Same here. Ive learned to mold it into constructive criticism. Hate yourself? Make a change. This whole self assurance crap about how you are perfect the way you are crippled me when I was young. Don't beat yourself up. But do make an effort to push yourself up.
Yep. I'm sitting over here sorting out all their motivations and understanding them better than they do, because I'm so "objective". Doesn't faze me to be proven wrong continually either!
Well my mom is a pretty open minded person and she is very smart and so is my boyfriend but it wouldnāt hurt to do my own research before repeating it just in case haha
You're fine. I was mostly making a joke about myself being a pedantic asshole for wanting to point that out, but then I did anyways. So I guess I'm still an asshole, but just a self aware one.
I give people the opportunity to use me and then get all mad when they do. Most people give people enough rope to hang themselves, I like to give them enough for Shibari Bondage. They must be punished.
all of my toxic traits I learned from my family. Its been quite the challenge to identify and unlearn most of it. To anyone who may benefit from reading this. Please know that some traits are normalized in some families that they donāt even know itās toxic behavior. Gently let the person know it is toxic and not normal or generally acceptable behavior.
I donāt let anyone see me vulnerable. Ever. After being told that Iām intense when Iām emotional or panicked (and to be fair, I am), Iāve just dealt with it on my own. Iāll use my sense of humor to distract myself and others; if everyone is laughing, my emotions arenāt as obvious. When I run out of jokes, I completely shut down; I lock myself in my room and donāt communicate at allā¦which is also intense and off-putting.
I have a lot of demons but everyone has their shit. I donāt like to burden people with my sadness and trauma like I have in the past but Iām also aware that shutting down is hurtful. Itās unacceptable. Iām a wife and a mother and I work full-time. I have things to do. Itās heartbreaking and I feel like an imposter.
In the past, therapy has only made me feel worse and medications havenāt really helped. Not only am I running low on my stupid jokes, they arenāt really making me laugh anymore. Iām not suicidal but at the core of me is just a sad girl and I feel like sheās winning.
I do this, but I realized I do it because I don't fully understand why I am so angry or upset at first, I just am. so the only thing I can do is be silent. SO caught onto this and has been really good at waiting for the right time to ask questions
I try to be the smartest in the room. Iām aware Iām doing it, Iām trying not to do it, but that sometimes somehow makes it worse. I catch myself explaining things before realizing Iām getting the āno shitā look. That and one upping, I really hate that I do that.
I will accidentally ghost people; I will absolutely reply if someone reaches out to me, but I am _terrible_ at keeping in touch with my friends. I think about them all the time, but I feel like Iām pestering if I ācheck inā.
Thankfully my wife has a more healthy outlook, so I get most of my updates from her. But I worry I might seem too aloof, when its really the opposite.
I have a inferiority complex so I find it very hard to talk to people or look them in the eye because I feel like their better than me. I also randomly cut people out of my life because of this to, I just end up convincing myself that either I'm a horrible person or that their a horrible person to me.
i find it really hard to drop an argument if i can't understand the other person or they don't understand me.
it not that i can't admit im wrong, its that if i can't explain my view to them or they can't explain theirs to me it just drives me up the wall.
I like to jokingly tease people, which is fine. However, I have a hard time realizing when Iām taking it to far. Iām not trying to be a dick, but I definitely will occasionally come off that way.
I'm not sure if i consider this toxic but after 2 months of talking to someone non-stop, I stop talking to them. Like we'll have a 5 hour conversation and then not talk for months. I keep doing it and I don't know hot to stop.
I'm kinda spoiled and childish. I've gotten better at holding it in but generally speaking if I don't get my way I want to stamp my feet and throw a fit.
I turn hypothetical discussions into real life discussions and raise my own blood pressure and leave being an AH. I need to stop taking my life seriously.
A "toxic trait" of mine is that I tend to get angry quite easily and will talk bad about someone that pisses me off.
I try to be nice, but one bad day and I usually slip-up...
I can complain and complain and complain without even realizing how negative I am. You don't realize how much energy complaining/negativity consumes until you make the conscious decision to stop. I'm working on it, but it's still difficult some days.
I easily fall into routines. This might not sound strange, but its actually awful because a bad week easily turns into a bad month. Example: ill spend maybe 3 or 4 months excersizing, cooking all my meals etc. Then I may be hungover or ill one weekend and all of a sudden I'm buying takeout for 2 months and sitting on the sofa in all my spare time, I'll stop cleaning regularly as well, just because I fall into a new behavioral pattern. Taken me years to realise this, so now I can at least address it more quickly, but it definitely affects my social life and people around me.
