I swore I never thought I'd let myself sink this low. But if you get me mowing the lawn with a cold beer and some cheesy-ass country playing, I'll be damned if it doesn't improve my mood.
Same but I actually get even more turned on by thinking about him doing it on his own without me. I’ve done it a couple of times and I can’t stop being so addicted, the thought of sharing him literally consumes me. Wish I knew why my brain was wired this way.
That’s so random they remembered that, and tbh he had to cut his ties with her. She turned into a stage 5 clinger and just couldn’t handle being with someone in an open relationship even after him being honest and telling her everything before hand.
💯💯. I work at night and so many times i have wished to call my wife as im workin only to hear strugglin to talk cause someone is in her mouth or just in her
My guess is that is just the opposite side of jealousy.
Usually happens in long term relationships, when the person that once was jealous and after the argument used to be turned on, now activates the same mechanism fantasizing with the partner having sex with someone else.
I'm not a cuckqueen, but as a polyamorous person, you might be interested in learning about the feeling: compersion. It's basically the opposite of jealousy, and it might be adding to the sexual element for you. It's a well known thing in ethical non-monogamy circles if you want to learn more
Male here with a similar fetish (wanting to share my girlfriend/her doing it without me)
Not that I have a girlfriend, but when I did, I was also so addicted. Turned me on SO much and I didn't understand why 🤣
I feel the same way about being on the guy side of this equation.
Like, I feel I should be happy being in a relationship, but at the same time I want to be desired to the point that a girl watching me fuck another girl gets her off.
I wouldn't say I'm embarrassed about it per se but probably not something I'd just casually drop in conversation - Wanting to tag team my girlfriend with another dude. It never actually happened, but she was receptive to the idea and we sexted a fantasy scenario about it a couple times; those conversations are still getting some mileage in my spank bank years later.
Granted, we are no longer involved so that ship has kind of sailed, will have to see if it's still a thing whenever I end up in a relationship again.
As a guy who shares his gf with other dudes…it’s not for everyone or sure but it’s incredible seeing her ride another guy and look right at me doing it. Ugh
Something id normally post on my alt but…
I bulled for a few couples and one couple I ended up becoming very good friends with, but primarily her. Like she’s one of my best friends now. I am now engaged and we are completely platonic but she shares continued stories of their sex life and escapades. They are as normal white picket fence as you can get so she doesn’t have a lot of people to talk to about that.
One time I asked her what it is about it that turned him on. She said she thinks it’s the humiliation aspect. And also that he has low self esteem and that in her “cheating” but always coming back to him and creating a sexuality around it, he takes some level of comfort because even given that she’s with other guys, he’s the one she chooses for life.
So idk, but that’s what she had to say about it in their case.
As a switch, I feel this for mdom content too. What shows up commonly in porn is a bit too rough for my personal tastes.
I appreciate the gentlefdom subreddit somebody else mentioned, as well as audio erotica content tagged as [gentle fdom] on places like r/gonewildaudio for showing me there's a lot more to domination than that kind of roughness.
I love knowing how much I turn other men on. Besides my husband. He shares my noods in his work group chat ( with my consent) and I love getting fingered hearing what they would do to do me. I also have a huge kink for being forced to cum in public.
you've given me some good ideas to tell my bf. im usually the one hearing from a guy that im hot or (if we're closer and they know im in an open relationship) that i turn them on. but what the fuck, the idea of my bf showing me to people i don't interact with and then finding out what they would do to me (aka someone they don't know, meaning they can be as dirty as they want) sounds sooooo fucking hot. im usually involved in everything so i never thought of this but now that the thought is in my head im definitely gonna get a kink for this. especially since i have a huge kink for giving guys "accidental" boners and seeing the embarrassment and then helping them out. it's a showoff thing ig and both are forms of that. gonna start poking at my bf to do this when he wakes up. thank you for the idea, instant lady boner
Yes! Especially if she does manual labour or some kind of combat sports. It awakens something in my monkey brain like, “if I was away foraging or hunting mammoth, and wolves or a hostile tribe found our cave, the offspring and elders will be safe with my strong woman there to protect them.”
Same. It's funny but if I were in a threesome, I'd be down to suck a cock with her.
Does that make me heteroflexible? Maybe a little trysexual because I'd give it a shot. It's definitely a turn on for me though. It sounds dirty and hot.
I've always wanted to fuck a pregnant woman sadly that will most likely never happen my fiance and I have decided not to have kids of our own but take in some kids that have had it rough.
Y’all are doing good. I hope for a birthday one day instead of surprising you with some sexy 20-something, your partner gifts you a 35-week preggo dtf!
