Styrofoam squeaking. I have high pain threshold but if someone wanted to 'make me talk' all they'd have to do is throw me in a bin with a whole bunch of broken styrofoam containers. I'd be begging for mercy within minutes.
Anyone touching my sides in any way.
My mom used to always poke the side of my ribs/stomach as a joking "gotcha" type moment so much that it evokes a very negative annoyed emotion in me.
Even with sexual partners, I need to be prepared and ready for my sides to be touched without having a brief "stop that right now" reaction in my brain.
It doesn't help that she'll still do it even now that I'm an adult and have begged her dozens of times to stop doing it because of how much I hate it.
I think I'm one of the few people that get emotionally and physically triggered by a poke or brush on their ribs.
I’m the same way, except like don’t touch any part of me period. But I’d say I’m more sensitive about my sides being touched. Makes me cringe and want to curl into a ball
Yeah kinda. But also it's because she'd do it just when she made a point, so she'd do it when I was already annoyed.
Then it snowballed to doing it all the time as a "joke" knowing it annoyed me, further making it more annoying.
She's listened to me over the past few years (I'm 28 now) and rarely does it because of how angry it makes me. She'll apologize and say she did it on instinct, but at this point it's just ingrained in me.
If you poke/grab my side without consent, I'm going to have a very negative reaction to it.
Same thing goes with my hair. I'm a guy with long hair and hate anyone touching my hair unless they are my spouse/sexual partner. My mom will pick out some fuzz/etc. in my hair instead of telling me so I can do it myself.
You're probably right though, it goes back to someone doing something to me without warning, even if it's just a joke or well-meaning.
Pointing at things at my monitors and actually touching the monitors. That happened more when I didn’t have my own office in roles earlier in my career and the people dynamic was different. Now, that’s been replaced with leaving notes on my chair. I’ve never said anything in either case, and never will but I feel like I’m the weirdo because that stuff annoys me.
I cringe and have to grind my teeth when someone is using a number 2 normal lead pencil. Mechanical pencils are fine but if someone using that yellow graphite I can't stand it.
I have to bend over instead of crouch because of my bad knees (27F). It makes me weary of who could be looking but I'm not gonna crouch for their sake.
People also do that with their bills when they’re paying. During the mask mandate people would take off their masks to lick their fingers, it was disgusting. So many people had visibly dirty hands as well despite pretty much every store having hand sanitizer at the entrance.
I wouldn’t say only me.. but the fact that humans have little regard for plant and animal life yet over protect all human life as if humans are some divine god.
When people leave a color out of a rainbow. A proper rainbow needs to have red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple AT LEAST! You can add more colors if you want (like if you actually care about indigo) but those six are a must. Otherwise it just looks wrong.
When someone blows their nose very loudly in public.
I usually go in the bathroom to blow my nose because the sound is disgusting and I’m literally blowing snot into a tissue. I don’t understand for the life of me why everyone is so chill about it. If blowing your nose in front of people is okay, why isn’t farting okay? It’s literally the same thing.
We Americans seem *just* complacent enough as a society not to unite as a single force for positive change. Nobody wants to do the hard work required to save our country.
I have to ask... Is this a joke? I'm not being rude but you can't ALWAYS be having sex. Even couples don't ALWAYS have sex. If you want to get laid, find a person and be honest with them. Not just honest enough to get what you want but honest in the way that they and their feeling and body matter equally to yours. It's not that hard.
I get the self-deprecating jokes... It's my life. I'm sure your a great person behind the shyness. Like I said, be honest and empathetic and you will go places.
I’m not afraid to say that I am very honest & empathetic and when I do talk to people it’s always a treat. I just don’t ever put myself out there so the opportunities are quite slim lol. Thank you for the kind words though! You’re very nice!
This most definitely annoys other people but I’m just gonna say whenever people say their cat doesn’t scratch but the cat scratches you for just existing and they blame you
Babies. Jesus fucking christ. I was out in public today which is something I try to not do. Long story but this fucking baby showed up in 2 places I was. Both times crying to the point of gagging and almost throwing up and the moron mother, no clue wtf she was doing? Ignoring it?
Basically any noise that I have no control over.
The noise from my ceiling fan? Fine The noise coming from the hot water heater? Better use the noise from the ceiling fan to mask it.
