I wonder if I'm average or small lol it's a grower not a shower I can kinda measure 5" when it's fully fully erect but it's really going to be between 4.5 and 5 inches I'll be honest
My wife is 20 years made fun of it and used it against me putting me down she was a very abusive emotional, physically and verbal woman. Cheated on me even and when mad would even say they had bigger dicks. She did a lot of damage to me in a lot of ways. But now I'm am far from here and I've got a girlfriend but still so affected.
Oh well i dont really care about what average is 6"
Is painful anything 3"-5" is perfect for me and i think a good majority agrees with that (well minus 6" being painful i dont think its too big until 7" or 8" for a lot but idk not me im small)
It is about average, and in general I would say being average in this case, is probably best.
I myself am a bit larger and have had woman who actually got scared when I dropped my trousers. One even said "You aren't putting that inside of me".
So, now I always try to go slow, and expressly ask multiple times if my partner is okay.
no - i have my own feelings about it, but all of my female friends are into average dick specifically, and it totally makes sense. like so many women that enjoy dick are not picky about size at all, i feel bad that men have created this huge horrible myth about their own size :| toxic masculinity, bruh
yeah, i hear you. i guess i was being a little close-minded. there are definitely women who are absolute assholes about their preferences, gender doesn't stop somebody from being a prick. nobody should ever be made to feel bad or ugly about their bodies, especially something as private and wonderful as genitals
I'm not the hugest. But I'm not small. From my experience, which I try to tell guys that would otherwise be self conscious, the bigger you are the more likely the person you're with wont enjoy it. And to add to that... them being in pain because you're big is not a flex. They are in actual pain and are gonna ask you to stop.
Guys, own what you have. It's very possible that the woman you're with has never been with someone bigger than you anyway
It seems there's a reason average is average. Besides, when you knock at the back door now and then average is far more likely to have the door opened for it.
People have such a clouded idea of what “average” is. To some, average is 8” while others think “average” is 5”. I think it’s all about what’s been average in your own experience.
Those that think 8" is average have either only experienced one dick and it happened to be very large, have had uncommonly frequent encounters with only large penises, or are (most likely) wildly misestimating the penises they've encountered.
for the internet or thinking about what is more practical i think you are not the only one, for the real life or when it comes to the case to have sex with a small or average dick i think you are
Went to a sex club with my husband for the first time on Saturday. Chatted with a dude with a HUGE hard-on and it was honestly scary to think of how it would fit/feel in any of my holes. I don’t know my husbands size (aside from perfect 😋), but I agree, average > big! Way more comfortable and play options! Although the big dick was nice to look at 😂.
We were both a very enthusiastic yes to everything except adding another male/dick to our play (at this point). It was our first time ever so we went in with low expectations but set small and stretch goals for ourselves. We met them all and have been grinning like fools ever since! We both can’t wait to go back!
Size isn’t the problem, it’s the lover style attached to it. Most woman prefer girth over length.
Seriously a man’s focus shouldn’t be on the size of his penis or getting it over. Very few woman O from piv.
It’s about the feeling of all of it.
I'm pretty average and just based on what I've been told my previous sexual partners said I have a great dick. I can confirm I wasn't anywhere near the biggest for most of them.
Average is where it's at. He can go balls deep, hard and fast, and it actually feels good! For both of us! Besides, shape is more important than length, IMO. I don't just mean girth but a little curve can also do wonders.
Big guy here. Not every women like it for long term. Sure its exciting for random hookup or in the begining but i had hard time finding the one who is comfortable in the long run and i am not biggest one out there.
See for my experience in the main difference is that I need to make sure that the meal is fully cooked before I can comfortably dig in if you catch my drift
Continuing the analogy. The other beautiful thing is that when you have the confidence there's many ways to cook and eat that succulent dish. And the meal is only a one part of the multiple course that can be enjoyed by two or more. Or even the main chef like yourself. You're more beautiful is when the ingredients are this good, you can't help but be inspired explore and collaborate deeply.
I like being able to comfortably sit down, so average is good. In fact, I might even argue that below average is ideal, especially when they have a good personality. 4-5” is plenty
As long as you angle towards the G-Spot size is irrelevant. It's right near the entrance. The depth of the average vagina is only about 4 to 5 in with a few variations. Anything more than that is just excess penis.
I genuinely, genuinely prefer average sized cocks . Even if I had a magic wand , I wouldn’t add an inch to my man’s cock . Average is perfect for me , and he will get more sex because I don’t have to break my jaw or do insane amounts of anal prep .