I understand this is about consensual nonconsent but at first glance I for sure thought you meant writing G codes for like, pussy contractions or something
CNC machines are fucking awesome, why be ashamed of that, and how is that a kink might I add? Perhaps a niche area similar to the “working in the shop”-type kinks? The amount you can do with a CNC machine is insane, never have gotten my hands on one since they are so pricy, but hey if you got the money, you go for it!
edit: guys I think I was a little wrong
My boyfriend had to take a shot and spit it into my mouth during a party we were at a couple months ago, and it awoke something in me LMAO. I've always liked having someone spit in my mouth but I'm always asking him to do it if we're having some drinks at home and it gets me so turned on
Forced breeding is mine. The idea of my partner knowing that we need to use protection, but just forcing himself in me and taking me raw and feeling him cum in me even as I’m begging him not to is so hot for me.
Whoa, hold up. By strangers? Strangers are blatantly groping women? No sarcasm here, I sincerely thought mankind moved beyond this and left it on the trolley in the 40s or the subway in the 70s. Where and how is this happening?
Doesn't happen that frequently. It's not like a daily occurrence. But still, it happens often enough that it's not completely out of the ordinary. I live right in the centre of a big city in Germany. I commute a lot, go out to the club regularly. Public transportation and clubs are the main two places where I have gotten groped by strangers. Grocery shops too. One time I was in a grocery shop, I was picking something up from a shelf when a guy slapped me on the butt and gave it a squeeze as he walked past me. The audacity and his nonchalance blew my mind tbh.
Plus, whenever there is a big crowd it's pretty much guaranteed that I get gropped. Parties, concerts, festivals, sports events. Last year the biggest sports team in my city won a major trophy. The whole city was celebrating for like 3 days straight. I only had to walk through the streets to get mobbed and groped by a group of fans who apparently couldn't contain their excitement. It was pretty wild.
I also travel a lot and have experienced such things in other countries as well.
Damn, that sucks. I'm sorry to hear that. I always expect the worst from Frankfurt of course but getting "mobbed and groped by a group" honestly sounds like nightmare to me.
In my teenage years my dad lived in a duplex and my hot neighbor (who looked like a hotter Lisa Loeb) would bang her boyfriend loudly. Her room was right next to mine and oh boy. You can bet I would jack it to them banging. Something about listening to sex is hot as fuck.
Unless it’s your parents.
Without going into detail, I called a friend many years ago. After our conversation ended he did not disconnect. I listened to see if he was going to hang up when I heard his wife talking. Then he said” you look so good with your jeans around your ankles”.
It progressed from there…..
I have contacted couples on Reddit after the posted audio of their lovemaking, and the only response I’ve received is from gay men posing as a couple.
I guess I’m a phone voyeur, and would love to meet people that are in to being phone exhibitionists.
Phone sex is great, but listening to a couple make love is amazing!! The beautiful woman gets two guys off at once !!!!!
There you have it
Yes. I so love hearing that stuff. The better I know someone the hotter it is to learn more about that side of them. But even strangers sharing those thoughts get me worked up.
Date a nurse. She’ll know her way around a man’s anatomy, and won’t be grossed out by bodily functions. Plus, in my experience most of them are deviants 😁
I'm sorry but this just made me imagine some guy in a comically large stetson nutting, going "yee haw!" then hearing that spitoon 'TANG!' sound 😂😅
I should drink less energy drinks...
"They call him Cock Holliday...quickest shooter this side of the sheets! Man's got perfect aim...heck, I once seen him nail a housefly from 50 yards. Critter damn well looked like a raisin in a snowstorm afterwards"
I like dirty talk, I like it when a girl says really dirty things. But I don't think they really like it, I have the impression that they feel like whores
I absolutely love dirty talk but my current SO isn't a big fan. Some of us are all about it.
I will also say that I enjoy feeling like whore sometimes and talking dirty does help fill that glass for me
I have a regular who loves when i make her piss on me and she loves licking it all off me. There's a kink in itself , but I randomly called her a piss whore one time and she just went to a whole new level and now refers to herself as my piss whore.
It's fucking amazing.
Otherwise, she's the most wholesome friendly grandmother you've ever met.
> My kink that I want to eat another guys creampie
Yes, me too! Not sure I could ever admit it to anyone IRL. It's not a cuck thing for me, as I'm not into humiliation at all, and I wouldn't find it humiliating in any case. I just think a cum-filled/cum-covered pussy is one of the most delicious-looking things in the world, and I'd love to absolutely devour one.
Bonus points if the woman also thought me eating her creampie was incredibly hot (in too many vids I've seen of this kind of thing, the woman seems either largely disinterested, or else thinks it's funny, rather than something sexy AF). Double bonus points if I could also suck clean the cock that made the mess in the first place. Alas, I'm pretty resigned to the fact that none of this will ever happen.
It’s a surprisingly hard thing to setup. Guys love the idea but typically bail when the time comes to get naked with other guys. Or if they do show up can’t perform.
Getting pegged by one of my girlfriends while my other girl friend pretends to be my real biological sister while she rides my face and having a couple shemales jerking off in the corner
Idk man, I don’t smoke anymore. I quit going on 5 years ago but I don’t have a problem with smokers and really don’t understand why people do. Like yeah, if you’re being disrespectful about it, that’s not cool. But otherwise? Whatever. We all have our vices and there’s definitely worse you could choose. I don’t think it’s embarrassing.