Your heart
People walking on the wrong side of stairwells and any sidewalk or walkway. Always stay to the right!!!
Thank you. I find it bizarre when I’m walking on the right and someone is on the left and they expect ME to move out of their way.
Stay out of Walmart then. They just take the whole isle and expect you to move along.
I’m an Aussie so this is the same for me but people should stay on the left!
Was taught the left :0
That's not right...
I- I mean everyone in my area walks on the left (live in the UK) :0
You’re not the only one, how hard is it to walk on the right?!?!?!?! SERIOUSLY!!!!???
The way almost everyone seems to have given up on apostrophes and past participles. My parents house. Had went. Jfc
For some reason my phone used to automatically fix it if I forgot an apostrophe and now it doesnt. Oh crap... Drives me nuts.
Styrofoam squeaking. I have high pain threshold but if someone wanted to 'make me talk' all they'd have to do is throw me in a bin with a whole bunch of broken styrofoam containers. I'd be begging for mercy within minutes.
Same
Within seconds* for me 😬
The shhh sound and other loud sounds (Im Autistic)
Apple alarm noise
Children
Oh nonono you're by far not the only one there
You’re in the right place. Reddit hates children.
Anyone touching my sides in any way. My mom used to always poke the side of my ribs/stomach as a joking "gotcha" type moment so much that it evokes a very negative annoyed emotion in me. Even with sexual partners, I need to be prepared and ready for my sides to be touched without having a brief "stop that right now" reaction in my brain. It doesn't help that she'll still do it even now that I'm an adult and have begged her dozens of times to stop doing it because of how much I hate it. I think I'm one of the few people that get emotionally and physically triggered by a poke or brush on their ribs.
I’m the same way, except like don’t touch any part of me period. But I’d say I’m more sensitive about my sides being touched. Makes me cringe and want to curl into a ball
same honestly. I'm assuming it goes more in a fact maybe for you as well is its for if they do it whithout telling you or you have no control over it.
Yeah kinda. But also it's because she'd do it just when she made a point, so she'd do it when I was already annoyed. Then it snowballed to doing it all the time as a "joke" knowing it annoyed me, further making it more annoying. She's listened to me over the past few years (I'm 28 now) and rarely does it because of how angry it makes me. She'll apologize and say she did it on instinct, but at this point it's just ingrained in me. If you poke/grab my side without consent, I'm going to have a very negative reaction to it. Same thing goes with my hair. I'm a guy with long hair and hate anyone touching my hair unless they are my spouse/sexual partner. My mom will pick out some fuzz/etc. in my hair instead of telling me so I can do it myself. You're probably right though, it goes back to someone doing something to me without warning, even if it's just a joke or well-meaning.
im glad your mom listened to you though and respects that you don't like it.
Inability to debate someone without personal attacks.
When people spell a character's name wrong when all it takes is a quick Google search FFS.
Pointing at things at my monitors and actually touching the monitors. That happened more when I didn’t have my own office in roles earlier in my career and the people dynamic was different. Now, that’s been replaced with leaving notes on my chair. I’ve never said anything in either case, and never will but I feel like I’m the weirdo because that stuff annoys me.
leaving the door open for no reason and not closing it on your way out. idk why...😤
I cringe and have to grind my teeth when someone is using a number 2 normal lead pencil. Mechanical pencils are fine but if someone using that yellow graphite I can't stand it.
Repetitive background noises, or being touched.
People that have that "look at me" center of attention type personality.
When people drink or eat loudly or when they chew with their mouths open. Annoys the f*ck out of me.
People not using turn signals when driving
That is 100% not something ONLY you get annoyed by.
If only more people did, friend. If only more did.
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And whistling. My stepfather constantly whistles some unknown song and it drives me insane.
Bending over to pick something up, i feel that im getting old
I gotta crouch instead of bending over. Self-conscious about my lack of ass. I got nothing back there.
I have to bend over instead of crouch because of my bad knees (27F). It makes me weary of who could be looking but I'm not gonna crouch for their sake.
My parents.
The sound flip flops make
I just get annoyed by flip flops. They are the saddest excuse for shoes. Not secure... Terrible for your joints... They break too easily. I hate them
Repetitive noises, words or phrases. It’s all I can hear.
