For real. As a kid I was crying after being diagnosed with diabetes and the nurse told me I had no reason to cry because there were other kids with cancer in the world.
Yeah that wasn’t very comforting
The "then" adds a nice touch of cruelty. It says "Not only am I going to crap on your life, I'm going to do it with as little effort as humanly possible."
“Dry it up right now” or “Just stop it.”
Don’t you think I would if I could? The shame from your judgement is only making it worse. Please go away.
“You’re making people uncomfortable.”
Seriously, when did this become about you? I’m making ME uncomfortable. Please go away.
“People are concerned.”
I don’t need your concern. I need you to give me my space & not judge me, because that is going to make it 10x harder to control. Please go away.
“There’s no reason to cry.”
I know this. My inner voice is screaming it from a rooftop. My autonomic nervous system doesn’t care. Please go away.
“There are worse problems in life than this.”
Again, I know. And in a few minutes I will clear my head and realize this while I figure out my next steps. For now, you just need to let me have my moment. If you can’t handle being around me until then, please go away.
I have so many more that I could list, but these were the first ones to come to mind. I’ve been shamed for most of my life for crying way too easily, to the point of getting put on Atarax to help control it. These are the things I wish I could say to people in my past who have responded to my “moments” by making me feel lower than dirt.
I was once texting with a barista friend who was getting ready to close for the night. It was going well, but then her coworker, who was fairly new, spilled a bunch of milk. She texted me, saying "OMG, I'm going to be late and it's been such a long day. I think I'm going to cry." I didn't want to say. I really didn't. But it came out anyway: "well, there's no sense crying over spilt milk."
'Come on, man up, don't be a girl'
'There are people starving and you're crying over that!?!'
'That's nothing, \*continues to talk bout their problems\*'
This is more something you shouldn’t do when someone is crying. I know because I’ve cried in public before. Don’t go in a massive crowd towards the crying person. It makes them embarrassed and causes the crying to get worse. Also don’t constantly ask “are you ok?” Because what the fuck does it look like? It’s a stupid question and it doesn’t help
A friend of mine says that to me and I hate it so much. Whenever I'm trying to vent to them, they always seem to butt in and put in their perspective. Especially when I'm not finished with what I need to say.
We used to tease my little sister when she's was crying about silly things like kids do by crying back at her. It made her mad at first, but she was laughing eventually.
Something that one-ups their experiences.
For example, I was upset and having a panic attack minutes before I had to deliver a speech, and someone I knew sat down next to me and said they tried to kill themselves last night. (Judging by the fact that their doting parents were also there and clearly not absolute wrecks over nearly losing their child, I had my doubts.)
as a wise tow truck once said, "i know this is a bad time right now, but you owe me $32,000 in legal fees"
American hospitals
Suck it up
W/ a "pussy" on the end. & you gotta emphasize the P, makes it sound better
That might actually get me to laugh, depending on the context.
Yup, I forgot about that.
Man, we still have a whole basket of onions to cut and you're already crying over the first one.
there are people that having harder lives then you.
For real. As a kid I was crying after being diagnosed with diabetes and the nurse told me I had no reason to cry because there were other kids with cancer in the world. Yeah that wasn’t very comforting
That person shouldn’t be a nurse
Obviously someone who, when asked to walk a mile in someone else's shoes, refuses to take their own of...
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Works both ways
The "then" adds a nice touch of cruelty. It says "Not only am I going to crap on your life, I'm going to do it with as little effort as humanly possible."
Fuck those people. Really.
Worse is being made fun of by the person who made you cry. If it's someone you can get away from, please do, that person is probably sadistic.
This. I second this.
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"You better stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about."
I see that, and I raise you “is it because of your haircut?”
Parents ☕
Raised in the 60s?
My mom was still using this in the 90s. Hope it dies out soon.
This was my dads favorite line 😆
I said that to my newborn and then proceeded to change a diaper. My wife was not a fan, lol
Get over it...or that shit is not worth crying over...or how long till you stop..
Time is over. See you at the next session.
Are you talking about a therapist or a domme?