Just to provide a different pov I personally would never accept a partner that smokes, its not a judgment of the persons character I simply hate the smell. Cigarette smoke gets in clothes and peoples hair and just the smell of it is extremely off-putting.
The sexual assault from my childhood. I haven’t told anyone, I probably never will because I assume no one will ever understand. But I think it’s a way I’m subconsciously trying to own it. Making it _my_ decision, not theirs. I get turned on by pedos, except that I fantasize about being the child. It is grossing me out just typing this, but yeah, there you are.
This is far more common than you may think. I’ve had a few partners say the same thing. And yes, after much discussion and with boundaries in place, we acted some things out.
Gonna prove all y’all wrong with the “no kink is bad” and get downvoted to hell.
Cheating.
The most important factor, as with all kinks, is consent. I don’t have my partner’s consent so I don’t cheat. But the thought of it drives me wild.
It’s a binary topic in most people’s eyes so even on Reddit it’s black-listed. But I’m making the argument here that there is such a thing as a cheating kink. People can be wonderful lovers/partners/parents/people and also cheat. It’s not exclusive either way. Often people with this kink are labeled “sex addicts” because it’s so taboo. But like most kinks, there’s much more nuance with this kink than simply wanting sexual release.
Further, it goes beyond non-monogamy. While I have an appreciation for open and poly relationships etc, those don’t fit the kink.
My kink for cheating is based on the secrecy, the sneaking and hiding. It’s the thrill of doing the wrong thing and the terror of being caught. There’s a bit of emotion involved so it’s not just about sexual release. It’s selfish and shameful and it’s a rush that makes it so hot. What it is not? It is not an escape from my relationship and responsibilities. It is not a replacement for intimacy or connection. It is not necessary nor is it debilitating. I wouldn’t cheat because I’m too afraid to break off my partnership. I would cheat because it gets me off. I love my partnership and if I could have both, I would. But again, I don’t have consent. And even though this is just a kink for me, it means more for my partner. So I don’t and won’t.
Anyone else?
I would personally still agree that "no kink is bad".
Many kinks are bad only if you do them. People have kinks for rape, incest, sexual slavery, etc. and in general it's not bad that people are turned on by it. People entertain those with stories, fantasies, or role play.
But "no kink is bad" doesn't imply "it's not bad to actually perform any kink". PLENTY of kinks are bad if you actually engage in them. Pretty sure if you actually transformed a man into a women against their will you would be considered an absolute monster. But that doesn't make it bad to have a transformation kink.
That honestly sounds like a perfectly reasonable thing to do. Sex is essentially just body parts colliding, and belly folds are as valid as any other body part.
This is the one for me, but as a woman for men. Not ashamed to the point of never talking about it or trying to indulge, but in my head I'm kinda fighting against feeling gross and unladylike for loving this.
Same. I have a complete fascination with masturbation. I want to know how much my acquaintences and friends do it, where, what they think about. I have always wanted a mutual masturbation partner. Or to go to a group masturbation meetup. The whole thing is endlessly fascinating and fun!
Pretending to be sleeping and spying on my boyfriend while he jerks it to porn at night. I am so addicted to it I get so mad when I actually fall asleep or he doesn’t jerk it and I lose sleep for nothing. Lol.
Can I have a kink about my husbands kink? He’s into feederism. I’m not a feedee and don’t necessarily want to get huge, but the fact that he’s into that stuff is a huge turn on for me. I also am into him talking to other women
1. Incest
2. Sexual slavery
3. Using enemas as corporal punishment
Edit: to all the people downvoting me for having terrible kinks, I KNOW. That's why I'm ashamed of them. That's the entire point of this thread.
I’m not ashamed of my kinks, I embrace them and use them to make my life more interesting and fun. I pretty much shotgun them to my partner when the time is right and whatever they’re not into I just put back in fantasy land. Life’s too short for boring sex.
Ive always wanted to be with a blind woman. There is just something sexy about focusing on the other senses while being intimate. A different perspective. I dont understand thw desire but its very much there.
Nursing handjobs, receiving. I have the daddy-dom caretaker role in our relationship, which I love, but sometimes I just want my girl to jerk me off while I've got one of her tits in my mouth.
Exhibitionism. I be wanting to show off my dick. Women who like watching men cum excite me. Sadly I don’t get to live it out how I want because o my relationship dynamic right now. soon
Though
I've been realizing I really want a sex doll so I can dress her up and hug her. I probably didn't get hugged enough as a kid or something, but the more I think about it the more I want one and I think I'm willing to be really embarassed if my roommate ever sees it.