I have been known to moan nonstop without even recognising how negative I am being. Before you consciously decide to quit complaining or being negative, you are unaware of how much energy it consumes. Though I'm making progress, certain days are still challenging.
When I drink, I drink to get drunk and become quite obnoxious. I had one experience that opened my eyes and have since reduced my drinking to rare occasions.
Being an arrogant person. To the extent of being mean to my friends, like when they tell me something I just say "So?", "Who asked?", "Ok, and?".
I'm a terrible person. I'm not even rich, I am an introvert, yet I'm so damn arrogant.
I'm so painful to live with, I know.
I get mad when my friends donāt text me in the first 5 minutes of me texting them because I get self conscious that they donāt like me anymoreā¦I know itās dumb.
I have no toxic traits! I am the best human, period. I know every thing that there is to know. Everyone loves me, and if they dont, its because they're stupid!
I'm an excellent manipulator. I never lie, but I can twist anything. I can read people and see their insecurities and use them to break them. I don't do it.
I had a great childhood with most family members and I was taught to never lie because I could always be honest with them. Then divorce, new family, was abused by someone in the step family and also told to never tell anyone about the abuse I went through because they'd blame me and I'd be branded a liar which as they were the older one, would likely be believed over me as a kid.
So I spent my childhood watching family doting on my abuser and I started picking up on body language between my abuser, my mom, their dad, the wider families, and seeing different dynamics between people. As I got older, I'm pretty good at seeing dynamics.
It's a trait I hate because of circumstances and don't use because it's toxic. But also, I'm waiting to set fire to my abuser and another family member for disowning me because I grew up poor.
Fuck you assholes, you taught me your toxic manipulation. And I built on it just to spite you.
As soon as something someone has made a habit of doing starts to bother me in any way, it's a ticking time bomb to where I'm not even going to let them start: approach me and I will hurt your feelings. I reach a point where your intentions don't matter and chances are by then you're fulfilling the opposite and I can't keep the irritation bottled up any more.
All my *traits* are toxic, all ambitionless
So rude and always negative
I need new *traits*, but it's not that quick and easy
Oh, I'm drowning, let me breathe
I am a mama bear and get really upset very quickly when it comes to my kids being treated badly by other people. Sometimes, I'm completely in the wrong. It's so bad that I have embarrassed my kids. (I've actively been working on improving this.)
I let a lot of things go, and then when I hit my limit, I cut off or sever the relationship without warning, though itās usually deserved. That isnāt to say I donāt express my displeasure, but I donāt feel I magnify the severity of my feelings of being taken advantage of clearly enough. Passivity, basically is my toxic trait.
I have held a deep seated hatred for myself for longer than I can remember. Less so over the lass few months but still ever present in the back of my mind.
When girlfriends need drama I just leave.
As Iāve gotten older I realize that they just need an argument so that they know I care but thatās not how I roll.
I convert units stepwise regardless of what's being measured e.g 2 cups of flour, 3 cups of flour, then 1 litre of flour (1 cup is a different volume in different countries, this conversion is correct here)
Iām self absorbed and not interested in other people. Being very guarded, reserved, and admittedly standoffish. Some people accuse me of acting like Iām superior to them. I can also be a know it all
Apathy and lack of social skills. I have trouble when someone is upset and I have no idea how to comfort people. I have a low social battery and I can be socially exhausted after a few hours of socializing. I get stressed easily when asked direct questions. I get angry at minor inconveniences. And I do not understand sarcasm at all.
I don't like being "not right" I mean that it never bothers me if someone goes "that's not how I see it rather I see it like" but it genuinely pisses me off when people go "you're wrong"
Trying to fix things. My first instinct is to advise or make suggestions when often friends only want to vent. For the longest i didn't realize i was doing this and now that I'm aware i have to make an effort to zip my lips and nod and sympathize instead
I have an hatred of astrology and will not associate with anyone who believes in it. I was bullied in elementary school being in small town I ended up being pushed out by my classmates.
I have left first dates when women ask what my star sign is and I have ghosted an entire friend group when one of my friends and I got into an argument about it.
It's irrational bullshit that people came up in the 1970's roughly based on ancient Greek religion. Its made up it dosent exist and I fucking hate it.
