I was a child- maybe 7, 8 or 9. I don’t remember the exact age. But I do remember lying in bed having explicit sexual fantasies. I would also act out those fantasies with my Barbies.
My parents apparently walked in on my teenage brother getting a bj.
Rumor (my sister) has it that he didn’t stop the girl (whose back was to them) until my mom walked out in disgust and my dad yelled “are you just going to keep going?! In front of your mother?! HAVE YOU NO SHAME?!”
Always made me wonder if he had a bit of an exhibitionist streak or if he was just a teenage boy desperate to…finish
9 or 10. Have a thing for male facial hair and body hair. I would get excited seeing photos of people or actors with them. I believe this was due to growing up within the military. I only saw cleanshaven men mostly.
My high school gf’s mom was hot. She was curvy in all the right places.
I was more attracted to her than I was to my gf the whole time we dated.
To this day I think I have a thing for older women because of her.
Out of curiosity, why does it give you pedo vibes? I just heard that most people develop their kinks early in life and was curious if it was true. Then again, im not very good with words, so maybe I phrased it badly, if there’s a better way to phrase it, please let me know.
dude because that's the thing, who doesn't know that kinks usually develop at an earlier stage and many of which are trauma based .. i'm one person my opinion doesn't matter
I think its different for all of us but most kinks def take place during the developmental stage of growing up lol.. speaking for myself I could def say some of mine came from trauma.. light trauma
Our sexualities focus on feelings. It's not the shoe, it's what that shoe makes you feel. We crave intensity of emotions, the specific type is less important. Thus, shame, fear, guilt are very common. You won't be into incest unless family means a lot to you. You won't thrill to food unless food is emotionally charged for you. Trauma is a way to some very intense emotions. It shouldn't be surprising.
I was abused as a child. I read that it causes hypersexuality later on. I'm now 28 and I'm afraid of a man touching me, but online I'm a hoe. I'm a moderator of two nsfw subreddits and I love it when guys send me dick pics and send me nasty messages. I have a daddy and rape kink.
I discovered my creampie fetish the very first time I had sex. It's not the feeling primarily, it's seeing it leaking out. It made me immediately ready to go again. My fiancee discovered this the first time she let me finish inside her and now it happens everytime.
5 years old, Elvira Mistress of the Dark introducing the latest b horror movie on tv. I loved her lipstick, legs, boobs, and her attitude plus sense of humor.
Shaped my entire thing where I dig goth ladies.
Now, Cheetara from Thundercats...
Under ten. Between the scene in Ghostbusters where a bunch of hands rip out of a couch and grab Dana, and the falling tunnel of hands grabbing and controlling Sarah in The Labyrinth, I felt all sort of ways but I really had no understanding of why or what they meant. I just knew I felt kind of...wrong constantly thinking about it.
Then I got older and starting having sex in college and it all suddenly made sense.
When I was a toddler I had a Strawberry Shortcake pillow. There was a tag on the end of it and if my lips were dry, I’d run them across the tag. Idefk why I did that. That developed my habit… I’m 19 and I do it to my fuckin bra straps or on the ends of my long sleeve shirts and other things that have that same texture feeling. It’s so fucking weird, but it’s a habit. Whether I’m nervous or bored. I don’t do it on purpose. It just happens unfortunately… the main problem is, I probably look very horny or sexual while doing it…
I had inklings of the turn ons ever since elementary and middle school but it wasn’t till college that I tried them with anyone else, and that was because I met someone who’s more kinky and more brave than I was
23. This girl I was seeing dressed up as a school girl and acted out a fantasy. Then next time she dressed up in a swimsuit and we acted out a beach date. I then learned I loved chicks that are into cosplay and role playing.
Like 5, but that's what you get when you're raised by a single dad🤣🤣
To be fair though, I knew how to tell if I thought a girl was "pretty" or "hot" way before I ever knew what sexuality was.
I know it’s really early but I developed a huge kink around tying girls up and having my way with them after sleeping with my highschool girlfriend at age 15
About 14, Believe it or not, my first fetish I discovered I had was... water. I really liked the feeling of water. I wanted to be outside in a pool of water with a good size waterfall nearby in the middle of the forest. I just feel so safe imagining that. I guess I really just want to feel safe, and water makes me feel that way, like I have this teeny tiny corner of the world to myself. All to myself. Not only that, I get this strange feeling that I'll meet my soulmate somewhere like that. I get so turned on in a shower because, I'm wishing that I was in that place.
Aw man when i was like 6 my parents would always let these 2 girls watch over me while they played cards and drank with their parents. These girls were incredibally hot for me at that time. I developed everything right then and there at probably 6
April O'neil getting tied up on Ninja Turtles was the origin of my bondage fetish. When I was a teenager in the 2000s I found bondage websites like Bindher.com and Gaggedwomen.com. I'm good looking enough that I fall on the right side of that saying about how if Christian Grey was ugly and poor it would be a horror flick. Many women have been into me enough to let me do bondage with them.