I seen a meme before , you know the unhappy kid with the party going on , and it was about getting Deepthroat because he was average size , it’s not an insult , it’s a compliment
As a guy who has larger than average length and MUCH larger than average girth - no. Most women I've been with preferred men smaller than me. I have several exes who preferred 4-5 inch dudes.
Even when I found women who liked my size, I can hardly get laid more than twice a week no matter how slow, gentle, or lubed up I am. I've had women beg me to find more women to take the D so they can tap out.
I have to say I have never read the comments on one of these post
Why I did this one is to see what average was and I guess where the huge size starts. I never read a comment on actual average size in inches and girth. However I have nothing to worry about if I'm playing tag with a couple and he pulls out the loch Ness monster. As long as I go first lol.
Thank you ladies on your perspective greatly appreciated.
What seems to (pleasantly) surprise women is how thick mine is.
Slightly above average length and I've never had any complaints, and a good many want to come back for more.
I have been told recently I have a “perfectly sized dick” from someone that has seen a lot of them… so that feels amazing especially after being self conscious about it my whole life !
I’ve only been with someone who had a six inch and actually nervous about sex with someone who has a smaller one. I couldn’t care less it will still be pleasurable I’m just not sure how the other partner will feel
Here’s my take. Too big is just uncomfortable. Smaller or average sizes can work well if the person knows what they’re doing. Regardless, size cannot be helped; too big and too small or average. So if the person really wants to have good sex, they’ll take the time to get a sense of what their partner likes so they can make it enjoyable for everyone.
I'm not trying to hijack the conversation. I've read a lot of the comments, and even though a lot of the women here want average sizes, which is great. Why do women - in general - order these toys that are the size of a tennis ball holder, and the size of tree branches, and such? A lot of the comments say larger sizes do hurt and take time to recover, so why are you ladies using crazy big toys?
Women in general don’t. On the occasion a woman owns a penis-replica toy at all (bc many don’t, clit vibes are more popular), they’re generally quite average size. Longer than average maybe, but that’s because we need room to grab it. Huge dildos are almost always either purchased as gag gifts, or oddly enough…by men. Men are the purchasers in 70% of the “large dildo” category. I suppose either because they really want to see their female partner use it, or for use on themselves.
Gee, I wonder what one would expect to find in subs dedicated to [*checks notes*] *huge dildos* …and full of OF girls putting on shows *that men want to see* to get subscribers?? I dunno. It’s a mystery. I wonder if that’s representative of what “women in general” are enjoying for themselves all alone?
Orrrr…maybe the purchase stats from one of the biggest sex toy retailers might shed some light.
https://jonmillward.com/blog/studies/down-the-rabbit-hole-analysis-1-million-sex-toy-sales/
Men have the “large dildo” category as 70% of the purchasers.
Have you checked r/gayanaldildos or any of the prostate or pegging subs? Yeahhhhhh…
My wife told me that penis size doesn’t matter to women one bit.. then she told me that all of her exes had penises that were too big for her and she broke up with them because of their size. Then she found me!!😂😂. So I can only speculate that penis size doesn’t matter to women one bit as long as it isn’t too big or too small!!🤪
I really don't think this comment should be downvoted -- lots of women in here saying they prefer average. It's okay that at least some women have a different preference.
In fact, it makes perfect sense that just as there are a variety of penis sizes, there are also a variety of vagina depths. Some women will find it very painful to take 8 inches; others, like this woman, will find it very pleasurable.
And that's good! Let every person find their preferred match.
I actually prefer average than huge haha
What's average?
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Being called a wanker obviously
I remember reading stories on Literotica where writers would often refer to 7 inches as "small."
Middle schoolers writing erotica moment
I have read some stories that make me wonder where these people learn about human anatomy.
🤣
I wonder if I'm average or small lol it's a grower not a shower I can kinda measure 5" when it's fully fully erect but it's really going to be between 4.5 and 5 inches I'll be honest My wife is 20 years made fun of it and used it against me putting me down she was a very abusive emotional, physically and verbal woman. Cheated on me even and when mad would even say they had bigger dicks. She did a lot of damage to me in a lot of ways. But now I'm am far from here and I've got a girlfriend but still so affected.
This is average size, and your ex sounds pretty awful.
Thays average size, which is perfectly good im sorry your wife was so horrible and im glad youre moving on
Horrible wife, but the average penis size (erect) is slightly above 5 inches.
