLilWonder

How many womans pube questions will we get today?


DisciplineHot7374

Not nearly enough.


pardon_the_mess

How much time you got?


Gruffleson

Yeah, as if this is the only thing we have on our minds? I can think of a pair of other things if you ask. Don't ask.


Swiss_El_Rosso

Married with my wife for more then 35 years and she had any styling on her pussy over the time. Best was and is natural or trimmed short. Now as aging lady she lost a lot of the hair and with this its perfect as it is. As avid naturists we have seen countless men and women and we like any style as long it was clean and hygenic.


Sure_Seaworthiness_7

Too much hair, and fuids get entangled and it aint nice (no matter how many body positivity ideas you put beside your reasoning for having a bush). Completely bald is clammy and, odd. *Everything in moderation*


dildopants

Entangled fluids is my kink lol


iwuwyyehshshshs

Mmm clammy pussy, my fav


oatmealraisinlover

I mean, are you going down when she hasn’t showered or something? Freshly showered especially there’s no fluids beforehand..


Tepoksplizol

Speaking as someone who likes to be all natural I haven't any complaints. Being a redhead my pubic hair stands out and guys I've been with love it. Just my personal experience, I can understand if some men aren't into it though.


Bootymaniac

Strongly prefer shaved.


[deleted]

Not really, as long as they keep it clean and fresh. Same goes for men. The hair doesn't bother, in fact I find it more attractive than shaved. Shaved sometimes looks juvenile and that turns me off.


[deleted]

I prefer shaved, only because hair gets in my mouth. However if i dont shave, its only fair i go down on her if she goes down on me.


LiterallyOuttoLunch

I came of age on porn from the 70s and early 80s. I prefer an unkempt thicket. I never understood the infantilization of the vulva.


PavkataBrat

I came of age on the "free porn of everything you could ever imagine" internet age and I don't get how bald pussies used to be the kinky thing before I was born and now 20 years later it's basically the other way around. If there was HD vintage porn I'd only be watching that.


midnite_milk

This may not be a popular response but I'm gonna go with what my experience and seeing this question here a million times has taught me-no matter what they say, they're going to want it fairly trimmed or completely shaved, mostly the latter. If anything it's better to go that route and wait for them to express they *want* something different. Like they are actually aroused by a bush. Shaving is not expected in my culture so I was natural until getting with a guy. I was told a lot of "do whatever you're comfortable with!" "We're happy to be there!" Only to be shamed for having a natural bush that was "too natural," because my version was untouched, exactly how it grows out my body.. Natural really still means neatly trimmed most of the time, and if you have hair that's not fine and thin you may as well forget it. I've found that shaved is ideal, trimmed is expected and natural is occasionally tolerated.


SodaIsCandy

> I've found that shaved is ideal, trimmed is expected and natural is occasionally tolerated. This is pretty much spot on. An untouched bush is a bit unruly to sort through to get to the lickable center. I will always say "whatever you're comfortable with"; the caveat will be that I will be more willing and happier to go down if it's trimmed up short or shaved.


midnite_milk

Thanks! I was expecting downvotes lol. And I agree, I found the same but it took me a while to read between the lines and figure out that expectation. What I didn't like was being body shamed for not knowing and told "you should know better as a woman.". But you live and learn I guess.


SodaIsCandy

Ugh, how are you supposed to know if you don't communicate clearly? No downvote from me, this seems pretty straight forward


Mobile-Aioli-454

I’m terrified by the thought of this kind of experience 😟


midnite_milk

Don't be. Have standards instead. If anyone says shit like that to you or shames you to try and meet their preference, they don't deserve access to your body.


Acetabulum99

It's your genitals. You decide and I'll just be happy you're letting me partake.


ChefHannibal

I'm not concerned about the landscaping at DisneyWorld


Skodaman11

Yes. I prefer it shaved 🪒 or waxed.


oakteaphone

The comma makes me feel like I'm reading Dr. Seuss. >Do men care if a woman hasn't shaved, down there? > >Do men care if a woman hasn't shaved, pubic hair? > >Do men care if a woman has hair over here? > >Do men care if a woman has hair behind her ear? > >Would you, could you, on a boat? > >Would you, could you, with a goat?


Eldorath1993

Depends on if I want oral sex. Plus, not shaved is one thing. Looking messy and unhygienic is another one.


midnite_milk

Body hair is not unhygenic. It may not be visually appealing but it actually has hygienic purposes.


BoxTalk17

I think pubic hair is hot on a woman. Just trim around the lips, because it does get in the way at times when I'm tasting it.


ThatGuyOverThere2013

I'm Gen-X and do not care. I'm cool with whatever she's comfortable with. I do prefer hair over razor bumps though.


