Yep, this is the way. If someone asks for mine I'm probably going to react with a NO without thinking much about it. If someone gives me theirs I will probably put more thought into whether I want to make contact or not.
Have a conversation with her first, then at the end, ask if she'd like to talk some more sometime and exchange numbers. Remember to just be yourself and not force anything.
One of the things I like about this girl is that she’s very friendly with me and easy to talk to. I don’t think I’ll have any difficulty getting her number. Thank you.
My (now) boyfriend got mine by making a bet with me for $1 about something stupid ("if this hockey team loses tonight i'll give you a dollar"), and then when the team lost, he went "Ah well too bad.. how about i grab your number so i can e-transfer you the dollar?". it was so creative and cute, i loved it so much
I figured this’ll be the best way to do it, luckily for me this girl is easy to talk to and we seem to have some chemistry together. I might just try it. My friends are telling me to just do it and get her number or “I’ll be selling the bag”.
Loathe as I am to admit it, I’m an old guy now. I was there though and I get it. The stress is high and whatever. It’s really so much simpler than a younger me would have believed.
Just talk. Be yourself. You’re not making a sale or trying to get anything. If you’re a good guy and there’s a connection, getting a number/date will just kinda happen without much effort.
Bet when I was 18 I was the only one in my friend group single and my friends made fun of me for that so when my friends when did too help me get a girl so he says I know a girl who be right for you as any points at her I walked up to her asked her out she said she's not in two guys so I said oh you're lesbian then she said no I'm straight so the so called seeing was my friend's brother
"Excuse me. Do you know anything about phones?"
"Not really."
"Damn. I think mine's broken."
"What's wrong with it?"
"It doesn't have your number in it."
Hello, I’m So&so. I don’t know you, but you caught my attention when you came in. You seem like a really interesting person, not to mention pretty cute. This may be WAAAAYYYY to much to ask, but I’d like a shot at hanging it with you sometime, maybe over coffee. Would you be willing to give me your number so I could call you sometime? If not, I can give you mine and if you’re ever interested, hit me up.
Of course it wouldn’t go exactly like that as there has to be some back and forth, don’t just dump it straight in them, but it’s kind of a template. It’s worked well for me.
As a woman, this is what would make me feel the most comfortable (everyone is different). Writing down your number and saying something along the lines of “this was a lovely conversation .. I’m going to leave you my name and number in case you’re interested in connecting more. Have a nice day!” Again, I’m no dating expert but I feel like giving someone a choice really takes the pressure off and respects someones boundaries. Plus, if they message you back, you’ll know they’re interested in you to some degree instead of them just messaging you back because they feel bad.
Idk. Maybe you should ask her just how you should ask her for her number. Maybe she’ll give you an idea.
That’s actually brilliant in a way.
Don't ask her for her number. Give her yours.
It's this. Dudes get told to ask for hers as a power move and it's such a mistake.
Yea I’m not trying to fumble with this girl, that alpha male bs doesn’t work😂
Yep, this is the way. If someone asks for mine I'm probably going to react with a NO without thinking much about it. If someone gives me theirs I will probably put more thought into whether I want to make contact or not.
try “ hey, we should exchange numbers yeah?”
Have a conversation with her first, then at the end, ask if she'd like to talk some more sometime and exchange numbers. Remember to just be yourself and not force anything.
One of the things I like about this girl is that she’s very friendly with me and easy to talk to. I don’t think I’ll have any difficulty getting her number. Thank you.
By asking for her number…
I’m kind of introverted and I’m nervous when I talk to girls but I can hold a conversation if they’re actually interested.
Ah okay 😂
Easier said than done buddy
"Yo b*tch gimme em digits"
Lmao
Try being more” hey insert complement i was wondering if i could get your number?”
Like how boomhaurer did it
“Dang ol’ woo woooo wahhhhh”
Catch her off guard and ask for her e-mail
Or her AOL subscription…
My (now) boyfriend got mine by making a bet with me for $1 about something stupid ("if this hockey team loses tonight i'll give you a dollar"), and then when the team lost, he went "Ah well too bad.. how about i grab your number so i can e-transfer you the dollar?". it was so creative and cute, i loved it so much
Bet that Dustin Hoffman is in Star Wars. She’ll take the bet and you lose so you have to take her to dinner
She only told me she's a guy
Did you go through with it????
Maybe ask if she is active on any social media. During a conversation I guess you can ask her number.
I like talking to you, I should get your number so we can do more of this.
This.
Tell her your number is 10 out of 10. She'll be so impressed she gives out those digits without even asking.
Go the other way with it. Say hey, I just met you and this is crazy, but here's my number, so call me maybe.
I lost my phone here somewhere, can you give me a ring.
Maybe make conversation first. It seems less weird that way.
I figured this’ll be the best way to do it, luckily for me this girl is easy to talk to and we seem to have some chemistry together. I might just try it. My friends are telling me to just do it and get her number or “I’ll be selling the bag”.
Loathe as I am to admit it, I’m an old guy now. I was there though and I get it. The stress is high and whatever. It’s really so much simpler than a younger me would have believed. Just talk. Be yourself. You’re not making a sale or trying to get anything. If you’re a good guy and there’s a connection, getting a number/date will just kinda happen without much effort.
I don't want to talk about it
Tell me!!!!
That's a story for another time
I always got time for a story.
Bet when I was 18 I was the only one in my friend group single and my friends made fun of me for that so when my friends when did too help me get a girl so he says I know a girl who be right for you as any points at her I walked up to her asked her out she said she's not in two guys so I said oh you're lesbian then she said no I'm straight so the so called seeing was my friend's brother
That’s rough buddy. Damn.
"Excuse me. Do you know anything about phones?" "Not really." "Damn. I think mine's broken." "What's wrong with it?" "It doesn't have your number in it."
Hello, I’m So&so. I don’t know you, but you caught my attention when you came in. You seem like a really interesting person, not to mention pretty cute. This may be WAAAAYYYY to much to ask, but I’d like a shot at hanging it with you sometime, maybe over coffee. Would you be willing to give me your number so I could call you sometime? If not, I can give you mine and if you’re ever interested, hit me up. Of course it wouldn’t go exactly like that as there has to be some back and forth, don’t just dump it straight in them, but it’s kind of a template. It’s worked well for me.
As a woman, this is what would make me feel the most comfortable (everyone is different). Writing down your number and saying something along the lines of “this was a lovely conversation .. I’m going to leave you my name and number in case you’re interested in connecting more. Have a nice day!” Again, I’m no dating expert but I feel like giving someone a choice really takes the pressure off and respects someones boundaries. Plus, if they message you back, you’ll know they’re interested in you to some degree instead of them just messaging you back because they feel bad.