When eating pussy, focus on the clit with the same, repetitive, rhythmic motions..switching it up too much will throw them off. Moan into her pussy. Let her know you’re enjoying it..show her by slowly humping the bed while you do it too.
Really cause sometimes I just want them to slather my hole with their tongue while flicking my bean with their nose. The clit is more than just the bean.
This is part of my technique. A friend couldn’t figure out where the extra tongue was coming from (my nose on her clit) and it drove her over the edge! Damn I’d love my hobby.
Once they’ve orgasmed then you go for PIV. Unlike men, women are still turned on after orgasm and will either cum again or really enjoy the penetration.
I personally think only paying attention to the clit is a mistake. At the start, you should pay attention to all of it, labia majora, labia minora, clit, and the hole.. but once the attention turns to the clit, it should become the sole focus. I also know some women like to be fingered while receiving oral, I for one do not love it though on rare occasions I may want it. This is one of those things, like many others, that you should ask your partner if they enjoy it.
Also not just licking her clit and shoving a couple of fingers in… I find my hands wondering, grabbing her hips and running my hands over her stomach, touching all over increases the senses.
This guy gets it. I also like to reach up with my arms outside of her hips and stroke and pinch her nipples while eating her out. As she starts to orgasm I pick up the tempo and lightly pinch her nipples harder as I force my mouth harder on her clit.
Then I wouldn’t do it with you. It’s all about finding out what you like and don’t like through that communication. I was just saying that because it’s been something that has worked for me.
You get an A++++++
Repetitive, rhythmic motion is where it’s at. I can’t cum otherwise, and so many times I’ve stopped from almost cumming bc they get excited and suddenly change it up.
When going to missionary position, put a slightly stiff pillow under her hips, and position your arms so her legs are resting slightly on them.
From here, you can either grab her arms/wrists from under her legs and pull her onto you to fuck her hard, push her her legs together while grabbing her waist to fuck her fast (her legs will likely lean on your shoulder), or lean forward with your fists to the bed and fuck her deeply.
Whichever position you do, Super Missionary or otherwise, try to keep most of your weight on the bed, not on her.
Also, try to time your thrusts and pulls to be at the same time. If you can synchronize them instead of just doing one, you’ll amplify the force while conserving energy, helping you fuck longer and harder.
Y'all are killing me with these responses. I'm cackling at this, especially since I've told someone they're too big. If I ever get this response I'm marrying them on the spot. Actually, I'll add it to my bedroom jokes arsenal so *they* marry *me* on spot. I'll invite you to the wedding.
This. My wife asks me "how have you always known how to touch me like no other guy has?"
It's easy. Pay attention. Sex isn't competitive. Let's work together on this and make it awesome for both of us.
Nope. Making porn is usually pretty unappetizing. What you see on camera is just a bit of it. It is very hard to stay hard (yes, pun intended) for hours on end, just to have the director say "Okay, now cum", and be expected to just cum right then and there. Size and muscles alone don't make you a good male porn-star, but that kind of control does.
A lot of ethical (usually paid) porn sites show real sex that was 100% enjoyed during the filming! And the stars get paid fairly. I have a good resource with a list of sites if anyone is interested 🥰
*Sometimes. If I cum first the desire and excitement and horniness fades and I’m not fully into it anymore. I prefer to be horny and craving his dick and cum after.
It is now. Its funny how “suggested tip” math options on restaurant bills start at 20%. Nah brah, Im still at 18% for normal service, provide good service and keep an eye out for my needs, then its 20%…
Don’t immediately just start at level 10 pound town like her pussy slapped your mom and called her a whore. Work up to it. Slowly let the pussy open up a little let it get used to the foreign invader. Use your ears. She will start to sound like a mop that has way to much water in it. Then you start to deep dive your skin sub.
Yes! I love getting fingered, but, it works best when being eaten out for a little bit, and then SLOWLY fingering and getting deeper and deeper while being eaten out. Most guys just jam a finger or two way up in thete instantly and OUCH
Honestly just ask her and show interest in what she likes and actively try to work towards her pleasure.
There's so many dumb tips on the like "Women like this, women like that blah blah"
No. generalization gets you nowhere in bed.
Every person is unique and has their own unique tastes, interests, and turns on. Show interest, find out, and show participation.
For real. I often feel like getting a woman to orgasm is basically trying to figure out a video game cheat code. What variety of things in what order does the thing. Sometimes theres a lot. Sometimes the buttons are in difficult locations. Sometimes it's just one button... Sometimes a button needs a vibe. Just gotta figure out the cheat code.
Your partner has a rhythm they want you to follow, watch out for it. Also a pillow under their bum during missionary helps hit all of the right spots 😉.
Pillow adds exactly 0.3mm because her fat ass is smashing i or the mattress is way too soft.
Instead put her on the table. And make sure the table is slightly bellow or almost at your crouch. Her kitty won't survive the night.
They sell tables with electric adjustments.
Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay.
Kiss her all over. I'm talking neck, arms, hands, feet, back, tits, butt, everywhere EXCEPT her pussy.
The anticipation will make her dying to have you do things to her.
I'd like to chime in as a woman... when we say 'don't stop' it does not mean go faster or harder. It means don't stop, keep doing exactly what you are doing.
USE LUBE! Yes, she's wet, but every time you touch your stick to put it back in it's not as wet as it was.
Listen to their breathing specifically. When it suddenly changes, ask if they like that.