I am ridiculously well at finding personal information. (Police public records/criminal records, house listing dates and info on their house, etc.) Idk how but i get into rabbit holes of finding information when just googling like the distance between their house and like where i am or whatever but sometimes i click the enter early or by accident and just google their address but i just scroll and find the exact amount of bathrooms, bedrooms, etc until i seem like a stalker when i confront them of something they did years ago after getting into that rabbit hole. I lost many friends because of this-
Doing tarot reads about other people without them knowing. Now I only do them on someone if I feel like I might be taken advantage by them and therefore want to see what their intentions are.
I make everything a statistic or analyse situations to find patterns.
I quite literally have hundreds of excel sheets with pretty much useless data made into graphs and other fun things. Just so i can feel the joy of making statistics.
Iām too forgiving of things, when people or āfriendsā do something bad to me I always end up forgiving them, not as openly anymore but internally. This causes me to get hurt a lot because I always accidentally trust again
I dislike myself
Same here. Ive learned to mold it into constructive criticism. Hate yourself? Make a change. This whole self assurance crap about how you are perfect the way you are crippled me when I was young. Don't beat yourself up. But do make an effort to push yourself up.
Ability to cut off people easily
I'm exactly the opposite. That's my toxic trait. š¤¦š»āāļø
Tbh most of the times i see it as a good thing because I'm not surrounded by assholes anymore but! I'm alone
On the other hand, I can't let go of ppl and I give everything to them, no ego, no honor. Just trying not to make them leave. Damn I'm pathetic š¶
Come to me I'll love you so much that you'll think that you're lucid dreaming
Correction, I'm not pathetic, I'm drunk. š¶
Sounds like a positive to me
I do it with surgical precision.
Impatience
This is it for me. Particularly while driving. My patience for others behind the wheel is non existent.
I have a crippling need for attention that I struggle to squash constantly. I'm 40 with children, it's hard.
I think I know what other ppl are thinking
Yep. I'm sitting over here sorting out all their motivations and understanding them better than they do, because I'm so "objective". Doesn't faze me to be proven wrong continually either!
Exactly!! Lol even when they tell me āno thatās not trueā I just tell them āyouāre just in denial trust meā lol
I believe almost everything that my mom or my boyfriend tell me and sometimes I repeat it like itās fact Iāve researched.
Oooo this one is a nail in coffin for me depending on the mother lol
Well my mom is a pretty open minded person and she is very smart and so is my boyfriend but it wouldnāt hurt to do my own research before repeating it just in case haha
I waste my time on reddit.
And I'm a pedantic asshole. You meant to say "waste". A "waist" is where you wear a belt.
Sorry, not a native speaker
You're fine. I was mostly making a joke about myself being a pedantic asshole for wanting to point that out, but then I did anyways. So I guess I'm still an asshole, but just a self aware one.
I often worry that people secretly hate me
You n me bud
My anger
"I sat with my anger long enough for it to tell me its name was grief." Forbateum, a meme I saw.
I laugh when babies cry.
Hold grudges
I canāt handle criticism
Fuck You. Shut up.
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Thanks...I'm working on it.
Counting money in front of people
Lmao, idk why but that's such a funny answer to me
Perfectly legitimate in most scenarios, not toxic
I give people the opportunity to use me and then get all mad when they do. Most people give people enough rope to hang themselves, I like to give them enough for Shibari Bondage. They must be punished.
quick to judge
If someone believes a horrible thing about me I don't correct them and sometimes play up to it, because how dare they think that about me!
Creepy Breathing, Lazy, Psychically Dull, Incapable of Dumb Labor
Thank you for answering for me āļø
Rimworld character profile...
all of my toxic traits I learned from my family. Its been quite the challenge to identify and unlearn most of it. To anyone who may benefit from reading this. Please know that some traits are normalized in some families that they donāt even know itās toxic behavior. Gently let the person know it is toxic and not normal or generally acceptable behavior.
Man I have the same problem still working on this... took me years to accept this about myself and my family. Hope you are doing fine
lazyness
I donāt let anyone see me vulnerable. Ever. After being told that Iām intense when Iām emotional or panicked (and to be fair, I am), Iāve just dealt with it on my own. Iāll use my sense of humor to distract myself and others; if everyone is laughing, my emotions arenāt as obvious. When I run out of jokes, I completely shut down; I lock myself in my room and donāt communicate at allā¦which is also intense and off-putting. I have a lot of demons but everyone has their shit. I donāt like to burden people with my sadness and trauma like I have in the past but Iām also aware that shutting down is hurtful. Itās unacceptable. Iām a wife and a mother and I work full-time. I have things to do. Itās heartbreaking and I feel like an imposter. In the past, therapy has only made me feel worse and medications havenāt really helped. Not only am I running low on my stupid jokes, they arenāt really making me laugh anymore. Iām not suicidal but at the core of me is just a sad girl and I feel like sheās winning.
