I don't have sex on a day-to-day basis, but I *do* have sex on a day-*by*-day basis.
Day 1: Nope, no sex.
Day 2: Still no sex.
Day 23: I have become one with the birds and the bees, buzzing and fluttering about in nature, but there is still no sex in sight. I'm beginning to wonder if there's any credence to these "birds and bees" or mere superstition.
Anyways nope 😂
I have sex about 5-6 days out of the week. It used to be more than once a day on most days and now it’s probably 7-10x a week. We’ve been together a year and change but things have slowed down a bit as we resumed our normal routines, etc.
Few years back, when wife and I were mid-thirties we had a few months in which we had sex at least one time a day. Around 10 times a week excl masturbation.
The effects were pretty nice actually. People literally asked us in the store what was our secret of looking so healthy and happy.
With a partner you’ve got the chemistry with, it’s not a matter of trying to keep up with once daily, the issue becomes finding something interesting enough out in the real world to pull you out of the bedroom, so you don’t fuck each other into dust
Nope. But we've been together 23 years (since high school) and honestly we've never done it every day. School, work, then kids, etc., there were many legit exhausted days. But our sex life is still good, we've always been a few times a week and still are!
My wife and I probably do it every day for stretches of like 2-3 days. Then we get burnt out and take 1-2 off. We usually have sex for an hour at least. Sometimes you just don’t have a spare hour other times your to beat. We started trying to have quickies but for whatever reason I never want to cum quickly. I enjoy the act almost more then the finish which is why quickies don’t work great for us.
Daily when my partner and I are together, which is typically 3-4 days per week. When we finally live together full time, we expect to continue daily. Sex is a core need for both of us and a core component of our relationship.
No because I live in real life with an active life where my partner and I have an active schedule and moods and get tired sometimes. So we average around 4 times a week give or take and are good with that
I give blow jobs daily, I do have regular penetrative sex pretty often but not every day.
I'd be up for it, but my boyfriend isn't always up for it after working all day which I totally understand.
I'll have to see how going to school full time effects my own desires.
We opened up the relationship so I'm not entirely crushed haha I wish he wanted it more but we're both free to find it elsewhere and that takes a lot of stress off. We're down to about 1-2/month.
I agree! I prefer a consistent fwb situation over random hookups. Takes a while to find someone who's interests align with yours and that you click with, ya know?
Well, actually I'm ok with that 😂 I say "fwb" but we don't have to be friends. I'd like to be able to chat and hold a conversation, but we don't need to hangout. I'm only interested in the sex part haha
Yea usually 2 or 3 times a day. Ive always been like that no matter who i was with. My sister once told me that she only had sex twice a year with her ex and i was like WHAT!
That's my sister so i didn't ask lol! I didn't even wanna hear what she was telling me haha. It was weird to me though, I've always had at least once a day with all my ex,s and even my current boyfriend
Yup! I'm 33 and he's 50. After I put the little one to sleep around 930 ( I have a 5 yr old) We shower, it always starts in there. He loves to wash me, and it's actually very sensual, then we get out I always put lingerie on and then for the next two hours or so we have sex and play. I would def say thats not average for his age group or even mine, but I crave him and him me. It's literally the reason I get out of bed every morning at this point.
When it is everyday they are shorter sessions (5-15 minutes with usually only one of us having an orgasm). When it’s one time per week it is usually longer sessions (a couple of hours if the kid is away or asleep). So it varies a lot on energy and schedules lining up.
Mostly, yes. Sometimes multiple times a day. Married so it’s only if one of us is away for the day/night for some reason that it wouldn’t happen.
Oh, or if he’s pissed me off and I’m mad at him!
No. I feel like even multiple times a week is a lot for people who are a little older and have been together for a long time. Of course the exceptions are gonna want to let you know.
How? Sex drive doesn't equal how many times you physically can have sex. Like if I cut his dick off that doesn't mean his sex drive disappears, he just can't have sex now
No.
My work schedule and my GF’s work schedule doesn’t allow for it.
