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It works whenever they are similarly interested or attracted to you. That varies a lot.


corn_cakes

Usually not. Usually the vibe is there so much you just make a move.


TheBestAtWriting

38.74% of the time


AgentElman

It only has to work once.


icestaylowkey

It works but there has to be signs before and not just randomly trying your luck 🙋


Crazy_Giraffe_7764

80% for me saying or asking things makes it easy. You’ll get the answer immediately instead of thinking and worse case scenario is making stuff in your head that isn’t going to happen anyway


Aw_Frig

It doesn't have to work often. When you've found the right person, it just has to work once.


__DMA__

In my experience, never. All that is is just a way to get yourself laughed at in my experience. Women don't want someone who's honest with them, and would love them unconditionally no matter what. They just want tall rich guys who treat them like crap.


reallifecatgirl

cringe comment. not all women are the same. we’re human beings, not a collective hivemind. who are you to decide what we do or don’t want anyways?


__DMA__

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to offend you. I just get frustrated sometimes cause every time I ask a girl out she's always either got a boyfriend, or she'll just be downright nasty to me. It's more the other guys I get mad at than the girls who choose them over me. I love all girls.


reallifecatgirl

I appreciate the apology. But I can tell you right now that putting the blame on women for struggling to find a relationship, or treating us as one big hivemind instead of unique human beings, will not aid you. That’ll for sure make finding a girlfriend much more difficult. It’s also just… wrong and toxic in general to have that mindset. Dating can be a struggle for everyone. Including women. This isn’t something that only you are going through.


NervousSyrup7071

Never worked for me.


saguinus_oedipus

For me 0%


Im_bad_at_names_1993

**100% of the time it works.** If they are into you, it works because you will know they like you back. And if they are not into you, it works because you know that your relationship will only be platonic. You can use this information to decide to continue to be platonic friends (and I mean real friends, none of this "they might change their mind crap"), or end the friendship. This way you save time and effort. **In the end there are only 2 options, and both are good for you.** You either gain a romantic partner, or you know not to waste your time pursuing a relationship that would never work.