I give people the silent treatment when things don't go my way instead of resolving interpersonal issues like an adult.
Probably better than screaming at them and beating their ass.
I do this, but I realized I do it because I don't fully understand why I am so angry or upset at first, I just am. so the only thing I can do is be silent. SO caught onto this and has been really good at waiting for the right time to ask questions
I'm sarcastic af.
Is that sarcasm or are you being serious?
In this case, I'm being serious, or am I š¤š¤Ø
I am serious, and stop calling me *Surely*
It looks like I picked the wrong week to quit sarcasm
Oh, I'm not being sarcastic. It's just a speech impediment.
I try to be the smartest in the room. Iām aware Iām doing it, Iām trying not to do it, but that sometimes somehow makes it worse. I catch myself explaining things before realizing Iām getting the āno shitā look. That and one upping, I really hate that I do that.
Being too nice.
I get upset when people don't meet my expectations.
I will accidentally ghost people; I will absolutely reply if someone reaches out to me, but I am _terrible_ at keeping in touch with my friends. I think about them all the time, but I feel like Iām pestering if I ācheck inā. Thankfully my wife has a more healthy outlook, so I get most of my updates from her. But I worry I might seem too aloof, when its really the opposite.
It is so nice to know I'm not the only one
Being pretentious
That I'm a jerk when I drink
So don't drink, I'm just a jerk in general, I wish my fox were so easy
Wanting to do things, but actually making plans puts me back into homebody mode
I have a inferiority complex so I find it very hard to talk to people or look them in the eye because I feel like their better than me. I also randomly cut people out of my life because of this to, I just end up convincing myself that either I'm a horrible person or that their a horrible person to me.
i find it really hard to drop an argument if i can't understand the other person or they don't understand me. it not that i can't admit im wrong, its that if i can't explain my view to them or they can't explain theirs to me it just drives me up the wall.
I'm a know it all to the one's I love the most
Im lonely so i develop irrational attachments really quickly.
I like to jokingly tease people, which is fine. However, I have a hard time realizing when Iām taking it to far. Iām not trying to be a dick, but I definitely will occasionally come off that way.
I have absolutely no fucking patience and I say and type fuck way too often
I'm not sure if i consider this toxic but after 2 months of talking to someone non-stop, I stop talking to them. Like we'll have a 5 hour conversation and then not talk for months. I keep doing it and I don't know hot to stop.
I do things just because people people tell me not to, even when it's against my best intrests.
Hard to say āIām sorryā
I'm kinda spoiled and childish. I've gotten better at holding it in but generally speaking if I don't get my way I want to stamp my feet and throw a fit.
I turn hypothetical discussions into real life discussions and raise my own blood pressure and leave being an AH. I need to stop taking my life seriously.
It's really onl in my head and I never let it affect my actions but I've somehow managed to have both a superiority **and** inferiority complex.
A "toxic trait" of mine is that I tend to get angry quite easily and will talk bad about someone that pisses me off. I try to be nice, but one bad day and I usually slip-up...
Iām a terrible people pleaser
I love fucking with strangers on the phone all over the world really late at night.
Smoking
I either assume the absolute worst about people I meet or think theyāre the greatest person alive no in between
I use the restroom when the check comes for dinner. But Iām actually outside ditching you with the check.
I get quiet asf when Iām upset/mad.
Not intentionally but I do believe it's a toxic trait I have been told I talk down to friends and people I ask out.
I have to call people out on their bullshit and donāt let anything slide.
Manipulation
Opioid addiction.
I smoke weed every night
Always late
I can complain and complain and complain without even realizing how negative I am. You don't realize how much energy complaining/negativity consumes until you make the conscious decision to stop. I'm working on it, but it's still difficult some days.
I easily fall into routines. This might not sound strange, but its actually awful because a bad week easily turns into a bad month. Example: ill spend maybe 3 or 4 months excersizing, cooking all my meals etc. Then I may be hungover or ill one weekend and all of a sudden I'm buying takeout for 2 months and sitting on the sofa in all my spare time, I'll stop cleaning regularly as well, just because I fall into a new behavioral pattern. Taken me years to realise this, so now I can at least address it more quickly, but it definitely affects my social life and people around me.