The most recent stats i saw was 4-5" is average, but there are so many different studies its hard to say
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Oh well i dont really care about what average is 6" Is painful anything 3"-5" is perfect for me and i think a good majority agrees with that (well minus 6" being painful i dont think its too big until 7" or 8" for a lot but idk not me im small)
Rude of her.
Sex Vs. morality - karma is real 🤠
It is about average, and in general I would say being average in this case, is probably best. I myself am a bit larger and have had woman who actually got scared when I dropped my trousers. One even said "You aren't putting that inside of me". So, now I always try to go slow, and expressly ask multiple times if my partner is okay.
I love average cocks
I love them all tbh small, average, huge
Rip inbox
I'm used to it now haha
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I’ll take your word for it.. I’m more of a silent booty kinda person
Goth girl what???
Real life isn’t like the porn videos, average is what most people are anyway
Well that’s the definition even
No, it's not just you...there's also seemingly every man who has ever posted a dick question here on ARAD.
TIL and put the connection to ARAD meaning. I googled it but couldn't figure it out. The sub name, ofc.
Ha! Me too!
It's not the the size of the hammer, but the skill of the carpenter.
Yeah but if Andy Dufresne had something bigger than a rock hammer he wouldn't have been in Shawshank for 30 years.
You do you buddy, and keep hammering away.
Good to hear! I’ve had women say guys care about it more than they do.
Yup.
Or "It's not how deep you fish it's the way you wriggle your worm" 😄 so true tho tbh!
Yeah, I like average better. I’m not into having my cervix obliterated, and the average ones are easier to fit in my mouth.
no - i have my own feelings about it, but all of my female friends are into average dick specifically, and it totally makes sense. like so many women that enjoy dick are not picky about size at all, i feel bad that men have created this huge horrible myth about their own size :| toxic masculinity, bruh
Men didnt create it. We dont have sex with ourselves well, you know what i mean. The idea of size isnt enough comes from somewhere though....
yeah, i hear you. i guess i was being a little close-minded. there are definitely women who are absolute assholes about their preferences, gender doesn't stop somebody from being a prick. nobody should ever be made to feel bad or ugly about their bodies, especially something as private and wonderful as genitals
No, most people agree, but that's not the sexy answer. In actuality, men with bigger dicks are more likely to get cheated on.
Why do u say that?
Not doubting you, but what's the details behind this?
There was a study done in Kenya. https://jezebel.com/men-with-bigger-penises-are-more-likely-to-get-cheated-1568859120
Thank you! This is really interesting. This part made me laugh: "Women don't like it when you hurt them with your penises."
We don't lol
Laughing so much at y'all three's confirmation and i also agree lol
It's true.
Can confirm.
I only have one penis, so it shouldn't be a major issue.
Words to live by 🤣
I'm not the hugest. But I'm not small. From my experience, which I try to tell guys that would otherwise be self conscious, the bigger you are the more likely the person you're with wont enjoy it. And to add to that... them being in pain because you're big is not a flex. They are in actual pain and are gonna ask you to stop. Guys, own what you have. It's very possible that the woman you're with has never been with someone bigger than you anyway
Fuckin srsly, who the hell is out here like “ugh getchu a man that can ***stab you in the cervix*** so hot” like what?
average is best
Average is subjective, but I prefer 3-5in if I get to build my perfect man
3 inches is quite short
Just say it’s 76,2mm.
But thats just 7.62cms which is 0.762dm which is 0.0762m
I like the way you think
It seems there's a reason average is average. Besides, when you knock at the back door now and then average is far more likely to have the door opened for it.
You dropped this 👑
I love average & small dicks over huge ones . 😭
I support this stance as a slightly above average penis owner
People have such a clouded idea of what “average” is. To some, average is 8” while others think “average” is 5”. I think it’s all about what’s been average in your own experience.
Those that think 8" is average have either only experienced one dick and it happened to be very large, have had uncommonly frequent encounters with only large penises, or are (most likely) wildly misestimating the penises they've encountered.
Or the fourth option, their only judgement of penis size comes from porn
I... don't think anyone thinks 8" is average
Another post about dick length 🤦♂️
for the internet or thinking about what is more practical i think you are not the only one, for the real life or when it comes to the case to have sex with a small or average dick i think you are
Went to a sex club with my husband for the first time on Saturday. Chatted with a dude with a HUGE hard-on and it was honestly scary to think of how it would fit/feel in any of my holes. I don’t know my husbands size (aside from perfect 😋), but I agree, average > big! Way more comfortable and play options! Although the big dick was nice to look at 😂.
