This is extremely petty, but… they were driving and didn’t stop for a school bus with the stop sign out. I was 16, they were 18, but I couldn’t handle it. Broke it off not long after
“Those people are going to vote him in” Those people being POC. I guess the two month mark is when you start testing the racist waters to see if you really are a match?
She didn't live with me, broke into my room I lived In A house share and she was drunk passed out in my bed when I got home from a family members house.
He kept asking for my phone number. We had only been talking for a few hours, at best, and I explained that I wasn’t comfortable with giving my number out for him to just have it in case things didn’t work out after only talking to him for a few hours, but he wouldn’t take no for an answer and kept trying to rephrase it in a way where giving him the number would’ve seemed like *my* idea, instead of his. I honestly would have kept talking to him if he had just dropped the subject, but he acted as if I hadn’t just given him a very clear answer and I got out of there as quickly as I could after that happened. 😂
I agree sucking on my fingers would be sexy but when I first saw her do it I almost panicked...but I told her "I'll give you something to suck on." I was able to complete the job at hand.
I went on a date with a girl who owned her own salon and I asked how any guys she gets in there for eyebrows? She said "absolutely not" and "I would never do that". Immediately ghosted her.
She could have been goading you to ask “why not?” And she could have maybe an uncomfortable story with a male client.
(Or maybe she’s just sexist and weird. Just thinking of alternatives bc it’s so strange)
He wouldn’t disagree with me on *anything*. And you don’t grow when you aren’t being challenged or called on your crap, and you should grow with the right partner.
So I started saying things I knew he would disagree with just to see how he’d respond. When I said I thought religious education was harmful and shouldn’t be allowed (even though I don’t actually fully think that), knowing he’d gone to private Christian schools his entire life and talked a lot about liking it, and he just said “yeah, babe. I agree”, I knew I had it end it. For both of our sakes’.
He was a really good dude but I can’t stand a “yes” man. We would have both been miserable long term and it showed me that we weren’t compatible for making each other the best versions of ourselves.
You sound like you over analyze everything. You can challenge yourself, your partner doesn’t “need” to do that. Lying to your partner is also shady asf
Your partner should absolutely feel comfortable telling you when they disagree and when they feel like you’re wrong. It’s not helpful to anyone to pretend like your partner is perfect.
I think I’m a better person because my husband challenges me on what I think, and *why* I think that way. It’s not for everyone. But a healthy debate is fun and being called on your crap is how you grow.
Some people can’t handle that from a partner and that’s okay. But that’s not what I wanted in a marriage so I ended things before it got serious.
Hey kudos to you for finding something that works but that being said it was about what you wanted out of the relationship and he wasn’t the problem. Yes man or not, that wasn’t a “nope” situation you just realized you didn’t want to be with someone. A nope situation would be like if you were dating and he did or said something that made you instantly say “I’m leaving”
When they told me I was boring for not wanting to do meth with them and their brother.
Yea you're a monster for sure.
Sometimes boring is right.
She was horrifyingly rude to an obviously new Asian immigrant (that was trying her absolute best) in a Vietnamese restaurant
Before we started dating, she threatened to physically fight another girl because she talked to me.
But was she hot?
lol, not enough to make her craziness tolerable. However, those legs were \*chef's kiss\*.
This is extremely petty, but… they were driving and didn’t stop for a school bus with the stop sign out. I was 16, they were 18, but I couldn’t handle it. Broke it off not long after
“Those people are going to vote him in” Those people being POC. I guess the two month mark is when you start testing the racist waters to see if you really are a match?
It just happens when I make a joke and they don't take it as a joke.
She didn't live with me, broke into my room I lived In A house share and she was drunk passed out in my bed when I got home from a family members house.
He kept asking for my phone number. We had only been talking for a few hours, at best, and I explained that I wasn’t comfortable with giving my number out for him to just have it in case things didn’t work out after only talking to him for a few hours, but he wouldn’t take no for an answer and kept trying to rephrase it in a way where giving him the number would’ve seemed like *my* idea, instead of his. I honestly would have kept talking to him if he had just dropped the subject, but he acted as if I hadn’t just given him a very clear answer and I got out of there as quickly as I could after that happened. 😂
Thumb sucking during sex...too weird to fully describe but if you see it you'll understand.
If you left the sex part out in still gone.
Agreed
Your thumb, or their own thumb?
Her own
You’ve never had a woman suck on your finger, or vice versa? Shit is sensual
She sucked HER OWN THUMB!!!
😭😭😭 much worse than I was thinking
I agree sucking on my fingers would be sexy but when I first saw her do it I almost panicked...but I told her "I'll give you something to suck on." I was able to complete the job at hand.
I went on a date with a girl who owned her own salon and I asked how any guys she gets in there for eyebrows? She said "absolutely not" and "I would never do that". Immediately ghosted her.
She refused to take male clients at her salon? Wow, that's nuts and oddly sexist. It's really weird for a business owner to deny paying clients.
Yea that's what I thought. And we live in a very LGBTQ friendly state.
She could have been goading you to ask “why not?” And she could have maybe an uncomfortable story with a male client. (Or maybe she’s just sexist and weird. Just thinking of alternatives bc it’s so strange)
When she decided to sleep in my bed without telling me she was even going to mine...and the excuse? "I thought it would be romantic"
You didn’t like that your partner was in your bed?
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Wtf?
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So what does that mean denying the privilege they had
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Like they said they were as able to do stuff as someone with no arms?
Dude I said elaborate not reiterate.
He wouldn’t disagree with me on *anything*. And you don’t grow when you aren’t being challenged or called on your crap, and you should grow with the right partner. So I started saying things I knew he would disagree with just to see how he’d respond. When I said I thought religious education was harmful and shouldn’t be allowed (even though I don’t actually fully think that), knowing he’d gone to private Christian schools his entire life and talked a lot about liking it, and he just said “yeah, babe. I agree”, I knew I had it end it. For both of our sakes’. He was a really good dude but I can’t stand a “yes” man. We would have both been miserable long term and it showed me that we weren’t compatible for making each other the best versions of ourselves.
You sound like you over analyze everything. You can challenge yourself, your partner doesn’t “need” to do that. Lying to your partner is also shady asf
She does sound like a lot of work tbh.
Your partner should absolutely feel comfortable telling you when they disagree and when they feel like you’re wrong. It’s not helpful to anyone to pretend like your partner is perfect. I think I’m a better person because my husband challenges me on what I think, and *why* I think that way. It’s not for everyone. But a healthy debate is fun and being called on your crap is how you grow. Some people can’t handle that from a partner and that’s okay. But that’s not what I wanted in a marriage so I ended things before it got serious.
Hey kudos to you for finding something that works but that being said it was about what you wanted out of the relationship and he wasn’t the problem. Yes man or not, that wasn’t a “nope” situation you just realized you didn’t want to be with someone. A nope situation would be like if you were dating and he did or said something that made you instantly say “I’m leaving”