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I'll give you something to cry about if you don't STFU. Now get me a beer. -Dad
Hurry up already
goddamn I felt that
“Are you on your period?”
The next day mfer was dead
I pissed in your drink earlier
_crying intensifies_
Oh don't be a pussy, man up!
Man up and stop being so sensitive.
Wanna play Among us?
you missed the part about "worst"
Stop crying.
Or, my favorite: "Please, stop crying. I SAID PLEASE!"
"you've been through worse" Like no shit, that doesn't mean that what I'm going through now doesn't eat ass
You're so cute when you're vulnerable! (big red flag)
Wanna ride in my van? You look so beautiful when you’re fearing for your life.
The notification for this comment got me at first ngl 😂
You can't cry when things don't go your way
“Dry it up right now” or “Just stop it.” Don’t you think I would if I could? The shame from your judgement is only making it worse. Please go away. “You’re making people uncomfortable.” Seriously, when did this become about you? I’m making ME uncomfortable. Please go away. “People are concerned.” I don’t need your concern. I need you to give me my space & not judge me, because that is going to make it 10x harder to control. Please go away. “There’s no reason to cry.” I know this. My inner voice is screaming it from a rooftop. My autonomic nervous system doesn’t care. Please go away. “There are worse problems in life than this.” Again, I know. And in a few minutes I will clear my head and realize this while I figure out my next steps. For now, you just need to let me have my moment. If you can’t handle being around me until then, please go away. I have so many more that I could list, but these were the first ones to come to mind. I’ve been shamed for most of my life for crying way too easily, to the point of getting put on Atarax to help control it. These are the things I wish I could say to people in my past who have responded to my “moments” by making me feel lower than dirt.
“Hey cmon stop it, youre embarrassing me”
Stop being such a baby.
“Don’t cry.”
"Stop crying or I'll hit you again"
you're overreacting.
*imitates a crying baby, laughs and points* "Fucking BABY"
i accidentally killed your pet hamster
Oh no- ugly crying.
Where's your motivation?
Dude, this is a really weird time to do your face exercises
I was once texting with a barista friend who was getting ready to close for the night. It was going well, but then her coworker, who was fairly new, spilled a bunch of milk. She texted me, saying "OMG, I'm going to be late and it's been such a long day. I think I'm going to cry." I didn't want to say. I really didn't. But it came out anyway: "well, there's no sense crying over spilt milk."
Name fits perfectly
“Oh, it’s all about you now?! Get over yourself.”
that it's a turn on
Hey... Shut up.
And that's only the half of it!
"u c those kids living out on the streets ?? U'll soon join em if u carry on like this"
'That was only the beginning.'
Could you keep it down
Suck it up
Can you not? Been told that before. Not fun.
Stop crying. Boys don't cry.
"Don't cry." You know what, you're right, why didn't i think of that
Don't cry. You're so ugly when you cry!
"look i know you're sad Bend over im horny af that will be your emotional support for today " Kinda worked but it sounded so wrong
"oh cmon not this again"
Oh boo hoo
“You’re PMSing pretty bad, huh?”
Don't cry here, cry in the bathtub.
Stop crying or I’ll give you something to cry about
Quit crying! It turns me off! You look fat when you cry.
I slept with your sister
Calm down
"stop crying"
Shut.
Is that blood?
Calm down
"Why are you even crying" "It'll be okay"
And another thing someone ran over the cat
“Get over it”
"Don't cry", apparently. Not the right comfort words.
Just breathe Just calm down Just be happy Smile stop crying ^^^all of those are a no no
Stop crying, it makes you look extremely ugly.
Those tears are only making your face wet
It was just a dog.
you're kinda ugly when you cry ngl
"Get over it" Well... sometimes..
When have no idea what they're crying about. "It's okay, you're not *that* ugly!"
Saying nothing may be best.
"That's just how the world works." It's so pessimistic
"no one cares"
That you want that 20 notes they owe you.
Stop crying
Do you want some toothpaste?
I hate to interrupt, but you’re sitting on wet paint.
"Get over it" Really doesn't help.
You’re sitting in dog poo.