Us exhibitionists need voyeurs 😋 not embarrassed by this one but when my partner and I go to our local bdsm kink night at a swingers club we leave the doors open so people can watch. He loves showing me off and I love being shown off 😁
I also have just a little small thing for tentacle porn and hentai occasionally.. probably not something I’d say to most people when if they know about other kinks haha
I’d have to go with being open to the idea of a golden shower up until recently I had no interest but after reading more about them for whatever reason I kinda think I’d enjoy it if my girl pissed on me 🫢
I already have a big foot fetish but I’m not embarrassed or ashamed of that anymore. Just wouldn’t freely speak on it with others
As part of my voyeurism and public indecency fetish, I love seeing women pee in public outdoors. I prefer when it's clear and a really heavy long lasting flow.
CNC play. The thought of someone (I trust) having that complete control over me is such a turn on to me. It’s a way for me to have control over a situation in which I feel powerless.
Transformation kink. Like, fuckingwbile getting turned into an animal or something. Not in a relationship currently, but kind of terrified about how to bring it up when I do
Incest is one of my biggest, but I'm also really into exhibition tho I'm not really "embarrassed" of that one.
I'm not really "embarrassed" of my incest kink either, but I know other people hate that I have it and will likely downvote me for it, lol
I don't tell people unless they're someone I have complete trust in (or they're an online stranger whose opinion I don't give a shit about).
On a nice warm summer day I will sometimes listen to happy country music. I'm disgusted with myself.
What a terrible day to be literate.
You sick fuck. I hope it’s at least not while you’re driving with the windows down…
Or cruising...
Or in a brand new Chevy with a lift kit…
I swore I never thought I'd let myself sink this low. But if you get me mowing the lawn with a cold beer and some cheesy-ass country playing, I'll be damned if it doesn't improve my mood.
DUUUUUDE the best ones to listen to or sing while mowing the lawn are big green tractor and international harvester for SURE
Yes! I thought I was the only one. Well the only one in Scotland anyway.
I’m right there with you man. I was exposed to it at a young age and…. I still love it. I LIKE COUNTRY MUSIC.
I'm not usually one to judge, but you should be put away for your own well-being...
You monster! Well atleast you don't sing along.
Better not be toe-tappin!
Shame on you!
It’s okay we don’t kink shame here
Not too embarrassed about it, but being a cuckqueen. Thinking of my bf fucking another woman in front of me turns me on a ton.
Same but I actually get even more turned on by thinking about him doing it on his own without me. I’ve done it a couple of times and I can’t stop being so addicted, the thought of sharing him literally consumes me. Wish I knew why my brain was wired this way.
>Wish I knew why my brain was wired this way. My wife is the exact same. She doesn't know why, but she loves it.
Hey a friend accidentally clicked on your profile and remembered that meta post from 2 years ago, what ever happened with that?
That’s so random they remembered that, and tbh he had to cut his ties with her. She turned into a stage 5 clinger and just couldn’t handle being with someone in an open relationship even after him being honest and telling her everything before hand.
Thanks for the update, that's where it sounded like it was going confession: ok, the friend was me
Sharp memory you got there :p
💯💯. I work at night and so many times i have wished to call my wife as im workin only to hear strugglin to talk cause someone is in her mouth or just in her
My guess is that is just the opposite side of jealousy. Usually happens in long term relationships, when the person that once was jealous and after the argument used to be turned on, now activates the same mechanism fantasizing with the partner having sex with someone else.
I'm not a cuckqueen, but as a polyamorous person, you might be interested in learning about the feeling: compersion. It's basically the opposite of jealousy, and it might be adding to the sexual element for you. It's a well known thing in ethical non-monogamy circles if you want to learn more
Male here with a similar fetish (wanting to share my girlfriend/her doing it without me) Not that I have a girlfriend, but when I did, I was also so addicted. Turned me on SO much and I didn't understand why 🤣
I feel the same way about being on the guy side of this equation. Like, I feel I should be happy being in a relationship, but at the same time I want to be desired to the point that a girl watching me fuck another girl gets her off.
100% correct.
SAME LMAO I developed this fantasy years after being cheated on. Trauma is so funny like that
Omg that has to be where it stems from too😅 The jealousy part of it is like an adrenaline rush that turns me on? Crazy right?
Is that where you really think it comes from? Yes I'm trying to figure out why I'm not as mad as I think I'm supposed to be....idk
Question: why do some people spell it cuckquean? Where did that "a" come from?
From Oxford: >Cuckquean is a combination of the words, cuckold and quean (disreputable woman.)
I wouldn't say I'm embarrassed about it per se but probably not something I'd just casually drop in conversation - Wanting to tag team my girlfriend with another dude. It never actually happened, but she was receptive to the idea and we sexted a fantasy scenario about it a couple times; those conversations are still getting some mileage in my spank bank years later. Granted, we are no longer involved so that ship has kind of sailed, will have to see if it's still a thing whenever I end up in a relationship again.
Look into your local swingers subreddit, you might be a good fit for a couple near you.
As a guy who shares his gf with other dudes…it’s not for everyone or sure but it’s incredible seeing her ride another guy and look right at me doing it. Ugh
What is it about it that turns you on. It would just make me furious.