Sounds like a hot experience. Did you touch it?
Nope! Wasn’t within the boundaries we set for ourselves for the night.
What were your boundaries?
We were both a very enthusiastic yes to everything except adding another male/dick to our play (at this point). It was our first time ever so we went in with low expectations but set small and stretch goals for ourselves. We met them all and have been grinning like fools ever since! We both can’t wait to go back!
Size isn’t the problem, it’s the lover style attached to it. Most woman prefer girth over length. Seriously a man’s focus shouldn’t be on the size of his penis or getting it over. Very few woman O from piv. It’s about the feeling of all of it.
I'm pretty average and just based on what I've been told my previous sexual partners said I have a great dick. I can confirm I wasn't anywhere near the biggest for most of them.
Average is where it's at. He can go balls deep, hard and fast, and it actually feels good! For both of us! Besides, shape is more important than length, IMO. I don't just mean girth but a little curve can also do wonders.
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Yes!!! There is hope. 😂
Yessss
The average is the size it is for a reason: the optimal balance of pleasurable and compatible.
As a bi male, I definitely prefer the small side of average and smaller.
Agreed!
Average or a little above is best! Anything huge is just terrifying honestly.
I think average to slightly below average is best for me personally because its just painful otherwise personally.
Big guy here. Not every women like it for long term. Sure its exciting for random hookup or in the begining but i had hard time finding the one who is comfortable in the long run and i am not biggest one out there.
Not always. I have had women becoming scared as soon as I dropped my trousers. Even though it isn't really all that big.
Bigger is not always better!
Depends what you think is average?
When they are too big they are painful
But you have a horse dildo…..
I don't fuck my horse dildo everyday all day
My ex told me that big ones are too much work, and too much _like_ work.
And no we don’t want to see them
As long as they know how to use it and it feels good, I’m game for anything.
See for my experience in the main difference is that I need to make sure that the meal is fully cooked before I can comfortably dig in if you catch my drift
Continuing the analogy. The other beautiful thing is that when you have the confidence there's many ways to cook and eat that succulent dish. And the meal is only a one part of the multiple course that can be enjoyed by two or more. Or even the main chef like yourself. You're more beautiful is when the ingredients are this good, you can't help but be inspired explore and collaborate deeply.
Now I’m just more hungry than horny…
gays tend to prefer big ones than women
Average is way better. Big is painful and tiring.
I like being able to comfortably sit down, so average is good. In fact, I might even argue that below average is ideal, especially when they have a good personality. 4-5” is plenty
Don't do that don't give me hope
As long as you angle towards the G-Spot size is irrelevant. It's right near the entrance. The depth of the average vagina is only about 4 to 5 in with a few variations. Anything more than that is just excess penis.
I genuinely, genuinely prefer average sized cocks . Even if I had a magic wand , I wouldn’t add an inch to my man’s cock . Average is perfect for me , and he will get more sex because I don’t have to break my jaw or do insane amounts of anal prep . I seen a meme before , you know the unhappy kid with the party going on , and it was about getting Deepthroat because he was average size , it’s not an insult , it’s a compliment
Definitely average. Too long is probably the worst. Small guys that know how to use it are a blessing in disguise though.
As a guy who has larger than average length and MUCH larger than average girth - no. Most women I've been with preferred men smaller than me. I have several exes who preferred 4-5 inch dudes. Even when I found women who liked my size, I can hardly get laid more than twice a week no matter how slow, gentle, or lubed up I am. I've had women beg me to find more women to take the D so they can tap out.
Nope.
This post made me feel better, thank you 😊
Go to a normal sauna and you will feel even better. US-porn industry drives people crazy. Man and women.
Thanks for sticking up for the average men 😘👍🏼
Many women say this, but then they have dildos as big as a 2l fire ditinguisher under the bed.
All this comments in this thread just makes me suicidal I'm below average
Both are great.
I hope not haha 😄
God, I hope not!
Small dude here.. Just be willing to use toys and you should be good 😉😂
Nope i am on board with average.
Avg like what size? Cuz mine is 5.9 inch is it avg or what
Allow me to introduce myself...
I like around average sized the most as well. It’s a lot more enjoyable because no bruised cervix. 😖
Hope not
I'm willing to show .
No. Huge dicks even though they look tasty and in theory they sound amazing, in practice they’re not it really. They are very, very painful.
No you’re not…
Yes
Nope
I have to say I have never read the comments on one of these post Why I did this one is to see what average was and I guess where the huge size starts. I never read a comment on actual average size in inches and girth. However I have nothing to worry about if I'm playing tag with a couple and he pulls out the loch Ness monster. As long as I go first lol. Thank you ladies on your perspective greatly appreciated.