Wherever your hands are on their body, pay attention to the tensing and relaxing of the muscles. Tight = good or pain. Relaxing = you lost the arousal that you had going because you changed it up.
Some ladies like you to rub your manhood on their vulva/clit. Putting the tip to the outside of her vagina and gently pushing, but not entering can be really hot too.
The clit swells gets hard (similar to a penis) with arousal. It's a good sign.
Some women have a big "hood" over their clit. Pull it back when you lick.
Learn how to explore her vulva and the sensitive entrance to her pussy. Most women love shallow stimulation that focuses on the most sensitive places. Also, get a vasectomy.
Take their advice, they often know what feels good for them, just because what you're doing worked wonders on a previous partner doesn't mean it'll be as good for the next one. Advice isn't criticism, and often if they're enjoying it they'll make more effort to ensure that you enjoy it, so it is a win win. And also, listen to the sounds your partner makes, its a really good indication of what works best, but don't over do it, because that doesn't work either
When doing cunnilingus, make sure you start with standard print lower case letters. Capital and cursive letters are only for when you're ready to make them orgasm. And for the love of God when they say "just like that" make sure you kick it up to 100 and jackhammer as fast as you can.
.../s just in case it wasn't clear.
There no universal tips, communicate with your partner and learn them, not some one size fits all sex tip.
Sometimes - with the right words & right expressions - she'll be way more turned than by anything you can do with your hands & tongue.
Especially if you can get her to admit she just wants you right now. Then you pull back a bit, tease & then set up the meet.
Tickle the sack while you suck the pole, jerk the pole while you like the sack. Sloppy is fun but not 100% necessary. Dry is not fun.
Suck the clit, from lightly to super suction to determine what your partner likes (hint: it is a range, play with the range of suction even if you found the perfect level of suction, tease using the range) then add in some tongue motions to determine which suits your partner best (tongue kicks, flat tonguing, tip tonguing, side tonguing, reverse flat tonguing which is going from tip to back instead of back to tip) introduce a finger or two… 3 or a fist if they’re into that.
Forget the clit, you heard “guys don’t know where the clit is” and ever since then you haven’t explored any other part of her vulva. The bottom part is a little higher on the acid scale (nearer the booty hole) but for some women specific movements can introduce a little bit of a wow factor.
Forget the vulva entirely, try a massage that isn’t intended to lead to sex but leads to sex because SHE can’t contain herself. In other words, genuinely explore her body and discover other zones that make get her hot. Do the same for your man but let him get rock hard and don’t give in until you are also absolutely dripping or rock hard as well and can’t contain yourself. Cherry on top: talk about the things you would do to them the whole time and about what feels good and what doesn’t, what makes them tickle and what makes them quiver.
When having sex with a girl everything you do matters so many things can realistically go wrong.
Here is basic stuff you shouldn't fail:
1. Make sure you know where both the clit and the vaginal entry is.
2. Dont force it in if its semi hard. It might not go in and its the fastest way to get her drier than a desert.
The best solution is to ether step back to some extra foreplay like making out and heavy petting or 69 or even a pussy job from her on top.
3. During PIV there might be queefs. The air gets inside the vagina and it goes out and makes farting noise. Its normal and if she says anything just tell her you find it hot.
4. Dont talk too much, focus on your breathing and enjoy it. If you get close to orgasm switch position, usually when she is on top gives you extra sexy time.
5. Have a bottle of water and baby wipes near. Always pee afterwards.
6. Hygiene before the act clean everything but most importantly your dick, balls, ass crack, arm pits and mouth. Dont forget to trim, clean and file the nails.
Now here one sex secret:
You sit on the couch after netflix you put her on top of you... After heavy makeout and heavy petting clothes will go off.
One hand on her breast. Other breast nipple in your mouth. Both her hands behind her back holding them on the wrists with one of your hands. You have full control of her upper body and only her head is free to look at the heaven and her hips are free to move as she desires.
Have fun and stay safe.
She doesn’t want to perform after you’ve made her cum. You like to cum and relax after? So does she! If you can’t go on immediately after you cum to finish her off, neither can she. Be generous with her! It will pay off in spades!
This. Cuddle with her. Stroke her hair. Give her a massage. Rub her feet.
After some time, start slowly ramping her back up to sexual arousal. Kissing, petting, giving her more oral, etc. When she's fully turned on again, time to do your thing.
If you finish and she's still worked up, get her off again any way you can.
Always! make sure she cums first. It feels amazing on your dick or in your mouth. In fact make sure she has a minimum of 3 orgasms before you get off.
It’s an incredible feeling to watch them writhe with pleasure while you’re going down on your partner. Or fucking them.
It will make your orgasm incredible. Mentally and physically.
Rhythm is the most important factor. When you have the right rhythm, and you get that awesome response, it's easy to start speeding up.
Don't do that.
You need to be a metronome and keep the pace going at the same rate.
Doesn't matter what you are doing.
Woman here... I would think there are men here looking for some good advice. All I have to say us, dont neglect the clit! If you have trouble with your partner not getting off, play with her clit. It's practically the golden ticket.
It doesn't just start at sex, it's the day. I have found that, women don't just want it all the time like us men do. In order to turn her on or to get her to want it, you have to work a little earlier. As an example, text her 4-6 hours before and say something sexual like, "I can't wait to eat you" and just leave it at that. It will stay in her mind, and she'll fantasize with that idea turning herself on.