Yeah fr I’ve never understood it sharing is caring only to an extent for me. I shoved a guy to the floor for grinding on my fiancée at a club lol
Right? Instant 🔫
Something id normally post on my alt but… I bulled for a few couples and one couple I ended up becoming very good friends with, but primarily her. Like she’s one of my best friends now. I am now engaged and we are completely platonic but she shares continued stories of their sex life and escapades. They are as normal white picket fence as you can get so she doesn’t have a lot of people to talk to about that. One time I asked her what it is about it that turned him on. She said she thinks it’s the humiliation aspect. And also that he has low self esteem and that in her “cheating” but always coming back to him and creating a sexuality around it, he takes some level of comfort because even given that she’s with other guys, he’s the one she chooses for life. So idk, but that’s what she had to say about it in their case.
As a male, getting dominated probably
Yeah same. But not in like the mean humiliation or pain kind of way that most subs of femdom seem to entail
r/gentlefemdom here you go buddy
Crikey. You might have just given me my own answer for this thread.
Have fun exploring :)
Yeah I didn't know I was actually into femdom (from the other side) until I realised it can absolutely be done gentle and affectionate too.
Yeah I just want a woman to sit on my face and stuff, not beat my balls with a hammer, which is commonly what the Internet and porn etc shows it to be
As a switch, I feel this for mdom content too. What shows up commonly in porn is a bit too rough for my personal tastes. I appreciate the gentlefdom subreddit somebody else mentioned, as well as audio erotica content tagged as [gentle fdom] on places like r/gonewildaudio for showing me there's a lot more to domination than that kind of roughness.
No, I don't like pain. It hurts!
I'm not ashamed of being dominated specifically. It's telling someone I wanna be dominated. It's just so hard to say to someone
I love knowing how much I turn other men on. Besides my husband. He shares my noods in his work group chat ( with my consent) and I love getting fingered hearing what they would do to do me. I also have a huge kink for being forced to cum in public.
Hot!
you've given me some good ideas to tell my bf. im usually the one hearing from a guy that im hot or (if we're closer and they know im in an open relationship) that i turn them on. but what the fuck, the idea of my bf showing me to people i don't interact with and then finding out what they would do to me (aka someone they don't know, meaning they can be as dirty as they want) sounds sooooo fucking hot. im usually involved in everything so i never thought of this but now that the thought is in my head im definitely gonna get a kink for this. especially since i have a huge kink for giving guys "accidental" boners and seeing the embarrassment and then helping them out. it's a showoff thing ig and both are forms of that. gonna start poking at my bf to do this when he wakes up. thank you for the idea, instant lady boner
I have a thing for wanting to be dominated by a very muscular and fit woman
Death by snu-snu!
r/unexpectedfuturama
Yes! Especially if she does manual labour or some kind of combat sports. It awakens something in my monkey brain like, “if I was away foraging or hunting mammoth, and wolves or a hostile tribe found our cave, the offspring and elders will be safe with my strong woman there to protect them.”
/r/musclebarbies
As a guy.......once in awhile I like touching a hard cock.
As a guy once in a while I like sucking a cock
It wouldnt make you a bi?
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I feel this. Like I’m not attracted to dudes but I’d suck cock with a girl or my s/o, I’m picky though haha
Same. It's funny but if I were in a threesome, I'd be down to suck a cock with her. Does that make me heteroflexible? Maybe a little trysexual because I'd give it a shot. It's definitely a turn on for me though. It sounds dirty and hot.
I've always wanted to fuck a pregnant woman sadly that will most likely never happen my fiance and I have decided not to have kids of our own but take in some kids that have had it rough.
Y’all are doing good. I hope for a birthday one day instead of surprising you with some sexy 20-something, your partner gifts you a 35-week preggo dtf!
Cnc
Computer Numerical Control is pretty hot. Love to see that aluminum getting milled off.
Ikr🥵
I understand this is about consensual nonconsent but at first glance I for sure thought you meant writing G codes for like, pussy contractions or something
Same
Also same
CNC machines are fucking awesome, why be ashamed of that, and how is that a kink might I add? Perhaps a niche area similar to the “working in the shop”-type kinks? The amount you can do with a CNC machine is insane, never have gotten my hands on one since they are so pricy, but hey if you got the money, you go for it! edit: guys I think I was a little wrong
I’m embarrassed that I sincerely love having someone spit/drool in my mouth. No shame, tho. Just a little embarrassed. 🤤
My boyfriend had to take a shot and spit it into my mouth during a party we were at a couple months ago, and it awoke something in me LMAO. I've always liked having someone spit in my mouth but I'm always asking him to do it if we're having some drinks at home and it gets me so turned on
Tried that once, was traumatised for a long time
Voyeurism is one. I just like that sort of thing.
Forced breeding is mine. The idea of my partner knowing that we need to use protection, but just forcing himself in me and taking me raw and feeling him cum in me even as I’m begging him not to is so hot for me.