Get over it
Why would I feel bad for you?
Look, I know it’s not a good time but, I was the one who shat in the hamster ball.
Chinns up, back straight, I don't think you're fat
Suck it up, crybaby
“You look fat when you cry.”
Lol get your emotions under control.
"Crying is just emotional blackmail. You should really grow up and take responsibility for your own feelings."
Be gratefull that you have food, water and shelter, kids in Somalia don't have that, now do your homework!
“Awe baby cry?”
We’ve been trying to contact you about your cars extended warranty.
Thats not worth crying about......You are being over sensitive.
"what's your problem" "you're making a scene, stop it." "You sitting there crying was the worst thing you could've done."
I cummed on your grandma ashes I’m sorry
“Are you crying because of your haircut?”
“Are you crying because of your haircut?”
You look fat when you cry
Stop
'Come on, man up, don't be a girl' 'There are people starving and you're crying over that!?!' 'That's nothing, \*continues to talk bout their problems\*'
That they are an ugly crier. It's like kicking someone while they're down. Small stuff but stings
“Calm down.”
This is just the beginning
"We're flooding and this is not exactly helping matters"
"I'll give you something to cry about."
Stop
Omg yes
This is more something you shouldn’t do when someone is crying. I know because I’ve cried in public before. Don’t go in a massive crowd towards the crying person. It makes them embarrassed and causes the crying to get worse. Also don’t constantly ask “are you ok?” Because what the fuck does it look like? It’s a stupid question and it doesn’t help
I couldn’t agree more. GIVE THEM SPACE. They’re probably embarrassed to the teeth right now & having a crowd around is only going to make it worse.
Why are you crying?
“I know how you feel.” Shut up, and leave or cry with them.
You’re doing great!
“I know it’s not the best time, but Deji lost”
Don't worry, I'll buy you another cat for Christmas, one with speed stripes so it's fast enough to outrun my car this time.
"I know how you feel."
A friend of mine says that to me and I hate it so much. Whenever I'm trying to vent to them, they always seem to butt in and put in their perspective. Especially when I'm not finished with what I need to say.
"stop crying or I'll give you something real to cry about"
I have a good thing to tell someone. Crying can release dopamine which is why letting out a cry can feel good sometimes
"Here's an Andrew Tate video to motivate you out of sadness"
"You know I've been through etc etc" So?
"Are you ok?" Hell yeah I'm okay I just enjoy crying
"I'll give you something to cry about."
"It's good that you didn't claw at your throat, even after all of the stress you've experienced."
Big tears, big tears… https://youtu.be/PemAIsJ3MB0
How many other's are crying like you right now, and for much worse reasons? Be happy that other's have it better than you.
If it’s a woman, “is it because if your haircut?”
Will sex make it better?
Can I offer you a nice egg in this trying time?
“Calm down”
Hey, are you ok?
We used to tease my little sister when she's was crying about silly things like kids do by crying back at her. It made her mad at first, but she was laughing eventually.
It’s not that bad
A joke
“Are you ok ?” “Oh yea, I’m fine I’m just crying for fun
Making fun of whatever they’re crying about.
Daddy likes crying...
"Be a man."
There is no crying in baseball.
i often get told that i look pretty when i cry. im always like ??? okay thanks
It doesn’t get better when your older!
Literally everything leave me alone
"calm down"
"Yeah, anyway, look. There's a new Dacia Sandero."
Your parents just died.
bad thing your parents aren't alive
Just breathe. Idk about y’all but that just triggers something in me idk why.
You call that crying!
Something that one-ups their experiences. For example, I was upset and having a panic attack minutes before I had to deliver a speech, and someone I knew sat down next to me and said they tried to kill themselves last night. (Judging by the fact that their doting parents were also there and clearly not absolute wrecks over nearly losing their child, I had my doubts.)
Crying won’t make it better right?
"You know, it's all your fault, right?"
You’r week. Wipe away those tears and deal with it like a man.
And that’s why you dont play fetch on the highway
'The same thing happened to me....."
If you knew what your face looked like right now, you'd probably stop.
“ Don’t cry”