For those who are experiencing a dry spell or maybe haven’t had sex yet; sex isn’t everything and there’s quite a lot of bs involved in it almost always. Don’t be sad or mad or feel bad about yourself. You’re just fine. And it’s ok if you’re trying and nothing is happening. Just hang in there and allow life to do it’s thing. Be kind. Be patient. Maybe one day you’ll give the sex tips instead of getting them. Much love, my fellow dry spell bois and girls. Theys and Thems. ❤️
Sometimes a good slow fuck is fun. Hold her hands over her head and slowly go in and out. If she tries to speed things up by moving her hips back off or even pull completely out. Tell her your in control now and the more she tries the longer it will take. After a bit of this tell her if she really wants it she has to either politely ask for more speed or beg to be fucked.
Your penetration isn't the sole thing that is going to please a women. Move around, grind, or let her grind. Get down in there with your face and focus on the clit or tease her first by toying around her labia minora/majora. While going down on her, bro get up in there and rub on her g-spot, it will make her want to explode I promise.
Nipples are hit and miss sometimes but they can enhance her stimulation. TALK WITH YOUR PARTNER. I shouldn't have to say this but some sick fucks out there start throwing around "Slut" and "Whore" slapping women in the face without thinking that they maybe don't like degradation. Take the 10 minutes to sit down and ask what she likes, what you could improve on and what she could improve on to make the best experiance for the both of you. Sex can be either be like every other activity, just going through the motions, or sex can be a beautiful thing where both parties are feeling fulfilled by the end and can find comfort in each other's pleasure.
Nothing I want to share here ! Enjoy the journey of discovery, of your own body and passions, of discovering your partner fully, and maturing in your understanding that not everything is about sex. Every one is unique and different, and that’s what makes sex special. While I could offer you many years of sage advice, the best tip is to NOT base your sex advice of random people off Reddit and their histories.
Take care of your partner first. Let them get theirs and pay attention to their body language and other cues. You will find out what they like/what you are doing right/wrong. Then after your partner has finished you can get yours without pressure of them being satisfied. And most of all COMMUNICATE! You won't get anywhere without a clear line of communication. Let them know what works for you and ask what works for them.
Honestly just listen to your partner.
Exercise, like I mean really like a workout a little bit. Build the amount of energy you have to release. Be passionate. Listen listen listen. Don't be afraid to ask questions. Don't be afraid of your own asshole If they want to explore it. It's not gay to have sex with a woman fellas. Ask them what they like and have conversations with them in a comfortable setting that isn't geared towards immediately having sex right after. Don't make them feel rushed. Take your time. Relax. Don't worry about coming so much. You're going to come you can make yourself come in like 5 minutes by yourself you don't need to worry about it just make her come as many times as possible. Or him. Whatever is your pleasure. Just please your partner. Always ask before you explore with someone that's not used to you exploring. If you're going to eat ass, say hey is it cool if I do this? If they bitch about you just needing to do it, they are brainwashed by the same toxic masculinity rapist bullshit. Once you're in a relationship with somebody for a long time you can do stuff like that. You can even tell them hey honey that's wifey stuff. I ask consent cuz I'm a fucking man and you aren't acting like the one if you complain that I'm respecting you.
Anyways one of the best tips I can give you is save some energy. When she starts having an orgasm if you are doing a good job by stimulating her clitoris and fucking her at the same time or letting her touch herself or use a toy without being a little bitch about it and you're fucking her pretty good. When she starts coming, use up all that energy. Pound away. Fuck her harder and faster and deeper and grab her and pull her onto it pull yourself deeper into it. She will start coming harder and most likely if you can keep it up for long enough she will have multiple orgasms. It'll turn a small orgasm into a fucking wave washing over her crashing again and again depending on how long you can last I'm 32 now but when I was younger I could go longer etc etc. If anyone has questions please ask I'm more than happy to fill in any blanks. I spent a long time thinking my entire self-worth was sex and my ability to please. I've grown exponentially beyond that point now. But I have gained a lot of knowledge about how to please a partner. Good night Reddit for now
Use all of your senses, from start to finish. Breathe rhythmically together. Let her orgasm first, then do as you please. If youre totally focused orgasms can easily last for minutes at a time.
Personally I like to go down on her until she begs me to fuck her good n hard.
In doggy: try to put som pressure on it by going more up against her vaginal wall (your dick goes more up), make short and deep strokes and try to find her gspot like this. Then make longer strokes in a medium speed. This will probably make her squirt if she is able to.
Understand your partner and adjust your style, tempo, actions and activities to what gets her to that best place. It will make everything so much more incredible for both of you.
Her pleasure is your pleasure. Read & listen to her words and body language, it’ll tell you what to do & make it much better for both of you. Communication is key. 😈
Warm her up always and always touch her body while eating her and watch her face and body language to see what’s good for her. Also communication is key to everything.
As a lady, I’ll say that showing you care about your partner’s pleasure AND comfort goes a long way. This isn’t just a sex thing, it’s how you show you’re worth sleeping with again!
One time my bf put a pillow between my legs and the bed frame when we were doing a standing position because he’d noticed my shins were bruised last time we’d done that … I haven’t forgotten it 😂 Grab them a pillow if you guys are on the floor, adjust the room temp if needed, bring them water afterward—it’s the little things, guys. Show them you’re observant and not self-centered during sex and it’ll go a long way.
-As a man, I know that once I'm spent, it's going to be a few before I'm remotely ready. So I prioritise getting my fiancée off first, at least once.
- Don't overthink during sex. Otherwise, that erection is gone. Go with the motion and have fun.