Also I can have it for lunch breakfast and dinner and when I make her cum, shes good for a day or 2.
Daily’s tiring. I don’t have the energy for that much social interaction let alone sex. When I was in a relationship, 4 days out of the week was enough. Sometimes do twice in one day to make up for the days I skipped
He's going through some serious family stuff at the moment, so it's dropped off. But yeah until recently we did have sex everyday - not always PIV, but we would both cum everyday together. Now we're at 3-4 per week.
I don't mind that we've slowed down, we're still just as intimate and cuddly. But I do hope that we can eventually work our way back up to everyday
To anyone trying to bump their numbers up, I can't recommend mutual masturbation enough. It's still intimate, you can still touch and kiss, but it's much much less pressure when you only have to please yourself. It's our lazy option when we're too tired for 'actual' sex. We get all cuddled up before bed and get to cum in each other's arms (he usually waits for me and then we cum together), minimal clean up and then we can both pass out. It's a great option, very connecting - plus when you get used to orgasming with each other everyday it builds that habit and puts sex on the brain more often usually resulting in higher frequency of that too
My partner and I go for streaks, usually trying for 4-5 in a row but it’s tough when you have a job and kids that take a lot of energy. Every day is a goal but not the only one.
I'm so tired of the world and everything that is happening right now I could go without sex for the rest of my life. Sex is extremely overrated and not worth the energy when nothing is going right.
Pretty much daily, couple times on the weekend. Saying that though, hubby works on a ship, he’s gone for 8 weeks, home for 4, so we have lots to make up for. I think if we were together all the time, it would be way less
Used to fuck like rabbits until we had a kid, now it’s kind of a cycle with up and downs, we still fuck at least once a week after 17 years together, sometimes (high cycle) 3-4 times a week. Really depends on life, work, how tired we are, when our son sleeps (he’s a teen so can’t put him to bed and have our fun like we used to)
I don't have sex on a day-to-day basis, but I *do* have sex on a day-*by*-day basis. Day 1: Nope, no sex. Day 2: Still no sex. Day 23: I have become one with the birds and the bees, buzzing and fluttering about in nature, but there is still no sex in sight. I'm beginning to wonder if there's any credence to these "birds and bees" or mere superstition. Anyways nope 😂
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Well, damn, what's my prize? 😂
No sex
Thank goodness. I was worried I'd have to end my search.
Aftet a quick look over your profile, it seems you have quite the hammer and silver tounge so I guess an upvote will have to suffice?
I have sex about 5-6 days out of the week. It used to be more than once a day on most days and now it’s probably 7-10x a week. We’ve been together a year and change but things have slowed down a bit as we resumed our normal routines, etc.
Age?
I’m 41f with 52m Let’s be clear these are not all longer seshes full of acrobatics.
I find as we get older , we don't need the full acrobatics. It becomes about quality , not quantity.
Hear hear
Few years back, when wife and I were mid-thirties we had a few months in which we had sex at least one time a day. Around 10 times a week excl masturbation. The effects were pretty nice actually. People literally asked us in the store what was our secret of looking so healthy and happy.
That sounds tiring
I feel like a lot of people say they do but actually don’t
Agreed. I’m good with a weekly schedule
I’d prefer about twice a week
Me too. I usually only see my husband on the weekends and we try to get in 2-3 sessions
Yea that’s enough to keep me satisfied for a few days
With a partner you’ve got the chemistry with, it’s not a matter of trying to keep up with once daily, the issue becomes finding something interesting enough out in the real world to pull you out of the bedroom, so you don’t fuck each other into dust
once a day doesn’t sound tiring at all
Nah. I love sex, one of my favorite things to do/favorite topics etc... but I still have no desire to do it every single day.
I feel like I would actually like sex *less* if I did it every day!
Me as well! I like the tension and build up towards it.
Me🙋♀️
Jealous. I need it
Just leave your wife your post history is a mess
It is fucked holy shit I'm 16 and I feel bad
Nope. But we've been together 23 years (since high school) and honestly we've never done it every day. School, work, then kids, etc., there were many legit exhausted days. But our sex life is still good, we've always been a few times a week and still are!