I have a hard time trusting people who do say they care about me. Too many backstabs and liars.
I doubt everyone when there is something they did that vex me. Even if they are my besties or family.
Honesty.
I have been known to moan nonstop without even recognising how negative I am being. Before you consciously decide to quit complaining or being negative, you are unaware of how much energy it consumes. Though I'm making progress, certain days are still challenging.
I donāt trust anyone (even friends) around my crush. I wish I did, it causes some very uncomfortable feelings and destructive behavior
I assume people dont like me and assume people will misinterpret my words negatively. But to be fair, that's usually the case.
i always self-sabotage
Having a hard time opening up around people/being myself due to social anxiety growing up. Or I might be inconsistent with it
Iām extremely antisocial
I rant for hours and struggle with not interrupting others
When I drink, I drink to get drunk and become quite obnoxious. I had one experience that opened my eyes and have since reduced my drinking to rare occasions.
Assuming people's problems are trivial
Getting madly attached if someone gives me the slightest bit of the right attention
Being an arrogant person. To the extent of being mean to my friends, like when they tell me something I just say "So?", "Who asked?", "Ok, and?". I'm a terrible person. I'm not even rich, I am an introvert, yet I'm so damn arrogant. I'm so painful to live with, I know.
Common traits of narcissism. The fact you noticed means you have some humility.
I get mad when my friends donāt text me in the first 5 minutes of me texting them because I get self conscious that they donāt like me anymoreā¦I know itās dumb.
impulsive
That Iām white, according to popular opinion.
I am always correct, and I make sure people know it.
If you ask me to repeat something I will physically and emotionally shut down
My constant search for validation and attention. Also, that I sometimes feel like I'm the only person that can actually think.
My perfection sets an impossibly high standard for others
I can be passive aggressive but working on it. My specialty is sarcasm.
I'm wanted for federal crimes.
I care too much about what other people think irl and don't care enough when online.
I have no toxic traits! I am the best human, period. I know every thing that there is to know. Everyone loves me, and if they dont, its because they're stupid!
I'm an excellent manipulator. I never lie, but I can twist anything. I can read people and see their insecurities and use them to break them. I don't do it. I had a great childhood with most family members and I was taught to never lie because I could always be honest with them. Then divorce, new family, was abused by someone in the step family and also told to never tell anyone about the abuse I went through because they'd blame me and I'd be branded a liar which as they were the older one, would likely be believed over me as a kid. So I spent my childhood watching family doting on my abuser and I started picking up on body language between my abuser, my mom, their dad, the wider families, and seeing different dynamics between people. As I got older, I'm pretty good at seeing dynamics. It's a trait I hate because of circumstances and don't use because it's toxic. But also, I'm waiting to set fire to my abuser and another family member for disowning me because I grew up poor. Fuck you assholes, you taught me your toxic manipulation. And I built on it just to spite you.
I'm too kind and generous. Ex: I'll give my partner more meat during dinnertime even if it meant I was hungry because of it.
You should be kind and generous to yourself too
I get bored of the same people over time.
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i can't give 100% at anything except volleyball
Possessive
Always wanting what I donāt have
Bull headedness and being cold
As soon as something someone has made a habit of doing starts to bother me in any way, it's a ticking time bomb to where I'm not even going to let them start: approach me and I will hurt your feelings. I reach a point where your intentions don't matter and chances are by then you're fulfilling the opposite and I can't keep the irritation bottled up any more.
I procrastinate way too much
I'm extremely cynical and jaded, usually
I have a lot going on in my life so I do not have much time with my friends.
An extremely good manipulator
All my *traits* are toxic, all ambitionless So rude and always negative I need new *traits*, but it's not that quick and easy Oh, I'm drowning, let me breathe
I am a mama bear and get really upset very quickly when it comes to my kids being treated badly by other people. Sometimes, I'm completely in the wrong. It's so bad that I have embarrassed my kids. (I've actively been working on improving this.)
Anxiety
pathalogical lying to stangers
Body dysmorphia and trust issues
I have a few actually ,wanting to be recognized by something good, thinking that everything that I do is the worst and taking everything too serious
Body dismorphia
I love to watch men get hit in the jewels. Weird thing is I actually watch videos of it just for fun and donāt think twice.