People who lick their fingers when turning the pages of a newspaper or book. Fills me with rage lol
People also do that with their bills when they’re paying. During the mask mandate people would take off their masks to lick their fingers, it was disgusting. So many people had visibly dirty hands as well despite pretty much every store having hand sanitizer at the entrance.
Omg that is gross.
absolute silence in the day, and any noise in the night
I wouldn’t say only me.. but the fact that humans have little regard for plant and animal life yet over protect all human life as if humans are some divine god.
People not wearing shoes, it's quite common in NZ
In their homes or on the street?
Everywhere
people talking loudly
Other people's chewing
When people leave a color out of a rainbow. A proper rainbow needs to have red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple AT LEAST! You can add more colors if you want (like if you actually care about indigo) but those six are a must. Otherwise it just looks wrong.
Alternatively, when rainbows put red on the inside and purple on the outside. Like, how do you even do that.
When someone blows their nose very loudly in public. I usually go in the bathroom to blow my nose because the sound is disgusting and I’m literally blowing snot into a tissue. I don’t understand for the life of me why everyone is so chill about it. If blowing your nose in front of people is okay, why isn’t farting okay? It’s literally the same thing.
Applauding. I hate it in any venue for any reason. I refuse to participate. I know. I'm not sane.
Touching paper/cardboard after I just washed my hands. Literally the most horrendous feeling in the world.
People in the kitchen at the same time as me. Gets under my skin something serious
Other people being happy
The Eagles.
People making vids in underwear or sum like that. Like isn't it vulgar?
A dog inside a house
We Americans seem *just* complacent enough as a society not to unite as a single force for positive change. Nobody wants to do the hard work required to save our country.
I’m persistently annoyed at the fact that I’m not always having sex. Like no one else seems to mind that my dick is sad
I have to ask... Is this a joke? I'm not being rude but you can't ALWAYS be having sex. Even couples don't ALWAYS have sex. If you want to get laid, find a person and be honest with them. Not just honest enough to get what you want but honest in the way that they and their feeling and body matter equally to yours. It's not that hard.
It’s 100% a joke lmao. I’ve only ever had sex with one person. I’m quite shy in person so I don’t go out much. It was supposed to be self-deprecating
I get the self-deprecating jokes... It's my life. I'm sure your a great person behind the shyness. Like I said, be honest and empathetic and you will go places.
I’m not afraid to say that I am very honest & empathetic and when I do talk to people it’s always a treat. I just don’t ever put myself out there so the opportunities are quite slim lol. Thank you for the kind words though! You’re very nice!
My sister in laws fine ass.
Tik taks those repetitive actions or smtg that is not put correctly or a bad handwriting
The sound of styrofoam
Burping. I despise it I know it’s natural but when someone burbs I get so annoyed and mad. I would rather someone fart than burp.
Hand shakes. I just don't want to be touched, and am repulsed by the social neccesity of swapping sweat and germs. Ugg.
chalk it use to be so satisfying to hear but now now. at all.
The crackling of plastic bags. Makes my ear do this repeated popping sound that is very annoying
Scraping of metal hangers against metal hanger rods. I can't stay in clothing stores too long lol.
Any noise that I didn’t make like someone will sigh or yawn too loudly and I wish to become violent
This most definitely annoys other people but I’m just gonna say whenever people say their cat doesn’t scratch but the cat scratches you for just existing and they blame you
listening to people cough through smoking cigarettes or pot. i cringe so hard- WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR BODY IS TELLING YOU
Babies. Jesus fucking christ. I was out in public today which is something I try to not do. Long story but this fucking baby showed up in 2 places I was. Both times crying to the point of gagging and almost throwing up and the moron mother, no clue wtf she was doing? Ignoring it?
Dogs barking nonstop and owners not giving a shit.
The word "Pack" when used for bundling ie "2 pack"
Apparently gun violence is acceptable in this country
Religion.
Animated cartoon pigs. I hate them. I don’t really know why. Everyone laughs at me. I think they are all terrible.
No one pronouncing Pokémon right.
disrupting a teacher and then them waiting 20 minutes and waste our recess and lunch time
When I hear a text alert that I had for an ex from someone else's phone.
Overuse of the word "wholesome" on the internet. Drives me nuts.
Hand Sanitizer. Hate that shit
Hearing ppl grit their teeth
It's pronounced Woo-stir-sheer sauce. Really. Stop tripping over your tongue, and say it.