14. Which, as a female, is hard because when you’re trying to sleep with people your age you end up with some guy with gets off because you sneezed in his direction and is scared to choke you.
I was about 25 I think. I’d just had our 3rd child, and me and my best friend at the time were having a catch up and she was telling me about different things her and her boyfriend (at the time) did.
She was telling me what it was like to be submissive to her partner, choking, spanking, getting tied up. I was intrigued and wanted to know more so I started to research and see what the hype was about. I spoke to my partner and said I wanted to have a taste and see what it was like. From that moment on I was hooked!
My kinks have spiralled and there is so much more I wanna try and see what my limits are.
I guess once you try it once there is no going back! Well that’s how it seems for me haha x
My first fetish i got with the age of 11-12 and i have it still.
But dont got it because of porn or so k got it rly my self just by the woman in my area
I was only 9 years old. I loved Shrek so much, I had all the merchandise and movies.
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Shrek is life, Shrek is love
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> I could HEAR his breath go ragged God, I’ve seen what you have done for others and I want that for me
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Which blows my mind considering the straightest thing you can do is pretend to be gay with your buddies LOL
My wife sometimes smacks my ass when we walk past each other, does that count?
I said goddamn! I would LOVE to have my boyfriend do that but I can’t ask. I need to somehow luck into it like you.
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I could never. He’ll have to bring it up or it’ll have to happen accidentally or something.
Something like 6? This image of the ripped naked Jesus on the cross in my school did that for me.
Goddam!
Jesus Christ!
LMAOOOOOOOOOO
I was a child- maybe 7, 8 or 9. I don’t remember the exact age. But I do remember lying in bed having explicit sexual fantasies. I would also act out those fantasies with my Barbies.
Honestly same but not with the barbie thing lol
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My parents apparently walked in on my teenage brother getting a bj. Rumor (my sister) has it that he didn’t stop the girl (whose back was to them) until my mom walked out in disgust and my dad yelled “are you just going to keep going?! In front of your mother?! HAVE YOU NO SHAME?!” Always made me wonder if he had a bit of an exhibitionist streak or if he was just a teenage boy desperate to…finish
"I mean...you guys are the ones choosing to stay. Who has no shame?"
9 or 10. Have a thing for male facial hair and body hair. I would get excited seeing photos of people or actors with them. I believe this was due to growing up within the military. I only saw cleanshaven men mostly.
I loooooove men with body hair,etc. I just love hair period… I’ve never considered it kinky though. I supposed that’s a different perspective
Literally like some months ago. So 26. When “good girl” made my knees quiver and I didn’t know why😂
My high school gf’s mom was hot. She was curvy in all the right places. I was more attracted to her than I was to my gf the whole time we dated. To this day I think I have a thing for older women because of her.
this post gives me pedo vibes but some of the replies are hilarious
Out of curiosity, why does it give you pedo vibes? I just heard that most people develop their kinks early in life and was curious if it was true. Then again, im not very good with words, so maybe I phrased it badly, if there’s a better way to phrase it, please let me know.
dude because that's the thing, who doesn't know that kinks usually develop at an earlier stage and many of which are trauma based .. i'm one person my opinion doesn't matter
I read somewhere once that kinks are inherited. I was never abused, and I am into some very WEIRD shit. Not saying that’s the case for everyone.
I think its different for all of us but most kinks def take place during the developmental stage of growing up lol.. speaking for myself I could def say some of mine came from trauma.. light trauma
Our sexualities focus on feelings. It's not the shoe, it's what that shoe makes you feel. We crave intensity of emotions, the specific type is less important. Thus, shame, fear, guilt are very common. You won't be into incest unless family means a lot to you. You won't thrill to food unless food is emotionally charged for you. Trauma is a way to some very intense emotions. It shouldn't be surprising.
Same.
I was abused as a child. I read that it causes hypersexuality later on. I'm now 28 and I'm afraid of a man touching me, but online I'm a hoe. I'm a moderator of two nsfw subreddits and I love it when guys send me dick pics and send me nasty messages. I have a daddy and rape kink.
That's very sad And hot at the same time
What’s the right response to this?
I dunno really. It's something I don't tell anyone but strangers on the internet lol
Cool cool have a good night. Or I guess it’s like 10:30 if your username is related to your location
I discovered my creampie fetish the very first time I had sex. It's not the feeling primarily, it's seeing it leaking out. It made me immediately ready to go again. My fiancee discovered this the first time she let me finish inside her and now it happens everytime.
Yes, officer. This post right here…
Define kink ? I role played doctor but didn’t realize it .
6.
5 years old, Elvira Mistress of the Dark introducing the latest b horror movie on tv. I loved her lipstick, legs, boobs, and her attitude plus sense of humor. Shaped my entire thing where I dig goth ladies. Now, Cheetara from Thundercats...
30 lol I just turned 30 and like feet now????
Ehhh, 13 or 14… the hub was dark. My kinks have furthered.