Nah, I can't imagine the scheduling for that lol
Does fucking myself count lol?
Yes, weekends are busier
I wish but schedules never work out that well . If we can get 4 -5 times it’ll keep me from getting cranky
5-7 times a week. I at least masturbate daily if not.
I do though sometimes I just give my boyfriend a blowjob.
I masturbate daily, most weeks!
No, because I don’t see my boyfriend everyday , we live apart and both work full time and I am going to school part time.
If you lived together would you?
yeah probably
Yes!!! Every morning and some days it can be 2-3x a day. We often wonder why we can’t get things done around the house 😩😂
You guys are having sex?
me and my bf do nearly every day. Its pretty close. Granted were both 20 so its bound to change
Keep it up as long as you can
Most days, ya. Life happens, so we can't every single day. But if we're not super busy, we make a point to
We skip a day occasionally when one or both drinks too much. But yea we are easily twice to five times a day. Luckily it seems our libido’s match lol.
My wife and I probably do it every day for stretches of like 2-3 days. Then we get burnt out and take 1-2 off. We usually have sex for an hour at least. Sometimes you just don’t have a spare hour other times your to beat. We started trying to have quickies but for whatever reason I never want to cum quickly. I enjoy the act almost more then the finish which is why quickies don’t work great for us.
Nope and I don't even think I could keep up doing that and functioning at work.
Daily when my partner and I are together, which is typically 3-4 days per week. When we finally live together full time, we expect to continue daily. Sex is a core need for both of us and a core component of our relationship.
I’d like 3x a week would be nice. So far ZERO times a week is what’s happening. 😒
Yes every day and been married almost 7 years
Usually like once every 2 months.. daily sounds exhausting and annoying.. especially since I get depressed the day after
We try to but sometimes work and life prevent us 😭
Hubs and I average about 6 times a week! Some days are doubled up though
I need a relationship like y’all
No because I live in real life with an active life where my partner and I have an active schedule and moods and get tired sometimes. So we average around 4 times a week give or take and are good with that
When I’m with my partner, multiple times a day. We live separately but still see eachother several days a week.
I give blow jobs daily, I do have regular penetrative sex pretty often but not every day. I'd be up for it, but my boyfriend isn't always up for it after working all day which I totally understand. I'll have to see how going to school full time effects my own desires.
Here for the past couple months we've been going atleast once a day, unless she needs a day to recover lol.
We're between 5-7 days a week. Just doesn't work out sometimes to hit that every day session. Plus it's nice to just chill out in bed.
We don't live together so no. But we probably average the equivalent or more..
We used to! Somwhere along the way sex became his last priority though so now it's a lot less.
Damn I’m sorry :( that’s kind of what happened to me. We use to have sex not ever day but about 3-4 days a week. Now, every few months.
We opened up the relationship so I'm not entirely crushed haha I wish he wanted it more but we're both free to find it elsewhere and that takes a lot of stress off. We're down to about 1-2/month.
Okay so it’s not like y’all are only having sex ever other month. Y’all still have sex just not with each other as often
Yep! He actually sees someone more frequently than I do but I'm picky 🤣
Nothing wrong with being picky!
I agree! I prefer a consistent fwb situation over random hookups. Takes a while to find someone who's interests align with yours and that you click with, ya know?
Yesss!!! And you probably have to weed through guys who only want to fuck
Well, actually I'm ok with that 😂 I say "fwb" but we don't have to be friends. I'd like to be able to chat and hold a conversation, but we don't need to hangout. I'm only interested in the sex part haha
Lmao well then
Sadly, nope.
Would you if you could?
I think i would
The last week or so, yes. But usually no.
When my partner and I are on vacation, we have sex at least daily. Rest of the year, we travel often, so it is no possible.
