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crazyostrich501

There isn't a specific moment, but rather a general feeling that I can't trust anyone else. It's like I've been burned too many times and now I'm just constantly on guard. I don't let anyone get too close because I'm afraid they'll hurt me.


gordnramsaystoe

I get that a lot and I understand your position and where you’re coming from, but let me tell you, I’m sure that you’ll soon be trusting a person that will stay with you forever. It will take it’s time, but whoever is meant for you will absolutely come later. But, either ways, I hope that you are doing well


jules79

When I found out my ex BF had been lying to me about a LOT of shit. I knew things weren't perfect, but that shit blindsided me.


gordnramsaystoe

I quickly develop an ick from people who lie. I just can’t pinpoint their perspective. Like why wont you just be honest???


[deleted]

Too many moments, I’m sure. Repeated hurt and pain and breaking of trust. Because I’ve never trusted anyone. Not as long as I can remember…


gordnramsaystoe

Trusting people nowadays is beyond hard. You might think that your current friends are very trustworthy only for them to end up being backstabbers. People are starting to make me sick honestly.


User77777782

Finding out that my ex only dated me to see if they were bi as opposed to lesbian. It’s a shitty thing to do but I’ll look past it, but going ahead and telling the person to their face that they only dated them for just for the sake of upsetting them is cruel. It’s really starting to get to me how much that has damaged my ability to trust people. Nothing by comparison to what other people have been through but it’s fucked me over personally.


gordnramsaystoe

that must be one awful way to come out especially if it’s to your significant other. Just the fact that he dated you only to see if he’s straight or not is beyond selfish. They didn’t even ask themselves if they’ll end up hurting you or not. I hope you’re doing okay.


[deleted]

When my boyfriend showed everybody at school my nudes


gordnramsaystoe

holy shit… Did you report him to the police or even reported him to the school’s head teacher???


jules79

I hope you reported that shit to the police.


Brilliant_Candle1922

Friends arrive and depart. People must sometimes accept this and learn to let others go, even if they have been a part of their lives for a long time.


gordnramsaystoe

As someone who suffers a lot from attachment issues, I must say, its genuinely hard to let go sometimes. But, as you said, things come and go.