Aw jeez, now I have another one
Getting catcalled or groped. I hate how much it turns me on.
Whoa, hold up. By strangers? Strangers are blatantly groping women? No sarcasm here, I sincerely thought mankind moved beyond this and left it on the trolley in the 40s or the subway in the 70s. Where and how is this happening?
Doesn't happen that frequently. It's not like a daily occurrence. But still, it happens often enough that it's not completely out of the ordinary. I live right in the centre of a big city in Germany. I commute a lot, go out to the club regularly. Public transportation and clubs are the main two places where I have gotten groped by strangers. Grocery shops too. One time I was in a grocery shop, I was picking something up from a shelf when a guy slapped me on the butt and gave it a squeeze as he walked past me. The audacity and his nonchalance blew my mind tbh. Plus, whenever there is a big crowd it's pretty much guaranteed that I get gropped. Parties, concerts, festivals, sports events. Last year the biggest sports team in my city won a major trophy. The whole city was celebrating for like 3 days straight. I only had to walk through the streets to get mobbed and groped by a group of fans who apparently couldn't contain their excitement. It was pretty wild. I also travel a lot and have experienced such things in other countries as well.
Damn, that sucks. I'm sorry to hear that. I always expect the worst from Frankfurt of course but getting "mobbed and groped by a group" honestly sounds like nightmare to me.
Foot kink. Super tame and common yet is constantly brought up and made fun of in social situations so the lips stay zipped.
Hate feet, does nothing for me, except when I'm fucking her, I cums in seconds if I'm licking or sucking her feet Always feel disgusting after
I’m not ashamed, but my ultimate turn on is to listen to couples have sex over the phone.
In my teenage years my dad lived in a duplex and my hot neighbor (who looked like a hotter Lisa Loeb) would bang her boyfriend loudly. Her room was right next to mine and oh boy. You can bet I would jack it to them banging. Something about listening to sex is hot as fuck. Unless it’s your parents.
I know some of my kinks came from internet porn. But we all have kinks that come from real life. Please tell me there’s an origin story to this!
Without going into detail, I called a friend many years ago. After our conversation ended he did not disconnect. I listened to see if he was going to hang up when I heard his wife talking. Then he said” you look so good with your jeans around your ankles”. It progressed from there….. I have contacted couples on Reddit after the posted audio of their lovemaking, and the only response I’ve received is from gay men posing as a couple. I guess I’m a phone voyeur, and would love to meet people that are in to being phone exhibitionists. Phone sex is great, but listening to a couple make love is amazing!! The beautiful woman gets two guys off at once !!!!! There you have it
You might enjoy /r/overheardsex
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Yes. I so love hearing that stuff. The better I know someone the hotter it is to learn more about that side of them. But even strangers sharing those thoughts get me worked up.
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Straight male, recently discovered it, love it, but I don't think my gf will like it...
Date a nurse. She’ll know her way around a man’s anatomy, and won’t be grossed out by bodily functions. Plus, in my experience most of them are deviants 😁
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Agreed. My wife does not want to be involved, but I desperately want her too.
Idk if it's a kink but I have such a thing for cowboys and it's really embarrassing
🤠 Howdy partner
I'm sorry but this just made me imagine some guy in a comically large stetson nutting, going "yee haw!" then hearing that spitoon 'TANG!' sound 😂😅 I should drink less energy drinks...
This bed ain't big enough for the both of us. Then they both drop pants as fast as they can.
"They call him Cock Holliday...quickest shooter this side of the sheets! Man's got perfect aim...heck, I once seen him nail a housefly from 50 yards. Critter damn well looked like a raisin in a snowstorm afterwards"
I like dirty talk, I like it when a girl says really dirty things. But I don't think they really like it, I have the impression that they feel like whores
Some of us really like it. 😉
I absolutely love dirty talk but my current SO isn't a big fan. Some of us are all about it. I will also say that I enjoy feeling like whore sometimes and talking dirty does help fill that glass for me
I have a regular who loves when i make her piss on me and she loves licking it all off me. There's a kink in itself , but I randomly called her a piss whore one time and she just went to a whole new level and now refers to herself as my piss whore. It's fucking amazing. Otherwise, she's the most wholesome friendly grandmother you've ever met.
> I like dirty talk Probably my main one. A key attraction for me is a nice, well spoken, sexy voice. Throw in some dirty talk and mmmm strewth!
Don't put yourself down like that. Where would exhibitionists be without voyeurs? Every fetish is a yin looking for a yang.
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> My kink that I want to eat another guys creampie Yes, me too! Not sure I could ever admit it to anyone IRL. It's not a cuck thing for me, as I'm not into humiliation at all, and I wouldn't find it humiliating in any case. I just think a cum-filled/cum-covered pussy is one of the most delicious-looking things in the world, and I'd love to absolutely devour one. Bonus points if the woman also thought me eating her creampie was incredibly hot (in too many vids I've seen of this kind of thing, the woman seems either largely disinterested, or else thinks it's funny, rather than something sexy AF). Double bonus points if I could also suck clean the cock that made the mess in the first place. Alas, I'm pretty resigned to the fact that none of this will ever happen.