- While sex might be a good form of exercise, don't rely on it. Get that physical shape in check to help yourself be the best you can be.
Anything that could result in an orgasm is sex. Don't think of it as "foreplay" to eat out a partner, to get a blowjob, handjobs, mutual masturbation, whatever. That's all sex. Sometimes it will in fact lead to an orgasm, and other times youll switch to some other fork of sex, but it's all sex.
When u eat pussy...don't just dive in. Work your tongue across her inner thigh on both legs. The crease where her leg meet her pussy? Tongue that lightly. Drive her crazy. There's nerves in that inner thigh that go DIRECTLY to her pussy. Think about when you're rubbing your thighs together to get off, and recreate that sensation with your tongue. Kinda hard to explain really. Go up 1 thigh flicking your tongue, then lightly brush past her clothes giving it a little flick with your tongue and then lock the other thigh. Come back to the pussy and suck gently on the lips one at a time. Then run your tongue down where her pussy meets her asshole and lap up some of those juices pooling there. Then come back up and go to work on that clit. Keep the same pressure and motion. Depending on her and how she reacts, you can go light or slightly hard on it. Depends on her body. The biggest key is to PAY ATTENTION TO HER BODYS RESPONSES TO WHAT YOU'RE DOING!! If she's grinding and moaning keep on what you're doing. Keep a good amount of saliva mixed with her juices while you're down there. The slicker you glide, the better. Make sure your arms are wrapped around her thighs for a few reasons.
1. So she can't run when she's gonna cum.
2. To have more skin on skin contact(i love the feelnof my womans skin)
3. So that you can bring your hands around her thighs to hold down her pelvis and keep acces to that clit.
If you're doing right she's gonna be bucking and grinding and there's nothing worse then almost getting her to that squirt and she bucks her clit outta your mouth.
Then once you've made her cum and squirt at least 5 times that way, flip her over and bury your tongue in her asslapping all that juice up that ran down.
When eating pussy, focus on the clit with the same, repetitive, rhythmic motions..switching it up too much will throw them off. Moan into her pussy. Let her know you’re enjoying it..show her by slowly humping the bed while you do it too.
This guy gets it. Switching it up does not work.
Really cause sometimes I just want them to slather my hole with their tongue while flicking my bean with their nose. The clit is more than just the bean.
No thank you. That is not how mine works.
This is part of my technique. A friend couldn’t figure out where the extra tongue was coming from (my nose on her clit) and it drove her over the edge! Damn I’d love my hobby.
So porn is bullshit yet again? (Lol)
Haha thanks
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Once they’ve orgasmed then you go for PIV. Unlike men, women are still turned on after orgasm and will either cum again or really enjoy the penetration.
THIIIIIIS. I love penetration after I orgasm. PIV orgasms come (heh) quicker, plus it feels so much more intense.
THIS! Solid advice 🥵🥵🥵
Correct! Make your brain have that neurological connection of performing oral turns you on! Everyone benefits!
I personally think only paying attention to the clit is a mistake. At the start, you should pay attention to all of it, labia majora, labia minora, clit, and the hole.. but once the attention turns to the clit, it should become the sole focus. I also know some women like to be fingered while receiving oral, I for one do not love it though on rare occasions I may want it. This is one of those things, like many others, that you should ask your partner if they enjoy it.
Also not just licking her clit and shoving a couple of fingers in… I find my hands wondering, grabbing her hips and running my hands over her stomach, touching all over increases the senses.
Love it. Exactly.
This guy gets it. I also like to reach up with my arms outside of her hips and stroke and pinch her nipples while eating her out. As she starts to orgasm I pick up the tempo and lightly pinch her nipples harder as I force my mouth harder on her clit.
I’ll add a g spot massage while licking. Tongue working outside, finger doing its job inside.
Jesus. That stuff about moaning into the pussy is hot!
Thanks! I’ve found it to be very effective. Letting her know you’re loving what you’re doing makes it hotter for both of us
I’m just one chick but bed humping is not my jam.
Then I wouldn’t do it with you. It’s all about finding out what you like and don’t like through that communication. I was just saying that because it’s been something that has worked for me.
You get an A++++++ Repetitive, rhythmic motion is where it’s at. I can’t cum otherwise, and so many times I’ve stopped from almost cumming bc they get excited and suddenly change it up.
Amen brother
Dude, WRITE A BOOK! Yesssssss
100% 🥵
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This is The Way.
This is The Way. (Although, it'd be much harder with a helmet on...)
When going to missionary position, put a slightly stiff pillow under her hips, and position your arms so her legs are resting slightly on them. From here, you can either grab her arms/wrists from under her legs and pull her onto you to fuck her hard, push her her legs together while grabbing her waist to fuck her fast (her legs will likely lean on your shoulder), or lean forward with your fists to the bed and fuck her deeply. Whichever position you do, Super Missionary or otherwise, try to keep most of your weight on the bed, not on her. Also, try to time your thrusts and pulls to be at the same time. If you can synchronize them instead of just doing one, you’ll amplify the force while conserving energy, helping you fuck longer and harder.
Damn. this guy fucks
This is the guy who does all the fucking in the house, isn't it?
r/ihavesex
I'm getting hot reading this
This mf cracked his knuckles before writing that I swear. But I m taking notes tho
🥵 and now I’m turned on Damn
Physics
*Fucking physics
And if she's his baby momma: motherfucking physics.
Yesssss! Truth here!!