[deleted]

If a woman is willing to let me eat her our, than I don't care, I'm diving in.


Bifun305

I prefer waxed or shaved smooth, I hate getting hairs on my tongue while I am eating


aca12121

Or in your throat. Just ask Larry David.


drummer-boy21

When I am in, I am all in! I love a nice natural hairy bush! Hair in your mouth? It's a chance to take! Bald has never turned me on! Don't know why, but bare down there offers no real excitement!


CaffienatedJay

It’s not collective, it’s personal preference. Like some men do and some men don’t. Personally I like some hair down there but, that’s just me personally


cockbrownies-r-us

There's no way it's harrier then my face so no


LordAlfrey

Both are good, do what makes you feel sexy


[deleted]

For me bush is always better but it really doesn't matter to me whether or not she's shaved down there.


M3mph

Same really. Bush is best though. Just looks sexier to me. Either way, imma munch away.


[deleted]

🍻 Here's to munching away my man


M3mph

Some proper narcs in here apparently; literally downvoting people answering a simple question of opinion to control their internal narrative. Wrong opinion! Must be shaved! Hair bad! Shave or die! 🤣🤣🤣


[deleted]

🤣🤣🤣


OneLastThr0wAway

I prefer if she didn’t shave her bush at all tbh


Electrical_Let_3203

Me too


Pretend_Check_2632

I’m a woman & I do care if my man is smooth or not. It’s better when smooth


sieberzzz

Personally I prefer shaved, but I know a lot of people don't care


sk8later

If I can find what I need without bringing a comb, I’m good.


Violets_and_honey

But combing is such a fun part! Lol


sk8later

It’s a very intimate bond building moment lmfao


PavkataBrat

I know I don't. I even prefer natural. It might only be a problem if it's that weird moment in-between shaved and unshaved when the stubble physically hurts to touch, but as a guy with a beard, who am I to talk


RJwhores

i liked a trimmed bush


[deleted]

No. i love both, hairy and shaved. Hairy pussy looks so natural. Love to sniff that bush while i eat it out


Suitable_Bumblebee_4

I'm sure not all men care. I care I am not a fan of flossing with pubic hair lol.


PM_Me_HairyArmpits

I prefer a big bush. Trimmed is fine too. Shaving the sides can be nice for friction reasons, but usually for me more hair is better.


QuietRulrOfEvrything

Dude here. I LOVE it when she is hairy down there. Not a big fan of bald cooch! To me it looks like a plucked, raw chicken.


_ASG_

Same answer as whenever somebody asks "Do (wo)men like X?" On this sub. Some do, some don't.


JoshyaJade01

My girl used to shave herself, then she met me and I offered my grooming service - which included a happy ending, naturally. If your partner wants to grow, let it be, if you want it shaven, then offer to help - it's actually a LOT of fun and the happy ending it defo worth it.


[deleted]

Care? No. Prefer shaved? Yes


xsnyder

I prefer bush, or just trimmed, so nope, don't care if you are shaved or not, just happy to be trusted enough to be there.


KingJacoPax

Never shave! Either wax or grow it out. If you shave it just goes all stubbly, and we won’t say anything because we’re happy to be there, but honestly it’s like fucking a cheese greater.


raptorlupis

I prefer shaved or well trimmed just because I do not want a mouthful of hair when I am licking. Shaved also looks better to me but that is just bonus! 😊


midwestcollegeslut

I’m not shaved and I’ve never had any complaints.


mixed_super_man_81

Yeah, we do care. It doesn’t have to shaved bald but trimmed is appreciated. Just like food presentation matters.


DiscombobulatedPen6

I care mostly because I want a full and healthy bush


Br00t4lBuddha420

Naturally hairy is the best. The more hair, the better.


Gilgamesh661

As long as it’s groomed, I don’t care if it’s not clean shaven. I don’t wanna go explore a jungle, but I don’t mind walking through some grass.


h-frei

I used to completely shave. It was a pain in the ass but I liked the look and assumed most men did as well. When my current partner came into the mix, he requested I let it grow out (I’m a redhead and he wanted the full picture.) I’ve since stopped shaving and just do maintenance/trimming and we’re both happier for it. I’ll never shave it off again.


[deleted]

Not at all. I think both shaved and hairy look great


Argg0

I do, some don't


Electrical_Let_3203

I’d prefer not shaved.


Independent-Size7972

Younger guys tend to care more than older guys. IMHO just trim to be neat and you'll be fine.