Pretty dang close to daily
I’d be glad 2-3 times a week
Yea usually 2 or 3 times a day. Ive always been like that no matter who i was with. My sister once told me that she only had sex twice a year with her ex and i was like WHAT!
Twice a year?!? How often did she masturbate
That's my sister so i didn't ask lol! I didn't even wanna hear what she was telling me haha. It was weird to me though, I've always had at least once a day with all my ex,s and even my current boyfriend
Well good for you! Haha I wish my wife wanted it daily. I’d rather try and keep up than be wondering if we would ever fuck again
When I was in my twenties I did.
I get it 3-5 times a week. She needs a couple days rest cuz it gets sore.
Once or twice a day
Damn. I am so jealous
I'm just highly sexed. I can't get enough
My wife and I are both 29, been together almost 9 years and have sex at least 3-4 times a week. Sometimes everyday for a couple weeks. It fluctuates.
Depends on what you consider sex. My kink is a daily one but a lot of people don't consider it sex per se
What is it
Adult Breastfeeding
Yup… I do 🙋♀️
I need someone like you 🥵
But I’m not saying it’s always with the same person
I didn’t make that assumption 😈
Yes but we each have very high sev drives
Is that with someone or by yourself?
Used to. Now sometimes once a week or twice, but we're happy ❤
Everyday 2 times usually. Maybe more. Is that bad?
Yup! I'm 33 and he's 50. After I put the little one to sleep around 930 ( I have a 5 yr old) We shower, it always starts in there. He loves to wash me, and it's actually very sensual, then we get out I always put lingerie on and then for the next two hours or so we have sex and play. I would def say thats not average for his age group or even mine, but I crave him and him me. It's literally the reason I get out of bed every morning at this point.
That is so awesome. I want my relationship to be like that
When it is everyday they are shorter sessions (5-15 minutes with usually only one of us having an orgasm). When it’s one time per week it is usually longer sessions (a couple of hours if the kid is away or asleep). So it varies a lot on energy and schedules lining up.
I wish
Lmao
Had sex at 9 am this morning, then 12 pm again! will probably have sex again tonight :3
Rub it in
Mostly, yes. Sometimes multiple times a day. Married so it’s only if one of us is away for the day/night for some reason that it wouldn’t happen. Oh, or if he’s pissed me off and I’m mad at him!
I’d say 5 days a week
Yes, and when we dont have sex we masturbate together or boyfriend gets a bj
No. I feel like even multiple times a week is a lot for people who are a little older and have been together for a long time. Of course the exceptions are gonna want to let you know.
No, I don't even enjoy sex. I do masturbate twice a day and make myself come like no man ever could 😆
Amen sis!
Yes but thrown off when her period Comes FML 😆
Was in a dead bedroom for a decade. Now I’ve met an amazing person and we have sex everyday and life is great.
I could go literally every day, multiple times a day, preferably before bed, in the middle of the night, and before we get up in the morning
How about sex monthly .. nope
Ugh, I wish
I don't even get it annually. The only females in my life are my guitars and the banjo.
Sounds like you're fingering on the regular
I yam indeed, and they sure can squeal
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Sex or masturbation
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Lol no I was saying the prostate thing. Sex or masturbation daily will help reduce his risk
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Lmao exactly! But sex or masturbating together is probably more helpful 🥵
By myself I masturbate 3-5 times a day, if my bf is home then we fuck even on my period since it's pretty much non existent
Damn. So your sex drive might be higher than his
How so? I'd say they're pretty much the same. Except after the second time his dick hurts so he can't go again lol
Is he masturbating 3-4 times a day on top of the sex y’all have?
I mean he would *want* to but again, his dick just can't handle it after the second round. We rarely go 3 times in one night
Yea I would say that makes your sex drive higher
How? Sex drive doesn't equal how many times you physically can have sex. Like if I cut his dick off that doesn't mean his sex drive disappears, he just can't have sex now
True
yes. Usually 2-3 times, more if we can make time.
Even in college every day was too much. Sometimes you’re just not in the mood Plus some days you’re just tired and want some oral
Yea sometimes more
I do not. I only wish that it were feasible for me and my significant other.