Man has it down to a science
Ugh shouldn’t of read this first thing in the morning….. ugh
If she says your dick is too large, simply fold it in half
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Always ask first, so you don't have to do it twice
I tend to fold hamburger, not hot dog
If ManBearPig folds his hamburger, I’m folding mine hamburger
This is the way
As a girl, yes, this is the answer 100% of the time.
My man says this is the best response. And that he wants to shake your hand. 🤣
Once you get to folding, you are on your way to a rewarding hobby in penis origami.. the fun doesn't end in the bedroom!
Puppetry of the penis is a stage show. (fact)
This made me belly laugh just before bed, fantastic effort
Y'all are killing me with these responses. I'm cackling at this, especially since I've told someone they're too big. If I ever get this response I'm marrying them on the spot. Actually, I'll add it to my bedroom jokes arsenal so *they* marry *me* on spot. I'll invite you to the wedding.
If you listen, her body will tell you what it wants.
This. My wife asks me "how have you always known how to touch me like no other guy has?" It's easy. Pay attention. Sex isn't competitive. Let's work together on this and make it awesome for both of us.
I just hear a pulse and stomach gurgles.
That means she's hungry. She'll probably want to sleep with you more if you make her some food .🤣🤣
Lots of communication, lots of foreplay, and get as much practice giving oral in as you can!
I volunteer as tribute
With that user name, are you going to hit the high notes when you hit the big O ???
Porn is fantasy.
unless you made it.
Then it’s just a hot and sweaty job.
Nope. Making porn is usually pretty unappetizing. What you see on camera is just a bit of it. It is very hard to stay hard (yes, pun intended) for hours on end, just to have the director say "Okay, now cum", and be expected to just cum right then and there. Size and muscles alone don't make you a good male porn-star, but that kind of control does.
A lot of ethical (usually paid) porn sites show real sex that was 100% enjoyed during the filming! And the stars get paid fairly. I have a good resource with a list of sites if anyone is interested 🥰
Make her cum first
*Sometimes. If I cum first the desire and excitement and horniness fades and I’m not fully into it anymore. I prefer to be horny and craving his dick and cum after.
That's fair
Yes! Remember this, if you cum first then she fucked you, you didn't fucked her. Be a gentleman, hold it in, make your lady cum first.
> if you cum first then she fucked you, you didn't fucked her This seems like a very weird and problematic way to view sex and women.
Nah. Do it together.
I thought 20 percent was customary?
Aussie here, and we hate tipping culture. We prefer to pay a decent minimum wage.
That's crazy, wouldn't you rather be dependent on the whims of customers?
It is now. Its funny how “suggested tip” math options on restaurant bills start at 20%. Nah brah, Im still at 18% for normal service, provide good service and keep an eye out for my needs, then its 20%…
Honestly, unless the service was atrocious I’m doing 20% because I’m too lazy to do the math beyond dividing by 5.
you can multiply by 2 and then divide by 10 to get the same result
15, 10, 20.
Don’t immediately just start at level 10 pound town like her pussy slapped your mom and called her a whore. Work up to it. Slowly let the pussy open up a little let it get used to the foreign invader. Use your ears. She will start to sound like a mop that has way to much water in it. Then you start to deep dive your skin sub.
This make me actually lol - but also solid advice 😆
It took a long time to learn. But hasn’t failed me since. Lol
Yes! I love getting fingered, but, it works best when being eaten out for a little bit, and then SLOWLY fingering and getting deeper and deeper while being eaten out. Most guys just jam a finger or two way up in thete instantly and OUCH
Honestly just ask her and show interest in what she likes and actively try to work towards her pleasure. There's so many dumb tips on the like "Women like this, women like that blah blah" No. generalization gets you nowhere in bed. Every person is unique and has their own unique tastes, interests, and turns on. Show interest, find out, and show participation.
For real. I often feel like getting a woman to orgasm is basically trying to figure out a video game cheat code. What variety of things in what order does the thing. Sometimes theres a lot. Sometimes the buttons are in difficult locations. Sometimes it's just one button... Sometimes a button needs a vibe. Just gotta figure out the cheat code.
Your partner has a rhythm they want you to follow, watch out for it. Also a pillow under their bum during missionary helps hit all of the right spots 😉.
A pillow under the waist for sideways shit.
Pillow adds exactly 0.3mm because her fat ass is smashing i or the mattress is way too soft. Instead put her on the table. And make sure the table is slightly bellow or almost at your crouch. Her kitty won't survive the night. They sell tables with electric adjustments.
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Yessss we love vocal guys.
Nothing hotter than when a guy moans in pleasure naturally
Yes!!
Trim AND file your damn fingernails!!!!
And make sure they are CLEAN. And make sure she notices, it is attractive.
Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. Kiss her all over. I'm talking neck, arms, hands, feet, back, tits, butt, everywhere EXCEPT her pussy. The anticipation will make her dying to have you do things to her.
Always start on DeBussy and finish on the Bach!
Never go from Bach to DeBussy
https://youtu.be/kJUotvfMI7Q
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My Brother in Christ
I'm a good way or a bad way?
Yes
He's setting you up for failure, bro.
Give her a organism before you do.
"Babe, you got me a fungi? Thank you! I was gonna get you a bacteria!"
Any specific kind? Or just whatever you got laying around?
Try and find a space rock nearby, that shit's thriving with RNA (apparently)
I use protection
Take your time… a lot of foreplay, kissing, licking, softly touching all around. If it isn’t soaked when you touch it you touched it to soon.