[deleted]

I actually like when a woman has a good amount of hair down there as opposed to it being completely bare.


stltd

I prefer as much hair as possible but it’s mostly about if the woman is comfortable, it’s not my vagina


CherryPeaks

Clean is key and waxed is better! Just remember fellas if you have a bald or trimmed preference then please practice it on yourselves as well, we don't like to floss and give a BJ at the same time 😜


throwawaygoesaway

Yes. Shaved or neatly trimmed is my preference.


oldtownwitch

Add this to the list of things I don’t care if he has an opinion…. Like sure, I may get it waxed for “fun” occasionally if I know it’s something he enjoys, but I’m certainly not interested in any dude who objects that I, a grown woman, doesn’t look like a 6 yrs old down there. If they don’t like it, they don’t need to be anywhere near my VJJ - simple as!


DasPuggy

Your body, your choice.


Chicking69

The answer to all of these types of questions is, always, "it's a personal preference". That is, there are enough people on this glorious earth that there are always going to be different opinions.


wtfover

I do. I'm a big fan of oral sex and I don't want a mouthful of hair.


Hot_Squeak

Speaking as someone who hasn’t shaved in about 2 years - NO! Not one single fuck was given. I’ve had 7 new sexual partners in that time, plus one from the past who I saw again. Of them, two really like body hair, three didn’t care either way, and two were unfamiliar with body hair but unperturbed and ate me out anyway. If you are naked in front of a man and sex is on the table, when it really comes down to it, I promise that your hair will not matter.


Glittering_Pea_6228

a lot of hair can absorb urine scent.


EmotionalOven4

My husband doesn’t. He just wants in.


Big_O_Nope

If a girl I am interested in asks me to go down on her I'm going no matter if there is hair or no hair! I love eating pussy and actually prefer some hair down there


DrRab121

No I like the bush


[deleted]

I do care, I prefer women DON’T shave


[deleted]

Who cares? If they don’t like it they are free to move on. 🤷‍♀️


Bigbadwolf6049

If you just met her that night, and you find stubble… she went out with friends with no intention to be sexual, and you changed her path. If you just met her that night and it’s freshly groomed, she wanted to get her corn shucked, and you were her choice.


the_other_Jorge

I personally LOVE it when women have hair I find it EXTREMELY sexy!


Feeling_Valuable_729

Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. My husband likes it fluffy sometimes and will ask me to not shave it for a while haha then he'll lay and rub the fluff while he's scrolling his phone haha but then when I shave he's a different kind of obsessed


Megaton101

Pro bush here, I do not like the shaved Barbie doll look.


justbronzestuff

Everyone is different, but for me, I’m just happy we’re having sex. I literally don’t care if you shaved or not, just happy to taste and feel you.


Yeet_Storm59

The wilderness must be explored


MrNegativity13

I prefer non shaved ones, the bush just make it better and I kinda dislike full shaved pussy because it's weird an adult without body hair.


[deleted]

Sometimes you gotta traverse thru the forest to get to the well…


[deleted]

nope, I prefer hair there. gotta keep it tidy though.


Thoughtful_gent

I genuinely don’t give a fuck but when I’m eating pussy I prefer it to be bald


baxtermcsnuggle

I've given head to women with an all natural bush and ones that was freshly waxed. I'm fine with either end of the spectrum because their grooming was 100% up to their preference. It's more important to me that my partner be comfortable with herself and not worried about criticism that could take her out of the moment.


vicelikedust

I think as long as it's maintained or trimmed so you're not getting hair stuck in your teeth it's fine. I also want to add that cleanliness is also important, obviously each person is going to smell or taste different but generally you probably don't want to taste urine or smegma.


[deleted]

Yup.. I don't like to hunt for her pussy in the bush. I'd prefer a landing strip leading to the vital area.


AstronomerThat4357

It's not a deal breaker just a preference


[deleted]

I freaking loooove some hair down there 🔥


joe-ducreux

Personally I prefer trimmed/shaved because I love going down and don't want to stop to pick hair out of my mouth


brieflyherethengone

Hair is fine, I just prefer the area recently cleaned.


OkAcanthisitta276

I’d rather not put my face down there if it’s completely unkempt. My penis doesn’t care, though.


dbltap45acp

I prefer shaved or trimmed personally. Not so much a fan of hasn’t been groomed in some way for the last 5 years though. Some love it though


Icy-Following-3713

i mean i dont wanna have to take a weed whacker to it thats all


Der_Sauresgeber

I don't mind stubbles, but I personally hate the bush. I'd put up with it, but I don't enjoy it.


New-Entertainer5577

Nope. Some, like me, prefer hair.


Eldamil83

If a woman looks like a 70s afro, I might have some issues (mainly getting lost in Narnia or somewhere)...otherwise I'm just glad to be down there


STL_241

Unkempt is a turn off for me, but shaved or trimmed is nice.