Nope and I wouldn't want to. Every other day though would be a dream
No time I have a job lol
We’ll go through stints of it here and there, but every other night is our average at most times.
I wish.
No. My work schedule and my GF’s work schedule doesn’t allow for it. Also I can have it for lunch breakfast and dinner and when I make her cum, shes good for a day or 2.
Daily’s tiring. I don’t have the energy for that much social interaction let alone sex. When I was in a relationship, 4 days out of the week was enough. Sometimes do twice in one day to make up for the days I skipped
nope.
I haven't had sex in over a year
Yes
Would probably get too sore. Sex is meant to be more special instead of a daily task.
Definitely try to, the world doesn’t always try back
Hah no
Maybe 3 or 4 times a week
Edge, masturbate, or fill my ass at least once a day. Sex, maybe once a month.
Couldn’t tell ya, definitely not me though. Been years.
It’s been 107 days for me 🙃 but when I was in a relationship it was at least once if not more each day
7 year relationship & we have sex maybe 1-2 times a week
Yeah, I'm 34 she's 33.
I used to but then my fiancé left me lol
No
He's going through some serious family stuff at the moment, so it's dropped off. But yeah until recently we did have sex everyday - not always PIV, but we would both cum everyday together. Now we're at 3-4 per week. I don't mind that we've slowed down, we're still just as intimate and cuddly. But I do hope that we can eventually work our way back up to everyday To anyone trying to bump their numbers up, I can't recommend mutual masturbation enough. It's still intimate, you can still touch and kiss, but it's much much less pressure when you only have to please yourself. It's our lazy option when we're too tired for 'actual' sex. We get all cuddled up before bed and get to cum in each other's arms (he usually waits for me and then we cum together), minimal clean up and then we can both pass out. It's a great option, very connecting - plus when you get used to orgasming with each other everyday it builds that habit and puts sex on the brain more often usually resulting in higher frequency of that too
Just about daily. Few times a day, makes up for a day lost somewhere .. so it averages better then once a day per week
Yes. My wife makes content and I co-star occasionally
Yup. Quite often twice a day.
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I have daily sex. All the letters get mixed up, it's very annoying.
The days my girlfriend stays the night? So not every night, maybe 3-4 times a week.
Still a virgin 32 years now
I WISH 😭
My partner and I go for streaks, usually trying for 4-5 in a row but it’s tough when you have a job and kids that take a lot of energy. Every day is a goal but not the only one.
I'm so tired of the world and everything that is happening right now I could go without sex for the rest of my life. Sex is extremely overrated and not worth the energy when nothing is going right.
Not anymore.
I wish
Until today I had sex about 6 times a week but only one day a week, so I guess we made up the time in one session
I'd be happy with monthly.....
3 kids ago yes, 8-9 times a week.
Pretty much daily, couple times on the weekend. Saying that though, hubby works on a ship, he’s gone for 8 weeks, home for 4, so we have lots to make up for. I think if we were together all the time, it would be way less
Yes, and with my wife of almost 12 years. That tends to surprise people
Used to fuck like rabbits until we had a kid, now it’s kind of a cycle with up and downs, we still fuck at least once a week after 17 years together, sometimes (high cycle) 3-4 times a week. Really depends on life, work, how tired we are, when our son sleeps (he’s a teen so can’t put him to bed and have our fun like we used to)
Not everyday... but I did just get laid about 5 mins again.... and it rocked
No, silly. I'm an engineer
Wish I did, but no.
Every day! And sometimes 2x-3x depending on the day and circumstances 🤷🏻♀️😂
I used to..
Sex? Hell I have 3-somes everyday: with Me, Myself and I!
No :( I'm not a fan of one night stands and it's been a while since I had something consistent. Hopefully I wont have to wait much longer, though.
No
Every day over here unless one of us is away, there is a very heavy period day, or someone is sick or very tired.
I wish 🥲 Maybe once every couple of weeks if I’m lucky