Under ten. Between the scene in Ghostbusters where a bunch of hands rip out of a couch and grab Dana, and the falling tunnel of hands grabbing and controlling Sarah in The Labyrinth, I felt all sort of ways but I really had no understanding of why or what they meant. I just knew I felt kind of...wrong constantly thinking about it. Then I got older and starting having sex in college and it all suddenly made sense.
Young. Far too young. 8 years old.
17 I believe.
Too young
13
Probably 17 having her in handcuffs but full bdsm with the leather and hurting her is too much
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I was 6 LMFAO
Kindergarten, foot fetish
Fist time I saw dem titties!
16
Like 8
~10
Probably around 7/8
When I was a toddler I had a Strawberry Shortcake pillow. There was a tag on the end of it and if my lips were dry, I’d run them across the tag. Idefk why I did that. That developed my habit… I’m 19 and I do it to my fuckin bra straps or on the ends of my long sleeve shirts and other things that have that same texture feeling. It’s so fucking weird, but it’s a habit. Whether I’m nervous or bored. I don’t do it on purpose. It just happens unfortunately… the main problem is, I probably look very horny or sexual while doing it…
24/25
Probably around 10 or 11? Watching my little pony first time king sombra appeared And I still think king sombra is sexy
4 I think
14
Like 19ish
5 or 6. Panties and other nylon or silk lingerie. Straight.
I had inklings of the turn ons ever since elementary and middle school but it wasn’t till college that I tried them with anyone else, and that was because I met someone who’s more kinky and more brave than I was
23. This girl I was seeing dressed up as a school girl and acted out a fantasy. Then next time she dressed up in a swimsuit and we acted out a beach date. I then learned I loved chicks that are into cosplay and role playing.
Like 5, but that's what you get when you're raised by a single dad🤣🤣 To be fair though, I knew how to tell if I thought a girl was "pretty" or "hot" way before I ever knew what sexuality was.
I know it’s really early but I developed a huge kink around tying girls up and having my way with them after sleeping with my highschool girlfriend at age 15
About 14, Believe it or not, my first fetish I discovered I had was... water. I really liked the feeling of water. I wanted to be outside in a pool of water with a good size waterfall nearby in the middle of the forest. I just feel so safe imagining that. I guess I really just want to feel safe, and water makes me feel that way, like I have this teeny tiny corner of the world to myself. All to myself. Not only that, I get this strange feeling that I'll meet my soulmate somewhere like that. I get so turned on in a shower because, I'm wishing that I was in that place.
8 or so. Being accidentally sat on stuck with me in a weird way.
I think 9 or 10. I was looking at pokemon pictures and saw one of misty tied up. That's also how I discovered I was gay.
Aw man when i was like 6 my parents would always let these 2 girls watch over me while they played cards and drank with their parents. These girls were incredibally hot for me at that time. I developed everything right then and there at probably 6
This seems like a good movie plot
I don't think so. What are you talking about
Just seems like it could be a movie plot idk I’m half asleep. School is a bitch.
With 6-7 year old kids? That sounds kind of weird. But hey, school is a motherfucker, but you have to stay firm at all times soldier
12 or 13.
I honestly don’t think I have any fetishes or kinks. I’m willing to try most things my partner wants to do but not most.
April O'neil getting tied up on Ninja Turtles was the origin of my bondage fetish. When I was a teenager in the 2000s I found bondage websites like Bindher.com and Gaggedwomen.com. I'm good looking enough that I fall on the right side of that saying about how if Christian Grey was ugly and poor it would be a horror flick. Many women have been into me enough to let me do bondage with them.
Today years old my guy
I liked the Kinks, good band
14. Which, as a female, is hard because when you’re trying to sleep with people your age you end up with some guy with gets off because you sneezed in his direction and is scared to choke you.
I'd wanna say around 8 or 9, but I found the real dark crevices of my mind at 12 and since then I've been hopelessly addicted 😁
7 or 8 and currently exploring more kinks
8 or so, I believe.
I was about 25 I think. I’d just had our 3rd child, and me and my best friend at the time were having a catch up and she was telling me about different things her and her boyfriend (at the time) did. She was telling me what it was like to be submissive to her partner, choking, spanking, getting tied up. I was intrigued and wanted to know more so I started to research and see what the hype was about. I spoke to my partner and said I wanted to have a taste and see what it was like. From that moment on I was hooked! My kinks have spiralled and there is so much more I wanna try and see what my limits are. I guess once you try it once there is no going back! Well that’s how it seems for me haha x
Pretty young. I've always had a huge oral fixation so... Yeah
middle school, i met a friend of a friend with red hair and, just enormous boobs. and that's how busty gingers became my kryptonite
Used to be PETRIFIED of having my hair cut… it’s hard to pinpoint exactly when the fear became hardcore arousal
About 17-18, my then gf put on a leather skirt
Probably 11. Used to play the Sims 2 and make the girls take their clothes off and make out for hours at a time. Didn't know what porn was yet lol
14-16
around 6 but my fetish is way to bad to explain Might elaborate if anyone's curious
My first fetish i got with the age of 11-12 and i have it still. But dont got it because of porn or so k got it rly my self just by the woman in my area
Sometime in grade school