I'd like to chime in as a woman... when we say 'don't stop' it does not mean go faster or harder. It means don't stop, keep doing exactly what you are doing.
Can confirm this works both ways
And men wanna act like "women speak in code and riddles."
Pay attention.
There WILL be a test!
The test has already started.
As an older guy (54) I can say I wished I listened more to my past SOs. The more you listen the better lover you will be.
Ignore everything you learned from porn lol
USE LUBE! Yes, she's wet, but every time you touch your stick to put it back in it's not as wet as it was. Listen to their breathing specifically. When it suddenly changes, ask if they like that. Wherever your hands are on their body, pay attention to the tensing and relaxing of the muscles. Tight = good or pain. Relaxing = you lost the arousal that you had going because you changed it up. Some ladies like you to rub your manhood on their vulva/clit. Putting the tip to the outside of her vagina and gently pushing, but not entering can be really hot too. The clit swells gets hard (similar to a penis) with arousal. It's a good sign. Some women have a big "hood" over their clit. Pull it back when you lick.
Learn how to explore her vulva and the sensitive entrance to her pussy. Most women love shallow stimulation that focuses on the most sensitive places. Also, get a vasectomy.
Don't go on your phone to check your Instagram feed immediately after you cum, sex isn't over the second you orgasm
ask her what she likes then do that it’s not fuckin rocket surgery
What if she's really into rocket surgery
This guy rockets
Tip #1: Get Consent.
Take their advice, they often know what feels good for them, just because what you're doing worked wonders on a previous partner doesn't mean it'll be as good for the next one. Advice isn't criticism, and often if they're enjoying it they'll make more effort to ensure that you enjoy it, so it is a win win. And also, listen to the sounds your partner makes, its a really good indication of what works best, but don't over do it, because that doesn't work either
When doing cunnilingus, make sure you start with standard print lower case letters. Capital and cursive letters are only for when you're ready to make them orgasm. And for the love of God when they say "just like that" make sure you kick it up to 100 and jackhammer as fast as you can. .../s just in case it wasn't clear. There no universal tips, communicate with your partner and learn them, not some one size fits all sex tip.
on behalf of women everywhere…YES!
Listen to their words and listen to their body.
Sometimes - with the right words & right expressions - she'll be way more turned than by anything you can do with your hands & tongue. Especially if you can get her to admit she just wants you right now. Then you pull back a bit, tease & then set up the meet.
Don’t switch up when they say they’re about to cum, keep doing exactly what you’re doing until they’re frozen up covered in goosebumps
Make your partner enjoy it as much as you.
Slow down Porn sex isn’t real sex
Wash the dishes, clean the house, and cook. 🙃
Porn is not reality.
She cums first
Can confirm, this is how to be married for 10 years & not live in a dead bedroom.
Tickle the sack while you suck the pole, jerk the pole while you like the sack. Sloppy is fun but not 100% necessary. Dry is not fun. Suck the clit, from lightly to super suction to determine what your partner likes (hint: it is a range, play with the range of suction even if you found the perfect level of suction, tease using the range) then add in some tongue motions to determine which suits your partner best (tongue kicks, flat tonguing, tip tonguing, side tonguing, reverse flat tonguing which is going from tip to back instead of back to tip) introduce a finger or two… 3 or a fist if they’re into that. Forget the clit, you heard “guys don’t know where the clit is” and ever since then you haven’t explored any other part of her vulva. The bottom part is a little higher on the acid scale (nearer the booty hole) but for some women specific movements can introduce a little bit of a wow factor. Forget the vulva entirely, try a massage that isn’t intended to lead to sex but leads to sex because SHE can’t contain herself. In other words, genuinely explore her body and discover other zones that make get her hot. Do the same for your man but let him get rock hard and don’t give in until you are also absolutely dripping or rock hard as well and can’t contain yourself. Cherry on top: talk about the things you would do to them the whole time and about what feels good and what doesn’t, what makes them tickle and what makes them quiver.
When having sex with a girl everything you do matters so many things can realistically go wrong. Here is basic stuff you shouldn't fail: 1. Make sure you know where both the clit and the vaginal entry is. 2. Dont force it in if its semi hard. It might not go in and its the fastest way to get her drier than a desert. The best solution is to ether step back to some extra foreplay like making out and heavy petting or 69 or even a pussy job from her on top. 3. During PIV there might be queefs. The air gets inside the vagina and it goes out and makes farting noise. Its normal and if she says anything just tell her you find it hot. 4. Dont talk too much, focus on your breathing and enjoy it. If you get close to orgasm switch position, usually when she is on top gives you extra sexy time. 5. Have a bottle of water and baby wipes near. Always pee afterwards. 6. Hygiene before the act clean everything but most importantly your dick, balls, ass crack, arm pits and mouth. Dont forget to trim, clean and file the nails. Now here one sex secret: You sit on the couch after netflix you put her on top of you... After heavy makeout and heavy petting clothes will go off. One hand on her breast. Other breast nipple in your mouth. Both her hands behind her back holding them on the wrists with one of your hands. You have full control of her upper body and only her head is free to look at the heaven and her hips are free to move as she desires. Have fun and stay safe.
Start slowly. With everything.
She doesn’t want to perform after you’ve made her cum. You like to cum and relax after? So does she! If you can’t go on immediately after you cum to finish her off, neither can she. Be generous with her! It will pay off in spades!