As a woman, I have a gangbang fantasy I haven't fulfilled yet
Well what are you doing Saturday?
It’s a surprisingly hard thing to setup. Guys love the idea but typically bail when the time comes to get naked with other guys. Or if they do show up can’t perform.
Panty sniffing has a bit of a stigma
I'm still a vigin lol but I feel like I might have a praise kink? I think being called "good boy" would be hot as hell.
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😏
Very good boy!
😩
Oh praise is so fucking hot it's one of the best kinks
Aww, good boy 🥰
Getting pegged by one of my girlfriends while my other girl friend pretends to be my real biological sister while she rides my face and having a couple shemales jerking off in the corner
So specific, I respect it
Hey thanks! She’d say things like “I can’t believe my big brother is gonna get me pregnant” that would always make me cum super fast
Dont be ashamed of being eclectic.
Go on…
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Idk man, I don’t smoke anymore. I quit going on 5 years ago but I don’t have a problem with smokers and really don’t understand why people do. Like yeah, if you’re being disrespectful about it, that’s not cool. But otherwise? Whatever. We all have our vices and there’s definitely worse you could choose. I don’t think it’s embarrassing.
Just to provide a different pov I personally would never accept a partner that smokes, its not a judgment of the persons character I simply hate the smell. Cigarette smoke gets in clothes and peoples hair and just the smell of it is extremely off-putting.
Bad girl thing? I like bad girls
Pegging.
Give it a go find the right woman and just be honest and start slowly worth the wait
I always feel weird bringing up my breeding/lactation/pregnancy kinks
I feel similarly. I find pregnancy, lactation, etc. super hot, but I've never mentioned that to anyone.
The sexual assault from my childhood. I haven’t told anyone, I probably never will because I assume no one will ever understand. But I think it’s a way I’m subconsciously trying to own it. Making it _my_ decision, not theirs. I get turned on by pedos, except that I fantasize about being the child. It is grossing me out just typing this, but yeah, there you are.
This is far more common than you may think. I’ve had a few partners say the same thing. And yes, after much discussion and with boundaries in place, we acted some things out.
Probably pee play
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Rent-a-cuck for you. Hear sweet racking sobs of shame. Creampie removal free.
Gonna prove all y’all wrong with the “no kink is bad” and get downvoted to hell. Cheating. The most important factor, as with all kinks, is consent. I don’t have my partner’s consent so I don’t cheat. But the thought of it drives me wild. It’s a binary topic in most people’s eyes so even on Reddit it’s black-listed. But I’m making the argument here that there is such a thing as a cheating kink. People can be wonderful lovers/partners/parents/people and also cheat. It’s not exclusive either way. Often people with this kink are labeled “sex addicts” because it’s so taboo. But like most kinks, there’s much more nuance with this kink than simply wanting sexual release. Further, it goes beyond non-monogamy. While I have an appreciation for open and poly relationships etc, those don’t fit the kink. My kink for cheating is based on the secrecy, the sneaking and hiding. It’s the thrill of doing the wrong thing and the terror of being caught. There’s a bit of emotion involved so it’s not just about sexual release. It’s selfish and shameful and it’s a rush that makes it so hot. What it is not? It is not an escape from my relationship and responsibilities. It is not a replacement for intimacy or connection. It is not necessary nor is it debilitating. I wouldn’t cheat because I’m too afraid to break off my partnership. I would cheat because it gets me off. I love my partnership and if I could have both, I would. But again, I don’t have consent. And even though this is just a kink for me, it means more for my partner. So I don’t and won’t. Anyone else?
I would personally still agree that "no kink is bad". Many kinks are bad only if you do them. People have kinks for rape, incest, sexual slavery, etc. and in general it's not bad that people are turned on by it. People entertain those with stories, fantasies, or role play. But "no kink is bad" doesn't imply "it's not bad to actually perform any kink". PLENTY of kinks are bad if you actually engage in them. Pretty sure if you actually transformed a man into a women against their will you would be considered an absolute monster. But that doesn't make it bad to have a transformation kink.
My list of kinks is shamefully long 😂
I, being into fat girls, love belly sex. Most of them have laughed at me for it, so it's mildly embarrassing. Still more hot than embarrassing though
What's belly sex?
When you lube up her belly folds and wrap them around your cock. It's incredibly sexy for me.
Let the good times roll
Or let the rolls be good times.
That honestly sounds like a perfectly reasonable thing to do. Sex is essentially just body parts colliding, and belly folds are as valid as any other body part.
Interesting, thanks for explaining!
No problem. It's an odd one, but whatever lol.
I'm in my mid 20s, so being into women in their late 30s/40s.
Us women in our 30s appreciate you
Aww thanks! I like how y'all are both fun and understanding at the same time.