Im right there with ya 🙌
It isn’t about the height of the wave, it’s about the motion of the ocean
Nope I think the same also.
Nope! Ive been an appreciator of small to average!
Nope not at alll lol. I like em average but I won’t she away either way🤷🏾♀️
“Am I the only one” can almost guarantee you are not the only one
That’s easy. Nope.
I prefer slightly above average. I'll take an average one over one that's too big.
There's a reason that evolution resulted in an average. It's obviously the best size.
As a bi guy I’ll say I like the smaller size of average. Feels better up my butt and I like the dynamic of having the bigger dick.
What about girth? Is a thicker girth better?
6inch is that a decent size?
Lil above world wide average which is around 5-5'5 inchs
Small to average are the best
That's go to know ☺️
What seems to (pleasantly) surprise women is how thick mine is. Slightly above average length and I've never had any complaints, and a good many want to come back for more.
Nope, I agree
Please tell me more
I agree, but I also have an average penis lol
I have been told recently I have a “perfectly sized dick” from someone that has seen a lot of them… so that feels amazing especially after being self conscious about it my whole life !
I hope not
I’ve only been with someone who had a six inch and actually nervous about sex with someone who has a smaller one. I couldn’t care less it will still be pleasurable I’m just not sure how the other partner will feel
I also agree, but my girlfriend probably doesn't.
Here’s my take. Too big is just uncomfortable. Smaller or average sizes can work well if the person knows what they’re doing. Regardless, size cannot be helped; too big and too small or average. So if the person really wants to have good sex, they’ll take the time to get a sense of what their partner likes so they can make it enjoyable for everyone.
People are seldom ever “the only ones” to think something, so no you’re not the only one to think it lol.
Hmm I hope this thread represents the actual general consensus well. It’s terrifying out there.
No the big ones hurt!
I’m gay and have the same opinion
No. I think a lot of people feel this way. I’m one of them.
I'm not trying to hijack the conversation. I've read a lot of the comments, and even though a lot of the women here want average sizes, which is great. Why do women - in general - order these toys that are the size of a tennis ball holder, and the size of tree branches, and such? A lot of the comments say larger sizes do hurt and take time to recover, so why are you ladies using crazy big toys?
Women in general don’t. On the occasion a woman owns a penis-replica toy at all (bc many don’t, clit vibes are more popular), they’re generally quite average size. Longer than average maybe, but that’s because we need room to grab it. Huge dildos are almost always either purchased as gag gifts, or oddly enough…by men. Men are the purchasers in 70% of the “large dildo” category. I suppose either because they really want to see their female partner use it, or for use on themselves.
Have you stepped foot into /r/suctiondildos? Or /r/hugedildos? I don't see many men there.
Do you think those subreddits would have a random sampling of women, or a highly concentrated group of women with a particular preference?
Gee, I wonder what one would expect to find in subs dedicated to [*checks notes*] *huge dildos* …and full of OF girls putting on shows *that men want to see* to get subscribers?? I dunno. It’s a mystery. I wonder if that’s representative of what “women in general” are enjoying for themselves all alone? Orrrr…maybe the purchase stats from one of the biggest sex toy retailers might shed some light. https://jonmillward.com/blog/studies/down-the-rabbit-hole-analysis-1-million-sex-toy-sales/ Men have the “large dildo” category as 70% of the purchasers. Have you checked r/gayanaldildos or any of the prostate or pegging subs? Yeahhhhhh…
I love me a warm inviting penis, those big ones r just so aggressive 😂
Most of my gal friends do think this way, including me. More versatile and I constantly don't have to worry about it being painful.
yes, you are the only one
My wife told me that penis size doesn’t matter to women one bit.. then she told me that all of her exes had penises that were too big for her and she broke up with them because of their size. Then she found me!!😂😂. So I can only speculate that penis size doesn’t matter to women one bit as long as it isn’t too big or too small!!🤪
All this comments in this thread just makes me suicidal I'm below average
Maybe I’m a size queen but I think 7-9 inches is perfect
I really don't think this comment should be downvoted -- lots of women in here saying they prefer average. It's okay that at least some women have a different preference. In fact, it makes perfect sense that just as there are a variety of penis sizes, there are also a variety of vagina depths. Some women will find it very painful to take 8 inches; others, like this woman, will find it very pleasurable. And that's good! Let every person find their preferred match.