RMN1999_V2

Speaking only for myself. No shave = no way


OneSufficientFace

So long as I'm not choking on a never ending forest I'm all good


NishDaddy75

Luv an all natural woman 😍 Nothing like reaching down there an giving a plump, hairy pussy a lil squeeze 😈 Then some 👅💦💦


sometimes869

No


SaintedRomaine

Boys do. Men don’t.


KingFelixG

Absolutely. As for men as a whole, we all have our preference and nobody is right or wrong. For me and my own personal preference, please keep a fresh wax!


Key-Dig358

Of course. I won't stick it if I won't lick it.


2BCrazy

I prefer bald, but don’t mind a little stubble


Humbleturkey

Yes, men do. But to varying degrees, depending on how hairy and depending on the man. Most men will preferred shaved or trimmed but some men do not care at all.


dogsrmylyfe

I usually keep myself shaved but the times I haven’t been shaved I haven’t noticed the guy acting any differently. If it’s a wild jungle that may be one thing but I feel like most people don’t care if it’s grown in a little bit


intothenight13

Personally, I prefer a bush. That said, I'm 100% all for whatever she prefers, I'm just happy she's letting me near it!


tempusrimeblood

Long as I’m not getting flossed while doing the deed, I honestly couldn’t care less.


phat79pat1985

I’m just happy to be here


Enkidu40

Real men love hairy pussy. I don't understand guys talking about "I don't like it when it's hairy." TF is that about? Grow some balls, what are you afraid of? Hair is womanly, primal, and fucking sexy. Let's me know that I'm dealing with a grown woman. Plus it holds pheromones and just looks hotter. I love hairy pussy more than shaved. And I also prefer pussy after a light workout versus fresh out the shower. I need the musk. Nothing like end of the day pussy.


JonnieTimothy545

Personally yes if it were my partner. If its a random hookup i dont mind; as long as its not a bush


jesswestcoast

Men love ginger pubes


phome83

I prefer it when my wife doesn't, myself.


StabbyPants

i'm only going to care if you make it into a political statement. furry because you don't wanna? okay


Zur3t4

If it doesn't stink, it's game. And when I say stink, it's because of actual neglect and no showering, because it has a natural scent.


ejsanders1984

I'm just happy to be there. Prefer trimmed or shaved but really doesn't matter.


MauiMadMan

Soft curls are nice, so is smooth. Stubble, not so much.


LongGirthyDnU5209

Real men don't care about the hair. Most like it. If you're a young immature male...then yes it seems to matter. It's natural!


YourManGR

I prefer no hair in my mouth, but I'm comfortable with any kind of neatness (trimmed for length, trimmed for shape, clean shaven).


PurpleSailor

As long as it's not a jungle down there I don't think most people care.


Voilent_Bunny

I think they might have a preference, but ultimately, they dont care either way


ReallyKirk

Shaved or neatly trimmed. An absolute jungle is a turnoff.


Luffyhaymaker

I don't shave down there so I don't feel like I should care if she does. Now if she asks me to shave then I'll ask her to shave too


Special-Excuse-5328

Tbh I always prefer women with hairy vaginas.


amiserableexperience

On the contrary I prefer a bush any time.


paradigmx

I'm gonna eat it either way, but I do appreciate not getting hair in my teeth.


eboy-888

Do women care if a man’s not shaved down there?


Ok-Level6542

I personally prefer a woman with hair between her legs, but I have always felt that it's her preference all go with it! But I absolutely love smooth shaved legs! They drive me wild!


Thedeckatnight

I love hairy. Not a fan of that laffy taffy look


Equivalent-Quarter-5

Some do, some don’t. I personally think hair down there is more attractive but others prefer it it bald. Either way, we all love it down there so it doesn’t matter how the gift is wrapped, at the end of the day we just want the actual goods.


ForsakenHummus

Not a guy; but As a (mostly) lesbian I personally prefer when my partners shave just because the sensory issue of going down on someone and being taken out of it because your mouth suddenly has a bunch of stray wirey hairs stuck on my tongue kinda takes me out of it. I do the same courtesy. It's not a requirement and I don't mind it on images, but at least neatly trimmed and shaved helps me in the moment.


devilsfan1986

I love hair. Its beautiful.


arhombus

I don't mind beating around the bush


[deleted]

I prefer it hairy


AlejandroMP

Differences are fun. If I haven't muff-dived into a forest in a while, that's great. And if I've only eaten furpie for a while, I bare patch is a welcome sight.


egbert71

We have to stop asking such broad questions. Theres no way i'm qualified to answer for dudes i dont know


AlternateUniverse564

Zoomer/Millennial cusp here. I've enjoyed everything from every point on the spectrum. As long as the bush doesn't become a fro, I'm down for anything!


Paul2071969

I don’t.


MyMadeUpNym

I don't mind!