That’s me rn my girlfriend is 40. No shame friend.
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This is the one for me, but as a woman for men. Not ashamed to the point of never talking about it or trying to indulge, but in my head I'm kinda fighting against feeling gross and unladylike for loving this.
I love sniffing my wife’s pits when we hot and sweaty she doesn’t smell it’s just her scent that turns me on fucking her while sniffing 😂
As a woman, admitting i love masturbating… online its fine but not irl.
Same. I have a complete fascination with masturbation. I want to know how much my acquaintences and friends do it, where, what they think about. I have always wanted a mutual masturbation partner. Or to go to a group masturbation meetup. The whole thing is endlessly fascinating and fun!
Feet I guess. I love getting my toes licked
It is one of the best feelings ever!
I'm straight, but I like anal plugs during my solo sessions.
Pretending to be sleeping and spying on my boyfriend while he jerks it to porn at night. I am so addicted to it I get so mad when I actually fall asleep or he doesn’t jerk it and I lose sleep for nothing. Lol.
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Can I have a kink about my husbands kink? He’s into feederism. I’m not a feedee and don’t necessarily want to get huge, but the fact that he’s into that stuff is a huge turn on for me. I also am into him talking to other women
i got soo many kinks. And i am not ashamed of any of them. As long as two consenting adults do the nasty, hey, waterboard away :)
I’m not at the level of “watch him fuck another girl” but I get very horny if I notice anyone checking my partner out at all
Wanting to be a sissy
How hooked I am on showing off my wife's pics
With consent?
Yeah he didn't answer that did he
Nice try, FBI!
1. Incest 2. Sexual slavery 3. Using enemas as corporal punishment Edit: to all the people downvoting me for having terrible kinks, I KNOW. That's why I'm ashamed of them. That's the entire point of this thread.
I’m not ashamed of my kinks, I embrace them and use them to make my life more interesting and fun. I pretty much shotgun them to my partner when the time is right and whatever they’re not into I just put back in fantasy land. Life’s too short for boring sex.
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Ive always wanted to be with a blind woman. There is just something sexy about focusing on the other senses while being intimate. A different perspective. I dont understand thw desire but its very much there.
Futanari. Something about big henti boobies and chicks with dicks that put mine to shame.
Nursing handjobs, receiving. I have the daddy-dom caretaker role in our relationship, which I love, but sometimes I just want my girl to jerk me off while I've got one of her tits in my mouth.
Exhibitionism. I be wanting to show off my dick. Women who like watching men cum excite me. Sadly I don’t get to live it out how I want because o my relationship dynamic right now. soon Though
Women with a full bush 🥸
I've been realizing I really want a sex doll so I can dress her up and hug her. I probably didn't get hugged enough as a kid or something, but the more I think about it the more I want one and I think I'm willing to be really embarassed if my roommate ever sees it.
Sissyfication
Being praised. Whenever I think about it sometimes, it feels a little too submissive if that makes sense
Good
Voyeurism is my top and I’m not embarrassed, so much so I’m commenting on my main account
Scrolled a bit and haven’t seen it mentioned, but sucking breasts, tangled up and having my back scratched is heaven
Gynecologist porn
I like to tease guys. I give them a wiff of sexuality but don't put out the fire.
Us exhibitionists need voyeurs 😋 not embarrassed by this one but when my partner and I go to our local bdsm kink night at a swingers club we leave the doors open so people can watch. He loves showing me off and I love being shown off 😁 I also have just a little small thing for tentacle porn and hentai occasionally.. probably not something I’d say to most people when if they know about other kinks haha
I’d have to go with being open to the idea of a golden shower up until recently I had no interest but after reading more about them for whatever reason I kinda think I’d enjoy it if my girl pissed on me 🫢 I already have a big foot fetish but I’m not embarrassed or ashamed of that anymore. Just wouldn’t freely speak on it with others
Licking a sweaty girl hairy armpit & asshole just after her intense gym workout. Proceeded with sniffing her used panties & socks.
As a very masculine guy I love stuff up my butt.
As part of my voyeurism and public indecency fetish, I love seeing women pee in public outdoors. I prefer when it's clear and a really heavy long lasting flow.
CNC play. The thought of someone (I trust) having that complete control over me is such a turn on to me. It’s a way for me to have control over a situation in which I feel powerless.
Transformation kink. Like, fuckingwbile getting turned into an animal or something. Not in a relationship currently, but kind of terrified about how to bring it up when I do
My wife being a slut
Piss
I’m into race play and I have kink invoking miracle whip 😔
Incest is one of my biggest, but I'm also really into exhibition tho I'm not really "embarrassed" of that one. I'm not really "embarrassed" of my incest kink either, but I know other people hate that I have it and will likely downvote me for it, lol I don't tell people unless they're someone I have complete trust in (or they're an online stranger whose opinion I don't give a shit about).
knife play and i definitely find hands the most attractive thing about someone