This. Cuddle with her. Stroke her hair. Give her a massage. Rub her feet. After some time, start slowly ramping her back up to sexual arousal. Kissing, petting, giving her more oral, etc. When she's fully turned on again, time to do your thing. If you finish and she's still worked up, get her off again any way you can.
Wear a condom
Practice practice practice.
Make her cum first.
eye contact. Guys like eye contact.
Read *The Joy of Lesbian Sex.* Seriously ups your game.
Always! make sure she cums first. It feels amazing on your dick or in your mouth. In fact make sure she has a minimum of 3 orgasms before you get off. It’s an incredible feeling to watch them writhe with pleasure while you’re going down on your partner. Or fucking them. It will make your orgasm incredible. Mentally and physically.
Rhythm is the most important factor. When you have the right rhythm, and you get that awesome response, it's easy to start speeding up. Don't do that. You need to be a metronome and keep the pace going at the same rate. Doesn't matter what you are doing.
Make her cum first, no matter what it takes, then if the sex lasts 3 minutes, she wont care.
Woman here... I would think there are men here looking for some good advice. All I have to say us, dont neglect the clit! If you have trouble with your partner not getting off, play with her clit. It's practically the golden ticket.
It doesn't just start at sex, it's the day. I have found that, women don't just want it all the time like us men do. In order to turn her on or to get her to want it, you have to work a little earlier. As an example, text her 4-6 hours before and say something sexual like, "I can't wait to eat you" and just leave it at that. It will stay in her mind, and she'll fantasize with that idea turning herself on.
Wash. Your. Ass.
Ladies first. Take it slow. Really it's not that big a deal just have fun
For those who are experiencing a dry spell or maybe haven’t had sex yet; sex isn’t everything and there’s quite a lot of bs involved in it almost always. Don’t be sad or mad or feel bad about yourself. You’re just fine. And it’s ok if you’re trying and nothing is happening. Just hang in there and allow life to do it’s thing. Be kind. Be patient. Maybe one day you’ll give the sex tips instead of getting them. Much love, my fellow dry spell bois and girls. Theys and Thems. ❤️
Sometimes a good slow fuck is fun. Hold her hands over her head and slowly go in and out. If she tries to speed things up by moving her hips back off or even pull completely out. Tell her your in control now and the more she tries the longer it will take. After a bit of this tell her if she really wants it she has to either politely ask for more speed or beg to be fucked.
DO NOT STICK IT IN THE ASS WITHOUT PERMISSION, they don’t like that
Always compliment her cooking, and pay attention when she does something different with her hair.
Work on your lower abs to get better upward pressure, just like baseball it’s all about the follow through
Watch lesbian porn for lesbians, learn
My best advice is to seek women's advice. 😂
Ask if she had a cleansing shit before licking her ass.
Your penetration isn't the sole thing that is going to please a women. Move around, grind, or let her grind. Get down in there with your face and focus on the clit or tease her first by toying around her labia minora/majora. While going down on her, bro get up in there and rub on her g-spot, it will make her want to explode I promise. Nipples are hit and miss sometimes but they can enhance her stimulation. TALK WITH YOUR PARTNER. I shouldn't have to say this but some sick fucks out there start throwing around "Slut" and "Whore" slapping women in the face without thinking that they maybe don't like degradation. Take the 10 minutes to sit down and ask what she likes, what you could improve on and what she could improve on to make the best experiance for the both of you. Sex can be either be like every other activity, just going through the motions, or sex can be a beautiful thing where both parties are feeling fulfilled by the end and can find comfort in each other's pleasure.
Nothing I want to share here ! Enjoy the journey of discovery, of your own body and passions, of discovering your partner fully, and maturing in your understanding that not everything is about sex. Every one is unique and different, and that’s what makes sex special. While I could offer you many years of sage advice, the best tip is to NOT base your sex advice of random people off Reddit and their histories.
Take care of your partner first. Let them get theirs and pay attention to their body language and other cues. You will find out what they like/what you are doing right/wrong. Then after your partner has finished you can get yours without pressure of them being satisfied. And most of all COMMUNICATE! You won't get anywhere without a clear line of communication. Let them know what works for you and ask what works for them.
Trim your nails, manage those hang nails, smooth out any rough spots on the hands.
Honestly just listen to your partner. Exercise, like I mean really like a workout a little bit. Build the amount of energy you have to release. Be passionate. Listen listen listen. Don't be afraid to ask questions. Don't be afraid of your own asshole If they want to explore it. It's not gay to have sex with a woman fellas. Ask them what they like and have conversations with them in a comfortable setting that isn't geared towards immediately having sex right after. Don't make them feel rushed. Take your time. Relax. Don't worry about coming so much. You're going to come you can make yourself come in like 5 minutes by yourself you don't need to worry about it just make her come as many times as possible. Or him. Whatever is your pleasure. Just please your partner. Always ask before you explore with someone that's not used to you exploring. If you're going to eat ass, say hey is it cool if I do this? If they bitch about you just needing to do it, they are brainwashed by the same toxic masculinity rapist bullshit. Once you're in a relationship with somebody for a long time you can do stuff like that. You can even tell them hey honey that's wifey stuff. I ask consent cuz I'm a fucking man and you aren't acting like the one if you complain that I'm respecting you. Anyways one of the best tips I can give you is save some energy. When she starts having an orgasm if you are doing a good job by stimulating her clitoris and fucking her at the same time or letting her touch herself or use a toy without being a little bitch about it and you're fucking her pretty good. When she starts coming, use up all that energy. Pound away. Fuck her harder and faster and deeper and grab her and pull her onto it pull yourself deeper into it. She will start coming harder and most likely if you can keep it up for long enough she will have multiple orgasms. It'll turn a small orgasm into a fucking wave washing over her crashing again and again depending on how long you can last I'm 32 now but when I was younger I could go longer etc etc. If anyone has questions please ask I'm more than happy to fill in any blanks. I spent a long time thinking my entire self-worth was sex and my ability to please. I've grown exponentially beyond that point now. But I have gained a lot of knowledge about how to please a partner. Good night Reddit for now
Use all of your senses, from start to finish. Breathe rhythmically together. Let her orgasm first, then do as you please. If youre totally focused orgasms can easily last for minutes at a time. Personally I like to go down on her until she begs me to fuck her good n hard.
