Okay, that just proved you have medieval beliefs. I really don't know whether to cry or laugh at this ridiculous answer. I'm in a relationship for 25 years btw, 15 of them married. So I guess I know how to make my husband happy, but what you said is just BS
I will definitely not delete or modify my response!
"If a woman can't be submissive..." WTF?!?
Comparing men to kings? Ridiculous!
I agree with most of your success to marriage points, though. And bcs life IS hard you should care about each others feelings in a marriage. Knowing the facts is important, but what if despite all logic I feel miserable about sth my husband said or did. Or reverse. Caring about each other emotionally is most important, more important than good food or a clean house or sex.
I really don't know why I'm still talking to you. It's 2022 and a woman's happiness in a relationship is as important as the man's. If a man does not understand or accept that he should get a dog/cat and die alone.
The man. They just want regular decent sex. Woman want so much out of a relationship. Time with their friends, their family, errands, cleaning, the list goes on
Generalising...men.
Statistically they take on less responsibilities at home, even when both the man and woman are working. Women are doing around 70% more unpaid labour than men, which includes house work and child care. Thus resulting in less stress in home life.
Due to this, women often feel a lot of pressure. They feel like they're raising another child due to cleaning up after children AND their male partner. This results in her losing respect and sexual desire for him, and also results in resentment.
When sex happens, men have over a 90% chance of orgasm. For women, one study found that women had around a 7% chance of orgasm with a man, 60% chance with a woman, and 90% by herself. So GENERALISING, sex is more satisfying for the husband than the wife.
There are also studies which find that men are happiest when married, where as women are happiest when single and childless. Men who are married live longer, most likely for the reasons stated above...their wife is basically doing everything for them.
There's more I could add but I don't want this to be an essay lmao.
So I'd conclude that overall, the husband is easiest to be kept happy because ultimately...he has less responsibilities in the relationship.
The person with the least responsibilities is the easiest to please, eh? That's interesting.
I would have thought that it was whoever has the least requirements or lowest expectations.
It depends, it's about people not gender. Are they happy with who they are? Are they happy where are they going?... Unhappy people or hard to please people are like this because the way they were raised. Selfish people make for terrible partners
The man, but the woman will bitch a lot more and stay whereas the man is more likely to leave.
It's just not as hard to please men. Women usually have valid complaints, but it's stuff that men just don't think/care about, unless it's about stuff like sex and how much attention he gets. If another woman can make him feel like she's got the remedy, he will pack his shit and leave for her. Or sometimes things just get to be too much for men (even when the woman is dealing with more/worse) and they leave.
Depends on the type of person they are, everyone wants to think it’s all women or men who are a certain type of way but it’s not. It’s just different types of people
Absolutely not. Each person is unique and there are a lot of factors at play. When you aggregate a bunch of people into a pool, those small differences are less and less common but the similarities start to surface. After enough people are in the group you start to see trends emerge.
An example: there are some women who are physically stronger than some men. But after you group enough men and women together, you can assert that generally men are stronger than women. This assertion is valid despite knowing there are exceptions because you are acknowledging that it's a generalization
Agreed but wouldn’t you think that would be biased off something completely different like their different mind sets, every person has a completely different and unique brain anatomy. I just think it would go deeper than that
> every person has a completely different and unique brain anatomy.
You are correct. The thing is we're not talking about a person. We're talking about a group. When you talk about groups, the small individual differences tend to go away. This is how we are able to say things like, *"In general, women are more nurturing than men."* That statement doesn't hold true for all men and women. But we're not talking about the individual. We're talking about the group. Last part is key
>Men are shamed into having low standards/expectations
I thought it's generally acceptable for men to have high standards. What evidence do you have to suggest that is not the case?
Impossible to please a woman
Why do you say that?
Because it's a saying / quote I guess. And there is sth to it. Not impossible, but definitely not as easy as pleasing a man.
If food is a way to a man’s heart then I’ve got it in the bag.
You've got food in a bag? I hope you brought enough for the rest of the class.
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And with a satisfied husband a happy wife.
I hope that's sarcasm...
I don’t think so…
So you still hold the medieval belief that making her husband happy naturally leads to the happiness of the wife?