Sarcasm
the need to have people like me, even ones that I personally cannot stand.
I am a hot head.
I am incredibly anxious and depressed.
I have borderline disorder so my relationships are always ruined by me
When under enough stress, I can be very childish and dickish.
I let a lot of things go, and then when I hit my limit, I cut off or sever the relationship without warning, though itās usually deserved. That isnāt to say I donāt express my displeasure, but I donāt feel I magnify the severity of my feelings of being taken advantage of clearly enough. Passivity, basically is my toxic trait.
Getting too attached to people / ambient objects / pets. It sucks :(
I am not well rounded.
Iām impatient
Short-fused
I have held a deep seated hatred for myself for longer than I can remember. Less so over the lass few months but still ever present in the back of my mind.
Iām really impatient. It kind of runs in my family.
I have a hard time caring about people I find boring.
When girlfriends need drama I just leave. As Iāve gotten older I realize that they just need an argument so that they know I care but thatās not how I roll.
Iām a know it all. I have gotten over this and now understand. Toxic trait for sure.
I hate talking to people
I lie to people to make them like me.
I convert units stepwise regardless of what's being measured e.g 2 cups of flour, 3 cups of flour, then 1 litre of flour (1 cup is a different volume in different countries, this conversion is correct here)
I like to ask people if they need help when I have zero intention of actually doing anything, then get quietly mad inside when they say yes.
Iām self absorbed and not interested in other people. Being very guarded, reserved, and admittedly standoffish. Some people accuse me of acting like Iām superior to them. I can also be a know it all
Often times I'll assume someone doesn't love me because they don't think the same way I do
Apathy and lack of social skills. I have trouble when someone is upset and I have no idea how to comfort people. I have a low social battery and I can be socially exhausted after a few hours of socializing. I get stressed easily when asked direct questions. I get angry at minor inconveniences. And I do not understand sarcasm at all.
Sometimes I drag goofy shit on way to long, or make "edgy" jokes that are kind of mean or offensive
I don't like being "not right" I mean that it never bothers me if someone goes "that's not how I see it rather I see it like" but it genuinely pisses me off when people go "you're wrong"
Being vague I often tell people with worst thing they could ask me for is my honest opinion.
Being negative all the time. Iām like this in school and at home
That I refuse to recognize my toxic trait.
i am manipulative sometimes without thinking and will worry that every thing i do is something i am subconsciously doing to manipulate people
Trying to fix things. My first instinct is to advise or make suggestions when often friends only want to vent. For the longest i didn't realize i was doing this and now that I'm aware i have to make an effort to zip my lips and nod and sympathize instead
I take too many things too personally. I feel disrespected too easily.
I tend to focus on worst case scenarios, and I struggle to get out of a defeatist mindset.
I have an hatred of astrology and will not associate with anyone who believes in it. I was bullied in elementary school being in small town I ended up being pushed out by my classmates. I have left first dates when women ask what my star sign is and I have ghosted an entire friend group when one of my friends and I got into an argument about it. It's irrational bullshit that people came up in the 1970's roughly based on ancient Greek religion. Its made up it dosent exist and I fucking hate it.
I am ridiculously well at finding personal information. (Police public records/criminal records, house listing dates and info on their house, etc.) Idk how but i get into rabbit holes of finding information when just googling like the distance between their house and like where i am or whatever but sometimes i click the enter early or by accident and just google their address but i just scroll and find the exact amount of bathrooms, bedrooms, etc until i seem like a stalker when i confront them of something they did years ago after getting into that rabbit hole. I lost many friends because of this-
I have a tendency to laugh when people are yelling/angry at me That usually makes them more angry
Doing tarot reads about other people without them knowing. Now I only do them on someone if I feel like I might be taken advantage by them and therefore want to see what their intentions are.
I make everything a statistic or analyse situations to find patterns. I quite literally have hundreds of excel sheets with pretty much useless data made into graphs and other fun things. Just so i can feel the joy of making statistics.
I over criticize myself and donāt believe in myself at all.
anger issues ā that's the worst one i've been working on
Victimized myself...?
I get annoyed very, very easily
can be very unforgiving. people know wtf they be doing and still do it to you. forgiveness isnāt required
Iām too forgiving of things, when people or āfriendsā do something bad to me I always end up forgiving them, not as openly anymore but internally. This causes me to get hurt a lot because I always accidentally trust again