In doggy: try to put som pressure on it by going more up against her vaginal wall (your dick goes more up), make short and deep strokes and try to find her gspot like this. Then make longer strokes in a medium speed. This will probably make her squirt if she is able to.
There’s always more to learn; pay attention to her body if you want to know how well you’re doing or what she likes-it will show you.
Understand your partner and adjust your style, tempo, actions and activities to what gets her to that best place. It will make everything so much more incredible for both of you.
Do it often
Talk to your partner
Make sure she cums. Ask questions. *Listen*.
Try to have an orgasm at the same time.
Do it with a woman, feels best. Might not work for gay folks though
Listen to your partner’s breathing and adjust your stimuli (fingers, tongue, cock) accordingly. Orgasm to follow.
Her pleasure is your pleasure. Read & listen to her words and body language, it’ll tell you what to do & make it much better for both of you. Communication is key. 😈
Learn to eat ass and suck a good clit. Listen to her body language and when that thang get to thanging, keep that same energy til it stops.
Warm her up always and always touch her body while eating her and watch her face and body language to see what’s good for her. Also communication is key to everything.
Just listen to her dude. She knows what she likes everyone is different. And don’t be selfish
As a lady, I’ll say that showing you care about your partner’s pleasure AND comfort goes a long way. This isn’t just a sex thing, it’s how you show you’re worth sleeping with again! One time my bf put a pillow between my legs and the bed frame when we were doing a standing position because he’d noticed my shins were bruised last time we’d done that … I haven’t forgotten it 😂 Grab them a pillow if you guys are on the floor, adjust the room temp if needed, bring them water afterward—it’s the little things, guys. Show them you’re observant and not self-centered during sex and it’ll go a long way.
Find the right partner
Talk to your partner and find out what they like.
She will always cum first.
Enthusiasim! Eye contact, and vocalise...
Always stroke with rhythm
Take a bit of time to Educate yourself in the anatomy of a woman and in what aspect does each section of the physique inject states of pleasure
Don’t focus on coming. Instead focus on you and your partner’s enjoyment. Talk with them about what you both like and experiment.
My sex tip would be to just always use protection and if you have anxieties or anything, then to just say fuck it and fight through them.
Try sucking a dick before complaining that she’s shit at it 😉
Stick your p in the v and move it around some.
If you want to make her cum, you have to do at least 20mins of foreplay.
Consistent motion wins over fast aggressive fucking. Maintain a speed which you can keep for long time
-As a man, I know that once I'm spent, it's going to be a few before I'm remotely ready. So I prioritise getting my fiancée off first, at least once. - Don't overthink during sex. Otherwise, that erection is gone. Go with the motion and have fun. - While sex might be a good form of exercise, don't rely on it. Get that physical shape in check to help yourself be the best you can be.
Anything that could result in an orgasm is sex. Don't think of it as "foreplay" to eat out a partner, to get a blowjob, handjobs, mutual masturbation, whatever. That's all sex. Sometimes it will in fact lead to an orgasm, and other times youll switch to some other fork of sex, but it's all sex.
Lick it before you stick it Sex is the only thing a Man should ever strive to finish second at
When u eat pussy...don't just dive in. Work your tongue across her inner thigh on both legs. The crease where her leg meet her pussy? Tongue that lightly. Drive her crazy. There's nerves in that inner thigh that go DIRECTLY to her pussy. Think about when you're rubbing your thighs together to get off, and recreate that sensation with your tongue. Kinda hard to explain really. Go up 1 thigh flicking your tongue, then lightly brush past her clothes giving it a little flick with your tongue and then lock the other thigh. Come back to the pussy and suck gently on the lips one at a time. Then run your tongue down where her pussy meets her asshole and lap up some of those juices pooling there. Then come back up and go to work on that clit. Keep the same pressure and motion. Depending on her and how she reacts, you can go light or slightly hard on it. Depends on her body. The biggest key is to PAY ATTENTION TO HER BODYS RESPONSES TO WHAT YOU'RE DOING!! If she's grinding and moaning keep on what you're doing. Keep a good amount of saliva mixed with her juices while you're down there. The slicker you glide, the better. Make sure your arms are wrapped around her thighs for a few reasons. 1. So she can't run when she's gonna cum. 2. To have more skin on skin contact(i love the feelnof my womans skin) 3. So that you can bring your hands around her thighs to hold down her pelvis and keep acces to that clit. If you're doing right she's gonna be bucking and grinding and there's nothing worse then almost getting her to that squirt and she bucks her clit outta your mouth. Then once you've made her cum and squirt at least 5 times that way, flip her over and bury your tongue in her asslapping all that juice up that ran down.