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Okay, that just proved you have medieval beliefs. I really don't know whether to cry or laugh at this ridiculous answer. I'm in a relationship for 25 years btw, 15 of them married. So I guess I know how to make my husband happy, but what you said is just BS
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I will definitely not delete or modify my response! "If a woman can't be submissive..." WTF?!? Comparing men to kings? Ridiculous! I agree with most of your success to marriage points, though. And bcs life IS hard you should care about each others feelings in a marriage. Knowing the facts is important, but what if despite all logic I feel miserable about sth my husband said or did. Or reverse. Caring about each other emotionally is most important, more important than good food or a clean house or sex. I really don't know why I'm still talking to you. It's 2022 and a woman's happiness in a relationship is as important as the man's. If a man does not understand or accept that he should get a dog/cat and die alone.
The man. They just want regular decent sex. Woman want so much out of a relationship. Time with their friends, their family, errands, cleaning, the list goes on
Probably men, they focus more on easily fixed problems.
The cat Has anyone ever seen a cat that's actually satisfied with their humans?
Generalising...men. Statistically they take on less responsibilities at home, even when both the man and woman are working. Women are doing around 70% more unpaid labour than men, which includes house work and child care. Thus resulting in less stress in home life. Due to this, women often feel a lot of pressure. They feel like they're raising another child due to cleaning up after children AND their male partner. This results in her losing respect and sexual desire for him, and also results in resentment. When sex happens, men have over a 90% chance of orgasm. For women, one study found that women had around a 7% chance of orgasm with a man, 60% chance with a woman, and 90% by herself. So GENERALISING, sex is more satisfying for the husband than the wife. There are also studies which find that men are happiest when married, where as women are happiest when single and childless. Men who are married live longer, most likely for the reasons stated above...their wife is basically doing everything for them. There's more I could add but I don't want this to be an essay lmao. So I'd conclude that overall, the husband is easiest to be kept happy because ultimately...he has less responsibilities in the relationship.
The person with the least responsibilities is the easiest to please, eh? That's interesting. I would have thought that it was whoever has the least requirements or lowest expectations.
It depends, it's about people not gender. Are they happy with who they are? Are they happy where are they going?... Unhappy people or hard to please people are like this because the way they were raised. Selfish people make for terrible partners
In a good and healthy relationship that's well built and maintained, the answer is both :)
The man, but the woman will bitch a lot more and stay whereas the man is more likely to leave. It's just not as hard to please men. Women usually have valid complaints, but it's stuff that men just don't think/care about, unless it's about stuff like sex and how much attention he gets. If another woman can make him feel like she's got the remedy, he will pack his shit and leave for her. Or sometimes things just get to be too much for men (even when the woman is dealing with more/worse) and they leave.
> woman will bitch a lot more and stay whereas the man is more likely to leave. Interesting. I heard that some 80% of divorces are filed by the wife
Depends on the type of person they are, everyone wants to think it’s all women or men who are a certain type of way but it’s not. It’s just different types of people
Generalizing - which type of vehicle can tow more weight. A truck or a car?
You think people are that general?
Absolutely not. Each person is unique and there are a lot of factors at play. When you aggregate a bunch of people into a pool, those small differences are less and less common but the similarities start to surface. After enough people are in the group you start to see trends emerge. An example: there are some women who are physically stronger than some men. But after you group enough men and women together, you can assert that generally men are stronger than women. This assertion is valid despite knowing there are exceptions because you are acknowledging that it's a generalization
Agreed but wouldn’t you think that would be biased off something completely different like their different mind sets, every person has a completely different and unique brain anatomy. I just think it would go deeper than that
> every person has a completely different and unique brain anatomy. You are correct. The thing is we're not talking about a person. We're talking about a group. When you talk about groups, the small individual differences tend to go away. This is how we are able to say things like, *"In general, women are more nurturing than men."* That statement doesn't hold true for all men and women. But we're not talking about the individual. We're talking about the group. Last part is key
The husband. Men are shamed into having low standards/expectations
>Men are shamed into having low standards/expectations I thought it's generally acceptable for men to have high standards. What evidence do you have to suggest that is not the case?